I have a one year old male who has always been a little boystrous!! He has
been going in other neibours houses via their flaps!! One in particular, who
started feeding him he gets aggressive with her especially when her male is
around, I have told her to just throw water over him but he seems to keep
going back for more (I don't think she is been forcefull enough), anyway he
has been fighting with him!! and she now says he is urinating and stooling
in her house (which I find hard to believe as he deffinetly does not do this
in mine!!)

He came back last night with a little cut near his eye! He seems to be ok
apart form that, he was a little bit more aggressive with me than usual
aswell and was still quiet aggressive with me this morning!! Maybe it was
because I was stroking him on his head (as that is the only place he will
let me stroke him for any period of time) and maybe it was still a bit
tender?

Any tips on how to calm him down? I was hoping he would calm down as he got
a bit older!

Thanks
Jamie