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Cat Forum / Health and Behavior / April 2006cats suddenly ignoring me
why would they do that? 2 brothers, a year old....I always do the feeding, 1st one up...I have chronic insomnia and they used to keep me company, every time I was on the computer one of them was on my lap....they won't even play with me worse thing I've ever done to Moe & Rudy is use a squirt gun on them but so has hubby, Moe cringes now when I go to pet him...Rudy used to love to snuggle with me and rub his face against mine...no more they aren't this way w/my hubby I had Sam cat for 15 yrs, Rick (hubby) loved her but only had been with her for 5 of those yrs, he started pushing for another cat about 7 months after her death...He tells me I should be over her by now I do love Moe & Rudy, it's just not up to what it was with Sam, yet......think it's me giving off bad vibes? but we've had them for 5 months now and they just started this a week ago I still make every effort with them; give them cat treats, try just talking to them, I'm not a loud person always sweet talk them and when they eat I can get a few pets in I get a toy, they like interactive toys and try playing with them, no go...they drag it with their mouths over to Rick Why this sudden change? Any idea's? ensoul > why would they do that? > Why this sudden change? Did you mention weather? Cats enjoy a warm body when it's cold, they seem more aloof when it's warm. Good luck. > why would they do that? 2 brothers, a year old....I always do the > feeding, 1st one up...I have chronic insomnia and they used to keep me [quoted text clipped - 27 lines] > > ensoul Anything changed in the household? ...anything at all? > ensoul hate to offer this, but you're too needy they have capacities just "pretend" you don't care if they visit or not they'll be back :) > why would they do that? 2 brothers, a year old....I always do the sheeeet better still, go into the highways and the biways, and bring in the hungry the naked and the poor cats they will suffocate you with love FREIGHT TRANE JONES!!!! ON THE SCENE > why would they do that? Pick up the telephone and call someone, or ... Go sit on the toilet. They will flock to you. > Pick up the telephone and call someone, or ... > > Go sit on the toilet. > > They will flock to you. lol > > Pick up the telephone and call someone, or ... > > [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > > lol My baby Gracie kisses my toes while I am seated on the Porcelain Throne. :) Little kitty licks that tell me that I am the Queen of her Heart, the opener of the cat food, the cleaner of the cat box. On the toilet, I have the Power! > My baby Gracie kisses my toes while I am seated on > the Porcelain Throne. :) Little kitty licks that tell me > that I am the Queen of her Heart, the opener of the cat > food, the cleaner of the cat box. On the toilet, I have > the Power! that ol black magic > > My baby Gracie kisses my toes while I am seated on > > the Porcelain Throne. :) Little kitty licks that tell me [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > > that ol black magic heh. I think I need a scepter and a crown. Maybe an ermine cape. >> why would they do that? > [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > > They will flock to you. I shut the door. My cat howls while sitting outside the door. I let her in, then in a few minutes she is howling to get out. I understand why. :-D The posters haven't read all of your letter. Cats being busy and ignoring you is one thing but cringing when you near them is something else. You wrote that Moe cringes when you go to pet him. When you squirted the cats were you very mad at something they did? Maybe your anger has upset them. I don't think squirting, alone, would do it. -- Barb Of course I don't look busy, I did it right the first time. > why would they do that? 2 brothers, a year old....I always do the > feeding, 1st one up...I have chronic insomnia and they used to keep me [quoted text clipped - 27 lines] > > ensoul It's all in your mind. Seek professional help. That's my advice.. I'd play with them more often, not doing what I want but what THEY want, what THEY like! Before feeding call them and pet them! They DO care about those who feed them! So, don't just feed them, use the feeding to make a connection with your kitties. > It's all in your mind. Seek professional help. That's my advice.. Oh, and speaking of being ignored.... I should add that "professional help" did me little good. I'm 52 years old, unemployed, a drunk, and live in my mother's trailer. I still have uncontrolled rage, molest my cat, post under numerous juvenile nicknames, and have sexual fantasies about the cute guys in Brokeback Mountain. In short, I'm a Loser with a capitol "L". Someone put me out of my misery. Please. IBen >> It's all in your mind. Seek professional help. That's my advice.. > [quoted text clipped - 12 lines] > >IBen Sounds like Jon Young to me. lastratstanding wrote: > >> It's all in your mind. Seek professional help. That's my advice.. > > [quoted text clipped - 14 lines] > > Sounds like me. So kill yourself and be done with it, Rattie! And quit molesting your son, sicko!  Signature---------- J Young youngopinions@aol.com >lastratstanding wrote: >> [quoted text clipped - 18 lines] > >So kill yourself and be done with it, Rattie! Post edit noted. >And quit molesting your son, sicko! Still ranting some serious stuff there. Let's see you back this up. Or do you want to be known as Jon Young...Psot editing,Lying,stalking,obsessed fool? < expect jons fingers to be tapping some "witty" edit here > |
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