don't think i could put her in a harness or anything like that, i
suspect she is too old to get used to them, and she migth get stressed
out by it all and i wouldn't want that.

you are right she is perfect and far better by a long way than the
vast majority of humans beans i have encountered in life, she is
undemanding (apart from the obvious things like, food, warm bed,
cuddles, door opening) and she loves me for who I am and doesn't
expect me to change and I have no worries that she will suddenly run
off and leave me by myself with the words "you know this really isn't
working is it? I mean we are really heading in different directions in
life aren't we?"

she is currently stretched out onthe bed behind me now, snoozing,
after finished off a plate of cold roast chicken slices (none of your
reconstituted crap, proper stuff from the deli counter yesterday). I
haven't let on that she had to share the packet with terri, i told
them both separately that each was getting all the chicken and
pretended that the other puss was getting none, i dontl think they
will talk to each pother about it, so i think my little fib is safe.

yes jessie is gorgeous, just going to go and kiss her fluffy white tum-
tum now