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[OT] bittersweet Mother's Day

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John F. Eldredge - 08 May 2005 04:03 GMT
Tomorrow is the Mother's Day holiday in the USA.  It will be a
somewhat bittersweet day for me, as Monday will be the 4th anniversary
of my Mother's death.  On the one hand, I have the good memories of
Mom to look back at; on the other hand, I wish I still had her.

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Catnipped - 08 May 2005 04:05 GMT
> Tomorrow is the Mother's Day holiday in the USA.  It will be a
> somewhat bittersweet day for me, as Monday will be the 4th anniversary
> of my Mother's death.  On the one hand, I have the good memories of
> Mom to look back at; on the other hand, I wish I still had her.

{{{{{{{{{{John}}}}}}}}}}

I'm so sorry, John.  Just remember (and I say this as a mom) she would want
to to be happy on her special day, not sad - so go and do something fun to
celebrate your mom!  She'll be smiling down on you as you do!

Hugs,

CatNipped
Hopitus - 08 May 2005 04:30 GMT
My mother has been gone 36 years now and I share your feelings. If you think
it will help, spending some time
Sun. & Mon. meditating on those good memories could boost your spirits.
Remember, you can go anywhere you want to in the past......in your mind; our
loved ones live on as long as we remember them.

>> Tomorrow is the Mother's Day holiday in the USA.  It will be a
>> somewhat bittersweet day for me, as Monday will be the 4th anniversary
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> CatNipped
Melissa Houle - 08 May 2005 07:27 GMT
> My mother has been gone 36 years now and I share your feelings. If you think
> it will help, spending some time
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> >> "Reserve your right to think, for even to think wrongly is better
> >> than not to think at all." -- Hypatia of Alexandria

Echoing the hugs and the advice, John.  I'd say, eat at her favorite
restaurant in her honor, or do some other thing you know she would have
enjoyed tomorrow.  And remember her with love.

Melissa
polonca12000 - 08 May 2005 12:21 GMT
Lots of hugs and purrs,
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> Tomorrow is the Mother's Day holiday in the USA.  It will be a
> somewhat bittersweet day for me, as Monday will be the 4th anniversary
> of my Mother's death.  On the one hand, I have the good memories of
> Mom to look back at; on the other hand, I wish I still had her.
William Hamblen - 08 May 2005 13:47 GMT
>Tomorrow is the Mother's Day holiday in the USA.  It will be a
>somewhat bittersweet day for me, as Monday will be the 4th anniversary
>of my Mother's death.  On the one hand, I have the good memories of
>Mom to look back at; on the other hand, I wish I still had her.

"Call your Mama.  I wish I could." - Alabama football coach Bear
Bryant in a long distance telephone ad.
Christine Burel - 08 May 2005 15:49 GMT
{{{{{John}}}} -- it is always hard to lose a parent -- I feel this way about
my Dad on Father's Day (he died in 1980).
Christine
> Tomorrow is the Mother's Day holiday in the USA.  It will be a
> somewhat bittersweet day for me, as Monday will be the 4th anniversary
> of my Mother's death.  On the one hand, I have the good memories of
> Mom to look back at; on the other hand, I wish I still had her.
Marina - 09 May 2005 11:03 GMT
> {{{{{John}}}} -- it is always hard to lose a parent -- I feel this way about
> my Dad on Father's Day (he died in 1980).

Mine died in 1988, and I feel the same way. It especially annoys me when
I see some ad saying, 'what are *you* getting your father for Father's
Day?' Or 'Daddy's favourite books' (not that any of them are ever
anything my Dad would have liked to read anyway).

It was Mother's Day here in Finland, too, yesterday. I took my Mum out
for dinner (Indian) and a movie (Merchant of Venice). Lucky her, she's
leaving for the island today.

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glsummer@neptunelink.com - 08 May 2005 18:37 GMT
>Tomorrow is the Mother's Day holiday in the USA.  It will be a
>somewhat bittersweet day for me, as Monday will be the 4th anniversary
>of my Mother's death.  On the one hand, I have the good memories of
>Mom to look back at; on the other hand, I wish I still had her.

{{{{John}}}}

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Mary - 08 May 2005 19:09 GMT
> Tomorrow is the Mother's Day holiday in the USA.  It will be a
> somewhat bittersweet day for me, as Monday will be the 4th anniversary
> of my Mother's death.  On the one hand, I have the good memories of
> Mom to look back at; on the other hand, I wish I still had her.

I know how you feel, John. My mother died eight years ago, though
not so close to Mother's day.  I am always invited out with my husband
and his mother, but I prefer to stay home and think about my mom.
I don't know if they understand or not. For as common as mothers
are, each one is totally precious--to her own children.
Christina Websell - 08 May 2005 22:58 GMT
In UK our Mother's Day is in March. The second one since my mother was gone.
I am not sure I will ever get over her sudden death, so I can understand how
you feel, John.
There is no-one like your mother and I feel for you.

Tweed

> Tomorrow is the Mother's Day holiday in the USA.  It will be a
> somewhat bittersweet day for me, as Monday will be the 4th anniversary
> of my Mother's death.  On the one hand, I have the good memories of
> Mom to look back at; on the other hand, I wish I still had her.
hobbs - 09 May 2005 00:49 GMT
So sorry for that sad little post John, but as you said at least you have
fond memories    Jean.P.
> Tomorrow is the Mother's Day holiday in the USA.  It will be a
> somewhat bittersweet day for me, as Monday will be the 4th anniversary
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> "Reserve your right to think, for even to think wrongly is better
> than not to think at all." -- Hypatia of Alexandria
Lesley - 09 May 2005 12:01 GMT
Tomorrow is the Mother's Day holiday in the USA.  It will be a
somewhat bittersweet day for me, as Monday will be the 4th anniversary
of my Mother's death.  On the one hand, I have the good memories of
Mom to look back at; on the other hand, I wish I still had

Next Monday will be the 1st anniversary of my mothers death. Mother's
day over here is March and all I remember of the last one is that
everyone seemed on the day to be carrying bunches of flowers I'd never
noticed that before....

Treasure the good memories

Lesley

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