> A month and a half ago, our household consisted of Mongo, a loudmouthed
> siamese kitty, Luna a persian puffball, Freddy a very large tabby with
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> I gotta figure out a way to make him more of an indoor cat without him
> keeping us up all night every night.
I think that this is going to be a long term problem that needs
broaching. It sounds like you need to establish that bond that you
had with your cat before it realised that you allowed another dog to
join the family before warning him, or even preparing him. I'm not
calling you to task, because things like this do happen, with the best
of intentions, things *do sometimes go wrong*.
If you can't make him stay in overnight, I think the first step to
making him feel like he is @ home, is to afford him some space that is
his alone & where he knows that he will feel safe too. I know that
this is not going to be easy, but you do need to start working on this
now, before the winter starts (mind you, you might not come from an
area where winter is a problem?)
If you start with little steps, the big steps will take care of
themselves. For now, just make him feel wanted, & lavish him with
treats for good behaviour, especially, high calorific food for
instance, to get that weight back up again.
This is obviously bothering you somewhat, so try little steps, & see
where they take you, OK?
Good Luck & let us know how it's all progressing if you would? TIA,
Sheelagh >"o"<
AZ Nomad - 28 Sep 2007 23:44 GMT
>I think that this is going to be a long term problem that needs
>broaching. It sounds like you need to establish that bond that you
>had with your cat before it realised that you allowed another dog to
>join the family before warning him, or even preparing him. I'm not
>calling you to task, because things like this do happen, with the best
>of intentions, things *do sometimes go wrong*.
>If you can't make him stay in overnight, I think the first step to
>making him feel like he is @ home, is to afford him some space that is
>his alone & where he knows that he will feel safe too. I know that
It's not that he doesn't feel safe, but more that he's just like being
outside more. Having a dog show up while he was outside didn't help. I
should have closed off the side of the house with the cat-door so that
the dog couldn't bark at him. Last night he was fine, but I don't know
if he'l want to start going out at night again. The problem is that he
can howl until he gets his way.
>this is not going to be easy, but you do need to start working on this
>now, before the winter starts (mind you, you might not come from an
>area where winter is a problem?)
I'm living in the greater phoenix area so everything is backward sesonally.
Winter is the time when the outdoors is comfortable.
>If you start with little steps, the big steps will take care of
>themselves. For now, just make him feel wanted, & lavish him with
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>Good Luck & let us know how it's all progressing if you would? TIA,
>Sheelagh >"o"<
He got a pile of roast beef last night. I think he and the dog have now
been properly introduced and he won't want to stay outside all the time.
Sheelagh >o< - 29 Sep 2007 16:26 GMT
> >I think that this is going to be a long term problem that needs
> >broaching. It sounds like you need to establish that bond that you
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> He got a pile of roast beef last night. I think he and the dog have now
> been properly introduced and he won't want to stay outside all the time.
> He got a pile of roast beef last night. I think he and the dog have now
> been properly introduced and he won't want to stay outside all the time
This is good news AZ Nomad.
Old Chinese proverbs says:
Cat is blooming clever creature if made you give him your steak last
night, Lol?
Sheelagh>"o"<
Sorry, couldn't resist it, It just made me laugh thinking of him
eating roast beef last night. Mine are lucky to get the chicken left
on the carcaus, "IF" the kids leave any that I can rip off the bones
before serving.