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[OT] Tummy ache remedies?

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Monique Y. Mudama - 22 Jan 2005 23:11 GMT
[TMI (too much information) warning ... ]

So, after years on Depo, I decided to give my body a break and switch back to
the pill.

I've only been on it for a week, and my stomach is often upset, especially
when it's empty.  It seems to be completely unrelated to when I actually take
the medicine.

There are more women here than in most of my social groups, so I thought I'd
ask here.  Anyone have this problem?  Any ideas on how to settle my stomach?

I think this is one of those symptoms that is fairly common and subsides after
a few months, but I don't really want to wait that long!  Also, my doctor told
me that most women tolerate this pill very well; others are more known for
having side effects.

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Christina Websell - 22 Jan 2005 23:26 GMT
> [TMI (too much information) warning ... ]
>
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> ask here.  Anyone have this problem?  Any ideas on how to settle my
> stomach?

Be more specific.  Are we talking about diarrhoea? Or vomiting?  Or both?
The euph.. upset stomach can cover both.

Tweed
Monique Y. Mudama - 23 Jan 2005 02:09 GMT
>> Any ideas on how to settle my stomach?
>
> Be more specific.  Are we talking about diarrhoea? Or vomiting?  Or
> both?  The euph.. upset stomach can cover both.

Oh. Um, I meant what I said.  Purely that my stomach is upset and doesn't feel
well.  No diarrhoea or vomiting.  Just discomfort that sometimes peaks to
pain.

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Howard Berkowitz - 23 Jan 2005 03:01 GMT
> >> Any ideas on how to settle my stomach?
> >
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> well.  No diarrhoea or vomiting.  Just discomfort that sometimes peaks to
> pain.

Let me throw out several possible remedies, if you don't mind them
coming from a man. :-)

There are several fairly expensive anti-nausea syrups such as Emetrol.
They work, but I prefer to use a tablespoonful or so, every 15 minutes
or so until I feel better (or about 4-6 doses) of Coca-Cola concentrate.  
Many pharmacies stock it behind the counter.

"Sports drinks" may help, in that they have sugar in them -- which halps
sodium and potassium get absorbed. A rehydration drink with a starch in
it works far better.  There's a classic Chinese soup-like dish called,
depending on the dialect, jook or congee. Take a fairly small amount of
rice -- perhaps half a cup to a quart of water, or even more water, and
simmer until the rice grains start to break up. This can be flavored
with lots of things, ginger and soy being a start -- orange rind, in
moderation, gives a nice taste. Chicken simmered well in it gives you
the Chinese-Jewish approach.

Let me mention a couple of "upset stomach" drugs that work differently
than antacids, which I assume you've tried. Gaviscon, like prescription
Carafate, actually coats the stomach. Pepto-Bismol has turned out, in
recent years, to be much more medically respected -- the bismuth
salicylate it contains actually stabilizes quite a bit and also has real
effect against certain irritation and ulceration.
Karen Chuplis - 23 Jan 2005 04:03 GMT
>>>> Any ideas on how to settle my stomach?
>>>
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> salicylate it contains actually stabilizes quite a bit and also has real
> effect against certain irritation and ulceration.

Or maybe just snack on some crackers between meals.
Monique Y. Mudama - 23 Jan 2005 04:20 GMT
> Or maybe just snack on some crackers between meals.

Stop, you, with the common sense!

Of which I am admittedly lacking =/

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Monique Y. Mudama - 23 Jan 2005 04:31 GMT
> Let me throw out several possible remedies, if you don't mind them coming
> from a man. :-)

I don't care who they come from, as long as they work!

> There are several fairly expensive anti-nausea syrups such as Emetrol.  They
> work, but I prefer to use a tablespoonful or so, every 15 minutes or so
> until I feel better (or about 4-6 doses) of Coca-Cola concentrate.  Many
> pharmacies stock it behind the counter.

This seems to be an ongoing thing, and often seems to start when my stomach is
most empty, like an hour before I need to wake up, so I'll do this if I have
to, but I hope I don't have to make it a daily ritual!

> "Sports drinks" may help, in that they have sugar in them -- which halps
> sodium and potassium get absorbed. A rehydration drink with a starch in it
> works far better.  

Hrm.  With starch?  Can you give me an example?  I don't recall seeing
starches listed on Gatoraide etc, but then, I wasn't looking for them.  Maybe
Pedialite (sp?)?  I've been told that particular stuff can really help in
endurance races.

> There's a classic Chinese soup-like dish called, depending on the
> dialect, jook or congee. Take a fairly small amount of rice -- perhaps
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> gives a nice taste. Chicken simmered well in it gives you the
> Chinese-Jewish approach.

This actually sounds like an awesome "feel better" recipe for more than just
upset tummies.  I'll have to file it away.  I guess you'd have to be careful
not to add seasonings too lively for the tummy in question.

> Let me mention a couple of "upset stomach" drugs that work differently
> than antacids, which I assume you've tried. Gaviscon, like
> prescription Carafate, actually coats the stomach. Pepto-Bismol has
> turned out, in recent years, to be much more medically respected --
> the bismuth salicylate it contains actually stabilizes quite a bit and
> also has real effect against certain irritation and ulceration.

I've kind of been avoiding meds so far, because I didn't want to do the wrong
thing.  What I'd like to know (and can't seem to find) is *why* the pill makes
my stomach hurt.  It seems like that critical bit of info would help me pick
the right approach, but all the little booklet says is that you might get a
stomach ache.  Helpful, neh?

I read a lot here about giving cats yoghurt if they're on antibiotics.  I
wonder if there's any similarity there to what I'm experiencing?  I just don't
know enough about this stuff.

I always thought that Pepto-Bismol was a stomach coater.  I don't know how it
works, but for really bad stomach aches, I've found that it has two results:
it settles your stomach or it encourages you to throw up whatever's in your
stomach, pink froth and all.  The latter is still probably better than keeping
whatever's causing trouble in your stomach.

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John F. Eldredge - 23 Jan 2005 05:11 GMT
>> Let me throw out several possible remedies, if you don't mind them coming
>> from a man. :-)
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>> work, but I prefer to use a tablespoonful or so, every 15 minutes or so
>> until I feel better (or about 4-6 doses) of Coca-Cola concentrate.
Many
>> pharmacies stock it behind the counter.
>
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
>Pedialite (sp?)?  I've been told that particular stuff can really help in
>endurance races.

The standard do-it-yourself mix for rehydrating someone with diarrhea
is water with salt and sugar (I don't remember how much of each).
The digestive system will absorb such a mix more readily than it will
plain water.

If you are having trouble with low blood sugar in the morning, you
might want to try eating a small snack at bedtime.  Something with
anough starch to be digested slowly (such as beans, oatmeal, or
whole-wheat bread) would probably be of more benefit than a sugary
snack, which produces a quick spike in blood sugar, followed by low
blood sugar.

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Karen Chuplis - 23 Jan 2005 05:49 GMT
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Yeah. Crackers.
Howard Berkowitz - 23 Jan 2005 14:00 GMT
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> Yeah. Crackers.

And, I repeat, crackers, not quackers. Swallowing a live, quacking duck
will neither calm your stomach nor the duck.
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> help in
> >endurance races.

I would guess Pedialyte does use starch, but that's only a guess.

> The standard do-it-yourself mix for rehydrating someone with diarrhea
> is water with salt and sugar (I don't remember how much of each).
> The digestive system will absorb such a mix more readily than it will
> plain water.

The World Health Organization improvised formula is:
  20 grams of Glucose
  1.75 teaspoons of table salt
  1.25 teaspoons of Sodium Bicarbonate or Bicarbonate of Soda (same
thing).
  Mix with 1 liter of cold water.

Regular table sugar is sucrose, not dextrose. I will have to do some
checking to find the equivalent in sucrose, and the volume.  Offhand,
for English measurements, I'd assume

  2 Tablespoons sugar
  1 1/2 Tsp salt
  1 1/4 Tsp baking soda

It actually would be better with starch and some potassium, but these
aren't going to be as easily available.

> If you are having trouble with low blood sugar in the morning, you
> might want to try eating a small snack at bedtime.  Something with
> anough starch to be digested slowly (such as beans, oatmeal, or
> whole-wheat bread) would probably be of more benefit than a sugary
> snack, which produces a quick spike in blood sugar, followed by low
> blood sugar.
Monique Y. Mudama - 24 Jan 2005 19:42 GMT
On 2005-01-23, John F  Eldredge penned:

> If you are having trouble with low blood sugar in the morning, you might
> want to try eating a small snack at bedtime.  Something with anough starch
> to be digested slowly (such as beans, oatmeal, or whole-wheat bread) would
> probably be of more benefit than a sugary snack, which produces a quick
> spike in blood sugar, followed by low blood sugar.

If low blood sugar is a feeling of disorientation, grouchiness, and an
inability to think straight, that never happens to me in the morning, even if
I'm starving.  It happens quite often in the evening, though, if I don't get
the chance to have an early dinner.

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Seanette Blaylock - 25 Jan 2005 03:54 GMT
"Monique Y. Mudama" <spam@bounceswoosh.org> had some very interesting
things to say about Re: [OT] Tummy ache remedies?:

>If low blood sugar is a feeling of disorientation, grouchiness, and an
>inability to think straight, that never happens to me in the morning, even if
>I'm starving.  It happens quite often in the evening, though, if I don't get
>the chance to have an early dinner.

My DH [type 2 diabetic] says that sounds pretty close to his symptoms
when he's low.

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Monique Y. Mudama - 25 Jan 2005 04:15 GMT
> "Monique Y. Mudama" <spam@bounceswoosh.org> had some very interesting things
> to say about Re: [OT] Tummy ache remedies?:
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> My DH [type 2 diabetic] says that sounds pretty close to his symptoms when
> he's low.

*nod*

I've talked to my doctor, and I'm not, apparently, diabetic.  I just get
grouchy when I'm hungry.  Well, sometimes.  It's a mystery to me.

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Brigitte - 23 Jan 2005 16:48 GMT
> > >> Any ideas on how to settle my stomach?
> > >
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> salicylate it contains actually stabilizes quite a bit and also has real
> effect against certain irritation and ulceration.

Yes, but can cause constipation.  :(
Monique Y. Mudama - 24 Jan 2005 19:37 GMT
>> Let me mention a couple of "upset stomach" drugs that work differently than
>> antacids, which I assume you've tried. Gaviscon, like prescription
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>
> Yes, but can cause constipation.  :(

The only thing I've noticed with Pepto is that for the next day or so,
everything is black.  Haven't noticed constipation, fortunately.  Black is
weird enough.

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CatNipped - 24 Jan 2005 20:43 GMT
>>> Let me mention a couple of "upset stomach" drugs that work differently
>>> than
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> everything is black.  Haven't noticed constipation, fortunately.  Black is
> weird enough.

Black is not good.  Black means there is blood in the stool (digested blood
turns black instead of red), coming from somewhere in your stomach or
intestines.  If you're having black stools, notify your doctor immediately.

Hugs,

CatNipped
Monique Y. Mudama - 24 Jan 2005 20:52 GMT
>> The only thing I've noticed with Pepto is that for the next day or so,
>> everything is black.  Haven't noticed constipation, fortunately.  Black is
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> turns black instead of red), coming from somewhere in your stomach or
> intestines.  If you're having black stools, notify your doctor immediately.

Only happens after I've used pepto, for about a day, and then I'm back to
normal.  DH says the same happens to him.  I really don't think it's blood; I
assumed the pink stuff just turns black passing through the system.

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Howard Berkowitz - 24 Jan 2005 21:16 GMT
> >> The only thing I've noticed with Pepto is that for the next day or so,
> >> everything is black.  Haven't noticed constipation, fortunately.  
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> blood; I
> assumed the pink stuff just turns black passing through the system.

OK -- did some checking of the literature. The bismuth subsalicylate in
Pepto is known to cause dark stools, usually described as
"grayish-black".  When upper GI bleeding is present, it's a very dark
black.

Check if you can get an occult blood test kit from a local pharmacy, one
that gives a direct readout (some test strips have to go to a lab). Your
doctor may be able to mail one to you, and save a visit if it's negative.
Monique Y. Mudama - 24 Jan 2005 22:51 GMT
> OK -- did some checking of the literature. The bismuth subsalicylate in
> Pepto is known to cause dark stools, usually described as "grayish-black".
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> that gives a direct readout (some test strips have to go to a lab). Your
> doctor may be able to mail one to you, and save a visit if it's negative.

I honestly think I'm okay.  If I'm not taking pepto and I see this kind of
coloration, I'll definitely get it checked out.

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CatNipped - 24 Jan 2005 21:53 GMT
>>> The only thing I've noticed with Pepto is that for the next day or so,
>>> everything is black.  Haven't noticed constipation, fortunately.  Black
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
> blood; I
> assumed the pink stuff just turns black passing through the system.

OK, that's good - I worry (I'm a MaMere, I *always* worry!! ;>).

Hugs,

CatNipped
Monique Y. Mudama - 24 Jan 2005 22:40 GMT
> OK, that's good - I worry (I'm a MaMere, I *always* worry!! ;>).
>
> Hugs,
>
> CatNipped

I don't mind at all!  Thanks for the warning.

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Howard Berkowitz - 24 Jan 2005 21:09 GMT
> >> Let me mention a couple of "upset stomach" drugs that work differently
> >> than
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> is
> weird enough.

Ummm....hate to go to the TMI, but "black and tarry" is the usual
clinical description of a fecal sample from a person that has bleeding
relatively high in their gastrointestinal tract, enough that the blood
is partially digested.  That's not 100%; there are some chemical
reactions that could cause that, although I can't think offhand of
anything associated with Pepto.

Given that you are having stomach symptoms, I would want to be checked.
Conceivably, it is a stomach ulcer. The good news is that the cause of
about 85% of ulcers is a curable bacterial infection, and there's a
simple breath test that can check for the infection.

Obviously, this is total guessing on my part, just the combination of a
couple of things that might mean something if related -- and may be
completely unrelated and insignificant.
Monique Y. Mudama - 24 Jan 2005 21:17 GMT
>> The only thing I've noticed with Pepto is that for the next day or so,
>> everything is black.  Haven't noticed constipation, fortunately.  Black is
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> cause that, although I can't think offhand of anything associated with
> Pepto.

Clarification: I haven't had any pepto for probably a month or more.  But
whenever I use it, my stool is black, regardless of its consistency, for about
a day.

> Given that you are having stomach symptoms, I would want to be checked.
> Conceivably, it is a stomach ulcer. The good news is that the cause of about
> 85% of ulcers is a curable bacterial infection, and there's a simple breath
> test that can check for the infection.

Everything on that end (hah, hah) is working fine right now.

> Obviously, this is total guessing on my part, just the combination of a
> couple of things that might mean something if related -- and may be
> completely unrelated and insignificant.

I appreciate the concern and would much rather someone warn me of something
that might not be the case than not warn me of something that might be the
case =)

I don't think it applies in this particular case, though.

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Jean Hobbs - 24 Jan 2005 05:39 GMT
Thats the first time I've heard of coca cola concentrate Howard,
but whenI started work at Boral canteen yrs ago a few of the men would come
in early and ask for a coke I wondered why and was told some of them had
ulcers and some just had hangovers, I was amazed, { iwas only young then
of course, nothing amazes me now, weeell,not much.

> > >> Any ideas on how to settle my stomach?
> > >
[quoted text clipped - 30 lines]
> salicylate it contains actually stabilizes quite a bit and also has real
> effect against certain irritation and ulceration.
Howard Berkowitz - 24 Jan 2005 06:00 GMT
> Thats the first time I've heard of coca cola concentrate Howard,
>  but whenI started work at Boral canteen yrs ago a few of the men would
>  come
> in early and ask for a coke I wondered why and was told some of them had
> ulcers and some just had hangovers, I was amazed, { iwas only young then
> of course, nothing amazes me now, weeell,not much.

The basic rule, of course, is when you find something works -- keep
doing it.  Now, normally I drink a lot of diet ginger ale, as well as
club soda. For some reason, the ginger ale is much more settling to my
stomach when I put lemon into it.
Victor Martinez - 23 Jan 2005 14:52 GMT
> Be more specific.  Are we talking about diarrhoea? Or vomiting?  Or both?
> The euph.. upset stomach can cover both.

Where is the TMI warning? ;-)

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Tanada - 23 Jan 2005 23:11 GMT
>> Be more specific.  Are we talking about diarrhoea? Or vomiting?  Or
>> both? The euph.. upset stomach can cover both.
>
> Where is the TMI warning? ;-)

Victor, this group IS a TMI warning.  :-)

Pam S. who's reported more than her fair share of TMIs
Howard Berkowitz - 23 Jan 2005 23:51 GMT
> >> Be more specific.  Are we talking about diarrhoea? Or vomiting?  Or
> >> both? The euph.. upset stomach can cover both.
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>
> Pam S. who's reported more than her fair share of TMIs

TMI can be useful if you are standing in line and want it to move more
quickly.  A detailed medical discussion often quickly clears people
away, as do certain military discussions. I was going to dinner a while
back with a group that was mostly medical, with one
battlefield-experienced physician and one combat veteran soldier. The
latter got a little greenish.

Apparently, I'm atypical of many men and a surprising amount of women. I
remember a time when someone was trying to find out if I really knew
what I was talking about with respect to a GYN exam. Midway through my
explanation, my female friend whispered in my ear, "_I_ didn't know
that's what goes on in a pelvic exam. I just shut my eyes and wait for
it to be over."

Any sensitivity on that sort of thing was burned out by my first wife.  
I had had surgery for a pilonoidal cyst, a procedure that has a lot of
postoperative bleeding in an awkward-to-bandage place. The practical
solution is to tape sanitary pads to one's rear end.

On my first wobbly-footed trip out of the house, we went to the
drugstore for supplies. The cart was rather full of boxes of Kotex,
enough that the clerk was someone shocked.  As we got to the checkout,
she said, in a trained voice that carried, "oh, these aren't for me.
They are for my husband."

From then on, I referred to such things as "masculine napkins".
Victor Martinez - 24 Jan 2005 00:26 GMT
> enough that the clerk was someone shocked.  As we got to the checkout,
> she said, in a trained voice that carried, "oh, these aren't for me.
> They are for my husband."

LOL!

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Jo Firey - 24 Jan 2005 00:27 GMT
>> > Where is the TMI warning? ;-)
>>
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> she said, in a trained voice that carried, "oh, these aren't for me.
> They are for my husband."

My mom used to send my dad to the store for such things as she was
embarrassed to buy them.  I swore I would never do such a thing.

Until I had surgery a couple of years ago and a chest incision that would
not heal up and quit draining.  Plus a reaction to tape.

Charlie quickly took over, checking out every type of dressing and tape he
could find.  And even discussing with store personnel which type of sanitary
napkin would best serve as a surgical dressing.

What a guy.  Especially as he doesn't handle this sort of thing well at all.
He can't stand the sight of blood.  His certainly included.   Has to be at
least two rooms away if I am going to give myself an injection etc.

The only way I even got him to visit me in the hospital was to tell him the
water tasted terrible and he would come by twice a day with partially frozen
bottled water.

Jo
Seanette Blaylock - 25 Jan 2005 03:52 GMT
"Jo Firey" <JAfirey@NETZERO.NET> had some very interesting things to
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>My mom used to send my dad to the store for such things as she was
>embarrassed to buy them.  I swore I would never do such a thing.

My DH *refuses* to buy feminine items for me. He's too embarrassed.
:-)

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Monique Y. Mudama - 25 Jan 2005 20:53 GMT
> "Jo Firey" <JAfirey@NETZERO.NET> had some very interesting things to say
> about Re: [OT] Tummy ache remedies?:
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> My DH *refuses* to buy feminine items for me. He's too embarrassed.
>:-)

I don't think my DH will care, but I guess I'll find out soon.  I haven't had
my period in the whole time I've known him, plus about 3 or 4 years (can't
quite remember).  Ahh, there are definitely some nice things about depo.

I suspect I will be more upset by these changes than he will be.

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Victor Martinez - 25 Jan 2005 13:53 GMT
> My mom used to send my dad to the store for such things as she was
> embarrassed to buy them.  I swore I would never do such a thing.

I honestly don't see what the big deal is. When my two (then) 14-year
old nieces came to visit a couple of summers ago, they both decided to
start having their periods at the same time... :)
So, I took them to the grocery store to buy supplies. The funny thing
was that there were a bunch of new (to them) brands to choose from and
their favorite brand was not available. So they turned to me and asked
me which one to get. I replied, how on earth would I know? Just pick the
most expensive one, I'm sure it's good. :)

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Cheryl Perkins - 25 Jan 2005 14:37 GMT
> I honestly don't see what the big deal is.

Early training, I think. Or something cultural. I know when I was a
teenager such things were Never Ever mentioned in public, and certainly
never referred to in the presence of a member of the opposite sex. I know
that I never bought such items myself until I moved away from home,
preferring to have my mother do it. And the very thought of handling such
thing in a store which might have male employees!!! Even, possibly, young
male employees!!!! Horrifying!  

I got out of such attitudes not long after I left home (well, if you
really need them, and your mother isn't around to buy them, what do you
do? Find a store with only female clerks and customers?). And I also
eventually learned that clerks - male or female - weren't really
interested in what I was buying or why I was buying it.

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Monique Y. Mudama - 25 Jan 2005 20:52 GMT
> Early training, I think. Or something cultural. I know when I was a teenager
> such things were Never Ever mentioned in public, and certainly never
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> that clerks - male or female - weren't really interested in what I was
> buying or why I was buying it.

I remember also being really freaked out at the idea of buying "feminine
products" (really, I feel about as far from feminine as you can get when that
stuff's going on), condoms, etc. as a teenager.  I think part of that is just
typical teenage angst.  As a teenager, you're hyper-self-conscious and
convinced that everyone is taking note of your pimples, the one sprig of hair
that won't behave, etc.  So of course they care about your personal habits,
too.

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CatNipped - 25 Jan 2005 15:12 GMT
> > My mom used to send my dad to the store for such things as she was
> > embarrassed to buy them.  I swore I would never do such a thing.
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> me which one to get. I replied, how on earth would I know? Just pick the
> most expensive one, I'm sure it's good. :)

LOL!  Kudos, Victor, not many men could have carried that off with such
aplomb!

Hugs,

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Christina Websell - 25 Jan 2005 18:27 GMT
>> My mom used to send my dad to the store for such things as she was
>> embarrassed to buy them.  I swore I would never do such a thing.
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> one to get. I replied, how on earth would I know? Just pick the most
> expensive one, I'm sure it's good. :)

TMI warning.
You are such a darling, Victor.
My 14 y o experience was different.  It happened and I was afraid to tell my
mother.  I tried to manage with toilet paper for two days, which is
ridiculous, it isn't up to it.
I had to pluck up my courage to say what was happening to me.  No female
child should go through that, they need to be prepared and find it easy to
confide,  I didn't.  Should have been talked about more, like it was normal.
I thought I was bleeding to death and would definitely die.

Tweed
Victor Martinez - 25 Jan 2005 18:47 GMT
> TMI warning.

Hehehe... had to get back at you... :)

> You are such a darling, Victor.

Why, thank you... :) :) :)

> confide,  I didn't.  Should have been talked about more, like it was normal.
> I thought I was bleeding to death and would definitely die.

One of my nieces just has horrible timing (or is it me?), but every time
she spends a few days with me (usually at my parent's house over x-mas)
I end up driving her to the pharmacy to buy supplies... She has
absolutely no problem telling me what she needs... it helps that her mom
is a medical doctor, she even uses the correct terminology!

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Monique Y. Mudama - 25 Jan 2005 20:41 GMT
> One of my nieces just has horrible timing (or is it me?), but every time she
> spends a few days with me (usually at my parent's house over x-mas) I end up
> driving her to the pharmacy to buy supplies... She has absolutely no problem
> telling me what she needs... it helps that her mom is a medical doctor, she
> even uses the correct terminology!

The word "timing" tipped a memory.  When women live in close proximity, they
tend to share the same cycle.  As a freshman new to college dorms, and one of
the few already on the pill, it was pretty funny to observe the rest of the
hall's bodies adjusting to the pull of my artificially-supplemented hormones.
As the year went on, just about everyone acquired this particular medication.
Of course, it was *never* as birth control.  Oh no.  It was to control acne,
or because they had some sort of medical condition, etc etc whatever.  But oh
no, mom and dad, not because I need birth control!

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Jo Firey - 25 Jan 2005 19:09 GMT
> TMI warning.
> You are such a darling, Victor.
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>
> Tweed

Your mother sounds like my mother.  Fortunately my grandmother had already
done the whole explanation thing and demonstration of supplies needed and
their use.  Along with stories of what females of her generation had to deal
with.  I think she knew I needed to know more than her daughter-in-law was
likely to tell me.

My wake up call several months ago came on a shopping trip to Target with my
teenage grandsons.  The three of us were shopping for "essentials" such as
socks and toothpaste and I pretty much told them to get whatever they needed
within reason.  Among other things a decent sized box of condoms showed up
in the cart.  I didn't say anything. I mean I'm certainly not going to tell
them they can't buy them right?  I even managed not to look shocked.  And
warned grandpa so he wouldn't over react if he ended up in the same
situation.  Still think if they need they should buy their own.  But very
glad they aren't too embarrassed to buy them.

Jo
Monique Y. Mudama - 25 Jan 2005 20:39 GMT
> My wake up call several months ago came on a shopping trip to Target with my
> teenage grandsons.  The three of us were shopping for "essentials" such as
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> situation.  Still think if they need they should buy their own.  But very
> glad they aren't too embarrassed to buy them.

A lot cheaper than the alternatives ...

I remember my HS boyfriend and I convincing his younger brother to sneak some
condoms into the grocery cart while his mom was shopping.  Unfortunately, his
parents were sticklers for checking receipts.  The younger brother came
through like a champ, claiming that he and a friend were going to put them on
doorknobs as a prank.  In retrospect, I don't think they believed him, as we
got to keep the condoms ...

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Howard Berkowitz - 25 Jan 2005 21:09 GMT
> > TMI warning.
> > You are such a darling, Victor.
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> situation.  Still think if they need they should buy their own.  But very
> glad they aren't too embarrassed to buy them.

I've heard it said that in the fifties, people went into a drugstore and
whispered to the clerk that they wanted to buy condoms.

These days, the condoms are on display, but they have to request
cigarettes from a clerk.
Tanada - 25 Jan 2005 22:55 GMT
> I've heard it said that in the fifties, people went into a drugstore and
> whispered to the clerk that they wanted to buy condoms.
>
> These days, the condoms are on display, but they have to request
> cigarettes from a clerk.

You had to whisper to the clerk to get them in the late 60s and early
70s back in Eastern Washington as well.  Then I moved to Eugene Oregon
and found the stores displaying them on racks.  Eugene has a large gay
population, and is more open about personal needs than Eastern
Washington ever was.

As a person who was seriously addicted to cigarettes, I think they
should be kept behind the counter.  I've never heard of someone having a
condom addiction.

Pam S.
Jo Firey - 25 Jan 2005 23:14 GMT
>> I've heard it said that in the fifties, people went into a drugstore and
>> whispered to the clerk that they wanted to buy condoms.
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>
> Pam S.

How securely tobacco products are stored has a lot to do with how heavily
they are taxed.  I don't know about now, but a few years ago they were
displayed in the south like candy and chips.  The profit margin was high
enough that the stores were willing to absorb some theft loss to increase
sales.

In California, the taxes have increased and driven the profit margin way
down.  The loss of a pack more than wipes out the profit on a carton.  So
the stores are much more careful to secure them.  And a lot of places just
don't sell them at all.  I don't think Target here sells tobacco anymore.
Bars and restaurants don't.  Machines are out, etc.

Jo
Tanada - 25 Jan 2005 23:53 GMT
> How securely tobacco products are stored has a lot to do with how heavily
> they are taxed.  I don't know about now, but a few years ago they were
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> don't sell them at all.  I don't think Target here sells tobacco anymore.
> Bars and restaurants don't.  Machines are out, etc.

They now have to be locked up, by law, here in North Carolina. I read
somewhere that North Carolina has the USA's second lowest tax on them at
$.18 per pack.  IIRC only Kentucky has a lower tax rate.

Pam S.
Howard Berkowitz - 26 Jan 2005 00:26 GMT
> > I've heard it said that in the fifties, people went into a drugstore
> > and
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> should be kept behind the counter.  I've never heard of someone having a
> condom addiction.

I'm trying to decide if putting a condom on a cigarette would satisfy
the oral craving without the nicotine, or would be too much of a fire
hazard.
Victor Martinez - 25 Jan 2005 21:17 GMT
> situation.  Still think if they need they should buy their own.  But very
> glad they aren't too embarrassed to buy them.

Absolutely! Those freeloaders... getting grandma to buy their condoms... :)

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Monique Y. Mudama - 25 Jan 2005 20:36 GMT
> TMI warning.  You are such a darling, Victor.  My 14 y o experience was
> different.  It happened and I was afraid to tell my mother.  I tried to
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>
> Tweed

That's horrible.  My mom's best friend also had the same experience and
thought she was dying.  Honestly, I don't understand what sort of misplaced
sense of propriety would allow a child to go through that.

Fortunately, my mom was the polar opposite.  In fact, as I got older, she told
me she would put me on the pill when I was 16; and she did.

If I ever do have kids, I imagine having a bowl of condoms or something
available, no questions asked.  Not sure how to arrange it so the kids won't
think I'm spying on them, but there must be a way.

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Howard Berkowitz - 25 Jan 2005 21:13 GMT
> > TMI warning.  You are such a darling, Victor.  My 14 y o experience was
> > different.  It happened and I was afraid to tell my mother.  I tried to
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> won't
> think I'm spying on them, but there must be a way.

A friend was straightening out her son's room and found some condoms.
Now, she will go to rock concerts with them and has more piercings than
most of their girlfriends, although she agreed that it was a BAD idea to
get a piercing and then go immediately to full-contact karate practice,
without a chest protector.

Anyway, she took a condom, blew it up like a balloon, and drew a "happy
face" on it, with the words" Let's talk!" coming out of the smile.
Monique Y. Mudama - 25 Jan 2005 21:47 GMT
> A friend was straightening out her son's room and found some condoms.  Now,
> she will go to rock concerts with them and has more piercings than most of
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> Anyway, she took a condom, blew it up like a balloon, and drew a "happy
> face" on it, with the words" Let's talk!" coming out of the smile.

That is awesome.

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Tanada - 25 Jan 2005 21:24 GMT
> That's horrible.  My mom's best friend also had the same experience and
> thought she was dying.  Honestly, I don't understand what sort of misplaced
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> available, no questions asked.  Not sure how to arrange it so the kids won't
> think I'm spying on them, but there must be a way.

The only thing that freaked me out about starting (at age 12) was that I
didn't have supplies of my own and would have to go into my mom's
supplies.  I'd seen the movies at school and heard the lecture from the
teacher (female) about our bodies and what to expect.

The funny thing was, some months later I was home, ill (again) and
started my period.  I went into the bathroom and took care of it.  Mom
was home from work that day (nurses aide) and remarked that she was so
glad that she'd told me all about puberty.  I told her that she didn't
and that I'd learned about puberty and periods from health class.  She
was so proud of me taking care of my "needs" that she announced it at
the dinner table.  I made sure not to let her know anything about my
periods after that.

With the kids, I put Mandy on the pill at age 16.  I knew that she and
Jim were going to be sexually active, no matter how much they protested
that it was the last thing on their minds.  I also buy condoms and dump
them in a drawer in the bathroom.  I never count how many there are.  I
just buy a box and put them in.  I figure that, while I might be
supplying all of their friends as well, it is better than hearing from
them or their parents how they are, or got as girl, pregnant.

Pam S.
Monique Y. Mudama - 25 Jan 2005 21:46 GMT
> With the kids, I put Mandy on the pill at age 16.  I knew that she and Jim
> were going to be sexually active, no matter how much they protested that it
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> friends as well, it is better than hearing from them or their parents how
> they are, or got as girl, pregnant.

Agreed 100%.  It's hard enough to convince kids to *use* condoms ... I'd just
as soon make it as easy as possible.

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Howard Berkowitz - 26 Jan 2005 00:21 GMT
> > That's horrible.  My mom's best friend also had the same experience and
> > thought she was dying.  Honestly, I don't understand what sort of
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> supplying all of their friends as well, it is better than hearing from
> them or their parents how they are, or got as girl, pregnant.

I often find it hard to think there's too much information in areas like
this. My ex-wife had a brilliant gynecologist, who had some unusual
educational techniques. When she judged a married couple could learn
from the experience, both in general knowledge and in knowing one
another's bodies, she would have (with the wife's permission), the
husband first observe pelvic exams, and then very carefully coached in
doing a basic one.

Going into that, I could have given a thorough textbook description of
the procedure and the anatomy, and certainly had practical experience.  
Nevertheless, both of us learned from the procedure.

It was a very different situation when she suddenly developed abdominal
pain, and we rushed to the ER. Our primary physician happened to be
there, and he joined in the workup. There is an informal Law of
Emergency Medicine "no woman of childbearing age, presenting with
abdominal pain, can be diagnosed without at least two consultants."

Unfortunately, Michael, the internist, had recently sprained his wrist
playing tennis. As he was examining my wife, there was a loud POP as one
of his tendons jerked, his wrist briefly dislocated, and both of them
screamed.

It happened all three of us were seeing the same hand specialist. After
she caught her breath, she thundered at him: "You will get me a note
from Bruce (the hand surgeon) before you get NEAR that part again."

Well, we told Bruce about the incident before Michael called him. Only
then did we remember Bruce had been a gynecologist before he went back
for orthopedic and hand surgery training. It probably took him five
minutes to get his composure, tears running down his face...and then he
called the internist. It was a fascinating lecture.
Seanette Blaylock - 26 Jan 2005 03:10 GMT
"Christina Websell" <spamfree@tinawebsell.wanadoo.co.uk> had some very
interesting things to say about Re: [OT] Tummy ache remedies?:

>My 14 y o experience was different.  It happened and I was afraid to tell my
>mother.  I tried to manage with toilet paper for two days, which is
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>confide,  I didn't.  Should have been talked about more, like it was normal.
>I thought I was bleeding to death and would definitely die.

My mother made sure I understood such matters years before it got
personal for me. She considered it a happy event when I started at 12.

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Tanada - 26 Jan 2005 15:43 GMT
> My mother made sure I understood such matters years before it got
> personal for me. She considered it a happy event when I started at 12.

We threw a coming of age party for Mandy when she started.  The cause of
the party (her periods) was not discussed, but she knew why we
celebrating just "then" and was pleased.  I like coming of age parties,
as children should have some distinction between being a kid and being
"grown up."

Pam S.
Tanada - 25 Jan 2005 21:13 GMT
> I honestly don't see what the big deal is. When my two (then) 14-year
> old nieces came to visit a couple of summers ago, they both decided to
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> me which one to get. I replied, how on earth would I know? Just pick the
> most expensive one, I'm sure it's good. :)

LOL, it is quite common for women who are related by genetics, distance,
or companionship to have their periods at the same time.  When I was
still having periods, my best friend and I would start within 24 hours
of each other.  So whoever started first would call the other.

I get a kick out of your reply to your nieces about the brands.  You
spoiled them a lot when they were visiting, didn't you.  I bet it was
because they both thought Tom is a hunk (he is) and adored the kitties.

Pam S. Laughing at poor Victor
Seanette Blaylock - 25 Jan 2005 03:51 GMT
Howard Berkowitz <hcb@gettcomm.com> had some very interesting things
to say about Re: [OT] Tummy ache remedies?:

>Any sensitivity on that sort of thing was burned out by my first wife.  
>I had had surgery for a pilonoidal cyst, a procedure that has a lot of
>postoperative bleeding in an awkward-to-bandage place. The practical
>solution is to tape sanitary pads to one's rear end.

My stepfather found them a reasonable solution to hemorrhoid problems
[funny, I always thought he *was* a PITA, not that he had such :-)].

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Christina Websell - 25 Jan 2005 19:59 GMT
>> Be more specific.  Are we talking about diarrhoea? Or vomiting?  Or both?
>> The euph.. upset stomach can cover both.
>
> Where is the TMI warning? ;-)

Sorry.  I'm used to talking about this stuff freely at work.  Seems normal
to me..
I am the office expert at spelling the word diarrhoea. ;-)
The word comes up many times a day.  It's lost any gross warning as far as
I'm concerned.
Where I work, we say it like it is.

Tweed
Margaret Fine - 23 Jan 2005 03:09 GMT
> [TMI (too much information) warning ... ]
>
[quoted text clipped - 12 lines]
> me that most women tolerate this pill very well; others are more known for
> having side effects.

Have you tried taking the pill with food or milk?  Even tho it may seem
unrelated to when you actually take the medication this might change the
absorption rate of the pill and help.

Also, have you tried taking tagamet or drinking coke when your tummy is
actively feeling bad?

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Howard Berkowitz - 23 Jan 2005 03:51 GMT
> > [TMI (too much information) warning ... ]
> >
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> Also, have you tried taking tagamet or drinking coke when your tummy is
> actively feeling bad?

I'll add on that coke syrup concentrate, with no other liquid, is better
for controlling nausea.
Monique Y. Mudama - 23 Jan 2005 04:23 GMT
>> Also, have you tried taking tagamet or drinking coke when your tummy is
>> actively feeling bad?
>
> I'll add on that coke syrup concentrate, with no other liquid, is better for
> controlling nausea.

What's the active ingredient that does the trick?  I really want to avoid
caffeine.

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Monique Y. Mudama - 23 Jan 2005 04:22 GMT
> Have you tried taking the pill with food or milk?  Even tho it may seem
> unrelated to when you actually take the medication this might change the
> absorption rate of the pill and help.

Hrm, interesting point.  The most "reliable" time for me seems to be about
11pm, so I haven't been taking it with food, though I'm not hungry, either.

Any excuse for a bedtime snack sounds good in my book!

> Also, have you tried taking tagamet or drinking coke when your tummy is
> actively feeling bad?

Hrm, no.  I get addicted to caffeine really quickly, so I work hard to avoid
it.  Does non-caffeinated coke have the same effect?  (Though imo that stuff
tastes NASTY!)

Haven't tried Tagamet ... I was kind of fishing for more "easy and
non-medicinal" options, but I guess I should have said that up front =)
Still, your point is well taken.

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Howard Berkowitz - 23 Jan 2005 04:42 GMT
> > Have you tried taking the pill with food or milk?  Even tho it may seem
> > unrelated to when you actually take the medication this might change
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> stuff
> tastes NASTY!)

If you use the syrup, probably -- indeed, almost any soda concentrate.
You see, one of the flavoring ingredients in most sodas is phosphoric
acid, which buffers the acidity of the stomach. The concentrated sugar
helps salt absorption.

> Haven't tried Tagamet ... I was kind of fishing for more "easy and
> non-medicinal" options, but I guess I should have said that up front =)
> Still, your point is well taken.
Rrb - 23 Jan 2005 05:17 GMT
>>Have you tried taking the pill with food or milk?  Even tho it may seem
>>unrelated to when you actually take the medication this might change the
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> it.  Does non-caffeinated coke have the same effect?  (Though imo that stuff
> tastes NASTY!)

My mom gave us either seven up or ginger ale. Either one always seemed
to work for an upset stomach. I still use it to this day as it works at
least for me.
pmendhall - 23 Jan 2005 05:39 GMT
Try taking the pill at a different time of day.  Sometimes that helps.

Diane

> Hrm, interesting point.  The most "reliable" time for me seems to be about
> 11pm, so I haven't been taking it with food, though I'm not hungry, either.
Monique Y. Mudama - 24 Jan 2005 19:45 GMT
> Try taking the pill at a different time of day.  Sometimes that helps.

This could be tough.  My schedule is pretty crazy, and 11pm is the time I
believe I'll most consistently be able to hit.

Even 11pm is impossible some days, as I'm in the middle of a hockey game.  My
body's always been pretty tolerant of variation in the Pill cycle -- I never
got spotting, even when I was 4 or 5 hours off or even a day -- but it's still
best to stick to the schedule as much as possible.

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jmcquown - 25 Jan 2005 18:10 GMT
>> Try taking the pill at a different time of day.  Sometimes that
>> helps.
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> even a day -- but it's still best to stick to the schedule as much as
> possible.

I don't recall how old you are but you'd best start thinking of alternative
methods before some doctor says you can't take this anymore.  I had to shell
out $400 for an IUD when I hit 40, and no, the IUD wasn't covered by my
insurance.  Then again, the pill wasn't covered by insurance until a year
before I had to stop taking the darned thing.  Go figure.

Jill
Monique Y. Mudama - 25 Jan 2005 20:32 GMT
> I don't recall how old you are but you'd best start thinking of alternative
> methods before some doctor says you can't take this anymore.  I had to shell
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>
> Jill

I'm 27, but what do you mean about not being able to take it anymore?  Is it
purely an age thing?

As I said, I'd been on depo (the injected stuff) for years before this, and I
was on a different pill before *that*.  The whole concept of an IUD scares me;
it's like having a little buzzsaw floating around inside you.  Okay, not
exactly, but it still seems scary and I think I've heard of complications.

A friend of mine also told me about a new insertable ring.  You put it in for
three weeks, then remove it for one.  It slowly releases the hormones.  She
said it was pretty cool and she couldn't feel it.

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>> I don't recall how old you are but you'd best start thinking of
>> alternative methods before some doctor says you can't take this
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> I'm 27, but what do you mean about not being able to take it anymore?
> Is it purely an age thing?

Think the men in the group are enjoying this? LOL

Yep, not recommended for women after age 40, especially when you've been on
it since you were 18.  Increased risk of stroke, etc.  Actually I was 41 and
by the time it needs to be replaced (10 years) I probably won't need it.
I'm already going through menopause.

> As I said, I'd been on depo (the injected stuff) for years before
> this, and I was on a different pill before *that*.  The whole concept
> of an IUD scares me; it's like having a little buzzsaw floating
> around inside you.  Okay, not exactly, but it still seems scary and I
> think I've heard of complications.

I had the "talk" with my doctor and the only problems were with the
(recalled) Dalkon Shield.  He said the other ones have proven to be
perfectly safe.  I don't even know it's there.

> A friend of mine also told me about a new insertable ring.  You put
> it in for three weeks, then remove it for one.  It slowly releases
> the hormones.  She said it was pretty cool and she couldn't feel it.

Sounds sort of like the old contraceptive sponge except you didn't leave the
sponge in for 3 weeks, more like 48 hours.  I'm not sure they still sell
those; there was a big scare about toxic shock syndrome.

Glad to hear your tummy isn't aching any more.  Isn't that always the way?
Kind of like taking your car to the mechanic and then (of course) it doesn't
make that weird sound anymore :)

Jill
Howard Berkowitz - 26 Jan 2005 00:32 GMT
> >> I don't recall how old you are but you'd best start thinking of
> >> alternative methods before some doctor says you can't take this
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> >
> Think the men in the group are enjoying this? LOL'

They tend to have enough problem with the Big Snip here.

> Yep, not recommended for women after age 40, especially when you've been
> on
> it since you were 18.  Increased risk of stroke, etc.  Actually I was 41
> and
> by the time it needs to be replaced (10 years) I probably won't need it.
> I'm already going through menopause.

The thinking on that is changing. If you look at the FDA approved PDR
entries for oral contraceptives, they now discuss the non-contraceptive
health benefits as well as risks. One of the challenges, in fact, is
whether or not the very low estrogen pills contain enough estrogen to
provide benefits.

I know birth control pills are over the counter in many countries, and
there's quite a strong argument for doing so in the US. My sense is that
there are enough nuances in picking (or finding over time) the right
pill, and monitoring for side effects, that they should stay on
prescription.

Given how misleading direct-to-the-consumer advertising can be, I simply
don't trust the manufacturers to give adequate information.

> > As I said, I'd been on depo (the injected stuff) for years before
> > this, and I was on a different pill before *that*.  The whole concept
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> sponge in for 3 weeks, more like 48 hours.  I'm not sure they still sell
> those; there was a big scare about toxic shock syndrome.

The problem turned out to be fairly specific to Rely super-absorbent
tampons, but there are rare cases with other products.  Let's put it
this way:  fever and rash, especially with any skin peeling, in a
menstruating woman should justify an ER visit.

> Glad to hear your tummy isn't aching any more.  Isn't that always the
> way?
> Kind of like taking your car to the mechanic and then (of course) it
> doesn't
> make that weird sound anymore :)
Monique Y. Mudama - 28 Jan 2005 19:42 GMT
> I know birth control pills are over the counter in many countries, and
> there's quite a strong argument for doing so in the US. My sense is that
> there are enough nuances in picking (or finding over time) the right pill,
> and monitoring for side effects, that they should stay on prescription.

I dunno.  Part of the reason I'm hesitant to try other pills is because I
don't feel like getting a new prescription every time.

Then again, she should probably have samples ... in fact, I seem to recall
getting a sample pack, rather than a true prescription, back in high school
... hrmmm ...

> Given how misleading direct-to-the-consumer advertising can be, I simply
> don't trust the manufacturers to give adequate information.

How misleading could birth control pill info possibly be?  They seem to be
pretty good about disclosing the side effects in their documentation ...

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bonbon - 23 Jan 2005 14:30 GMT
>Haven't tried Tagamet ...

>I was kind of fishing for more "easy and
>non-medicinal" options, but I guess I should have said that up front =)

Tell your Dr. you want to try a different pill.  There are many.

-bonbon
Monique Y. Mudama - 23 Jan 2005 15:31 GMT
> Tell your Dr. you want to try a different pill.  There are many.
>
>  -bonbon

It's been a week.  I figure this will likely settle down within the first
month.

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Seanette Blaylock - 23 Jan 2005 03:31 GMT
"Monique Y. Mudama" <spam@bounceswoosh.org> had some very interesting
things to say about [OT] Tummy ache remedies?:

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>So, after years on Depo, I decided to give my body a break and switch back to
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>me that most women tolerate this pill very well; others are more known for
>having side effects.

I had ongoing nausea [mild] while on the Pill [one reason I switched
off it], and on one brand I had horrendous psychological side effects.

Stomach settlers [this is what works for me. YMMAPDV]: ginger ale,
candied ginger, 7-Up, milk [sometimes], bananas.

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Monique Y. Mudama - 23 Jan 2005 04:19 GMT
> I had ongoing nausea [mild] while on the Pill [one reason I switched off
> it], and on one brand I had horrendous psychological side effects.

Oof!  I hope this doesn't continue for me.  I don't remember having any upset
stomach when I first got on the Pill umpteen years ago, but that was a
different brand ... and I doubt they even have the same formulation.

I remember being very emotional back then, but then, I was a teenager, so it
could easily have just been typical teenage hormones.  Hard to say.

> Stomach settlers [this is what works for me. YMMAPDV]: ginger ale, candied
> ginger, 7-Up, milk [sometimes], bananas.

Well, straight-up milk doesn't tend to like me, but ginger ale and 7-up sound
like good options.  Bananas?  Really?  Weird.

BTW, what does YMMAPDV stand for?  Google doesn't recognize it.  I assume it's
related to YMMV.

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Seanette Blaylock - 23 Jan 2005 04:48 GMT
"Monique Y. Mudama" <spam@bounceswoosh.org> had some very interesting
things to say about Re: [OT] Tummy ache remedies?:

>Well, straight-up milk doesn't tend to like me, but ginger ale and 7-up sound
>like good options.  Bananas?  Really?  Weird.

LIS, works for me. :-)

>BTW, what does YMMAPDV stand for?  Google doesn't recognize it.  I assume it's
>related to YMMV.

It is. Your Mileage May And Probably Does Vary. :-)

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Yowie - 23 Jan 2005 11:41 GMT
> > I had ongoing nausea [mild] while on the Pill [one reason I switched off
> > it], and on one brand I had horrendous psychological side effects.
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> Well, straight-up milk doesn't tend to like me, but ginger ale and 7-up sound
> like good options.  Bananas?  Really?  Weird.

Oh, I forgot to put bananas in my list! Bananas are great!

Yowie
Monique Y. Mudama - 24 Jan 2005 19:39 GMT
> Oh, I forgot to put bananas in my list! Bananas are great!

I really *must* stock up on these things more often.  I should be doing so
anyway, as my typical schedule has me sore at least three days of the week.

(Why is there no English word specifically for sore muscles resulting from
exertion?  In German it's "Muskelkater."   Which brings this confusingly back
to being on-topic, as Kater is the German word for tomcat.)

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badwilson - 25 Jan 2005 02:26 GMT
> > Oh, I forgot to put bananas in my list! Bananas are great!
>
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> exertion?  In German it's "Muskelkater."   Which brings this confusingly back
> to being on-topic, as Kater is the German word for tomcat.)

Yes, I wonder about that too.  Muskelkater is an excellent word and
everyone knows what you're talking about.  In English you have to say
"I have sore muscles from my workout/hike/whatever".  It's just so
much more complicated.  I guess there's DOMS (delayed onset muscle
soreness), but most people wouldn't get what you meant by that.
I used to get very sore, especially after leg day.  I had a 4 or 5 day
split and it ended up that I only did every body part once a week.
I've switched to a full body workout every second day (cardio on
non-weight days) and now I don't get DOMS anymore, unless I've taken a
week or so off and start up again.  It's really much better for me
this way.
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Monique Y. Mudama - 25 Jan 2005 20:48 GMT
> Yes, I wonder about that too.  Muskelkater is an excellent word and
> everyone knows what you're talking about.  In English you have to say
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> week or so off and start up again.  It's really much better for me
> this way.

There's definitely an adjustment period to any workout.  Right now my schedule
is pretty spastic.  I have ice hockey on fridays or sundays, usually ski on
saturday, and there's a martial arts class monday and thursday, but I usually
only make it to the thursday one.  I still feel like I'm not doing much,
though.  Over the summer, I ride my mountain bike every day I can get away
with it.  I tried riding literally every day, but it was too much.  I guess
the body needs to rest now and then.

If I'm not just a little bit sore somewhere, I'm pretty sure I'm not doing
enough!

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Sherry - 23 Jan 2005 05:08 GMT
>Stomach settlers [this is what works for me. YMMAPDV]: ginger ale,
>candied ginger, 7-Up, milk [sometimes], bananas.

Ack, memories. My mom's remedy for a sick stomach was 7-up and a cold washcloth
on your neck.
I can't drink 7-up to this day. It reminds me too much of being sick.
Sherry
mlbriggs - 23 Jan 2005 05:32 GMT
>>Stomach settlers [this is what works for me. YMMAPDV]: ginger ale,
>>candied ginger, 7-Up, milk [sometimes], bananas.
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> I can't drink 7-up to this day. It reminds me too much of being sick.
> Sherry

Guess I tend to be a worrywart, but every time I hear about repeated
stomach pain I wonder about appendicitis.  
Howard Berkowitz - 23 Jan 2005 13:59 GMT
> >>Stomach settlers [this is what works for me. YMMAPDV]: ginger ale,
> >>candied ginger, 7-Up, milk [sometimes], bananas.
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> Guess I tend to be a worrywart, but every time I hear about repeated
> stomach pain I wonder about appendicitis.  

While appendicitis can be chronic, that's rare. In general, an attack
will be serious enough that you'll want medical attention for the pain.
It's not as easy to diagnose as many people believe, and, surprisingly,
it's considered desirable that 10-20% of the appendices removed by a
surgeon are normal. If the percentage is close to zero, the surgeon is
waiting too long, and may be risking much more serious complications of
delay.

An appendectomy, for surgery, is a low-risk operation, often done
laparoscopically these days. When the surgeon really isn't sure,
actually looking at the appendix may be the best course of action. While
in the belly, the surgeon can also look for other causes. Regardless of
what is found, the appendix is ALWAYS removed, so that some future
physician won't see an appendectomy scar and assume the problem can't be
appendicitis.

Recurrent pain does need evaluation. Keeping a diary of times,
mealtimes, etc., can help.  It's worth noting that about 85% of ulcers
are completely curable wi