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B Keene - 14 Mar 2004 17:49 GMT
Being a two cat family for the past 17 years, we has to put our oldest cat
down ( after a long and giving life). Too fill the empty space, we adopted a
3 year old from the local SPCA.
This really stressed out our 12 year old female, to the point that she
wouldn't come out or eat. After one week we had to return the new cat,
hoping this would return things to normal......5 days later still no change,
still staying alone and not eating much ( also seems to be swallowing
frequently  which is a new behaviour for her.)

Any advice would be greatly appreciated
MaryL - 14 Mar 2004 18:05 GMT
> Being a two cat family for the past 17 years, we has to put our oldest cat
> down ( after a long and giving life). Too fill the empty space, we adopted a
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>
> Any advice would be greatly appreciated

You tried to introduce the cats *much* too quickly.  If you ever decide to
adopt another cat, please ask for advice here first.  There is a lot of
material available on how to successfully bring a new cat into the
household, but it takes time and patience -- you cannot simply put the two
cats together and expect it to work.

As to your current problem, I do think you should consult a vet.  My guess
is that your cat is still undergoing stress induced by being confronted with
the new cat (and possibly the loss of the former companion cat).  Frequent
swallowing can be a sign of stress, but it is important *first* to rule out
any medical problems because there are a variety health-related issues that
can be related to this sympton.

Also:  Buy several feliway plug-in diffusers and position them around the
house.  Feliway is used for behavior modification and can be very useful in
reducing stress. It is available in plug-in diffusers (with refills
available) and as a spray. I used the plug-ins when I brought a new cat into
my household and wanted to introduce him to my resident cat. The spray is
excellent for an occasional use, such as spraying the carrier about 20
minutes before you take your cat to the vet, but the plug-in diffuser is
better for long-term use because it releases premeasured doses. Refills can
be purchased for the dispenser. One bottle lasts a little more than a month.
I bought mine from ValleyVet (www.valleyvet.com). The last time I checked,
the diffuser plus one bottle of feliway sold for $24.95 ; the refill was
$14.95; and feliway spray was $15.95. Shipping is free. Be careful *not* to
order Feliway with D.A.P. because that formulation is for dogs.  I have also
seen references to www.petguys.com.  They had the plug-in dispenser and one
bottle on sale for $20.99 (but I haven't checked their site recently).

MaryL
(take out the litter to reply)

Photos of Duffy and Holly:      >'o'<
http://tinyurl.com/8y54 (Introducing Duffy to Holly)
http://tinyurl.com/8y56 (Duffy and Holly "settle in")
---MIKE--- - 15 Mar 2004 01:04 GMT
The "free" shipping is deceptive.  On orders under $50 there is a $5.00
"packing" charge.

                 -MIKE
MaryL - 15 Mar 2004 02:32 GMT
> The "free" shipping is deceptive.  On orders under $50 there is a $5.00
> "packing" charge.
>
>                   -MIKE

It has been awhile since I bought mine, but I just checked the inventory --
and there was no packing charge.

MaryL
MaryL - 15 Mar 2004 02:34 GMT
> > The "free" shipping is deceptive.  On orders under $50 there is a $5.00
> > "packing" charge.
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>
> MaryL

Uh, oh, I responded too quickly.  You said for orders "under $50.00," and my
order was above that (3 feliway plug-in diffusers and 3 refills).

MaryL
zuzu22@webtv.net - 15 Mar 2004 06:03 GMT
Mike wrote:
>The "free" shipping is deceptive.
>On orders under $50 there is a $5.00
>"packing" charge.

If you actually bothered to look you would see that free shipping is
offered on Feliway products and requires no minimum purchase. You can
buy *one* refill and the shipping is free.

Megan

                                   
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---MIKE--- - 15 Mar 2004 12:36 GMT
Sorry Megan, but you are wrong.  I just recently bought some Feliway
from them and there WAS a $5.00 order processing charge.  If you look on
page 33 of their catalog,  you will see "ORDER PROCESSING CHARGE (if
order is under $50.00 add $5.00)".

                 -MIKE
---MIKE--- - 15 Mar 2004 15:47 GMT
When I first got Tiger (Sept 1999) he was 4 months old and I brought him
home and just let him out of the carrier.  Amber (who was about 4 at the
time) retreated into a corner and refused to eat.  After two days of
this, I took Tiger back to the shelter.  Amber started to eat as soon as
I got back home.  After four days, I picked Tiger up again but this time
I kept him in his own room for a couple of weeks.  There were no more
problems.  They are not best buddies but they do get along.

                 -MIKE
Mary - 15 Mar 2004 18:22 GMT
> When I first got Tiger (Sept 1999) he was 4 months old and I brought him
> home and just let him out of the carrier.  Amber (who was about 4 at the
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> I kept him in his own room for a couple of weeks.  There were no more
> problems.  They are not best buddies but they do get along.

I'm so glad you went back for him. When I read about people returning
rescues it wrenches my gut.
---MIKE--- - 16 Mar 2004 00:04 GMT
I had no intention of leaving Tiger at the shelter.  The shelter owner
knew that it was only for a few days.  Taking him back just about broke
my heart.  He was crying all the way.  He is now a BIG boy (23 pounds)
and I suspect he is part or all Maine Coon.

                 -MIKE
Cheryl - 17 Mar 2004 02:41 GMT
twinmountain@webtv.net (---MIKE---) dumped this in  news:25871-40563666-207
@storefull-3256.bay.webtv.net on 15 Mar 2004:

> I had no intention of leaving Tiger at the shelter.  The shelter owner
> knew that it was only for a few days.  Taking him back just about broke
> my heart.  He was crying all the way.  He is now a BIG boy (23 pounds)
> and I suspect he is part or all Maine Coon.

This brought tears to my eyes and I'm glad it was a happy ending. It
reminds me of Shamrock when I first started fostering him. Every adoption
show I brought him to he cried and cried in the car, at the show, he never
relaxed like other cats did during a 3 hour show. Most cats would
eventually sleep if they were upset, but he would cry the entire time. This
was part of the reason I adopted him for myself. Incidently, today is
Shamrock's 2 year anniversary with me.  :)  (hence the name)

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MaryL - 17 Mar 2004 03:14 GMT
> twinmountain@webtv.net (---MIKE---) dumped this in  news:25871-40563666-207
> @storefull-3256.bay.webtv.net on 15 Mar 2004:
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> was part of the reason I adopted him for myself. Incidently, today is
> Shamrock's 2 year anniversary with me.  :)  (hence the name)

Happy Anniversary, Shamrock and Cheryl.  And what a great way for Shamrock
to have gotten his name.

MaryL
Sherry - 17 Mar 2004 04:08 GMT
> Incidently, today is
>Shamrock's 2 year anniversary with me.  :)  (hence the name)

Cheryl, I can't believe it's been two years!
Happy Anniversary to Shamrock!

Sherry
Cheryl - 17 Mar 2004 04:23 GMT
>> Incidently, today is
>>Shamrock's 2 year anniversary with me.  :)  (hence the name)
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>
> Sherry

:)
All I have to say is that it's a good thing he's so cute and a lovebug.  
High maintenance.  
j/k...
...Not totally. He was doing so well these last two months on
antihistamines and EFA's, and he just started getting itchy and
developing lesions again.

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Karen M. - 17 Mar 2004 18:41 GMT
> >> Incidently, today is
> >>Shamrock's 2 year anniversary with me.  :)  (hence the name)
[quoted text clipped - 12 lines]
> antihistamines and EFA's, and he just started getting itchy and
> developing lesions again.

Happy Anniversary Shamrock!!! (and to his mommy too!)

xo,
K
zuzu22@webtv.net - 15 Mar 2004 16:11 GMT
Mike wrote:
>I just recently bought some Feliway from
>them and there WAS a $5.00 order
>processing charge.

Oops, you're right. I don't have a catalog and it doesn't show up on the
website until you add an item to the shopping cart. At any rate it's
pretty easy to spend $50 on the cat and avoid the processing charge!

Megan

                                   
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nothing."

-Edmund Burke

Learn The TRUTH About Declawing
http://www.stopdeclaw.com

Zuzu's Cats Photo Album:
http://www.PictureTrail.com/zuzu22

"Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one
elementary truth the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and
splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then
providence moves too. A whole stream of events issues from the decision,
raising in one's favor all manner of unforeseen incidents, meetings and
material assistance, which no man could have dreamt would have come his
way."

- W.H. Murray

Mary - 15 Mar 2004 18:19 GMT
> Sorry Megan, but you are wrong.  I just recently bought some Feliway
> from them and there WAS a $5.00 order processing charge.  If you look on
> page 33 of their catalog,  you will see "ORDER PROCESSING CHARGE (if
> order is under $50.00 add $5.00)".
>
>                   -MIKE

Oh please. Megan can't be WRONG.
zuzu22@webtv.net - 15 Mar 2004 18:27 GMT
>Oh please. Megan can't be WRONG.

As usual, in your obsessive haste to find ways to jump on me you again
make yourself like an idiot. You really should quit while you're behind.
I posted earlier and told him he was right after all and even
illustrated how I had made the mistake. Clearly *you* were wrong. Do
*you* have the guts to admit it?

Megan

                                   
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"The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do
nothing."

-Edmund Burke

Learn The TRUTH About Declawing
http://www.stopdeclaw.com

Zuzu's Cats Photo Album:
http://www.PictureTrail.com/zuzu22

"Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one
elementary truth the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and
splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then
providence moves too. A whole stream of events issues from the decision,
raising in one's favor all manner of unforeseen incidents, meetings and
material assistance, which no man could have dreamt would have come his
way."

- W.H. Murray

IBen Getiner - 15 Mar 2004 10:19 GMT
> > Being a two cat family for the past 17 years, we has to put our oldest cat
> > down ( after a long and giving life). Too fill the empty space, we adopted
[quoted text clipped - 44 lines]
> http://tinyurl.com/8y54 (Introducing Duffy to Holly)
> http://tinyurl.com/8y56 (Duffy and Holly "settle in")

Your response is a joke. Who cares about this kind of krap...?

                          IBen G.
IBen Getiner - 15 Mar 2004 10:15 GMT
> Being a two cat family for the past 17 years, we has to put our oldest cat
> down ( after a long and giving life). Too fill the empty space, we adopted a
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>
> Any advice would be greatly appreciated

A good and decent try on your behalf has netted no results. Don't be
too down on yourself. We went thru the exact same thing a few years
back. The best thing we ever did (even though it was painful) was to
rid ourselevs of the newcomer. I had to make the decision ... before
the little lady got too attracted to her. But it was the best thing we
ever did, cat-wise. Our existing cat (a male) quickly returned to his
old self. I argued that not only should we have been concerned with
the new cat's well-being (what might have befallen her by putting her
back outside), but that we owed an equal something to our original
cat.. we owed him a NORMAL LIFE. Without all the bad-azzing and all
the fear (he was a wimp ... what can I say?).
Now, all as is as it was. And we have gained a good outside cat who
is there every day for us, waiting for us to come home (plus, we have
our boy back like he was before).

                              IBen G.
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