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Cat Forum / Cat Anecdotes / June 2005I'm Home!
At least I'm on trial - to see if I can manage - otherwise straight back to Auntie Margarets..She made me promise not to lift anything heavier than a kettle of water or try to clean chicken pens out, so I've promised. I was just so homesick and wanted to see KFC & BF. Actually, I think I missed them more than they did me, judging how BF wound himself round Stan's legs! I am glad in one way because it means he would settle with anyone that fed him and if anything should happen to me (and it still could) that would be great that he could be happy. But..I am a bit selfish. Now I have a chance on life again I want him to be mine only, like he was. I know that I shouldn't feel this, but I do. Am I bad to feel this, or is it normal? Tweed > At least I'm on trial - to see if I can manage - otherwise straight back > to Auntie Margarets..She made me promise not to lift anything heavier than [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > > Tweed Here are purrs to help you pass the "trial". There truly is no place like home and I'm thrilled you are well enough for it this quickly. As to being selfish, I don't think so. He's your baby and you rightly expect him to be yours for a long, long time. Complete recovery purrs coming across the pond as well. Sam, closely supervised by Mistletoe > At least I'm on trial - to see if I can manage - otherwise straight back to > Auntie Margarets..She made me promise not to lift anything heavier than a [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > > Tweed I'd say it's rather like seeing your children grow up (I know, I'm childless, but I see this in my childed friends). You love to see them becoming more mature and confident, but you miss being "The One" in their life. Trust me, they missed you. They picked YOU. But it's nice to see BF opening up to people a little. So GOOD to have you back home and here! > At least I'm on trial - to see if I can manage - otherwise straight back > to Auntie Margarets..She made me promise not to lift anything heavier than [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > > Tweed You will do just fine if you just forget your normal routine and just do the easy things. Cleaning and cooking can wait -- When I couldn't bend easily to scoop the litter box,my son made a long wooden handle for a scooper, which made the job easy. I had to get help later on when the litter needed changing. If you have a microwave oven, frozen food makes that job easier. When I drove the car, I used a small pillow under the seat belt to protect my sore tummy. Walking helps restore your strength but don't make it strenuous. Purrs for a complete recovery. MLB > At least I'm on trial - to see if I can manage - otherwise straight back > to Auntie Margarets..She made me promise not to lift anything heavier than [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > > Tweed Its normal to feel this way. However cats being what they are it isn't likely to do you much good. Some of them do prefer men. That's why I still miss my Rosie so much. All the other cats we've had prefer Charlie. And Molly prefers the neighborhood kids and the teenage grandsons. Jake at least tries not to play favorites. He knows I'm the only one that will brush him and let him kneed with his needle sharp claws. But still I know if he had to choose.... Hopefully BF is just giving you the cold shoulder for a while so you will be properly contrite for abandoning him. Jo > At least I'm on trial - to see if I can manage - otherwise straight back to > Auntie Margarets..She made me promise not to lift anything heavier than a [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > > Tweed It's wonderful that you're home! I hope you really will go back to Auntie Margaret's if you aren't up to being on your own, but I hope you can stay there. Dorothy was right. There's no place like home! As for BF, no you aren't bad. Your feelings are perfectly normal. I suspect his attitude will change quickly. When my daughter took me home from the airport, after four weeks in Australia, Lindy allowed me to pet her, but when we sat down, it was my daughter she went to, rather than me. After my daughter left, though, Lindy was all over me. BF is probably just punishing you for being away, and he'll soon forgive you because he's glad you're home.  SignatureJoy **Don't believe everything you think** ... Now I have a chance on life again I want him to be > mine only, like he was. I know that I shouldn't feel this, but I do. Am > I bad to feel this, or is it normal? > Tweed He knows you're still Number 1. He was just kissing up to Stan because he didn't know if you were back for good or not and he didn't want to risk insulting the provider of the food. Simply a survival tactic, I'd say. Annie Glad to see you're feeling well enough to at least try out being back home. BF will come around. Take it easy and take advantage of being with the furry healers. > At least I'm on trial - to see if I can manage - otherwise straight back to > Auntie Margarets..She made me promise not to lift anything heavier than a [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > > Tweed aw, BoyFriend is YOUR boyfriend and he loves you and missed you lots just like KFC. Glad to hear you're back home, take it easy, and check in here with us everyday to let us know how everything is going, ok? Jazz & his mama SignatureIrulan from the stars we came, to the stars we return from now until the end of time. > At least I'm on trial - to see if I can manage - otherwise straight back to > Auntie Margarets..She made me promise not to lift anything heavier than a [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > > Tweed Welcome home. Feeling this way is perfectly normal - all love is just a little bit selfish. Hugs, CatNipped Blessedly normal! Welcome home and many, many purrs that your recuperation goes swimmingly! Christine > At least I'm on trial - to see if I can manage - otherwise straight back to > Auntie Margarets..She made me promise not to lift anything heavier than a [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > > Tweed >At least I'm on trial - to see if I can manage - otherwise straight back to >Auntie Margarets..She made me promise not to lift anything heavier than a [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > >Tweed Of course it's not bad!! It's perfectly natural. And BF was probably giving you a bit of a cold shoulder for leaving him. He'll come around. So pleased that you are back, and things are looking up. Theresa Stinky Pictures: http://community.webshots.com/album/125591586JWEFwh My Blog: http://www.humanitas.blogspot.com > At least I'm on trial - to see if I can manage - otherwise straight back to > Auntie Margarets..She made me promise not to lift anything heavier than a [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > mine only, like he was. I know that I shouldn't feel this, but I do. Am I > bad to feel this, or is it normal? Of course it is. He's just punishing you a little for being away. I used to be a bit jealous because Nikki would love on my mother, but then Frank has always been such a Mama's boy and always snubs everyone else that he more than made up for it. So glad to see you back, hope you can stay at home. I'm sure Boyfriend is very happy to have you home (and Kitty FC, too). SignatureMarina, Frank and Miranda. In loving memory of Nikki. marina (dot) kurten (at) pp (dot) inet (dot) fi Pics at http://uk.pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/frankiennikki/ and http://community.webshots.com/user/frankiennikki > At least I'm on trial - to see if I can manage - otherwise straight > back to Auntie Margarets..She made me promise not to lift anything [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > > Tweed I'm so glad you're back! Please don't overdo things. I expect BF wound himself round Stan's legs just to tease you, you're the one he really loves. SignatureAdrian (Owned by Snoopy & Bagheera) A house is not a home, without a cat. Welcome Back!! Never underestimate the awesome Power of the Purr. BF's making up to his recent food provider is indeed quite normal, but he'll soon be back all over you like a furry rash, fear ye not. Get fully well soon but don't overdo things. Purrs & best wishes Gordon/Bandit/Snowball/Raki > At least I'm on trial - to see if I can manage - otherwise straight > back to Auntie Margarets >At least I'm on trial - to see if I can manage - otherwise straight back to >Auntie Margarets..She made me promise not to lift anything heavier than a [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] >mine only, like he was. I know that I shouldn't feel this, but I do. Am I >bad to feel this, or is it normal? Terrific news. Purrs that you find you can get around well enough to stay at home. You'll probably recover faster if you do, and I'm sure BF and KFC would rather you be there looking after them. SignatureSteve Touchstone, faithful servant of Sammy and Little Bit stouchst@JUNKsirinet.net [remove Junk for email] Home Page: http://www.sirinet.net/~stouchst/index.html Cat Pix: http://www.sirinet.net/~stouchst/animals.html I'm so very glad to hear you're home, but please do not overdo it, take it easy! You are not selfish to want to be with BF, you and only you are his meowmie! Best wishes and lots of healing purrs, SignaturePolonca & Soncek > At least I'm on trial - to see if I can manage - otherwise straight back to > Auntie Margarets..She made me promise not to lift anything heavier than a [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > > Tweed > But..I am a bit selfish. Now I have a chance on life again I want him to > be mine only, like he was. I know that I shouldn't feel this, but I do. > Am I bad to feel this, or is it normal? It sounds pretty normal to me. Cats are such special and beautiful creatures that it is an honor when one decides that you're the most special person in the world. Pam S. who is in love with all of them. WELCOME!!! I'm glad to hear you're up and about, and don't lift! Be a diva for a while and don't pick up anything heavier than a coffee cup and a cookie. You've got it coming. Blessed be, Baha > At least I'm on trial - to see if I can manage - otherwise straight back to > Auntie Margarets..She made me promise not to lift anything heavier than a [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > > Tweed Welcome home Tweed. We've been purring hard for you and are sooo glad that you are back with KFC and BF where you belong. Please don't overdo it. I occasionally feel unpleasant thoughts when Otis appears friendly to somebody else so I know the feeling. I rather suspect though that BF was trying to prove a point to you! He missed you terribly and was trying to make you jealous! Susan M Otis and Chester > At least I'm on trial - to see if I can manage - otherwise straight back > to Auntie Margarets..She made me promise not to lift anything heavier than [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > > Tweed |
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