"Priscilla Ballou" <vze23t8n@verizon.net> wrote
snip
> Was it possible that while he had that abscess, he was on or near the
> piano when something knocked against it causing pain? Animals will
> avoid places where they've experienced pain, even if there's no logical
> connection. That's one reason why a cat with a UTI may avoid using
> their litter box -- they associate it with the pain of peeing with a UTI.
Yes, this is possible. Good idea. He may indeed have tried to jump up (maybe
even a few times; those piano keys with the hands dancing on them look like fair
game) when the abscess was swollen and had particularly bad bouts of pain.
He seems more docile in general. He'll let me pick him up while I'm standing and
hold him for as long as I am able now. Before he wasn't all that keen on being
picked up for more than a moment.
Perhaps we bonded a little more because of this trauma. Or maybe this is wishful
thinking on my part. He's a good cat, either way.
To share more for the interested reader:
Thankfully, I have found a solution to his meowing indicating he wants to go
outside (which is not going to happen on purpose ever again). If he's run around
a lot already for the morning, I time him out for like five minutes in his (very
large) travel crate, in view of me. He settles down really fast. When I open the
door, he usually just keeps sitting there, purrfectly content. It's very
strange. It's like he just wants a little serious attention.
Priscilla H Ballou - 05 Jan 2004 18:04 GMT
Caliban <caliban03nospam@earthlink.net> quoth:
>He seems more docile in general. He'll let me pick him up while I'm standing and
>hold him for as long as I am able now. Before he wasn't all that keen on being
>picked up for more than a moment.
>Perhaps we bonded a little more because of this trauma. Or maybe this is wishful
>thinking on my part. He's a good cat, either way.
>To share more for the interested reader:
>Thankfully, I have found a solution to his meowing indicating he wants to go
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>door, he usually just keeps sitting there, purrfectly content. It's very
>strange. It's like he just wants a little serious attention.
These paragraphs seem possibly linked to me. He's had a big dose of
attention from you related to his care during his healing. So now he's
happier in physical contact with you, more docile about that contact, and
asks for attention. He sounds more bonded to me. I mean, he sounds to me
as if he's more bonded to you!
The cat I grew up with got very sick after we adopted him. My mother
nursed him back to health with droppers of warm milk and brandy, then
treated ringworm on top of his head with a cooling potion. For both of
these treatments, she put him in the leg of a pair of my jeans. I was
four years old at the time. That kitten grew into a cat who was totally
attached to us all. I used to carry him upside down, with his tail and
legs over my shoulder, and he'd purr all the while. (I stopped when I got
older and wised up.)
I think something similar may have happened with you and your little guy.
Your relationship may have just become even more special.
Priscilla
Caliban - 05 Jan 2004 18:55 GMT
"Priscilla H Ballou" <phb@shell01.TheWorld.com> wrote
snip
> These paragraphs seem possibly linked to me. He's had a big dose of
> attention from you related to his care during his healing. So now he's
[quoted text clipped - 13 lines]
> I think something similar may have happened with you and your little guy.
> Your relationship may have just become even more special.
Thanks for sharing this. I always like reading these histories. My cat certainly
had a rough go as I cleaned out his abscess several times over a few days, but
he got better about it each time. The theory that all this caused him to be more
comfortable with close contact certainly seems sound to me. :-)
Mary - 05 Jan 2004 19:02 GMT
"Caliban"
> To share more for the interested reader:
> Thankfully, I have found a solution to his meowing indicating he wants to go
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> door, he usually just keeps sitting there, purrfectly content. It's very
> strange. It's like he just wants a little serious attention.
You sound like an intelligent and interesting cat dad. :)
Caliban - 05 Jan 2004 20:36 GMT
> "Caliban"
> > To share more for the interested reader:
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
> >
> You sound like an intelligent and interesting cat dad. :)
Thanks. I am amazed this "time out" trick worked.
Likewise, I am enjoying your posts.
I'm actually a cat mom. I'll switch to my other address ("Caroline") and kill
this one fully, as most people think the name "Caliban" is a man's.
Mary - 06 Jan 2004 04:33 GMT
"Caliban" <caliban03nospam@earthlink.net> wrote in message
news:XUjKb.21814>
> I'm actually a cat mom. I'll switch to my other address ("Caroline") and kill
> this one fully, as most people think the name "Caliban" is a man's.
Ha ha! That explains it! Of course you are a good cat
parent/friend--but perhaps what is above average in a woman is even
more exceptional in a man! <ducking and running!