Cat Forum / Health and Behavior / July 2007
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judas me - 10 Jul 2007 22:06 GMT "He is simply a sad case. He ripped me for spelling, grammar, but most of all for intelligence, which is laughable when you consider some of things that he has posted on use net... Who the hell would admit that they have an interest in child porn on a global site? Who would call another person's intelligence, yet act like a little boy who's had his balls snatched is again, anyone's guess..... "
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How inappropriate and slutty for a stranger to suggest to a man who has just lambasted her by calling her a stupid c.nt that he has in fact gotten his balls snatched... the feeling wherof would be that of a boy... it was suggested that he had them snatched before, and here is he getting them snatched yet again.
THIS WAS HER REPLY TO A WEIRDO!
this is how you do it sheelagh, the rule is, no hitting below the belt.
now.. you on the other hand, you came to me like you have Charlie and Matt, and whoever else as a friend. but.. you betrayed me... see.. by posting private correspondence, it's a form of rape, and a real friendship breaker.
I've never NEVER made on out of the way remark to you until you did me this way...
<charlie is busy jacking off to his temporary internet files>
anyway, don't do that no more.
let this crap dry up here..
we start over.
nothing is lost
you know I care about you.
cybercat - 10 Jul 2007 22:49 GMT > anyway, don't do that no more. > [quoted text clipped - 5 lines] > > you know I care about you. Starting over means the cycle of abuse will start over.
Over and over and over again, Barry will verbally abuse Sheelagh or anyone else who lets him, then spin the matter so that somehow it is *her* fault. Then say, "let's wipe the slate clean."
It's textbook.
Only you can end it, Barry but you have to face it.
You need professional help, and so much more.
I say this with love in my heart.
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judas you - 11 Jul 2007 19:35 GMT > > anyway, don't do that no more. > > [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > > Starting over means the cycle of abuse will start over. you won't ever get the chance to abuse me some more your abusing me now, you don't know crap what came through my email box you just so blinded by your rage, it doesn't even matter to you
bellyflute@yahoo.com - 11 Jul 2007 19:44 GMT > > > anyway, don't do that no more. > [quoted text clipped - 12 lines] > box > you just so blinded by your rage, it doesn't even matter to you Hey.
I just wanted to let you know I'm thoroughly enjoying witnessing this petulant little meltdown of yours.
Now they *all* can see what a pathetic, abusive twerp you are -- and that your projections and manipulative word-spinning aren't going to get you out of this one.
You're exposed. You're DONE.
And I'm laughing directly in your face. Couldn't happen to a nicer guy.
HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
judas you - 11 Jul 2007 21:13 GMT bellyfl...@yahoo.com wrote:
> HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA you're forgetting one little thing
Jeremy Bentham - 11 Jul 2007 22:59 GMT > bellyfl...@yahoo.com wrote: > > HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA > > you're forgetting one little thing Let's leave your dick out of this.
CatNipped - 17 Jul 2007 21:38 GMT >> bellyfl...@yahoo.com wrote: >> > HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA >> >> you're forgetting one little thing > > Let's leave your dick out of this. OK, you just made me spew diet coke all over my keyboard - and some of it came through my nose!! Warn us when you're going to do that!!! ;>
Hugs,
CatNipped
Sheelagh >o< - 14 Jul 2007 13:23 GMT > > > anyway, don't do that no more. > [quoted text clipped - 12 lines] > box > you just so blinded by your rage, it doesn't even matter to you How cab you say this to the best friend that you ever had?
Whilst you might be angry @ her words, you must see that Cyber is the one person who has "never" let you down. To say those words is selfish & shameful & resentful of you. She has no anger, merely concern. If you can't see that, then you need to think long and hard over her words. Sheelagh
go find someone else to cover your arse & stand up for you - 11 Jul 2007 00:51 GMT > now.. you on the other hand, you came to me like you have Charlie and > Matt, and whoever else as a friend. but.. you betrayed me... see.. [quoted text clipped - 15 lines] > > you know I care about you. Aww... what's wrong, Barry? Broke again? Need to scam some money?
bookie - 11 Jul 2007 01:24 GMT > "He is simply a sad case. > He ripped me for spelling, grammar, but most of all for intelligence, [quoted text clipped - 37 lines] > > you know I care about you. for f.cks sake grow up and shut up, this bollocks is really boring now
judas me - 11 Jul 2007 01:42 GMT > for f.cks sake grow up and shut up, this bollocks is really boring now oohhh yeah, spank me spank me, i've been so bad
Charlie Wilkes - 11 Jul 2007 04:04 GMT > now.. you on the other hand, you came to me like you have Charlie and > Matt, and whoever else as a friend. but.. you betrayed me... see.. by > posting private correspondence, it's a form of rape, and a real > friendship breaker. No, it's not a form of rape. Get real.
If you want to make obscene comments to or about people, fine, do it in the group. Usenet is a cesspool of shared filth, and that kind of thing is expected. But private email is different.
Charlie
judas me - 11 Jul 2007 09:49 GMT On Jul 11, 3:04 am, Charlie Wilkes <charlie_wil...@users.easynews.com> wrote:
> If you want to make obscene comments to or about people, fine, do it in > the group. Usenet is a cesspool of shared filth, and that kind of thing > is expected. But private email is different. First of all, you're the only one using the word obscene. So you have some friends? if you can find one true friend you're doing good. Feeble as it may be, I do try to nurture a potential friendship. As much is as is reasonable, solicited, warranted and reciprocated. You're very smart, you're real intuitive.
cybercat - 11 Jul 2007 10:03 GMT > On Jul 11, 3:04 am, Charlie Wilkes <charlie_wil...@users.easynews.com> > wrote: [quoted text clipped - 8 lines] > much is as is reasonable, solicited, warranted and reciprocated. > You're very smart, you're real intuitive. Just stop, Barry. When you're wrong you're wrong, and you are wrong. You should never have sent that email to Sheelagh and you know it. She was smart, she did not allow you to keep her isolated, she shared your abuse with others. In the light of day, your imagined power diminishes.
This is always the way with chronic emotional abusers.
Until you address the root of the problem you will continue to circle.
The things you've said to Sheelagh are identical to what you've said to me when you have been abusive to me. Identical. That should tell you that the problem is not me or Sheelagh, as we are very different.
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