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PLS HELP!!! ABANDON CAT IN TWO DAYS. PLS HELP!!!! I DONT WANT TO LEAVE HIM LIKE THIS

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msflyingpiggy - 14 Sep 2007 02:52 GMT
I am leaving this country soon and i cant take my cat with me.  i've
asked friends and called several animal shelters by long island and
queens to take him.  so far, no one and no animal shlters would take
him.  I am leaving in a coupld of days. If i cant find him a place to
stay or a new owner, I would have no choice but to let him go on his
own.

PLEASE, IF SOMEONE KNOWS ANY ANIMAL SHELTER BY NEW YORK CITY THAT WILL
TAKE CAT OR IF ANYONE IS INTERESTED IN HIM, PLS LET ME KNOW.  I really
dont want to leave him like this.

he is 7 year old male, light orange fur, neutered, domestic short
hair, very gentle and sweet.  loved to be brushed and pet. i dont know
how to post picture, if you want see him, i can definitely email it to
you.
Your help is greatly appreciated. Pls help me to find him a new home.
a million thanks.
Lynne - 14 Sep 2007 03:05 GMT
> I am leaving this country soon and i cant take my cat with me.  i've
> asked friends and called several animal shelters by long island and
[quoted text clipped - 13 lines]
> Your help is greatly appreciated. Pls help me to find him a new home.
> a million thanks.

Put him in your freezer overnight on the evening before you fly out, then
pack him in a box with dry ice, and ship him to your new home.  Priority
Overnight is best, but it may be okay to go with 2 Day Air if you're
strapped for cash.  If he's fat, you won't need as much packing material,
but be sure to insulate him from the dry ice.  Do you have one of those
vacuum sealer bag thingies?  (For the cat, not the dry ice.)

Thaw him out slowly when you get there so he isn't scared when he comes
back to life.  Problem solved!

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Cheryl - 14 Sep 2007 03:16 GMT
> on Fri, 14 Sep 2007 01:52:48 GMT, msflyingpiggy
> <eoperi@gmail.com> wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 27 lines]
> Thaw him out slowly when you get there so he isn't scared when
> he comes back to life.  Problem solved!

Lynne, I think a warm cat will probably need more than an overnight
stay in the freezer. I'd go for at least 24 hours. I wonder how big
he is?

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Lynne - 14 Sep 2007 03:22 GMT
on Fri, 14 Sep 2007 02:16:39 GMT, Cheryl <jlhshadow@NOSPAMhotmail.com>
wrote:

> Lynne, I think a warm cat will probably need more than an overnight
> stay in the freezer. I'd go for at least 24 hours. I wonder how big
> he is?

Silly me!  You are so right.  I always assume everyone has one of these
handy dandy new cryogenic Frigidaires.  I'm so spoiled!

Anyone have the chill time for live cats, per pound?  And doesn't it vary
depending on the length and thickness of the fur? or is that a myth?

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Matthew - 14 Sep 2007 03:33 GMT
> on Fri, 14 Sep 2007 02:16:39 GMT, Cheryl <jlhshadow@NOSPAMhotmail.com>
> wrote:

< snipped>

???????????????????????????????????????????

Am I missing something here or are both of off you medicine tonight
Cheryl - 14 Sep 2007 03:37 GMT
>> on Fri, 14 Sep 2007 02:16:39 GMT, Cheryl
>> <jlhshadow@NOSPAMhotmail.com> wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> Am I missing something here or are both of off you medicine
> tonight

I'm fine. How are you? ;)

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Matthew - 14 Sep 2007 03:45 GMT
>>> on Fri, 14 Sep 2007 02:16:39 GMT, Cheryl
>>> <jlhshadow@NOSPAMhotmail.com> wrote:
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>
> I'm fine. How are you? ;)

Ok  still on a sugar rush from my cookies

I goggled her email I don't think it is a troll just someone desperate
Either way I emailed Phil
K - 18 Sep 2007 14:25 GMT
> >>> on Fri, 14 Sep 2007 02:16:39 GMT, Cheryl
> >>> <jlhsha...@NOSPAMhotmail.com> wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 17 lines]
>
> - Show quoted text -

I agree.

I don't think anyone would come to this group & say something like
that, because she is leaving herself open to criticism. Anyone who
does that is either desperate, or stupid & Judging by the evidence, I
don't think she sounds stupid.

If you treat people with that kind of cynicism is very unlikely to
come back & take another kicking, are they?
What message does this send out too?
I thought people came here for advise, not to be abused verbally.
K.
Matthew - 18 Sep 2007 17:23 GMT
>> >>> on Fri, 14 Sep 2007 02:16:39 GMT, Cheryl
>> >>> <jlhsha...@NOSPAMhotmail.com> wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 30 lines]
> I thought people came here for advise, not to be abused verbally.
> K.

It turns out that the other posters were WRONG this time.  Sheelagh has
already said what happened but it is too late now.  At least the young lady
thru private email told us what was going on.  Phil even told me what was
going on thru private email.  The others owe her an apology but we know that
will never happen.

Always treat it as it is true but the others have gotten too cynical and
always assume the worse.  This time it slapped them in the face.
Lynne - 18 Sep 2007 17:42 GMT
on Tue, 18 Sep 2007 16:23:27 GMT, "Matthew" <Iamacatslave@proudtoserve.com>
wrote:

> Always treat it as it is true but the others have gotten too cynical and
> always assume the worse.  This time it slapped them in the face.

I don't feel slapped in the face.  My post was obviously not serious, but
had it been, I would have told her that she is an irresponsible a.shole who
doesn't deserve the company of cats EVER AGAIN.

I hope that cat is safe now.  ANYTHING is better than being with someone
who would leave him loose on the streets because she's too stupid to have
made proper arrangments before leaving the f.cking country.

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Cheryl - 18 Sep 2007 23:36 GMT
> on Tue, 18 Sep 2007 16:23:27 GMT, "Matthew"
> <Iamacatslave@proudtoserve.com> wrote:
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> too stupid to have made proper arrangments before leaving the
> f.cking country.

Exactly. I think most people here know that neither of us would
tell someone to freeze their cat and really mean it. Matthew's just
trying to stir up trouble. Must be a slow day.

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Matthew - 18 Sep 2007 23:47 GMT
>> on Tue, 18 Sep 2007 16:23:27 GMT, "Matthew"
>> <Iamacatslave@proudtoserve.com> wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 16 lines]
> tell someone to freeze their cat and really mean it. Matthew's just
> trying to stir up trouble. Must be a slow day.

Sorry  if the truth hurts
Cheryl - 18 Sep 2007 23:53 GMT
>>> on Tue, 18 Sep 2007 16:23:27 GMT, "Matthew"
>>> <Iamacatslave@proudtoserve.com> wrote:
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>
> Sorry  if the truth hurts

Just *your* truth, dear heart. And you're doing a good job of
propagating it.

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Lynne - 18 Sep 2007 23:58 GMT
on Tue, 18 Sep 2007 22:47:09 GMT, "Matthew" <Iamacatslave@proudtoserve.com>
wrote:

> Sorry  if the truth hurts

The only truth here is that the OP is a worthless moron, and you're
defending her selfish actions.

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Matthew - 19 Sep 2007 00:20 GMT
>> on Tue, 18 Sep 2007 16:23:27 GMT, "Matthew"
>> <Iamacatslave@proudtoserve.com> wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 16 lines]
> tell someone to freeze their cat and really mean it. Matthew's just
> trying to stir up trouble. Must be a slow day.

rec.pets.cats.health+behav
<news:46effb79$0$7507$4c368faf@roadrunner.com>:

> It turns out that the other posters were WRONG this time.
> Sheelagh has already said what happened but it is too late now.
> At least the young lady thru private email told us what was
> going on.  Phil even told me what was going on thru private
> email.  The others owe her an apology but we know that will
> never happen.

> Always treat it as it is true but the others have gotten too
> cynical and always assume the worse.  This time it slapped them
> in the face.

This coming from one of the biggest flamers on this group. You're
really good at pointing fingers and incriminating Lynne and I in
this thread and others in other threads.  Try looking in the mirror
some time. I don't feel the least bit slapped in the face.  I
RARELY call troll and usually ignore what I consider a troll post
but in reading it, it pissed me off that someone would wait so long
and then say they were putting the cat out on the street, so I
ignored my own policy and jumped in this time calling "troll" in
what was supposed to be a funny way BECAUSE I DIDN'T BELIEVE A WORD
OF IT AND STILL DON'T. You should know I would never tell someone
to freeze their cat and mean it.  Sheesh. So killfile me if you
think a little off-humor is so horrifying. You've done WAY worse
and I'm sure the poster is laughing at the commotion they
intentionally caused.

Again sorry if the truth hurts deal with it.  Don't believe it ask Phil or
Sheelagh.

And I have never done way worse except to know trolls or a post that you can
tell is done by a trouble maker. Than they are fair targets

Why don't you kill file me if you think I am that way.  At least I tried to
do something.  I can look in the mirror and know I did the right thing.  I
know I can be stubborn and be an a@@ when I want to be but so many of you
can and have been before also no one is innocent.

Definitely become to cynical for your all own well being.

Not defending the original poster but we tell people this is the last place
to come for help.  No wonder some many avoid this group.  Yes many have come
her and been a@@'s but not all of them are trolls or a@@holes.  The benefit
of the doubt is always the best bet.

When you assume what people mean when you post  you are putting your own
emotions into it.  With out a voice behind it they are just words with no
meaning.  We don't ever know what the posters have done.  What are we
expecting their life story before we offer help now.  What do we want a full
back ground check.  Sheesh people grow up offer the help. What is your pride
or dignity to great where you think that everyone is out to be a troll or
cause trouble.

Almost everyone here is an educated cat slave.  We know the right and wrongs
not everyone is that way.  Yet you all assume they are as knowledgeable and
or blessed at being a cat slave as all of us.

I know that you all know that people do think letting their animal go is the
right thing to do instead of the shelter that the animal would be better off
than being put to sleep.  How many of us have rescued animals from the side
of the road. We know that people have this mentality.

As another poster pointed some many people wait till the last moment to deal
with it. Thinking the best will happen if they wait.  That is in human
nature it is bad but true.  How many of us have done something like this
before we got educated.

You all can be mad at me, cuss at me, flame me, whatever but you know I am
right.  Whether you were joking, being pissed off at the poster or whatever
the slap in the face is the one time someone needed help they got what they
got.

You can flame me or whatever. I stopped wanting to get into arguments a
while again but this is the one time I am ashamed of some of the people
here.
Cheryl - 19 Sep 2007 00:31 GMT
<snip holier than thou bullcrap>
> You all can be mad at me, cuss at me, flame me, whatever but you
> know I am right.  Whether you were joking, being pissed off at
> the poster or whatever the slap in the face is the one time
> someone needed help they got what they got.

You're hysterical. Go take a nap.

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Matthew - 19 Sep 2007 00:45 GMT
> < it can set you free>
>> You all can be mad at me, cuss at me, flame me, whatever but you
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>>
> You're hysterical. Go take a nap.

Ha ha you made a funny
Cheryl - 18 Sep 2007 23:33 GMT
> It turns out that the other posters were WRONG this time.
> Sheelagh has already said what happened but it is too late now.
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> cynical and always assume the worse.  This time it slapped them
> in the face.

This coming from one of the biggest flamers on this group. You're
really good at pointing fingers and incriminating Lynne and I in
this thread and others in other threads.  Try looking in the mirror
some time. I don't feel the least bit slapped in the face.  I
RARELY call troll and usually ignore what I consider a torll post
but in reading it, it pissed me off that someone would wait so long
and then say they were putting the cat out on the street, so I
ignored my own policy and jumped in this time calling "troll" in
what was supposed to be a funny way BECAUSE I DIDN'T BELIEVE A WORD
OF IT AND STILL DON'T. You should know I would never tell someone
to freeze their cat and mean it.  Sheesh. So killfile me if you
think a little off-humor is so horrifying. You've done WAY worse
and I'm sure the poster is laughing at the commotion they
intentionaly caused.  

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Lynne - 18 Sep 2007 23:56 GMT
on Tue, 18 Sep 2007 22:33:36 GMT, Cheryl <jlhshadow@NOSPAMhotmail.com>
wrote:

>  You've done WAY worse

Yep.  Not sure why Matthew is waving his holier than thou flag here.  Good
grief, how utterly hypocritical.  Also, I thought we were damn funny!

The OP is a f.cking idiot, no matter how you read the post--truth or troll.

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Cheryl - 19 Sep 2007 00:15 GMT
> on Tue, 18 Sep 2007 22:33:36 GMT, Cheryl
> <jlhshadow@NOSPAMhotmail.com> wrote:
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> here.  Good grief, how utterly hypocritical.  Also, I thought we
> were damn funny!

I too thought so. I mean who would take that seriously? Especially
the regular posters. They've really surprised me! lol  

> The OP is a f.cking idiot, no matter how you read the
> post--truth or troll.

Agreed, either one works for me, but I still don't believe it was
sincere. And like I said before, I usually refrain from even
replying. Or more accurately, I refrain NOW from replying to troll
posts, or getting in the middle of the muck in this group. I like
it better this way. It got old and causes disrupt within the group,
but some people *looking at Matthew* seem to like to have people to
vilify.

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Lynne - 19 Sep 2007 00:42 GMT
on Tue, 18 Sep 2007 23:15:11 GMT, Cheryl <jlhshadow@NOSPAMhotmail.com>
wrote:

> Agreed, either one works for me, but I still don't believe it was
> sincere. And like I said before, I usually refrain from even
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> but some people *looking at Matthew* seem to like to have people to
> vilify.

What's ironic is that I'm ALWAYS restrained when these morons show up.  
This  one time I posted something completely ridiculous that I KNEW no one
in their right mind would take seriously, something funny.  I am not the
least bit sorry, either.  (Your reply slayed me, BTW!  haha!!)

I also don't believe the original post was sincere, not for a second.  
Matthew sure is making a statement, but I don't think it is the one he
intends!

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Cheryl - 19 Sep 2007 00:54 GMT
> on Tue, 18 Sep 2007 23:15:11 GMT, Cheryl
> <jlhshadow@NOSPAMhotmail.com> wrote:
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> seriously, something funny.  I am not the least bit sorry,
> either.  (Your reply slayed me, BTW!  haha!!)

I know you don't, that's what caught me off guard. LOl But I was
thinking almost the same thing, some smart a.s answer to the stupid
question just because it HAD to be a troll. Leaving in 2 days, no
arrangements and feeling like they had to put the cat out on the
streets of NYC. I often watch the posters who attack posts like
this and both shake my head at the disbelief of even asking the
question in the first place, then the onslaught of attacks. Then to
get attacked by Matthew (who is always in the middle of those
threads) when I do it?  Too funny.

> I also don't believe the original post was sincere, not for a
> second.  Matthew sure is making a statement, but I don't think
> it is the one he intends!

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cybercat - 19 Sep 2007 18:53 GMT
>I often watch the posters who attack posts like
> this and both shake my head at the disbelief of even asking the
> question in the first place, then the onslaught of attacks.

I think I have reached this exalted place ... OMMMM

lol
Cheryl - 21 Sep 2007 00:50 GMT
>>I often watch the posters who attack posts like
>> this and both shake my head at the disbelief of even asking the
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>
> lol

I'm going back there. These people are hopeless.

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cybercat - 21 Sep 2007 01:07 GMT
>>>I often watch the posters who attack posts like
>>> this and both shake my head at the disbelief of even asking the
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>
> I'm going back there. These people are hopeless.

And if you keep pointing it out it just makes them want to hunt you down and
kill you. And that can be a problem.
Lynne - 21 Sep 2007 15:57 GMT
on Fri, 21 Sep 2007 00:07:32 GMT, "cybercat" <cyberpurrs@yahoo.com>
wrote:

> And if you keep pointing it out it just makes them want to hunt you
> down and kill you. And that can be a problem.

*snort*

I say, BRING IT.  It's a damn shame when people forget how to laugh.

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cybercat - 21 Sep 2007 18:21 GMT
> on Fri, 21 Sep 2007 00:07:32 GMT, "cybercat" <cyberpurrs@yahoo.com>
> wrote:
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>
> I say, BRING IT.  It's a damn shame when people forget how to laugh.

Indeed. As for the original post--anyone who even threatens to put a cat on
the street is an a.shole. A-S-S-H-O-L-E.
Lynne - 21 Sep 2007 21:19 GMT
> As for the original post--anyone who even threatens to put a cat on
> the street is an a.shole. A-S-S-H-O-L-E.

Bears repeating.  Total f.cking a.shole.

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sheelagh >"o"< - 21 Sep 2007 19:21 GMT
>on Fri, 21 Sep 2007 00:07:32 GMT, "cybercat" <cyberpurrs@yahoo.com>
>wrote:
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>
>I say, BRING IT.  It's a damn shame when people forget how to laugh.

There is nothing to "Bring On".
Like Matthew, I am genuinely pleased that the OP's dedication paid off

It wasn't funny. If it was, we would all have laughed. If you honestly
thought it was a troll, you should have taken your own advice & ignored it.
After Phil posted, I thought it would have made it crystal clear that the OP
was genuine. I'm sorry that you feel that we need to "Bring Anything "On"...

As far as I am concerned I hope that this is the end of the matter.
Sheelagh >"o"<

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cybercat - 19 Sep 2007 18:53 GMT
> on Tue, 18 Sep 2007 23:15:11 GMT, Cheryl <jlhshadow@NOSPAMhotmail.com>
> wrote:
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> Matthew sure is making a statement, but I don't think it is the one he
> intends!

Regardless, it amounts to stupid people in defense of stupid people.

Matthew is not stupid, but has a big tender heart that sometimes softens
his head.
mlbriggs - 14 Sep 2007 18:38 GMT
>> [quoted text muted]
>
> Lynne, I think a warm cat will probably need more than an overnight
> stay in the freezer. I'd go for at least 24 hours. I wonder how big
> he is?

I expected better from you.
cybercat - 15 Sep 2007 01:32 GMT
>>> [quoted text muted]
>>
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>
> I expected better from you.

I remember when you used to have a sense of humor.
mlbriggs - 16 Sep 2007 03:15 GMT
>> [quoted text muted]
>
> I remember when you used to have a sense of humor.

glad to be remembered -- that must have been way back when
the cat groups were fun to read.
Cheryl - 15 Sep 2007 01:33 GMT
>>> [quoted text muted]
>>
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>
> I expected better from you.

Oh please. It was a stupid question and meritted a stupid answer.
Lynne just beat me to the first reply. Lighten up people. As if
this person, whether it was a sincere question or not, would freeze
dry a cat for travel. They have no intention of bringing their 1
remaining cat with them any way.

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mlbriggs - 14 Sep 2007 18:37 GMT
>> [quoted text muted]
>
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> Thaw him out slowly when you get there so he isn't scared when he comes
> back to life.  Problem solved!

You are pathetic!
Sheelagh >o< - 17 Sep 2007 20:09 GMT
> >> [quoted text muted]
>
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
>
> You are pathetic!

I sat here for an hour before posting because I knew that the
consequences of what I had to say would probably make me very
unpopular. In the end, I decided to post, mostly because it needs
pointing out. When I made mistakes, there were no end of people ready
to point out the error of my ways, & they were right to.
I had far too much to say & hurt people with my sharp tongue.
Reprimanding me made me look @ myself, & examine what I was saying &
why as well.

It taught me what humility meant & to think how others feel before
shooting my mouth off- Or at least asserting whether I am being
presented with the "Real facts".
I hope you understand that my comment is only to remind us all that
people do make mistakes, & we are here to advise, rather than
reprimand before helping the cat(s) in question. There is time for
that later, after the cat has been taken care of.

If this makes me unpopular, then so be it.

Sheelagh >"o"<
Gail - 14 Sep 2007 03:23 GMT
Do NOT let him go on his own. That is VERY CRUEL. It is better to surrender
him to a shelter.
Gail
>I am leaving this country soon and i cant take my cat with me.  i've
> asked friends and called several animal shelters by long island and
[quoted text clipped - 13 lines]
> Your help is greatly appreciated. Pls help me to find him a new home.
> a million thanks.
Cheryl - 14 Sep 2007 03:29 GMT
> Do NOT let him go on his own. That is VERY CRUEL. It is better
> to surrender him to a shelter.

It's a very sick torll, Gail. Not very original either.

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Matthew - 14 Sep 2007 03:36 GMT
>> Do NOT let him go on his own. That is VERY CRUEL. It is better
>> to surrender him to a shelter.
>
> It's a very sick torll, Gail. Not very original either.

What makes you say this  I goggled the email and the only post came back to
last year when she had problems with fleas and the kitten had watery
droppings and was throwing up.  She stated in the emails that she was going
to a vet

http://groups.google.com/groups/search?q=eoperi@gmail.com&qt_s=Search+Groups
Cheryl - 14 Sep 2007 03:48 GMT
>> It's a very sick torll, Gail. Not very original either.
>>
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> http://groups.google.com/groups/search?q=eoperi@gmail.com&qt_s=Se
> arch+Groups

I didn't google them. If it is a legit request for help, they have
asked way too late. That's why I said it was a troll, and again, an
unoriginal one. Personally, I don't buy it.

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cybercat - 14 Sep 2007 03:52 GMT
>>> It's a very sick torll, Gail. Not very original either.
>>>
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> asked way too late. That's why I said it was a troll, and again, an
> unoriginal one. Personally, I don't buy it.

Um, yeah! You're going overseas in two days, can't take your beloved cat, so
you turn to ..... USENET. Sure you do.

If it isn't a troll, I have nothing to say to this person. Stupid people
frustrate me.
Matthew - 14 Sep 2007 04:01 GMT
>>>> It's a very sick torll, Gail. Not very original either.
>>>>
[quoted text clipped - 15 lines]
> If it isn't a troll, I have nothing to say to this person. Stupid people
> frustrate me.

I think we have gotten to use to the trolls that come here and we are
getting cynical with our old age. I am not defending this person but I think
the benefit of the doubt is always the best bet to go.
Cheryl - 14 Sep 2007 04:05 GMT
> If it isn't a troll, I have nothing to say to this person.
> Stupid people frustrate me.

Same here. I know enough people in person who do stupid things with
their pets that frustrate me. I finally had to cut loose a friend who
breeds her dogs, and its hard to lose a friend but I have values that
mean something to me. Took a while but it was inevitable.

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cybercat - 14 Sep 2007 04:17 GMT
>> If it isn't a troll, I have nothing to say to this person.
>> Stupid people frustrate me.
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> breeds her dogs, and its hard to lose a friend but I have values that
> mean something to me. Took a while but it was inevitable.

And you know what, it isn't really stupidity. It's total selfishness.
It's "head up the a.s" syndrome. Creatures that are completely
dependent on us take first priority with decent people, whether
human or otherwise. To even consider putting an animal on the
street, pffft. a.sholes.
Matthew - 14 Sep 2007 03:56 GMT
>>> It's a very sick torll, Gail. Not very original either.
>>>
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
> asked way too late. That's why I said it was a troll, and again, an
> unoriginal one. Personally, I don't buy it.

They funny thing is the user net is the last place to go for help like this.
We always tell people that come here.  I don't know if it is true or not.  I
answer it as it is real no matter what until they act like that last a@@hole
did what he did
Matthew - 14 Sep 2007 03:26 GMT
PLEASE CALL PHIL AT MAXSHOUSE  IMMEDIATELY THEY ARE IN NEW JERSEY
http://www.maxshouse.com/about_us.htm

I know they have a phone listing but I can't find it  they are in New jersey

I am adding a email my self to him

Good luck

>I am leaving this country soon and i cant take my cat with me.  i've
> asked friends and called several animal shelters by long island and
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> Your help is greatly appreciated. Pls help me to find him a new home.
> a million thanks.
Lynne - 14 Sep 2007 03:34 GMT
on Fri, 14 Sep 2007 02:26:35 GMT, "Matthew"
<Iamacatslave@proudtoserve.com> wrote:

> PLEASE CALL PHIL AT MAXSHOUSE  IMMEDIATELY THEY ARE IN NEW JERSEY
> http://www.maxshouse.com/about_us.htm
>
> I know they have a phone listing but I can't find it  they are in New
> jersey

Moving in 2 days and going to let the cat go loose?  Surely no one can be
THAT stupid?  Jeez, I hope not, anyway!  I don't want to read in the papers
about a frozen cat shipped to another country and the idiot owner wondering
why he won't come back to life!!

Hahahaha.  Sorry, just can't take this seriously.  It's got to be a troll.

Signature

Lynne

photos of my pets:
http://picasaweb.google.com/what.the.hell.is.it

Paul M. Cook - 14 Sep 2007 09:20 GMT
The Brooklyn SPCA is featured often on Animal Planet.  Worth a shot.

Paul

>I am leaving this country soon and i cant take my cat with me.  i've
> asked friends and called several animal shelters by long island and
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> Your help is greatly appreciated. Pls help me to find him a new home.
> a million thanks.
msflyingpiggy - 14 Sep 2007 12:27 GMT
paul, thanks for your help.

> The Brooklyn SPCA is featured often on Animal Planet.  Worth a shot.
>
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cybercat - 14 Sep 2007 17:14 GMT
> paul, thanks for your help.

You live in NY and the Brooklyn SPCA never occurred to you.
Matthew - 14 Sep 2007 18:24 GMT
Huh  Glad I get thank for contacting Phil and telling you about his rescue
center

> paul, thanks for your help.
>
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Sheelagh >o< - 14 Sep 2007 18:46 GMT
> Huh  Glad I get thank for contacting Phil and telling you about his rescue
> center
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>
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Matthew, there are times that you simply can't help some people,
however hard you try. This is one of them. If she really wanted the
help that she professes to want, then she would have been there
thanking you for the way you put yourself out.(because you did!)

In fact, I don't think if you picked the cat up personally & took it
to the shelter for her, that it would have been the right place, or
even helpful to her. Shrug it off & try not to worry about it ( the
cat, I mean- not her).... If she was bright enough to ask the group
for help, then she was perfectly capable of looking up human societies
in the NY area like I did for her, in the UK!!
Take care,
Sheelagh >*o*<
Sheelagh >o< - 14 Sep 2007 19:00 GMT
> Huh  Glad I get thank for contacting Phil and telling you about his rescue
> center
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Perhaps I am being a bit harsh. I am not sure.
That is why I did not dismiss her out of hand. Leaving this problem
until a day or 2 before you depart is a little remiss of her, however,
there might be extenuating circumstances for instance... but that
doesn't excuse not having the manners to thank someone who really did
go against the grain to help out- which you did!

I hope that she has somewhere sorted out too. Having said that, I
hardly think she is likely to come back and tell us though. Some
remarks were a little caustic. I certainly hope that she did manage to
place him.

Frankly, it is very unusual over here not to be able to place a cat in
a place of safety, so it is a little difficult for me to understand
the concept of all of your shelters being full. It must be a dreadful
situation?! I am certain that it will happen one day, we are just
lucky we haven't got there yet.
You tried your very best, that is clear.....
Sheelagh >*o*<
mariib - 14 Sep 2007 22:19 GMT
>Huh  Glad I get thank for contacting Phil and telling you about his rescue
>center
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BTW Matthew, googling msflying piggy, she had 2 kittens last October 06. Do
we ask about the other kitty?
M.
here's pictures of my cats & garden & the Chinese Lantern Festival this
summer in Toronto
http://community.webshots.com/user/mariib?action=publicAlbums
Matthew - 14 Sep 2007 22:29 GMT
>>Huh  Glad I get thank for contacting Phil and telling you about his rescue
>>center
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> summer in Toronto
> http://community.webshots.com/user/mariib?action=publicAlbums

I give everyone the benefit of the doubt.  It is always the best bet for the
one time that we jump the gun it will be the real thing.
mariib - 14 Sep 2007 22:52 GMT
>>>Huh  Glad I get thank for contacting Phil and telling you about his rescue
>>>center
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>I give everyone the benefit of the doubt.  It is always the best bet for the
>one time that we jump the gun it will be the real thing.

That's just fine, but I'm not questioning that she's about to leave her cat
behind - when she posted  last October, she had 2 kittens & I was asking what
happened to the other one?
M.
Matthew - 14 Sep 2007 23:13 GMT
>>>>Huh  Glad I get thank for contacting Phil and telling you about his
>>>>rescue
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> happened to the other one?
> M.

Very good questions if she need helped and the others did not scare her off.
Maybe we can find out
Sheelagh >o< - 15 Sep 2007 00:04 GMT
> >>>>Huh  Glad I get thank for contacting Phil and telling you about his
> >>>>rescue
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> - Show quoted text -

Sorry!
I forgot to add, check your email box
Sheelagh >*o*<
Cheryl - 15 Sep 2007 01:34 GMT
> Very good questions if she need helped and the others did not
> scare her off. Maybe we can find out

Matthew they never gave you updates in the past, what makes you think
they would now? "Scare her off". Pulease.

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Cheryl

Sheelagh >o< - 14 Sep 2007 23:36 GMT
> >Huh  Glad I get thank for contacting Phil and telling you about his rescue
> >center
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> --
> Message posted via CatKB.comhttp://www.catkb.com/Uwe/Forums.aspx/cat-health/200709/1

Lovely photos :o)

Sheelagh >*o*<
Barb - 14 Sep 2007 14:44 GMT
Dear Miss Flying Piggy,

Leaving the country?  DON'T COME BACK.

Barb
Lynne - 17 Sep 2007 17:49 GMT
> Leaving the country?  DON'T COME BACK.

And NEVER get another pet!

Signature

Lynne

photos of my pets:
http://picasaweb.google.com/what.the.hell.is.it

Sheelagh >o< - 17 Sep 2007 19:52 GMT
> > Leaving the country?  DON'T COME BACK.
>
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>
> photos of my pets:http://picasaweb.google.com/what.the.hell.is.it

Actually, the cat wasn't her's. It belonged to a friend that she was
trying to help. She still has the 2 cats that Matthew spoke about, &
mentioned are fine & I received photos of them a couple of days ago.

She took Matthews advice & took her friend & the cat in question to
him, but he couldn't take it either because he has no room at all. In
fact, he has asked that people think twice before giving out his
details, before contacting him first. Much as he would love to help
everyone, he can't. He is only human & only has a certain amount of
resources available. In future, he would appreciate it if people would
be kind enough to contacting him first, to see if he can help.
( I know this to be true, because I checked)

I know that we get a lot of Trolls that stop by here simply to cause
havoc, & also that it can be hard to sort out the real people that
need help, from the idiots who call by to cause trouble- But we should
have the good grace to give them a chance before dismissing them out
of hand.

You might even say that is a bit rich coming from someone who has had
plenty to say in the past, because I have! The difference is, that I
have learned my lesson, & I have learnt to give everyone the benefit
of doubt, before condemning them. I lost a good friend by doing
exactly this, & I can assure you that it wasn't worth it.

Most people who come here, are genuine, & do not deserve the stick
that she got. Of course she won't come back!

Would you?
Sheelagh >"o"<
Sheelagh >o< - 14 Sep 2007 15:08 GMT
> I am leaving this country soon and i cant take my cat with me.  i've
> asked friends and called several animal shelters by long island and
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> Your help is greatly appreciated. Pls help me to find him a new home.
> a million thanks.

Here are a few that I found on the Internet. I live in the UK, so some
of them might not be valid, but they are definately worth a call. It
is a pity that you didn't ask a little sooner, because people might
have been able to help. @ this late hour, you might find that these
shelters are already full. I hope that you do find somewhere though.

http://www.ligreyhound.org/shelters.htm

http://www.licp.org/

http://queens.about.com/od/petsanimals/index_a.htm

http://www.queenstribune.com/guides/2007_GuideToQueens/service/animal.htm

This one has a list of shelters in the area that you asked for

http://cats.about.com/library/weekly/aa061401a.htm

This also has a few shelters on this page

http://queens.about.com/od/petsanimals/index_r.htm

Sheelagh >*o*<
saxrocco - 17 Sep 2007 21:56 GMT
Hi

Just read this thread and was shocked by the opening part about 'freezing'
your cat.  Thought it was OTT but I read it to my husband and the thought of
putting our 4 babies in the freezer is awful.
All our cats are great by the way!!!

Shame that there are some people out there that can't take cats to there next
destination - I can only agree with what Sheelagh has said.

Has it all been sorted now?  Nice of you Sheelagh to give the info you have.

take care
Clare

>> I am leaving this country soon and i cant take my cat with me.  i've
>> asked friends and called several animal shelters by long island and
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>
>Sheelagh >*o*<
Grace - 18 Sep 2007 22:20 GMT
I'm new here, and really have no right to comment on what has
transpired re: this thread, but, I feel that I must reply.  I formerly
did animal rescue---though not for the last twelve years.  I
discovered during the period of time that I rescued, that often,
people would hang on to their pets until the last minute, because they
desperately hoped that their situations would change.  *Maybe the
landlord will let me keep my pet after all.  Maybe I won't have to
move. etc.*  It would have been grossly unfair for me to question
their motives for doing so and to refuse to help, not only to them,
but to the animal in question as well.  Thank you Matthew, Sheelagh
and Paul, for your helpful suggestions, and the kindness that you
offered to this woman.  Matthew, I posted my thanks to you privately,
but just wanted to give you a public thank you as well.  You have a
wonderful heart.

Grace
Matthew - 18 Sep 2007 22:39 GMT
> I'm new here, and really have no right to comment on what has
> transpired re: this thread, but, I feel that I must reply.  I formerly
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>
> Grace

You are welcome Grace  If you tried to send something to my email that is a
debunked email.  I hide it due to the a@@hole trolls here.

You have every right to comment.  I am ashamed and annoyed with the other
posters right now.

I know you are right about the animal rescue.  I have experienced this many
of times.  No matter what anyone wants to think giving up your animal is
giving up your child.  No one wants to do this.  It is the hardest thing to
do or even comprehend. If anyone thinks it is easy they need to be flogged.

It is always the best bet to assume they are genuine and not every one is
like the punk Pac man player.
Lynne - 18 Sep 2007 23:55 GMT
on Tue, 18 Sep 2007 21:39:42 GMT, "Matthew"
<Iamacatslave@proudtoserve.com> wrote:

>  I have experienced this many
> of times.  No matter what anyone wants to think giving up your animal
> is giving up your child.  No one wants to do this.  It is the hardest
> thing to do or even comprehend. If anyone thinks it is easy they need
> to be flogged.

Oh, please.  If the OP really gave a crap about the cat, arrangements would
have been made long before the last minute.  If this isn't complete
fiction, I'm sure the a.shole had the passport made and the bags packed,
shipping arrangments and airline tickets in hand, yet waited to the last
minute before trying to rehome the cat.  Riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight.

Signature

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photos of my pets:
http://picasaweb.google.com/what.the.hell.is.it

mlbriggs - 20 Sep 2007 03:56 GMT
> I'm new here, and really have no right to comment on what has
> transpired re: this thread, but, I feel that I must reply.  I formerly
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>
> Grace

IMHO Matthew is the glue that holds this group together.
MLB
Matthew - 20 Sep 2007 05:35 GMT
>> I'm new here, and really have no right to comment on what has
>> transpired re: this thread, but, I feel that I must reply.  I formerly
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> IMHO Matthew is the glue that holds this group together.
> MLB

That is scary  but there are others including you
Sheelagh >o< - 20 Sep 2007 14:00 GMT
> > I'm new here, and really have no right to comment on what has
> > transpired re: this thread, but, I feel that I must reply.  I formerly
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> - Show quoted text -

IMHO I agree
Sheelagh >o< - 20 Sep 2007 14:16 GMT
> > I'm new here, and really have no right to comment on what has
> > transpired re: this thread, but, I feel that I must reply.  I formerly
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>
> - Show quoted text -

I thought that you might want to know about the conclusion of this
little story. In fact, the cat belonged to a neighbor of the OP. On
our guidance, she took the cat over to see Phil, but he wasn't able to
help in this instance, he was already full to the rafters already with
cats.

Re: THANK YOU VERY MUCH JESSY
From: j t (eoperi@gmail.com)
Sent:15 September 2007 22:26:57
To: sheelagh madden (sheelagh_madden@hotmail.co.uk)

hi Sheelagh,

Phil was very helpful, However when we got there, they were out of
space and had to turn us away.  I feel like crying.  I called up some
more friends and animal shelters, no luck.  We are going to try some
more shelters tomorrow and hopefully they will have room for him.

thank you for sharing your photos.  Your cats are lovely.  I'd write
more, but I want to check out some more places.  will keep you
posted.

wish us luck.

I did wish her luck, & with a heavy heart, I never thought I would
hear from her again. I can't tell you how delighted I was last night
to open my mail box & find I had a further update as requested.
This is it:

From: j t (eoperi@gmail.com)
Sent:18 September 2007 23:14:16
To: sheelagh madden (sheelagh_madden@hotmail.co.uk)

Hi Sheelagh,

good new!! We found someone who could take her cat!!! I was thrilled
when that person called us.  we called a lot of people and finally one
came through =)
he is finally settling down with a new owner.  thanks for
everything!!!

I am so pleased that there was a possitive outcome in the end.
Sheelagh >"o"<
Grace - 20 Sep 2007 19:53 GMT
Hi Sheelagh,

I too had contacted  Jess to see if she had had any luck.  At that
point, she hadn't, but was determined not to give up.  I told Matthew
just the other evening, that if she had been able to get that cat to
PA, I would have taken it myself and placed it in a local rescue.  (A
very good rescue, I might add.)  Sheelagh, during my time working
animal rescue, I discovered that often people attempt to hang onto
their pets until the last minute, hoping that their situations will
change.  Whenever I first became ill, (I have a potentially fatal CNS
disease--Devic's NMO) I faced the possibility of having to rehome my
little Jack Russel X.  I was beside myself, convinced that no one else
could give her a home such as I had.  She was already 12 years old,
and her personality was such that she was a *one woman dog*.  I was
truly beside myself.  Luckily, I was able to hang onto her and still
care for her, and she is with me today---an absolutely incedible
little ball of love, and still her Mum's one and only.  Now, I have a
plan in place in the event that something happens to me, and I know
that she will be cared for and loved until the end of her days.

Often, people just don't think far enough ahead whenever it comes to
rehoming.  Because they love their pet, they think that it will be an
easy task to find someone that will love them just as much as they
do.   Sadly, that isn't always the case.  Years ago whenever I was
still in and out of our local shelter, I would often hear of elderly
people, who were not in a position to care for their pet anymore, and
who had brought them to the shelter, confident that someone would
adopt them.  Sometimes those initial seperations were so
heartbreaking.   And sadly, just as often, the final outcome was not a
happy one.  I think that I spent the majority of those years,
crying.   My years in rescue were some of the most fulfilling years of
my whole life, but strangely, also the saddest.

Again, thank you Matthew and Sheelagh for your kindness towards Jess.
Oh, and Matthew, those cats of yours are beautiful, and obviously
quite spoiled.  I loved the photos.  Now all you need, is it to find
yourself a beautiful long haired Calico like my Lyric to complete the
family.  :-)

Grace
Matthew - 20 Sep 2007 20:18 GMT
> Hi Sheelagh,
>
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>
> Grace

<BIG SMILE>

Every one of the cats that I have .  Have been real rescue not from shelters
but the real world.  Ka' shay my newest master. When I was at my vets.  She
cried out loudly I said someone is not happy and my vet showed my the little
pip squeak. The humane society was there to pick her up but at that time
there was a no hold on animals due to over crowding the were putting to
sleep any surrender animals due to lack of space.  The guys said her chance
is less than 1% to get adopted  I said not on my watch  those chances just
went to 100%  she is coming home with me.  My vet said he was holding out
hoping someone would come along and as soon as I walked in the door he knew
she had a new slave.  Happens every time I come around.  Personally I think
I got set up but it was worth it.  I always say the gods have a plan and
cats are in on it.  If rumble had not gotten sick with diabetes  and had to
go thru the time of being tested and going back and forth.  We would have
never gotten Ka'Shay; which means don't ask in an ancient language.  I was
going to change the visit that day but something told me not to  now I know
what it was.
Phil P. - 21 Sep 2007 07:10 GMT
"Sheelagh >o<" <sheelagh_madden@hotmail.co.uk> wrote in message > >
> > - Show quoted text -
>
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> help in this instance, he was already full to the rafters already with
> cats.

Actually, we were over the rafters a long time ago... I have cats running
around up on the joists!.

> Phil was very helpful, However when we got there, they were out of
> space and had to turn us away.

I felt really bad-- they came all the way from Queens.   I know they really
cared.  They drove a long way and even offered to make a substantial
donation towards his care.

When I told her we would take him, I had an opening with someone who only
fosters older cats.
But by the time they got here, the foster had already taken in another cat.
We can't reserve spots because so many people don't show up-- or even call.
So we have to operate on a first come-first serve basis.

> good new!! We found someone who could take her cat!!! I was thrilled
> when that person called us.  we called a lot of people and finally one
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>
> I am so pleased that there was a possitive outcome in the end.

I'm so happy he has a forever home!

Phil
Matthew - 21 Sep 2007 13:25 GMT
> "Sheelagh >o<" <sheelagh_madden@hotmail.co.uk> wrote in message > >
>> > - Show quoted text -
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>
> Phil

thanks for trying Phil

I will do as you ask me to in the email.  I know how it is with the
shelters.  They lady who I deal with here now as a capacity of 350  she has
over a 1000 and will not put any to sleep no matter what.

At least there was a happy ending despite the drama
 
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