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We have decided to stop breeding
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sheelagh - 01 Feb 2007 13:28 GMT Quote: Who says Usenet can't change minds? :)
After a few months of listening to other peoples point of view, & some of the stories that I have heard on here, I have taken the decision not to breed our Birmans or Ragdolls any more after our the birth of the litter we are expecting.
When I first came to this site, I thought that people were just being tight minded & unreasonable, & I justified our breeding by explaining that we use the money from breeding to help our community cats, spaying fee's, food , warmth and treatment.
I have thought about this for several months now, including the consequences of the lack of money to be able to do things that we do now for the strays that do come to us...but on reflection, I am fairly certain that having given up smoking, the money that I was getting for the kittens we breeding is more or less the same when you consider it carefully(over in the U.K, we pay a hell of a lot of tax on our Cigg's- around $7 a packet I think!!).
I spend so much of my life trying to get other people to spay & neuter, that it seem hypocritical of me to continue to breed Pedigree cats, doesn't it? Having bred them for around 3years, It is a big decision to make(not least because of the money that I have invested in it)... but I truly think it would be for the best. I see all of the cats as part of our family, not simply as breeding stock...
We may not have the same cash available in lump sum's anymore, but the proceeds of not smoking should help out a bit, & a few fund raising events will also help out if we need them from time to time.
I hope that I have made the right decision because I have the boys booked in for tommorow morning as well as 2 of the girls. All that remains now is to have the last female done after she has finished feeding her kittens. Once she has, then we will take her to be spayed too. My breeding days are over! S;o)
bookie - 01 Feb 2007 13:47 GMT > Quote: Who says Usenet can't change minds? :) > [quoted text clipped - 35 lines] > My breeding days are over! > S;o) OMG you sure? well done you! may your house be ever overrun with one-eyed, 3 legged, flea ridden, grumpy old strays who have all come in out of the cold to find love, food and warmth, what a wonderful thought, can't think of a better house to live in myself
anymore pictures on lucy(fur)? is she now just lucy now she has calmed down? Bookie
sheelagh - 01 Feb 2007 19:37 GMT > OMG > you sure? well done you! may your house be ever overrun with one-eyed, [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > > - Show quoted text - Absolutely certain. I have been considering it for a couple of months now, but had to think carefully because of the financial ramifications.
I honestly didn't realise how overcrowded the cat world is.
I guess over in the UK we don't think about these things so much because most of our Shelters have no kill policies, don't they?
I was so busy living in my personal space thinking of the good that I was doing for the local cat-community, that I didn't take the time to look at the wider issue here.
In ways I am a little sad about it because I loved what I did.
However, when it came to the weighing up which do you prefer bit?(IE: breeding kittens, or helping out our local flea-Bags, there isn't very much to consider really)...
I will miss some aspects of it, but on the whole, I know already which of the two gives me a better buzz.
Both Tazy & Biffy are booked in tomorrow morning to have the snip. (My poor vet thought I had taken leave of my senses & told me to reconsider -But there is nothing to reconsider.
The breeding cats have more than made their contribution, & I now feel that it is time to allow them to do what they would preferred than I would prefer.
That was part of the reason for my posting regarding "Can you train a Tom Cat not to pee everywhere?"
I had a friend asking me the same question & I wanted to know too? I would love to be able to bring our boys indoors, but if it isn't possible, we will have to try stud pants out I suppose. Either way, they are too precious friends to abandon now that they are coming into retirement.
You are spot on about the 3legged flea-Bags, with one eye & probably an entire colony of ticks & tape worms, & it would seem that I had better invest in a trap too as It seems that we sorely need one;I borrowed the last one that I used to trap Lucy(fur!).
Lucy(Fur!) has tuned out to be a wonderful delight. I am so pleased that some of you talked me out of homing her...I think Tilly, my daughter would have left home (aged 10!), had I gone through with it, lol:o) She sits in the front garden waiting for Tilly to come home from school every day & often tries to follow her there in the morning's think that Lucy(Fur!) has established the fact that she is now second in command;second only to Lilly, who believes she is a goddess, herself..Lilly is a seal point birman, but should have been born a 3legged dominant flea bag herself...
So one era ends, as another one begins I guess. Think of me tomorrow though... not for giving up breeding, just for the worry of them being knacked. I hate it when they have to go under anaesthetic:o(
Hope you like the updates, Lucy is lovely!! >"o"<
http://picasaweb.google.co.uk/sheelaghmadden/LucyFurUpDate
bookie - 01 Feb 2007 23:22 GMT > > OMG > > you sure? well done you! may your house be ever overrun with one-eyed, [quoted text clipped - 71 lines] > > http://picasaweb.google.co.uk/sheelaghmadden/LucyFurUpDate the first photo is the set of four (lucy on guard) is fantastic, you should send it into one of those photo competitions, the Cats protection league usually have one every year, not much to win apart form the joy of everyone being able to look at photos of your wonderful cat. She has lovely thick fur and is looking rather plumptious too, gorgeous bright eyes, she is a real beauty.
so wonderful to think she has found a loving home complete with devoted personal slave, one that she and every cat out there deserves.
bookie
sheelagh - 02 Feb 2007 03:57 GMT > the first photo is the set of four (lucy on guard) is fantastic, you > should send it into one of those photo competitions, the Cats > protection league usually have one every year, not much to win apart I keep thinking about it, but never get round to it- you know how it it? Brilliant intentions, yet when we get there, I forget to post it, or it simply never happenes,lol!! I have to be honest..A bit of paper from the CPL would mean more than any ribbon from the Gccf. I promise to make a better effort next year though...It would be the icing on the cake to see her in a calendar made by them, wouldn't it... when you consider that she was a spitting hissing little flea bag with collar stuck in her neck. Now she is a pretty little girl who knows every trick in the book when it comes to looking like pathetic little baby when the fridge door is open-Do Not Be Fooled by the little Minx, she is a dinosaur in disguise,lol.
Most of the fur has grown back now & she loooooves cups of tea, with 2sugars of course!!
> form the joy of everyone being able to look at photos of your > wonderful cat. She has lovely thick fur and is looking rather > plumptious too, gorgeous bright eyes, she is a real beauty. Very Plumptious, Big appealing green eye's with a mega appetite for salmon, sardines, mackerel, any type of meat & gravy too please:o)
> so wonderful to think she has found a loving home complete with > devoted personal slave, one that she and every cat out there deserves. "Slavesssssss's"..She has us all under her thumb & rules the world from the top of the fridge in the kitchen( where none of us can reach her...)
Her favourite game ( apart from chase the laser pen...), is the dying fly in dry mud baths, absolutely ruining her wonderful coat.
But does she care? Not a single hoot!! She just slinks upstairs and rubs it all off on Tilly's bed:o)
She has even found the cat nip plant in the garden & goes to crop it on a daily basis too.
She loves Tilly to bits and shares plenty of head rubs with her all of the time.
Strange really because none of the others could care less about it (Cat-Nip!!), but, she is addicted to it>"o"< S:o)
> bookie- Hide quoted text - > > - Show quoted text - MaryL - 02 Feb 2007 14:19 GMT >> OMG >> you sure? well done you! may your house be ever overrun with one-eyed, [quoted text clipped - 26 lines] > breeding kittens, or helping out our local flea-Bags, there isn't very > much to consider really)... <snip>
> Hope you like the updates, Lucy is lovely!! >"o"< > > http://picasaweb.google.co.uk/sheelaghmadden/LucyFurUpDate You have made a fantastic decision. It is tragic to think of the number of cats and kittens (and dogs) that are euthanized simply because of overpopulation. Every pet that is adopted from a shelter or rescue instead of purchased from a breeder helps in some measure to reduce the number of animals that are put to sleep, and every person who makes the decision to spay or neuter helps *enormously.*
Thank you!!
MaryL
sheelagh - 02 Feb 2007 14:51 GMT On 2 Feb, 14:19, "MaryL" <stanco...@yahoo.comTAKE-OUT-THE-LITTER> wrote:
> >> OMG > >> you sure? well done you! may your house be ever overrun with one-eyed, [quoted text clipped - 44 lines] > > - Show quoted text - Thank you Mary... I most certainly feel better about myself. This issue has been bothering my conscience for some time now, & today I acted upon it.
I found the photo that Phil posted utterly shocking, but about as real and raw as it comes. I am ever so grateful that he allowed me to reach my conclusion by myself, than showing it to me months ago.
I know that it has taken me some time to get to this point, but I did reach it in the end. I have just brought my boys home from the vets surgery 20 minutes ago.Tomorrow, I have to take 2 of my females into be done too... All very nerve wracking I assure you, but everyone as been very supportive here. I am expecting a litter of kittens at any moment, from my 3rd female, so she will be done once she finishes lactating her kittens. A very busy household today.. S;o)
Gail - 01 Feb 2007 13:57 GMT I know you made the right decision..... Gail
> Quote: Who says Usenet can't change minds? :) > [quoted text clipped - 35 lines] > My breeding days are over! > S;o) Pijewlchio - 01 Feb 2007 14:00 GMT > I know you made the right decision..... > Gail I think Sheelagh was sharing a quote. I could be wrong.
sheelagh - 01 Feb 2007 19:41 GMT > > I know you made the right decision..... > > Gail > > I think Sheelagh was sharing a quote. > I could be wrong. It was:o) I once remember reading it a little while back from a regular poster, & I thought it was "so True". I am pleased to have learnt from the experience though. It's OK to be wrong, as long as you put it right (I think??) S;o)
Phil P. - 01 Feb 2007 18:19 GMT > Quote: Who says Usenet can't change minds? :) > > After a few months of listening to other peoples point of view, & some > of the stories that I have heard on here, I have taken the decision > not to breed our Birmans or Ragdolls If you ever doubt you made the right decision, click on the link below.
 Signature Don't breed or buy while shelter cats die. http://maxshouse.com/heartache.JPG
bookie - 01 Feb 2007 18:44 GMT > > Quote: Who says Usenet can't change minds? :) > [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > Don't breed or buy while shelter cats die. > http://maxshouse.com/heartache.JPG you could have given us some warning of what we were going to see, that is just dreadful! where was that taken? out the back of a rescue shelter i assume, one where they kill unwanted animals after a certain time.
I feel so sad, what have any of these animals done to be treated like this and then have their little lives snuffed out, all any of them wanted was to have a safe home and a warm lap to curl up on and to give lots of love and friendship in return, I feel so pathetic and rubbish now
bookie
jedichica - 01 Feb 2007 20:34 GMT > > "sheelagh" <sheelagh_mad...@hotmail.co.uk> wrote in message > [quoted text clipped - 24 lines] > > bookie omg that picture!!!!!!!!!!! Do you have an article that goes along with it? wow........
sheelagh - 02 Feb 2007 03:16 GMT > > Quote: Who says Usenet can't change minds? :) > [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > Don't breed or buy while shelter cats die. > http://maxshouse.com/heartache.JPG Thank you for the photo Phil. I am ever so pleased that you did post it. If there was any doubt in my mind regarding giving up breeding, you put them to rest.
After looking at it several times, & allowing the children to view it too, it certainly put my mind into perspective.
I found it shocking & horrifying, & felt that I had to sit down & consider its content before posting again.
I wish that there was a bit more of this shock factor over here to be honest. Although I found it disturbing, it was abundantly clear that we don't see the full picture over here. Whether it is because we have quite a high no kill policy in the UK, or whether it is because they feel that the content is too disturbing, I am not sure - what was clear, was that it made both dogs and cats appear to be disposable, which is a terrible thought and an even worse sight.
At any time in the last few months, you could have landed that photo on me & I would have deserved it fully-Yet you chose not to, for which I truly am grateful.
You allowed me to draw my own conclusion from debate & simply honesty. It might have taken me a little while to reach this point, but even a blind a.s can see that I was a hypocrite.
I tried to justify selling pedigree cats, claiming that I was doing it in the name of helping our community cats, (which was/is truth, I was, but it doesn't retract from the fact that It hypocritical when you get down to brass tacks, does it?) Better to learn late, than never I guess, hey?
I might have less cash to help them, but I still feel that we have something to offer the local feline population, even if it is simply a night out of the cold, or shelter for mother cats and her kittens which may only need socializing before re homing them.
One big plus side to giving up breeding, is that I am going to have some free cat pens to put to use if we need them to house sick older cats, injured one's, or mother and kittens should they require them too . I have a very good vet, who never questions what I do (other than when she thinks I have taken leave of my senses, lol!!)... Who always treats our sick felines in their time of need, then allows me to settle my bill as soon as I am able to... & we have a wonderful society over here that helps the not so flush spay & neuter any cat that you bring to them at half the original cost. I only have to pay around $30 to do a male, & slightly higher for a female $40.Because I take quite a few of them to her, she gives me a bit of discount too which is helpful.
Educating the people is fundamental in cases such as my own. I was wondering - Do you have a web site at all? If so, I think that us newy's in the group might benefit from seeing it, if only to educate us about the truth of today's disposable society?
Looking at the photo that you posted was truly heart breaking & also frankly shocking too!!
It made my decision all the easier, but accumulating information when you are trying to embark on rescuing, is very hard to find, so If you could give any pointers, they would be more than appreciated please?
Any information would be helpful come to that, from all of you if you have the time to post it, or e-mailing, please? I know it is not going to be easy, but the most things that are worthwhile do take time and patience, don't they? I have one more litter of kittens to rear, and then all of my breeding days are over. It is far too late in the day to regret that now, so I shall allow her to have her kittens, and then take her to be spayed as soon as she is dry. Tomorrow, I am having the boys neutered, the following day the girls are going. I worry about the anaesthetic, but it is far less worrying than multiple litters.
Thanks for sharing the photo with us. However shocking it was, it was better to see the truth than talk about it in ignorance S
Rhonda - 01 Feb 2007 19:23 GMT Good work, Sheelagh! That's wonderful. There just aren't enough good homes for everyone so this will really help.
Rhonda
> Quote: Who says Usenet can't change minds? :) > > After a few months of listening to other peoples point of view, & some > of the stories that I have heard on here, I have taken the decision > not to breed our Birmans or Ragdolls any more after our the birth of > the litter we are expecting. jedichica - 01 Feb 2007 19:33 GMT > Good work, Sheelagh! That's wonderful. There just aren't enough good > homes for everyone so this will really help. [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > > not to breed our Birmans or Ragdolls any more after our the birth of > > the litter we are expecting. Congratulations! This is a hard decision to make, but you did make the right one, spread the word to other breeders you feel may be in need of advice! After seeing some of the sad posts on here, this makes me smile, you are a great *mom* congrats!
cybercat - 01 Feb 2007 20:31 GMT > Good work, Sheelagh! That's wonderful. There just aren't enough good homes > for everyone so this will really help. [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] >> not to breed our Birmans or Ragdolls any more after our the birth of >> the litter we are expecting. I am really happy to hear this, too.
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sheelagh - 02 Feb 2007 19:03 GMT > Good work, Sheelagh! That's wonderful. There just aren't enough good > homes for everyone so this will really help. [quoted text clipped - 5 lines] > > > After a few months of listening to other peoples point of view, & some -
> Good work, Sheelagh! That's wonderful. There just aren't enough good > homes for everyone so this will really help. I hope so.
My stud cats were neutered today, & my queens are due to be spayed tomorrow..all except one who is due kittens any moment now. It wasn't an impulsive decision.I have devoted a hell of a lot of thought towards it, not least because it was my livelihood!!
It was a big decision to make, but I don't regret it at all. In the UK, I am able/allowed to be unemployed whilst my kids still attend school, so it would make sense to combine my passion with some schooling whilst I can, because it would government funded. As long as I can make a case that I want to do the education to enter gainful employment at the end of it, then I get eduction funded for me. It makes sense to use the time I have left, to do something useful, because I am more than just a mother, & I have a life to live after my kids finish their schooling & leave home
In a way, the skills that I learnt as a breeder are simply a prelude to my new career as a rescuer. I would say that on average, I am brought around 8 mothers & litters a year, so those skills won't be wasted. I have so much more to learn, but I look forward to the challenge....
I have also been doing my homework & found out that there is a course that I can get on to fairly near by, in Cambridge(UK), as an Animal technician.
The first year is devoted to animal husbandry in general, then in the 2nd year, you get to choose a specific species to concentrate on from there . However, in this instance I would be accepted with a reference from my previous employer & also a reference from the shelter that I work for too. I would also be required to study English, Maths, & Biology to Gcse standard(leaving school equivalent exams@ year 11) in the first year also.
It is a lot to think about, but I would like to do it. I have no illusions about how hard it would be, & I wouldn't be able to start until September of this year either.
It gives me the chance to think about whether I could cope with the work load & also whether I could dedicate myself to so much study too.If I do go for it, then I think that I would get all the family support that I would need...
OTH,If I decide that it is too much, then I will just go as far as the shorter course in husbandry for 2 years. It would be enough to allow me to become a veterinary nurse or some other job within the same industry..
I couldn't really ask for a better job.It would combine a career with my hobby too, & be a job that I could walk straight into as soon as I want to after completion.
I have had a mixed response from fellow breeders.Some think I am mad, others are supportive..But in the end, it is what I think that matters, & I think I have made the right decision here. I copied and pasted the link photo that Phil posted on here, regarding not enough room in the world for so many cats, & I had a really interesting result..
Mostly I got got good feed back, but a few people thought that I was trying to emotionally blackmail them?!!! I didn't do it for that reason at all, I did it to show them that what we were doing was wrong. As they say, you live, and you learn. Plenty to think about, hey?
Thanks for the support S;o)
Pijewlchio - 02 Feb 2007 23:38 GMT >it was my livelihood!! Oh, I'm sorry. But good for you about your gov't helping you out.
> I have a life to live > after my kids finish their schooling & leave home that's the plan anyway right!
> In a way, the skills that I learnt as a breeder are simply a prelude > to my new career as a rescuer. Swell. The perfect little socialite! Homeschools her children, rescues animals and plans to have a life after the kids are gone.
> I have also been doing my homework & found out that there is a course > that I can get on to fairly near by, in Cambridge(UK), as an Animal > technician. Sweet
<snip snip>
Excellent! September will be here in no time at all. I hope the gov't check will be enough for you and yours to live comfortable.
I think it's FANTASTIC.
Tell me if you care to, when you was a little girl, what did you always want to be or do in life? Just curios.
You sold kittens for a living, I find that very industrious. I hope your new activities are as satisfying.
sheelagh - 03 Feb 2007 01:46 GMT > >it was my livelihood!! Yes, It was my prime source of income....
> Oh, I'm sorry. But good for you about your govt helping you out. Sorry for what? It doesn't sound like it.....(or feel like it!)
> > I have a life to live > > after my kids finish their schooling & leave home > > that's the plan anyway right! Is it so wrong to want to plough a little back in to the system that helped me when I needed it most? I never aked for my current home situation..but you wouldn't know that, because you don't know me, do you?
It is.I believe that there is more to life than being a mother and a carer.
> > In a way, the skills that I learnt as a breeder are simply a prelude > > to my new career as a rescuer. > > Swell. The perfect little socialite! Home schools her children, rescues > animals and plans to have a life after the kids are gone. What precipitated this comment? My kids go to school like any other kids... One of them is @ University now & I couldn't be more proud of her if I tried!!
I don't believe I have said anything to you to deserve that one, have I? Socialite......? You certainly know how to put the boot in!!
> > I have also been doing my homework & found out that there is a course > > that I can get on to fairly near by, in Cambridge(UK), as an Animal > > technician. > > Sweet What is sweet?
> <snip snip> > > Excellent! September will be here in no time at all. > I hope the govt check will be enough for you and yours to live comfortable. I doubt that BIG TIME...but I would be a fool not to take up a good offer when I see it. I "need the eduction", & they need me off welfare.Simple!
> I think it's FANTASTIC. It Certainly doesn't feel that way. In fact it sounds more than derogatory.
I find it interesting that you are the only person on this posting that has been hurtful, small minded, unkind, & has tried to make me feel bad about myself. Many people on this site have had the chance to belittle me for my faults, & taking so long to reach my conclusion, yet you are the only person to go ahead and do it. Why is that?
LMAO, I wish I thought so...The benefit is a pittance, but it beats sitting home 24/7. I get around $60 a week for caring for someone who is disabled-my partner. As you might have already guessed, I do it for the *love of it*, not the bloody money.
Breeding isn't the be all and end all..it was because I loved the cats & it helped out financially sometimes...
I think we can all say that we have made the wrong decisions in life somewhere along the line ~Mine was breeding cats. We don't have the same kill policies in the UK that you seem to have in the states, so I only became aware of the problem through this group
> Tell me if you care to, when you was a little girl, what did you always want > to be or do in life? > Just curios. An air craft pilot... My mother hated cats...
> You sold kittens for a living, I find that very industrious. > I hope your new activities are as satisfying. I can feel the bad vibes here....
Have I done something to offend you at all?
Having just welcomed you to the group, I'm having a little trouble understanding the sarcasm here?
Is it so wrong to want to better yourself? I wasn't educated as a child, so didn't have the luxury of most of the things that you take for granted perhaps? Maybe you find what I did distasteful?
Have you never made mistakes?
Tell me,If you care to tell me? What made you feel that you had the right to walk into the group & make me feel bad about myself?
Just curious why did you got annoyed about both Big Barry & me too<straight off too> In one of your first postings too? I found that interesting! Not a single other person has done that to me. Read every single other comment on this posting, please do.. you will note that mot one of them is anything like yours is, is it?
Pijewlchio - 03 Feb 2007 02:28 GMT :/= (that's me making buck teeth at you) <snip>
Oh suckers!
Git back in there and read it again...
this time, imagine the kindest person you will ever know saying these things to you. Imagine it is you saying this to someone you care about, or a freind.
YOU MIGHT EVEN GET THE IDEA THAT I GET FOOD ALLOTMENT FROM MY OWN GOVERNMENT <ahem>
Yule see.. I am no brute. "No beast so fierce but knows some touch of pity. But I know none, and therefore I am no beast."
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sheelagh - 03 Feb 2007 17:35 GMT > :/= (that's me making buck teeth at you) > > <snip> > > Oh suckers! <Sheela looks at it sadly & nods her head in agreement>
> Git back in there and read it again... <Sheela reads it, & feels even more guilty>
> this time, imagine the kindest person you will ever know saying these things > to you. > Imagine it is you saying this to someone you care about, or a friend. <Sheela thinks to herself, wow, how did you get this one so WRONG...How could you have thought this was a Troll Attack???>
I did, & I felt like something that gets stuck on the bottom of your shoe when you don't look where your walking....Sheela also deserves to feel that way for a very good reason..SHEELAGH WAS WRONG.....
You are very compassionate & I thank you for that..I don't deserve it, but thanks all the same. I am grateful you know...
> YOU MIGHT EVEN GET THE IDEA THAT I GET FOOD ALLOTMENT FROM MY OWN GOVERNMENT > <ahem> You have my most sincere apology.
I get out of my pram and scream when I think that the Troll attack is on. I was so wrong for thinking that & even my most sincere apology falls short of what I offer you. Don't you dare feel bad for being on welfare. Does anyone presumed to think that anyone would "choose to be on welfare"? If they do, then they are barking mad (get it..?No, I know , it's not funny)
> Yule see.. I am no brute. I do...I cant believe I thought it was the troll attack <sheela blushes at the very thought of it all>
> "No beast so fierce but knows some touch of pity. But I know none, and > therefore I am no beast." I know that now. One day I hope to make up my assumption too P. As you will probably have already read Ping Sheelagh, I don't want to keep repeating myself.. But know this. I honestly thought it was the troll attack. Stick around long enough & it will rear it's ugly head. Then you will understand why I got so het up. I am giving you the best apology I can & the world knows its true. As we would say over this side of the pond, Soz mate, it truly unintentional:o( I was wrong & I am sorry for it S.
Pijewlchio - 04 Feb 2007 01:02 GMT Soz mate, it truly
> unintentional:o( I understand, it's ok, and don't feel bad. Who HASN'T been misunderstood before.
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sheelagh - 04 Feb 2007 02:26 GMT > Soz mate, it truly > [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > > P Thank you very much..It was very gerenerous of you to see that It was unintentional. I feel a right tit now,lol!! Anyway,,, the brilliant news is that I am a grandma once again right now too. My Blue belle has just had 2kittens so far, all little blind white mice.. I'm so proud of mummy:o)
bookie - 03 Feb 2007 02:41 GMT > > "Sheelagh" <sheelagh_mad...@hotmail.co.uk> wrote in message > [quoted text clipped - 119 lines] > Read every single other comment on this posting, please do.. > you will note that mot one of them is anything like yours is, is it? my original post was not put up, my computer crashed, but basically have you not thought that this person is an american and therefore may not have any idea about sarcasm? remember yanks don't do or understand sarcasm, unlike us brits, so he/she may have been meaning entirely what they said.
anyway i am interested in this animal technicians course , where is it being run exactly? at the uni or at the polytechnic (called APU now I think, they keep renaming it)
also, if you are strapped for cash you could always do some cat sitting for people when they go away on holiday, just a thought.
bookie
Pijewlchio - 03 Feb 2007 02:58 GMT > my original post was not put up, my computer crashed, but basically > have you not thought that this person is an american and therefore may > not have any idea about sarcasm? remember yanks don't do or understand > sarcasm, unlike us brits, so he/she may have been meaning entirely > what they said. I live in the dirty south.
You seem very practical and grounded bookie like.. you make a nice friend.
How are you doing? what do you do most of the day? forgive me for being overly familiar
I've always told myself I would make a good interviewer. See how I brought all of that out of Sheelagh. She never told us she was on welfare, but now everybody knows
AND EVERYBODY KNOWS IM HERE I AM....in the house
under your bed in your head
Jesus take the wheel - 03 Feb 2007 05:50 GMT > also, if you are strapped for cash you could always do some cat > sitting for people when they go away on holiday, just a thought. > > bookie And, who cares what people think of others, right
it is a privilege to be ourselves.
If someone for example thinks bad of someone getting some sort of gov't aide... then those people aren't worth a minute of thought, they are the ones who do not count. not trying to be mean, but what a joy to be ourselves.. to love ourselves.
I wish Sheelagh the most! I hope she knows this.
It's exciting to see someone so aggressively constructing their life. and there's no judgment.
The only ones that count, are the ones living in the real world. Not those who have their heads in the sand or .. well.. you know what I mean.
aaahhh
I feel better.
sheelagh - 03 Feb 2007 19:03 GMT > > also, if you are strapped for cash you could always do some cat > > sitting for people when they go away on holiday, just a thought. > > > bookie > > And, who cares what people think of others, right It depends on who the person in question is really, don't you think, huh?
> it is a privilege to be ourselves. This particular statement is true.If you can't learn to love yourself, how do you expect others to love you too? I am learning this one right now, as you can see<sheela is feeling very ashamed today for thinking the troll had got through the fill file>
> If someone for example thinks bad of someone getting some sort of > gov't aide... > then those people aren't worth a minute of thought, they are the ones > who do not count. > not trying to be mean, but what a joy to be ourselves.. to love > ourselves. <Sheelagh is grinning @ this one>
> I wish Sheelagh the most! I hope she knows this. <more laughing>
> It's exciting to see someone so aggressively constructing their life. > and there's no judgment. I know that mate..We are here through circumstance, not choice(in the world I mean-not Google,lol)...& If I don't grab the bull by the horns, then there is only going to be a Granny career future for me out there.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a Granny..actually I look forward to that bit...later,lol. But I would like to think that there is something else out there for me, other than being Granny, for Sheelagh.I want a job, or even a simple career choice...
> The only ones that count, are the ones living in the real world. > Not those who have their heads in the sand or .. well.. you know what > I mean. I understand all of it lol:o)
> aaahhh > > I feel better. LMAO:o) You always make me laugh..
& let me think back, how did I meet you? That was another time I allowed my great big gob to run away with me too, wasn't it? Sometimes I find that the best friends are made through the greatest of debates.
I used to think I was better than I really am,..Then I found who I really was & that I had a whole lot to learn, & then a bit more too.
I have learnt to read & write in the last decade, so who knows what I am going to learn or achieve in the next decade?
(Lets hope it is learning not to be presumptuous, more humility & controlling the tongue when I should do, eh?)... It just goes to show you how a troll can make you feel:o(
Oh those snuggly kittens Bear!!
I have the big white soft barrel of a mummy sitting right next to me now (Blue~Belle).
Her kittens are due any time now.She is on day 63 of her pregnancy, so we can expect them anytime now. You have to talk me out of keeping any of them you know!! I so want to keep 1 of them, but I already have 7cats here full time, not including the part time ones who visit the community bowl or shelter on the colder nights..
Who am I to tell you that you don't need any more cats? That's why I haven't would love you to keep Goliath -Tabby - kins...just don't allow him to keep an unhealthy interest in MOMA,K? S;o)
<Bigger Smile now than when I signed in>
& genuine apologies to anyone I might have offended...I am an emotional person;too emotional @ times S;o)
bookie - 03 Feb 2007 19:59 GMT > > > also, if you are strapped for cash you could always do some cat > > > sitting for people when they go away on holiday, just a thought. [quoted text clipped - 88 lines] > emotional person;too emotional @ times > S;o) i don't think anyone was offended, more surprised by your enraged outburst. It is not humility or anything like that you need to learn, more need to learn not to see evil and malicious intent in every posting, be less suspicious about other people, particularly these yanks who are essentially simple souls who do not get sarcasm and probably wouldn't know how to be sarky if their lives depended on it
toodle pip, bookie
Annie Wxill - 03 Feb 2007 20:30 GMT .... .. be less suspicious about other people, particularly these yanks who are essentially simple souls who do not get sarcasm and probably wouldn't know how to be sarky if their lives depended on it
> toodle pip, bookie Hi Bookie,
This yank had to chuckle at your description of us.
I agree that we have a large number of dense people in the U.S. But, some of us do appreciate a dry sense of humor (oops, I think I meant humour).
Annie
sheelagh - 04 Feb 2007 03:48 GMT > .... .. be less suspicious about other people, particularly these yanks who > are essentially simple souls who do not get sarcasm and probably wouldn't [quoted text clipped - 5 lines] > > This yank had to chuckle at your description of us. Thank goodness that every one doesn't think that we are barking mad,lol!!!
> I agree that we have a large number of dense people in the U.S. But, some > of us do appreciate a dry sense of humor (oops, I think I meant humour). I don't even think that we notice that we are doing it sometimes you know.. It is so normal, that it is like water off a ducks back really, even when it is unintentional. I shall just have to be a bit more considerate from now on, & question it twice before flying off on one. Bookie is right, not everyone is a troll & it is up to me to weigh up wich one's are, & which ones arn't genuine I suppose?
S;o)
sheelagh - 04 Feb 2007 03:20 GMT > i don't think anyone was offended, more surprised by your enraged > outburst. It is not humility or anything like that you need to learn, > outburst. It is not humility or anything like that you need to learn, Your right of course. I was bouncing off the walls because I though that dreaded Troll had managed to slip through my fire wall, bouncing defences by changing it's name once again, & was trying to have another bop at me.. the very thought of it was enough to unhinge me Bookie;He really is the Troll from Hell-It's that Bunny skinning thingy bob....
> more need to learn not to see evil and malicious intent in every > posting, be less suspicious about other people, particularly these > yanks who are essentially simple souls who do not get sarcasm and > probably wouldn't know how to be sarky if their lives depended on it Unfortunately, this particular troll invented sarcasm, believe me?!!!! And I offended a very nice person who didn't realise what hit her when I went off on one.. Still, your right. You live and learn when faced with these obnoxious idiots..I will just have to rein in & think twice before biting at the maggot@ 1st opportunity, won't I? Lesson learnt the hard way I suppose... By the way, I am a grandma for the last time in my own right. My last litter is being born right now. Blue-Belle is up to her 3rd kitten so far. She came and called me @ 1.45 am to tell me that it was time to hold her paw whilst she did the hard work. I have very mixed emotions right now. I intend to enjoy her babes in this litter because I will miss the kitten bit with my queens, but on the other hand, after seeing that shocking frightful photo that Phil posted, I don't have any regrets about it;I will still have abandoned ones to care for, & unwanted mothers and litters too..so not the end, rather a new beginning.... I had better go back & check that every thing is OK in the apple box then, Pip, Sheelagh
> toodle pip, bookie- Hide quoted text - > > - Show quoted text - sheelagh - 03 Feb 2007 18:24 GMT > > > "Sheelagh" <sheelagh_mad...@hotmail.co.uk> wrote in message > [quoted text clipped - 125 lines] > sarcasm, unlike us Brits, so he/she may have been meaning entirely > what they said. You were spot on Bookie..I was utterly wrong.
Unfortunately, I thought it was the Troll-Attack, posting under a different name. It wouldn't be the first time that It has done it to me.
Nevertheless, I feel terrible about it & have made my apologies to P. I am very grateful for your input explaining out Brit interpretation of Brit sarcasm didn't intend to make a personal attack on anyone for no reason @ all..I thought it was the troll:o(
> anyway i am interested in this animal technicians course , where is it > being run exactly? at the uni or at the polytechnic (called APU now I > think, they keep renaming it) The course I was telling you about is run @Huntingdon Regional college. I don't know if they run at all colleges, but they have been running it here for years. There is a rather large uptake on this course in this area because there are a couple of breeding firms in the area, as well as research centre nearby too.
So they send all of their animal technicians to do day release on the course, as well as their normal duties at work.I think that they fund them to do it..but I am not sure. I know that all of the ones that pass the initial course, are offered the chance to do a degree in it through polytechnic, then on to do post graduate if they wish to.. but I don't know which Universities do that course. All I know are the basics, because I have only enquired about the course once. They had an open day there recently, so I got off my laurels and went and had a look , because I was taking Ross to have a look at their Electrical engineering course. I figured as I was walking around doing nothing in particular, that I might as well have a look round to see if they did anything that was of interest to me too. It worked out quite well in the end. Ross was told that he would be accepted as long as he reaches his predicted grades, & they interviewed me on the spot for Gcse's as well as for the animal technicians course - & I was offered a placement as well:o) That brought a big grin to my face, I can tell you!! It was an enormous boost for the ego, because i didn't think that they would accept me.
As long as I can work it under the 21 hour rule & work out cover for Paul whilst I study, then I am going to accept the placement (working under the 21 hour rule means, as long as I don't study for more than 21 hours @ college's & schools, then I remain on the benefits I get. If I go over the 21 hour rule, then I would be classed as a student & paid accordingly too.So trying to ensure that I don't go over it.
> also, if you are strapped for cash you could always do some cat > sitting for people when they go away on holiday, just a thought. Very good thought & idea. I already do it for a few friends, but If I were to take on any more than just friends cat's, then I think I have to apply for a licence to do it from the local council I believe?!
I understand why, because some places really are dodgy. I will think on it though because I do have the amenities to do it. I will look into it too & let you know the outcome because it is a very good idea:o) S;o)
> bookie- Hide quoted text - > > - Show quoted text - bookie - 03 Feb 2007 20:13 GMT > The course I was telling you about is run @Huntingdon Regional > college. I don't know if they run at all colleges, but they have been > running it here for years. > There is a rather large uptake on this course in this area because > there are a couple of breeding firms in the area, as well as research > centre nearby too. mmmm, yes, huntingdon life sciences, I am well aware of it, I hope they have stopped doing nasty things to beagle puppies and other defenceless small creatures, that place is notorious. As long as you are aware that animal technicians work in these research places then ok, they don;t all end up in nice fluffy jobs you know
> So they send all of their animal technicians to do day release on the > course, as well as their normal duties at work.I think that they fund [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > post graduate if they wish to.. but I don't know which Universities do > that course. royal college of agriculture in cirencester? they prob will, wye college which is part fo the uni of london? go to the UCAS website and have a look, they will probably list any institutions which offer a degree course in it. If I find anything i will passit on.
a long shot but you could check out the vet school at cambridge, they normally just offer the main veterinary science degree for people wanting to train for 6 years to become vets, but there may be possibility of working there too during your course and gettign valuable work experience. Certainly the university is constantly looking for animla technicians if you can do that work. go to www.cam.ac.uk and look up the links to the vet school. also college of West Anglia (has bits of it dotted around cambridgeshire such as kings lynn etc) dont; knwo the website but do a google search and you shoudl find info. They do all sorts of agriculture related courses which involve animal care.
where are you based? I thought you were in peterborough? i knwo the area quite well so would probably know where you were even if it is some teeny tiny village inthe middle of nowhere (which cambridgeshire seems to specialise in, teeny tiny villages miles form anywhere, untouched by the march of time. Now March, there's a scary place, everyone has to be inbred there, no other explanation for why they all look so weird )
toodle bookie
sheelagh - 04 Feb 2007 11:58 GMT > mmmm, yes, huntingdon life sciences, I am well aware of it, I hope > they have stopped doing nasty things to beagle puppies and other > defenceless small creatures, that place is notorious. As long as you > are aware that animal technicians work in these research places then > OK, they don;t all end up in nice fluffy jobs you know Yes, I am aware of the place, but would rather not be tarred and feathered with the same brush as they are. Mind you some of the protesters are no better either. Around the corner, they decided to blow up someones car with a time release home made explosive, & blew the car to pieces & ripped the front door out too!!!There was only the chaps wife and their kids in the house at the time...
Please don't for one moment think that I advocate what goes on @ the Life Sciences, but I just feel that there are 2sides to the story & both are fairy ugly
> > So they send all of their animal technicians to do day release on the > > course, as well as their normal duties at work.I think that they fund [quoted text clipped - 8 lines] > have a look, they will probably list any institutions which offer a > degree course in it. If I find anything i will pass it on. I am not sure Booie, I didn't go that far into it.I was thinking of the home office licence to care for animals more than anything else. As you say, there are far better jobs than working @ that dump. If I do end up working with animals, then I intend to make sure that it is a decent job that I am not frightened of telling anyone about....
> a long shot but you could check out the vet school at Cambridge, they > normally just offer the main veterinary science degree for people [quoted text clipped - 6 lines] > google search and you shoudl find info. They do all sorts of > agriculture related courses which involve animal care. Thank you Bookie, I appreciate the link & all of the info too. It will be very helpful & I will look into it & get back to you on what I find & let you know all about it...
> where are you based? I thought you were in peterborough? i knwo the > area quite well so would probably know where you were even if it is [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > everyone has to be inbred there, no other explanation for why they all > look so weird ) LOL, You do know your geography very well then?!!!
I agree with you Re: March
<sheela is giggling to herself about that one because its not only funny, but very true too>
You forgot to mention the Prison category A style one in March too , where all of the current famous mass murders are housed, including Denise Nielsen, & a few other ones too... What a weird bunch they are!! (Not sure if the soham murderer is in there currently or not-but he was in there- Ian Huntly?)
I live in a village in between P'Boro & Huntingdon..one of those blink and miss it villages bang in the middle.
I said Peterborough because I didn't think you would have heard of Huntingdon lol!!
> area quite well so would probably know where you were even if it is > some teeny tiny village in the middle of nowhere (which cambridgeshire > seems to specialise in, teeny tiny villages miles form anywhere, > untouched by the march of time It is Sawtry. & I moved here when I was 15, so I am not to be included in any of the list of inbred families lol...
Thanks again Bookie Sheelagh ;o) Ps: I am a catz Grany once more today.. Belle had 4 kittens last night..They all look fairly good so far too
http://picasaweb.google.co.uk/sheelaghmadden/BelleAfter4thLiter S;o)
Lynne - 01 Feb 2007 23:59 GMT on Thu, 01 Feb 2007 13:28:59 GMT, "sheelagh"
> After a few months of listening to other peoples point of view, & some > of the stories that I have heard on here, I have taken the decision > not to breed our Birmans or Ragdolls any more after our the birth of > the litter we are expecting. Sheelagh, I think you have made a very difficult and very respectable decision. I'm impressed!
I hope your kitties fare well with thier surgeries. I know how nerve wracking it will be!! Let us know.
Levi is a bundle of energy today, but I've kept him away from Rudy and from my dog, just because I know they will be licking his incisions and I want to give them time to heal a bit. He's eating and drinking well without vomiting. (I just hope he poops soon.) So far no sign of a herpes outbreak, either, which is super! I hope your kitties have equally good outcomes.
 Signature Lynne
sheelagh - 02 Feb 2007 14:36 GMT > on Thu, 01 Feb 2007 13:28:59 GMT, "Sheelagh" > [quoted text clipped - 18 lines] > -- > Lynne Thank you Rhonda, Cyber,Jedichica, &Lynne-In fact all of you... I appreciated your sentiment & words of encouragement
I've just picked both boys up from the vets & they are awake, but not very energetic as yet..but like fine other than that.
My vet has used surgical glue to close them up. No going back now, but I don't regret it for one moment.. Both of the boys are indoors until I feel satisfied that they have peed , opened their bowels, & are drinking and eating too...
I am now also watching my mother Ragdoll like a hawk because she has been in & out of her birthing box all morning. Her kittens are due today, so I am hoping that she has them.(Belle)
I'm sitting here nibbling my finger nails.. This is a little bit too much excitment for me,lol
What an eventful day it will have been if she does! S;o)
Jesus take the wheel - 03 Feb 2007 13:17 GMT > My breeding days are over! > S;o) Morning.
So you have one nest of kittens left? cool.
Say... How are them new boys doing? Do they seem indifferent towards you? Probably not. Hope they heal real nice.. Im sure they already are.
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Im just chatty this morning.
I woke up and baby boy was curled around my head.
THEN.. I moved a little and realized they were all piled around my head. snuggle snuggle.
-- FUNNIEST THING
Im standing in the studio (http://happystance.googlepages.com/home a little song I wrote and recorded here in this shanty)... I hear one kitten raising hell... I go over to their little gate.. and pick the kitten up.. but it keeps crying. OH YOUR'E HUNGRY I SAY...
They have food.. but I look at Jupiter (who is in the studio).. the minute I look at her.. she trots off to the kitchen, whilst looking over her shoulder at me.. like.. "hell no! that's enough! Im sore!.. or something like that"
I say.. "OH NO YOU DONT" I chase her around the kitchen furniture telling her..."ok now, them babies want you".. lol.. I put her back over the gate... and the kitten immediately starts looking for ninny...
so funny.. She knew that's what it wanted.. but she was tired I gues.. so cute.
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