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Anyone else's (young) cat not play with toys?

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HUDAV847 - 04 May 2004 06:41 GMT
I adopted a big ol' tuxedo cat.  He does weigh about 15 pounds, but he is stout
and healthy looking/feeling and not all flabby.  His exact age isn't know, but
the rescuer said she would guess about 4 or 5.  (Would a vet be able to guess
better?)  The rescuer has A LOT of experience with strays and such, so I have
no problem relying on her educated guess.

Anyway, this cat does NOTHING.  He either looks out the window or sleeps.  He
is such a sweet guy, but I worry about him being happy.  He does not play with
ANY toys, and he won't even eat treats!!!  Is it his weight?  I would think
that even the fattest cat would get the midnight crazies every now and then.

Anyone else in a similar situation?
[ medic ] - 04 May 2004 15:55 GMT
How long have you had him? Maybe he is still getting used to his new
surroundings. When I first moved to the house we are in right now, my tom,
Maus, wasn't exactly excited about being here and all he did was sit in the
window or sleep.

What kind of toys are you giving him? Some cats like different things. Maus
can't be bothered with anything that jingles or has a bell in it, and he
doesn't look at most of those little mouse toys we got at the store. He went
nuts over a little plush starfish, though, and that's when we found out he
likes really soft, really brightly colored toys. We bought him a green and
pink little elephant and he plays with it all the time.

Just my two cents.
> I adopted a big ol' tuxedo cat.  He does weigh about 15 pounds, but he is stout
> and healthy looking/feeling and not all flabby.  His exact age isn't know, but
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> Anyone else in a similar situation?
Barb - 04 May 2004 15:59 GMT
Question:  Does he purr?

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HUDAV847 - 04 May 2004 19:03 GMT
>Question:  Does he purr?

Absolutely - I guess that's a good indicator.  But he also quite often looks at
me and plaintively meows.

I've had him a month.  He was found in pretty bad shape.  Abandoned in snow,
declawed in all four paws, beat up badly enough to get FIV.  However, he seems
more than comfortable with me.  And while very skittish for the first week or
so, he seems much more sure of himself.  Ironically, as I was typing this post,
I saw him playing at my feet with a broken half of a paper clip stuck in the
carpet.  I let him play a bit, but as soon as he was distracted, I removed the
paper clip since I was afraid he'd hurt his mouth with the sharp edge or
swallow it altogether.

I'm going to try some different toys, even though we have already tried many
different kinds.  I am also going to work with him on losing maybe 2 pounds to
start.  It'll probably take awhile, but I think it will make him feel better.

It also sucks that my apt. is so small.  There isn't really a suitable runway
for him.
kaeli - 04 May 2004 19:42 GMT
> >Question:  Does he purr?

> Absolutely - I guess that's a good indicator.  But he also quite often looks at
> me and plaintively meows.
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> paper clip since I was afraid he'd hurt his mouth with the sharp edge or
> swallow it altogether.

> I'm going to try some different toys, even though we have already tried many
> different kinds.  I am also going to work with him on losing maybe 2 pounds to
> start.  It'll probably take awhile, but I think it will make him feel better.
> It also sucks that my apt. is so small.  There isn't really a suitable runway
> for him.

Our old Tom didn't play much. He was a mellow, sweet guy we found as a
stray. He was a classic couch potato. Big. Really big. 23 pounds. Most
of it was muscle. He looked a lot like a Maine Coon. He could have been
anything. He was a real purr monster who loved to knead on your legs and
get head rubs. But he never really played. Maybe he never learned to. I
dunno. But he was a happy, happy guy.

Kudos to you for taking your guy in. He sounds like he's going to be a
real sweetheart.

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Karen Chuplis - 04 May 2004 20:00 GMT
>> Question:  Does he purr?
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> It also sucks that my apt. is so small.  There isn't really a suitable runway
> for him.

Cat tree. I'm telling you, they really help exercise them. I really think he
will get more active as he is there longer. Try a Cat Dancer.

Karen
Barb - 05 May 2004 15:56 GMT
Cat's meows can sound very plaintiff at times but the purring is a great
sign that Carter is very content.  My 13 and 14 year old cats don't play but
let the oldest have a q-tip and she will actually play a little.  Other
posters have said their cats love q-tips.

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Laura R. - 09 May 2004 00:38 GMT
circa 04 May 2004 18:03:54 GMT, in rec.pets.cats.health+behav,
HUDAV847 (hudav847@cs.com) said,
> Absolutely - I guess that's a good indicator.  But he also quite often looks at
> me and plaintively meows.
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> paper clip since I was afraid he'd hurt his mouth with the sharp edge or
> swallow it altogether.

One of Oscar's all-time favorite toys is an emery board. Following
that, he loves knotted up grocery bags (washed and with nothing left
after knotting them except two little ends that make the bag look
like a bow tie), milk carton rings (don't have those around anymore
as I buy milk in cardboard cartons these days), hair doo-dads, q-tips
and the belts on my robes (while I'm wearing them, natch). Maybe your
guy is like Oscar- he likes cheap toys. ;-)

> I'm going to try some different toys, even though we have already tried many
> different kinds.  I am also going to work with him on losing maybe 2 pounds to
> start.  It'll probably take awhile, but I think it will make him feel better.

Good idea.

> It also sucks that my apt. is so small.  There isn't really a suitable runway
> for him.

I think the best feature of my apartment, as far as my cats are
concerned, is the looong hallway that they use as a takeoff and
landing strip. The people who lived here before me offered to sell me
the custom-made runner they had for the hallway, but my cats get too
much of a kick out of running up and down the bare floors for me to
do it. They especially love coming to a sliding stop at the ends of
the hall. :-)

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Karen Chuplis - 04 May 2004 19:59 GMT
> I adopted a big ol' tuxedo cat.  He does weigh about 15 pounds, but he is
> stout
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> Anyone else in a similar situation?

I bet he will become more playful as he adjusts to his new home. Congrats.
What is his name?

Karen
HUDAV847 - 04 May 2004 23:05 GMT
>What is his name?

Carter

Thanks for everyone's advice.  Cats rule.
minerva nine - 05 May 2004 07:05 GMT
Cats, like people, vary widely in their personalities.  He is obviously an
introspective Zen cat.  Be grateful you'll never be awakened by the sound of
thundering paws....

> I adopted a big ol' tuxedo cat.  He does weigh about 15 pounds, but he is stout
> and healthy looking/feeling and not all flabby.  His exact age isn't know, but
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>
> Anyone else in a similar situation?
 
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