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Puss Puss' friend Midnight (long and sad)

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O J - 30 Jan 2005 17:03 GMT
Hi All,

This is a sad tale.  It happened in West Hempstead, NY many years ago.
Around the corner from DH lived Mary C, long since  grown into a dear
woman of an age with yours truly, but the beginning of this story
takes place when she was a teenager.  

She and DH were inseparable.  They would do all sorts of girly things
together.  They discovered boys together.  My dear heart, Lynda, and
Mary would leave for junior high and later high school early every day
and stop to use the ladies room of the local gas station to help each
other put on lipstick and eyebrow pencil.  Then they would each roll
the waistband of their skirts up to shorten them.  These things, of
course, had to be done in secret as the girls were not permitted to
leave the house that way.

I've mentioned The Puss Puss many times and I miss that  old cat, but
Mary had a cat too, Midnight.  Midnight was an unfixed female and
Lynda once got to  see her giving birth to a litter of kittens.  Since
Puss Puss was fixed and Midnight was not, there was no need for any
rivalry between them and they got along together as well as could be
expected.

Things happened fast for Mary after high school.  Marriage and a baby
soon followed, as well as moving away from home.  Midnight was to stay
behind and become her parent's cat.  This ran contrary to Midnight's
wishes though.  She was a one-person cat and her one person was gone.
It hurt Mary to hear that Midnight had started staying away longer and
longer and finally never came home again.

Mary was an independent sort who, though she became a single mom, was
determined to make it on her own.  Through several jobs and numerous
moves  the years passed, and she was sure that Midnight must have met
her end huddled alone in an alley someplace.

The day came when, in spite of her best efforts, jobs and places to
live broke down all at once for Mary and she had to move back with her
parents temporarily.  She had been there for about a week when there
was an insistent mewing at the back door.  Upon opening the door, Mary
discovered an tattered, scarred, and weatherbeaten old black cat.
Mary wondered what had driven this animal of the streets to mew at her
door -- it didn't even occur to her as she opened a can of tuna for
the poor beast that it could be Midnight.

Slowly it dawned on Mary.  This WAS Midnight.  She must have been
seventeen or eighteen years old and had survived who could guess how
many litters of kittens.  She had also survived the icy winters, rainy
springs and falls, and the hot humid summers.  All Midnight knew was
that she was still a one-person cat and that her person had finally
come home.

I wish that this story had a happy ending.  Both Mary and Midnight
deserved a happy ending such as Puss Puss and Lynda had after Puss
Puss had to spend what was probably her fourteenth year lost on the
streets.  Mary took Midnight to the vet who told her that the kindest
thing to  do would be to put Midnight down.  Sobbing, Mary assented.
She took one more day to spend with her long-lost kitty and returned
to the vet's office for a final goodbye.

I've been meaning to write this story for some time.  I'm sorry it's
so sad.  I just thought that someone should pay tribute to the old
girl's will to live and to her undying hope that some day her person
would return to love her once more.

Regards and Tears,
O J
Christine Burel - 30 Jan 2005 21:45 GMT
Oooh, this made me cry, too, but thank you for telling this story as I think
it honors both Mary and Midnight.
Christine

> Hi All,
>
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> Regards and Tears,
> O J
Christina Websell - 30 Jan 2005 22:36 GMT
I found it very, very touching too.  I think some cats really do bond to
just one person.
I was going to trap and tame Boyfriend and then give him up to the Cat's
Protection League to find him a home.  Yes!  I really was!  I didn't want
another cat.
The woman that runs the local branch said that she doubted, from my
description of him, that he would settle anywhere else because he was so
nervous.  She said if I would agree to keep him, even as a barn kitty, and
feed him, that they would pay for his snip.
I went away to think about it.  Was this just a trick, having the wool
pulled over my eyes because I wasn't experienced with cats, an appeal to my
better nature?
In a way, I suppose it was.
My German friend, N?le. wanted me to keep him.  She is very fond of cats
herself and she guilt tripped me.  When she was staying here one time, BF
was just at the stage of sneaking into the conservatory late at night to
sleep and disappearing as fast as he could when I opened the back door in
the morning.
"You will tame him and keep him, of course"  she said.   Which caused me to
reply  "What do you mean 'of course?'  Of course I won't.  I like
birdwatching in the garden and having Kitty is bad enough, I DO NOT WANT
ANOTHER CAT AND HE GOES TO THE CAT'S HOME AS SOON AS I CAN TRAP HIM!!!!"
She said "Ahhhhh.." and then remained silent.  "Oh, for goodness sake, what
do you mean 'ahhhhh?' "  I said.  She said nothing for about a minute, and
sighed.  Then she said "Do you realise that this poor boy has somehow lost
his home, this poor kitten - for that's all he is - is totally lost.  He's
found somewhere safe to sleep and thinks he is lucky and now you will turn
him out.."

So.  That's why I still have him, and I bless the day I decided he could
live here.  I love him to bits.
N could guilt trip for Germany in the Olympics ;-)
After this extreme guilt-tripping there wasn't really any chance that he
couldn't stay.  And yes, he's ruined my birdwatching.

Tweed

> Oooh, this made me cry, too, but thank you for telling this story as I
> think
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>> Regards and Tears,
>> O J
Karen Chuplis - 30 Jan 2005 22:40 GMT
> I found it very, very touching too.  I think some cats really do bond to
> just one person.
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>
> Tweed

Wow. She is GOOOOOOD!
Christina Websell - 30 Jan 2005 23:29 GMT
>> I found it very, very touching too.  I think some cats really do bond to
>> just one person.
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>>
> Wow. She is GOOOOOOD!

<grin>  Yes, isn't she?  She can make me feel bad even though English isn't
her first language.
Next time she came, Boyfriend refused to come into the house if he saw her
in the kitchen or lounge.  I told he he was ungrateful and that it was down
to her that he was here.
He said she talked funny and he wouldn't come in until she went to bed
which fortunately for him was around 9.30.  He darted into the house to sit
on his favourite armchair about 9.31.
This also meant she got up early.  He made sure he was out of the house by
6.
It's probably right what the catwoman said, maybe he wouldn't have settled
anywhere else.  I seem to be the only person he feels comfortable with.
I am trying to work on it.  If he hears the doorbell he immediately asks to
go out the back door.  I used to let him, but now I want him to realise that
my visitors won't hurt him, and he can always go on his bed under the table
in the kitchen, with a tablecloth hanging down  hiding him and just listen.
BF is *not* a feral cat, he came here with a posh collar on.  I don't know
what made him so shy.  Every time I pick up a chicken drinker to put new
water in it, and throw what's in it on the ground he thinks I'm going to
throw it over him, and runs away.  I wish he could tell me where he came
from and what happened to him.
I think he was well loved.  He came with a very important sort of collar on,
and he only liked expensive dry food (after he got over being absolutely
starving and would eat anything)
I often wonder if his previous owners wonder where he is, I expect they do,
but as he isn't microchipped they will never know.

Tweed
Karen Chuplis - 31 Jan 2005 00:01 GMT
>>> I found it very, very touching too.  I think some cats really do bond to
>>> just one person.
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>
> Tweed

Some cats are just naturally spooky. It's just their nature. Maybe that's
how Boyfriend got lost. He may have been scared and panicked and run off but
couldn't find his way back.
Howard Berkowitz - 31 Jan 2005 04:01 GMT
> BF is *not* a feral cat, he came here with a posh collar on.  I don't
> know
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> do,
> but as he isn't microchipped they will never know.

I think about the way BF has bonded to you and cares for you, as a most
gentlemanly cat. He clearly adores you.

If a cat is that capable of love, I really wonder how well he was loved
wherever he was before. Perhaps he was pampered as an ornament, and
developed some posh tastes, but, if he were loved as much as you love
him, I wonder if he would have strayed.
jmcquown - 31 Jan 2005 09:25 GMT
>> BF is *not* a feral cat, he came here with a posh collar on.  I don't
>> know
[quoted text clipped - 17 lines]
> and developed some posh tastes, but, if he were loved as much as you
> love him, I wonder if he would have strayed.

I wonder where Persia came from.  She had no collar but had been
front-declawed and (apparently) spayed.  Yet she cried at my back door for
hours to be let inside.  And once inside, determined this was HER place.
She even slept on the bed with me that first night!  Granted, her purrs were
sort of distressed, like she wasn't sure.  But when I woke up in the morning
I found a cat on the pillow over my head!  Within a couple of days (while I
was trying to find her owners) she made it clear this was HER home.

Jill
Christina Websell - 02 Feb 2005 18:38 GMT
>> BF is *not* a feral cat, he came here with a posh collar on.  I don't
>> know
>> what made him so shy.

<snip>
>> I often wonder if his previous owners wonder where he is, I expect they
>> do,
>> but as he isn't microchipped they will never know.
>>
> I think about the way BF has bonded to you and cares for you, as a most
> gentlemanly cat.

I never thought a cat could be like he is.  He does fit the description of
"gentlemanly." If that's possible for a cat to be, he is.
In an awful storm a few weeks ago in the middle of the night, he accompanied
me down the garden to make sure the chicken hut roofs hadn't blown off,
that's how bad it was, and lashing rain, too.

When I opened the back door and heard the wind howling, and the rain on the
windows, Kitty looked up from her place by the fire and shrugged.  "You're
on your own.."
BF didn't hesitate.  He decided I needed an escort, so he girded his loins,
put his reflective collar on to "twinkle" guided me down the path and stayed
with me.

> He clearly adores you.

I think he likes me a bit ;-)

> If a cat is that capable of love, I really wonder how well he was loved
> wherever he was before. Perhaps he was pampered as an ornament, and
> developed some posh tastes, but, if he were loved as much as you love
> him, I wonder if he would have strayed.

My theory is that he got inside a delivery van and was carried miles away.
I cannot imagine anyone giving up a cat like this.  He is well behaved,
perfectly clean in the house - even when a couple of times he got shut in
all day accidentally with no litter box - and isn't what I call "in yer
face" always looking for scritches and amusement and pestering for it.
No.  He never does that.  He is very happy to live alongside me without
being a nuisance.
In short, if he didn't catch birds, he'd be perfect ;-)

Boyfriend is a gentleman. He hardly ever hits Kitty back, either..

Tweed
Adrian - 04 Feb 2005 12:18 GMT
<snip>
> My theory is that he got inside a delivery van and was carried miles
> away. I cannot imagine anyone giving up a cat like this.  He is well
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>
> Tweed

When I drove a delivery van I always checked for cats before I left.
More than once I found one and several times I found footprints on the
boxes so I knew they'd been there.
--
Adrian (Owned by Snoopy & Bagheera)
A house is not a home, without a cat.
Christina Websell - 04 Feb 2005 18:17 GMT
> <snip>
>> My theory is that he got inside a delivery van and was carried miles
[quoted text clipped - 15 lines]
> --
> Adrian

Every delivery van ought to have a message on the wall in the back of the
truck.   "Check for cats before pulling away"

Tweed
Adrian - 01 Feb 2005 13:49 GMT
> I found it very, very touching too.  I think some cats really do bond
> to just one person.
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>
> Tweed

I liked N?le before, just from your descriptions of her. After reading
this post I like her even  more. Do you think she was guided by the
mothrership?
--
Adrian (Owned by Snoopy & Bagheera)
A house is not a home, without a cat.
Christina Websell - 04 Feb 2005 17:09 GMT
<snip>
>>  Then she said "Do you
>> realise that this poor boy has somehow lost his home, this poor
[quoted text clipped - 15 lines]
> --
> Adrian

No.  N?le is guided only by herself!  I don't have a chance against her once
she's made her mind up.
When I visited her in Germany, she had three kitties, a family she thought,
they all looked very much the same.  A very old cat she called Grandma Kat,
and what she assumed were her son and daughter, Tadeuz and Bibi.
Tadeuz was quite ill when I was there, he had CRF and crossed the bridge
just a few weeks later.  Grandma Kat went to the bridge  not long afterwards
at a great age, having a bladder tumour.  So just Bibi left.
So!  When N mailed to say a big black un-neutered tom was wandering around
the place looking to move in, I wasn't too sympathetic ;-)  She said she
didn't want him.  I said why not, you have at least two vacancies.  She said
that he was too pushy, always winding himself round her feet and had no
manners.  She said if she was to adopt another stray it would have to be
what she described as "a tender soul like Boyfriend."
So - I just mailed back and said...this poor cat is lost  etc etc etc and he
can't help it if he's trying to impress you.!!  So she took him for the snip
and kept him.  Hahaha.  Revenge can be quite sweet.  LOL.

Tweed <---   who definitely got the best end of the deal with Boyfriend.
Exocat - 01 Feb 2005 18:00 GMT
But just think what hours of pleasure you now get from
Boyfriend-watching!

A more than ample compensation, don't you agree?

Purrs

Gordon & the TT

> Re Boyfriend.
> That's why I still have him, and I bless the day I decided he could
> live here.  I love him to bits.
> N could guilt trip for Germany in the Olympics ;-)
> After this extreme guilt-tripping there wasn't really any chance that
> he couldn't stay.  And yes, he's ruined my birdwatching.
Christina Websell - 04 Feb 2005 17:19 GMT
> But just think what hours of pleasure you now get from
> Boyfriend-watching!
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>
> Gordon & the TT

Not really.  I am so fond of wild birds that I pretty well set up my garden
for them, with all appropriate trees, shrubs and plants to feed them, a
birdtable which I keep stocked, and lots of nestboxes which were all used.
I now feel that it's a trap for them.
The cats catch and eat them when they come to this place that looks perfect
for them.
I am quite serious about this.  When the cats catch the birds it really
upsets me. It's a conflict in my emotions.  The cats came unwanted. I took
them both in because I was sorry that they were lost. I wish I could convey
to them to leave the birdies alone - alas, I know it isn't possible.

Tweed
Jo Firey - 04 Feb 2005 17:27 GMT
>> But just think what hours of pleasure you now get from
>> Boyfriend-watching!
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>
> Tweed

Are the cats belled?  Or could they be?

Our birds do a fairly good job of cat patrol.  They take turns supervising
the cats and warning of their intentions.  The bird feeders are especially
safe as they always guard that.  It helps that some of the guard bird are
Jays that will actually chase the cats away.

Usually our losses are fledglings.  It helps to fly the first time out of
the nest around here.  Even those do OK if Jake gets them as he brings them
in unharmed.  I doubt Molly will do that.

Jo
Monique Y. Mudama - 04 Feb 2005 17:51 GMT
> Not really.  I am so fond of wild birds that I pretty well set up my garden
> for them, with all appropriate trees, shrubs and plants to feed them, a
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> sorry that they were lost. I wish I could convey to them to leave the
> birdies alone - alas, I know it isn't possible.

I'm sure that you've gone over this before -- probably even directed to me --
but is there a reason they can't be indoor kitties?

Someone else's idea about a bell is good, too.  But I'm sure you've tried all
the obvious solutions.

Oscar's an indoor cat, but then, she's so uncoordinated that I can't imagine
her ever catching a bird.  I'm sure I would be unhappy if I were to receive
regular gifts of baby rabbits, mice, etc.

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Christina Websell - 04 Feb 2005 18:52 GMT
>> Not really.  I am so fond of wild birds that I pretty well set up my
>> garden
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> me --
> but is there a reason they can't be indoor kitties?

Few UK people keep indoor kitties, unless they are pedigree and in danger of
being mated by a moggie, or if the road outside is particularly busy, and
they fear they might be killed.
None of this applies to my two.

I couldn't justify keeping them inside when both of them have all their
claws, and they have acres at the back of the house to roam in.  I have to
get a pair of binoculars to see the nearest road at the back.

>The idea about a bell is good, too.  But I'm sure you've tried all
> the obvious solutions.

They both have collars and bells.  Maybe they need more than one bell.

> Oscar's an indoor cat, but then, she's so uncoordinated that I can't
> imagine
> her ever catching a bird.  I'm sure I would be unhappy if I were to
> receive
> regular gifts of baby rabbits, mice, etc.

It can be quite useful for them to catch young rats here, it prevents them
growing into huge rats which gnaw through the floor of my poultry huts and
kill any poultry up to half grown.

I often get mice and voles as presents on the kitchen carpet, and sometimes
a young rat.  Just the one rabbit.
I don't think BF caught it, and Kitty would definitely have been sleeping in
front of the fire.
It was probably the black kitty that we call "the enemy"   I have seen him
catch quite a large rat and eat it here.
The enemy hates BF and BF hates him.
The enemy is a black neutered tom, older than Boyfriend.  He came to live
two doors away and he strolls around like he owns everything and in
Boyfriend's garden too!
BF tries to fight him, but he isn't quite old enough to get the better of
the enemy/
BF needs fighting purrs that he will vanquish the enemy in his garden.
Say after us:  Black Tom out of Boyfriend's garden. Repeat  Black Tom out of
Boyfriend's garden.
Boyfriend says  "Black Tom will be sorry he ever met me"  Eventually. One
day.

Tweed
Karen - 04 Feb 2005 20:16 GMT
> BF needs fighting purrs that he will vanquish the enemy in his garden.
> Say after us:  Black Tom out of Boyfriend's garden. Repeat  Black Tom out of
> Boyfriend's garden.
> Boyfriend says  "Black Tom will be sorry he ever met me"  Eventually. One
> day.
ROFL!! You crack me up!! I love this and will make the cats chant with me.
Monique Y. Mudama - 04 Feb 2005 20:48 GMT
> It can be quite useful for them to catch young rats here, it prevents them
> growing into huge rats which gnaw through the floor of my poultry huts and
> kill any poultry up to half grown.

Ahhh.  So hunting is actually part of their job.  That's cool.

> BF tries to fight him, but he isn't quite old enough to get the better
> of the enemy/ BF needs fighting purrs that he will vanquish the enemy in his
> garden.  Say after us:  Black Tom out of Boyfriend's garden. Repeat  Black
> Tom out of Boyfriend's garden.  Boyfriend says  "Black Tom will be sorry he
> ever met me"  Eventually. One day.

BF just needs to bide his time till he grows up a little.  Then he'll show the
enemy who's boss!

Revenge is a dish best served cold =)

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Karen - 04 Feb 2005 20:16 GMT
> > But just think what hours of pleasure you now get from
> > Boyfriend-watching!
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>
> Tweed

Well, one thing to remember Tweed is that, that is the cycle. I mean, my mom
has indoor kitties, but she finds dead birds all the time. Probably dead of
disease (West Nile is quite prevelant here) or I really sometimes think they
have eaten something bad (pesticides maybe?). My mother gets really cool
birds in her yard and feeds them prodigiously at any rate, how often does it
really happen and at least it is a natural cycle and not some lingering
disease or man made problem. Just some thoughts.
Marina - 31 Jan 2005 04:34 GMT
> Hi All,
>
> This is a sad tale.  

Sad but beautiful. Thanks for telling it.

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L. (usenetlyn) - 31 Jan 2005 07:45 GMT
> Hi All,
>
> This is a sad tale.  

yes it is - but heartwarming. :*)

-L.
Monique Y. Mudama - 31 Jan 2005 23:30 GMT
[snip]

> I've been meaning to write this story for some time.  I'm sorry it's so sad.
> I just thought that someone should pay tribute to the old girl's will to
> live and to her undying hope that some day her person would return to love
> her once more.

That is a sad story.  But thank you for telling it.

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