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Jeannie - 15 Dec 2003 09:14 GMT
I am going to stay with friends this Christmas and I don't know what to do
with my cat.  Do you think she would like it better if I took her with me
(about 2 hours drive away) or should I leave her at home and ask my
neighbour to feed her while I'm gone?

I've never left home for any length of time before and am planning to be
away for 3 days over Christmas.  Does anybody else take their cat with them
when they go away?  I must admit, I would be much happier if she came with
me, but the question really is....would she?

She is an inside / outside cat but obviously, if I did take her with me I
would keep her inside all the time.  Do you think it would confuse her too
much to take her away with me?  Any advice / experiences would be much
appreciated as decision time is drawing ever closer!!

Jeannie
afr - 15 Dec 2003 12:26 GMT
I think that most cats prefer to be on their own turf--provided they feel
safe and comfortable with the person who looks in on them.

ava

> I am going to stay with friends this Christmas and I don't know what to do
> with my cat.  Do you think she would like it better if I took her with me
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> Jeannie
Iain & Deb - 15 Dec 2003 12:36 GMT
> I am going to stay with friends this Christmas and I don't know what to do
> with my cat.  Do you think she would like it better if I took her with me
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> Jeannie

Three days isn't too long, especially if your neighbour can look in on
her.  Holidays can be really hectic, and your cat might not enjoy staying
at a strange place, even if you are there, when there is a lot of hustle
and bustle going on.    Also, if your friends are not cat people, they may
not really want you to bring her along; if on the other hand they are cat
people, there may be pets there that your cat won't interact with too
well.  As you say, you would be happy with her there, but would she be
happy?  Probably not.

If it were me, I'd leave her at home.

Deb

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lakinapook - 15 Dec 2003 17:43 GMT
I don't think its a good idea to take her with you.  Most cats get a
little freaked out at new environments, and it is unnecessarily
stressful to them.  When I go on vacation I get a friend or my father
to feed and scoop the box.  My cats usually give me an attitude when I
get back for leaving them, but they warm up again in a day or so.
Once I had to have my place exterminated, and I brought all of my cats
to my sisters house for a day.  They spent the day in her house hiding
under things and being really terrified.

> I am going to stay with friends this Christmas and I don't know what to do
> with my cat.  Do you think she would like it better if I took her with me
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> Jeannie
Barb - 15 Dec 2003 20:40 GMT
The main thing you would need to worry about if you did take your cat with
you would be that she could slip out and disappear.  I did take my first
Siamese from Long Island, NY to Syracuse, NY a few times in the car and once
up to Boston for visits.  It worked out fine. She was okay but I always
worried that someone would accidentally let her out.

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Laura R. - 16 Dec 2003 02:29 GMT
circa Mon, 15 Dec 2003 09:14:40 -0000, in rec.pets.cats.health+behav,
Jeannie (jean@NOSPAMspackman) said,
> I am going to stay with friends this Christmas and I don't know what to do
> with my cat.  Do you think she would like it better if I took her with me
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> much to take her away with me?  Any advice / experiences would be much
> appreciated as decision time is drawing ever closer!!

A lot depends on whether or not she's used to traveling. A friend of
mine in college used to bring her cat to her parents' house, which
was a couple of hours away, whenever she went home for more than an
afternoon, and he loved it. On the other hand, none of my cats would
relish the trip and it would be harder on them than leaving them at
home and having a sitter come in for them. Cats tend to be creatures
of habit who don't like their routines disturbed, so in general, it's
probably a better idea to leave the kitty home.

Laura
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Yngver - 16 Dec 2003 16:05 GMT
>A lot depends on whether or not she's used to traveling. A friend of
>mine in college used to bring her cat to her parents' house, which
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>of habit who don't like their routines disturbed, so in general, it's
>probably a better idea to leave the kitty home.

I agree that it depends on the cat. Our cats have been traveling with us since
they were kittens, so they don't mind car travel and seem to actually like
exploring another house, etc. When we have gone to stay with one of our sets of
parents over the holidays, the cats come with us. I've read that some cats are
more attached to their people than their home, and other cats are more attached
to their home than their people. Our cats seem happier to be with us even if it
means they are in a different place. Some cats are happier to be home even if
you aren't there. So again, it really depends on the cat and whether or not
he/she minds traveling.
rs - 19 Dec 2003 19:22 GMT
> I am going to stay with friends this Christmas and I don't know what to do
> with my cat.  Do you think she would like it better if I took her with me
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> Jeannie

We have two cats, and we have traveled with them three times in the last year (t
o my parents, 4-5 hours away).  After the first hour in the car (we rent cars fo
r travel, so they spend time getting used to the smell), they are fine.  I stron
gly agree with the poster who said some cats seem to be more attached to their p
eople than their places - this is our cats to a T.  In fact, once we are at my p
arents, they are sniffing, running, and really seem to have a good time (there a
re lots of big windows and wildlife to watch, where they are normally in the cit
y).  Of course, they both have traveled since young.  If a cat was unused to car
travel, I'd probably test it out with a few trips around the block to see how t
heir reaction would be first, and slowly build them up to longer trips.

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