I have been a lurker in this group for a few years. I've laughed and
cried through all of your stories. My beloved cat Weasie
(July 1990- June 2005) went to the Rainbow Bridge this past Saturday,
June 18. This is her story.
When I was 14 a neighbor down the street took in a cat that had a
litter of kittens in her garage. My younger brother and his friend
brought one of the kittens to our house to show me. Being an animal
lover (and never being able to resist a kitten) I decided then and
there we had to have one. Our previous cat Samantha, a Siamese, had
passed away a few years earlier at the age of 17. My mother was very
attached to that cat and devastated when she died. She was reluctant to
get another cat but I begged and cried and pleaded until my parents
finally broke down and said yes. My father took us to the neighbor's
house where there were several orange and white kittens. Right away I
saw the kitten I wanted. She was the fluffiest and had the most
stripes. I was in love.
We took her home and my mother named her Weasie after Weasie Jefferson
from the t.v. program The Jeffersons. The name was a good fit. Weasie
was feisty and full of personality. She wasn't always the friendliest
cat. She didn't bother or want to be bothered with people she
didn't know. She would often let you know when she was through being
pet with a bite to the hand. She loved to sit in laps. She was always
MY cat. The rest of the family loved her but found it hard to get close
to her because of her temperament. She was always with me. She spent
most of her time in my room. She slept with me every night. We grew up
together. I would talk to her and she would always seem to listen
intently. I had a bond with her that I've never had with any other
cat. She was so intelligent that she seemed more like a little person
than a cat. My parents didn't realize at the time how important
spaying was so when Weasie was 6, she became pregnant and gave birth to
a single kitten. We kept him and named him Simon and he still lives
with my parents. I was supposed to be going to school the morning that
she went into labor but she wouldn't let me leave. She kept following
me to the door. She wanted me to be with her. I stayed home with her
and she gave birth and continued to take care of her baby in my bedroom
closet. She was an excellent mother.
When I got married 5 years ago and moved from home to another state,
Weasie came with me. She made her first long car ride, and all of the
subsequent ones, without a peep. She took to my husband immediately and
loved him just as much as she loved me. We spoiled her. She was like
our child. She always wanted to be with us, next to us, on top of us.
One of her favorite things to do was to lay down in between us, even
forcing us apart by walking all over us until we moved so that she
could be in that spot. We called her the "In-the-Middler." We had a
million nicknames for her. She mellowed with age and became a really
sweet & gentle cat who just enjoyed being with the people she loved.
She loved to be pet on her head, chin and ears. She liked to put her
feet on us so she would be touching us as she slept or lounged beside
us. She enjoyed sleeping on our pillows and especially on the top of my
pillow above my head. She slept in our bed every night, enduring our
tossing and turning. She just wanted to be with her mama and daddy all
the time.
A few years ago, we felt a lump on her stomach. We took her to the vet
and he removed it. It turned out to be mammary cancer. About a year
later, she had another lump removed. During this time she was not sick
and continued to enjoy life. In March of this year we discovered
another lump. We had it removed again. When she came home from surgery
she crawled right into my lap, she just wanted to be with me.It was
sweet. It took a little while longer for her to recover this time, but
she did. Everything was fine until about 2 weeks ago when we noticed
that she had become a little bit thinner. She was still a healthy
weight so we just figured she was older and didn't have as much of an
appetite. Then she became too thin. She was wanting to be alone more.
She wasn't as interested in food. We made an appointment for the vet.
The day before we took her she refused to eat anything more than a tiny
bit of tuna and some licks of milk. Her eyes were yellow. She wasn't
herself. We knew it wasn't good. We prepared ourselves for the worst
and spent our remaining time with Weasie loving her and petting her and
saying our goodbyes. It was so hard. We took her to the vet who told us
what we already suspected. Her organs were failing. It was most likely
that she had undetectable tumors in them. There was no cure, only a
couple possible ways to extend her life. She had nothing left. We knew
anything more would be for us and not for her and that the quality of
any extended time would not be good. It was so tempting to try more
but when she soiled herself in the carrier in the vets office, we knew
we had to do what was best for her. We decided to let Weasie pass
peacefully before she would have to endure any more pain and suffering.
It was a quick and relatively peaceful death. It was also the hardest
thing I've ever done in my life. My heart is broken. I feel like
I'll never stop hurting. The house feels empty without her. I can't
believe she's gone. We decided to have her privately cremated and her
ashes returned to us. So she can be with us always, in our home and in
our hearts.
I could go on and on about Weasie, but I'll stop for now. Thank you
to everyone who has read this far. She was a very special little girl
who was a huge part of our lives. We miss her so much.
Here is a link if you would like to see pictures of Weasie:
http://community.webshots.com/user/kristyln
Kristy
KittyLady - 21 Jun 2005 18:40 GMT
Kristy,
I am so sorry for your loss. You story about her was beautiful. Sounds
like she lived a full, hearty and happy life. Purrs for you to find
peace and comfort.
Skritches,
KittyLady
Julie Cook - 21 Jun 2005 18:43 GMT
> I have been a lurker in this group for a few years. I've laughed and
> cried through all of your stories. My beloved cat Weasie
> (July 1990- June 2005) went to the Rainbow Bridge this past Saturday,
> June 18. This is her story.
<reluctantly snipping wonderful story of Weasie>
Kristy,
You have my heartfelt sympathy in the loss of Weasie. You wrote a very
loving memorial of Weasie's life with you and it's obvious she had a
long and happy life with you and later you and your husband. I enjoyed
the pictures - she looks a lot like my Hobbes in size (Hobbes is an
orange tabby without the tux). You gave her the ultimate gift of love
and although it is painful right now, hopefully soon the pain in your
heart will be replaced by the wonderful memories. My five send purrs
and gentle headbutts to you and your husband and I shall light a candle
tonight in her memory.
Julie, Hobbes, Selena, Lacey, Sam and Barnabus
MaryL - 21 Jun 2005 18:47 GMT
>I have been a lurker in this group for a few years. I've laughed and
> cried through all of your stories. My beloved cat Weasie
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>
> Kristy
Kristy,
Thank you so much for posting your message. That is a truly loving tribute
to a cat that seems to have been "Ms. Personality." Weasie was lucky to
have you, and you were lucky to have her. I understand the grief you are
feeling because I have been through it myself. Please know, though, that
time really will ease your pain. You will never forget Weasie -- but you
would not want to. In time, though, you will be able to think of Weasie and
all the wonderful times you had together instead of dwelling on her death.
I hope you will soon welcome another cat into your lives. This cat will not
replace Weasie; that would be impossible, but you will be able to share your
love with a new and different cat. And, you will be able to rescue another
cat that otherwise might not have had a home. I thought after I lost my
first cat many years ago that would not get another cat because I did not
want to go through that pain again (much as you described with your mother).
However, I eventually knew that I needed to continue with another cat -- and
I have had many years of pleasure with succeeding cats since reaching that
conclusion.
Once again, thank you for your message. You had me in tears, but I was also
smiling as I read of the special cat you had in your lives.
MaryL
Adrian - 21 Jun 2005 18:49 GMT
<snip>
>I feel like I'll never stop hurting. The house feels
> empty without her. I can't believe she's gone. We decided to have her
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>
> Kristy
{{{{{{{{{{Kristy}}}}}}}}}} You have my sincere condolences. I will light
a candle for Weasie. She was a beautiful cat, you must treasure the
pictures.

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A house is not a home, without a cat.
Melissa Houle - 21 Jun 2005 19:00 GMT
. We decided to let Weasie pass
> peacefully before she would have to endure any more pain and suffering.
> It was a quick and relatively peaceful death. It was also the hardest
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>
> Kristy
{{{Kristy}}}
Weasie sounds like a remarkable cat, and one well worthy of being loved and
mourned for. It's only natural that her absence will hurt, since she was so
central to your lives, and you shared so much of your life with her. For
what it's worth to you, I support the decision you made to let her pass over
the Rainbow Bridge. It was the kindest thing to do for the cat you loved so
much. But I know how sad it is to say that farewell, as does everyone else
here. I was lucky in that I still had Pan to come home to after that last
morning with Izzy.
I know it's far too soon right now, but six weeks after I had to say
farewell to Isadora, I went to the Humane Society, and chose a new cat
friend. Having another whiskery face to greet me at the door when I came
home from work was a great anodyne for the pain. And your home will not feel
so empty with a cat lounging around in the sunny places. Francesca is no
Izzy, but she has many lovable qualities of her own. There will never be
another Weasie, but may you find a worthy successor to love before too long.
Melissa
jmcquown - 21 Jun 2005 19:14 GMT
> I have been a lurker in this group for a few years. I've laughed and
> cried through all of your stories. My beloved cat Weasie
> (July 1990- June 2005) went to the Rainbow Bridge this past Saturday,
> June 18. This is her story.
(snipped wonderful story)
> I could go on and on about Weasie, but I'll stop for now. Thank you
> to everyone who has read this far. She was a very special little girl
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>
> Kristy
I'm soooooo sorry for the loss of Weasie. They are never with us long
enough, our furry ones. It's obvious she held a very special place in your
heart. She was a beautiful girl.
Jill
Mary - 21 Jun 2005 19:14 GMT
> I have been a lurker in this group for a few years. I've laughed and
> cried through all of your stories. My beloved cat Weasie
> (July 1990- June 2005) went to the Rainbow Bridge this past Saturday,
> June 18.
I looked at each photo--what a lovely girl, so full of personality.
I know your heart is broken. I am so sorry you had to lose her.
> Here is a link if you would like to see pictures of Weasie:
> http://community.webshots.com/user/kristyln
>
> Kristy
Susan M - 21 Jun 2005 19:19 GMT
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. {{{{hugs}}}}
Susan M
Otis and Chester
>I have been a lurker in this group for a few years. I've laughed and
> cried through all of your stories. My beloved cat Weasie
> (July 1990- June 2005) went to the Rainbow Bridge this past Saturday,
> June 18. This is her story.
W. Leong - 21 Jun 2005 19:25 GMT
That's a wonderful story about Weasie. She was a beautiful cat.
As others said, remember the good times you had with her.
My cat Rusty looks a bit like Weasie except he is almost completely
orange. He only has a small patch of white fur around his throat.
Rusty just turns 11 and I treasure whatever time he has left with me.
Winnie
>I have been a lurker in this group for a few years. I've laughed and
> cried through all of your stories. My beloved cat Weasie
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>
> Kristy
Karen - 21 Jun 2005 19:43 GMT
Oh my goodness. I started crying halfway through. Those are the most
difficult losses I think. The cat that raised us. They literally do. They
teach how to be good people just like our parents do. I can honestly say
Weasie (love that name) couldn't possibly have had a more loving and loved
life. It makes me happy to know that this beautiful kitty had SUCH a good
home and nothing but really good things in her life. I"m so sorry for your
hurt now, but the hurt is the balance of the amount of love we got, and that
cannot be a bad thing. Many, many hugs to you and your family. She was just
lovely.
> I have been a lurker in this group for a few years. I've laughed and
> cried through all of your stories. My beloved cat Weasie
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>
> Kristy
Fuga :o\) - 21 Jun 2005 20:17 GMT
I am very sorry for your loss.
fuga
Jeanne Hedge - 21 Jun 2005 20:28 GMT
Aw, Kristy, you have our condolences. Your Weasie sounds like she was
one heck of a kitty, and a very pretty lady too.
Jeanne Hedge, as directed by Natasha
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http://www.jhedge.com
Kristy - 21 Jun 2005 21:01 GMT
Thank you for your responses. You are all such kind people. I do have
another cat, a 4 year old named Lilly, but she has a different
personality. We love her very much but the bond just isn't the same.
Maybe someday it will be. Eventually we will rescue another cat for
ourselves and for Lilly. I guess we'll know when the time is right.
Thank you again.
Kristy
Victor M - 21 Jun 2005 21:19 GMT
> cried through all of your stories. My beloved cat Weasie
> (July 1990- June 2005) went to the Rainbow Bridge this past Saturday,
> June 18. This is her story.
I am so very sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing her story,
Weasie was loved and she loved you back. She will be waiting for you at
the RB, with the rpca gang to keep her company.
> http://community.webshots.com/user/kristyln
She was a beautiful girl.
Our deepest condolences for your loss.
Victor
Christina Websell - 21 Jun 2005 21:40 GMT
No words can comfort you enough right now. I will light a candle for Weasie
to find the path straight to the Rainbow Bridge where she will wait for you
in the company of all the other rpca cats and pets who have passed before.
She will be happy there.
Tweed
P.S I have now lit the candle, it's a lavender scented one.
>I have been a lurker in this group for a few years. I've laughed and
> cried through all of your stories. My beloved cat Weasie
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>
> Kristy
Christina Websell - 21 Jun 2005 22:37 GMT
> No words can comfort you enough right now. I will light a candle for
> Weasie to find the path straight to the Rainbow Bridge where she will wait
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> Tweed
> P.S I have now lit the candle, it's a lavender scented one.
I just blew the candle out 10.35 because somehow, I had a sense that Weasie
was there and didn't need it any more.
If you don't know the legend of RB, please ask.
Tweed
>>I have been a lurker in this group for a few years. I've laughed and
>> cried through all of your stories. My beloved cat Weasie
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>>
>> Kristy
mlbriggs - 21 Jun 2005 22:14 GMT
> I have been a lurker in this group for a few years. I've laughed and cried
> through all of your stories. My beloved cat Weasie (July 1990- June 2005)
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>
> Kristy
".....Rise up slowly, Angel..it's hard to let you go..."
Sincere condolences in the loss of one so loved. MLB
Irulan - 21 Jun 2005 22:26 GMT
We will light a candle for Weasie's safe journey to the RB. She will be
happy there.
Jazz & his mama

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from the stars we come
to the stars we return
from now until the end of time
>I have been a lurker in this group for a few years. I've laughed and
> cried through all of your stories. My beloved cat Weasie
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>
> Kristy
Helen Miles - 21 Jun 2005 23:00 GMT
It was also the hardest
> thing I've ever done in my life. My heart is broken. I feel like
> I'll never stop hurting. The house feels empty without her. I can't
> believe she's gone. We decided to have her privately cremated and her
> ashes returned to us. So she can be with us always, in our home and in
> our hearts.////
Many hugs and purrs. The greatest gift that you can give a beloved &
loyal companion is a dignified passage to rainbow bridge. She sounds a
very special and wonderful kitty. We'll light a candle for her journey.
Helen M
~*LiveLoveLaugh*~ - 21 Jun 2005 23:27 GMT
> I have been a lurker in this group for a few years. I've laughed and
> cried through all of your stories. My beloved cat Weasie
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> Here is a link if you would like to see pictures of Weasie:
> http://community.webshots.com/user/kristyln
Weasie was a very pretty girl. She reminds me of my two rescues I gave to
Mom and Dad. (She reminds me of Lucy girl). I'm sorry for your loss,
Kristy. It's so hard. Last year I lost my very first cat that I got as an
adult. It just about killed me. I will never feel the same about any other
animal. ...Special place for each of them.

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SuzQ - 21 Jun 2005 23:35 GMT
Weasie was beautiful, purrs for your grieving heart. She'll be waiting for
you at the Bridge.
Suz&Spicey
Elise - 22 Jun 2005 00:57 GMT
> I have been a lurker in this group for a few years. I've laughed and
> cried through all of your stories. My beloved cat Weasie
> (July 1990- June 2005) went to the Rainbow Bridge this past Saturday,
> June 18. This is her story.
Purrs for Weasie's peaceful journey to the Bridge and for your hearts to
heal

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Marina - 22 Jun 2005 03:39 GMT
> I could go on and on about Weasie, but I'll stop for now. Thank you
> to everyone who has read this far. She was a very special little girl
> who was a huge part of our lives. We miss her so much.
I am so sorry for your loss. Our sincerest condolences and deepest
rumbling purrs for your aching heart. You wrote a beautiful tribute to
your beautiful little girl.

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Singh - 22 Jun 2005 03:58 GMT
One of the bravest things a person can do is to let go and give a suffering
companion the most compassionate of gifts, a painless passing, and dear
Weasie is blessing you for it from the land of eternal summer. She will run
and play in the strength and health of youth in that place, and rest in
fields where catnip is abundant, giving of her love to the little ones who
cross over without ever having known the joy of a cat's company. And she
will rejoice with you someday, when you return to her. Purrs and prayers for
your heart, that you remember Weasie with joy and not regret, and for your
spirit's healing.
Blessed be,
Baha
Sam Nash - 22 Jun 2005 04:44 GMT
>I have been a lurker in this group for a few years. I've laughed and
> cried through all of your stories. My beloved cat Weasie
> (July 1990- June 2005) went to the Rainbow Bridge this past Saturday,
> June 18. This is her story.
A candle is lit for her safe passage to the Bridge and we're sending
comforting purrs to you.
Sam, assisted in purrs by Mistletoe
badwilson - 22 Jun 2005 08:29 GMT
A beautiful tribute to a beautiful cat. May she frolic happily at the
RB forever. Hugs and purrs,
--
Britta
"There is no snooze button on a cat who wants breakfast." -- Unknown
Check out pictures of Vino at:
http://photos.yahoo.com/badwilson click on the Vino album
> I have been a lurker in this group for a few years. I've laughed and
> cried through all of your stories. My beloved cat Weasie
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> attached to that cat and devastated when she died. She was reluctant
> to get another cat but I begged and cried and pleaded until my
parents
> finally broke down and said yes. My father took us to the neighbor's
> house where there were several orange and white kittens. Right away I
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
> other cat. She was so intelligent that she seemed more like a little
> person than a cat. My parents didn't realize at the time how
important
> spaying was so when Weasie was 6, she became pregnant and gave birth
> to a single kitten. We kept him and named him Simon and he still
lives
> with my parents. I was supposed to be going to school the morning that
> she went into labor but she wouldn't let me leave. She kept following
[quoted text clipped - 15 lines]
> to put her feet on us so she would be touching us as she slept or
> lounged beside us. She enjoyed sleeping on our pillows and
especially
> on the top of my pillow above my head. She slept in our bed every
> night, enduring our tossing and turning. She just wanted to be with
[quoted text clipped - 15 lines]
> tiny bit of tuna and some licks of milk. Her eyes were yellow. She
> wasn't herself. We knew it wasn't good. We prepared ourselves for
the
> worst and spent our remaining time with Weasie loving her and
petting
> her and saying our goodbyes. It was so hard. We took her to the vet
> who told us what we already suspected. Her organs were failing. It
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> and that the quality of any extended time would not be good. It was
> so tempting to try more but when she soiled herself in the carrier
in
> the vets office, we knew we had to do what was best for her. We
> decided to let Weasie pass peacefully before she would have to
endure
> any more pain and suffering. It was a quick and relatively peaceful
> death. It was also the hardest thing I've ever done in my life. My
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>
> Kristy
Exocat - 22 Jun 2005 10:43 GMT
Empathetic purrs from us. She was indeed a lovely lady. Such a moving
tribute.
May the years of happy memories eventually come to console you for the
awful pain of her loss.
Gordon, Bandit, Snowball & Raki
& Pericles RB in February.
>I have been a lurker in this group for a few years. I've laughed and
> cried through all of your stories. My beloved cat Weasie
> (July 1990- June 2005) went to the Rainbow Bridge this past Saturday,
> June 18. This is her story.
Pat - 22 Jun 2005 16:22 GMT
It's clear from the pics that she was a wonderful kitty and you loved her so
dearly. Now she is in peace at the bridge, where you will one day meet her
again. I know this was a hard decision and the loss must feel like a gunshot
to the heart. Comforting purrs are coming your way and for your DH and Lilly
as well. Thank you for posting the tribute and pics.
Jane - 22 Jun 2005 16:33 GMT
Kristy, she was a beautiful kitty! We all grieve with you.
Jane
>I have been a lurker in this group for a few years. I've laughed and
>cried through all of your stories. My beloved cat Weasie
>(July 1990- June 2005) went to the Rainbow Bridge this past Saturday,
>June 18. This is her story.
CatNipped - 22 Jun 2005 17:38 GMT
> I have been a lurker in this group for a few years. I've laughed and
> cried through all of your stories. My beloved cat Weasie
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>
> Kristy
{{{{{{{{{{Kristy}}}}}}}}}} I'm crying with you right now. I'm so sorry for
your loss. I have a 15-year-old girl, Bandit, and I can only imagine what
you're going through and can certainly sympathize. Hang it there,
eventually you'll get to the point where you can think about your Weasie
without feeling the sharp grief and only experiencing the love.
Hugs,
CatNipped
glsummer@neptunelink.com - 22 Jun 2005 18:33 GMT
>I have been a lurker in this group for a few years. I've laughed and
>cried through all of your stories. My beloved cat Weasie
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>
>Kristy
{{{{{Kristy}}}}}
Thank you for sharing your beautiful tribute to your Weasie. I know
how painful this must be for you, as she was so much a part of your
life for so many years.
Purrs for Weasie's gentle journey to the Bridge, and for your hurting
heart to heal with time.
Blessings,
Ginger-lyn
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http://www.spiritrealm.com/summer/
http://www.angelfire.com/folk/glsummer (homepage & cats)
http://freepages.genealogy.rootsweb.com/~summer/index.htm (genealogy)
http://www.movieanimals.bravehost.com/ (The Violence Against
Animals in Movies Website)
Steve Touchstone - 23 Jun 2005 03:12 GMT
>I have been a lurker in this group for a few years. I've laughed and
>cried through all of your stories. My beloved cat Weasie
>(July 1990- June 2005) went to the Rainbow Bridge this past Saturday,
>June 18. This is her story.
Purrs for your grieving heart, and lighting a candle for Weasie's
journey. Sadly, with the difference in life expectancy, we lose some
of our furry companions. Some folks, lkike your mother, can't stand
the pain of the loss and resist getting another companion. I'm glad to
hear that you already have another cat tp help you through your grief.
But, like you say, no two cats have the same personality, so there's
no real replacements, just someone else to share your love with.

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Christine Burel - 23 Jun 2005 17:09 GMT
I'm so very sorry for your loss, Kristy; I looked at your photos of her and
she was a real cutie pie. Many purrs from us to heal your heart.
Christine and Omar, Oreo, Midnight, Robin & Tucker
> I have been a lurker in this group for a few years. I've laughed and
> cried through all of your stories. My beloved cat Weasie
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>
> Kristy