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Karen - 02 Mar 2005 18:56 GMT
http://news.bloodhorse.com/viewstory.asp?id=26941

Well, gee, I feel so much safer from terroism now. Yeesh. How much useless
money do we spend on crap like this when there are *real* bad guys out
there.
Monique Y. Mudama - 02 Mar 2005 19:15 GMT
> http://news.bloodhorse.com/viewstory.asp?id=26941
>
> Well, gee, I feel so much safer from terroism now. Yeesh. How much useless
> money do we spend on crap like this when there are *real* bad guys out
> there.

I dunno ...

"Elliott pleaded guilty in June 2001 to aggravated assault stemming from a
fight with a friend inside the man's Burlington County, N.J., home in 2000. He
was sentenced to one year of probation and ordered to pay $13,900 to cover the
victim's medical bills, according to court records.

"Elliott beat Alexander Kovakik with a beer bottle, pool cue and wooden stool,
according to the grand jury indictment charging the jockey with aggravated
assault, possession of a weapon and unlawful possession. The latter two
charges were dropped after Elliott agreed to plead guilty. "

Wouldn't it be nice if we could deport anyone who'd beat up a friend so badly?

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Karen - 02 Mar 2005 19:54 GMT
> > http://news.bloodhorse.com/viewstory.asp?id=26941
> >
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>
> Wouldn't it be nice if we could deport anyone who'd beat up a friend so badly?

OK, I guess I should preface with "rest of story".  This was back when
Elliott had a drinking problem. It is the only incident of this kind.
Considering the things the immigrant department is *supposed* to be catching
(and I guess on top of some really nasty stories that have been
substantiated about innocent immigrants being held for the last TWO YEARS
without council and with abuses that I have recently heard on NPR) I have no
patience for spending money on picking up Canadians who are *legally* here,
that have one past event for which they duly paid, never denied, apologized
for and got cleaned up afterward. Do you really think that it was necessary
to spend the money on this??
L. (usenetlyn) - 02 Mar 2005 21:09 GMT
> OK, I guess I should preface with "rest of story".  This was back when
> Elliott had a drinking problem. It is the only incident of this kind.
> Considering the things the immigrant department is *supposed* to be catching
> (and I guess on top of some really nasty stories that have been
> substantiated about innocent immigrants being held for the last TWO YEARS
> without council and with abuses that I have recently heard on NPR)

Yep.

> I have no
> patience for spending money on picking up Canadians who are *legally* here,
> that have one past event for which they duly paid, never denied, apologized
> for and got cleaned up afterward. Do you really think that it was necessary
> to spend the money on this??

Especially since similar incidents take place in bar brawls all over
the US every day...I suspect the same infraction is prosecuted as a
misdemeanor here, if at all, in most cases.

-L.
Monique Y. Mudama - 02 Mar 2005 21:58 GMT
> OK, I guess I should preface with "rest of story".  This was back when
> Elliott had a drinking problem. It is the only incident of this kind.
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> for and got cleaned up afterward. Do you really think that it was necessary
> to spend the money on this??

Okay, obviously I didn't know the backstory.  I agree the situation is silly.
I do believe that people can change themselves, but it's hard to imagine
someone doing that much damage to someone else.  Or to put it otherwise, if we
found out on this NG about a person who did $13K of damage to an animal, we
wouldn't be saying, "Yes, but he paid the bills and apologized for it."  At
least, that's not the feeling I get.

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Karen - 02 Mar 2005 22:30 GMT
> > OK, I guess I should preface with "rest of story".  This was back when
> > Elliott had a drinking problem. It is the only incident of this kind.
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> wouldn't be saying, "Yes, but he paid the bills and apologized for it."  At
> least, that's not the feeling I get.

The animal abuse is a separate issue. Sorry but I believe it is different
then two grown men fighting in a bar. I've had bar fights break out on top
of me while innocently enjoying a beer. Seems to me in general it took two
to get there. But that is speculation. I also don't believe it would take
much to wrack up 13K. I don't know. All I know is that between the NPR
articles I've been hearing regarding Immigration and incidents like this, it
is making me exceptionally sad for my country, which is beginning to not
feel free or brave at ALL.
Monique Y. Mudama - 03 Mar 2005 01:26 GMT
>> Okay, obviously I didn't know the backstory.  I agree the situation
>> is silly.  I do believe that people can change themselves, but it's
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> Immigration and incidents like this, it is making me exceptionally sad
> for my country, which is beginning to not feel free or brave at ALL.

I agree with you about the current xenophobia.  About the fights, I also don't
know how much it would take to rack up 13K -- I guess it depends.  A facial
injury could be pretty expensive.  But I think people like to say that "boys
will be boys" and tolerate way too much violence.  Maybe it's because of my
martial arts background; my instructor went out of his way to emphasize that
we were not to fight unless we were physically in danger and couldn't run.  If
it was just about the money, you hand over the money, etc.  You never know
what weapons an opponent might have in his pockets; you never know if he has
buddies; and the best of skill can't beat bad luck.  He even dished out
a nasty form of corporal punishment for those who broke the rules and fought.
Kind of hypocritical, but it did hilight the fact that there is always someone
out there who's better than you.  And it seemed to work on the rebellious
teens.

I spent way too much time thinking about all of the things that could go wrong
in a fight to particularly want to test the theory.

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Karen - 03 Mar 2005 01:46 GMT
>>> Okay, obviously I didn't know the backstory.  I agree the situation
>>> is silly.  I do believe that people can change themselves, but it's
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> I spent way too much time thinking about all of the things that could go wrong
> in a fight to particularly want to test the theory.

I don't want to test it that's for sure. I don't believe in "boys will be
boys" either. That intimates to me of no payment for bad behaviour. But, I
do know testosterone in flight is as hard to resist as PMS in us. Possible,
but often difficult and sometimes in process before you realize what is
going on. If there was a pattern of behaviour, a long laundry list of
fighting, that's different too. I know I have been mad enough to want to
hit, but don't, like you, want totest out the theory. In *this* particular
case, he made his amends. There is a woman coming on a show I listen to
tonight who knows the real story, so I will see what is really up.
Monique Y. Mudama - 03 Mar 2005 05:52 GMT
> I don't want to test it that's for sure. I don't believe in "boys will be
> boys" either. That intimates to me of no payment for bad behaviour. But, I
> do know testosterone in flight is as hard to resist as PMS in us. Possible,
> but often difficult and sometimes in process before you realize what is
> going on.

Hrm.  I don't think I've ever known for sure that any of my behavior was
PMS-related, and I've always found it inadequate when friends have written off
bad behavior as a PMS thing.  On the other hand, when I was in high school, my
bf's mom was terrifying once a month; she'd get upset about the stupidest
thing, shrieking and saying awful things.  Then again, the dad was much the
same, only he didn't seem to fit a particular pattern.  He'd just get mad and
start yelling, maybe throw things for variety.  God, I'm glad I don't ever
have to deal with those people again.

I wouldn't be surprised if hormones have different levels of effect on
different people.  I just switched from depo to the pill, and I think I have
leftover depo hormones still floating around; whatever the reason, I find
myself getting weepy at sappy commercials.  I was bawling at the end of "Shall
We Dance", watching it on the plane!  Bleh.

> If there was a pattern of behaviour, a long laundry list of
> fighting, that's different too. I know I have been mad enough to want to
> hit, but don't, like you, want totest out the theory. In *this* particular
> case, he made his amends. There is a woman coming on a show I listen to
> tonight who knows the real story, so I will see what is really up.

*nod*

In my case, I think that learning martial arts actually reigned in my tendency
to hit.  As a preteen and early teenager, I would tend to "jokingly" hit
people when I was annoyed.  I remember someone betting me I couldn't go some
amount of time without hitting someone; sure enough, I punched someone in the
shoulder only a few minutes later.  I think I might have done it in part
because I figured I couldn't hurt anyone; once I began training, I realized I
*could* hurt someone, so I no longer pulled that sort of BS.  Good thing,
too; I'm sure I would have gotten my butt handed to me, eventually.

Regardless, this guy you're talking about doesn't sound like much of a
terrorist, and isn't that in theory what all this tightened security is
supposed to be about?

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Karen - 03 Mar 2005 06:12 GMT
>> I don't want to test it that's for sure. I don't believe in "boys will be
>> boys" either. That intimates to me of no payment for bad behaviour. But, I
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> myself getting weepy at sappy commercials.  I was bawling at the end of "Shall
> We Dance", watching it on the plane!  Bleh.

I used to laugh off hormones too. Until I got into my late 20s and guess
what first tipped me off? Sappy commercials. I would get weepy over that
Folger's commercial where the boy comes home from college as a surprise for
Christmas and makes his folks coffee to wake them up. And Hallmark
commercial? Fuggedaboutit. I was full tears. Wha? Huh? Then it would dawn on
me just what time of the month it was. Just be glad that's all that happens
with us.

>> If there was a pattern of behaviour, a long laundry list of
>> fighting, that's different too. I know I have been mad enough to want to
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> terrorist, and isn't that in theory what all this tightened security is
> supposed to be about?

One supposes. However, there is actually a *Homeland Security* spokesperson
quoted in the releases. Didn't learn much more tonight than that they intend
to find out just why Homeland Security is making press releases on 110 lb.
Canadian jockeys when there are real bad guys out there. He wasn't arrested
as the articles state but detained and in PA they apparently only have a
room at a county jail for foreign detainees and he was released by 5 pm. It
all just seems SO stupid.
Kreisleriana - 02 Mar 2005 21:38 GMT
>> http://news.bloodhorse.com/viewstory.asp?id=26941
>>
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>
>Wouldn't it be nice if we could deport anyone who'd beat up a friend so badly?

Deport them where?  Canada? :P
You want to choose which innocent population you'd like to foist this
guy on?

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Monique Y. Mudama - 02 Mar 2005 21:54 GMT
>>Wouldn't it be nice if we could deport anyone who'd beat up a friend so
>>badly?
>
> Deport them where?  Canada? :P You want to choose which innocent population
> you'd like to foist this guy on?

Yup, there's the rub.  I was tongue-in-cheekishly thinking it's too bad
there's no place that we could simply ship off criminals, as Australia used to
be a dumping ground.  (Of course I don't think that Australia is full of
criminals now, and as I understand it many/most of the "criminals" shipped off
to Australia back in the day weren't really bad people.)

I must not be the only person who's had that thought; there are a number of
sci fi movies about penal colonies on other planets.

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Kreisleriana - 02 Mar 2005 22:00 GMT
>>>Wouldn't it be nice if we could deport anyone who'd beat up a friend so
>>>badly?
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>
>Yup, there's the rub.

S'OK-- I think this is probably a pretty common reflex thought. ;)
Many years ago, our then-mayor, Edward Koch, was kind of a loose
cannon with his mouth, and he said something about shipping criminals
"off to the Yukon."  He and the newspapers immediately got letters
from the Canadian consulate saying things like, "Um, er, well, the
Yukon actually belongs to us."  ;)

>  I was tongue-in-cheekishly thinking it's too bad
>there's no place that we could simply ship off criminals, as Australia used to
>be a dumping ground.  (Of course I don't think that Australia is full of
>criminals now, and as I understand it many/most of the "criminals" shipped off
>to Australia back in the day weren't really bad people.)

Just Irish. :P

>I must not be the only person who's had that thought; there are a number of
>sci fi movies about penal colonies on other planets.

LOL. "SS Botany Bay"

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Monique Y. Mudama - 03 Mar 2005 01:14 GMT
>>  I was tongue-in-cheekishly thinking it's too bad
>>there's no place that we could simply ship off criminals, as Australia used
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>
> Just Irish. :P

I actually have a tape from an Irish folk music band I heard in college.  One
of the songs is about being sent off to Australia, I believe.  It's actually
from the perspective of someone who's already been sent off, remembering all
of the men who died on the ship, the horrible conditions, and missing his
wife.  I don't know if someone in the band wrote it or if it's an old song.
Very touching.

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Kreisleriana - 03 Mar 2005 14:13 GMT
>>>  I was tongue-in-cheekishly thinking it's too bad
>>>there's no place that we could simply ship off criminals, as Australia used
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>wife.  I don't know if someone in the band wrote it or if it's an old song.
>Very touching.

There are a few of those.  The most famous one is
"There was a wild colonial boy"

The definitive book about the convict experience, and the settling of
New South Wales is "The Fatal Shore" by Robert Hughes.  I remember
when it came out, there was a segment of Australians who just did not
want to be reminded of where they come from.  My former MIL was
visting a friend of hers in Adelaide, a very genteel elderly lady
(there were a lot of those in Adelaide, IIRC ;), and MIL was carrying
the book.  Her friend said "<gasp> I would NEVER read that TERRIBLE
book!" ;)

Peter Carey's novel "The True History of the Kelly Gang" is also very
involved with the troubled lives and the anger of the Irish in
Australia.

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Stormin Mormon - 03 Mar 2005 02:17 GMT
I've got friends of mine in England who say that the police there regularly
search businessmen, but don't interfere with Muslims. Hmm.

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http://news.bloodhorse.com/viewstory.asp?id=26941

Well, gee, I feel so much safer from terroism now. Yeesh. How much useless
money do we spend on crap like this when there are *real* bad guys out
there.
jmcquown - 03 Mar 2005 06:11 GMT
> I've got friends of mine in England who say that the police there
> regularly search businessmen, but don't interfere with Muslims. Hmm.

In my travels last year with John (my LLL LOL) I witnessed a number of
people being separated from the other passengers who were about to go
through the metal detector.  In every instance, they were dressed in
traditional Indian garb (the women were wearing sari's with the traditional
Hindu bindi on their foreheads).  They took it as a matter of course but I
have to wonder if I really upsets them.  You can't tell a person's religion
by how they dress or the colour of their skin.  For all those security
people know, my white-bread self could be a practicing Muslim.

Jill
Kreisleriana - 03 Mar 2005 14:16 GMT
>I've got friends of mine in England who say that the police there regularly
>search businessmen, but don't interfere with Muslims. Hmm.

Sounds about right to me. :P

Theresa
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Lesley Madigan - 04 Mar 2005 15:00 GMT
> >I've got friends of mine in England who say that the police there regularly
> >search businessmen, but don't interfere with Muslims. Hmm.
>
> Sounds about right to me. :P

I am in the UK and we've just had a government minister admit that
with things as they are ordinary Muslim's will have to accept they are
more likely to be stopped by the police etc etc

See

http://news.independent.co.uk/uk/legal/story.jsp?story=616329

Lesley

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