Hi, everyone!
It's been a while since I've posted here on a regular basis. Most of the
time I've been posting in fits and starts, during the past few years.
But now I'm here to share some sad and happy news.
The sad news: I did post this on catslaves, but didn't have the heart to
post it twice, so I never quite managed to make my way to RPCA. Last fall,
starting in the middle of October, Harmony's appetite started to fail.
The next four weeks consisted of trips to the vet, blood tests, and meds
for appetite, nausea, and antibiotics (to fix her far-too-elevated white
blood cell count). The vet suggested an ultrasound, but the timing was
bad. First, I needed to wait for a payday, and then I had to wait because
the person who operates the ultrasound was on vacation.
The symptoms, unfortunately, were pointing toward a diagnosis of cancer,
as the vet could feel that Harmony's intestines were thickened. But we
needed the ultrasound to confirm or disprove that theory.
Meanwhile, even with me using a syringe to feed her soft cat food, and
eventually giving her subcutaneous fluids because her lack of appetite was
causing her to become dehydrated, her weight continued to drop.
Unfortunately, we never managed to get the ultrasound. On November 21,
Harmony was extremely weak, and I suspected that she was going to be
leaving for the Bridge soon. She was curled in her cat bed, the one place
she seemed to want to be during the last few days.
So I took her, IN the cat bed, upstairs from the basement. It was too cold
down there, and I didn't want her to spend her final hours alone. She used
to love to sit next to me on the extended foot of the recliner on the end
of our sofa. I'd lay down, she'd lay down next to me, and all would be
right with the world. So that's where I set her cat bed. I lay down
next to her, giving her an occaisonal pet on her side and telling her
how beautiful she was and how much I loved her. Some time after midnight,
we both fell asleep.
When I woke suddenly at about 4 AM, I reached over to pet Harmony, and
that was when I realized that she had passed peacefully in her sleep. She
was 14.5 years old, and as loved of a cat as there ever could be.
And I missed her. Moreover, losing her triggered me to miss her other two
adopted sisters who preceded her to the RB, Misty and Melody. For 28 of my
41 years, I've had at least one cat, and it hurt terribly not to have that
extra brightness that a loving feline brings to one's day.
So I talked it over with my husband, and last week we went to the local
PetSmart. It opened recently, and it has partnered with the Morris Animal
Refuge to help rehome animals.
We filled out the paperwork to be approved to adopt. It was approved, so
we visited the animal refuge this afternoon.
And started the process of adopting two 9-month-old boykitties. I love
them already. I don't think they are biologically related, but they are
about the same age, and they were both brought in as strays. They're
already friends, and they are two incredible love sponges. :o) My
goodness, what purr motors they have!
No cat will replace Harmony. Ditto for Melody and Misty. I was honored to
be their Meowmy for 14.5, 13.5, and 10 years, respectively, and I'm a
better human for having loved each of those cats.
But now it's time to honor their memories, which I'll cherish forever, by
providing a OneTrueHome to two more cats in need.
So please purr that the blood tests, neutering, etc, turn out all right
for my two soon-to-be-spoiled cats. The sooner all those things are
accomplished, the sooner I can bring the boys home. And then we'll have a
REAL home again, the kind that includes both humans AND cats.
Donna (with a couple of names in mind for the new kitties, but I'll
"announce" them once I'm sure the names fit)
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Helen Wheels - 16 Jan 2005 05:55 GMT
> Hi, everyone!
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> Donna (with a couple of names in mind for the new kitties, but I'll
> "announce" them once I'm sure the names fit)
I'm so sorry to hear about Harmony - she sounds well-loved indeed.
Curled up next to her favourite person sounds to me like the nicest way
of all to go.
Great news that you've found two new little pals - we'll all be looking
forward to more news!
Julie Cook - 16 Jan 2005 05:56 GMT
Donna,
We let a candle for Harmony when she made the journey to the Bridge and
Hobbes, Selena, Lacey and Sam purred her on her way. I know how you
must miss her but I'm sure she would be pleased to know you want to
honor her memory by giving the two boycats a OneTrueHome. And the two
boys don't know how lucky they are ...yet. Purrs on the say that
everything works out for you and your DH and that the boys are home very
soon.
Julie, Hobbes, Selena, Lacey and Sam
> Hi, everyone!
>
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> Donna (with a couple of names in mind for the new kitties, but I'll
> "announce" them once I'm sure the names fit)
mlbriggs - 16 Jan 2005 06:00 GMT
> Hi, everyone!
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> Donna (with a couple of names in mind for the new kitties, but I'll
> "announce" them once I'm sure the names fit)
Sending purrs for a perfect match. Congratulations.
Christine Burel - 16 Jan 2005 06:34 GMT
A beautiful tribute to Harmony and your dear RB kitties, Donna. I am so
sorry for your loss. I cannot think of a more honorable way to treasure
your kitties' memories than by doing what you are doing for these two
strays. Many purrs for these lucky kitties to have good check-ups; looking
forward to hearing more about them!
Christine
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Melissa Houle - 16 Jan 2005 07:06 GMT
> Hi, everyone!
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> So I took her, IN the cat bed, upstairs from the basement. It was too cold
> down there, and I didn't want her to spend her final hours alone. She used
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> that was when I realized that she had passed peacefully in her sleep. She
> was 14.5 years old, and as loved of a cat as there ever could be.
That sounds like the most perfect way of all to let a loved companion pass
to the Rainbow Bridge. Harmony was with you, and at home among her beloved,
familiar surroundings, and it was gentle and natural end. But I know how
sad that parting is for we humans who must remain behind for now. I
certainly missed my dear Isadora when I had to send her across the Rainbow
Bridge last spring. She had been a cat with enormous personality.
> And I missed her. Moreover, losing her triggered me to miss her other two
> adopted sisters who preceded her to the RB, Misty and Melody. For 28 of my
> 41 years, I've had at least one cat, and it hurt terribly not to have that
> extra brightness that a loving feline brings to one's day.
Hugs, I know that was hard. I was lucky in that I still had Panther alive
at home waiting for me when I came back from the Vet with Izzy's empty,
terribly light carrier. It was a huge comfort to come home and find a still
living cat there.
> So I talked it over with my husband, and last week we went to the local
> PetSmart. It opened recently, and it has partnered with the Morris Animal
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> Donna (with a couple of names in mind for the new kitties, but I'll
> "announce" them once I'm sure the names fit)
I hope the boys both get clean bills of health. =o) They don't know how
lucky they are to have found a forever home with a loving Meowmie. The
best way to find comfort after losing a beloved animal is... to find someone
new to love. =o)
Melissa
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Marina - 16 Jan 2005 08:32 GMT
> Donna (with a couple of names in mind for the new kitties, but I'll
> "announce" them once I'm sure the names fit)
Nice to see you Donna. So sorry about your loss, but glad that you
decided to open up your home and heart to two new additions to the
family. Can't wait for names and pics!

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Krista - 16 Jan 2005 09:30 GMT
> Hi, everyone!
>
> It's been a while since I've posted here on a regular basis. Most of the
> time I've been posting in fits and starts, during the past few years.
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I am sorry to read about Harmony, but happy you have found a couple of
new guys to love. We're sending out purrs, and looking forward to
reading more about the kittens.
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Krista
Victor Martinez - 16 Jan 2005 16:23 GMT
> When I woke suddenly at about 4 AM, I reached over to pet Harmony, and
> that was when I realized that she had passed peacefully in her sleep. She
> was 14.5 years old, and as loved of a cat as there ever could be.
I'm so very sorry for your loss. However, that is the absolute best way
to go, peacefully in one's sleep.
> No cat will replace Harmony. Ditto for Melody and Misty. I was honored to
Cats don't have replacements, merely successors.
> accomplished, the sooner I can bring the boys home. And then we'll have a
> REAL home again, the kind that includes both humans AND cats.
Absolutely! A house is not a home without cats.

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Ginger-lyn Summer - 16 Jan 2005 18:01 GMT
>Hi, everyone!
>
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>Donna (with a couple of names in mind for the new kitties, but I'll
>"announce" them once I'm sure the names fit)
Donna, I am so sorry about Harmony. {{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}
But congratulations on the new additions. I will be purring for all
testing and snipping to go smoothly :-)
Ginger-lyn
Sam Nash - 16 Jan 2005 21:42 GMT
> Hi, everyone!
>
> It's been a while since I've posted here on a regular basis. Most of the
> time I've been posting in fits and starts, during the past few years.
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Glad to see you back, Donna. So sorry to hear about Harmony but we'll rev
up the twin purr-motors of Smokey and Mistletoe for the adoption to proceed
without a hitch.
Sam
Tanada - 17 Jan 2005 03:07 GMT
> So please purr that the blood tests, neutering, etc, turn out all right
> for my two soon-to-be-spoiled cats. The sooner all those things are
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> Donna (with a couple of names in mind for the new kitties, but I'll
> "announce" them once I'm sure the names fit)
Purrs and hopes for you to be adopted by the two boy kitties. Please
keep us informed on the adoption and your future owners.
Pam, Rob, and the Fayetteville Five + Calvin and Speedy the d-thing
O J - 17 Jan 2005 04:39 GMT
Donna wrote:
>Hi, everyone!
>
>It's been a while since I've posted here on a regular basis. Most of the
>time I've been posting in fits and starts, during the past few years.
>
>But now I'm here to share some sad and happy news.
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Your tale reminds me very much of the way my beloved Misty passed.
Like you, I began to find the space in my heart for some new kitties
to love. I hope you and your DH have the chance to share the great
times that we've been lucky enough have with our Sumo and Natasha who
picked me out when I went to the shelter.
Regards and Purrs,
O J
Exocat - 17 Jan 2005 07:55 GMT
So sorry for your loss of much-loved Harmony (as well as the others
earlier) but it certainly was a lovely way for her to go, sleeping next
to her beloved Mum, aware even in sleep, as all cats seem to be, that
you were there.
And many concatulations on your new owners: may your years together be
rich with joy, laughter love and fulfilment, and also extremely high in
number.
Purrs
Gordon, Bandit, Pericles & Snowball
> It's been a while since I've posted here on a regular basis. Most of
> the
> time I've been posting in fits and starts, during the past few years.
>
> But now I'm here to share some sad and happy news.
polonca12000 - 17 Jan 2005 10:22 GMT
I'm so very sorry to hear about Harmony.
I'm sure your two new owners will be very happy with you.
Hugs and purrs,

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> Hi, everyone!
>
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> post it twice, so I never quite managed to make my way to RPCA. Last fall,
> starting in the middle of October, Harmony's appetite started to fail.
<snip>
> So please purr that the blood tests, neutering, etc, turn out all right
> for my two soon-to-be-spoiled cats. The sooner all those things are
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>
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Adrian - 17 Jan 2005 11:59 GMT
> Hi, everyone!
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>
> But now I'm here to share some sad and happy news.
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I will light a candle for Harmony, it's so hard to let them go. My
Snoopy will be 15 in March, I'm dreading her passing, I don't know if
I'll cope. Welcome to your boys, I hope we'll be reading lots of stories
about them. If they want some tips on causing mayhem, they should
contact B&C.

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