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BigDaDDY - 11 Feb 2004 16:48 GMT
Ya know, If I wanted to be judged, I would have entered a popularity
contest.  Perhaps you people could stick to answering the posts and keep
your judgements to yourselves, since you probably don't know the entire
story.

If you really want to know, there are probably very few people in the world
that love cats more than my fiance.  She was crying last night because she
was worried about her cat.  I told her I would post on here to see if
someone knew what may be the problem.  If you people are that dumb to think
we aren't going to go for a second opinion, then I guess I thought the
intellect on this board was a little higher. The post was simply a means to
perhaps comfort her by possibly knowing what may be wrong, not as a
substitute for a second opinion.

So after all the posts, not a single thing addressed my question.  Thanks
for nothin'!
Joe Canuck - 11 Feb 2004 16:58 GMT
> Ya know, If I wanted to be judged, I would have entered a popularity
> contest.  Perhaps you people could stick to answering the posts and keep
> your judgements to yourselves, since you probably don't know the entire
> story.

You could always explain the entire story.

> If you really want to know, there are probably very few people in the world
> that love cats more than my fiance.  She was crying last night because she
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> So after all the posts, not a single thing addressed my question.  Thanks
> for nothin'!

One does have to wonder when their cat obviously has a medical issue why
they run first to the newsgroups for answers instead of going to the
obvious place for this... the VET.

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Caroline - 11 Feb 2004 20:36 GMT
> BigDaDDY wrote:
snip
> > So after all the posts, not a single thing addressed my question.  Thanks
> > for nothin'!
>
> One does have to wonder when their cat obviously has a medical issue why
> they run first to the newsgroups for answers instead of going to the
> obvious place for this... the VET.

Joe, the guy went to the vet and didn't get anything from the visit that helped.
So naturally he was baffled. Happens to all of us, it seems to me.

Vets do misdiagnose. These misdiagnoses do come up here. (I write this not as an
indictment of vets. I was one of the faction that did not want any action taken
against a certain vet who recently did not meet the standards of many people
here.. )

Sometimes people on the newsgroup do have more experience than certain vets.
Besides, at the newsgroup, posters have all the time in the world to relate a
cat's symptoms. A vet has a few minutes to look at a cat and listen to a
description of symptoms.

BigDaddy, for what it's worth, I found nothing wrong and everything right in
your initial post, which explicitly and merely asked if anyone else had seen
certain symptoms in their own cats. I know money is often a concern that affects
most everyone's pet (and children, and parent) decisions, so I don't blame
anyone for trying to be cost-effective, within reason (which is pretty
subjective!).

My cat has never had all the symptoms you describe. He did go through a period
of vomiting and having some litter box changes last year (but nothing as serious
as your cat's), and I (not the darn vet to whom I took him!) found all he needed
was some petroleum jelly-based hairball remedy. I don't fault the vet, per se. I
do fault any vet who doesn't acknowledge they often can't be sure what's wrong
with a cat, so continue troubleshooting.

Your cat sounds very sick. I hope you find the problem, one way or another, and
that Sammy is better soon. I for one would welcome an update. I'm sure it will
help others here in the future.

Good luck to your cat, your fianc?, and you,

C
Laura R. - 12 Feb 2004 03:52 GMT
circa Wed, 11 Feb 2004 20:36:56 GMT, in rec.pets.cats.health+behav,
Caroline (caroline10027remove@earthlink.net) said,

> Your cat sounds very sick.

Which is what every response expressed.

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BigDaDDY - 12 Feb 2004 11:30 GMT
>> BigDaDDY wrote:
> snip
[quoted text clipped - 40 lines]
>
> C
OH MY GOD!!!! FINALLY!!!! Someone with some intellect.  Thank you very much
for your response.  If only people would read the damn question and answer
my specific question rather than make assumptions about my priorites and
concern for my cat.  

I have been on newsgroups a lot, and I can tell you from experience that
oftentimes you can learn more on a newsgroup than you can anywhere else
because past experience is a good teacher.  Not to mention, it is possible
that 1 or more vets hang out here as well.  In any case, I talked with
someone I work with, and he mentioned that his cat had similar problems and
that it was a kidney problem.  The cat eventually died from it.  Anyway,
Sammy is at the vet overnight tonight and she's having some tests done.  
Hope all goes well.

Thanks again.

Matt
Caroline - 12 Feb 2004 16:09 GMT
"BigDaDDY" <ihatespam@hotmail.com> wrote
snip for conciseness but comments noted
> I have been on newsgroups a lot, and I can tell you from experience that
> oftentimes you can learn more on a newsgroup than you can anywhere else
> because past experience is a good teacher.

FWIW--

I agree 100%. I think the 'net has been a huge boon to the marketplace of ideas,
with enormous benevolent effect on the lives of "ordinary people."

As you are probably aware, some newsgroups tend to attract more sanctimony,
obsession, etc. than others. Lately I find myself enjoying groups much more when
about half the regulars are killfiled. At least, that seems to me to be the
usual proportion of sanctimonious attitudes. That's not to say someone somewhere
is not enjoying these killfilees' posts. It is to say I don't get anything out
of them. So diff'rent strokes...

> Not to mention, it is possible
> that 1 or more vets hang out here as well.

Yes, although alt.med.veterinary seems to have many more. Biases (and some
sanctimony) are evident among them. They're human. This in itself is valuable to
know.

On the other hand, the other week at alt.med.veterinary I saw a fascinating
professional exchange on the use of a particular drug (or procedure? can't
remember now). No airs were being put on. The vet participants were simply
trying to add to their own database of experience in a specific area where there
hadn't been any or many formal studies. And the public could read it and better
understand the vets' decision-making process in general. Really cool.

> In any case, I talked with
> someone I work with, and he mentioned that his cat had similar problems and
> that it was a kidney problem.  The cat eventually died from it.

Unfortunately, I have heard of cats with kidney problems. Kidney maladies in old
age in particular seem not uncommon.  (Maybe you likewise are aware of how
common kidney problems are; I don't mean to be presumptuous.)

FWIW, a web search might turn up more. When my cat was ill a few weeks ago, I
was amazed at what was on the web re feline illnesses.

I can't recall whether you posted your cat's age.

> Anyway,
> Sammy is at the vet overnight tonight and she's having some tests done.
> Hope all goes well.
>
> Thanks again.

You're welcome. Thanks for sticking with the forum, as again, I think people
sharing their experiences helps others with their cats (etc.).

Best wishes for Sammy's recovery,

C.
Mary - 12 Feb 2004 18:01 GMT
>In any case, I talked with
> someone I work with, and he mentioned that his cat had similar problems and
> that it was a kidney problem.  The cat eventually died from it.  Anyway,
> Sammy is at the vet overnight tonight and she's having some tests done.

Well good. I would like to suggest that not EVERYONE would fail to
understand that a week of not eliminating in and of itself is
life-threatening. Not everyone would need to check around with friends
and newsgroups. In fact I would have to say that MOST people
understand that not eliminating at all for that long is very
dangerous. It is why people used to give laxatives and enemas to
children on a regular basis. Sometimes the laxatives were things like
Bella Donna (no kidding) and people did not understand that a little
bit of poisonis medicine and a lot is, well, poison. I have an 1800s
ancestor who died from a laxative overdose. [Yes, go ahead, laugh, I
did too.] This is why it seemed you might not care about the cat,
and/or were trolling us.

> Hope all goes well.

I do too, as does everyone here. Let us know how it works out, pardon
the pun.
Annie Wxill - 12 Feb 2004 18:22 GMT
...> >
 Anyway,
> Sammy is at the vet overnight tonight and she's having some tests done.
> Hope all goes well.
> Thanks again.
> Matt

I hope all goes well, too, and the tests aren't too hard on your wallet.
Please let us know how it goes.
Annie
Laura R. - 12 Feb 2004 21:07 GMT
circa Thu, 12 Feb 2004 03:30:07 -0800, in rec.pets.cats.health+behav,
BigDaDDY (ihatespam@hotmail.com) said,
>  Anyway,
> Sammy is at the vet overnight tonight and she's having some tests done.  
> Hope all goes well.

And that's what every person who replied to your original post
recommended. Just because *you* chose to read "judgement" into their
responses, *clearly* due to your own feelings of guilt, is not their
problem. It's yours.

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Cathy Friedmann - 12 Feb 2004 21:36 GMT
> >> BigDaDDY wrote:
> > snip
[quoted text clipped - 41 lines]
> > C
> OH MY GOD!!!! FINALLY!!!! Someone with some intellect.

More like someone who coddled you & said what you wanted to hear.  This
person may very well have a good amoint of intelligence, but the other
answers weren't derelict in that regard.

 Thank you very much
> for your response.  If only people would read the damn question and answer
> my specific question rather than make assumptions about my priorites and
> concern for my cat.

I found nothing wrong w/ your original post, either.  Otoh, your reply (&
subsequent replies) to the others' responses - which were perfectly
legitimate - were downright obnoxious.  We *did* read the "damn question" &
answered it as best as possbile.  In this case, no one knows what's wrong w/
the cat, only that it was in serious need of a vet, ASAP, if not sooner.

> I have been on newsgroups a lot, and I can tell you from experience that
> oftentimes you can learn more on a newsgroup than you can anywhere else
> because past experience is a good teacher.

True, but in this case, no one seems to have a cat with the same symptoms.
I ventured a guess as to blockage(s), as did somebody(ies?) else, &
dehydration, as did someone else.  But no one *really* knows what's going
on, or why.

Not to mention, it is possible
> that 1 or more vets hang out here as well.

One used to - but haven't seen him for a long time.  Last I knew, some vets
hang out at alt.med.veterinary.

 In any case, I talked with
> someone I work with, and he mentioned that his cat had similar problems and
> that it was a kidney problem.  The cat eventually died from it.  Anyway,
> Sammy is at the vet overnight tonight and she's having some tests done.
> Hope all goes well.

Good - I'm glad Sammy's at the vet & that tests are being run.

Cathy

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> Thanks again.
>
> Matt
Caroline - 12 Feb 2004 21:56 GMT
> "BigDaDDY" <ihatespam@hotmail.com> wrote
snip
> > OH MY GOD!!!! FINALLY!!!! Someone with some intellect.
>
> More like someone who coddled you & said what you wanted to hear.

I respect your judgment, although FWIW, what you allege was not my intent. (If I
can't persuade you of that, that's okay.) Good cop-bad cop stuff is just silly,
IMO. My goal was to help the cat and, indirectly, the people involved. I presume
this was pretty much everyone else's main goal.

> This
> person may very well have a good amoint of intelligence, but the other
> answers weren't derelict in that regard.

In all but one or two of the posts I myself sensed sanctimony. IMO this tends to
be unpersuasive.

The point was to help this man's and his fiance's cat. His first post politely
said he'd tried a vet; it didn't help; had anyone other suggestions?

There are more convincing ways of saying to someone, "This sounds serious. I've
never seen a condition this bad before. Unfortunately, misdiagnoses to happen. I
know it's expensive, but I think if I really valued my cat, I would spend the
money for a second opinion. Just my point of view... "

People can keep employing the judgmental approach, of course, but this won't at
all necessarily get the best help for the cat. At least, it doesn't work for me.

Just saying...
Laura R. - 12 Feb 2004 22:15 GMT
circa Thu, 12 Feb 2004 21:56:37 GMT, in rec.pets.cats.health+behav,
Caroline (caroline10027remove@earthlink.net) said,
> > This
> > person may very well have a good amoint of intelligence, but the other
> > answers weren't derelict in that regard.
>
> In all but one or two of the posts I myself sensed sanctimony. IMO this tends to
> be unpersuasive.

And it's your perception. I read through those posts carefully after
I saw this thread, and I found only one or two in which I *did*
"sense sanctimony". Just because a reader chooses to read something
into a post doesn't mean that it was the intent of the post, nor does
it mean that it's true. How about if you specify exactly what you
found sanctimonious and allow the people you're accusing to state
whether or not they either see the same thing or intended such?

In the interest of fairness, I'll take my post as an example:

"1. How long ago was she taken to the vet?"

I asked this question because the post did not say when the cat had
been last seen, only that the cat had neither urinated nor defecated
for a week. Without knowing if the cat had been seen a week ago, or
six weeks ago, it is not possible to make deductions about either the
vet's competency or whether the cat's current problems are even
related to the problem for which the cat was originally taken to the
vet.

"2. Has she had absolutely *no* urine or bowel output in a week?"

There is a huge difference between absolutely *no* output and minimal
output. If there was, indeed, *no* urine or bowel output for a week,
then that cat's body had to be FULL of toxins, and the cat *had* to
be in very bad shape. Had "BigDaDDY" actually bothered to reply to
the questions asked of him, then perhaps some more specific advice
could have been given.

"3. I do think it is vital to get her to a vet immediately, if for no
other reason than to treat her for the dehydration she likely is
experiencing. As far as tests, cross that bridge when you come to it,
but your first course of action should be to find out what the vet
thinks."

I think that this is not only self-explanatory, but FAR from
sanctimonious.

So, again, please outline exactly where you see sanctimony so that
the people you are accusing may address your perceptions.

As far as "BigDaDDY", in *my* opinion, he received a lot of genuine
advice and chose to ignore that in favor of assuming that people were
"judging" him. Based on that, and on his subsequent posts, I think
he's a seriously defensive, uncouth and not-very-bright individual.
Not to mention that his professed concern for the cat doesn't ring
true.

Laura

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PawsForThought - 12 Feb 2004 22:25 GMT
>From: "Caroline" caroline10027remove@earthlink.net

>In all but one or two of the posts I myself sensed sanctimony. IMO this tends
>to
>be unpersuasive.
>
>The point was to help this man's and his fiance's cat.

Since when is advising someone that their cat should be seen by a vet right
away being sanctimonious?
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Cathy Friedmann - 12 Feb 2004 23:31 GMT
> > "BigDaDDY" <ihatespam@hotmail.com> wrote
> snip
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> IMO. My goal was to help the cat and, indirectly, the people involved. I presume
> this was pretty much everyone else's main goal.

> > This
> > person may very well have a good amoint of intelligence, but the other
> > answers weren't derelict in that regard.
>
> In all but one or two of the posts I myself sensed sanctimony. IMO this tends to
> be unpersuasive.

I beg to differ w/ your assessment.  I *have* seen sanctimonious, rude
replies here, plenty of times - too many of them, too often, IMO - ones that
would simply by guaranteed to put the whoever the OP has been (& who is
often on the naive side, but the replies doen't take that into account) on
the defensive, & therefore would not be in the best interests of the cat.
And the replies this guy got were not of that genre.  They said that it
sounded like a serious problem, & that he needed to get the cat back to a
vet, right away.  He *did* absolutely need to do that - it was good advice.
Some peolpe took stabs at guessing what might be wrong, but that was as far
as anyone could possibly get.

> The point was to help this man's and his fiance's cat. His first post politely
> said he'd tried a vet; it didn't help; had anyone other suggestions?

He mentioned getting Clavamox from the vet, but that it didn't help.  He
didn't say when the last vet appt. had been, but no matter - this cat *had*
to get back for another assessment if it had not eliminated in a week (I
still find that one really hard to believe, & the OP never made it precisely
clear) & was throwing up, plus was not drinking water.  Would result in
toxins galore, & maybe dehydrated as all get-out.

But... acc. to last post I saw, the cat's now at the vet, being re-evaluted;
good.

> There are more convincing ways of saying to someone, "This sounds serious. I've
> never seen a condition this bad before. Unfortunately, misdiagnoses to happen. I
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> People can keep employing the judgmental approach, of course, but this won't at
> all necessarily get the best help for the cat. At least, it doesn't work for me.

See above - doesn't work for me, either.

Cathy

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> Just saying...
BigDaDDY - 11 Feb 2004 20:47 GMT
>> Ya know, If I wanted to be judged, I would have entered a popularity
>> contest.  Perhaps you people could stick to answering the posts and keep
[quoted text clipped - 20 lines]
> they run first to the newsgroups for answers instead of going to the
> obvious place for this... the VET.

Yeah, once again, superior intellect on your part...NOT!!  Excuse the f.ck 
out of me for trying to take advantage of all the resources available to
me.  I'm sure whenever we find out what the cats problem is, that our cat
is not the only cat in the world that has experienced it.  Consequently,
maybe if someone on this group had a cat with the same symptoms, they could
tell us what the problem was.  The newsgroup post was simply to find out
what the problem was. Not a substitute for a second vet appointment.  
Besides, if you looked at my original post, it was at 1AM and we weren't
going to go to the vet at 1AM.  Instead of knocking someone for trying to
use all available resources, maybe you should commend them for going above
and beyond to try to understand what the problem may be and perhaps
research that problem to find ways to prevent future occurances.  A vet can
fix things, but only the owner can provide an environment that is less
likely to create future problems.  So to you I say...BITE ME!
Brandy??Alexandre - 11 Feb 2004 21:00 GMT
BigDaDDY <ihatespam@hotmail.com> wrote in
rec.pets.cats.health+behav:

> Besides, if you looked at my original post, it was at 1AM and we
> weren't going to go to the vet at 1AM.  

Why not?  The cat was uncomfortable and probably in pain.  You failed
to mention if you've been to the vet since and what happened.  I'm just
putting you in the troll file along with others who just like to stir
up cat groups and/or don't have any respect for cats that they would
give them proper and timely care.  I have been to the vet at 1:00 a.m.
for less than that because I love my animal and she needed me.
Cheryl - 12 Feb 2004 01:55 GMT
>  I have been to the vet at 1:00 a.m.
> for less than that because I love my animal and she needed me.  

Same here.  I've been to the vet at 1 am just because my cat was stuck
there scared overnight, and it was an emergency vet and opened any ways,
and let me come by just to sit with him.

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Brandy??Alexandre - 12 Feb 2004 02:59 GMT
Cheryl <jlhshadow@NOSPAMhotmail.com> wrote in
rec.pets.cats.health+behav:

> Same here.  I've been to the vet at 1 am just because my cat was
> stuck there scared overnight, and it was an emergency vet and
> opened any ways, and let me come by just to sit with him.

I took Kami the last time because she was limping more than her aging
self and I thought she was injured.  It wasn't stopping her and we
probably could have waited until morning, but if it was a fracture I
didn't want her jumping up and down from the bed like she does and get
more hurt.  It was only an arthritis flare-up and she got a shot for
pain and inflamation.  I don't regret taking her except for the smelly
dogs we had to sit with in the waiting room.
Cheryl - 12 Feb 2004 03:16 GMT
Brandy Alexandre wrote in
news:fce4314fbfd393260508e399b36e596c@news.teranews.com on 11 Feb 2004:

> Cheryl <jlhshadow@NOSPAMhotmail.com> wrote in
> rec.pets.cats.health+behav:
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> pain and inflamation.  I don't regret taking her except for the smelly
> dogs we had to sit with in the waiting room.

Why do people in vet waiting rooms always let their big dogs sniff all over
a cat carrier?  I usually pick up the carrier and put it on a chair away
from the dog so they get the message, but some people just let the dog go
over and resume sniffing carrier??

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Cathy Friedmann - 12 Feb 2004 03:25 GMT
> Brandy Alexandre wrote in
> news:fce4314fbfd393260508e399b36e596c@news.teranews.com on 11 Feb 2004:
[quoted text clipped - 18 lines]
> from the dog so they get the message, but some people just let the dog go
> over and resume sniffing carrier??

I don't know.  Most people are considerate in that regard, but others
aren't.  The cats are often scared enough as it is, &/or feeling crummy, but
then up comes a dog & puts its nose smack up against the carrier.  Not
exactly calming for the cat.

Some waiting rooms are segregated into sides: one for dogs, one for cats.
I've seen one of those; that's nice.  But I have wondered - though probably
not a common scenario - which side one takes if bringing in a cat *&* a
dog...?   And I guess the rabbits, ferrets, etc. use the cats' side.  But
what about birds, mice, hamsters? ;-)  The dogs', I guess?

Cathy

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Laura R. - 12 Feb 2004 03:55 GMT
circa 12 Feb 2004 03:16:56 GMT, in rec.pets.cats.health+behav, Cheryl
(jlhshadow@NOSPAMhotmail.com) said,
> Why do people in vet waiting rooms always let their big dogs sniff all over
> a cat carrier?  I usually pick up the carrier and put it on a chair away
> from the dog so they get the message, but some people just let the dog go
> over and resume sniffing carrier??

I used to love it when people let their dogs do that to Alex's
carrier. Alex had some very unusual vocalizations, and they were
quite loud. He scared the sh.t out of every single dog he ever met.
:-)

Oh, and the first question I *always* got from the dog owners after
such encounters-

"Oh, my goodness/gosh/god/whatever, what do you *have* in there????
It sounds like a TIGER!"

Heh.

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Cheryl - 12 Feb 2004 04:05 GMT
Feb 2004:

> I used to love it when people let their dogs do that to Alex's
> carrier. Alex had some very unusual vocalizations, and they were
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
>
> Heh.

Would love to have seen that reaction.  lol  Oh, and about the "shave and
squeeze", I didn't say it that way.. the woman at the desk answered the
phone too out of breath and sounding stressed out so I didn't want to make
her go "huh?"  They can't get Shadow in until Monday.  I dearly love this
vet but she is a single vet practice and sometimes they say come in
tonight, sometimes it is a week.  For emergencies, I just show up.  Shadow
doesn't seem like he is going to be worse off waiting until monday, but I
sure wish they'd take him sooner. It may take the edge off the other guys
but I hope after he gets the squeeze they ease up on him.

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Laura R. - 12 Feb 2004 04:35 GMT
circa 12 Feb 2004 04:05:59 GMT, in rec.pets.cats.health+behav, Cheryl
(jlhshadow@NOSPAMhotmail.com) said,

> > I used to love it when people let their dogs do that to Alex's
> > carrier. Alex had some very unusual vocalizations, and they were
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
>
> Would love to have seen that reaction.

It was definitely the high point of Alex's chemo days. :-) It also
conveniently let him loose a little of his pent-up aggression before
going in for the injections. Alex was a very unique cat- he had no
fear of dogs whatsoever, and truly seemed to take a bit of twisted
pleasure in scaring the bejeezus out of them. <G>

> lol  Oh, and about the "shave and
> squeeze", I didn't say it that way.. the woman at the desk answered the
> phone too out of breath and sounding stressed out so I didn't want to make
> her go "huh?"

Hahahaha! Well, I can understand that. I didn't start referring to
Alex as "Satan Spawn" in front of my vets and the techs and
receptionists until they'd all seen him in action so many times that
they had their own pet names for him. I imagine I'd not have
referenced a shave and squeeze right off the bat, either. :-)

> They can't get Shadow in until Monday.  I dearly love this
> vet but she is a single vet practice and sometimes they say come in
> tonight, sometimes it is a week.  For emergencies, I just show up.  Shadow
> doesn't seem like he is going to be worse off waiting until monday, but I
> sure wish they'd take him sooner. It may take the edge off the other guys
> but I hope after he gets the squeeze they ease up on him.

<crossing fingers> I hope so, too. He's been through so much.

Laura

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Cheryl - 13 Feb 2004 01:46 GMT
Feb 2004:

> <crossing fingers> I hope so, too. He's been through so much.

If I thought he'd survive another surgery, I'd have them just remove the
glands. They're a constant trouble for him, and he doesn't let me touch him
there at all; trying to clean him up anywhere is the only thing that makes
him bite. Very stressful for him to have *me* do it, but he's almost a
perfect angel when the vet or techs do it. Except for claw clipping. ;)

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Laura R. - 13 Feb 2004 02:00 GMT
circa 13 Feb 2004 01:46:09 GMT, in rec.pets.cats.health+behav, Cheryl
(jlhshadow@NOSPAMhotmail.com) said,
> > <crossing fingers> I hope so, too. He's been through so much.
>
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> him bite. Very stressful for him to have *me* do it, but he's almost a
> perfect angel when the vet or techs do it. Except for claw clipping. ;)

Heck, as far as I'm concerned, the whole shave and squeeze is a job
for the vets, regardless! ;-)

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Wendy - 14 Feb 2004 00:06 GMT
circa 13 Feb 2004 01:46:09 GMT, in rec.pets.cats.health+behav, Cheryl
(jlhshadow@NOSPAMhotmail.com) said,

Heck, as far as I'm concerned, the whole shave and squeeze is a job
for the vets, regardless! ;-)

Laura
<doesn't wanna squeeze her cats' butts>

I'm with you - let the vet do it. That's what they get paid the big bucks
for lol

Tiggy has let fly with some very liquid, very stinky stuff from that end
when she's PO'd (think she's part skunk). Not nice!
Cheryl - 14 Feb 2004 00:31 GMT
> circa 13 Feb 2004 01:46:09 GMT, in rec.pets.cats.health+behav, Cheryl
> (jlhshadow@NOSPAMhotmail.com) said,
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> I'm with you - let the vet do it. That's what they get paid the big
> bucks for lol

Yeah, I agree.  Some said it was something you can do at home, and the vet
even said I could and showed me how but I'd rather just take him in for it.
The vet I use now is 5 minutes down the road, very lucky because I really
like her.  

> Tiggy has let fly with some very liquid, very stinky stuff from that
> end when she's PO'd (think she's part skunk). Not nice!

From what I've read, that was the original purpose of the anal gland stuff,
it got released if the cat was scared, just like a skunk lets loose it's
stink. And also to "mark" it's feces.    

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Mary - 14 Feb 2004 04:16 GMT
> Tiggy has let fly with some very liquid, very stinky stuff from that end
> when she's PO'd (think she's part skunk). Not nice!

ooooo, think you can keep her from letting other cats know how to do
this? :)
Laura R. - 14 Feb 2004 04:46 GMT
circa Sat, 14 Feb 2004 04:16:46 GMT, in rec.pets.cats.health+behav,
Mary (rosefan@email.com) said,

> > Tiggy has let fly with some very liquid, very stinky stuff from that
> end
> > when she's PO'd (think she's part skunk). Not nice!
> >
> ooooo, think you can keep her from letting other cats know how to do
> this? :)

Yerg. I had a cat do this *once*, and I hope I never experience that
again!

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Mary - 14 Feb 2004 18:35 GMT
> Yerg. I had a cat do this *once*, and I hope I never experience that
> again!

Laura, when I was in my early twenties I heard the horrendous sounds
of a cat fight out on my apartment stairs and went out to separate the
males. I got scratched *and* sprayed right in the face! I have not
interfered in a cat fight since. Then again, I have not been close to
one again. I think I might toss water if I was. What is the best way
to break ou an outdoor cat fight, do you know?
Laura R. - 14 Feb 2004 23:10 GMT
circa Sat, 14 Feb 2004 18:35:05 GMT, in rec.pets.cats.health+behav,
Mary (rosefan@email.com) said,

> > Yerg. I had a cat do this *once*, and I hope I never experience that
> > again!
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> one again. I think I might toss water if I was. What is the best way
> to break ou an outdoor cat fight, do you know?

AFAIK, water. :-)

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Diane L. Schirf - 14 Feb 2004 23:16 GMT
> circa Sat, 14 Feb 2004 18:35:05 GMT, in rec.pets.cats.health+behav,
> Mary (rosefan@email.com) said,
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
> >
> AFAIK, water. :-)

This is why God invented spray bottles.

Also works in dog fights.

And dog/cat fights.

Distracts the little buggers. :)

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Wendy - 16 Feb 2004 01:22 GMT
> Tiggy has let fly with some very liquid, very stinky stuff from that
end
> when she's PO'd (think she's part skunk). Not nice!

ooooo, think you can keep her from letting other cats know how to do
this? :)

No problem. It's her thing and she ain't sharing. lol
-L. - 16 Feb 2004 07:27 GMT
> circa 13 Feb 2004 01:46:09 GMT, in rec.pets.cats.health+behav, Cheryl
> (jlhshadow@NOSPAMhotmail.com) said,
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> I'm with you - let the vet do it. That's what they get paid the big bucks
> for lol

Unfortunately, it's usually the techs who *aren't* paid big bucks who
get to squeeze the butts.  In fact I don't think I have seen a vet do
an anal, ever...

-L.
Laura R. - 16 Feb 2004 08:07 GMT
circa 15 Feb 2004 23:27:42 -0800, in rec.pets.cats.health+behav, -L.
(k3_e81@yahoo.com) said,
> Unfortunately, it's usually the techs who *aren't* paid big bucks who
> get to squeeze the butts.  In fact I don't think I have seen a vet do
> an anal, ever...

My last vets used to do Jacob's. I have no idea *why*, but they did.

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Diane L. Schirf - 16 Feb 2004 12:08 GMT
> Unfortunately, it's usually the techs who *aren't* paid big bucks who
> get to squeeze the butts.  In fact I don't think I have seen a vet do
> an anal, ever...

All of the vets at my clinic do it themselves! They never let anyone
else treat the cats in any way.

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Wendy - 16 Feb 2004 23:56 GMT
In article <c7b085a.0402152327.57180481@posting.google.com>,
k3_e81@yahoo.com (-L.) wrote:

> Unfortunately, it's usually the techs who *aren't* paid big bucks who
> get to squeeze the butts.  In fact I don't think I have seen a vet do
> an anal, ever...

All of the vets at my clinic do it themselves! They never let anyone
else treat the cats in any way.

Same at my vet. The only time I've seen the tech handle any of our cats was
to weigh them.
-L. - 17 Feb 2004 05:27 GMT
> In article <c7b085a.0402152327.57180481@posting.google.com>,
>  k3_e81@yahoo.com (-L.) wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
> Same at my vet. The only time I've seen the tech handle any of our cats was
> to weigh them.

Really?  That's weird to me.  The only things the vets DID do atmy
last hospital was the exams and surgeries.  We did everything else -
grooming, treatments, blood draws, etc.

-L.
Rona Yuthasastrakosol - 17 Feb 2004 13:29 GMT
> Really?  That's weird to me.  The only things the vets DID do atmy
> last hospital was the exams and surgeries.  We did everything else -
> grooming, treatments, blood draws, etc.
>
> -L.

My vet even shaves my kitty's poopy butt and washes the vomit out of her
carrier (Kitty always gets car sick).  My vet's office is quite small,
though, with just the vet and a receptionist.  I don't even think there is a
vet tech, unless the receptionist is one.

rona

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Wendy - 18 Feb 2004 12:31 GMT
> "Diane L. Schirf" <delenn@mindspring-getridofthistoreply-.com> wrote in
> message news:bp2Yb.6755$W74.2440@newsread1.news.atl.earthlink.net...
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
> Same at my vet. The only time I've seen the tech handle any of our cats was
> to weigh them.

Really?  That's weird to me.  The only things the vets DID do atmy
last hospital was the exams and surgeries.  We did everything else -
grooming, treatments, blood draws, etc.

-L.

I've never taken a cat to the vet for grooming so I don't know who does
that. Our vet has drawn the blood for blood work. The tech probably is
involved with taking X-rays but the vet is there as well. I know that from
the report I got from the vet about the difficulty they had with Tiggy last
time (my poor problem child). I have no clue who does what when the animal
is admitted. I'm sure the tech is much more involved then.
Diane L. Schirf - 18 Feb 2004 13:17 GMT
> I've never taken a cat to the vet for grooming so I don't know who does
> that. Our vet has drawn the blood for blood work. The tech probably is
> involved with taking X-rays but the vet is there as well. I know that from
> the report I got from the vet about the difficulty they had with Tiggy last
> time (my poor problem child). I have no clue who does what when the animal
> is admitted. I'm sure the tech is much more involved then.

There are four or five veterinarians at the clinic I go to; I'm not sure
if there are any trained technicians. There are older teenagers (high
school, college) who are interested in veterinary careers who work there
at the desk, feeding/cleaning the boarded animals, weighing them -- all
the things that you would feel comfortable doing. They also hold the cat
while the veterinarian trims his claws, for example. But if they're
doing something like drawing urine, they get a second veterinarian to
hold him.

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Meghan Noecker - 18 Feb 2004 22:46 GMT
>> > Unfortunately, it's usually the techs who *aren't* paid big bucks who
>> > get to squeeze the butts.  In fact I don't think I have seen a vet do
>> > an anal, ever...

When my cat had an anal gland problem, the vet himself expressed the
glands. Another time, I had my older cat there with a tumor. I was
afraid it was cancer, but he took a small sample, looked at it under
the microscope, and told me it was just fat in a strange spot.

I'm sure the techs help out with a lot of stuff like blood draws and
that, but I have only seen them doing the weights, sometimes the
temperature, and initial interview to ask about symptoms.

The vets themselves have trimmed nails on the dogs, also done the
basic checkup, and stuff like that.

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Cathy Friedmann - 18 Feb 2004 17:03 GMT
> In article <c7b085a.0402152327.57180481@posting.google.com>,
>  k3_e81@yahoo.com (-L.) wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
> Same at my vet. The only time I've seen the tech handle any of our cats was
> to weigh them.

Same at my vets' practice.  The tech weighs the cat before the vet comes
into the examining room, then the vet takes over from there.  The vet will
call in a tech to assist, sometimes - w/holding the cat for bw for ex., but
that's it.  Otoh, sometimes I just do the holding.

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Brandy??Alexandre - 12 Feb 2004 04:16 GMT
Cheryl <jlhshadow@NOSPAMhotmail.com> wrote in
rec.pets.cats.health+behav:

> Why do people in vet waiting rooms always let their big dogs sniff
> all over a cat carrier?  I usually pick up the carrier and put it
> on a chair away from the dog so they get the message, but some
> people just let the dog go over and resume sniffing carrier??

LOL!  Were you there, too?  :)
Wendy - 12 Feb 2004 12:28 GMT
Brandy Alexandre wrote in
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> Cheryl <jlhshadow@NOSPAMhotmail.com> wrote in
> rec.pets.cats.health+behav:
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
> pain and inflamation.  I don't regret taking her except for the smelly
> dogs we had to sit with in the waiting room.

Why do people in vet waiting rooms always let their big dogs sniff all over
a cat carrier?  I usually pick up the carrier and put it on a chair away
from the dog so they get the message, but some people just let the dog go
over and resume sniffing carrier??

--
Cheryl

I guess we must have very civilized pet owners at my vet. I have never seen
anyone bring in an animal that they didn't have under control.
Yngver - 12 Feb 2004 16:27 GMT
>Why do people in vet waiting rooms always let their big dogs sniff all over
>a cat carrier?  I usually pick up the carrier and put it on a chair away
>from the dog so they get the message, but some people just let the dog go
>over and resume sniffing carrier??

That's an excellent question. When we took in a stray last year, we brought her
to a vet we hadn't used before because he was close by and had evening hours.
The vet himself was okay, but we would never go back there because the waiting
room is tiny and the dog owners so inconsiderate. Here we have a terrified cat
screaming with fear in her carrier, and people let their dogs come right up and
stick their noses into the grate. When we objected, the owners seemed
surprised: "oh, is your cat afraid of dogs?" Sheesh. That is one big reason I
prefer a felines only vet.

At the emergency vet we use, at least the waiting room is big enough that you
can keep your cat away from inquiring dogs, and I've seen the staff reprimand
dog owners for not keeping their animals under control. But you're right, I'm
just mystified as to why so many dog owners let their dogs bother cats in a
waiting room.
Joe Canuck - 12 Feb 2004 16:42 GMT
>>Why do people in vet waiting rooms always let their big dogs sniff all over
>>a cat carrier?  I usually pick up the carrier and put it on a chair away
[quoted text clipped - 17 lines]
> just mystified as to why so many dog owners let their dogs bother cats in a
> waiting room.

It is for this and other reasons I go to a cat only vet clinic.

No scary monsters around upsetting fluffy.  ;-)

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Yngver - 12 Feb 2004 17:04 GMT
>. But you're right, I'm
>> just mystified as to why so many dog owners let their dogs bother cats in a
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>
>No scary monsters around upsetting fluffy.  ;-)

Yes, the other cats in the waiting room can be scary enough, if they are crying
in fear themselves, but at least they are all in carriers. Another reason I
prefer a cats only clinic is that overall I think they tend to be more
knowledgeable and up to date with the latest research in feline medicine. The
dog and cat clinic I went to had posters on the walls urging people to have
their cat vaccinated with the new FIV vaccine, something I doubt a responsible
feline specialist would ever promote.
Mary - 12 Feb 2004 18:11 GMT
> It is for this and other reasons I go to a cat only vet clinic.
>
> No scary monsters around upsetting fluffy.  ;-)

My vet has two separate entrances on either side of the building.
There's even a picture of a dog and a cat on the appropriate doors so
maybe even the animals understand. :)
PawsForThought - 12 Feb 2004 18:17 GMT
>From: yngver@aol.comnospam  (Yngver)

>But you're right, I'm
>just mystified as to why so many dog owners let their dogs bother cats in a
>waiting room.

Shows no consideration, IMO.  Like you, I prefer an all feline practice.  I
have been to a vet in the past that actually had separate entrance and waiting
areas for dogs and cats.

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Yngver - 12 Feb 2004 18:56 GMT
>Shows no consideration, IMO.  Like you, I prefer an all feline practice.  I
>have been to a vet in the past that actually had separate entrance and
>waiting
>areas for dogs and cats.

A good idea! That shows a vet that's concerned about keeping his/her feline
clientele. IMO, the clinic I mentioned has more of a dog orientation. Aside
from the tiny waiting room intermingling dogs and cats at close quarters, the
senior vet had pictures of his dogs on the walls, and he was really into doing
tests on our cat for heartworm--and while some of what he told us about
heartworm disease in cats was accurate, some of it was wrong and applied to
dogs, not cats. Also, when I asked to go back and say goodby to our cat when
she was about to be spayed, I found that the cats and dogs were both caged in
the same area. So you'd have sick cats in small cages right over top the large
dog cages, where the dogs would be barking. Enough to terrify any sick cat.

My own opinion is that if a vet seems more interested in dog care than in cats,
I'd rather go to one that specializes in cats. I don't want to feel our cats
are second class patients, and I'm sure such clinics alienate many cat owners.
On the other hand, I don't know whether there are dogs only clinics, for the
vets that prefer to treat just dogs. Anyone know?
Brandy??Alexandre - 12 Feb 2004 19:25 GMT
Yngver <yngver@aol.comnospam> wrote in rec.pets.cats.health+behav:

> My own opinion is that if a vet seems more interested in dog care
> than in cats, I'd rather go to one that specializes in cats. I
> don't want to feel our cats are second class patients, and I'm
> sure such clinics alienate many cat owners. On the other hand, I
> don't know whether there are dogs only clinics, for the vets that
> prefer to treat just dogs. Anyone know?

I thought my old vet was more interested in dogs than cats because he
was so "clinical" with Kami, where others would pet her and such.  But
then I found an article about him and three other vets who took part in
a record spay and neuter volunteer effort where they did over 90 feral
cats, etc.  He's gotta like them if he volunteered his time like that.  
I wish he would have moved with me (including the fact he's a handsome
devil).
PawsForThought - 12 Feb 2004 23:52 GMT
>From: yngver@aol.comnospam  (Yngver)

>Also, when I asked to go back and say goodby to our cat when
>she was about to be spayed, I found that the cats and dogs were both caged in
>the same area. So you'd have sick cats in small cages right over top the
>large
>dog cages, where the dogs would be barking. Enough to terrify any sick cat.

Wow, that is not good at all.  I wonder how common this is in vet clinics where
they have both dogs and cats.

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Sherry - 13 Feb 2004 05:30 GMT
>>From: yngver@aol.comnospam  (Yngver)
>
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
>
>Lauren

I think it''s common in small practices. It bothers me, too. Years ago I took
Cherokee to an "All Pets" clinic. When I picked him up the next day, he was
caged *right next* to a duck. Going "quack quack quack." Enough to drive a cat
insane, I'm sure.

Sherry
PawsForThought - 13 Feb 2004 13:22 GMT
>From: sriddles@aol.comkitty  (Sherry )

>>>From: yngver@aol.comnospam  (Yngver)
>>
[quoted text clipped - 18 lines]
>
>Sherry

Cherokee was quacking?!!
(sorry, couldn't resist :)

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Sherry - 13 Feb 2004 14:03 GMT
>>I think it''s common in small practices. It bothers me, too. Years ago I
>took
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
>
>Lauren

LOL! No, he was glaring out of the cage with a look that said, "Die, human
scum."
This was the cat that regularly beat up dogs. Had it been one of my timid boys,
I'd have been furious, but Cherokee was more mad than scared.

Sherry
PawsForThought - 13 Feb 2004 15:37 GMT
>From: sriddles@aol.comkitty  (Sherry )

>Years ago I
>>took
[quoted text clipped - 17 lines]
>
>Sherry

I bet he was mad!  I can't believe they would put a duck and a cat next to each
other.  I think cats need to be with cats only!

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Priscilla H Ballou - 13 Feb 2004 21:28 GMT
PawsForThought <darnit7@aol.comnolitter> quoth:
>>From: sriddles@aol.comkitty  (Sherry )
>>>>From: yngver@aol.comnospam  (Yngver)
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
>>
>>Sherry

>Cherokee was quacking?!!
>(sorry, couldn't resist :)

Yeah, if I were caged next to a duck, I'd be going "quack quack quack"
too!   (sorry)

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Yngver - 13 Feb 2004 18:24 GMT
>I think it''s common in small practices. It bothers me, too. Years ago I took
>Cherokee to an "All Pets" clinic. When I picked him up the next day, he was
>caged *right next* to a duck. Going "quack quack quack." Enough to drive a
>cat
>insane, I'm sure.

If it were our cats, they'd probably be trying to grab the duck. At least I
don't think they'd be scared of it, as they would be by the sound of a dog in
the next cage yelping and barking.
Cheryl - 13 Feb 2004 01:02 GMT
Feb 2004:

>  Also, when I asked to go back and say goodby to our cat when
> she was about to be spayed, I found that the cats and dogs were both
> caged in the same area. So you'd have sick cats in small cages right
> over top the large dog cages, where the dogs would be barking

I don't like that practice, either. All of the vets I've used including the
internist where Shadow spent a lot of time had their cage-setup like this.
The dogs bark non-stop, and who can blame them?  They're all scared.  :(

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Laura R. - 12 Feb 2004 03:53 GMT
circa 12 Feb 2004 01:55:39 GMT, in rec.pets.cats.health+behav, Cheryl
(jlhshadow@NOSPAMhotmail.com) said,

> Same here.  I've been to the vet at 1 am just because my cat was stuck
> there scared overnight, and it was an emergency vet and opened any ways,
> and let me come by just to sit with him.

Ditto. More times than I can even remember anymore.

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BigDaDDY - 12 Feb 2004 11:33 GMT
> circa 12 Feb 2004 01:55:39 GMT, in rec.pets.cats.health+behav, Cheryl
> (jlhshadow@NOSPAMhotmail.com) said,
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>
> Laura

WELL PIN A MEDAL ON ALL YOUR a.ses!!
Mary - 12 Feb 2004 18:03 GMT
> > circa 12 Feb 2004 01:55:39 GMT, in rec.pets.cats.health+behav, Cheryl
> > (jlhshadow@NOSPAMhotmail.com) said,
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
>
> WELL PIN A MEDAL ON ALL YOUR a.ses!!

I don't know, folks, I kind of like this guy.

:)

As long as his cat lives, that is.
Laura R. - 12 Feb 2004 21:10 GMT
circa Thu, 12 Feb 2004 03:33:45 -0800, in rec.pets.cats.health+behav,
BigDaDDY (ihatespam@hotmail.com) said,
> >> Same here.  I've been to the vet at 1 am just because my cat was stuck
> >> there scared overnight, and it was an emergency vet and opened any ways,
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>
> WELL PIN A MEDAL ON ALL YOUR a.ses!!

Oh, for pete's sake, you insufferable boor, have you ever heard of
"thread drift"? Your paranoia is overwhelming.

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Joe Canuck - 12 Feb 2004 00:43 GMT
>>>Ya know, If I wanted to be judged, I would have entered a popularity
>>>contest.  Perhaps you people could stick to answering the posts and keep
[quoted text clipped - 22 lines]
>
> Yeah, once again, superior intellect on your part...NOT!!  

You won't get the help you want by being insulting.

You do want help don't you?

There are several knowledgable people here who can offer that, but
generally people are turned off by insulting comments.

> Excuse the f.ck 
> out of me for trying to take advantage of all the resources available to
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> Besides, if you looked at my original post, it was at 1AM and we weren't
> going to go to the vet at 1AM.  

If the animal is in serious need of medical attention then going to the
vet at 1AM is most definitely advisable.

Many clinics offer emergency after hours vet services.

> Instead of knocking someone for trying to
> use all available resources,

That is just it, you did NOT use all available resources.

> maybe you should commend them for going above
> and beyond to try to understand what the problem may be and perhaps
> research that problem to find ways to prevent future occurances.  A vet can
> fix things, but only the owner can provide an environment that is less
> likely to create future problems.  So to you I say...BITE ME!

The bottom line here is that consulting a newsgroup for an obvious sick
animal is very poor substitute for going to the vet.

I noticed shortly after your post about your cat, your concern shifted
rather quickly to your garage floor with your post in alt.home.repair

Some of that cash going into fixing up your unfinished garage in that
home you just bought should be directed to the medical needs to your pet
cat. It isn't a matter of not enough cash, it is a matter of correct
allocation of the funds.

You need to work on your priorities.

Have a nice day.

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BigDaDDY - 12 Feb 2004 11:49 GMT
>>>>Ya know, If I wanted to be judged, I would have entered a popularity
>>>>contest.  Perhaps you people could stick to answering the posts and keep
[quoted text clipped - 72 lines]
>
> Have a nice day.

I can 100% honestly say, I do not think I have ever seen a person as stupid
as you in my entire life.  An example, here is your quote, "the bottom line
here is consulting a newsgroup for an obvious sick animal is a very poor
substitue for going to the vet."  Now, I know this may be difficult since
it is very evident that you have the IQ of a Frisbee, but point your little
mouse up to the very top of the thread and read my article again.  This
time try to comprehend it.  When you get to the part that says.. "The post
was simply a means to perhaps comfort her by possibly knowing what may be
wrong, not as a substitute for a second opinion." look back at what you
just posted, go to the mirror and bitch slap yourself upside the head and
yell, GOD am I f.cking stupid!!

If I wanted a bunch of Blah f.cking Blah responses, I would have asked for
them.  Now, do you think...you're cat is very sick is really beneficial?
It's like, NO sh.t Sherlock!  I obviously tried the vet once, and I posted
on here because that didn't work. Very sick is of absolutely no use
whatsoever. I can deduce that without the help of anyone on this board. I'm
interested in what is wrong not adjectives.

As for my garage, it is coming along nicely thanks.  The cat is not mine,
consequently I take no responsibility for it. I was just doing my fiance a
favor by posting here to try to help her out.  But since you are interested
in my priorities, I had a lot of fun doing the drywall in my garage.  In
fact, I wouldn't doubt it if all the joint compound dust has something to
do with what is wrong with my fiance's cat.  Her cat loves to sit on heater
vents and I'm sure a lot of that dust got sucked into the furnace and
eventually made its way into the house.  Fortunately when I was out there
working on the garage I had a respirator on so I wouldn't inhale all that
dust.
Joe Canuck - 12 Feb 2004 16:28 GMT
> I can 100% honestly say, I do not think I have ever seen a person as stupid
> as you in my entire life.

You HAVE lived a sheltered life haven't you?  :-)

> An example, here is your quote, "the bottom line
> here is consulting a newsgroup for an obvious sick animal is a very poor
> substitue for going to the vet."  Now, I know this may be difficult since
> it is very evident that you have the IQ of a Frisbee,

<yawn> Uh, sure... whatever you say Mr. BigDaDDy.  :-)

> but point your little
> mouse up to the very top of the thread and read my article again.  This
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> just posted, go to the mirror and bitch slap yourself upside the head and
> yell, GOD am I f.cking stupid!!

The animal is sick.

Very comforting to receive determination over the newsgroups that the
animal is in fact VERY sick.

This leads to a sleepless night and worry.

Better course of action: Find vet with emergency services, place cat and
fiance in car and drive to vet. Not only get diagnosis of problem but
fiance feeling better that medical person has looked at pet.

Was that simple enough for you?  :-)
Was there any word you did not understand?  :-)

> If I wanted a bunch of Blah f.cking Blah responses, I would have asked for
> them.  

I know you won't see this, but you did ask for them.  :-)

You are also asking for an attitude adjustment, but that can only be
delivered in person.   :-)

> Now, do you think...you're cat is very sick is really beneficial?

Yes, it is meant to alarm you and get your a.s in gear and out the door
to emergency vet services.  :-)

> It's like, NO sh.t Sherlock!  I obviously tried the vet once,

One time, as in singular. Good going Mr. BigDaddy.

Carefully noted how you didn't obtain a second opinion rather than waste
time in here.  :-)

> and I posted
> on here because that didn't work. Very sick is of absolutely no use
> whatsoever. I can deduce that without the help of anyone on this board. I'm
> interested in what is wrong not adjectives.

Well if you deduced that much then why didn't you get yourself and the
cat to emergency vet services immediately?  :-)

> As for my garage, it is coming along nicely thanks.  The cat is not mine,
> consequently I take no responsibility for it. I was just doing my fiance a
> favor by posting here to try to help her out.  

Fiance? So you are about to become a couple?

Yet you take NO responsibility for something near and dear to the heart
of your fiance? It is her problem is your attitude.

Wow, what an attitude towards a loved one!  :-)

> But since you are interested
> in my priorities, I had a lot of fun doing the drywall in my garage.  

I'm sure you have.

The cat on the other hand is just a pain in the a.s right?  :-)

> In
> fact, I wouldn't doubt it if all the joint compound dust has something to
> do with what is wrong with my fiance's cat.

Yet you allowed the cat to be subjected to it... knowing full well all
the time it might not be healthy.

Worse yet, you allowed your fiance to be also subjected to it.

>  Her cat loves to sit on heater
> vents and I'm sure a lot of that dust got sucked into the furnace and
> eventually made its way into the house.  Fortunately when I was out there
> working on the garage I had a respirator on so I wouldn't inhale all that
> dust.

It is all about YOU isn't it.

To hell with the fiance and cat inside the house breathing in the dust.

You could have prevented the dust from spreading to the rest of the
house, but you didn't.  :-)

You are another dime-a-dozen moron on the 'net. There were those before
you and there will be those after you.

Have a real nice day.  :-)

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Mary - 12 Feb 2004 18:08 GMT
> > I can 100% honestly say, I do not think I have ever seen a person as stupid
> > as you in my entire life.
>
> You HAVE lived a sheltered life haven't you?  :-)

I was going to say. Hell, I may be stupid, but I've met plenty
stupider people.

:) Big Daddy needs to get out more.
MacCandace - 13 Feb 2004 02:24 GMT
<< Fortunately when I was out there
working on the garage I had a respirator on so I wouldn't inhale all that
dust. >>

Oh, good, we were worried about your well-being and health.  I do hope poor
Sammy survives, though.

Candace
(take the litter out before replying by e-mail)

See my cats:
http://photos.yahoo.com/maccandace

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than human."  (Loren Eisely)
Brandy??Alexandre - 11 Feb 2004 17:35 GMT
BigDaDDY <ihatespam@hotmail.com> wrote in
rec.pets.cats.health+behav:

> Ya know, If I wanted to be judged, I would have entered a
> popularity contest.  Perhaps you people could stick to answering
[quoted text clipped - 13 lines]
> So after all the posts, not a single thing addressed my question.
> Thanks for nothin'!

What kind of reply were you looking for?  You said you didn't have a
lot of money, so I guess you wanted to hear something other than see
the vet again or find another.  That's not a useless response, that's a
damn sincere one.  While you're running around looking for someone to
tell you what you want to hear, your cat is suffering.  We can't tell
you what is wrong with your cat from a Usenet post.  All we can do is
weigh your experiences against our own and make wild guesses.  Here's
one for ya: when my other's cat didn't urinate for a number of days,
the vet found advanced bladder cancer when he tried to insert a
catheter.  Is that what you're looking for?
Wendy - 11 Feb 2004 17:39 GMT
Ya know, If I wanted to be judged, I would have entered a popularity
contest.  Perhaps you people could stick to answering the posts and keep
your judgements to yourselves, since you probably don't know the entire
story.

If you really want to know, there are probably very few people in the world
that love cats more than my fiance.  She was crying last night because she
was worried about her cat.  I told her I would post on here to see if
someone knew what may be the problem.  If you people are that dumb to think
we aren't going to go for a second opinion, then I guess I thought the
intellect on this board was a little higher. The post was simply a means to
perhaps comfort her by possibly knowing what may be wrong, not as a
substitute for a second opinion.

So after all the posts, not a single thing addressed my question.  Thanks
for nothin'!

You did get an answer. It is serious and get the cat either back to the vet
or to a new one. You're going to have to cough up some money to have at
least minimum testing done if you really want to find out what is wrong with
the cat. Nobody here is able to diagnose the problem because A) nobody has
actually seen your animal and B) nobody here is a vet.
Annie Wxill - 11 Feb 2004 17:47 GMT
.. The post was simply a means to
> perhaps comfort her by possibly knowing what may be wrong, not as a
> substitute for a second opinion.
> So after all the posts, not a single thing addressed my question.  Thanks
> for nothin'!
Big Daddy,
I don't know how your fianc? can get any comfort from this, and am not a
vet, but to me it sounds like an obstruction of the intestines.  I can't
imagine that a vet would mistake what you described as a urinary tract
problem.
I hope that you have gone to a legitimate, competent vet for a second
opinion by now, because, after a week of suffering the symptoms you
described, the cat is probably close to death.
In any case, both your fianc? and the cat have suffered longer than
necessary.
I would expect that with your superior intellect, you have come to realize
that the cat's suffering is of paramount importance to the otherwise (in
your opinion) mentally impaired and unhelpful members of this group.  This
is because the cat can't help itself. How long and how much it suffers
depends totally on you and your fianc?.
In your first post, you did not say that you planned to take the cat to
another vet for a second opinion.  You said you were concerned about the
cost.
The impression that you gave me was that you wanted the group to tell you
that  your cat had some simple problem that might be fixed at home so that
you would not have to spend the money.
However, with the information you gave, the only useful answer anyone can
give you is the one you got. The cat needs to see a vet as soon as possible.
That is the only way your fianc? will have the answer she seeks. Otherwise,
she'll just end up wondering, and her cat will be dead.
Please do the right thing.
Annie
Laura R. - 12 Feb 2004 03:57 GMT
circa Wed, 11 Feb 2004 11:47:58 -0600, in rec.pets.cats.health+behav,
Annie Wxill (Annie_Wxill@hotmail.com) said,
> I hope that you have gone to a legitimate, competent vet for a second
> opinion by now, because, after a week of suffering the symptoms you
> described, the cat is probably close to death.

He didn't even say *when* the cat was last at the vet, actually. Just
that the cat hasn't urinated or defecated for a week.

Somehow, I suspect that the cat was *not* at the vet a week ago,
based on the reactions from the OP in this thread.

Laura
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Mary - 11 Feb 2004 20:06 GMT
> Ya know, If I wanted to be judged, I would have entered a popularity
> contest.  Perhaps you people could stick to answering the posts and keep
> your judgements to yourselves, since you probably don't know the entire
> story.

Perhaps you could take your cat to the vet before she dies.
BigDaDDY - 11 Feb 2004 20:47 GMT
>> Ya know, If I wanted to be judged, I would have entered a popularity
>> contest.  Perhaps you people could stick to answering the posts and
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>
> Perhaps you could take your cat to the vet before she dies.

Perhaps you could kiss my a.s!
Cathy Friedmann - 11 Feb 2004 21:08 GMT
> >> Ya know, If I wanted to be judged, I would have entered a popularity
> >> contest.  Perhaps you people could stick to answering the posts and
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>
> Perhaps you could kiss my a.s!

Do you want advice, or are you just here to p*ss people off?!  This cat
_really_ does need to see a (competent) vet, immediately.

Cathy

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Brandy??Alexandre - 11 Feb 2004 21:02 GMT
Cathy Friedmann <clfr@adelphia.net> wrote in
rec.pets.cats.health+behav:

> Do you want advice, or are you just here to p*ss people off?!
> This cat _really_ does need to see a (competent) vet, immediately.

You kidding?  It needs a competent owner.
Mary - 12 Feb 2004 01:03 GMT
> > >> Ya know, If I wanted to be judged, I would have entered a popularity
> > >> contest.  Perhaps you people could stick to answering the posts and
[quoted text clipped - 13 lines]
>
> --

I have been envisioning "Big Daddy" stopped up like a corked bottle
and unable to pee for a week, (we'll give him two broken legs so he
can't take himself to the doctor) trying to explain to some BFI (big
f***ing idiot) like him why maybe it is time to take him to the
doctor. I'm not saying this ought to happen, but I am enjoying the
picture of him pleading while the BFI does a couple of nights of web
searching. :)

*People* who have surgery need to be up and having a bowel movement
within a few days or they can die.
Laura R. - 12 Feb 2004 03:59 GMT
circa Thu, 12 Feb 2004 01:03:25 GMT, in rec.pets.cats.health+behav,
Mary (rosefan@email.com) said,
> I have been envisioning "Big Daddy" stopped up like a corked bottle
> and unable to pee for a week, (we'll give him two broken legs so he
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> picture of him pleading while the BFI does a couple of nights of web
> searching. :)

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