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Ginger-lyn Summer - 05 Feb 2005 20:21 GMT
So, I'm at Petco, just picking up a cartful of cat food, when a guy
stops suddenly and says "you look like a cat person!"

That obvious, huh?

And he proceeds to question me about whether a Siamese cat would be a
well-behaved cat, or is it true that they are high-strung?  And what
*would* be a good, gentle cat to adopt that wouldn't destroy things?
And on and on.

"Depends on the individual personality of the cat" was repeated by me
several times.

Then I mention the "D" word.  That declawed cats often have behavioral
issues.

He insists he wants his furniture in one piece.  I sigh, decide that
this personality won't hear the mutilation argument, and decide to
focus on ways to encourage appropriate scratching.  I'm happily
standing next to all the cat furniture, so I can point out the various
surfaces, and explain to him how to train a cat to use them, that cats
prefer different surfaces, the height should be tall enough for the
cat to stretch, etc.

After a few more odd questions, he thanks me and leaves.

Do I *look* like a cat encyclopedia????

Ginger-lyn
Cheryl - 05 Feb 2005 20:26 GMT
> So, I'm at Petco, just picking up a cartful of cat food, when a
> guy stops suddenly and says "you look like a cat person!"
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>
> Ginger-lyn

It's great that you had the opportunity to educate, and what he
does with it you'll probaby never know. :( I hope that he uses what
you said and doesn't go the declaw route.

And yes, you look like a cat encyclopedia to me! lol ;)

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CatNipped - 05 Feb 2005 20:53 GMT
> So, I'm at Petco, just picking up a cartful of cat food, when a guy
> stops suddenly and says "you look like a cat person!"
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>
> Ginger-lyn

I just heard today from the rescue group I work with that Texas is going to
pass the "no declaw" law soon - thank the powers that be - I just wish the
rest of the country would catch up to civilization and outlaw it too!

Hugs,

CatNipped
Karen Chuplis - 05 Feb 2005 23:56 GMT
>> So, I'm at Petco, just picking up a cartful of cat food, when a guy
>> stops suddenly and says "you look like a cat person!"
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>
> CatNipped

Texas? Wow. I'm impressed. I'm also glad.
Tanada - 06 Feb 2005 16:30 GMT
> I just heard today from the rescue group I work with that Texas is going to
> pass the "no declaw" law soon - thank the powers that be - I just wish the
> rest of the country would catch up to civilization and outlaw it too!

Where can I get a copy of that law so that I can send it in to my state
legislators?

Pam S. who hates declawing
Christine Burel - 06 Feb 2005 16:38 GMT
> > I just heard today from the rescue group I work with that Texas is going to
> > pass the "no declaw" law soon - thank the powers that be - I just wish the
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>
> Pam S. who hates declawing

I'd send one in, too.
Christine
CatNipped - 06 Feb 2005 16:45 GMT
> > I just heard today from the rescue group I work with that Texas is going to
> > pass the "no declaw" law soon - thank the powers that be - I just wish the
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>
> Pam S. who hates declawing

I didn't do an extensive search yet, so I don't have the wording of the law,
but here is a good site for faqs, resources, etc. http://www.pawproject.com/

Hugs,

CatNipped
CatNipped - 06 Feb 2005 16:48 GMT
> > > I just heard today from the rescue group I work with that Texas is going
> to
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>
> CatNipped

Sorry, I sent the wrong link:
http://www.cbel.com/cat_issues/?order=theme&setcols=4

Hugs,

CatNipped
CatNipped - 06 Feb 2005 16:49 GMT
> > I just heard today from the rescue group I work with that Texas is going to
> > pass the "no declaw" law soon - thank the powers that be - I just wish the
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>
> Pam S. who hates declawing

Here's an even better link: http://www.declaw.org/

Hugs,

CatNipped
L. (usenetlyn) - 06 Feb 2005 17:02 GMT
> I just heard today from the rescue group I work with that Texas is going to
> pass the "no declaw" law soon - thank the powers that be - I just wish the
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>
> CatNipped

Texas?  The land of canned animal hunts and animals as fodder?  I can't
hardly believe it.

-L.
(going off to do some research...)
CatNipped - 06 Feb 2005 17:36 GMT
> > I just heard today from the rescue group I work with that Texas is
> going to
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> Texas?  The land of canned animal hunts and animals as fodder?  I can't
> hardly believe it.

Texas is a land of dichotomies.  Yes there are barbarians here who hold
canned animal hunts (just as there are people who hold cock fights in New
York).  However, there are also people here, like me, who cherish all living
things.

In fact, people here tend to have more respect for pets and wildlife than
most because Texas is a land of ranchers and farmers who value and respect
their animals (if for nothing else than as a valuable asset - but mostly
from just love).  When the rodeo is held in Houston, it's quite touching to
see everyone from toddlers to adults caring for, grooming, and *loving*
their pigs, goats, cows and bulls, etc. and taking pride in how well
cared-for they are.

And Texas is *BIG*.  We have people here ranging from dirt framers in the
boonies to cosmopolitan urbanites in one of the biggest, most sophisticated
port cities in the world.  It would be impossible to paint all Texans with
the same brush.  We are definitely *NOT* all rootin' tootin' cowboys running
around in sh*t-kicking boots and ten gallon hats, some of us are
overly-sensitive computer nerds!  ;>

Remember, geography does not determine what type of person you are, the
heart knows no borders.

Hugs,

CatNipped

> -L.
> (going off to do some research...)
Kreisleriana - 06 Feb 2005 20:17 GMT
>> > I just heard today from the rescue group I work with that Texas is
>> going to
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>canned animal hunts (just as there are people who hold cock fights in New
>York).

NOT legally, just let me put in here.

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L. (usenetlyn) - 07 Feb 2005 01:27 GMT
> > > I just heard today from the rescue group I work with that Texas is
> > going to
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>
> Texas is a land of dichotomies.

Well of course - my comment was geared more to Texas animal politics
which in the past hasn't been a cenetr for liberalism.  Not many states
still have canned hunts - Texas is one.  Also - Beef industry has a
huge lobby there - some of the worse feedlots I have ever seen were in
Texas.

-L.
CatNipped - 07 Feb 2005 02:40 GMT
> > > > I just heard today from the rescue group I work with that Texas
> is
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> huge lobby there - some of the worse feedlots I have ever seen were in
> Texas.

This is true.  As Theresa said, although other places have people that are
as cruel, at least in most of them those cruel things they do are illegal.
Sorry I got my fur rubbed the wrong way, I should know better.

Hugs,

CatNipped

> -L.
Marina - 07 Feb 2005 04:51 GMT
> Texas?  The land of canned animal hunts and animals as fodder?  

I'm probably going to regret asking, but what is a canned animal hunt?

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jmcquown - 07 Feb 2005 05:50 GMT
>> Texas?  The land of canned animal hunts and animals as fodder?
>
> I'm probably going to regret asking, but what is a canned animal hunt?

I don't know about Texas, but on some of the barrier islands in South
Carolina they organize "hunts" to get rid of the deer.  They have no natural
predators and as such overpopulate and then are starving due to lack of
food.  So they open up a "hunting season" for people to go shoot them.  It
disgusts me; I figure they should be trapped and located somewhere else.
But others disagree, saying they just damage gardens and fruit orchards with
their foraging.  I think deer are beautiful animals and one day when the
only place we can see them is in a Zoo, we'll be sorry.

Jill
Monique Y. Mudama - 15 Feb 2005 20:52 GMT
> I don't know about Texas, but on some of the barrier islands in South
> Carolina they organize "hunts" to get rid of the deer.  They have no natural
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> their foraging.  I think deer are beautiful animals and one day when the
> only place we can see them is in a Zoo, we'll be sorry.

Given that there's been a deer overpopulation* problem just about everywhere
I've ever lived, it's hard to imagine the day when we will only see them in
zoos.  They seem to have the survivability of cockroaches, but because they're
cute, they have more supporters.

*) IMO, it's more a "human overpopulation/suburbization" problem that results
in humans encroaching on deer territory, but either way, there's certainly a
problem.

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L. (usenetlyn) - 07 Feb 2005 06:39 GMT
> > Texas?  The land of canned animal hunts and animals as fodder?
>
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> Pics at http://uk.pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/frankiennikki/
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It is a fenced in area where animals that are purchased from places
like ZOOS and CIRCUSES are let loose, and rednecks pay big bucks to the
owners to come in and shoot/kill them.  Often it is big game animals
and exotics including big cats.
Just one website explaining it - there are many out there:
http://www.wildlifeprotection.net/CannedHunt/cannedhuntindex.html

This is one reason I do not ever support zoos, circuses or animal acts
of any kind.

-L.
Marina - 07 Feb 2005 16:16 GMT
> It is a fenced in area where animals that are purchased from places
> like ZOOS and CIRCUSES are let loose, and rednecks pay big bucks to the
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> This is one reason I do not ever support zoos, circuses or animal acts
> of any kind.

That's disgusting. I think it would be illegal in most parts of the
world. FYI, respectable zoos operate with a totally different agenda.
There are world-wide zoo networks for breeding species that are facing
extinction (world-wide in order to be able to keep the gene pool varied
enough). I can't imagine any European zoo giving animals to a hunt like
that. Yes, they have to euthanize animals sometimes, but it's done by a
vet. Then, of course, there are private zoos around the world, which
have no regard for international treaties on the preservation of wild
animals.

I knew I'd regret asking. I know I'll have nightmares now.

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L. (usenetlyn) - 07 Feb 2005 17:20 GMT
> > It is a fenced in area where animals that are purchased from places
> > like ZOOS and CIRCUSES are let loose, and rednecks pay big bucks to the
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> That's disgusting. I think it would be illegal in most parts of the
> world. FYI, respectable zoos operate with a totally different agenda.

Well, just FYI - even the most "respectable" zoos in the US sell
unwanted animals to class B animal dealers - where they then get resold
to places like canned hunts.  There is an entire book documenting this
practice. (I have it - I will have to look up the name and post it
later.)

> There are world-wide zoo networks for breeding species that are facing
> extinction (world-wide in order to be able to keep the gene pool varied
> enough). I can't imagine any European zoo giving animals to a hunt like
> that. Yes, they have to euthanize animals sometimes, but it's done by a
> vet. Then, of course, there are private zoos around the world, which
> have no regard for international treaties on the preservation of wild

> animals.

There was a zoo in Europe (I believe) that culled their Macaque
population by shooting them with a rife.  I will have to research it
and dig up where it was - it was a few years ago.  I just don't think
any true altruism exists when it comes to animals making money for
humans.

> I knew I'd regret asking. I know I'll have nightmares now.

Yeah, it's pretty horrific.

-L.
KellyH - 07 Feb 2005 19:15 GMT
> I just heard today from the rescue group I work with that Texas is going
> to
> pass the "no declaw" law soon - thank the powers that be - I just wish the
> rest of the country would catch up to civilization and outlaw it too!

What does this law say?  I'm very curious.  No offense, but I'm surprised
that Texas would pass a law like that.

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jmcquown - 05 Feb 2005 21:00 GMT
> Do I *look* like a cat encyclopedia????
>
> Ginger-lyn

Of course you do!  But then, don't we all? :D

Jill
jmcquown - 05 Feb 2005 21:16 GMT
> So, I'm at Petco, just picking up a cartful of cat food, when a guy
> stops suddenly and says "you look like a cat person!"

Sorry to piggy-back Ginger-lyn but this brought back a memory.  Not a very
pleasant one, sorry to say.  My dog Sampson had just died a couple of weeks
prior.  I was in PetCo looking for a new bird cage for a Christmas gift for
my brother, Scott.  This woman was there handing out coupons and samples of
pet food.  I'd never been in this particular Petco before so I didn't know
where to look for the bird cage.  I walked down an aisle with dog stuff,
looking all around - from whence do I hear birds chirping?  This woman said
brightly, "Hi!  Want some dog food and a coupon?"  I nearly burst into
tears.  I said, "I'm sorry, no, my dog just died."  She paused for just a
second then said brightly, "Okay, so do you have a cat?"  Talk about
insensitivity.  Did this woman even *have* any pets?!  I realize it was her
job but she didn't even break stride.  Nor did she even say, "I'm sorry to
hear that."  It turned me completely off to those people who want to hand
out coupons at PetCo.

Jill
Mischief - 06 Feb 2005 05:02 GMT
Man, that's uncool.  You should have reported her.

Dirty litterbox offerings to people with insensitivity.

Kristi
Tanada - 06 Feb 2005 16:31 GMT
> It turned me completely off to those people who want to hand
> out coupons at PetCo.
>
> Jill

It would turn me off PetCo.

Pam S.
jmcquown - 06 Feb 2005 17:14 GMT
>> It turned me completely off to those people who want to hand
>> out coupons at PetCo.
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>
> Pam S.

I think she worked for the pet food company.  Kinda like you see those folks
at the grocery store sometimes handing out mini sausages or whatever - they
don't work for the grocery store.  It bugged the crap out of me no matter
who she worked for.

Jill
Kreisleriana - 06 Feb 2005 20:16 GMT
>>> It turned me completely off to those people who want to hand
>>> out coupons at PetCo.
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
>
>Jill

People don't necesarily work in what interests them.  She's just
trying to make a living.

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jmcquown - 06 Feb 2005 21:20 GMT
>>>> It turned me completely off to those people who want to hand
>>>> out coupons at PetCo.
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> People don't necesarily work in what interests them.  She's just
> trying to make a living.

Trust me, I know!  I'm probably going to wind up working as a checker at a
grocery store (hey! at least I can identify all the produce without having
to ask!)  But she could have at least expressed some sympathy.

> Theresa
> Stinky Pictures: http://community.webshots.com/album/125591586JWEFwh
> My Blog: http://www.humanitas.blogspot.com
Howard Berkowitz - 06 Feb 2005 21:44 GMT
> >>> It turned me completely off to those people who want to hand
> >>> out coupons at PetCo.
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> People don't necesarily work in what interests them.  She's just
> trying to make a living.

I'm sorry, but I have never been willing to accept "just doing my job"
as an excuse for inappropriate behavior -- whether it be telemarketer or
concentration camp guard. What is so complex as expecting people to be
responsible for their own behavior?
Karen Chuplis - 07 Feb 2005 02:50 GMT
>>>>> It turned me completely off to those people who want to hand
>>>>> out coupons at PetCo.
[quoted text clipped - 22 lines]
> concentration camp guard. What is so complex as expecting people to be
> responsible for their own behavior?

Besides, sympathy and tact are not really job specific.
jmcquown - 07 Feb 2005 05:57 GMT
>>>>>> It turned me completely off to those people who want to hand
>>>>>> out coupons at PetCo.
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
>
> Besides, sympathy and tact are not really job specific.

If you're dealing with the general public they certainly should be job
specific!  I've worked retail; I've worked in restaurants.  Don't know how
many times I thought a *customer* was out of line.  There was the woman who
refused to try on jeans larger than a size 8 and the asked me to come back
and help her zip them up.  I had to remain tactful and sympathetic all at
the same time (but I also refused to help her zip her jeans).  In
restaurants, you have to apologize constantly even though it's not your
fault the kitchen is backed up.

But handing out samples and coupons for pet food in a pet store - if someone
says their pet just died and they are there looking for a specific gift -
one should simply point the way and let it go.

Jill
Karen - 07 Feb 2005 14:37 GMT
> >>>>>> It turned me completely off to those people who want to hand
> >>>>>> out coupons at PetCo.
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>
> Jill

I meant, every job should have someone who knows how to be sympathetic and
tactful.
Cheryl Perkins - 07 Feb 2005 14:38 GMT
> I meant, every job should have someone who knows how to be sympathetic and
> tactful.

Then what about those who aren't sympathetic and tactful? OK, that sounds
flippant, but not everyone is really strong in those characteristics, and
even the most tactful and sympathetic person has had those moments when
they've opened their mouths and they cringe themselves at what comes out.

Actually, offering a coupon for a surviving pet, or even asking if there
is one isn't really the most unsympathetic and tactless thing that can be
(and has been) said in response to a death.

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Karen - 07 Feb 2005 15:41 GMT
> > I meant, every job should have someone who knows how to be sympathetic and
> > tactful.
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> is one isn't really the most unsympathetic and tactless thing that can be
> (and has been) said in response to a death.

OK. I guess I am just not being a good communicator today so I will just
drop this thread now. Sorry all.
jmcquown - 07 Feb 2005 16:11 GMT
>>>>>>>> It turned me completely off to those people who want to hand
>>>>>>>> out coupons at PetCo.
[quoted text clipped - 26 lines]
> I meant, every job should have someone who knows how to be
> sympathetic and tactful.

I'm sorry, I misunderstood you!  I'm having a bad time these days with
comprehension.  My apologies!

Jill
Steve Touchstone - 09 Feb 2005 21:49 GMT
>> People don't necesarily work in what interests them.  She's just
>> trying to make a living.
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>concentration camp guard. What is so complex as expecting people to be
>responsible for their own behavior?

I'd have to agree that she sounds like a round peg crammed into a
square hole. I'd assume the purpose of handing out samples would be to
encourage people to actually buy the product. If she had shown
sensitivity and sympathy, Jill may have been encouraged to purchase
some of the product when she got over her grief of losing Samson and
gotten another dog. Or for Persia, since it sounds like the company
might also produce cat food. Instead, her insensitivty might turn me
off from buying any product from the company.
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L. (usenetlyn) - 06 Feb 2005 17:00 GMT
> > So, I'm at Petco, just picking up a cartful of cat food, when a guy
> > stops suddenly and says "you look like a cat person!"
[quoted text clipped - 15 lines]
>
> Jill

Oh geez - that's horrible. :(

-L.
Gabey8 - 06 Feb 2005 19:11 GMT
[[This woman
said
brightly, "Hi!  Want some dog food and a coupon?"  I nearly burst into
tears.  I said, "I'm sorry, no, my dog just died."  She paused for just a
second then said brightly, "Okay, so do you have a cat?"  Talk about
insensitivity.  Did this woman even *have* any pets?!  I realize it was
her
job but she didn't even break stride.  Nor did she even say, "I'm sorry
to
hear that."  It turned me completely off to those people who want to hand
out coupons at PetCo.]]

Who in the HECK trained her to deal with the public? I hope you let the
management know what happened, not to get her in trouble, but to let them
know that they have to review their training procedures.

Of course, if she had shown a bit more empathy and/or common sense, things
would have turned out differently, too. Sigh.

Donna, wondering what people are THINKING sometimes
Ginger-lyn Summer - 06 Feb 2005 19:31 GMT
>> So, I'm at Petco, just picking up a cartful of cat food, when a guy
>> stops suddenly and says "you look like a cat person!"
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>
>Jill

{{{{Jill}}}} I'm so sorry you were treated that way.  Some people have
the sensitivity of a rock, sadly.

Ginger-lyn
Lesley Madigan - 07 Feb 2005 12:55 GMT
> {{{{Jill}}}} I'm so sorry you were treated that way.  Some people have
> the sensitivity of a rock, sadly.

the worse one I had was when I had to take Fugazi to the vets. She was
taken ill suddenly and it wasn't my regular vet. Now I have no
complaints about the vet (Indeed they are now my regular vets)but a
few days later I got a glossy cheery mailshot thanking me for
"Entrusting them with the care of your beloved animal" and "Hoping for
many happy healthy years with us".

I told them when I next went in that I really did not think that was
an appropriate thing to send when Fugazi had to be put to sleep.

Lesley

Slave of the Fabulous Furballs
jmcquown - 07 Feb 2005 16:10 GMT
>> {{{{Jill}}}} I'm so sorry you were treated that way.  Some people
>> have the sensitivity of a rock, sadly.
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>
> Slave of the Fabulous Furballs

Yup, I had something similar happen.  My FORMER vet sold my name and address
to a drug company.  I got a coupon in the mail from said company for a trial
of Anipryl, which is used to treat "dementia" in senior dogs, which he'd
been for several years at that point.  But he'd also been put to sleep about
a month prior.  I would have thought it was a bizarre coincidence had I not
noticed at the bottom of the coupon the name of my vet's office.  I wrote a
scathing letter to the vet and cc:'d the drug company rep.  I got a reply
back from a different vet - the owner of the clinic, not the one who had
treated Sampson - apologizing and saying yes, he gave them my name but he
didn't know Sampson was so ill.  Hey, how's about checking his chart?  He
was almost 18 years old, had congestive heart failure, cataracts, required
special food and gee - you guys put him to sleep.  Sheesh.

Jill
Helen Miles - 05 Feb 2005 23:34 GMT
> Do I *look* like a cat encyclopedia????//

Do you really want an answer to that? ;o) :P~~~~

Helen M
Lisa Katt - 06 Feb 2005 10:49 GMT
Ginger-lyn Summer skrev i meddelandet
<42052a2a.4784932@news.east.earthlink.net>...
>So, I'm at Petco, just picking up a cartful of cat food, when a guy
>stops suddenly and says "you look like a cat person!"
>
>That obvious, huh?
>
>snip>

Could it possibly be the cartful of cat food that gave you away? LOL!
Elisabet
Adrian - 06 Feb 2005 13:16 GMT
> So, I'm at Petco, just picking up a cartful of cat food, when a guy
> stops suddenly and says "you look like a cat person!"
>
> That obvious, huh?

Hopefully you've saved at least one cat from mutilation.
--
Adrian (Owned by Snoopy & Bagheera)
A house is not a home, without a cat.
kilikini - 06 Feb 2005 16:24 GMT
> So, I'm at Petco, just picking up a cartful of cat food, when a guy
> stops suddenly and says "you look like a cat person!"
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>
> Ginger-lyn

I have friends that keep talking about declawing their cat and each time I
inform them (nicely) of how they amputate the toes.  They seem totally
unconcerned with this.  I like these people, but this issue is seriously
making me not want to like them!  Would they want their fingers amputated to
the first knuckle?  Come on!  It's cruel, it's disgusting and besides, they
still want their cat (after surgery) to be an indoor/outdoor cat?  That's
just plain insane and it infuriates me.  It's not like their kids don't do
worse things to the furniture than the damn cat!

kili
kilikini - 06 Feb 2005 16:36 GMT
> I have friends that keep talking about declawing their cat and each
> time I inform them (nicely) of how they amputate the toes.  They seem
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>
> kili

Sorry, responding to my own post... I didn't want to come across as some
mean woman or anything and I'm sorry I swore, but I can't stand it when
people don't care about the pets they take on.  These people aren't
concerned with getting their female cat fixed, yet they want to declaw her
and make her an indoor/outdoor cat?  What is that about?

I also can't stand it when *I* take my cats to the vet, get them their
shots, spend the money on getting them fixed (which I really don't have, by
the way - I'm really broke, but there's a RESPONSIBILITY issue!) and someone
comes up to me and says either, why don't you get them declawed or, promise
me you won't declaw them, will you?

It makes me angry!  If I'm taking care of my animals, that means I love
them.  If I love them, why would I mutilate them?

Sorry to rant, but jeez!  Take care of your darn pets and leave mine alone.
Mine are fine, happy, healthy and eat more and better than I.

Okay, done with my rant.

kili
Cheryl - 06 Feb 2005 23:58 GMT
>> I have friends that keep talking about declawing their cat and
>> each time I inform them (nicely) of how they amputate the toes.
[quoted text clipped - 15 lines]
> fixed, yet they want to declaw her and make her an
> indoor/outdoor cat?  What is that about?

I can completely understand about the feelings you have for these
people. It's hard not to completely dislike them for something they
are doing to a living being. I had a falling out with my own sister
because of her irresponsibilty with her cats. She seems to think
that her 5 year old twins can't learn how to keep the door shut so
the cats don't get out. And that I'm calling them "bad kids"
because they don't shut the door. It isn't like that at all. I
blame her for thinking they don't have the capacity to learn to
value life, and given the responsibility for those lives can teach
them a lot. And that they'll "get it".

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Seanette Blaylock - 07 Feb 2005 00:14 GMT
Cheryl <jlhshadow@nospamhotmail.com> had some very interesting things
to say about Re: The Hillbilly at Petco:

>I can completely understand about the feelings you have for these
>people. It's hard not to completely dislike them for something they
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>value life, and given the responsibility for those lives can teach
>them a lot. And that they'll "get it".

At that age, I was certainly capable of learning something that
simple.

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jmcquown - 07 Feb 2005 01:23 GMT
> Cheryl <jlhshadow@nospamhotmail.com> had some very interesting things
> to say about Re: The Hillbilly at Petco:
[quoted text clipped - 12 lines]
> At that age, I was certainly capable of learning something that
> simple.

Gee, at that age I was going to kindergarten on a school bus all by myself.
Mom sure didn't have to tell me to shut the door behind me.

Jill
Karen Chuplis - 07 Feb 2005 02:56 GMT
> Cheryl <jlhshadow@nospamhotmail.com> had some very interesting things
> to say about Re: The Hillbilly at Petco:
[quoted text clipped - 12 lines]
> At that age, I was certainly capable of learning something that
> simple.

At that age, I DID know how to do it. We let our cats out during the day but
there were times they had to stay in and I certainly understood about that
and how to avoid letting cats out.
Kreisleriana - 06 Feb 2005 20:13 GMT
>> So, I'm at Petco, just picking up a cartful of cat food, when a guy
>> stops suddenly and says "you look like a cat person!"
[quoted text clipped - 36 lines]
>
>kili

My mom wanted Stinky declawed, and she still does not understand how
upset the idea makes me.  I told her that I was not doing it, and that
was that, but also if she mentioned it again, I would not speak to
her.

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Helen Miles - 06 Feb 2005 20:26 GMT
> My mom wanted Stinky declawed, and she still does not understand how
> upset the idea makes me.  I told her that I was not doing it, and that
> was that, but also if she mentioned it again, I would not speak to
> her.///

I'll never forget the sh*t-fit that my mom threw at her USA vet when she
suggested that she declaw Robbie. Fair to say, the vet has never
mentioned the Declaw word again in the presence of my mother and neither
have the vet staff.

The vet staff now respect the fact that in Britain animal welfare laws
are slightly different to the USA. ;o)

Helen M
Adrian - 07 Feb 2005 09:50 GMT
> I have friends that keep talking about declawing their cat and each
> time I inform them (nicely) of how they amputate the toes.  They seem
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>
> kili

If I knew people like that, they would *not* remain friends. If they are
willing to mutilate an animal, knowing what the procedure involves, they
must be extremely selfish and not worth friendship.
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Steve Touchstone - 09 Feb 2005 21:28 GMT
>I have friends that keep talking about declawing their cat and each time I
>inform them (nicely) of how they amputate the toes.  They seem totally
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>just plain insane and it infuriates me.  It's not like their kids don't do
>worse things to the furniture than the damn cat!

Unfortunately, there are some vets who are in the business for money
instead of the love of their patients - truely TEDs (the evil doctor).
You may not be able to convice them - especially if they have as
trusted vet who views declawing as a money making procedure.

When LB moved in and had her litter, despite my telling her I didn't
want or need any cats, I lucked out. I picked a good vet from the
phone book. When he found out it had been over 20 years since I'd had
a cat he gave me some booklets for new cat owners, which included
graphic pix of declawing.

Sometimes pictures can convince when words alone don't. There are
several sites (sorry, I no longer have them bookmarked, but you can
find them if you google cat declaw) which show pictures of the
procedure - warning, don't view the sites unless you have a strong
stomach. You can also find statistics about all the medical and
behavioral problems which declawing causes. Perhaps your friends could
be shown the light if you shared some of those sites with them.
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L. (usenetlyn) - 06 Feb 2005 17:04 GMT
> So, I'm at Petco, just picking up a cartful of cat food, when a guy
> stops suddenly and says "you look like a cat person!"
>
> That obvious, huh?

Ummm...of course! ;)

FWIW, I come right out and tell these bozos that declawing is
amputation, what it entails and the stats on problems after decawing.
Usually the mentioning of inappropriate elimination gets them.  If they
don't want scratched furniture they sure aren't going to like furniture
that smells like cat pee.

-L.
Karen Chuplis - 06 Feb 2005 18:15 GMT
>> So, I'm at Petco, just picking up a cartful of cat food, when a guy
>> stops suddenly and says "you look like a cat person!"
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
>
> -L.

One time our Petco had an actual AD hung up on the bulletin board for some
vet that did it! I went back in and pointed out that since a major product
in their cat department were cat trees and scratching posts, that besides
the fact it is amputation and laser besides it's outlawed in almost all
other countries, they should think about taking that down. I noticed that
they haven't had anything like that on the bulletin board again.
Cheryl Perkins - 06 Feb 2005 19:05 GMT
> One time our Petco had an actual AD hung up on the bulletin board for some
> vet that did it! I went back in and pointed out that since a major product
> in their cat department were cat trees and scratching posts, that besides
> the fact it is amputation and laser besides it's outlawed in almost all
> other countries, they should think about taking that down. I noticed that
> they haven't had anything like that on the bulletin board again.

When I was waiting to see TED, the receptionist fielded a couple of calls
- one about declawing. I was surprised because I have encountered almost
no declawed cats here, but she says they get a lot of enquiries, even
about kittens that no one's even tried to get used to a scratching tree.
That vet simply doesn't do declawing; I gather she asked one (human)
doctor requesting the operation if he recommended that his patients have
their toes cut off to save the trouble of cutting their toenails!

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Cheryl - 07 Feb 2005 00:01 GMT
> When I was waiting to see TED, the receptionist fielded a couple
> of calls - one about declawing. I was surprised because I have
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> operation if he recommended that his patients have their toes
> cut off to save the trouble of cutting their toenails!

The vets office I used to use (VCA) had a video playing on their
waiting room TV promoting their "declaw and spay procedures". I was
furious. Told the receptionist that I was appalled and quit going
there.

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CatNipped - 07 Feb 2005 00:57 GMT
> > When I was waiting to see TED, the receptionist fielded a couple
> > of calls - one about declawing. I was surprised because I have
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
> furious. Told the receptionist that I was appalled and quit going
> there.

Yeah, I quit my last vet mostly because of their "routine" declawing during
spaying / neutering.  I chose my new vet, "Just Cats", because when I was
interviewing them and I asked about having my cat declawed (trick question)
they said their vets didn't perform that procedure and offered to tell me
why and offer me other solutions.  I told them, no thanks, I could tell
*them* why not to declaw and know how to train my cats to use scratching
posts and, by the way, congratulations you're my new vet.

Hugs,

CatNipped

> --
> Cheryl
L. (usenetlyn) - 07 Feb 2005 06:45 GMT
<snip>

>  I told them, no thanks, I could tell
> *them* why not to declaw and know how to train my cats to use
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> > --
> > Cheryl

I have been hard pressed to find a vet that *doesn't* do it.  The
a.shole vet I used to work for did them on demand - even on 8-wk old
kittens.  I used to call it "cutting off their toes despite their face"
because they were so cute. :*(

-L.
Lesley Madigan - 07 Feb 2005 12:46 GMT
> I have been hard pressed to find a vet that *doesn't* do it.  The
> a.shole vet I used to work for did them on demand - even on 8-wk old
> kittens.  I used to call it "cutting off their toes despite their face"
> because they were so cute. :*(

To me all this sounds so unbelievable....In the UK declawing is not
routine and I suspect it may even be illegal. I do know that every
pedigree cat association in the UK bans declawed cats from showing. I
certainly can't believe you can have vets showing videos advising
owners to have their cats declawed or someone doing that to an 8 week
old kitten!

I would never have it done to my furballs....even through right now, I
have a long scratch down my arm (Catching Sarrasine when she fell off
the curtain pole, my fault I should have been more careful!)

Lesley

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KellyH - 07 Feb 2005 19:33 GMT
> I have been hard pressed to find a vet that *doesn't* do it.  The
> a.shole vet I used to work for did them on demand - even on 8-wk old
> kittens.  I used to call it "cutting off their toes despite their face"
> because they were so cute. :*(

That is really sad.  I've been trying to find a vet who doesn't, too.  At
least mine doesn't promote it, but they will if an owner insists. :(

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Steve Touchstone - 09 Feb 2005 21:49 GMT
>> I have been hard pressed to find a vet that *doesn't* do it.  The
>> a.shole vet I used to work for did them on demand - even on 8-wk old
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>That is really sad.  I've been trying to find a vet who doesn't, too.  At
>least mine doesn't promote it, but they will if an owner insists. :(

Well, after bragging on my vet for giving handouts which discourage
declawing, I suppose I should confess that he will declaw when the
owners insist.
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Karen - 09 Feb 2005 22:44 GMT
> >> I have been hard pressed to find a vet that *doesn't* do it.  The
> >> a.shole vet I used to work for did them on demand - even on 8-wk old
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> declawing, I suppose I should confess that he will declaw when the
> owners insist.

Well, to be quite frank, if ALL vets took this approach it would probably
die out right quick. It's not a bad way TO approach eliminating declaw. It's
the promoter vets that do the harm, IMO.
Monique Y. Mudama - 15 Feb 2005 20:43 GMT
> Well, after bragging on my vet for giving handouts which discourage
> declawing, I suppose I should confess that he will declaw when the owners
> insist.

You could use an argument similar to a pro-choice argument: People are going
to do it anyway, so wouldn't you rather that a qualified and caring doctor do
it?

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Christina Websell - 16 Feb 2005 00:47 GMT
>> Well, after bragging on my vet for giving handouts which discourage
>> declawing, I suppose I should confess that he will declaw when the owners
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> do
> it?

In most countries, people *don't* do it.  It is considered cruel and all
caring countries outlaw it.
It's time it was banned in America too.  Tell all cat owners it's not an
option and keep on telling them, and ask vets what they are thinking about
when they agree to declaw.  It's DISGUSTING & CRUEL and I will never stop
saying this.

Tweed
Monique Y. Mudama - 16 Feb 2005 01:01 GMT
>>> Well, after bragging on my vet for giving handouts which discourage
>>> declawing, I suppose I should confess that he will declaw when the owners
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
> what they are thinking about when they agree to declaw.  It's DISGUSTING &
> CRUEL and I will never stop saying this.

As long as it's legal in the US, I guarantee you people will ask to have it
done.

I agree that it is disgusting and cruel, and my major reservation about giving
Eros up for adoption was that I'd never know if his potential owner might want
to declaw him.

I'd rather vets take a stand and not declaw at all, which is why I
didn't say that I espoused the argument; I said "You" (meaning "one")
could make that argument.

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CatNipped - 16 Feb 2005 01:02 GMT
> >> Well, after bragging on my vet for giving handouts which discourage
> >> declawing, I suppose I should confess that he will declaw when the owners
[quoted text clipped - 17 lines]
>
> Tweed

I agree Tweed.  If people would just read about what happens to kitties who
have it done to them - the horrible pain, the lifelong problems, the
arthritis when they're older - and then realized that if they even *like*
their cats, much less love them they would never even dream of having this
done.  And vets who do it are guilty of cruelty to animals - they may use
anesthesia while they're doing it, but most don't even give pain medication
afterwards.

You get the idea, ditto, it *IS* disgusting and cruel!

Hugs,

CatNipped
Adrian - 16 Feb 2005 11:27 GMT
>> Well, after bragging on my vet for giving handouts which discourage
>> declawing, I suppose I should confess that he will declaw when the
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> are going to do it anyway, so wouldn't you rather that a qualified
> and caring doctor do it?

I don't believe a *caring* doctor would necessarily do it, very few vets
in England would, even if were legal.
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Gabey8 - 06 Feb 2005 18:53 GMT
[[Do I *look* like a cat encyclopedia????

Ginger-lyn]]

Ya know that sign, written on us in invisible ink, that tells every
four-footed critter that we're a big softy who will cheerfully spoil the
heck out of them? This is an offshoot of that. Apparently your
invisible-ink sign is perceptable by humans, too. ;o)

Donna -- who drove my mom NUTS when I was a kid, and every stray cat or
dog followed me home. Regardless of whether I encouraged them to or not.
O J - 06 Feb 2005 23:45 GMT
---------------------<snip>----------------------
>Then I mention the "D" word.  That declawed cats often have behavioral
>issues.
---------------------<snip>----------------------

If I've said it once, I've said it a thousand times.  If you want a
declawed cat, adopt one.  My beloved Misty (RB) was declawed when we
got her and, not wanting to mix them, the next two we got were
declawed as well when we got them.  I have to think that people who
would consider declawing just think they want a cat to add some life
to their household.  They'd be better off just getting some plants.

The abundance of declawed adult cats up for adoption proves this.  In
fact, when I occasionally used to post to the old all-in-one group,
"If you want a declawed cat, adopt one!" Used to be part of my sig.

By the way, the four cats we've gotten since then are clawed of
course, and there has been no trouble with them being mixed.

Regards and Purrs,
O J
KellyH - 07 Feb 2005 19:14 GMT
> Then I mention the "D" word.  That declawed cats often have behavioral
> issues.
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> prefer different surfaces, the height should be tall enough for the
> cat to stretch, etc.

Ugh.  That reminds of this father/son combo that came into the shelter.  Of
course, as adoption hours are coming to a close.  Another volunteer and I
are talking to them, going over the basics, and the declaw issue comes up.
Both of us explain how it is amputation, behavior issues, etc.  The son, who
was about 12 years old, joins in with the father in the protests that they
want to protect the furniture (can't get the boy's whining "What about the
furniture??" out of my head) and how the boy was scratched *once* by a cat.
I finally ended it, as they were NOT getting a cat from us, by saying "there
are plenty of declawed cats that need homes, and you can keep checking back
to see if we have any.  We will not adopt a cat to you with claws knowing
you will remove them."
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