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CatNipped - 25 Jan 2005 01:36 GMT
OK, what's new right?

"Still Standing" showed an episode about the wife's sister's cat dying.
None of the characters showed even a modicum of sympathy, but made fun of
the woman for grieving and made fun of the cat.  I've never seen a show
about a dog dying that was made fun of, but cats seem to be a different
story.

I think this is horrible, not only does it make it OK to make fun of a
person grieving for a cat, but it gives the impression that cats are not
important and the death of a beloved cat should be the source of humor, not
grief.

Not that I ever watch this show (it was on in the background since everyone
was too busy to turn off the TV), but from now on I'll make a point of not
watching even a second of this travesty.

Here's the show's web site - I'm trying to find somewhere to write to
complain.

http://www.cbs.com/primetime/still_standing/

Hugs,

CatNipped
CatNipped - 25 Jan 2005 01:41 GMT
OK, there's a "feedback" button on the bottom of that page and I just
submitted a complaint.  The episode was called "Still Looking for Love".

Hugs,

CatNipped

> OK, what's new right?
>
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>
> CatNipped
Victor Martinez - 25 Jan 2005 14:08 GMT
> OK, there's a "feedback" button on the bottom of that page and I just
> submitted a complaint.  The episode was called "Still Looking for Love".

Thanks for pointing that out, I've written them a note complaining about
their lack of compassion.

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jmcquown - 25 Jan 2005 01:44 GMT
> OK, what's new right?
>
> "Still Standing" showed an episode about the wife's sister's cat
> dying. None of the characters showed even a modicum of sympathy, but
> made fun of the woman for grieving and made fun of the cat.

I normally like that show when I manage to catch an episode of it (I didn't
tonight, and I'm glad I didn't).  There is nothing funny about any pet dying
or anyone grieving over such a loss.  Sometimes I think the writers just
don't have a clue what to write so they do something stupid.

Jill
Mary - 25 Jan 2005 02:04 GMT
> OK, what's new right?
>
> "Still Standing" showed an episode about the wife's sister's cat dying.

The cat was dressed in a mouse suit for Halloween, saw itself in the
mirror and killed itself leaping at the mirror trying to eat the big mouse.
Think a cat might really do that?
CatNipped - 25 Jan 2005 02:33 GMT
> > OK, what's new right?
> >
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> mirror and killed itself leaping at the mirror trying to eat the big mouse.
> Think a cat might really do that?

Yes, they made the death ridiculous, and *yes* I *know* it's just a TV
show - but do *you* really think it's OK to show insensitive behavior
towards someone who is grieving about a lost pet?  Do you think that's
something we should teach our kids is OK to do?  There are an infinite
number of other ways for the writers to have made the sister look
ridiculous, but making her look ridiculous because she is grieving about a
lost pet should not have been one of them.

Hugs,

CatNipped
jmcquown - 25 Jan 2005 02:51 GMT
>>> OK, what's new right?
>>>
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>> mirror and killed itself leaping at the mirror trying to eat the big
>> mouse. Think a cat might really do that?

There are an infinite
> number of other ways for the writers to have made the sister look
> ridiculous
(snippage)
They always make the sister look ridiculous, and ridicule her for not having
or keeping a boyfriend or for not being married, not having kids, etc.  As a
middle aged single woman, I don't really understand how belittling a person
is funny.  BTW, the man who plays the husband is a Brit who pulls off
sounding like an American very well... first time I saw him on an interview
I just about fell over upon hearing his "real" voice.

Jill
Monique Y. Mudama - 25 Jan 2005 03:06 GMT
> They always make the sister look ridiculous, and ridicule her for
> not having or keeping a boyfriend or for not being married, not having kids,
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>
> Jill

Sounds like a real gem of a show.

As for actors, I was truly disappointed when I first heard an interview with
the actor who plays Spike on Buffy.  He's not British at all.  It totally
ruined it for me =/

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Mary - 25 Jan 2005 04:32 GMT
> They always make the sister look ridiculous, and ridicule her for not having
> or keeping a boyfriend or for not being married, not having kids, etc.  As a
> middle aged single woman, I don't really understand how belittling a person
> is funny.

The times I have seen the show I think *they* are the ones that look
ridiculous--although, the sister really does act like a twit. A man is the
be-all and end-all, for one thing.

>BTW, the man who plays the husband is a Brit who pulls off
> sounding like an American very well... first time I saw him on an interview
> I just about fell over upon hearing his "real" voice.

He's a good actor, as is the little redhead and the
"egghead" son. To me the show is kind of "married-with-children"
for a younger generation.
CatNipped - 25 Jan 2005 14:44 GMT
> > They always make the sister look ridiculous, and ridicule her for not
> having
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> "egghead" son. To me the show is kind of "married-with-children"
> for a younger generation.

Oh, see, I didn't get that.  This is the first time I caught the show, sort
of in the background just because nobody had bothered to turn off the TV
after the news.  I must say though, "Married With Children" made *sure* you
knew this was an over-the-top, ridiculous farce - obviously nothing at all
like real life - right from the opening credits.  "Still Standing" is normal
enough looking that you think this is a family show about a "real" family.
The creators, producers, and writers are *way* off base here.  I find
nothing at all funny about the "values", or lack thereof, that they're
portraying.

What bothers me is that shows like this sort of wriggle their way into our
society's subconscious to make us become inured to this type of behavior.
This is being done to not just our children - I believe parents should be
the guardians of a child's TV choices and the ones who teach their children
values rather than relying on TV to do that (even though we know that far
too many parents don't) - but to adults who become "used to" and even start
emulating this sort of insensitivity and bigoted behavior.

Ah well, just a prime example of why I don't watch but a couple of hours of
TV a week!

Hugs,

CatNipped
Jo Firey - 25 Jan 2005 17:01 GMT
>> > They always make the sister look ridiculous, and ridicule her for not
>> having
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>
> CatNipped

Maybe to make you feel better.  Since you don't normally watch the show.
And sadly I do.  There has always been a running gag with the sister's over
the top behavior with her cat.  At the beginning of this particular show,
she comes in all upset.  Said she and the cat were trying on the matching
Halloween costumes she had made for them.  That she had decided to dress as
a cat and to dress her cat up as a mouse.  But that when he saw himself in a
mirror dressed as a mouse, he attacked and killed himself.  Presumably by
running into the mirror.

Now, I don't want to get into what is or isn't funny.  Not qualified.  But
for those who do watch it, this show is as over the top as Married With
Children.

Jo
Monique Y. Mudama - 25 Jan 2005 18:12 GMT
> What bothers me is that shows like this sort of wriggle their way into our
> society's subconscious to make us become inured to this type of behavior.
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> too many parents don't) - but to adults who become "used to" and even start
> emulating this sort of insensitivity and bigoted behavior.

When I was a teenager, my dad repeatedly referred to the conspiracy of making
dads look like idiots on TV.  I don't think it was a conspiracy, but he was
probably right; there was a definite trend going on.

Of course, sometimes dads do act like idiots, as do we all =P

> Ah well, just a prime example of why I don't watch but a couple of hours of
> TV a week!

Yupyup.  I don't watch much TV; I mostly watch it if I'm doing dishes, because
then I'm facing the TV.  Or if I'm sick.

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badwilson - 27 Jan 2005 13:50 GMT
> > What bothers me is that shows like this sort of wriggle their way into our
> > society's subconscious to make us become inured to this type of behavior.
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> dads look like idiots on TV.  I don't think it was a conspiracy, but he was
> probably right; there was a definite trend going on.

There's also a trend in Disney movies to kill off the mother and have
her replaced with a really evil stepmother.  It's weird if you ask me.
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John F. Eldredge - 28 Jan 2005 06:03 GMT
>There's also a trend in Disney movies to kill off the mother and have
>her replaced with a really evil stepmother.  It's weird if you ask me.

Well, that is a traditional plot element in a lot of fairy tales.
Think _Snow White_ or _Cinderella_.

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Monique Y. Mudama - 28 Jan 2005 16:10 GMT
On 2005-01-28, John F  Eldredge penned:

>>There's also a trend in Disney movies to kill off the mother and have
>>her replaced with a really evil stepmother.  It's weird if you ask me.
>
> Well, that is a traditional plot element in a lot of fairy tales.
> Think _Snow White_ or _Cinderella_.

Yeah.  I was gonna say.  Disney is much more upbeat than old-time fairy tales.
If you want to have trouble sleeping, curl up with a book of the original
Grimm's Fairytales (which, as I understand it, weren't intended for children
at all).

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Tanada - 28 Jan 2005 21:25 GMT
> There's also a trend in Disney movies to kill off the mother and have
> her replaced with a really evil stepmother.  It's weird if you ask me.
> --

Doesn't it make you wonder about the dad's impaired judgment?  They are
married to this wonderful woman and then she gets bumped off, and the
dude marries some old witch who not only acts like one, but looks like
one too.  It makes me wonder what the old man did to get that kind of karma.

Pam S.
Mary - 25 Jan 2005 20:17 GMT
> > He's a good actor, as is the little redhead and the
> > "egghead" son. To me the show is kind of "married-with-children"
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> What bothers me is that shows like this sort of wriggle their way into our
> society's subconscious to make us become inured to this type of behavior.

Thisis a really astute observation.

> This is being done to not just our children - I believe parents should be
> the guardians of a child's TV choices and the ones who teach their children
> values rather than relying on TV to do that (even though we know that far
> too many parents don't) - but to adults who become "used to" and even start
> emulating this sort of insensitivity and bigoted behavior.

I agree, especially since kids don't necessarily get sarcasm and irony.

> Ah well, just a prime example of why I don't watch but a couple of hours of
> TV a week!

They take all the good one's off and keep coming
up with new ones involving closeups of mutilated bodies.
Bleah. I still miss the CBS show called "The Guardian."
jmcquown - 25 Jan 2005 21:06 GMT
>>> He's a good actor, as is the little redhead and the
>>> "egghead" son.
>> Children" made *sure* you knew this was an over-the-top, ridiculous
>> farce - obviously nothing at all like real life
(snippety)
> They take all the good one's off and keep coming
> up with new ones involving closeups of mutilated bodies.

Exactly how many CSI's do we need on television in a week?!

> Bleah. I still miss the CBS show called "The Guardian."

I caught that show a couple of times and found it to be interesting.  But
then, I'm a Dabney Coleman fan ;)

Jill
Mary - 25 Jan 2005 21:26 GMT
> Exactly how many CSI's do we need on television in a week?!

Yep.

> > Bleah. I still miss the CBS show called "The Guardian."
>
> I caught that show a couple of times and found it to be interesting.  But
> then, I'm a Dabney Coleman fan ;)

I love Dabney Coleman! But also, I thought he young
Australian who played Nick was rather tasty. :)

Another great show canceled: The District with
Craig T. Nelson.

One that made it: Judging Amy. I will never forget the
episode where Maxine's dog died. Now they treated
the topic with respect.
jmcquown - 25 Jan 2005 22:05 GMT
>> Exactly how many CSI's do we need on television in a week?!
>
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> I love Dabney Coleman! But also, I thought he young
> Australian who played Nick was rather tasty. :)

Oh he was cute, no doubt.  But too young for me ;)

> Another great show canceled: The District with
> Craig T. Nelson.

I've always liked him, too.

> One that made it: Judging Amy. I will never forget the
> episode where Maxine's dog died. Now they treated
> the topic with respect.

I like that show, too.  I like Tyne Daly a lot and Maxine is quite the
character.  I remember that episode; they sure did handle it the right way.

Jill
Howard Berkowitz - 26 Jan 2005 00:35 GMT
> Another great show canceled: The District with
> Craig T. Nelson.

I'll merely say that was NOT a popular show in the actual District of
Columbia.  I didn't watch it many times, but my reaction was "are we
talking about the same city?"

It was quite a while ago and a series that didn't last long -- while Law
& Order often can get away with a tragic or ambiguous ending, the TV
audience of the time wasn't ready for it. Nevertheless, he played the
lead, an Air Force experimental test pilot, in the series "Call to
Glory".  Fantastic drama.
Monique Y. Mudama - 26 Jan 2005 18:35 GMT
>> They take all the good one's off and keep coming up with new ones involving
>> closeups of mutilated bodies.
>
> Exactly how many CSI's do we need on television in a week?!

I keep insisting that eventually, we will have a single channel for each show
and its spinoffs.

That being said, for no apparent reason I am addicted to Law & Order: SVU.  I
don't go out of my way to watch it, but if it's on, I can't turn it off.  It's
like watching a car crash, I guess.

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Tanada - 27 Jan 2005 05:02 GMT
>>>They take all the good one's off and keep coming up with new ones involving
>>>closeups of mutilated bodies.
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> don't go out of my way to watch it, but if it's on, I can't turn it off.  It's
> like watching a car crash, I guess.

I love L&O SVU, It is different than L&O, so is L&O Criminal Intent.
However I have a hard time with the "other" CSI programs, especially CSI
Miami.  I really think they are gorier, if possible, than the original.

Pam S.
Karen Chuplis - 27 Jan 2005 05:33 GMT
>>>> They take all the good one's off and keep coming up with new ones involving
>>>> closeups of mutilated bodies.
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
>
> Pam S.

Ok, I have to ask. Does anyone watch Boston Legal? I've just seen the last
couple of episodes but, gad, it IS funny. It just seems to have a great
cast.
Tanada - 27 Jan 2005 06:09 GMT
> Ok, I have to ask. Does anyone watch Boston Legal? I've just seen the last
> couple of episodes but, gad, it IS funny. It just seems to have a great
> cast.

It's on at the same time as "Crossing Jordan."  I can't miss Jordan.  Is
Boston Public as quirky as Due South was?  I loved the strange and
offbeat logic for some of the events in that show.  OK, Paul Gross as
eye candy didn't hurt either.

Pam S.
Howard Berkowitz - 27 Jan 2005 15:58 GMT
> > Ok, I have to ask. Does anyone watch Boston Legal? I've just seen the
> > last
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>
> Pam S.

Boston Public, sadly, was cancelled; it's a different show than Boston
Legal. I thought Boston Public was excellent.
Karen - 27 Jan 2005 16:11 GMT
> > > Ok, I have to ask. Does anyone watch Boston Legal? I've just seen the
> > > last
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
> Boston Public, sadly, was cancelled; it's a different show than Boston
> Legal. I thought Boston Public was excellent.

Oh, and Pam, I laughed out loud THREE times during the last episode of
Boston Legal and that is really rare for me.
Karen - 27 Jan 2005 16:11 GMT
> > > Ok, I have to ask. Does anyone watch Boston Legal? I've just seen the
> > > last
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
> Boston Public, sadly, was cancelled; it's a different show than Boston
> Legal. I thought Boston Public was excellent.

Boston Public has James Spader, William Shatner, Rene Auberjenois, Candice
Bergan and now Betty White. Honest, it is just kind of a hoot. James Spader
and William Shatner (and now Candice Bergan) have some wicked chemistry
between them.
Kreisleriana - 27 Jan 2005 17:13 GMT
>> > > Ok, I have to ask. Does anyone watch Boston Legal? I've just seen the
>> > > last
[quoted text clipped - 16 lines]
>and William Shatner (and now Candice Bergan) have some wicked chemistry
>between them.

James Spader and Auberjonois are two of the best character actors
around.  Spader reminds me a bit of Christopher Walken-- both were
rather on the pretty side as young men, so they seem to have decided
the thing to do was be as weird as possible. ;)

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Karen - 27 Jan 2005 17:28 GMT
> >> > > Ok, I have to ask. Does anyone watch Boston Legal? I've just seen the
> >> > > last
[quoted text clipped - 21 lines]
> rather on the pretty side as young men, so they seem to have decided
> the thing to do was be as weird as possible. ;)

Egad. I meant Boston Legal. Yeesh. Why must they name these things so
closely. Well, what is really interesting is that James Spader is SO
similiar to the Shatner character. Like a younger version and its almost
creepy. And yet there is this real sincerity to both of their characters.
And Candace Bergan OMG what a hoot!  She just plays perfectly off that cast.
Anyhow, I was pleasantly surprised with the two episodes I saw.
Tanada - 28 Jan 2005 02:23 GMT
> Boston Public, sadly, was cancelled; it's a different show than Boston
> Legal. I thought Boston Public was excellent.

If Boston Public was the show about the schools, it should have never
been done.  It was not only so full of inaccuracies, but it promoted
teachers as performing illegal activities on a daily basis.  I suffered
through two episodes then pleased the family by announcing that I never
wanted to see it ever again.  They were tired of me yelling at the screen.

Pam S.
OU812? - 28 Jan 2005 00:40 GMT
>> Ok, I have to ask. Does anyone watch Boston Legal? I've just seen the
>> last
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>
> Pam S.
You guys had Due South down there?  I thought it was a Canadian show.
And yes, Paul Gross is a hottie, did you know he has an album out?

Kristy
Tanada - 28 Jan 2005 02:27 GMT
> You guys had Due South down there?  I thought it was a Canadian show.
> And yes, Paul Gross is a hottie, did you know he has an album out?
>
> Kristy

Well, we do have Chicago (to our shame;-)) I have both of the CDs made
from the music used in Due South.  Paul Gross has a really good voice to
go with that pretty exterior.  I was wondering what he was up to lately.

Pam S.
Marina - 28 Jan 2005 03:39 GMT
>> It's on at the same time as "Crossing Jordan."  I can't miss Jordan.  
>> Is Boston Public as quirky as Due South was?  I loved the strange and
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> You guys had Due South down there?  I thought it was a Canadian show.
> And yes, Paul Gross is a hottie, did you know he has an album out?

Heh, we even had Due South in Finland. :o)

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Jo Firey - 27 Jan 2005 07:44 GMT
>>>>They take all the good one's off and keep coming up with new ones
>>>>involving
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>
> Pam S.

I love the cast on SVU MARISKA HARGITAY is so good.  And I can see her
parents in her face.

Jo
Kreisleriana - 27 Jan 2005 14:46 GMT
>>>>They take all the good one's off and keep coming up with new ones involving
>>>>closeups of mutilated bodies.
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
>
>I love L&O SVU, It is different than L&O, so is L&O Criminal Intent.

I love all the L&O, but I miss Jerry Orbach a lot.  They have always
made cast changes very easily, but this one is just too much for me.

I enjoy SVU, but I love CI.  How could you not love Vincent
D'Onofrio's extra-weird detective, and his snotty little sidekick?
She's like a tiny female Lennie Briscoe. ;)  

>However I have a hard time with the "other" CSI programs, especially CSI
>Miami.  I really think they are gorier, if possible, than the original.
>
>Pam S.

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Howard Berkowitz - 27 Jan 2005 15:58 GMT
> >>>>They take all the good one's off and keep coming up with new ones
> >>>>involving
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> I love all the L&O, but I miss Jerry Orbach a lot.  They have always
> made cast changes very easily, but this one is just too much for me.

I understand that there are eight episodes of the new L&O spinoff in
which he acts.

> I enjoy SVU, but I love CI.  How could you not love Vincent
> D'Onofrio's extra-weird detective, and his snotty little sidekick?
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
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> My Blog: http://www.humanitas.blogspot.com
jmcquown - 27 Jan 2005 16:19 GMT
>>>>>> They take all the good one's off and keep coming up with new ones
>>>>>> involving
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> I understand that there are eight episodes of the new L&O spinoff in
> which he acts.

They would have to be "old" new episodes since Orbachs died in December.

Jill

>> I enjoy SVU, but I love CI.  How could you not love Vincent
>> D'Onofrio's extra-weird detective, and his snotty little sidekick?
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
>> Stinky Pictures: http://community.webshots.com/album/125591586JWEFwh
>> My Blog: http://www.humanitas.blogspot.com
Kreisleriana - 27 Jan 2005 17:14 GMT
>>>>>>> They take all the good one's off and keep coming up with new ones
>>>>>>> involving
[quoted text clipped - 23 lines]
>
>Jill

No, no, I know what he means.  Orbach filmed eight episodes of the yet
unseen new spinoff, "L&O: Trial by Jury."  That's supposed to start
later this year, I believe.

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Howard Berkowitz - 27 Jan 2005 17:35 GMT
> >>>>>> They take all the good one's off and keep coming up with new ones
> >>>>>> involving
[quoted text clipped - 21 lines]
> >
> They would have to be "old" new episodes since Orbachs died in December.

Correct. According to the Washington Post obituary, he did these last
fall.
jmcquown - 27 Jan 2005 15:59 GMT
>>>>> They take all the good one's off and keep coming up with new ones
>>>>> involving closeups of mutilated bodies.
[quoted text clipped - 16 lines]
> D'Onofrio's extra-weird detective, and his snotty little sidekick?
> She's like a tiny female Lennie Briscoe. ;)

John and I have had several discussions about D'Onofrio's character (and
characteristics).  It's so quirky the way he cocks his head or stares at a
suspect from a leaning over side-view, almost in their face but not quite.
I have never seen him in anything else but John said he has and he
(D'Onofrio) apparently created these mannerisms just for this character.
Good to see someone step out of a stereotypical box when acting in different
things :)

Jill

>> However I have a hard time with the "other" CSI programs, especially
>> CSI
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Kreisleriana - 27 Jan 2005 17:09 GMT
>>>>>> They take all the good one's off and keep coming up with new ones
>>>>>> involving closeups of mutilated bodies.
[quoted text clipped - 24 lines]
>Good to see someone step out of a stereotypical box when acting in different
>things :)

He is six-five, and I imagine a real cop doing that would be extremely
intimidating.  
D'Onofrio has been in several movies-- "Full Metal Jacket" and
"Household Saints" were two serious ones-- but he has usually played
someone unhinged, or very, very bad-- or both.  For me, his most
memorable movie role was "The Bug" in "Men in Black."  Yes, that was
him.  ;)

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jmcquown - 27 Jan 2005 18:39 GMT
>>> I enjoy SVU, but I love CI.  How could you not love Vincent
>>> D'Onofrio's extra-weird detective, and his snotty little sidekick?
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
> He is six-five, and I imagine a real cop doing that would be extremely
> intimidating.

Yes, but he usually speaks very softly (and carries a big stick LOL)

> D'Onofrio has been in several movies-- "Full Metal Jacket" and
> "Household Saints" were two serious ones-- but he has usually played
> someone unhinged, or very, very bad-- or both.  For me, his most
> memorable movie role was "The Bug" in "Men in Black."  Yes, that was
> him.  ;)

Never saw any of those films.  John apparently did :)  BTW, John is a foot
taller than I am.  I've seen his temper but never, ever, directed towards
me.  He's a peaceful person who walks away unless you just insist on getting
in his face for no reason.

I have a story about us encountering a rude driver while on our trips.  In
one case he actually pulled off the freeway to a gas station to look up a
phone number and report a guy who was driving a company truck and being a
total jerk.  John was so angry he was shaking.  He was polite but firm when
he was transferred to the manager and explained the situation.

The idiot was on our tail (John drives a 22 foot box van with his paintings
and as DanM can tell you, you can't just stop on a dime in a big truck).
The guy was practically kissing our a** when we were already doing 75 MPH in
a 65 zone.  So John, getting upset, moved to the next right lane to let him
pass.  The man whipped around us (driving a garbage truck, no less) and then
cut us off.  Then dude moved  over to the far right lane.  Then dude dropped
back behind us again, flashed his lights, then pulled up alongside MY side
of the truck (I think this is what *really* ticked John off) and flipped me
the bird.

The man John spoke with on the phone was calling the dispatcher to find out
which drivers running routes in that particular locale (John gave them
highway sign and exit sign information) to have the dispatcher call him back
to base.  I hope that a**hole lost his job.  His behavior was completely
uncalled for.

Once John got that out of his system, we continued on our drive and had a
good time :)

Jill

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> Once John got that out of his system, we continued on our drive and had a
> good time :)

Why do I have a suspicion that John would appreciate one Army motto:

  "There is no problem that will not yield to a sufficient
   quantity of skillfully applied high explosives."
Jo Firey - 28 Jan 2005 00:04 GMT
>> Once John got that out of his system, we continued on our drive and had a
>> good time :)
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>   "There is no problem that will not yield to a sufficient
>    quantity of skillfully applied high explosives."

Never heard that one before.  But daddy was in the army engineers and I'm
sure it was something he always believed/

Jo
Adrian - 29 Jan 2005 12:41 GMT
<snip>
> I have a story about us encountering a rude driver while on our
> trips.  In one case he actually pulled off the freeway to a gas
[quoted text clipped - 24 lines]
>
> Jill

A similar thing happened to me once, and the driver did lose his job. I
was told by his boss they normally sack people if they get three
complaints, this driver had been given another chance. Mine was  the
fourth complaint and he was sacked straight away.
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jmcquown - 29 Jan 2005 15:24 GMT
> <snip>
>> (driving a garbage truck, no less) and then cut us off.  Then dude
[quoted text clipped - 18 lines]
> complaints, this driver had been given another chance. Mine was  the
> fourth complaint and he was sacked straight away.

I'm glad!  John and I will never know the outcome.  We were on the road
somewhere between Illinois and Texas - I think we were in Missouri when this
happened but I can't recall - we were on the road (with stops only to sleep
and eat) for 4 days.  Could have been anywhere :)

Jill
Tanada - 28 Jan 2005 02:33 GMT
> I love all the L&O, but I miss Jerry Orbach a lot.  They have always
> made cast changes very easily, but this one is just too much for me.
>
> I enjoy SVU, but I love CI.  How could you not love Vincent
> D'Onofrio's extra-weird detective, and his snotty little sidekick?
> She's like a tiny female Lennie Briscoe. ;)  

I miss Jerry too.  I was really looking forward to the new L&O show
because he would be in it.  I also miss Chris Noth.  The two of them
together was something else.

CI is really quirky, isn't it.  The D'Onofrio's stream of conscious
dialogue, and the way he knows so much about so many different topics
amazes me.  You're right about his partner, she is as mouthy as Lennie
Briscoe, with that screw you attitude.

Pam S.
Howard Berkowitz - 27 Jan 2005 15:57 GMT
> >>>They take all the good one's off and keep coming up with new ones
> >>>involving
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> However I have a hard time with the "other" CSI programs, especially CSI
> Miami.  I really think they are gorier, if possible, than the original.

From those who know me, I have a certain immunity to gore. Nevertheless,
I am a devotee of the Law & Order shows (other than Criminal Intent).
I've never known a lawyer, with whom I've discussed them, to say other
than they are legally fascinating.

CSI always struck me as too implausible, with the forensics people doing
the jobs of an assortment of other police. The science tended to be, for
me, of the *yawn* variety.

That is, however, until I watched NBC's apparent answer to CSI, "Medical
Investigations". My psychologist girlfriend has forbidden me to watch
it, in that she thinks it's dangerous for my blood pressure. To put it
mildly, these people are as much real epidemiologists as Calista
Flockhart is an all-pro NFL offensive lineman.

The sad thing is that they screwed up the real organization that
inspired it, the Epidemiological Intelligence Service of the Centers for
Disease Control (not NIH, as the show says). One could take Laurie
Garrett's _The Coming Plagues_ and have real-world material that would
make fantastic plots. One of the ironies is that Law & Order, especially
SVU, use more real epidemiological hunts for patterns than do these
alleged epidemiologists.
Tanada - 28 Jan 2005 02:46 GMT
> CSI always struck me as too implausible, with the forensics people doing
> the jobs of an assortment of other police. The science tended to be, for
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> mildly, these people are as much real epidemiologists as Calista
> Flockhart is an all-pro NFL offensive lineman.

Have you ever noticed that they never get your career field correct?
JAG and NCIS may be accurate for the navy, but way off base for the
army.  I suspect that they're way off base for the Navy and Marines as
well.

I think it was Boston Public who had a public high school (any one who
lives in the district can go there, for you civilized people) populated
by a bunch of crazed sex fiends, inappropriate behavior, un staffed
classrooms, and so forth.  I was insulted on behalf of educators every
where.

I'm not the brightest bulb in the chandelier, but even I know that the
CDC is in charge of infectious disease investigations.  Not only that,
but the quasi professionalism of the "investigators" makes me want to
barf.  Needless to say, it is not one of the more popular shows watched
at our house.

Pam S. disappointed by Medical Investigations as it had potential
Marina - 28 Jan 2005 03:45 GMT
> Have you ever noticed that they never get your career field correct?

LOL! It's a good thing the work of a translator doesn't make for good
TV. ;o) I get upset enough about the inaccuracies about diabetes that
come up in various different shows.

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Seanette Blaylock - 28 Jan 2005 04:02 GMT
Marina <frankiennikki@yahoo.co.uk> had some very interesting things to
say about Re: Horrible Tasteless TV Show:

>> Have you ever noticed that they never get your career field correct?
>LOL! It's a good thing the work of a translator doesn't make for good
>TV. ;o) I get upset enough about the inaccuracies about diabetes that
>come up in various different shows.

One episode of CSI drastically boosted the temperature in
alt.support.diabetes a while back. Hang on while I battle Google's
"upgrade" to find the thread.

Mrreh! Can't find it.

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Marina - 28 Jan 2005 04:59 GMT
> Marina <frankiennikki@yahoo.co.uk> had some very interesting things to
> say about Re: Horrible Tasteless TV Show:
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>
> Mrreh! Can't find it.

I think I know which one you mean. It claimed that the invesigators
found out a dead guy had had diabetes, because he had a needle prick *on
his thigh bone*!!!! ROFL! A person would literally have to be skin and
bones in order for the needle to penetrate that far. There was other
stuff too, but I seem to have blocked it out. :oP

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Seanette Blaylock - 29 Jan 2005 03:19 GMT
Marina <frankiennikki@yahoo.co.uk> had some very interesting things to
say about Re: Horrible Tasteless TV Show:

>> One episode of CSI drastically boosted the temperature in
>> alt.support.diabetes a while back. Hang on while I battle Google's
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>bones in order for the needle to penetrate that far. There was other
>stuff too, but I seem to have blocked it out. :oP

Nope, in this one the killer was diabetic, and they got the symptoms
of what was happening [think he was running way too high] completely
wrong.

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Howard Berkowitz - 28 Jan 2005 04:37 GMT
> > CSI always struck me as too implausible, with the forensics people
> > doing
[quoted text clipped - 25 lines]
> barf.  Needless to say, it is not one of the more popular shows watched
> at our house.

It was mildly redeeming when the public relations person trying to learn
epidemiology came running in to announce "I found green glop!"

With all due respect, I agree that many of the activities on "Boston
Public" were inappropriate, but, given they were artificial, served as a
backdrop to have frequent and competent dramatic tension.  It's one
thing when "Star Trek" babbles about diverting the flux capacitor to the
deflector array, in a future where they have apparently lost the
technologies of seat belts, terminals that don't explode, circuit
breakers in general, etc.

In "Medical Investigation", not only were they wrong on substantive
detail, the acting isn't very good. There always seemed to be a
guarantee that the team chief would call for an instant airlift of a
drug that was inappropriate to treat the condition.  Oddly, the clinical
presentations were consistent with the diseases -- I usually could
diagnose within 10 or 15 minutes, while the cast would fumble around for
the next half hour.
jmcquown - 29 Jan 2005 15:32 GMT
> thing when "Star Trek" babbles about diverting the flux capacitor to
> the deflector array, in a future where they have apparently lost the
> technologies of seat belts

But then they wouldn't have gotten to pretend the ship was tilting!  LOL

, terminals that don't explode, circuit
> breakers in general, etc.
>
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> could diagnose within 10 or 15 minutes, while the cast would fumble
> around for the next half hour.

What do you think of this new medical show (if you have seen it) 'House'?
The team spends an hour discussing and trying different treatments on
weirdly obscure (sorry, can't happen) diseases and conditions.  Dr. House
finally makes an appearance and the patient and his/her family have no idea
who this dude is.  Not only that, he's constantly popping pain pills for his
leg (he uses a cane).  And, the times I've been in the hospital I didn't
have 4-5 attending physicians.  It's ridiculous.

Jill
John F. Eldredge - 31 Jan 2005 01:15 GMT
>> thing when "Star Trek" babbles about diverting the flux capacitor to
>> the deflector array, in a future where they have apparently lost the
>> technologies of seat belts
>
>But then they wouldn't have gotten to pretend the ship was tilting!  LOL

At a science fiction convention, I once saw the blooper reel from the
original Star Trek series.  One out-take had one of those scenes where
all of the bridge crew topple out of their chairs, in order to suggest
that the ship has just been jolted hard.  Unfortunately, one actor got
his left and right confused, and thus fell in the opposite direction
to everyone else!

Another of my favorite out-takes was one where Kirk and Spock were
striding towards the elevator doors.  The show was operating on too
low a budget to have actual hydraulic doors, so the doors were
operated by stage crew pulling on ropes.  Unfortunately, whomever was
operating the ropes missed their cue, and William Shatner walked right
into the door, which was supposed to be open by the time he reached
it.  He turned around, rubbing his nose and grinning.
Karen Chuplis - 31 Jan 2005 02:28 GMT
>>> thing when "Star Trek" babbles about diverting the flux capacitor to
>>> the deflector array, in a future where they have apparently lost the
[quoted text clipped - 16 lines]
> into the door, which was supposed to be open by the time he reached
> it.  He turned around, rubbing his nose and grinning.

I saw that reel! James Doohan came to speak at a local college when I was a
pre-teen and I made my sister drag me to it. His talk was very interesting
and then he showed the blooper reel. I love those.
jmcquown - 31 Jan 2005 04:41 GMT
>>>> thing when "Star Trek" babbles about diverting the flux capacitor
>>>> to the deflector array, in a future where they have apparently
[quoted text clipped - 23 lines]
> was a pre-teen and I made my sister drag me to it. His talk was very
> interesting and then he showed the blooper reel. I love those.

James Doohan surprised everyone by becoming a father at age 80.  He always
could make those engines go!

Jill
Kim Walters - 01 Feb 2005 00:08 GMT
> >>> thing when "Star Trek" babbles about diverting the flux capacitor to
> >>> the deflector array, in a future where they have apparently lost the
[quoted text clipped - 20 lines]
> pre-teen and I made my sister drag me to it. His talk was very interesting
> and then he showed the blooper reel. I love those.

Me too - He came to my college.  He really is a class act.  I wonder if I
still have a copy of that tape.  A group of us travel down to SUNY O a year
or so later when George Takai was speaking there.

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Kreisleriana - 01 Feb 2005 16:32 GMT
>> >>> thing when "Star Trek" babbles about diverting the flux capacitor to
>> >>> the deflector array, in a future where they have apparently lost the
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>still have a copy of that tape.  A group of us travel down to SUNY O a year
>or so later when George Takai was speaking there.

Spare a thought, and some purrs for dear old Jimmy Doohan, as he is
now suffering from Alzheimer's.

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Karen - 01 Feb 2005 16:50 GMT
> >> >>> thing when "Star Trek" babbles about diverting the flux capacitor to
> >> >>> the deflector array, in a future where they have apparently lost the
[quoted text clipped - 29 lines]
> Spare a thought, and some purrs for dear old Jimmy Doohan, as he is
> now suffering from Alzheimer's.

Yes, I know he is not doing too well. It's really a cursed disease.
Howard Berkowitz - 31 Jan 2005 04:03 GMT
> >> thing when "Star Trek" babbles about diverting the flux capacitor to
> >> the deflector array, in a future where they have apparently lost the
[quoted text clipped - 16 lines]
> into the door, which was supposed to be open by the time he reached
> it.  He turned around, rubbing his nose and grinning.

There was another blooper when that happened to Spock. It's rough to see
a Vulcan whimpering, his hands tight to his nose.
Magic Mood Jeep? - 31 Jan 2005 04:41 GMT
>>>> thing when "Star Trek" babbles about diverting the flux capacitor
>>>> to the deflector array, in a future where they have apparently
[quoted text clipped - 22 lines]
> There was another blooper when that happened to Spock. It's rough to
> see a Vulcan whimpering, his hands tight to his nose.

Or the one where they did an entire scene where Leonard Nimoy (Spock) had a
lollipop???  A Vulcan with a sucker????  For shame, Mr. Cpock, no reliving
your childhood... ;)

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jmcquown - 31 Jan 2005 05:00 GMT
>>>>> thing when "Star Trek" babbles about diverting the flux capacitor
>>>>> to the deflector array, in a future where they have apparently
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Did you ever see those 'In Search Of' films with Leonard Nimoy?  We used to
cheer when we walked into class in High School and there was an old
projector set up. (Most times one of us students would have to stop the
darned thing from flapping around because the teacher hadn't threaded it
correctly.)  We loved it when it was an 'In Search Of' with Leonard Nimoy.

Jill
Cheryl - 31 Jan 2005 02:55 GMT
> What do you think of this new medical show (if you have seen it)
> 'House'? The team spends an hour discussing and trying different
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> uses a cane).  And, the times I've been in the hospital I didn't
> have 4-5 attending physicians.  It's ridiculous.

I don't get that show, but find it entertaining. Last week was just
wierd how they found out clothes were making kids sick. How often
does that happen in real life? I did think the episode about virus's
and unvaccinated moms was interesting...

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Howard Berkowitz - 01 Feb 2005 07:23 GMT
> > thing when "Star Trek" babbles about diverting the flux capacitor to
> > the deflector array, in a future where they have apparently lost the
[quoted text clipped - 22 lines]
> leg (he uses a cane).  And, the times I've been in the hospital I didn't
> have 4-5 attending physicians.  It's ridiculous.

Haven't seen it.  Depends on how you mean "attending" -- both for myself
and others, I've encountered situations where many specialties were
involved. At one point, my ex and I went through the list of primary
specialty boards, and, IIRC, we had just missed seeing someone in
aerospace medicine and one or two others.  We cheated a little -- we had
no furless children, but her allergist was dual-boarded in pediatrics.
Howard Berkowitz - 02 Feb 2005 04:01 GMT
>  What do you think of this new medical show (if you have seen it)
>  'House'?
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
> > didn't
> > have 4-5 attending physicians.  It's ridiculous.

I watched it tonight. There was some good acting here and there, but the
medicine made little sense. I remember one exchange where one of the
junior doctors suggested a vasculitis, and House said no, it was
Wegener's granulomatosis.  But--Wegener's is a spscific type of the
class of vasculitis diseases.

Yes, in a teaching hospital, you very well may have teams of doctors,
but there is only one that has formal responsibility as the primary
physician. Some people use "attending" as interchangeable with the
primary, but in many hospitals, "attending" means a fully certified
physician, while a senior resident may the primary physician.

Even with a DNR order, you do NOT turn off the respirator on a conscious
patient, whom you believe to be respirator dependent, without
significant sedation. Yes, I know of a few cases where a knowledgeable
patient requested no terminal sedation, but those were extremely special
cases. Turning off a ventilator on an aware patient means a very
horrible death.  Unless there was an extremely specific informed
consent, witnessed patient request, and probably review by the hospital
ethics committee, that would be malpractice if not felony.

With tonight's episode, some of the test results were vague enough that
I couldn't figure out what they were describing. The type of the
pneumonia remained vague, and I couldn't understand why they wanted IVIG
for that. For some of the other diagnoses, the treatment is the same.

I don't think I'll watch it again.
Helen Miles - 28 Jan 2005 00:46 GMT
> I love L&O SVU,///

Me too, of course, I suspect in *my* case it's more of a fixation with
Chris Maloni ;o)

Helen M
Kreisleriana - 25 Jan 2005 15:54 GMT
>>>> OK, what's new right?
>>>>
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>
>Jill

He was in "The Full Monty."

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OU812? - 25 Jan 2005 16:20 GMT
>>>>>OK, what's new right?
>>>>>
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Ok, what i'm finding weird, is that the biopics of the oldest two
children look like they're about 12 and 13 yrs old, but when I go to
IMDB and look the two people up, they're 15 and 17.  How on earth do
they pull it off?

Kristy
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either)
Karen - 25 Jan 2005 16:57 GMT
> >>>>>OK, what's new right?
> >>>>>
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> wishing she looked a few yrs younger (a few pounds lighter wouldn't hurt
> either)

The girl, the redhead, has an INCREDIBLE voice. Heard her sing some torch
songs on a late night sports program (don't ask me why they had that on a
sports show) and my oh my, that girl can sing.
Howard Berkowitz - 25 Jan 2005 18:02 GMT
> >>>> OK, what's new right?
> >>>>
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>
> He was in "The Full Monty."

I am reminded of a comment of one of my English colleagues, when I told
him that a friend, very proud of her pet python, had shed his skin for
the first time. He asked "Is that the Full Monty Python?"
Mary - 25 Jan 2005 20:18 GMT
> He was in "The Full Monty."

And that was a really cute movie.
Mary - 25 Jan 2005 04:26 GMT
> > > OK, what's new right?
> > >
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> show - but do *you* really think it's OK to show insensitive behavior
> towards someone who is grieving about a lost pet?

No, as a matter of fact I don't.

>Do you think that's
> something we should teach our kids is OK to do?  There are an infinite
> number of other ways for the writers to have made the sister look
> ridiculous, but making her look ridiculous because she is grieving about a
> lost pet should not have been one of them.

Point taken. It actually did make me feel uncomfortable
now that I really think about it.
Jo Firey - 25 Jan 2005 03:45 GMT
Well, the entire point of the show is that they manage to survive in spite
of being rude and tasteless.   While I would hardly defend their making fun
of animal lovers, they also ridicule lesbians, gays, church goers, anyone
intelligent, anyone with money, each other etc.  The adults lie to each
other and to their kids.  And each encourages the kids to lie to the other
parent.  And they have always made fun of the sister for not mirroring their
domestic bliss.  Plus its a rerun.

I doubt they are very sensitive to complaints about the show's format as
long as the ratings stay up.

Jo
> OK, what's new right?
>
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>
> CatNipped
L. (usenetlyn) - 25 Jan 2005 04:30 GMT
> OK, what's new right?
>
> "Still Standing" showed an episode about the wife's sister's cat dying.

Oh, I *hate* stuff like this.  As if animals weren't already thought of
as chatttel in our society. :(

-L.
Helen Miles - 25 Jan 2005 13:15 GMT
> I think this is horrible, not only does it make it OK to make fun of a
> person grieving for a cat, but it gives the impression that cats are not
> important and the death of a beloved cat should be the source of humor, not
> grief.////

At the other end of a spectrum, this reminds of a show, "Queer Eye for
the Straight Guy" (USA version). For those of you who don't know what it
is, it's basically a show where 5 gay guys make-over a straight guy for
some important event. This includes the appartment. On one show, the guy
being made over had 4 or 5 cats. They were making over the appartment
and wanted to address the issue of the cats clawing the furniture.
Instead of recommending declawing, the designer, Thom, did a piece to
camera about how declawing your pet cat was REALLY cruel, and came up
with about 4 different alternatives to stop you cat clawing your
furniture. This included the options "Soft Paws" and "Sticky Paws". I
was so impressed that a main line show would take the trouble to
actually take the opportunity to educate pet owners.

On that basis alone, the show has my vote.

Helen M
Victor Martinez - 25 Jan 2005 14:11 GMT
> On that basis alone, the show has my vote.

It is a very sweet show, I really enjoy it. In the current season
they're doing engagements/weddings. The first show of the season was
about an army guy who was on his way to Iraq and wanted to marry his
"wife" (they got married in another country beforehand, but needed the
US marriage certificate to give her benefits) before leaving. It was one
of the sweetest, most touching shows I've seen.

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Kreisleriana - 25 Jan 2005 16:13 GMT
>> On that basis alone, the show has my vote.
>
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>US marriage certificate to give her benefits) before leaving. It was one
>of the sweetest, most touching shows I've seen.

I like that show a lot too, because it's one of the very few shows of
"Reality TV"  that's really based on kindness and not humiliation.  Of
course there are some laughs at the subject's cluelessness, but these
are on the gentle side.  The guys are really very sympathetic and
kind.

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Victor Martinez - 25 Jan 2005 18:49 GMT
> are on the gentle side.  The guys are really very sympathetic and
> kind.

I love Carson's remarks, he's so funny! I wish they had a Queer Eye for
the Queer Guy, we need new furniture!!! ;-)

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Helen Miles - 25 Jan 2005 19:48 GMT
> I love Carson's remarks, he's so funny! I wish they had a Queer Eye for
> the Queer Guy, we need new furniture!!! ;-)

Well, you wouldn't have to worry about them advocating declawing to
protect the furniture ;o).

I would LOVE to go shopping with Carson. He's a scream! And he's an
accomplished equestrian too. I believe he competes his horse at national
level.

Helen M
badwilson - 27 Jan 2005 13:56 GMT
> > are on the gentle side.  The guys are really very sympathetic and
> > kind.
>
> I love Carson's remarks, he's so funny! I wish they had a Queer Eye for
> the Queer Guy, we need new furniture!!! ;-)

When we were in Perth in July, I saw an episode where they helped a
gay guy.  He was hopeless, his clothes and apartment were hideous.
But they did a great job with him.  I'm sure you and Tom are way
better than that.  But I guess you could always fake it and apply.
New furniture would be cool :-)
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Victor Martinez - 28 Jan 2005 14:46 GMT
> When we were in Perth in July, I saw an episode where they helped a
> gay guy.  He was hopeless, his clothes and apartment were hideous.

Yeah, I saw that episode. I was telling Tom, they ought to take away his
gay card!!! ;-)

> But they did a great job with him.  I'm sure you and Tom are way
> better than that.  But I guess you could always fake it and apply.
> New furniture would be cool :-)

Our house is nice, I can't complain. I do love most of what Thom (the
decorator guy) does though, he's really good.

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Helen Miles - 28 Jan 2005 16:49 GMT
> Yeah, I saw that episode. I was telling Tom, they ought to take away his
> gay card!!! ;-)///

I'll tell you what Victor, every girl should have the oportunity to go
shopping with a gay guy. I have a fair few gay guy friends, and every
one of them has impeccable dress and design taste.....with the exception
of my cousin. His taste is "gaudy/ostentatious-nasty" combined with
"no-taste-what-so-ever". How his partner Steve (who has impeccable
taste) copes, i don't know! Even Thom wouldn't be able to rescue *HIM*.
;o)

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Victor Martinez - 28 Jan 2005 17:53 GMT
> I'll tell you what Victor, every girl should have the oportunity to go
> shopping with a gay guy. I have a fair few gay guy friends, and every
> one of them has impeccable dress and design taste.....with the exception

Most of my gay friends do have really good taste. Some too much, if you
ask me... :)
I'm more laid back, I wear jeans every day, one of the advantages of
being an engineer in Austin, Texas. Tom needs to dress up for his job.
When we go shopping for clothes, I try to choose clothes for Tom. I use
the excuse that he's colorblind and cant' realize that the shirt he just
picked is hideous... :)
I've gotten many compliments from his female co-workers on the nice
shirt/tie combinations I've chosen for him...

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Kreisleriana - 28 Jan 2005 18:10 GMT
>> I'll tell you what Victor, every girl should have the oportunity to go
>> shopping with a gay guy. I have a fair few gay guy friends, and every
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>I've gotten many compliments from his female co-workers on the nice
>shirt/tie combinations I've chosen for him...

And then there was my old roommate, who completely blew any gay
stereotypes about style right out of the water.  Comfort counted a lot
more than style for him, and his idea of comfort dictated that the
garment could not be less than four years old.  I was the clotheshorse
in those days, but he did not notice or remember *my* clothes any more
than my then-husband-to-be did.  They were both terrible dressers
(they used to call themselves the Beige Brothers)-- I had to help them
both out a lot.

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Helen Miles - 28 Jan 2005 20:53 GMT
> I've gotten many compliments from his female co-workers on the nice
> shirt/tie combinations I've chosen for him...///

That decides it then Victor.... When I come to Austin Texas, or when our
grand Mayan adventure masterplan eventually comes to fruition (which
ever comes first) You and me are going clothes shopping so I can extrend
my wardrobe from plain old jeans :)

Helen M
Victor Martinez - 28 Jan 2005 22:57 GMT
> That decides it then Victor.... When I come to Austin Texas, or when our
> grand Mayan adventure masterplan eventually comes to fruition (which
> ever comes first) You and me are going clothes shopping so I can extrend
> my wardrobe from plain old jeans :)

It's a deal! And we can go to the outlet mall nearby to get more stuff
for your money. Not that it matters much right now, with the exchange
rate and all, y'all buropeans get a good deal in dollars!

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Monique Y. Mudama - 28 Jan 2005 21:48 GMT
>>> On that basis alone, the show has my vote.
>>
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> course there are some laughs at the subject's cluelessness, but these are on
> the gentle side.  The guys are really very sympathetic and kind.

I've never seen the "Queer Eye ..." show, but I *have* seen one redecoration
show.  Apparently, "friends" of this woman stage what's essentially an
intervention, and she gets a bunch of fashion advisors or something and some
cash to buy a new wardrobe.

I dunno.  The whole thing seemed lame to me.  Maybe it's because I dress for
comfort, not style.  I clean up well, but for the most part, I don't care to
be bothered with looks, not if it's going to take away from the number of
times I can hit "snooze" on the alarm.  Believe me, I don't dress the way I do
because I don't know any better; it's because I can't be bothered to take the
time.  But then, I think my friends know that if they tried something like
this with me, well, hell hath no fury like a Monique P.O.'d.

The part that really bothered, me, I think, was the constant pressure to wear
different shoes.  As far as I'm concerned, most women's shoes were designed as
torture devices, not means of locomotion.  And I think it's unfortunate that a
woman must wear these torture devices to be considered well-dressed, and it's
particularly unfortunate that these people, these people whose job it is to
know clothes, couldn't find a comfortable, healthy shoe for this lady.

I have a feeling this is where my MIL would say, "You need to lighten up a
little.  You take things so *seriously*."  But really.  Guy's dress shoes
aren't uncomfortable, and they don't have the potential to damage your feet.
Why can't women's dress shoes be the same?  I keep imagining trying to run
from an assailant wearing dress heels.  Hah!

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Seanette Blaylock - 29 Jan 2005 05:35 GMT
"Monique Y. Mudama" <spam@bounceswoosh.org> had some very interesting
things to say about Re: Horrible Tasteless TV Show:

>I dunno.  The whole thing seemed lame to me.  Maybe it's because I dress for
>comfort, not style.  I clean up well, but for the most part, I don't care to
>be bothered with looks, not if it's going to take away from the number of
>times I can hit "snooze" on the alarm.  Believe me, I don't dress the way I do
>because I don't know any better; it's because I can't be bothered to take the
>time.

You sound like me. :-)

>The part that really bothered, me, I think, was the constant pressure to wear
>different shoes.  As far as I'm concerned, most women's shoes were designed as
>torture devices, not means of locomotion.  And I think it's unfortunate that a
>woman must wear these torture devices to be considered well-dressed, and it's
>particularly unfortunate that these people, these people whose job it is to
>know clothes, couldn't find a comfortable, healthy shoe for this lady.

We're twins. :-)

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