> > > i know - thanks for pointing it out to me
> > > how silly of me to get involved with cats for 13 years and to not listen
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> dry food - along my thinking although i had concerns of giving my cats
> something that had no nutritional value.
You wanted answers for how to treat the *symptoms* because they annoy you
and completely ignored suggestions for treating the *cause*.
> Phil's first post advised me strongly to take my cat to the vets. Am i
> ignoring this advice?
Yep. Your only concern is giving your cat more food so he'll stop being such
a nuisance and inconvenience.
> and is it advice needed?
Absolutely. Because you obviously don't have the common sense to realize
that a voracious appetite in a hyperthyroid cat on methimazole is a
glaringly obvious signal that the dose needs to be adjusted and/or that he
may have an underlying problem. You just kept rambling on about the cat's
voracious appetite and how you just want to give the cat more food so he
won't be a nuisance, and
completely ignored finding and treating the *cause* of his voracious
appetite.
His second post "what part of
> that don't you understand?" was that really necessary?
Absolutely! Your original post was very misleading and you did *nothing* to
correct the false impression you gave until you were angered by my remark
"what part of that don't you understand?" So, even someone as obtuse as you
can see, my remark was indeed necessary and served a valuable purpose. As I
said, the feather didn't work on you- but the sledgehammer did.
and it just kind of
> went on from there.
Yep- you went off on your guilt-trip/persecution complex.
> I do know the problems associated with hyperthyroid and we are dealing with
> it.
Doesn't seem like you're doing a very good job.
> we are looking for solutions at home as well as medical solutions.
...but you ignored the medical solution because taking the cat back to the
vet is a problem and inconvenience for you--
i
> am not taking frustrations out on posters becasue my cat is sick.
It sure seems like you are. Your attitude actually sounds a little like you
might even resent the cat because he may have been forced upon you.
Phil is
> taking his frustrations out on me because he thinks i am not listening.
Obtuse and obstinate people are indeed frustrating.
> Phil also assumes i do not know (my) cats. i think he thinks i am neglecting
> them. he also appears worried about my other two cats - he wonders if they
> are obese. obviously a sign of my my neglect.
That about sums up the impression you gave me. Amazing its so accurate.
piece it all together and
> you get defensive.
Seems more like guilt to me.
if i did not care about my cats would i be trying to
> manage this situation as i am? or would i have said goddbye to Felix because
> it was too difficult? would i have bothered to ask a question in a NG to try
> to establish if what i wanted to do was right?
Bullshit! You came here looking for feeding advice because your cat's
voracious appetite is an *inconvenience* for *you*-- otherwise you would
have expressed concern about why the medication wasn't controlling his
appetite. The *only* thing you seem concerned with is how to get your cat
to stop annoying you for food.
Rational people and people who truly care about their cats don't try to
prove or convince people that they care about their cats just because you're
doing what you're *supposed* to do. You make it sound like you should be
praised and you're doing your cat a favor by treating his illness. You're
*not*! Its your *obligation* and *responsibility*.
> Felix is much better today thank you. the dry food certainly helps even
> though it is only day two. he now has dry food for breakfast and then
> portion controlled food x3 during the day.
That's right-- treat the symptoms and ignore the cause. You truly are a
dolt.
Space - 09 Oct 2005 14:00 GMT
Phil - it is the weekend - what can a vet do now?
.
i think your reaction is extremely inappropraite.
how have i ignored the solutions given to me?
it is inconvenient when Felix is around your feet when preparing food - more
to the point it is dangerous.
so, i am only considering feeding him with more food? is this the case? no -
i am looking for a solution in addition to his medication, in fact it is
also a solution suggested within this thread.
voracious appetite? fussy eating, a danger in the kitchen - these all add up
to me looking at a dry food solution to Felix feeding routine.
sledgehammer completely unnecessary. is this how to you convey with people
in public or do you hide behind your monitor?
i do not have a guilt/persecution complex.
i think i am doing a great job. i know of my obligation and responsibility.
there is so much animal abuse out there - what i am doing is not
commendable, it is in fact responsible.
how is it an inconvenience to me to take the cat back to the vet? it is so
inconvenient right now. it is the weekend. although they have an emergency
contact point this is not an emergency.
i resent my cat?? just where do you get that from?
Obtuse and obstinate people are indeed frustrating. I agree
anyway - i have to go and live a life that exists beyond this screen. i
will meet up with friends and strangers and we will all act like civilised
human beings.
who knows - i may even spend some time with my 3 neglected cats.
> > > > i know - thanks for pointing it out to me
> > > > how silly of me to get involved with cats for 13 years and to not
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> That's right-- treat the symptoms and ignore the cause. You truly are a
> dolt.
Phil P. - 09 Oct 2005 14:36 GMT
> anyway - i have to go
I thought you'd never stop whining. Come back when you can't stay so long.