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OT SIL motorcycle wreck update 2

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Annie Wxill - 03 Jul 2005 18:11 GMT
Hello everyone,
Thanks again for the support.  I'm sorry I haven't responded.  I've been
away from the computer since yesterday's message.
My daughter reports that her husband now is developing the bruises and black
eye associated with his injuries, but his memory continues to improve.  He
doesn't remember the accident, but is repeating himself less.
They found out from the police that the driver of the car that ran him off
the road admitted to the police that she saw him crash and did not stop. The
police also gave my daughter the name of the driver and her insurance
company.
The woman had not reported it to her insurance company when my daughter
called them.
Just in case the woman's problems are age related and she needs them, could
we please send some purrs her way, too?  She's in a lot of trouble.
Thanks,
Annie
sriddles@aol.com - 03 Jul 2005 19:20 GMT
> Hello everyone,
> Thanks again for the support.  I'm sorry I haven't responded.  I've been
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> Thanks,
> Annie

Annie, it is very sweet of you to be concerned about the hit&run
driver. But I'm afraid I would not be so charitable. She *knew* she
caused him to crash, and didn't even stop or call anyone. Whether or
not she has age-related or mental issues that attribute to that, she
should still have her license taken away forever. And I don't mean that
in a vindictive way. I just mean, she could kill someone.
Thank God it was not your SIL. Hope he continues to improve.

Sherry
Annie Wxill - 03 Jul 2005 20:19 GMT
> > Annie, it is very sweet of you to be concerned about the hit&run
> driver. But I'm afraid I would not be so charitable. She *knew* she
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>
> Sherry

I agree that she should lose her privilege to drive.  I suspect that will be
the result.  It is such a hard thing when people lose faculties because of
age to know at what point they need to stop driving before they kill or
seriously injure somebody. What she did was terribly wrong and I'll be
relieved if she does not get another chance to kill someone.  I can't say
how grateful I am that my SIL will be O.K. and that my daughter was not
riding with him.
However, I know nothing about this woman.  I'm assuming that she is not so
cold-hearted that she would on purpose cause a wreck and leave somebody for
dead in a ditch. I could be wrong.  Some people are like that.
But, I'm not ready to judge her.  She could just as easily be someone who
lives alone without close family and not able to assess her own ability to
drive safely. I guess that what I'm saying is that we have no way of knowing
at this point what she was thinking or what may have influenced her actions.
I do know that she is in serious trouble, thanks to witnesses who got
involved. They got license plate and description of the car and gave the
information to the police. Otherwise, she would not have been caught.  My
SIL does not remember what happened because of his head injury.  Without the
person or people who turned the woman in, his wreck probably would have been
considered just a guy on a motorcycle who lost control and ended up in a
ditch.
Also, I am so grateful to those who stopped and rendered aid and called an
ambulance.
So many people are afraid to get involved these days.
My SIL, by the way, when he heard what had happened, asked if the driver of
the car was O.K.  That is the kind of person he is.  She left him for dead
or to die, and he asks how she is.
So, I ask for purrs for my SIL because I know he deserves them, and for the
driver of the car because I don't know for a fact that she doesn't deserve
them, but I'm sure she needs them.
Annie
Howard C. Berkowitz - 03 Jul 2005 23:40 GMT
> > > Annie, it is very sweet of you to be concerned about the hit&run
> > driver. But I'm afraid I would not be so charitable. She *knew* she
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> at this point what she was thinking or what may have influenced her
> actions.

A friend of mine is a human factors psychologist who has done research
in the impairment of older drivers. One observation is that some
impairment is transient, or preventable: drugs that might not slow
reactions in a younger person do so with an older one. Most clinicians
aren't aware of needing to start the dose at a lower level and build it
up over a few days, or warn the patient not to drive for a short number
of days.

Of course, there is also permanent impairment, which can't be ignored.

> I do know that she is in serious trouble, thanks to witnesses who got
> involved. They got license plate and description of the car and gave the
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> them, but I'm sure she needs them.
> Annie
Annie Wxill - 03 Jul 2005 23:59 GMT
> A friend of mine is a human factors psychologist who has done research
> in the impairment of older drivers. One observation is that some
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>
> Of course, there is also permanent impairment, which can't be ignored.

Hi Howard,
That is an interesting thought.
She could have been under the influence of medication and not herself at the
time.
Or she could have been drunk.
Or permanently impaired.
Or on cold medicine.
Or any number of things.
Who knows?
It's scary to think of all the people who are behind the wheel who should
not be at that particular time, or ever for some.
At least she's responsible enough to have insurance.
Annie
Gabey8 - 04 Jul 2005 00:26 GMT
[[> A friend of mine is a human factors psychologist who has done research
> in the impairment of older drivers. One observation is that some
> impairment is transient, or preventable: drugs that might not slow
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>
> Of course, there is also permanent impairment, which can't be ignored.

Hi Howard,
That is an interesting thought.
She could have been under the influence of medication and not herself at
the
time.
Or she could have been drunk.
Or permanently impaired.
Or on cold medicine.
Or any number of things.
Who knows?
It's scary to think of all the people who are behind the wheel who
should

not be at that particular time, or ever for some.
At least she's responsible enough to have insurance.]]

I do hope that her driving abilities are re-evaluated as a result of this
accident. If her skills prove to be wanting, then I hope her license is
revoked.

Bless your SIL for being concerned for her well-being, and for the people
who got involved and helped your SIL and helped to ID the car that caused
the wreck.

I'm glad he'll be OK. Purrs are continuing for all concerned.

Donna, Captain, and Stanley
Annie Wxill - 04 Jul 2005 00:52 GMT
...> I do hope that her driving abilities are re-evaluated as a result of
this
> accident. If her skills prove to be wanting, then I hope her license is
> revoked.
...> Donna, Captain, and Stanley

I'm sure she will have a lot of explaining to do to the courts as well has
to her insurance company.
I think the re-evaluation will be the least of her problems, but I hope she
is re-evaluated with whatever consequences are appropriate.
Thank you for your concern and kind thoughts for my daughter and her
husband.
Annie
mlbriggs - 04 Jul 2005 00:32 GMT
> Hello everyone,
> Thanks again for the support.  I'm sorry I haven't responded.  I've been
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> could we please send some purrs her way, too?  She's in a lot of trouble.
> Thanks,

> Annie

Purrs for SIL's speedy recovery.  MLB
Christine Burel - 05 Jul 2005 14:45 GMT
Huge and continuing purrs for your daughter and son-in-law.  It does sound
quite sad for the old lady, too.
Christine
> Hello everyone,
> Thanks again for the support.  I'm sorry I haven't responded.  I've been
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> Thanks,
> Annie
 
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