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Karen - 20 Mar 2005 19:12 GMT
OK, I'm really getting PO'd over this. I feel bad for everyone involved, but
geez, do you suppose the President of the US and Congress would meet
specially just for ME, were I in this situation?? Get the ear of the brother
of the President and I guess you win. Gagh. Sorry. Just had to vent because
there are SOOOOOOO many issues that could use this kind of attention that
might actually move things in a useful direction. Let this be a lesson to us
all, no matter our age, to put IN WRITING somewhere what we want should we
become incapacitated.
mlbriggs - 20 Mar 2005 19:14 GMT
> OK, I'm really getting PO'd over this. I feel bad for everyone involved,
> but geez, do you suppose the President of the US and Congress would meet
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> be a lesson to us all, no matter our age, to put IN WRITING somewhere what
> we want should we become incapacitated.

Did  so  long ago.  But how would you ever know if your wishes are
followed?
Karen - 20 Mar 2005 19:23 GMT
>> OK, I'm really getting PO'd over this. I feel bad for everyone involved,
>> but geez, do you suppose the President of the US and Congress would meet
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> Did  so  long ago.  But how would you ever know if your wishes are
> followed?

I suppose you wouldn't but you'd have a hell of a lot better chance than
not. None of these people have been able to move on with their lives for
years now. I can't imagine Terry Schaivo would in anyway be happy with any
of it. I know I would not want my family to just be trapped forever in a
limbo, because that is what it is for all parties concerned, they just all
have to live in this pergatory.
Yoj - 21 Mar 2005 06:27 GMT
> >> OK, I'm really getting PO'd over this. I feel bad for everyone involved,
> >> but geez, do you suppose the President of the US and Congress would meet
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
> limbo, because that is what it is for all parties concerned, they just all
> have to live in this pergatory.

I agree!

Joy
Tanada - 20 Mar 2005 21:05 GMT
> OK, I'm really getting PO'd over this. I feel bad for everyone involved, but
> geez, do you suppose the President of the US and Congress would meet
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> all, no matter our age, to put IN WRITING somewhere what we want should we
> become incapacitated.

I just wish that they'd let that poor woman go.  She's been brain dead
forever (ok, 15 years) and there is no chance that she's ever going to
recover.  I'd rather go peacefully than function like this.

Pam S. who had to face the possibility of this decision with Rob
Victor Martinez - 20 Mar 2005 21:11 GMT
> OK, I'm really getting PO'd over this. I feel bad for everyone involved, but
> geez, do you suppose the President of the US and Congress would meet
> specially just for ME, were I in this situation?? Get the ear of the brother

What I find truly telling is how the republicans in power, who are
supposed to be all for state independence and for preventing federal
intervention on states' rights, couldn't care less about it when it
comes to advancing their "moral" agenda.

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Karen - 20 Mar 2005 21:37 GMT
>> OK, I'm really getting PO'd over this. I feel bad for everyone involved, but
>> geez, do you suppose the President of the US and Congress would meet
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> intervention on states' rights, couldn't care less about it when it
> comes to advancing their "moral" agenda.

It just makes me wonder what the government is going to tell me I have to
believe in next :(
Hopitus - 21 Mar 2005 01:06 GMT
Victor, the media is saying blatantly that the GOP is only
doing this "Save Schiavo" melodrama effort to satisfy and
continue their support from right-wing "values" vote support.
And by the way, all of you: this old former ER worker
wishes she had a nickel for every time someone at death's door, literally
(not like Schiavo) rolled in in the
Big Red Bus complete with Living Will, and some hys-
terical adult offspring of theirs *overrides* the afflicted
one's wishes and it "all stops out, full speed ahead" to
save their life no matter what.
My only satisfaction and comfort re this disturbing obser-
vation is that in spite of the insanity going on both in the
ER and up in Intensive Care - yeah, they're on a vent up
there - is that usually, in a few days or less, God prevails
in His obvious intentions.
I was always grateful that I only had to xray these people, and not do what
the nurses did.

>> OK, I'm really getting PO'd over this. I feel bad for everyone involved,
>> but
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> intervention on states' rights, couldn't care less about it when it comes
> to advancing their "moral" agenda.
EvelynVogtGamble(Divamanque) - 21 Mar 2005 02:45 GMT
> Victor, the media is saying blatantly that the GOP is only
> doing this "Save Schiavo" melodrama effort to satisfy and
> continue their support from right-wing "values" vote support.

Does anyone have any doubts about that?
Lucy's Mom - 21 Mar 2005 01:12 GMT
You've got a good point, Victor.

I usually consider myself Republican and quite conservative but I'm
really beginning to re-consider.  There are so many things that should
be states' and personal rights that the federal govt has their fingers
in....many of them in the name of morality and national security.

Anyway, to echo what other's have said.....let the poor woman die and
get on with life....

>> OK, I'm really getting PO'd over this. I feel bad for everyone involved, but
>> geez, do you suppose the President of the US and Congress would meet
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>intervention on states' rights, couldn't care less about it when it
>comes to advancing their "moral" agenda.
EvelynVogtGamble(Divamanque) - 21 Mar 2005 02:40 GMT
>> OK, I'm really getting PO'd over this. I feel bad for everyone
>> involved, but
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> intervention on states' rights, couldn't care less about it when it
> comes to advancing their "moral" agenda.

Which, in this case seems quite the OPPOSITE of "moral", in
the opinion of many people!  I cannot understand how a
government willing to send thousands of young American men
to die in a war that didn't have to happen (and only did
because our government lied to us) can get so het up over
one brain-dead woman who has already been artificially kept
alive for fifteen years!  Someone should get their
priorities straight!  (Many of us consider Bush a moron -
but has his entire ADMINISTRATION taken "stupid pills"?)
Melissa Houle - 21 Mar 2005 07:46 GMT
SNIP(Many of us consider Bush a moron -
> but has his entire ADMINISTRATION taken "stupid pills"?)

Congress too, extra strength 24 hour "Stupid but Moral" pills.  And they
sure didn't buy them from Canada.
However, I'd better stop before this becomes a rant. It's time and past time
for Terry Shiavo's body be allowed to die, as sadly, her brain did, fifteen
years ago.

Melissa
Yoj - 21 Mar 2005 08:33 GMT
> SNIP(Many of us consider Bush a moron -
> > but has his entire ADMINISTRATION taken "stupid pills"?)
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>
> Melissa

Amen!

Joy
Kreisleriana - 21 Mar 2005 19:34 GMT
>> OK, I'm really getting PO'd over this. I feel bad for everyone involved, but
>> geez, do you suppose the President of the US and Congress would meet
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>intervention on states' rights, couldn't care less about it when it
>comes to advancing their "moral" agenda.

What I find irritating is all the rhetoric about "compassion for the
most vulnerable among us" when they want to cut Medicaid, Medicare,
they won't raise the minimun wage, they want to dismantle Social
Security, and there are still more than 40 million Americans with no
health insurance.  

Theresa
Stinky Pictures: http://community.webshots.com/album/125591586JWEFwh
My Blog: http://www.humanitas.blogspot.com
EvelynVogtGamble(Divamanque) - 22 Mar 2005 05:35 GMT
> What I find irritating is all the rhetoric about "compassion for the
> most vulnerable among us" when they want to cut Medicaid, Medicare,
> they won't raise the minimun wage, they want to dismantle Social
> Security, and there are still more than 40 million Americans with no
> health insurance.

And an increasing number of America's trained workers
without jobs!
William Hamblen - 21 Mar 2005 01:06 GMT
>OK, I'm really getting PO'd over this. I feel bad for everyone involved, but
>geez, do you suppose the President of the US and Congress would meet
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>all, no matter our age, to put IN WRITING somewhere what we want should we
>become incapacitated.

In my opinion this case stinks.

The woman was tube fed for years before her husband by some means of
mental telepathy decided that his wife did not want to be fed any
more.  She has severe neurological impairments but she is not "brain
dead".  A brain dead woman does not breathe on her own.  

Tube feeding is not exactly high tech.  I know you can tube feed
someone at home if it is necessary.  A PEG tube, which they apparently
are using in this case, is not painful and the patient can be fed that
way indefinitely.  Withdrawing the feeding tube means a lingering
death from hunger and thirst.  That is not what I'd call dignity.

Each state has procedures for making advance directives.  To avoid any
question, my state requires the person to be fully informed of the
implications and the papers to be signed and witnessed.  Without any
advance directive, I think continuing to simply feed the patient is
not an extreme measure.
Karen - 21 Mar 2005 01:27 GMT
>> OK, I'm really getting PO'd over this. I feel bad for everyone involved, but
>> geez, do you suppose the President of the US and Congress would meet
[quoted text clipped - 23 lines]
> advance directive, I think continuing to simply feed the patient is
> not an extreme measure.

I agree the case stinks. Although, I do begin to wonder why the family
doesn't press charges against the husband as everything I hear them say
sounds like abuse, legal guardian or no. If he is doing what they say he is
doing, why aren't they taking the route of charging him? But I digress. What
I am having a problem with is the U.S. Congress interfering, having special
sessions and the President making a spectacle flying back to Washington to
sign whatever passes immediately. I've never seen this kind of attention to
any kind of similar situation and they certainly must exist. That is what I
don't get and am not happy about.
EvelynVogtGamble(Divamanque) - 21 Mar 2005 02:49 GMT
>>>OK, I'm really getting PO'd over this. I feel bad for everyone involved, but
>>>geez, do you suppose the President of the US and Congress would meet
[quoted text clipped - 33 lines]
> any kind of similar situation and they certainly must exist. That is what I
> don't get and am not happy about.

And you know who is footing the BILL for all these "special
sessions", don't you?  Despite record budget deficits and
all the underfunded programs that might have improved
everyone's lot scattered along the way?
William Hamblen - 21 Mar 2005 04:29 GMT
>>>>OK, I'm really getting PO'd over this. I feel bad for everyone involved, but
>>>>geez, do you suppose the President of the US and Congress would meet
[quoted text clipped - 38 lines]
>all the underfunded programs that might have improved
>everyone's lot scattered along the way?

Her care is being paid from the proceeds of a large medical
malpractice award.  She is not on public assistance.
Karen - 21 Mar 2005 04:56 GMT
>>>>> OK, I'm really getting PO'd over this. I feel bad for everyone involved,
>>>>> but
[quoted text clipped - 45 lines]
> Her care is being paid from the proceeds of a large medical
> malpractice award.  She is not on public assistance.

I did not know before tonight that the original heart problem was a chemical
imbalance due to bulimia. Which really makes me believe that this woman
would have no desire to exist in this state since self image is the largest
factor in such an illness. That aside, we are now paying for every minute of
Congress working on this. That is not covered by any malpractice award. That
is what was being spoken of. I would rather see Congress working overtime on
a law that is working to change societies perception of twiginess being
desirable. It would be more useful and more applicable to the entire
situation.
Christina Websell - 23 Mar 2005 00:32 GMT
>>>> in article vp0s31do9hrqvak1dhcrpaca222pqvtper@4ax.com, William Hamblen
>>>> at
[quoted text clipped - 74 lines]
> desirable. It would be more useful and more applicable to the entire
> situation.

Please don't start me on society's perception that women should be thin..NO,
I won't go there.  It makes me so angry that I can't even think about it.
I am not overweight myself - well, maybe just a few pounds! - but I just
hate the way some people judge women who are, well, "fluffy."
I have two beloved friends who are well over what you might call an ideal
weight.  So what?
They have both supported me through my recent troubles.  For some reason -
probably totally unconnected - my thin friends haven't.

Tweed
Mary - 23 Mar 2005 01:40 GMT
"Christina Websell" <spamfree@tinawebsell.wanadoo.co.uk> wrote>
> Please don't start me on society's perception that women should be thin..NO,
> I won't go there.  It makes me so angry that I can't even think about it.
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> They have both supported me through my recent troubles.  For some reason -
> probably totally unconnected - my thin friends haven't.

You sound like a wonderful friend to have. Re weight, my own mother
began to look askance on my sister when she became overweight, though
she doted on her while she was "little and pretty." I recall that she used
to
refer to both of us in glowing terms when we were both our thinnest,
actually using the phrase, "Deb is TINY! Just beautiful." This may be
because Mom was 5'3" and had to struggle to keep her own weight
down--but I was surprised when she began to look at Deb with
disapproval when she gained weight after having her babies and did
not take it off. It actually made me think less of my mother. But it
was another way I learned from her--about a way I never want
to be. (We learn from everything, if we want to.)
pmendhall - 21 Mar 2005 05:06 GMT
> Her care is being paid from the proceeds of a large medical
> malpractice award.  She is not on public assistance.

I believe there was no question about who was paying for her care, but
rather the special sessions for congress, the president to fly back and make
his statement, etc.

Diane
Dan M - 21 Mar 2005 16:46 GMT
>>And you know who is footing the BILL for all these "special
>>sessions", don't you?  Despite record budget deficits and
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> Her care is being paid from the proceeds of a large medical
> malpractice award.  She is not on public assistance.

Yes, but the special sessions of Congress, transportation of the
Congressmen involved, getting Prez Bubba back to DC (I doubt that any of
those folks fly coach) is expensive. And the money to pay for it is
coming right out of our pockets.

And that still ignores the issue of why it's necessary to get so many
people involved. If this case had not somehow won the attention of the
national press you know perfectly well that none of the Congresspeople
or the Prez would give a rat's hindquarter about it.
Hopitus - 21 Mar 2005 19:16 GMT
"Rat's hindquarter" - I love it; a refined way to say that
old southern expression I grew up with.......

>>>And you know who is footing the BILL for all these "special sessions",
>>>don't you?  Despite record budget deficits and all the underfunded
[quoted text clipped - 12 lines]
> national press you know perfectly well that none of the Congresspeople or
> the Prez would give a rat's hindquarter about it.
EvelynVogtGamble(Divamanque) - 22 Mar 2005 05:32 GMT
> Yes, but the special sessions of Congress, transportation of the
> Congressmen involved, getting Prez Bubba back to DC (I doubt that any of
> those folks fly coach) is expensive. And the money to pay for it is
> coming right out of our pockets.

Well, as to that, "Prez Bubba" has his own personal planes
(provided at public expense, of course).

> And that still ignores the issue of why it's necessary to get so many
> people involved. If this case had not somehow won the attention of the
> national press you know perfectly well that none of the Congresspeople
> or the Prez would give a rat's hindquarter about it.

Nor should they!  It says something very unflattering about
our country and its government that one family's personal
tragedy should become a national political issue.
Mary - 21 Mar 2005 22:09 GMT
> Her care is being paid from the proceeds of a large medical
> malpractice award.  She is not on public assistance.

How was medical malpractice involved? I have not heard
anything about this.
EvelynVogtGamble(Divamanque) - 22 Mar 2005 04:59 GMT
> Her care is being paid from the proceeds of a large medical
> malpractice award.  She is not on public assistance.

No, but Congress and "our" president are!!!!  You can be
sure that, if Ms. Schiavo WERE on "public assistance" she
would have been unplugged fourteen and a  half years ago.
(And the Shrub and Congress would never have stuck their
oars in for the publicity.)
Linda Terrell - 22 Mar 2005 14:41 GMT

> Her care is being paid from the proceeds of a large medical
> malpractice award.  She is not on public assistance.

That medical malpractice award was in 1993.  $750,000
put into a Trust.  It's gone. The woman's care is being paid
for by donations to the Hospice and Medicaid.

LT
Kreisleriana - 22 Mar 2005 15:47 GMT
>> Her care is being paid from the proceeds of a large medical
>> malpractice award.  She is not on public assistance.
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>
>LT

Here's a piece in slate.com about the costs of her care:
http://www.slate.com/id/2115064/

Theresa
Stinky Pictures: http://community.webshots.com/album/125591586JWEFwh
My Blog: http://www.humanitas.blogspot.com
JBHajos - 21 Mar 2005 14:46 GMT
>I agree the case stinks. Although, I do begin to wonder why the family
>doesn't press charges against the husband as everything I hear them say
>sounds like abuse, legal guardian or no. If he is doing what they say he is
>doing, why aren't they taking the route of charging him?

 From what I've read, these accusations against the husband have been
investigated more than once and always found to be without merit.  The
parents *have* charged him with judges ruling against them.

  Jeanne
Jeanne Hedge - 21 Mar 2005 17:10 GMT
>>I agree the case stinks. Although, I do begin to wonder why the family
>>doesn't press charges against the husband as everything I hear them say
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>
>   Jeanne

One of the Sunday "talking head" shows mentioned a couple of the
charges people have made against the husband.

One charge is that he wants her dead so he can marry his girlfriend.
The problem with that charge is that Florida has a law that allows
people to (apparently easily) divorce "mentally incompetent" spouses
(their words). If he'd wanted, he could have been done with his wife
long ago and wouldn't have had to go through with this now.

The other charge mentioned was that the husband wants the million
dollars from insurance. The problem with that charge (according to the
talking heads) is that he's already said in public that he's going to
give all the money from any insurance payoff to charity.

Jeanne Hedge, as directed by Natasha

============
http://www.jhedge.com
Kreisleriana - 21 Mar 2005 19:45 GMT
>>>I agree the case stinks. Although, I do begin to wonder why the family
>>>doesn't press charges against the husband as everything I hear them say
[quoted text clipped - 15 lines]
>(their words). If he'd wanted, he could have been done with his wife
>long ago and wouldn't have had to go through with this now.

Evan if that were true, for God's sake, what do people want/expect?
Even if this guy was a complete, total bastard, his life has been put
on hold for 15 years.   Why shouldn't he want to have a normal life in
whatever time is left to him?

Theresa
Stinky Pictures: http://community.webshots.com/album/125591586JWEFwh
My Blog: http://www.humanitas.blogspot.com
-L. - 21 Mar 2005 23:21 GMT
> Evan if that were true, for God's sake, what do people want/expect?
> Even if this guy was a complete, total bastard, his life has been put
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> Stinky Pictures: http://community.webshots.com/album/125591586JWEFwh
> My Blog: http://www.humanitas.blogspot.com

That's sort of my line of thinking as well.  Regardless of what he has
done since, he deserves his own life at this point.

If there would be no hope of me coming back, I would hope DH could get
on with his life.  I'm not sure what my personal limit of vegitude
would be, but I can't think I would want to stay in that state for more
than 6-8 weeks or so.

-L.
EvelynVogtGamble(Divamanque) - 22 Mar 2005 05:45 GMT
>>Evan if that were true, for God's sake, what do people want/expect?
>>Even if this guy was a complete, total bastard, his life has been put
[quoted text clipped - 15 lines]
> would be, but I can't think I would want to stay in that state for more
> than 6-8 weeks or so.

And not at all, if there were no hope of your ever regaining
 mental function, right?

> -L.
Howard Berkowitz - 22 Mar 2005 20:04 GMT
> >>Evan if that were true, for God's sake, what do people want/expect?
> >>Even if this guy was a complete, total bastard, his life has been put
[quoted text clipped - 18 lines]
> And not at all, if there were no hope of your ever regaining
>   mental function, right?

While it is true that a very few individuals have come back after years
of coma, they did show some brain activity.  One of the most important
determinations is brainstem evoked potential, which will determine if
your brain is sensing light or sound.

As a general rule of thumb, I'd say to give up after 3 weeks, unless the
comatose state is due to one of the various things that could protect
the brain.  One rule of emergency medicine, for example, is "you're not
dead until you're warm and dead," meaning prolonged hypothermia can
protect the brain.  If the patient had been hypothermic or in induced
barbiturate coma, there's a slightly better chance that they might come
out of it.

It's a difficult situation to try to predict everything, because your
advanced directive may simply not cover a new and relevant technique
with a chance of returning function.  In the final analysis, I think
it's a matter of providing enough examples that the clinical teams know
that you understand the scope of "no heroics", that you do consider
quality of life as well as brain death, and you are aware of the
consequences of your directive.
Linda Terrell - 22 Mar 2005 14:36 GMT
> The other charge mentioned was that the husband wants the million
> dollars from insurance. The problem with that charge (according to the
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> ============
> http://www.jhedge.com

There isn't any insurance money left.  The insurance pay off
was in 1993. And Michael has turned down $11 million,

LT
Susan M - 23 Mar 2005 23:10 GMT
> One charge is that he wants her dead so he can marry his girlfriend.
> The problem with that charge is that Florida has a law that allows
> people to (apparently easily) divorce "mentally incompetent" spouses
> (their words). If he'd wanted, he could have been done with his wife
> long ago and wouldn't have had to go through with this now.

Is he Catholic and doesn't believe in divorce?

Susan M
Otis and Chester
-L. - 21 Mar 2005 02:27 GMT
> In my opinion this case stinks.
>
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
> advance directive, I think continuing to simply feed the patient is
> not an extreme measure.

Well, all I know is if I was on a feeding tube for 15 years, I would be
saying, "Dang!  I told you people to yank this thing 14.5 years ago!"

-L.
EvelynVogtGamble(Divamanque) - 21 Mar 2005 02:43 GMT
> Each state has procedures for making advance directives.  To avoid any
> question, my state requires the person to be fully informed of the
> implications and the papers to be signed and witnessed.  Without any
> advance directive, I think continuing to simply feed the patient is
> not an extreme measure.

Maybe not, but what are the odds they would continue to do
so, were there not a huge malpractice settlement out there,
insuring that all the medical professionals get paid?
William Hamblen - 21 Mar 2005 04:45 GMT
>> Each state has procedures for making advance directives.  To avoid any
>> question, my state requires the person to be fully informed of the
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>so, were there not a huge malpractice settlement out there,
>insuring that all the medical professionals get paid?

Absent the malpractice award she would still get care.  Assuming she
had been employed she would qualify for a social security disability
pension.  She may also qualify for SSI payments.  She would be
eligible for Medicare if she were disabled and she would qualify for
the Florida Medicaid program if she were medically indigent.  She
would be placed in a licensed facility and the state would reimburse
providers for her care.
EvelynVogtGamble(Divamanque) - 22 Mar 2005 05:18 GMT
> Absent the malpractice award she would still get care.

If you can CALL it "care"!  More like torture, IMO!  (If
there is some little corner of consciousness that allows
people in such a situation to be aware of what's being done
to keep them "alive", then I sincerely pray that EVERY
SINGLE ONE of the heartless idiots who insist upon
prolonging her in that state suffers the same fate him/herself!)

>  Assuming she
> had been employed she would qualify for a social security disability
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> would be placed in a licensed facility and the state would reimburse
> providers for her care.

And that's okay with you?  If "Medicaid" and reimbursements
from a state government are not funded by tax dollars, where
does the money come from?  And why should ANYONE be
artificially kept alive past a point where there's no
reasonable hope that they will ever function as more than a
vegetable again?  Death is a natural part of life, wouldn't
you rather be dead than exist in an insensate limbo as she
is?  Is life per se so "sacred" that the quality of that
life counts for nothing?  What amuses me, in a morbid sort
of way, is that it's mostly "religious" Christians (who
avowedly believe they go on to a "better" existence, after
death) that seem most passionate about not allowing the poor
woman to do so.
Howard Berkowitz - 21 Mar 2005 20:41 GMT
> > Each state has procedures for making advance directives.  To avoid any
> > question, my state requires the person to be fully informed of the
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> so, were there not a huge malpractice settlement out there,
> insuring that all the medical professionals get paid?

While the standard forms may just say "no heroics", there's no reason
you can't be much more specific in your instructions. If you don't have
the medical background yourself, you may need help.

For example, my directives have language to the effect "If I am in a
permanent vegetative state, dementia irreversible by accepted medical
techniques, or unable to converse or understand written material based
on organic brain dysfunction, no measures whatsoever shall be taken to
prolong life. If, after entering one of the former irreversible
neurological states, I contract pneumonia or any other systemic
infection, no antimicrobial drugs or immunotherapy against the pathogen
or its byproducts may be administerd.  The only drugs authorized are for
comfort. Parenteral or enteral nutrition is not authorized, and only
such hydration as is necessary as a comfort measure. It is understood
that it is possible to experience pain while demented, so the use of
opioids to control pain is authorized, specifically including dosages
that may depress respiratory function or otherwise hasten death."
Mary - 21 Mar 2005 21:03 GMT
> > > Each state has procedures for making advance directives.  To avoid any
> > > question, my state requires the person to be fully informed of the
[quoted text clipped - 23 lines]
> opioids to control pain is authorized, specifically including dosages
> that may depress respiratory function or otherwise hasten death."

Thanks, Howard I saved this. This is exactly how I will word it.
Hopitus - 21 Mar 2005 22:20 GMT
You're smarter than the average L.W. author, dude.
Now pray you don't have some form of freaked-out
relative(s) hauling your dead (or not) bod to the ER
by 911 and running things when you all get there.......
not running medical things, running verbal & legal things
re your very own self, directive or not. As someone in
r.p.c.a. stated, all kinds of stuff goes on after dark when
the law offices are closed, etc. and I have seen whomever makes the most
noise at the moment prevail.

>> > Each state has procedures for making advance directives.  To avoid any
>> > question, my state requires the person to be fully informed of the
[quoted text clipped - 23 lines]
> opioids to control pain is authorized, specifically including dosages
> that may depress respiratory function or otherwise hasten death."
Yoj - 22 Mar 2005 01:56 GMT
> > > Each state has procedures for making advance directives.  To avoid any
> > > question, my state requires the person to be fully informed of the
[quoted text clipped - 23 lines]
> opioids to control pain is authorized, specifically including dosages
> that may depress respiratory function or otherwise hasten death."

I have the documents, but I was thinking of having my attorney look them
over and make sure they are as airtight as possible.  If he suggests any
revisions at all, I'll include this wording.  Thanks.

Joy
Cheryl - 22 Mar 2005 02:44 GMT
> It is understood
>> that it is possible to experience pain while demented, so the
>> use of opioids to control pain is authorized, specifically
>> including dosages that may depress respiratory function or
>> otherwise hasten death."

I agree with all of what you say, and I plan to write similar. But
this part, do you think, or know of a case, where it can legally be
carried out?  It sounds sort of "Kevorkian".

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Candace - 22 Mar 2005 03:07 GMT
> > It is understood
> >> that it is possible to experience pain while demented, so the
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> --
> Cheryl

My understanding is that this is often what happens in hospice without
saying so in so many words.  They give copious amounts of morphine,
respiratory arrest ensues, and death follows.  My friend's brother
-in-law had AIDS and was under hospice care in his apartment.  Because
all of the other relatives were out-of-town, my friend and her adult
daughter were staying with him.  He was delirious, in pain, fevered,
very bad shape, etc. and they called the hospice nurse in the middle of
the night, panicked.  She came and kept giving him morphine and he died
a few hours later.  My friend said the nurse basically told her that
was why she was giving morphine...to hasten his death...and give him
peace.  I suppose they can sense when that is what the family and the
patient want.

In the Shiavo case, it seems everyone has their own agenda going so who
knows what the real situation is.  I'm sure the parents truly believe
she can have an improved quality of life and they are implicating the
husband in all sorts of dastardly deeds.  He, understandably, has
gotten on with his life and maybe he really is thinking of Terri but
there have been so many allegations on both sides that it is hard to
know who is telling the truth and who is acting out of genuine concern
and rationality about Terri.  I would just hope that she really cannot
experience any pain being starved to death.  Something about putting it
that way makes it seem very barbaric.

Candace

Candace
Cheryl - 22 Mar 2005 03:50 GMT
> My understanding is that this is often what happens in hospice
> without saying so in so many words.  They give copious amounts
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> give him peace.  I suppose they can sense when that is what the
> family and the patient want.

That is pretty wild! I've never been exposed to this, and the only
thing that I know of personally that came close was a woman I knew
who had liver cancer. Since liver cancer is usually very aggressive
and she was a hospice nurse and had seen "everything", she didn't
tell anyone how advanced her cancer was. She refused the treatment
that would prolong her life (my months? weeks?) and instead did
nothing until her cancer was too far gone for any treatment to save
her.

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Hopitus - 22 Mar 2005 03:56 GMT
My sister died of breast cancer that had spread to her
liver. That morphine business is what they tried to do
with her, but she would not permit the morphine. From
what our relatives told me, she didn't appear to be in
awful pain.....liver just shut down eventually and she got
weaker and weaker; she wanted to be awake and aware
at the moment of leaving, and she was. Some cancer is
not agonizing, we learned.

>> My understanding is that this is often what happens in hospice
>> without saying so in so many words.  They give copious amounts
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> nothing until her cancer was too far gone for any treatment to save
> her.
Yoj - 22 Mar 2005 04:07 GMT
>I would just hope that she really cannot
> experience any pain being starved to death.  Something about putting it
> that way makes it seem very barbaric.
>
> Candace

I hope that along with you, but I think keeping someone in that state for 15
years, and trying to prolong it, is even more barbaric.

Joy
Melissa Houle - 22 Mar 2005 08:06 GMT
> >I would just hope that she really cannot
> > experience any pain being starved to death.  Something about putting it
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>
> Joy

Ditto, to what both of you have said.  I just hope BOTH my brain and body
die at the same time, when it's time for me to check out of the Hotel de
Vie. Or failing that, I hope that no grandstanding congress person EVER
takes on keeping me 'alive' as their personal cause.

What makes me maddest in this I guess, is that in August 2001, when he got
the memo that Bin Laden was determined to strike at the U.S. Bush stayed
down on the ranch and went fishing, when his presence in Washington D.C.
might have actually been prudent.  BUt he'll come running back to Washington
to sign a special bill to keep Terry Shiavo alive.

ARRRRRG!

Melissa
Howard Berkowitz - 22 Mar 2005 04:06 GMT
> > It is understood
> >> that it is possible to experience pain while demented, so the
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> this part, do you think, or know of a case, where it can legally be
> carried out?  It sounds sort of "Kevorkian".

This is very carefully worded to avoid the appearance of active
euthanasia. It goes back to the Principle of Double Effect stated by St.
Thomas Aquinas, and used by many modern secular ethicists.

If I had said "give me a lethal dose of morphine," that would have been
prohibited.  The wording here, however, recogizes the drug has two
(i.e., double) effects: the relief of pain, and, potentially, the
depression of respiratory function hastening death. As long as the
primary effect is for a licit purpose such as relieving pain, and the
secondary effect is not being deliberately sought, even the Vatican
approves of this formulation.

In actual medical practice, pain control is not necessarily synonymous
with the hastening of death, if the people prescribing and administering
the drugs know what they are doing.  For example, a continuous IV drip
of morphine keeps a steady concentration. If you injected morphine every
4 hours to cover that time period, the initial concentration would be
higher than necessary so it will be adequate for 4 hours, and might
jeopardize respiratory function.  Depending on the underlying disease,
other drugs can be combined with an opioid pain reliever to improve
comfort without the side effects of increasing the opioids (e.g.,
tranquilizers, antinauseants, etc.). Nevertheless, there are cases of
things like a flareup of cancer pain, or certain situations in burns,
where it is indeed appropriate to use a dose that may shorten life.

It may sound counterintuitive, but in severe pain, there really is not
an upper limit to the dose of morphine and other opioids. In an acute
patient who can recover from the disease or injury, you have the option
of putting them on a ventilator. The dose has to be increased gradually,
with close monitoring. There's also the option of giving small doses of
an antidote (opioid antagonist) like naloxone.
Cheryl - 22 Mar 2005 04:13 GMT
> This is very carefully worded to avoid the appearance of active
> euthanasia. It goes back to the Principle of Double Effect
> stated by St. Thomas Aquinas, and used by many modern secular
> ethicists.

<snip>
Kept your explanation for further research. Makes sense to me. Thank
you.

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EvelynVogtGamble(Divamanque) - 22 Mar 2005 05:47 GMT
>>It is understood
>>
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> this part, do you think, or know of a case, where it can legally be
> carried out?  It sounds sort of "Kevorkian".

Well, maybe we should all move to Oregon - they actually
have a law there permitting it!
Howard Berkowitz - 22 Mar 2005 20:09 GMT
> >>It is understood
> >>
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
> Well, maybe we should all move to Oregon - they actually
> have a law there permitting it!

I don't know the most recent status, but the Bush Administration had
been threatening to have the Drug Enforcement Administration license
revoked of any Oregon physician that prescribed a lethal medication.  
More respect for states' rights, I assume.

In general, when a prescription is written for drugs for voluntary
suicide, it is for oral fast-acting barbiturates, which are a controlled
substance. These are the same family of drugs as normally used for
veterinary euthanasia, with the caveat that some additional drugs may be
used by a veterinarian to avoid visually unpleasant side effects with a
lethal injection.

Incidentally, the procedure used for US executions by lethal injection
starts with a lethal dose of barbiturate. It's followed by two drugs
which are part of the usual procedure for stopping the heart for
open-heart surgery (been there, done that, got the T-shirt). As far as I
can tell, these are done for no other reason besides "medicalizing" the
procedure. Even sillier is wiping the vein with alcohol before inserting
the needle.
EvelynVogtGamble(Divamanque) - 22 Mar 2005 05:38 GMT
> While the standard forms may just say "no heroics", there's no reason
> you can't be much more specific in your instructions. If you don't have
[quoted text clipped - 13 lines]
> opioids to control pain is authorized, specifically including dosages
> that may depress respiratory function or otherwise hasten death."

I like that!  It really spells it all out.  Perhaps I should
copy your wording.
Howard Berkowitz - 22 Mar 2005 19:58 GMT
> > While the standard forms may just say "no heroics", there's no reason
> > you can't be much more specific in your instructions. If you don't have
[quoted text clipped - 17 lines]
> I like that!  It really spells it all out.  Perhaps I should
> copy your wording.

Well, given several people have said they want to copy it and this was
from memory, let me add a few items:

"Respiratory support is limited to oxygen from a nasal cannula.  
Endotracheal intubation, esophageal obturation, cricothyrotomy and
tracheostomy are not authorized.  Electrical defibrillation and
cardioversion are forbidden. Once the determination of an irreversible
neurologic state has been made, there shall be no blood drawn for
laboratory studies to be used in treatment; blood may be drawn for
research.  Intravenous access is limited to peripheral veins; central
venous or arterial access for hydration is prohibited.

"There is one exception to these rules intended to avoid the artificial
prolongation of life. If I am not aware in any meaningful way, advance
permission is given for my participation in clinical trials, including
Stage I, or collection of samples for research. I grant permission for
any organs to be harvested for transplantation, and the remainder of my
body to be available for medical education and research."
Yoj - 23 Mar 2005 00:58 GMT
> > > While the standard forms may just say "no heroics", there's no reason
> > > you can't be much more specific in your instructions. If you don't have
[quoted text clipped - 36 lines]
> any organs to be harvested for transplantation, and the remainder of my
> body to be available for medical education and research."

Thanks so much, Howard!  I'll definitely include this language in my
revision.

Joy
Mary - 23 Mar 2005 02:30 GMT
> > "Respiratory support is limited to oxygen from a nasal cannula.
> > Endotracheal intubation, esophageal obturation, cricothyrotomy and
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
> Thanks so much, Howard!  I'll definitely include this language in my
> revision.

Me too. Ooo, Howard, you're becoming Dr. Don't Revive!
Howard Berkowitz - 23 Mar 2005 03:31 GMT
> > > "Respiratory support is limited to oxygen from a nasal cannula.
> > > Endotracheal intubation, esophageal obturation, cricothyrotomy and
[quoted text clipped - 22 lines]
>
> Me too. Ooo, Howard, you're becoming Dr. Don't Revive!

There are times to be aggressive in life support. The national
statistics on, for example, cardiopulmonary resuscitation simply don't
lend themselves to a single number.  IIRC, the national figure on people
with cardiac arrest that walk out of the hospital, with no neurological
impairment, is probably around 10%.

That number, however, tends to include people that had disease otherwise
incompatible with life, or where there was too long a delay to start
even basic life support, and especially defibrillation. More and more
states are allowing paramedics to declare death in the field, under
quite well-defined circumstances. For example, if someone is found
pulseless after blunt chest trauma (e.g., crash against the steering
wheel), they aren't going to come back. Penetrating chest wounds where
the heart stops have a slightly better prognosis, but still dismal.

At the same time, I've been an observer in the ER where a woman was
pulseless from blood loss from a savage slashing attack, but nothing
vital was hit. She recovered -- needed a lot of plastic surgery, but had
no residual systemic effects.  Now, her heart stopped when she was
already in a trauma room and getting intensive support -- and this was
1966, when we had a lot less resusciative technology.

Children are more likely to go down from respiratory than cardiac
failure -- sometimes a few rescue breaths are all they need to restore a
pulse.  The extreme example of when resuscitation should go absolutely
all out is a child that drowned in cold water. Deliberate hypothermia is
used in cardiac surgery, and hypothermia can so slow body functions that
you can get full recovery after hours.

As I've mentioned, some injuries are incompatible with life. There's an
old story of a lawyer cross-examining a physician, demanding how he knew
the victim was dead.  The physician opined that decapitation tended to
be fairly definitive.

The lawyer sneered, "Oh, is that so?"

And the physician corrected himself. "Well, he could have been a lawyer.
I recently had convincing evidence one could function without a brain."
Victor Martinez - 21 Mar 2005 04:18 GMT
> dead".  A brain dead woman does not breathe on her own.  

Says who? There are lower brain functions (breathing, heart beating,
etc.) adn there are higher brain functions (thinking, etc.). Lower brain
functions are regulated by instinct, we have absolutely no power over
them. Even if we wanted to, we cannot stop our heart or stop breathing.
That has absolutely nothing to do with whether or not we have the brain
functions that are associated with sentience or not.

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William Hamblen - 21 Mar 2005 10:34 GMT
>Says who? There are lower brain functions (breathing, heart beating,
>etc.) adn there are higher brain functions (thinking, etc.). Lower brain
>functions are regulated by instinct, we have absolutely no power over
>them. Even if we wanted to, we cannot stop our heart or stop breathing.
>That has absolutely nothing to do with whether or not we have the brain
>functions that are associated with sentience or not.

The definition of brain death precludes spontaneous respirations.  She
is not neurologically intact by any means, but she is not brain dead.
EvelynVogtGamble(Divamanque) - 22 Mar 2005 05:26 GMT
>>Says who? There are lower brain functions (breathing, heart beating,
>>etc.) adn there are higher brain functions (thinking, etc.). Lower brain
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> The definition of brain death precludes spontaneous respirations.  She
> is not neurologically intact by any means, but she is not brain dead.

So she's a human vegetable that can still breath!  (I'm sure
she'd find that a comfort, when sanctimonious do-gooders
consider it an excuse for refusing to let her die!)
-L. - 21 Mar 2005 02:23 GMT
> OK, I'm really getting PO'd over this. I feel bad for everyone involved, but
> geez, do you suppose the President of the US and Congress would meet
> specially just for ME, were I in this situation??

No kidding.  Between that and congressional hearings about steriod use
in basesball, this country sure has some messed up priorities,
especially when we are at *WAR*, pouring billions into a black hole....

-L.
EvelynVogtGamble(Divamanque) - 21 Mar 2005 02:32 GMT
> OK, I'm really getting PO'd over this. I feel bad for everyone involved, but
> geez, do you suppose the President of the US and Congress would meet
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> all, no matter our age, to put IN WRITING somewhere what we want should we
> become incapacitated.

I tend to be very cynical about such things - I'll bet if
she were homeless, with no way to pay the medical
professionals, no one would have opposed her doctor's
"pulling the plug" nearly fifteen years ago!

Considering the world situation, I really think our
president has more important things demanding his attention
than to thwart what is (IMO) clearly what the victim would
WANT, were she in any condition to tell people.  (His
version of "God" is not neccessarily that of all the people
he governs, so he should keep his nose out of it.)

I have a "sort of" document expressing my wishes in such
matters, but all the uproar over this one unfortunate woman
has made me start looking for the necessary legal forms, to
be SURE those wishes are followed.  (Maybe I'd not know the
difference - as I'm sure the Schiavo woman does not - but
why allow even the POSSIBILTY of being subjected to
procedures of which I so adamantly disapprove?)
Takayuki - 21 Mar 2005 05:39 GMT
>I have a "sort of" document expressing my wishes in such
>matters, but all the uproar over this one unfortunate woman
>has made me start looking for the necessary legal forms, to
>be SURE those wishes are followed.

This reminds me that I've considered leaving my family a living will,
but as a prank.  It would be all signed and witness, and would say
something like:

"Please do everything medically possible to keep my body alive, even
if I am brain dead, and have no chance of recovery.  I would like my
hospital room to be double the size of the regular rooms, and I want
to be checked by 10 specialists per day, so that I take up as much
hospital resources as possible.  Being a vegetable is hard work, so I
would also like four weeks of vacation per year on a tropical cruise,
accompanied by my entourage of specialists, attending physicians, and
nurses.

"When I finally die, I would like to be cryogenically preserved, so
that I will continue to require nominal upkeep, even in death."

If I end up in a vegetative state, my survivors would find this living
will, and they'll be like, "Arrrghhhhh!!!" :)
Karen - 21 Mar 2005 05:57 GMT
>> I have a "sort of" document expressing my wishes in such
>> matters, but all the uproar over this one unfortunate woman
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> If I end up in a vegetative state, my survivors would find this living
> will, and they'll be like, "Arrrghhhhh!!!" :)

That's really funny in an odd sort of way. Your humor is a never ending
source of delight to me :)
Karen - 21 Mar 2005 06:02 GMT
I have to say, these debates are fascinating though. Anyone watching the
coverage?
EvelynVogtGamble(Divamanque) - 22 Mar 2005 05:23 GMT
> I have to say, these debates are fascinating though. Anyone watching the
> coverage?

NO!  (The whole idea of our national government involving
itself in what is essentially a private matter makes me feel
decidedly ill.)
Kreisleriana - 22 Mar 2005 05:44 GMT
>> I have to say, these debates are fascinating though. Anyone watching the
>> coverage?
>
>NO!  (The whole idea of our national government involving
>itself in what is essentially a private matter makes me feel
>decidedly ill.)

It's making my head explode.  :P

Theresa
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My Blog: http://www.humanitas.blogspot.com
Melissa Houle - 22 Mar 2005 08:07 GMT
snip
> >NO!  (The whole idea of our national government involving
> >itself in what is essentially a private matter makes me feel
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> Stinky Pictures: http://community.webshots.com/album/125591586JWEFwh
> My Blog: http://www.humanitas.blogspot.com

It makes ME want to thump large numbers of Congressional Heads together!
I've never seen such hypocrisy, and such messed-up priorities all present at
the same time.

Melissa
Mary - 21 Mar 2005 22:09 GMT
> >I have a "sort of" document expressing my wishes in such
> >matters, but all the uproar over this one unfortunate woman
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> If I end up in a vegetative state, my survivors would find this living
> will, and they'll be like, "Arrrghhhhh!!!" :)

I really dig your sense of humor!!! lol
Howard Berkowitz - 22 Mar 2005 00:50 GMT
> > >I have a "sort of" document expressing my wishes in such
> > >matters, but all the uproar over this one unfortunate woman
[quoted text clipped - 21 lines]
>
> I really dig your sense of humor!!! lol

There's a really weird Country & Western song here, along the lines of
"Never embalm this true heart, just cover it with ranch dressing"
Mary - 22 Mar 2005 01:34 GMT
> > > >I have a "sort of" document expressing my wishes in such
> > > >matters, but all the uproar over this one unfortunate woman
[quoted text clipped - 24 lines]
> There's a really weird Country & Western song here, along the lines of
> "Never embalm this true heart, just cover it with ranch dressing"

Ah, C&W music! I always liked "You broke my heart so I busted yer jaw"
CatNipped - 22 Mar 2005 16:16 GMT
>> > > >I have a "sort of" document expressing my wishes in such
>> > > >matters, but all the uproar over this one unfortunate woman
[quoted text clipped - 27 lines]
>
> Ah, C&W music! I always liked "You broke my heart so I busted yer jaw"

And *that* reminds me of "A Wife's Prayer".  "God give me love so I can fill
my husbands heart with love.  God give me joy so I can make my husband's
life joyous.  But God, don't give me strength because then I'd beat him to
death!"  ;>

Hugs,

CatNipped
Kreisleriana - 22 Mar 2005 16:44 GMT
>>> > > >I have a "sort of" document expressing my wishes in such
>>> > > >matters, but all the uproar over this one unfortunate woman
[quoted text clipped - 32 lines]
>life joyous.  But God, don't give me strength because then I'd beat him to
>death!"  ;>

I'm kind of fond of
"God may forgive you, but I won't.
Yes, Jesus loves you, but I don't." ;)

Theresa
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My Blog: http://www.humanitas.blogspot.com
Tanada - 22 Mar 2005 21:04 GMT
>>>>>>>I have a "sort of" document expressing my wishes in such
>>>>>>>matters, but all the uproar over this one unfortunate woman
[quoted text clipped - 36 lines]
> "God may forgive you, but I won't.
> Yes, Jesus loves you, but I don't." ;)

I'm rather fond of "Thank God and Greyhound you're gone..."
O J - 23 Mar 2005 05:20 GMT
>>CatNipped yodeled:
>>
[quoted text clipped - 44 lines]
>
>I'm rather fond of "Thank God and Greyhound you're gone..."

I like the line from Jones and Leva's "Vertie's Dream" CD:

"Tomorrow in church I'll pray on high,
tonight I want to black your eye!"

--
Regards and Purrs,
O J
EvelynVogtGamble(Divamanque) - 22 Mar 2005 05:21 GMT
>>I have a "sort of" document expressing my wishes in such
>>matters, but all the uproar over this one unfortunate woman
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> If I end up in a vegetative state, my survivors would find this living
> will, and they'll be like, "Arrrghhhhh!!!" :)

On the other hand, they might take you at your word!  ("Be
careful what you wish for, you may get it"?)
Kreisleriana - 22 Mar 2005 05:40 GMT
>>>I have a "sort of" document expressing my wishes in such
>>>matters, but all the uproar over this one unfortunate woman
[quoted text clipped - 22 lines]
>On the other hand, they might take you at your word!  ("Be
>careful what you wish for, you may get it"?)

They can slide Tak in next to Ted Williams. ;)

Theresa
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My Blog: http://www.humanitas.blogspot.com
JBHajos - 21 Mar 2005 15:12 GMT
>Considering the world situation, I really think our
>president has more important things demanding his attention
>than to thwart what is (IMO) clearly what the victim would
>WANT, were she in any condition to tell people.  (His
>version of "God" is not neccessarily that of all the people
>he governs, so he should keep his nose out of it.)

  Seems to me, with all this "godliness", they would not want to
delay or prevent her entrance into their happier heaven.  That seems
less than "moral" to me, IMO.

 As to our president, from what I heard, he's a wee bit (?)
hypocritical in that when he was governor of Texas, he signed into law
the edict that a hospital, with the concensus of doctors, can pull the
plug *regardless* of what the family wants.  Apparently it's the law
in Texas that the decision can *override* any oral or written wishes
of the patient or his family.

 Jeanne
CatNipped - 21 Mar 2005 16:04 GMT
>>Considering the world situation, I really think our
>>president has more important things demanding his attention
[quoted text clipped - 15 lines]
>
>  Jeanne

Yep.  There was a case here in Texas just recently where a mother wanted her
baby to be kept alive but the courts overruled her when the hospital
insisted that the child be taken off life support.

Hugs,

CatNipped
Enfilade - 21 Mar 2005 22:37 GMT
> >>Considering the world situation, I really think our
> >>president has more important things demanding his attention
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> > delay or prevent her entrance into their happier heaven.  That seems
> > less than "moral" to me, IMO.

This woman's been in limbo/purgatory for 15 years with no signs of
recovery.  It would be a mercy to free her, and let her move on
to...what I believe is the next phase, call it what you will.

It ticks me off how the media says she is "slowly starving to death"
in a way that suggests it must be hideously painful and cruel.  She
likely does not feel it.  Several of my elderly relatives have
consciously quit eating and allowed nature to take its course rather
than face surgery, terminal disease, and complete inability to care
for themselves (ie feed themselves, use toilet).

--Fil
Yoj - 21 Mar 2005 06:24 GMT
> OK, I'm really getting PO'd over this. I feel bad for everyone involved, but
> geez, do you suppose the President of the US and Congress would meet
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> all, no matter our age, to put IN WRITING somewhere what we want should we
> become incapacitated.

Amen to that!  And the more places the better.  I have a copy of my
documents in my desk, my daughter has a copy, and so does my doctor and the
local hospital.  I've heard it's good to have a copy on file with a lawyer,
too.

Joy
mlbriggs - 21 Mar 2005 18:06 GMT
>> OK, I'm really getting PO'd over this. I feel bad for everyone involved,
> but
[quoted text clipped - 16 lines]
>
> Joy

I have done all that except the hospital.  My insurance company keeps
changing hospitals.
Melissa Houle - 21 Mar 2005 07:40 GMT
> OK, I'm really getting PO'd over this. I feel bad for everyone involved, but
> geez, do you suppose the President of the US and Congress would meet
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> all, no matter our age, to put IN WRITING somewhere what we want should we
> become incapacitated.

I'm not insensitive to the grief her parents are feeling, but.... the Terry
Schiavo they loved has been dead for all practical intents and purposes for
15 years now, and she's not coming back to them. She's only alive in the
sense that her heart is beating and her lungs are doing their thing. Her
husband had to make that emotional adjustment a lont time ago.This legal and
emotional limbo can't be good for anyone involved.   If there was a chance
that Terry could do even so little (and so much!) as see her loved ones and
indicate recognize them again, I would be much more supportive of the fight
to keep her alive.  But this fight has already gone on way too long.  I'm
DISGUSTED at the behavior of the politicians, and the grandstanding they're
pulling off by subpoenaing a brain dead woman to "testify" before Congress.
What in the world  are they doing, involving themselves in what should be a
family affair? And this is the party who claims "They want to keep the
government from interfering" in people's lives? I'm sorry, what an
elephant-sized load of hypocrisy! Let them get on with the important
things--like questioning baseball players on steroids.  (Insert rolled eyes
here.)

Definitely, make out a will, and state your wishes in no uncertain terms.
Even if there's a legal fight, those who try to carry out your wishes will
have some leverage.  I sure wouldn't want to see my family fighting over my
vegetable-like body for fifteen  years, if I had the misfortune to have the
same fate as Terry Schiavo.

Melissa
Yoj - 21 Mar 2005 08:35 GMT
> > OK, I'm really getting PO'd over this. I feel bad for everyone involved,
> but
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> vegetable-like body for fifteen  years, if I had the misfortune to have the
> same fate as Terry Schiavo.

Not a will!  That only comes into play after your body is dead.  You need a
Living Will, a Medical Directive, and/or a Durable Power of Attorney for
Medical Purposes, naming someone you can trust to see your wishes are
carried out.  It's safest to have all three.  Then make copies, have them in
your house, make sure your attorney, your hospital and your doctors have
copies, along with your loved ones.

Joy
Hopitus - 21 Mar 2005 08:39 GMT
At the risk of repeating myself, in 30 years of ER work
I saw many instances of patients who had been dead -
and I mean what is called "full arrest" (respiratory and
heartbeat cessation) for *hours* - brought into the ER
accompanied by hysterical relatives who bullied and coerced the docs there -
even though the patient had
indeed Living Will copies in many hands - into 100%
attempts @ recovering the patients, who had succumbed
from everything to drowning to terminal cancer!
I believe Schiavo's blood relatives are acting in a manner
their religion calls for. Most of the patients I've seen in
the shape she's in were the result of (sorry, girls) bad
motorcycle experiences. Relatives are reluctant to admit
that a facial twitch or grimace is merely that, and not a
communication to relatives willing interaction from their
beloved who is, as a crass expression goes, "the lights
are on, but no one's home" (quote Robert Palmer).
No one has apparently taken heed of fact that Schiavo
is being fed re PEG tube inserted directly in stomach
and not consuming nourishment through mouth, as
human beings do. As I said, if I had been expected to
do anything but xray such patients I don't believe I
would have slept well @ night.
As to Congress acting as they are, they want to keep
their jobs. I believe this fact motivates their every move.
As for the President, here's his chance - again - to look
like a real hero.....instead of a flight suit, wouldn't be
surprised to see him adorned in a doc's lab coat next.

>> OK, I'm really getting PO'd over this. I feel bad for everyone involved,
> but
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>
> Melissa
Cheryl Perkins - 21 Mar 2005 12:34 GMT
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> No one has apparently taken heed of fact that Schiavo
> is being fed re PEG tube inserted directly in stomach
> and not consuming nourishment through mouth, as
> human beings do.

Humans can and do live on nourishment being obtained through other methods
than eating. That includes using stomach tubes, even for extended periods
of time. One's status as a human is not dependant on one's state of health
or ability to feed oneself.

I don't know anything about Ms. Schiavo other than what I've read online,
and I am certainly not ready to pronounce on whether she should live or
die. That's for her next of kin, and obviously, they can't agree. I don't
even know (and it is really none of my business to know) whether she is
entirely brain dead or severely brain damaged. But I don't think using a
feeding tube to the stomach is a reason to classify someone as not human.

Cheryl
Hopitus - 21 Mar 2005 19:28 GMT
Sorry, I can see why it appeared I meant S. is less than
human re the PEG tube....I was referring to quality of
life @ current arrangemets...I know many people here
who thought the "feeding tube" was in her mouth. From
all those years in hospital work, it kinda pounds into your
head not to judge stuff.....as I said, it is a comfort to me
that eventually a Higher Power will have His way with us
all.....whether us hoomins interfere or not.

> <snip>
>> No one has apparently taken heed of fact that Schiavo
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>
> Cheryl
sriddles@aol.com - 23 Mar 2005 06:09 GMT
> As to Congress acting as they are, they want to keep
> their jobs. I believe this fact motivates their every move.
> As for the President, here's his chance - again - to look
> like a real hero.....instead of a flight suit, wouldn't be
> surprised to see him adorned in a doc's lab coat next.

I thought this exerpt from an editorial by Eric Zorn (Chicago Tribune)
(link pasted below for article in entirety) was right on the money.

"Ironic that Senate Republicans recently voted overwhelmingly to cut
Medicaid benefits--benefits that provide health care for the profoundly
disabled, among others--yet are now preening about their concern for
"life."

"Ironic that when President Bush was governor of Texas in 1999, he
signed into law the state's Advance Directives Act, which says that,
"If a hospital or other health provider disagrees with a (patient
surrogate's) decision to maintain or halt life-sustaining treatment ...
the case goes before a medical committee. If the committee agrees with
the doctor, the guardian or surrogate has 10 days to seek treatment
elsewhere," according to an Associated Press summary."
Note: Apparently a 5-month-old boy was taken off life support under
this law recently, despite his mother's efforts to keep him alive. Bush
the hero? Righto.

http://www.chicagotribune.com/news/columnists/ericzorn/chi-050322zorncolumn,1,15
74394.column?coll=chi-news-nav&ctrack=1&cset=true

Yowie - 21 Mar 2005 11:41 GMT
> > OK, I'm really getting PO'd over this. I feel bad for everyone involved,
> but
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> things--like questioning baseball players on steroids.  (Insert rolled eyes
> here.)

If any of you have ever wondered why people outside of the USA have a  bad
opinion of America, and therefore Americans, this whole debacle and ones
like it, which get splashed across our TV screens in the evening news, are
prime examples of what many non-USAnians use to base their opinions on.

I know its not an accurate reflection of regular folk living regular
lives -like the poeple here - but sheesh, a country that lets poor people
die of simple things like the flu because the don't have the money to afford
health insurance, but spends millions on *legislating* to save one life,
*especially* when that decision should be solely in the hands of her family
is  quite frankly, insane. That its even debatable whether that life is
actually worth saving is neither here nor there.

And  yes, why is her life worth more than the thousands and thousands dying
each year unnecessarily from totally treatable illnesses/traumas or even
dying unnecessarily in combat?

*Boggle*

Yowie
Christina Websel