I just found out that my ex-sister-in-law died in a house fire a few days
ago. :o( She had divorced my husband's brother a few years ago. They have
two sons: one in his early 20s and one in high school. As far as I'm
concerned, the mother of my nephews is family no matter that she and my
brother-in-law are divorced.
I didn't know her well, as her estrangement from my brother-in-law had
begun prior to my meeting and marrying DH. But I'm saddened that someone
who was in her 50s, and should have had lots of years left, has passed
away. And I'm saddened for her family and for my two nephews who are
awfully young to lose their biological mother :o(
They said that she collapsed while trying to rescue her cats from the
burning house, and died of asphyxiation. It did cross my mind to wonder
how many cats that would be and whether any of them did, in fact, survive.
But I don't know the answer to either of those questions.
So please purr for comfort for her family, and for her to rest in peace.
And if any of her cats survived, may they be given good new homes. If not,
then may they cross the RB together with Linda.
Donna
Christina Websell - 29 Jan 2005 17:05 GMT
>I just found out that my ex-sister-in-law died in a house fire a few days
> ago. :o( She had divorced my husband's brother a few years ago. They have
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>
> Donna
That is so sad, that she died trying to rescue her cats. I'm fairly sure
I'd go in to a burning house too to rescue Kitty FC & Boyfriend.
Rainbow bridge purrs for all who didn't survive. I'll light a candle.
Purrs for any survivors that they can get anothertruehome soon.
Purrs for Linda's family too, who mourn her. She was brave.
Tweed
Melissa Houle - 29 Jan 2005 17:11 GMT
SNIP> > They said that she collapsed while trying to rescue her cats from
the
> > burning house, and died of asphyxiation. It did cross my mind to wonder
> > how many cats that would be and whether any of them did, in fact, survive.
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>
> Tweed
Very sad, indeed. Purrs to your family, especially for your nephews. I hope
most of the cats escaped, and those that did not did not have too difficult
a death. She was brave, indeed. I'd certainly try to grab my dear ones on my
way out the door. I don't know for sure that I'd have the courage to go back
into a burning house once I was out of it. I hope the surviving cats will
find loving, secure new homes. But they too will miss their brave human
mother.
Melissa
jmcquown - 29 Jan 2005 17:17 GMT
>> I just found out that my ex-sister-in-law died in a house fire a few
>> days ago. :o( She had divorced my husband's brother a few years ago.
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>
> Tweed
Purrs from here, too. I have a sticker on my front and back doors that says
"In case of fire, please rescue _ [you fill in the blank] cat(s)." The
firefighters at least have the flameproof gear and masks and such. But I
can understand the absolute desperation of trying to save our babies. I
should make up a sticker about my bird, too, although it would be far easier
to grab her cage on the way out the door than to try to trap Persia if she
was hiding under the bed.
Jill
CatNipped - 29 Jan 2005 17:40 GMT
> >> I just found out that my ex-sister-in-law died in a house fire a few
> >> days ago. :o( She had divorced my husband's brother a few years ago.
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> to grab her cage on the way out the door than to try to trap Persia if she
> was hiding under the bed.
I made my own "Please save our cats" posters that I hung in various places
on the outside of my home. I put all the cats pictures on it. I saw a show
on Animal Planet where a couple were at work when their house burned down
and they lost all their d*gs in the fire. Since then I've been paranoid
about leaving my babies in the house alone. If there's a fire in my home
when I'm not here I want the firemen to know there's still someone inside
they need to rescue. I think I would not leave my house without my babies
in case of a fire, but you never know what you'll do in that situation.
This lady was very brave to have died trying to rescue her cats. I've heard
that people who die in a fire actually die from asphixiation rather than
from being burned - that's some comfort because asphixiation is a much
gentler death, just "going to sleep" rather than dying in pain (at least
that's what I've heard, and I'd rather not hear differently if I'm
mistaken).
Hugs,
CatNipped
> Jill
Monique Y. Mudama - 01 Feb 2005 01:17 GMT
> I made my own "Please save our cats" posters that I hung in various places
> on the outside of my home. I put all the cats pictures on it. I saw a show
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> they need to rescue. I think I would not leave my house without my babies
> in case of a fire, but you never know what you'll do in that situation.
I need to get some stickers for the windows. But honestly, I don't think
Oscar could be found if there were a fire and strangers and loud noises ...
And, to be honest, while it's one thing for me to risk my life for my pets,
I'm not sure I could ask another person to risk *their* life for my pets. I
know that they do have special gear, but that doesn't save them from crashing
beams and such.
> This lady was very brave to have died trying to rescue her cats. I've heard
> that people who die in a fire actually die from asphixiation rather than
> from being burned - that's some comfort because asphixiation is a much
> gentler death, just "going to sleep" rather than dying in pain (at least
> that's what I've heard, and I'd rather not hear differently if I'm
> mistaken).
Me, too, on both counts.

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O J - 29 Jan 2005 17:13 GMT
Donna wrote:
>I just found out that my ex-sister-in-law died in a house fire a few days
>ago. :o( She had divorced my husband's brother a few years ago. They have
>two sons: one in his early 20s and one in high school. As far as I'm
>concerned, the mother of my nephews is family no matter that she and my
>brother-in-law are divorced.
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>So please purr for comfort for her family, and for her to rest in peace.
>And if any of her cats survived, may they be given good new homes. If not,
>then may they cross the RB together with Linda.
Six sets of purrs being sent.
Regards and Purrs,
O J
CatNipped - 29 Jan 2005 17:17 GMT
Purrs to you and your family. I'll light a candle to help create a peaceful
passage to the bridge for her and the kitties.
Hugs,
CatNipped
> I just found out that my ex-sister-in-law died in a house fire a few days
> ago. :o( She had divorced my husband's brother a few years ago. They have
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>
> Donna
Tanada - 29 Jan 2005 18:02 GMT
> I just found out that my ex-sister-in-law died in a house fire a few days
> ago. :o( She had divorced my husband's brother a few years ago. They have
> two sons: one in his early 20s and one in high school. As far as I'm
> concerned, the mother of my nephews is family no matter that she and my
> brother-in-law are divorced.
Purrs for everyone and healing thoughts and wishes for her young sons.
Pam, Rob, and the Fayetteville Five + Calvin, Sonya and Speedy the d-thing
Marina - 29 Jan 2005 18:40 GMT
> So please purr for comfort for her family, and for her to rest in peace.
> And if any of her cats survived, may they be given good new homes. If not,
> then may they cross the RB together with Linda.
Lots of purrs for Linda, her cats and her family (including you, Donna).

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Gabey8 - 29 Jan 2005 18:47 GMT
Thanks for the purrs and purr-ayers.
DH spoke to his brother. There were two cats, neither of which survived.
:o(
At least all three of them, my ex-sister-in-law and the cats, are at the
RB together. I hope they didn't suffer.
Donna
Ginger-lyn Summer - 29 Jan 2005 20:21 GMT
>Thanks for the purrs and purr-ayers.
>
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>
>Donna
{{{{Donna}}}} I am so sorry. That is so sad. Purrs for the surviving
family, and purrs for those journeying to the Bridge for peace.
Ginger-lyn
Karen Chuplis - 29 Jan 2005 19:06 GMT
in article 17f3582cd28c6535714d9f04efac2855@localhost.talkaboutpets.com,
Gabey8 at gabey8-@-aol-dot-com formerly dgabriel-at-netaxs-dot-com wrote on
1/29/05 10:51AM:
> I just found out that my ex-sister-in-law died in a house fire a few days
> ago. :o( She had divorced my husband's brother a few years ago. They have
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>
> Donna
Many purrs. that is just soooooo sad. What an awful tragedy all the way
around. :(
SUQKRT - 29 Jan 2005 19:10 GMT
>So please purr for comfort for her family, and for her to rest in peace.
>And if any of her cats survived, may they be given good new homes. If not,
>then may they cross the RB together with Linda.
>
>Donna
Purrs for Linda and her family, furred & bare.
Suz
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Ann - 29 Jan 2005 19:20 GMT
Purrs on the way.
Ann
>I just found out that my ex-sister-in-law died in a house fire a few days
> ago. :o( She had divorced my husband's brother a few years ago. They have
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>
> Donna
Helen C Simmons - 29 Jan 2005 19:28 GMT
Sincere condolences to the family.
helen s
Victor Martinez - 29 Jan 2005 20:40 GMT
> They said that she collapsed while trying to rescue her cats from the
> burning house, and died of asphyxiation. It did cross my mind to wonder
Lots of purrs for someone who obviously cared for her babies enough to
give up her life trying to save them.

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Elise - 29 Jan 2005 20:51 GMT
> So please purr for comfort for her family, and for her to rest in peace.
> And if any of her cats survived, may they be given good new homes. If not,
> then may they cross the RB together with Linda.
>
> Donna
Comforting purrs for the family and kitties

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Sandra - 29 Jan 2005 21:36 GMT
Best possible comforting purs from us too. Our thoughts are with all those
who are affected by this sad news and those who have departed for life
above.

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polonca12000 - 29 Jan 2005 22:38 GMT
That's terrible!
Purrs,

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> I just found out that my ex-sister-in-law died in a house fire a few days
> ago. <snip>
Irulan - 29 Jan 2005 22:48 GMT
> I just found out that my ex-sister-in-law died in a house fire a few days
> ago. :o( She had divorced my husband's brother a few years ago. They have
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>
> Donna
Our sincerest condolences to your family. Such
a tragedy.
Jazz & his mama
Shirley - 29 Jan 2005 23:44 GMT
Purrs for your family, hoomin and feline.

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Christine Burel - 30 Jan 2005 02:02 GMT
So very sorry to read this, Donna. Many purrs for her kids and family and
purrs for you as well.
Christine
> I just found out that my ex-sister-in-law died in a house fire a few days
> ago. :o( She had divorced my husband's brother a few years ago. They have
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>
> Donna
Krista - 30 Jan 2005 07:56 GMT
> I just found out that my ex-sister-in-law died in a house fire a few days
> ago. :o( She had divorced my husband's brother a few years ago. They have
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>
> Donna
What sad news! We're purring for everyone who will miss her.
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Krista
Adrian - 30 Jan 2005 16:48 GMT
> I just found out that my ex-sister-in-law died in a house fire a few
> days ago. :o( She had divorced my husband's brother a few years ago.
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
>
> Donna
How very sad. Purrs for all the family. I will light a candle. :-(
--
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A house is not a home, without a cat.
Exocat - 31 Jan 2005 18:11 GMT
Purrs for the bereaved ones' loss, and for the furry brethren lost in
the fire.
Gordon & the TT
>I just found out that my ex-sister-in-law died in a house fire a few
>days ago.
Monique Y. Mudama - 01 Feb 2005 01:13 GMT
> I just found out that my ex-sister-in-law died in a house fire a few days
> ago. :o( She had divorced my husband's brother a few years ago. They have
[quoted text clipped - 18 lines]
>
> Donna
Oh, this is so sad. Purrs, of course.

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John F. Eldredge - 01 Feb 2005 04:26 GMT
>I just found out that my ex-sister-in-law died in a house fire a few days
>ago. :o( She had divorced my husband's brother a few years ago. They have
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>And if any of her cats survived, may they be given good new homes. If not,
>then may they cross the RB together with Linda.
You have my condolences. I had a close call with this myself, a
couple of years ago; I escaped from the house, but my cat didn't. I
have since adopted another cat.
The speed with which a fire grows is terrifying. In the course of
less than five minutes, my fire went from being in a single part of
one wall to having an entire room engulfed, blowing out several
windows and sending smoke and soot to the far end of the house. If
you don't get out before the fire reaches the flash point, it is
unlikely you will get out at all.

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Julie Cook - 01 Feb 2005 20:28 GMT
> I just found out that my ex-sister-in-law died in a house fire a few days
> ago. :o( She had divorced my husband's brother a few years ago. They have
> two sons: one in his early 20s and one in high school. As far as I'm
> concerned, the mother of my nephews is family no matter that she and my
> brother-in-law are divorced.
Donna,
I'm way behind in my posts but we're sending purrs for you and and all
family members left behind. Purrs for any cats that survived as well
and a candle to help guide those that didn't survive.
Julie and The Pride of Stone Mountain
Steve Touchstone - 01 Feb 2005 22:07 GMT
Purrs on the way

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