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Tanada - 14 Jan 2005 21:15 GMT
Ok, I'm curious.  What does everyone in here do for tuna money?  I know
we have some, ok a lot, of computer geeks, educators (or what passes for
one) and so forth.  You don't have to be any more specific than you
want, but I confess to being extremely curious.  If you're currently out
of work, you don't have to say so, just list your career field.

I am a Substitute Teacher for Cumberland Co. North Carolina, married to
a Blackhawk mechanic/inspector who is medically retired from the US army.

Pam S.
Monique Y. Mudama - 14 Jan 2005 21:23 GMT
> Ok, I'm curious.  What does everyone in here do for tuna money?  I know we
> have some, ok a lot, of computer geeks, educators (or what passes for one)
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> I am a Substitute Teacher for Cumberland Co. North Carolina, married to a
> Blackhawk mechanic/inspector who is medically retired from the US army.

I'm a computer geek married to a computer geek!

I'm a s/w engineer, currently in the aerospace field, and my husband Eric is a
firmware engineer at a hard drive company.

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Howard Berkowitz - 15 Jan 2005 00:45 GMT
I'm a networking and medical geek, I suppose. On the network side, I've
both been a researcher and developer, mostly on high-end routing for
core Internet providers and for life-critical networks. While it's hard
to sell advanced books in this economy, I've published four textbooks. I
like to consider myself an engineer who teaches rather than a "trainer",
but my major contracts at the moment are for developing advanced
Internet engineering courses.

Originally, I was a chemistry major, and while I dropped out into
computer science, I try to get to a fair bit of medical continuing
education, especially with so much on-line. I do work on and off with a
firm that does clinical automation, and I combine the odd roles (as
Chief Technology Officer) of both creating and enforcing software
engineering, but also being the point of contact to physicians,
demonstrating that we understand what they are trying to do. One of my
favorite areas is expert systems for prescribing.

Some of this comes together in planning disaster response facilities. I
was the network consultant, for example, for the US government Y2K
center.
Karen - 14 Jan 2005 21:26 GMT
I work for a small independant telecommunications company by day and teach 2
sessions of art online for Saint Leo's Uni the rest of the time. Once a
month I troubleshoot internet problems for another small company. (I don't
know why, but they don't want me to completely quit. )  There you go. Keeps
'em in kitty beds.

> Ok, I'm curious.  What does everyone in here do for tuna money?  I know
> we have some, ok a lot, of computer geeks, educators (or what passes for
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>
> Pam S.
Christine Burel - 14 Jan 2005 21:32 GMT
> Ok, I'm curious.  What does everyone in here do for tuna money?  I know
> we have some, ok a lot, of computer geeks, educators (or what passes for
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>
> Pam S.

B.A. Journalism
Worked as tech editor/tech writer; traffic person for radio and tv stations.
Mom since 15 years+
Currently working part-time as a book merchandiser for various retail
stores.
Christine
Cheryl Perkins - 14 Jan 2005 22:03 GMT
Office worker.

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Stormin Mormon - 16 Jan 2005 03:47 GMT
Bachelor.
Neighbor.
US Citzen.
Churchgoing man.
Priesthood holder.
Survivalist.
Locksmith.
Heating and AC repairman / installer.
Refrigeration repair / installer
Single adult seeking future wife
Piano student

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Nan - 14 Jan 2005 21:44 GMT
>Ok, I'm curious.  What does everyone in here do for tuna money?  I know
>we have some, ok a lot, of computer geeks, educators (or what passes for
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>
>Pam S.

Retired bookkeeper on Social Security, a small IRA, and a VERY small
retirement check (which just about covers my medical insurance and
medications).

Nan
Sherry - 15 Jan 2005 16:30 GMT
>>Ok, I'm curious.  What does everyone in here do for tuna money?  I know
>>we have some, ok a lot, of computer geeks, educators (or what passes for
>>one) and so forth.

Before desktop publishing was ever heard of, I was a "typesetter." There's  a
word you don't hear anymore.
More recently I managed the art department at a metro newspaper and did ad
design / layout, page layout, etc. Then my health just didn't allow me to work
anymore.
Now I think I'm what you call a recluse.

Sherry
CK - 15 Jan 2005 17:10 GMT
> Before desktop publishing was ever heard of, I was a "typesetter." There's  a
> word you don't hear anymore.
<snip>

My mom was a typesetter when she was young too, building up the text
from the individual characters made out of metal. Then she went on to
doing it on computer-like machines, not so computer-like in the
beginning tho, they were loud machines as they operated on pressurized
air, punching holes into a ribbon of paper - that was the text. In her
later years and up until she retired, she worked in sales - selling
printed products such as business cards, forms, letterhead papers,
whatever anyone would want to have printed.

You two might have a thing or two to talk about if you ever met... :)

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Sherry - 15 Jan 2005 19:36 GMT
>My mom was a typesetter when she was young too, building up the text
>from the individual characters made out of metal. Then she went on to
>doing it on computer-like machines, not so computer-like in the
>beginning tho, they were loud machines as they operated on pressurized
>air, punching holes into a ribbon of paper - that was the text.

YES. Your mom either worked with Compugraphic or Verityper. Back then, setting
up print jobs was a real craft, and took a lot of skill. You couldn't "see"
what you were creating until it was finished, ran the punched tape through the
machine and you developed the film. If you were typing a long legal notice, and
lost your place, it was a nightmare to figure out from the punched tape where
you left off.  Imagine doing desktop publishing without a monitor. That's what
it was like. Still I loved it though. I remember when Compugraphic came out
with the Unisetter, and you could see your text one line at a time. I though,
wow, that's for wimps.
Your mom & I *would* have a lot to talk about!

Sherry

In her
>later years and up until she retired, she worked in sales - selling
>printed products such as business cards, forms, letterhead papers,
>whatever anyone would want to have printed.
>
>You two might have a thing or two to talk about if you ever met... :)
Pat - 15 Jan 2005 20:00 GMT
> >My mom was a typesetter when she was young too, building up the text
> >from the individual characters made out of metal. Then she went on to
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> wow, that's for wimps.
> Your mom & I *would* have a lot to talk about!

And I remember when Compugraphic first developed "computerized
phototypesetting". I worked for a magazine in Boston that used this behemoth
machine. Errors could be corrected and files could be saved. It had special
command keys. They refined the machine over the years and made it smaller
and smaller, and more efficient. But when I worked on it you needed several
strong men to move it away from the wall enough to do any repairs in the
back.
CK - 15 Jan 2005 20:15 GMT
>>My mom was a typesetter when she was young too, building up the text
>>from the individual characters made out of metal. Then she went on to
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
>
> Sherry

I've been racking my brain since this last post and now I remember she
called the noisy machine a Monotype. Then there were also Linotype
machines. In those days she worked for a fairly large printing house
that made most of the calendars in Finland as well as other big printed
items, such as sets of encyclopaedias - still have a set she got cheap
when working there, it's dated in the 1970's. Oh well, the old guys are
still the same, but some of the newer ones may have kicked the bucket
since then...

My parents speak English too, so you actually *could* talk, if you did
happen to meet, however remote that chance is.

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Howard Berkowitz - 15 Jan 2005 22:09 GMT
> >>My mom was a typesetter when she was young too, building up the text
> >>from the individual characters made out of metal. Then she went on to
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> My parents speak English too, so you actually *could* talk, if you did
> happen to meet, however remote that chance is.

From a friend who was a newspaper typesetter, I learned that it was
quite common, in the US, to have deaf Linotype operators -- it was
considered an advantage for the high noise environment of those
machines. Hearing typesetters were generally not accepted until they had
at least working sign language fluency.

Was this the case in other countries?
CK - 15 Jan 2005 22:43 GMT
> From a friend who was a newspaper typesetter, I learned that it was
> quite common, in the US, to have deaf Linotype operators -- it was
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>
> Was this the case in other countries?

Not as far as I know, at least concerning Finland, but then again I was
around 10-12 years old when my mom worked for that company. I only
remember her complaining about the noise.

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Jean Hobbs - 17 Jan 2005 09:16 GMT
Another very noisy place to work was a mill, I was a weaver for a couple of
yrs when I was about 16and you couldn't hear yourself speak let alone anyone
else,
when we met new boys we'd tell them we were *shuttle typists* as we didn't
like to say we were mill workers.guess we were just little snobs
              Jean.P.

> > From a friend who was a newspaper typesetter, I learned that it was
> > quite common, in the US, to have deaf Linotype operators -- it was
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> christal63 (at) yahoo (dot) com
> photos: http://photos.yahoo.com/christal63
jmcquown - 15 Jan 2005 17:48 GMT
>>> Ok, I'm curious.  What does everyone in here do for tuna money?  I
>>> know
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> Before desktop publishing was ever heard of, I was a "typesetter."
> There's  a word you don't hear anymore.

LOL  I learned programming on punch cards.

> More recently I managed the art department at a metro newspaper and
> did ad design / layout, page layout, etc. Then my health just didn't
> allow me to work anymore.
> Now I think I'm what you call a recluse.
>
> Sherry

Jill <---also a recluse
Yowie - 15 Jan 2005 22:18 GMT
> >>> Ok, I'm curious.  What does everyone in here do for tuna money?  I
> >>> know
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>
> Jill <---also a recluse

Nah, you and Sherry are just in the training period for the position of
"Crazy Cat Lady". You've both got the "recluse" bit workedout, but you both
need several dozen more cats before you get your official "Crazy Cat Lady"
diploma ;-)

Yowie
jmcquown - 16 Jan 2005 16:32 GMT
>>>>> Ok, I'm curious.  What does everyone in here do for tuna money?
>>>
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>
> Yowie

Hmmm, my manager dropped the monthly pet fee for Persia (and birds don't
'count' as pets for some reason) but I'm not sure she would be able to do
that if I had half a dozen cats.  Not to mention, Persia wouldn't tolerate
any interlopers!

Jill
Ginger-lyn Summer - 16 Jan 2005 18:09 GMT
>Nah, you and Sherry are just in the training period for the position of
>"Crazy Cat Lady". You've both got the "recluse" bit workedout, but you both
>need several dozen more cats before you get your official "Crazy Cat Lady"
>diploma ;-)
>
>Yowie

I am officially a Crazy Cat Lady, because I have the CCL Action
Figure.  And because all the neighborhood kids know this is where the
stray cats go, and point to my door and say "That's where the Cat Lady
lives!".

Ginger-lyn
Certified Crazy Cat Lady
Tanada - 17 Jan 2005 03:23 GMT
> I am officially a Crazy Cat Lady, because I have the CCL Action
> Figure.  And because all the neighborhood kids know this is where the
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> Ginger-lyn
> Certified Crazy Cat Lady

Not only do I have a floating ownership of between 5 and 10 cats, but an
enclosure and the neighbors all send the strays over to our house to ask
us to take care of them.

Pam S. who is certified, or ought to be
O J - 17 Jan 2005 08:00 GMT
>Jill wrote...

---------------------<snip>----------------------
>> > More recently I managed the art department at a metro newspaper and
>> > did ad design / layout, page layout, etc. Then my health just didn't
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
>
>Yowie

Respectfully, I have to disagree.  While a dozen or more cats is
definitely an asset if one aspires to be a "Crazy Cat Lady", some
people are able to make it work with as few as two or three.

Regards and Purrs,
O J
Victor Martinez - 17 Jan 2005 13:49 GMT
> Respectfully, I have to disagree.  While a dozen or more cats is
> definitely an asset if one aspires to be a "Crazy Cat Lady", some
> people are able to make it work with as few as two or three.

I must take exception to the obvious sexist nature of the term "Crazy
Cat Lady". There are plenty of us guys out there who might share the
same passion/obsession. :)

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Marina - 17 Jan 2005 14:08 GMT
> I must take exception to the obvious sexist nature of the term "Crazy
> Cat Lady". There are plenty of us guys out there who might share the
> same passion/obsession. :)

Hehehehe, says he with the seven cats.

So what would be PC, Mentally Unstable Cat Person?

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jmcquown - 17 Jan 2005 18:18 GMT
>> Respectfully, I have to disagree.  While a dozen or more cats is
>> definitely an asset if one aspires to be a "Crazy Cat Lady", some
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> Cat Lady". There are plenty of us guys out there who might share the
> same passion/obsession. :)

What would be PC?  Crazy Cat People springs to mind....

Jill
Victor Martinez - 17 Jan 2005 19:05 GMT
> What would be PC?  Crazy Cat People springs to mind....

Crazy Cat Person is gender-inclusive... :)

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Nik Simpson - 17 Jan 2005 23:36 GMT
>>>Respectfully, I have to disagree.  While a dozen or more cats is
>>>definitely an asset if one aspires to be a "Crazy Cat Lady", some
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>
> What would be PC?  Crazy Cat People springs to mind....

Perhaps it would be "Mentally Divergent Cat People", "Crazy" is
definitely not PC :-)

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Christina Websell - 18 Jan 2005 01:25 GMT
>>>>Respectfully, I have to disagree.  While a dozen or more cats is
>>>>definitely an asset if one aspires to be a "Crazy Cat Lady", some
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
> Perhaps it would be "Mentally Divergent Cat People", "Crazy" is definitely
> not PC :-)

Crazy is absolutely not PC.  From my stance as a local government employee,
PC'd to death for years, this is what would be acceptable to us:
Cat person with mental health problems.

Tweed
Tanada - 17 Jan 2005 23:55 GMT
>>>Respectfully, I have to disagree.  While a dozen or more cats is
>>>definitely an asset if one aspires to be a "Crazy Cat Lady", some
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>
> Jill

A rather strange and warped cat.  He's currently working on ways to get
back at the d-thing for continually sticking his nose up PC's butt and
scaring him.

Pam S. amused by the communication between the two species
Adrian - 16 Jan 2005 12:11 GMT
>>>> Ok, I'm curious.  What does everyone in here do for tuna money?  I
>>>> know
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>
> LOL  I learned programming on punch cards.

Did you ever drop a bunch of them?

> Jill <---also a recluse
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jmcquown - 16 Jan 2005 16:29 GMT
>>>>> Ok, I'm curious.  What does everyone in here do for tuna money?  I
>>>>> know
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>>
>> Jill <---also a recluse

GAK!  Yes, but I had been told to number the cards (whew)  I would have
failed that class for sure otherwise.
Sam Nash - 16 Jan 2005 21:07 GMT
>>>>>> Ok, I'm curious.  What does everyone in here do for tuna money?  I
>>>>>> know
[quoted text clipped - 12 lines]
> GAK!  Yes, but I had been told to number the cards (whew)  I would have
> failed that class for sure otherwise.

Hey, Jill!  Did you ever have the "pleasure" or resequencing a 4000-card
tray that you dropped when you stepped on a pencil that rolled?  I have.
Sam
Tanada - 17 Jan 2005 03:27 GMT
>>LOL  I learned programming on punch cards.
>
> Did you ever drop a bunch of them?

The computer at the first college I attended "spoke" Fortran, which used
punch cards.  One of my friends worked in the computer lab and came up
with a program to put musical "notes" on cards shuffle them up and feed
them through the computer.  Some of the compositions were pretty good,
some stank.

Pam S. who loved that old computer for the chips she got rid of an old
room mate with
Bill Stock - 15 Jan 2005 20:59 GMT
>>>Ok, I'm curious.  What does everyone in here do for tuna money?  I know
>>>we have some, ok a lot, of computer geeks, educators (or what passes for
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
>
> Sherry

It's always been my aspiration to be a recluse. :)

Right now I'm a Finance/IT cross.
Tanada - 17 Jan 2005 03:28 GMT
>>>>Ok, I'm curious.  What does everyone in here do for tuna money?  I know
>>>>we have some, ok a lot, of computer geeks, educators (or what passes for
[quoted text clipped - 12 lines]
>
> It's always been my aspiration to be a recluse. :)

Mine too.  I wanna be a recluse.

Pam S. who's discussed this with family
Ginger-lyn Summer - 16 Jan 2005 18:07 GMT
>>>Ok, I'm curious.  What does everyone in here do for tuna money?  I know
>>>we have some, ok a lot, of computer geeks, educators (or what passes for
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
>
>Sherry

Oh, yeah.  I was a typesetter many years ago, both with punchtape at
J. C. Penney and then with the Compugraphic line-at-a-time machine at
the student newspaper in college.  Memories . . . light the corner of
my mind ;-)

Ginger-lyn
Jill of All Trades ;-)
jmcquown - 16 Jan 2005 21:40 GMT
>>>> Ok, I'm curious.  What does everyone in here do for tuna money?  I
>>>> know
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> Ginger-lyn
> Jill of All Trades ;-)

ROFL  That reminds me of a funny.  When I worked at Prudential in the 80's
we had a new regional VP.  He was showing some clients around and tried to
introduce me as a "Jack of All Trades" but he said, "She's basically a
Jackass - uh, Jack-ESS! of all Trades"

Jill
Marina - 17 Jan 2005 04:31 GMT
> ROFL  That reminds me of a funny.  When I worked at Prudential in the 80's
> we had a new regional VP.  He was showing some clients around and tried to
> introduce me as a "Jack of All Trades" but he said, "She's basically a
> Jackass - uh, Jack-ESS! of all Trades"

ROFL!

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Bev - 16 Jan 2005 18:50 GMT
> >>Ok, I'm curious.  What does everyone in here do for tuna money?  I know
> >>we have some, ok a lot, of computer geeks, educators (or what passes for
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
>
> Sherry

Sherry, I did typesetting for a couple of years.   I worked for a
newspaper and as we typed our words came out on a sort of tape as a
series of dots.   You had to learn the code.   The tapes were then fed
into a typesetting machine.   It was a step forward from the linotype
setters.   You had to be a very fast typist.   Interesting.

Bev
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William Hamblen - 16 Jan 2005 20:39 GMT
>> >>Ok, I'm curious.  What does everyone in here do for tuna money?  I know
>> >>we have some, ok a lot, of computer geeks, educators (or what passes for
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
>into a typesetting machine.   It was a step forward from the linotype
>setters.   You had to be a very fast typist.   Interesting.

If you belonged to the union you were a typographer. :)

My late uncle set hot metal type for years.  He retired just as the
newspaper was getting the Photon machines.
Bev - 16 Jan 2005 20:54 GMT
> >> >>Ok, I'm curious.  What does everyone in here do for tuna money?  I know
> >> >>we have some, ok a lot, of computer geeks, educators (or what passes for
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> My late uncle set hot metal type for years.  He retired just as the
> newspaper was getting the Photon machines.

I did belong to the union.   I can remember that women were paid the
same as men, not common in those days.  Another memory was telling DH I
had to be at work early.    "Why?", he asked.   "We are going to go on
strike," I said, rofl.  It was a militant union.  I also remember one of
the subs touching a linotype machine.   We all downed tools in a second
and the paper was late.

Bev
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Jean Hobbs - 17 Jan 2005 09:05 GMT
> >Ok, I'm curious.  What does everyone in here do for tuna money?  I know
> >we have some, ok a lot, of computer geeks, educators (or what passes for
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>
> Nan
Nan - 17 Jan 2005 15:28 GMT
>Didn't know you were in the IRA Nan, LOL   Jean.P.

LOL Sorry, Individual Retirement Account.

Nan
Victor Martinez - 14 Jan 2005 21:51 GMT
> I am a Substitute Teacher for Cumberland Co. North Carolina, married to
> a Blackhawk mechanic/inspector who is medically retired from the US army.

I am a process control engineer kinda married to a TV producer and host,
writer, teacher, and garden designer.

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Monique Y. Mudama - 14 Jan 2005 21:58 GMT
>> I am a Substitute Teacher for Cumberland Co. North Carolina, married to a
>> Blackhawk mechanic/inspector who is medically retired from the US army.
>
> I am a process control engineer kinda married to a TV producer and host,
> writer, teacher, and garden designer.

"kinda married"?  Is that like being a little bit pregnant? =P

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Tanada - 14 Jan 2005 22:10 GMT
>>I am a process control engineer kinda married to a TV producer and host,
>>writer, teacher, and garden designer.
>
> "kinda married"?  Is that like being a little bit pregnant? =P

With the laws being as short sighted as they are about gay marriages,
sorts married is about the right term.  The two have been together
longer than a lot of heterosexual couples, but aren't allowed by law to
make it formal.  Seems unfair to me, why shouldn't they be as miserable
as the rest of us.  :-)

Pam S. teasing Victor, Tom and the rest of the gay couples out there
Victor Martinez - 14 Jan 2005 22:19 GMT
> With the laws being as short sighted as they are about gay marriages,
> sorts married is about the right term.  The two have been together
> longer than a lot of heterosexual couples, but aren't allowed by law to

We'll be celebrating our 8th anniversary in April. :)

> make it formal.  Seems unfair to me, why shouldn't they be as miserable
> as the rest of us.  :-)

It's not just the miserable part though... :) As it stands now, if Tom
were to be hospitalized and unconscious, I would not have the right to
be by his side. If I were to die, all the assets that I own that I have
willed to Tom would be taxed at 50% (or something ridiculous like that),
whereas if he were my husband there would be no tax. The list of
unfairness goes on and on... :(

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Monique Y. Mudama - 14 Jan 2005 22:30 GMT
>> make it formal.  Seems unfair to me, why shouldn't they be as miserable as
>> the rest of us.  :-)
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> were my husband there would be no tax. The list of unfairness goes on and
> on... :(

Fine, get me started on my rant!

Actually, you've made a lot of the points I was going to make.

The insurance at both my employer and my husband's will cover "life partners,"
so at least that's one small step.

Honestly, I don't understand what is going on in people's heads.  I've heard
people argue that marriage is for procreation ... but if that's the case, why
do hetero couples with no intention to have children get to be married, while
gay couples who do have kids don't get those benefits?  It makes no sense!

Some days, I just hate people =/
   
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Victor Martinez - 14 Jan 2005 23:47 GMT
> The insurance at both my employer and my husband's will cover "life partners,"
> so at least that's one small step.

It is. However, the IRS considers the cost of insuring a non-married
partner to be taxable income... :(

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badwilson - 15 Jan 2005 03:12 GMT
> Honestly, I don't understand what is going on in people's heads.  I've heard
> people argue that marriage is for procreation ... but if that's the case, why
> do hetero couples with no intention to have children get to be married, while
> gay couples who do have kids don't get those benefits?  It makes no sense!

Yeah, if it was for procreation, Dennis and I shouldn't even be
married.  We will be celebrating our 9th anniversary in 5 weeks.  No
kids, no plans for 'em either.
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Melissa Houle - 15 Jan 2005 07:11 GMT
> >> make it formal.  Seems unfair to me, why shouldn't they be as miserable as
> >> the rest of us.  :-)
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> Eros was adopted!  Eros has a home now!  *cheer!*

I quite agree about the unfairness of not letting gay couples of either sex
tie the knot legally.  I'd rather see happy same-sex couples come out of
City Hall together hand in hand  than see pictures of the devastation in
Iraq any day. It is SUCH a load of horse hockey to say gay marriage
undermines heterosexual couples! Marriage is NOT only about procreation,
especially not when there are over six billion people on our poor crowded
Earth, already. I've always thought that marriage at it's best was supposed
to be for the mutual aid, society and comfort of the participants, whether
or not they decided to have kids. (And that there was no legal requirement
saying a heterosexual couple HAD to have kids. To conceive or not is a
decision best left up to each couple.)  I'm quite sure we do NOT need to
amend the Constitution to take away a specific right from a specific group
of people.

Harumph. Congratulations on your upcoming 8th anniversary, Victor and Tom.
=o)

Melissa
Kreisleriana - 15 Jan 2005 18:26 GMT
>> >> make it formal.  Seems unfair to me, why shouldn't they be as miserable
>as
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>Iraq any day. It is SUCH a load of horse hockey to say gay marriage
>undermines heterosexual couples!

This is probably the single thing that drives me craziest about the
whole gay marriage debate.  The anti-camp repeats this bromide until
everyone believes it somehow, but they never explain HOW that
"undermining" is supposed to happen.   People making public arguments
that effect other people's lives should be held to rigorous standards
of logic, evidence, and clear, rational thought.

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Tanada - 15 Jan 2005 20:42 GMT
> This is probably the single thing that drives me craziest about the
> whole gay marriage debate.  The anti-camp repeats this bromide until
> everyone believes it somehow, but they never explain HOW that
> "undermining" is supposed to happen.   People making public arguments
> that effect other people's lives should be held to rigorous standards
> of logic, evidence, and clear, rational thought.

Considering the "stability" of some of the Heterosexual marriages I've
seen, I'd rather see Gays be able to get married.  They'd be far better
neighbors than the "Jerry Springer" couples.

Pam S. sighing
Jean Hobbs - 17 Jan 2005 09:38 GMT
Lady I knew and loved, bought a house in a small settlement
with lovely homes and lots of rules, but not one that said no"gays'
fortunately for Lucy. She had two young men living opposite her,
and when her son died of liver cancer they just couldn't do enough
for her, they were friendly before Will died, but after,.... they were
astronomical, even sometimes sending her a meal over in case she
didn't cook just for herself. they were lovely men     Jean.P.

> > This is probably the single thing that drives me craziest about the
> > whole gay marriage debate.  The anti-camp repeats this bromide until
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>
> Pam S. sighing
Dan M - 16 Jan 2005 01:48 GMT
> This is probably the single thing that drives me craziest about the
> whole gay marriage debate.  The anti-camp repeats this bromide until
> everyone believes it somehow, but they never explain HOW that
> "undermining" is supposed to happen.   People making public arguments
> that effect other people's lives should be held to rigorous standards
> of logic, evidence, and clear, rational thought.

That's been one of my biggest questions too. How would legalizing gay
marriage endanger or undermine marriage? Here is one hetero who is fully
in support of legalizing gay marriage. I figure any relationship in
which two (or I suppose maybe more) mature adults who are truly in love
with each other is a good thing and should be encouraged.

Dan
Yowie - 15 Jan 2005 20:25 GMT
> > >> make it formal.  Seems unfair to me, why shouldn't they be as miserable
> as
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> amend the Constitution to take away a specific right from a specific group
> of people.

And on the other hand, I was pregnant for 3 months *without* being married
(we did get married, but the wedding had been planned for a year, the
pregnancy- being unexpected - had nothing to do with the timing), so the
notion that marriage is needed for procreation is also out.

The people who make a mockery of the "institution" of marriage are not two
people who love each other and are committed to each to each other's
wellbeing, its the type of people who get married with no intention of
actually sticking with it. Brittney Spears comes to mind immediatley, but
there are many others who seem to get married simply because the like being
the bride or groom, not because they want to spend the rest of their lives,
through thick & thin, with that person.

Yowie
Helen Miles - 14 Jan 2005 23:17 GMT
> It's not just the miserable part though... :) As it stands now, if Tom
> were to be hospitalized and unconscious, I would not have the right to
> be by his side. If I were to die, all the assets that I own that I have
> willed to Tom would be taxed at 50% (or something ridiculous like that),
> whereas if he were my husband there would be no tax. The list of
> unfairness goes on and on... :(///

You and Tom should move to the UK. At least then you'd have the "Civil
partnership" bill. Not ideal, but marriage in everything but name. Plus
the furry crew could come on passports, and it means I'd get to see you!

Helen M
Adrian - 16 Jan 2005 12:18 GMT
>> It's not just the miserable part though... :) As it stands now, if
>> Tom were to be hospitalized and unconscious, I would not have the
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>
> Helen M

While I would welcome Victor and Tom I think they may find our climate
rather cool after Texas. Also moving away because bad law, IMO, is not
he answer. The best thing to do is try to change things at home.
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Jeanne Hedge - 15 Jan 2005 00:54 GMT
>> With the laws being as short sighted as they are about gay marriages,
>> sorts married is about the right term.  The two have been together
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>whereas if he were my husband there would be no tax. The list of
>unfairness goes on and on... :(

Tax unfairness aside (and that's a pretty huge aside), I think I read
somewhere that you could do something with legal documents (something
like power of attorney) that would allow you to have legal say-so
regarding medical things and other personal affairs. I think it's
criminal that something like that should be necessary, but is that a
possiblity?

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Howard Berkowitz - 15 Jan 2005 01:32 GMT
> >> With the laws being as short sighted as they are about gay marriages,
> >> sorts married is about the right term.  The two have been together
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> criminal that something like that should be necessary, but is that a
> possiblity?

In many cases, yes. Virginia has passed an atrocious law that is bound
to be struck down in the courts, but is nightmarish. Essentially, it
says that if there is a contract between two people that might appear to
give the impression that it is an attempt to circumvent the prohibition
against same-sex marriage, it can be challenged in court.

This could mean that if I. a single heterosexual, happened to give a
male friend by medical power of attorney, some busybody could challenge
it.
Victor Martinez - 15 Jan 2005 03:47 GMT
> Tax unfairness aside (and that's a pretty huge aside), I think I read
> somewhere that you could do something with legal documents (something
> like power of attorney) that would allow you to have legal say-so
> regarding medical things and other personal affairs. I think it's
> criminal that something like that should be necessary, but is that a
> possiblity?

Yes, I have downloaded the necessary forms, but have yet to print them
and have them notarized. Like I told Tom, all I want is the power to
pull the plug on you... ;-)

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Jo Firey - 15 Jan 2005 18:40 GMT
>> Tax unfairness aside (and that's a pretty huge aside), I think I read
>> somewhere that you could do something with legal documents (something
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> have them notarized. Like I told Tom, all I want is the power to pull the
> plug on you... ;-)

Make sure they are the right forms for your state.  Most hospital admission
clerks have sets of forms they will give you although you really don't want
to wait till you are already talking to one of them.

While many of the domestic partner laws are at least a step in the right
direction, a big drawback is they differ from state to state.  So you can
never be sure where you stand.

Jo
Monique Y. Mudama - 14 Jan 2005 22:23 GMT
>>>I am a process control engineer kinda married to a TV producer and host,
>>>writer, teacher, and garden designer.
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>
> Pam S. teasing Victor, Tom and the rest of the gay couples out there

ooooh yeah.  I forgot.

*sigh*

Don't get me started on my rant about how stupid anti-gay-marriage laws are =/

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JBHajos - 15 Jan 2005 01:20 GMT
>Don't get me started on my rant about how stupid anti-gay-marriage laws are =/

   Aw, go ahead and rant!!! :)  I do it all the time, especially here
in the Bible Belt's idiot state.  Not just the marriage laws but the
general attitudes and ignorance.   Aaaarrrrrgh!!!

  Jeanne
C Schmidt - 15 Jan 2005 21:54 GMT
I wandered into a local resort for a summer job 23 years ago!  I'm still
trying to figure out what I want to do when I grow up.

Until then, I am (mostly) very happily employed as a Convention Services
Manager.  That means I act as a liaison between the person planning the
event and the various hotel departments - rooms, food and beverage,
recreation.  It's detail-oriented with lots of deadlines but it's NEVER
boring. (BTW, anytime you have a question about this process I'm happy to
share my knowledge)

Best piece of advice:  ALWAYS listen to your caterer!

More info than you asked for:

My husband works in upper management at the same resort - in fact, we met
there.  At home we have 7 cats, in order of age: Boomer, Murray, Sallie,
Bunne, Mrs. King, Bear and Davey, 2 parakeets, Blue and Green, and the small
boss of the house, Chickie the Lovebird.

We are awaiting (any day now) our first and probably only grandchild
(daughter).

Cindy
David - 18 Jan 2005 04:17 GMT
>>>I am a process control engineer kinda married to a TV producer and host,
>>>writer, teacher, and garden designer.
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> With the laws being as short sighted as they are about gay marriages,
> sorts married is about the right term.

Another "kinda married" poster here, who works in a church office, is a
substitute church organist, and sings in a small early-music ensemble.

My partner and I have been together for nearly 20 years, so whenever I
encounter a form on which choices are given for marital status, I always
hesitate involuntarily, because the choices always seem to be "Single,"
"Married," or "Divorced."  But as far as state (Arizona) and country are
concerned, we have no status. Tucson, however, does have a domestic
partnership ordinance; it ensures hospital visitation rights and family
rates for city facilities that charge fees. That's as far as it goes,
unfortunately.

Bruce's company does provide domestic partner benefits, and I think they
even adjust salary to compensate for the federal taxation of those benefits.
At our church gay and lesbian people are fully involved at every level of
parish life--the parish adopted several years ago an official welcoming
statement. I'm also a semi-retired church organist, and fill in whenever our
regular organist is out of town.

Fortunately, our cats are equal-opportunity, nondiscriminatory lap fungi.

David Wachter
Mathew Kagis - 14 Jan 2005 21:51 GMT
> Ok, I'm curious.  What does everyone in here do for tuna money?

> Pam S.

I work in the Food & Beverage industry.  I'm a Sommelier, currently I work
at a small fine dinning steak house & martini lounge.  I serve/ bartend/
supervise & most importantly, buy the booze & write the wine list.
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Victor Martinez - 14 Jan 2005 21:53 GMT
> I work in the Food & Beverage industry.  I'm a Sommelier, currently I work
> at a small fine dinning steak house & martini lounge.  I serve/ bartend/
> supervise & most importantly, buy the booze & write the wine list.

Awesome! I love wine and would love to be a wine buyer... or an exotic
food buyer... :)

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Jo Firey - 14 Jan 2005 22:07 GMT
>> I work in the Food & Beverage industry.  I'm a Sommelier, currently I
>> work
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> Awesome! I love wine and would love to be a wine buyer... or an exotic
> food buyer... :)

They do get invited to some really cool conventions.

Jo
Karen - 14 Jan 2005 21:57 GMT
> > Ok, I'm curious.  What does everyone in here do for tuna money?
>
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> at a small fine dinning steak house & martini lounge.  I serve/ bartend/
> supervise & most importantly, buy the booze & write the wine list.

OOoo. That explains the kitties names!! I would love to be a sommelier.
Monique Y. Mudama - 14 Jan 2005 22:01 GMT
>> I work in the Food & Beverage industry.  I'm a Sommelier, currently I work
>> at a small fine dinning steak house & martini lounge.  I serve/ bartend/
>> supervise & most importantly, buy the booze & write the wine list.  --
>> Mathew Butler to 2 kittens: Chablis & Muscat En Vino Veritas
>
> OOoo. That explains the kitties names!! I would love to be a sommelier.

I haven't looked up what "sommelier" means yet, and I'm not a wine fan, but I
think working at a steak house would be a little too much of a good thing for
me!  Yum!

*wondering if she should ask Eric to bring home some steak tonight ... *

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badwilson - 15 Jan 2005 03:16 GMT
> >> I work in the Food & Beverage industry.  I'm a Sommelier, currently I work
> >> at a small fine dinning steak house & martini lounge.  I serve/ bartend/
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
>
> *wondering if she should ask Eric to bring home some steak tonight ... *

You too???  I LOVE steak!!!  It's one of my favourite foods ever.  I
could *live* on steak.  The worst part is that in Thailand they hardly
have any beef, so I only get it when I go to Bangkok.  By that time I
have *cravings*, LOL!
BTW, I also love wine.  Hehe, my cat's name is Vino.
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Mathew Kagis - 15 Jan 2005 07:15 GMT
<SNIP>

> > > OOoo. That explains the kitties names!! I would love to be a
> sommelier.
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> Check out pictures of Vino at:
> http://photos.yahoo.com/badwilson click on the Vino album

Monique: Sommelier is a french term for 'Wine Expert', you must take the
course & pass a series of tests to get the diploma (I did do a little
college & university but never finished) brackets being said, it's the most
difficult peice of education I've ever done.  Mostly because it combines so
many disciplines into one...  Geography, history, viniculture, viticulture,
microclimatology, horticulture, geology, cultural anthropology &
linguistics... I'm sure I'm missing one or 2...  Suffice to say, I drank
some VERY expensive wine the day I got my test results.

Britta: You live in Thailand??  Where?  I spent a winter there about 10
years ago... 2 month of it in areas that are now recovering from the Tsunami
(I love to rock climb)... I know what you mean about ANY western food over
there... Thai food is AWSOME & I still love it, but... I remember finding a
place in Krabi that served pastrami & swiss cheese on REAL rye bread AND!!!
They had an espresso machine!!!! after 3 months of Pad Thai,Green Curry &
instant coffee... I was in HEAVEN.  All my kittys have had wine names
(Excepting childhood pets)  I lost the first cat I was servant to as an
adult in July, his name was La-Feet... For those without wine savvy that's a
play on Chateau Lafite.
 To ALL: If you ever find yourself in Nelson BC, Canada... Come to Louie's
Steakhouse & Lounge... Your first martini is on me.  And, for any
Hitchiker's Guide to the Galaxy fans out there... we've just today, added
our version of the 'Pangalactic Gargleblaster' to our martini list.  Zaphod
would be proud.
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Seanette Blaylock - 15 Jan 2005 07:28 GMT
"Mathew Kagis" <winesnob@telus.net> had some very interesting things
to say about Re: What Do you do?  A Poll:

>  To ALL: If you ever find yourself in Nelson BC, Canada... Come to Louie's
>Steakhouse & Lounge... Your first martini is on me.  And, for any
>Hitchiker's Guide to the Galaxy fans out there... we've just today, added
>our version of the 'Pangalactic Gargleblaster' to our martini list.  Zaphod
>would be proud.

Is there a no-alcohol option? :-)

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Mathew Kagis - 15 Jan 2005 18:15 GMT
"Seanette Blaylock" <seanette.spammers.drop.dead@impulse.net> wrote in
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> Is there a no-alcohol option? :-)

Zaphod Beeblebrox would hang both his heads & weep....

> :-)" - the Dennis formerly known as (evil), MCFL
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Kreisleriana - 15 Jan 2005 18:41 GMT
>"Seanette Blaylock" <seanette.spammers.drop.dead@impulse.net> wrote in
>message
>>
>> Is there a no-alcohol option? :-)
>
>Zaphod Beeblebrox would hang both his heads & weep....

OK, I'll bite-- what is *in* a RL version PanGalactic Gargleblaster?

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Mathew Kagis - 15 Jan 2005 19:18 GMT
> OK, I'll bite-- what is *in* a RL version PanGalactic Gargleblaster?

'The effect of drinking a Pangalactic Gargleblaster is like having your
brains smashed out with a slice of lemon, wrapped 'round a large gold
brick" - Douglas Adams

OK, our recipie is: El Jimador tequila, Absinthe & Goldshlager (gotta
represent the gold brick somehow)  Shaken on Ice, served in a Martini glass
& garnished (of course) with a slice of lemon.  Limit, 2 per customer...;-)

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jmcquown - 15 Jan 2005 22:26 GMT
>> OK, I'll bite-- what is *in* a RL version PanGalactic Gargleblaster?
>
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> glass & garnished (of course) with a slice of lemon.  Limit, 2 per
> customer...;-)

Absinthe is legal?!

Jill
Mathew Kagis - 15 Jan 2005 23:36 GMT
> Absinthe is legal?!
>
> Jill

It is in Canada... t's a slightly more sterilized version than Van Gogh was
drinking when he cut off his ear... But it still packs a punch.
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Mishi - 16 Jan 2005 01:33 GMT
> > Absinthe is legal?!
> >
> > Jill

Hi Jill,

Apparently it is legal in New York State, in the US also. I found a site
that sells it, and they are in Albany. (http://www.absinth.com/ ) Huh.

(Wondering if that is where they got the saying "Absinthe makes the heart
grow fonder." (?) <G> )

Patti
jmcquown - 16 Jan 2005 01:58 GMT
>>> Absinthe is legal?!
>>>
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>
> Patti

LOL  I think I'll pass given the prices.  I can live without the "Green
Farie" in my life.  But I do wonder if the weird slotted spoon I inherited
from my Scottish grandmother from the turn of the last century might not be
an Absinthe spoon.  Hmmm.

Jill

Jill
Kreisleriana - 16 Jan 2005 18:13 GMT
>> > Absinthe is legal?!
>> >
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>Apparently it is legal in New York State, in the US also. I found a site
>that sells it, and they are in Albany. (http://www.absinth.com/ ) Huh.

One Pernod please! <hic>

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Stormin Mormon - 16 Jan 2005 03:45 GMT
But stay away from the Gynan Tonix. Otherwise, you'll definitely need that
little bag of salted peants. The Vogons cooks are great at picking up on the
sub etha space transponder, but the hyperspacial jump will really bounce
your brain off the back of your head. You might even see yellow. Hey,
yellow, oh, gee, bulldozers. Don't remind me.

I read the book in 1983, account of the reccomendations of my college
roomie. Who was a hoopy frood.

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> OK, I'll bite-- what is *in* a RL version PanGalactic Gargleblaster?

'The effect of drinking a Pangalactic Gargleblaster is like having your
brains smashed out with a slice of lemon, wrapped 'round a large gold
brick" - Douglas Adams

OK, our recipie is: El Jimador tequila, Absinthe & Goldshlager (gotta
represent the gold brick somehow)  Shaken on Ice, served in a Martini glass
& garnished (of course) with a slice of lemon.  Limit, 2 per customer...;-)

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Debbie Wilson - 16 Jan 2005 14:53 GMT
> > OK, I'll bite-- what is *in* a RL version PanGalactic Gargleblaster?
>
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> represent the gold brick somehow)  Shaken on Ice, served in a Martini glass
> & garnished (of course) with a slice of lemon.  Limit, 2 per customer...;-)

*whoo-ee*!
(What is Goldshlager?)

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jmcquown - 16 Jan 2005 16:33 GMT
>>> OK, I'll bite-- what is *in* a RL version PanGalactic Gargleblaster?
>>
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
>
> Deb.

It's like clear cinnamon schnapps with flakes of 18 karat gold in it.  Very
potent stuff.

Jill
Debbie Wilson - 16 Jan 2005 19:06 GMT
> It's like clear cinnamon schnapps with flakes of 18 karat gold in it.  Very
> potent stuff.

Goodness!! :-)

Deb.

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Monique Y. Mudama - 17 Jan 2005 22:19 GMT
>> *whoo-ee*!  (What is Goldshlager?)
>>
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>
> Jill

Smells great, tastes awful.  IMHO.

Oooh!  But that does remind me of a great story!

My parents, who had retired to North Carolina, were visiting the DC area,
where my brother and I both live.  My parents' best friends also still lived
in DC.  We all got together for a local Oktoberfest, where pitchers of beer
were heartily consumed.  I don't think anyone got drunk, but when we decided
to head back to our friends' place, for some reason I prevailed upon dad to
ride with me.  I had to drop by the apartment to let Puma (RB) out.

Does anyone else have a dad who always, always knows better and can't be told
anything?

We got to the apartment, where I had bottles of various liquors arranged on
the kitchen counter.  Dad says, "Boy, my stomach's feeling a little
unsettled."  His gaze travels across the lineup and comes to rest on the
Goldschlager.  "Some of that stuff will fix me up; get me a shot glass!"

Um.

"Dad, um, I really don't think-" "Hey!  I know what I'm doing!  Hand me that
glass!"

Okay.  Far be it from me ...

Dad poured himself a shot, drank it down, and then the strangest expression
appeared on his face.  "Bleccch!  What IS that stuff?"

"I tried to tell you, dad.  It's Goldschlager.  Cinnamon-flavored liquor."

He thought it would be something like jagermeister, I guess, an aid to
digestion.  Why he thought that, I still have no earthly idea.  But I'll never
forget the look on his face.

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Seanette Blaylock - 15 Jan 2005 20:09 GMT
"Mathew Kagis" <winesnob@telus.net> had some very interesting things
to say about Re: What Do you do?  A Poll:

>> Is there a no-alcohol option? :-)
>Zaphod Beeblebrox would hang both his heads & weep....

I wasn't talking about any specific beverage, just wondering if any
no-alcohol beverages were on the menu. ;-)

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Tanada - 15 Jan 2005 20:46 GMT
> "Seanette Blaylock" <seanette.spammers.drop.dead@impulse.net> wrote in
> message
>
>>Is there a no-alcohol option? :-)
>
> Zaphod Beeblebrox would hang both his heads & weep....

Yes, but some of us cannot have alcohol.  I was offered a virgin
Strawberry/banana daiquiri at Chili's the other day.  I was flattered,
but turned it down.  Mike, however, loved the alcoholic one he got.  I'm
hoping that he didn't inherit the alcoholism gene from me.

Pam S. alcoholic and diabetic
jmcquown - 15 Jan 2005 22:27 GMT
>> "Seanette Blaylock" <seanette.spammers.drop.dead@impulse.net> wrote
>> in message
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>
> Pam S. alcoholic and diabetic

Virgin daquiri's are quite good - well, the sugar might not sit well with
your diabetes.

Jill
Yowie - 15 Jan 2005 22:37 GMT
> >> "Seanette Blaylock" <seanette.spammers.drop.dead@impulse.net> wrote
> >> in message
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> Virgin daquiri's are quite good - well, the sugar might not sit well with
> your diabetes.

I like Virgin Mary's *more* than Bloody Marys, really can't taste much of a
difference between a non-alcoholic margarita and one with alcohol. In fact,
I really don't a fig abouu alcojol in any liquer - it is *honestly* all
about taste.

Wine is different, non-alocholic wine tastes bloody aweful.

Yowie
Victor Martinez - 16 Jan 2005 01:37 GMT
> I like Virgin Mary's *more* than Bloody Marys, really can't taste much of a
> difference between a non-alcoholic margarita and one with alcohol. In fact,

What on earth do they make non-alcoholic margaritas with? My margarita
recipe follows:

1 part freshly squeezed lime juice
2 parts cointreau
3 parts good tequila

Shake and serve with ice on frosted glass. If people have a sweet tooth
they can add some simple syrup to taste.

Signature

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Mary - 16 Jan 2005 05:14 GMT
> > I like Virgin Mary's *more* than Bloody Marys, really can't taste much of a
> > difference between a non-alcoholic margarita and one with alcohol. In fact,
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> Shake and serve with ice on frosted glass. If people have a sweet tooth
> they can add some simple syrup to taste.

I agree with the fresh lime juice (NO ROSES LIME JUICE!)
but love a rich, gold margarita:

2 parts Grand Marnier
3 parts Cuervo Gold. (1800 is the best, but is so
good, you really ought to drink it straight!)
Monique Y. Mudama - 17 Jan 2005 22:07 GMT
>> Virgin daquiri's are quite good - well, the sugar might not sit well with
>> your diabetes.
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> I really don't a fig abouu alcojol in any liquer - it is *honestly* all
> about taste.

Yup, I hear ya.  I generally prefer virgin daquiris to the "fully leaded"
variety.  I make myself kahlua and milk, but I never add the vodka -- the
taste is just too strong for me.

I've been tipsy, but never falling down drunk.  I just don't drink alcohol
fast enough for that.  Can't say that I feel I'm poorer for the experience =P

> Wine is different, non-alocholic wine tastes bloody aweful.

I don't care for wine.  No matter how good it is, it tastes like vinegar to
me, especially the red stuff.  Then again, I don't care for beer either.  I'm
slowly getting to the point where I can tolerate both, but it's just not
something I'd go out of my way to drink.  I'll try a sip of Eric's just to get
a taste.

Signature

monique, roommate of Oscar the (female) grouch
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Eros was adopted!  Eros has a home now!  *cheer!*

badwilson - 15 Jan 2005 09:36 GMT
> Britta: You live in Thailand??  Where?

Yes, I've lived in Thailand for almost 4 years.  For the first 6
months we were in Songkhla, which is in the very south on the east
coast.  Near Hat Yai.  But for the last 3.5 years, we've been in a
small town called Ban Chang in the province of Rayong.  It's about 45
min east of the cesspool that is known as Pattaya.

>I spent a winter there about 10
> years ago... 2 month of it in areas that are now recovering from the Tsunami
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> They had an espresso machine!!!! after 3 months of Pad Thai,Green Curry &
> instant coffee... I was in HEAVEN.

Yeah, I know what you mean.  But you would be surprised at how much
Thailand has changed since you were here.  I'm guessing that you were
rock climbing at Raylay Beach in Krabi near Au Nang?  I've been there
5 times.  During that time it's grown incredibly.  There is now a
McDonald's, dozens of ATM's, 7/11's, Italian pizza restaurants, etc...
I know Starbucks will be next.  It is quite easy to get western foods
here now.  But since my town is quite small, there isn't that much
here yet.  And I'm a health nut so I usually cook my own food and only
go out to restaurants for social occasions.

>All my kittys have had wine names
> (Excepting childhood pets)  I lost the first cat I was servant to as an
> adult in July, his name was La-Feet... For those without wine savvy that's a
> play on Chateau Lafite.

I like the idea of naming cats after wines.  If I hadn't already
decided a long time ago to name my next kitty Renfield, I would
definitely call him Gewurtztraminer ;-)

>   To ALL: If you ever find yourself in Nelson BC, Canada... Come to Louie's
> Steakhouse & Lounge... Your first martini is on me.

Oh cool, you're in Nelson?  I love that town.  I went to college in
Castlegar for 2 years.  1990-1992.  I was in the aviation program at
Selkirk.  We used to go to Nelson to party all the time.  I don't
remember Louie's Steakhouse & Lounge, but if it was around back then I
couldn't have afforded it anyway.
--
Britta
Sandpaper kisses, a cuddle and a purr. I have an alarm clock that's
covered in fur!
Check out pictures of Vino at:
http://photos.yahoo.com/badwilson click on the Vino album
Mathew Kagis - 15 Jan 2005 19:09 GMT
> > Britta: You live in Thailand??  Where?
>
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> small town called Ban Chang in the province of Rayong.  It's about 45
> min east of the cesspool that is known as Pattaya.

I was in Songkhla, doing the: 30 sec in Malaysia to re-up my Thai visa
thing...  I never went to Pattaya, mostly becaus I heard it was a cesspool.
Mostly known for sex tourism, which was not my cup 'o tea.

> Yeah, I know what you mean.  But you would be surprised at how much
> Thailand has changed since you were here.  I'm guessing that you were
> rock climbing at Raylay Beach in Krabi near Au Nang?  I've been there
> 5 times.  During that time it's grown incredibly.  There is now a
> McDonald's, dozens of ATM's, 7/11's, Italian pizza restaurants, etc...
> I know Starbucks will be next.

I indeed spent about 2 months at Raylay.  I'm sure it's changed alot... I
remember Krabi as a Nelson sized town, with no 'western' franchise spots.
Right now, I'm sure it's a big mud pit, recovering from the Tsunami. I was
disgusted when I saw a Pizza Hut in Chiang Mai, but all those beautifull
Wats made up for it..  You kinda expect that stuff in Bangkok... I remember
being gratefull for the 7/11 in the Kao San Rd area... Only spot with air
conditioning...

> I like the idea of naming cats after wines.  If I hadn't already
> decided a long time ago to name my next kitty Renfield, I would
> definitely call him Gewurtztraminer ;-)

LOL... When I adopted Muscat, there was a little mottled grey kitten who
almost ca