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Arthur Shapiro - 30 Jul 2010 23:45 GMT
Eerz went downhill quite fast the last couple of days.  She had been removed
from steroids several weeks ago upon the conferral of the surgeon/oncologist
and my local vet, because they were worried about damage to her fragile
organs.

Her head had swollen badly this week, and we went in for an emergency steroid
shot yesterday, again with the blessing of both vets.

It didn't help, and she hasn't eaten in three days.  Even her original owner
can't get her to take any food.  Neither vet believes in force feeding.

There was just an emergency appointment with the surgeon.  I had to be at
work, but went home at lunch to say goodbye, expecting the worst.

They've decided to wait until tomorrow morning, to my surprise, with a pain
medicine administered to minimize the discomfort of the starvation.  She got
fluids yesterday and (I think) just now.

We're going to have her put down tomorrow morning.  I just called the original
owner at my home (she couldn't make it to the appointment) and she's
distraught.  I'm mostly upset about the delay, because I don't want Eerz to
suffer, but not being there I had to accept the decision of my wife and the
surgeon.

At least she had six or seven months that were probably better than anything
she'd had before in her life.

Art
Joy - 30 Jul 2010 23:55 GMT
> Eerz went downhill quite fast the last couple of days.  She had been
> removed
[quoted text clipped - 34 lines]
>
> Art

Yes, you made her last months wonderful.  I know you knew this was coming,
but it doesn't make it hurt any less.

Hugs and purrs,

Joy
Matthew - 30 Jul 2010 23:59 GMT
I am very sorry
> Eerz went downhill quite fast the last couple of days.  She had been
> removed
[quoted text clipped - 34 lines]
>
> Art
Kyla =^..^= - 31 Jul 2010 00:05 GMT
"Arthur Shapiro"
> Eerz went downhill quite fast the last couple of days.  She had been
> removed
[quoted text clipped - 34 lines]
>
> Art

I'm so sorry Art.  Purrs for her safe journey to The Bridge
tomorrow and for the broken hearts she leaves behind. :(
Eerz was so loved and that what is important.
Bless your hearts.
Love
Kyla
MLB - 31 Jul 2010 00:32 GMT
> Eerz went downhill quite fast the last couple of days.  She had been removed
> from steroids several weeks ago upon the conferral of the surgeon/oncologist
[quoted text clipped - 24 lines]
>
> Art

and no one could have done more to help a stranger's cat.  This is hard
to do, but it is a kindness not to let her suffer.
"....Rise up slowly, Angel...."  It's hard to let you go.
Purrs for those who mourn her passing.  MLB
Cheryl - 31 Jul 2010 06:25 GMT
Art, I'm so sorry.  Purrs and headbumps for your breaking heart.
Bobble - 31 Jul 2010 00:47 GMT
> Eerz went downhill quite fast the last couple of days.  She had been
> removed from steroids several weeks ago upon the conferral of the
[quoted text clipped - 25 lines]
>
> Art

I'm so sorry for you.

Bobble
pat Chlebowski - 31 Jul 2010 03:17 GMT
I'm sorry to read your sad news....
cshenk - 31 Jul 2010 00:54 GMT
> Eerz went downhill quite fast the last couple of days.

Art, you've done all you can. Bless you for that and for being able to ease
her way to the next stage.
tanadashoes - 31 Jul 2010 01:51 GMT
> At least she had six or seven months that were probably better than anything
> she'd had before in her life.
>
> Art

Exactly.  Arthur, I'm so sorry about Lady Eerz's passing to the bridge,
but glad that she had those wonderful loving months with her forever
family.

Pam S. crying
bastXXXette@sonic.net - 31 Jul 2010 02:29 GMT
> Eerz went downhill quite fast the last couple of days.  She had been removed
> from steroids several weeks ago upon the conferral of the surgeon/oncologist
> and my local vet, because they were worried about damage to her fragile
> organs.

> Her head had swollen badly this week, and we went in for an emergency steroid
> shot yesterday, again with the blessing of both vets.

> It didn't help, and she hasn't eaten in three days.  Even her original owner
> can't get her to take any food.  Neither vet believes in force feeding.

> There was just an emergency appointment with the surgeon.  I had to be at
> work, but went home at lunch to say goodbye, expecting the worst.

> They've decided to wait until tomorrow morning, to my surprise, with a pain
> medicine administered to minimize the discomfort of the starvation.  She got
> fluids yesterday and (I think) just now.

> We're going to have her put down tomorrow morning.  I just called the original
> owner at my home (she couldn't make it to the appointment) and she's
> distraught.  I'm mostly upset about the delay, because I don't want Eerz to
> suffer, but not being there I had to accept the decision of my wife and the
> surgeon.

> At least she had six or seven months that were probably better than anything
> she'd had before in her life.

Oh, I'm so sorry. I hope she will be comfortable on the pain killers
until tomorrow when you can end her suffering.

You've been really generous and loving toward her, and you did your
best to give her a chance to recover. Sadly, that hasn't worked out,
but she did get to have a little comfort and maybe some enjoyment in
her life.

I'm sorry to see her go, even though I know it's unavoidable. You put
a lot of yourself into helping her, and through your stories, I got
attached to her, too!

Purrs,
Joyce

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Takayuki - 31 Jul 2010 03:04 GMT
>Eerz went downhill quite fast the last couple of days.  She had been removed
>from steroids several weeks ago upon the conferral of the surgeon/oncologist
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>It didn't help, and she hasn't eaten in three days.  Even her original owner
>can't get her to take any food.  Neither vet believes in force feeding.

I feel so sorry for poor Lady Eerz.  We'll be purring for her to have
some final sweet dreams tonight.
Will in New Haven - 31 Jul 2010 05:30 GMT
> Eerz went downhill quite fast the last couple of days.  She had been removed
> from steroids several weeks ago upon the conferral of the surgeon/oncologist
[quoted text clipped - 22 lines]
> At least she had six or seven months that were probably better than anything
> she'd had before in her life.

I am sorry for the broken hearts of those she leaves behind. Ears will
be better without pain or fear. She will miss you, who have treated
her so well, but it is possible she will know your presence again.

Sometimes the best gift the Mother can give is an end to pain.

--
Will in New Haven
Stormmee - 31 Jul 2010 10:56 GMT
and her good months are due to your caring giving nature, bless you for
that, Lee
> Eerz went downhill quite fast the last couple of days.  She had been
> removed
[quoted text clipped - 34 lines]
>
> Art
Adrian - 31 Jul 2010 11:59 GMT
> Eerz went downhill quite fast the last couple of days.  She had been removed
> from steroids several weeks ago upon the conferral of the surgeon/oncologist
[quoted text clipped - 24 lines]
>
> Art

I'm so sorry, Art, you did everything you could and a lot more than
many. I've lit a candle for Eerz.
http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&gi=Eerz

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Adrian - 31 Jul 2010 11:59 GMT
http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&gi=Eerz
Marina - 31 Jul 2010 14:10 GMT
> At least she had six or seven months that were probably better than anything
> she'd had before in her life.

I'm so very sorry, Art. You did the best you could, in fact, you did
much more than most would have done for her. RIP, Lady Eerz.

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Granby - 31 Jul 2010 14:30 GMT
I am sorry you feel it is "The End"  See, I believe in THE RAINBOW BRIDGE or
something like it.  I know it is the end here but feel it is just the
beginning for your kitty friend.  You did your best and that is all you
could do.  Prayers and purrs for your broken hearts.  Remember the good
times.
> Eerz went downhill quite fast the last couple of days.  She had been
> removed
[quoted text clipped - 34 lines]
>
> Art
Lesley - 31 Jul 2010 17:51 GMT
> At least she had six or seven months that were probably better than anything
> she'd had before in her life.

Ain;t that the truth! No-one could have done more for her than you did

Purrs for Eerz as she makes her way over the Bridge and for you and
everyone.  I'm in tears even through knew it would come sooner rather
than later

Lesley

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Christina Websell - 31 Jul 2010 18:13 GMT
> Eerz went downhill quite fast the last couple of days.  She had been
> removed
[quoted text clipped - 32 lines]
> anything
> she'd had before in her life.

Even knowing this was going to happen will not ease your heart right now.
Please try and take some comfort from knowing that you did, indeed, give her
the last few months better than she ever had.
Purrs for her passing.  Fly swiftly Eeerz.

Tweed
MLB - 31 Jul 2010 19:40 GMT
> Eerz went downhill quite fast the last couple of days.  She had been removed
> from steroids several weeks ago upon the conferral of the surgeon/oncologist
[quoted text clipped - 24 lines]
>
> Art

In memory of those who have gone before-------------

We thought of you today, but that is nothing new.
We thought of you yesterday and will tomorrow too.
We think of you in silence and make no outward show
For what it meant to lose you only those who love you know.

Remembering you is easy -- we do it every day.
It's the heartache of losing you that will never go away.
(Author Unknown)
Art Shapiro - 31 Jul 2010 21:58 GMT
Thanks for the kind thoughts, everyone; they're most appreciated.

I wasn't at the sad event, as nothing outranks my club bicycling on
weekends.  I had gotten up quite early to spend some last time with
Eerz, who despite not eating was purring up her usual storm and was
delighted to get the early morning affection.  She hadn't moved from the
living room couch all night.  Needless to say, she had gotten tons of
affection all evening.  We didn't take the original owner home until
well after 9 PM.

The original owner held her during the process, something I've never
been able to do.  Apparently she purred until the end and it was
uneventful.  She didn't suffer.

My wife was just driving away to take the original owner home as I
pulled into my driveway on the bicycle, but she didn't hear me yelling
and off they went.

So I guess I'm down to three cats.  At least Eerz was good for the Gross
National Product, although I never pictured myself as a participant in
economic stimulation.

Art
Christina Websell - 31 Jul 2010 22:15 GMT
> Thanks for the kind thoughts, everyone; they're most appreciated.
>
> I wasn't at the sad event, as nothing outranks my club bicycling on
> weekends.

You now lost all the sympathy I had for you.
Sheesh, what a d*ck.

Tweed
Granby - 31 Jul 2010 22:22 GMT
There are times when commitments have to come first and he did spend time
with her before he left.  I have agreed to be someplace when I should have
been another.

>> Thanks for the kind thoughts, everyone; they're most appreciated.
>>
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>
> Tweed
Christina Websell - 31 Jul 2010 23:03 GMT
No, a bike ride will never in my mind come before that.
I'm disgusted, truly.  It's how I feel, slam me all you want.  Everyone can.
I cannot believe Art said what he did.
A bloody bike ride more important!!
I feel sick.

> There are times when commitments have to come first and he did spend time
> with her before he left.  I have agreed to be someplace when I should have
[quoted text clipped - 9 lines]
>>
>> Tweed
Will in New Haven - 31 Jul 2010 23:38 GMT
On Jul 31, 6:03 pm, "Christina Websell"
<t...@tinawebsell.wanadoo.co.uk> wrote:
> No, a bike ride will never in my mind come before that.
> I'm disgusted, truly.  It's how I feel, slam me all you want.  Everyone can.
> I cannot believe Art said what he did.
> A bloody bike ride more important!!
> I feel sick.

I didn't comment when he said it, and he certainly hasn't lost all the
positive feelings he got for his care of Eerz, but I did feel
nauseated by his statement.

--
Will in New Haven
MLB - 01 Aug 2010 00:07 GMT
> On Jul 31, 6:03 pm, "Christina Websell"
> <t...@tinawebsell.wanadoo.co.uk> wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
> --
> Will in New Haven

IMHO Art is being brave in his own way.  I have known others like that.
 It simply means they would not have been able to stand it and would
have probably broken down and cried, which he did not want to do.  He
has a kind heart and loves his pets and does whatever he can to take
care of them.  Just because he doesn't want to "put on a show" of
sadness for the world to see, does not diminish the kindnesses he has
put forth.  That is my humble opinion.  MLB

"....Rise up slowly, Angel...." It is hard to see you go.
Joy - 01 Aug 2010 00:19 GMT
>> On Jul 31, 6:03 pm, "Christina Websell"
>> <t...@tinawebsell.wanadoo.co.uk> wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 21 lines]
>
> "....Rise up slowly, Angel...." It is hard to see you go.

You could well be right.  The statement seemed callous to me, but I am
trying not to be judgmental.  The very first cat I had to send to the Bridge
went without me.  I wasn't asked if I wanted to be present.  All the vets
I've had since assume I do.  Now I wouldn't dream of sending one off without
me.

Joy
Will in New Haven - 01 Aug 2010 00:19 GMT
> > On Jul 31, 6:03 pm, "Christina Websell"
> > <t...@tinawebsell.wanadoo.co.uk> wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 18 lines]
> sadness for the world to see, does not diminish the kindnesses he has
> put forth.  That is my humble opinion.  MLB

I think you are right. He was probably putting a brave face on it and
his wording just rang wrong with me. His service and dedication to
Eerz deserves our praise.

--
Will in New Haven
Matthew - 01 Aug 2010 00:54 GMT
On Jul 31, 7:07 pm, MLB <mlbri...@nonesuch.com> wrote:
> Will in New Haven wrote:
>
[quoted text clipped - 21 lines]
> sadness for the world to see, does not diminish the kindnesses he has
> put forth. That is my humble opinion. MLB

I think you are right. He was probably putting a brave face on it and
his wording just rang wrong with me. His service and dedication to
Eerz deserves our praise.

--
Will in New Haven

You know my saying that I tell everyone.

"Words are meaningless without the Voice behind them"

How many times has EVERYONE  I MEAN EVERYONE; if you won't admit that you
are lying,   read something and understood it wrong.
Stormmee - 01 Aug 2010 00:49 GMT
i agree with you, he said "i never could... when talking about holding one
to go, while it is not my way, i understand that it wasn't the bike ride,
but a coping mechanism,  lets not judge just because someone else cope
differently than we, do, makes neither way right just two different ways,
Lee
>> On Jul 31, 6:03 pm, "Christina Websell"
>> <t...@tinawebsell.wanadoo.co.uk> wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 21 lines]
>
> "....Rise up slowly, Angel...." It is hard to see you go.
Granby - 01 Aug 2010 00:59 GMT
I agree with youo on this.  I think it came out wrong and, at a bad time.
You cannot doubt his love for the cat after all they went through.

>> On Jul 31, 6:03 pm, "Christina Websell"
>> <t...@tinawebsell.wanadoo.co.uk> wrote:
[quoted text clipped - 21 lines]
>
> "....Rise up slowly, Angel...." It is hard to see you go.
Lesley - 01 Aug 2010 15:55 GMT
> I agree with youo on this.  I think it came out wrong and, at a bad time.
> You cannot doubt his love for the cat after all they went through.

A few days from now I suspect he'll look back at this thread and think
"WHY did I write that?"

People react differently.  It reminds me of my mum doing the housework
because that "has to be done on  Tuesdays" as she said while we were
trying to get her to sit down- my dad had died less than 12 hours
before and there she was dusting and vacuuming.....she was insistent
it had to be done...it was like she was trying to pretend nothing had
changed. Dave's mum went to have her hair done the day after his dad
died because she always had her hair done on a Saturday

As Granby says you cannot doubt his love for her after all he did to
try and heal her and then make her comfortable until the end.

Lesley

Slave of the Fabulous Furballs
Granby - 01 Aug 2010 23:22 GMT
I don't think it is pretending nothing happened, it is just routine.  Some
thought I went back to work too soon after my husband died but, I had to go,
it is what I did.  So long as in the end we come to some understanding that
is what counts

On Jul 31, 4:59 pm, "Granby" <s...@joink.com> wrote:
> I agree with youo on this. I think it came out wrong and, at a bad time.
> You cannot doubt his love for the cat after all they went through.

A few days from now I suspect he'll look back at this thread and think
"WHY did I write that?"

People react differently.  It reminds me of my mum doing the housework
because that "has to be done on  Tuesdays" as she said while we were
trying to get her to sit down- my dad had died less than 12 hours
before and there she was dusting and vacuuming.....she was insistent
it had to be done...it was like she was trying to pretend nothing had
changed. Dave's mum went to have her hair done the day after his dad
died because she always had her hair done on a Saturday

As Granby says you cannot doubt his love for her after all he did to
try and heal her and then make her comfortable until the end.

Lesley

Slave of the Fabulous Furballs
Kyla =^..^= - 02 Aug 2010 03:03 GMT
Each person deals with death, be it animal or human in a different way..the
one that feels best for them and who are we to judge them?  I know Art loved
Eerz, and that's what matters the most...right?.
Mosey Cat put up the Kandle site for Eerz on the other group too  Love  Kyla

"Granby"
>I agree with youo on this.  I think it came out wrong and, at a bad time.
>You cannot doubt his love for the cat after all they went through.
[quoted text clipped - 25 lines]
>>
>> "....Rise up slowly, Angel...." It is hard to see you go.
bastXXXette@sonic.net - 01 Aug 2010 01:50 GMT
> On Jul 31, 6:03?pm, "Christina Websell"

>> No, a bike ride will never in my mind come before that.
>> I'm disgusted, truly. It's how I feel, slam me all you want. Everyone can.
>> I cannot believe Art said what he did.
>> A bloody bike ride more important!!
>> I feel sick.

> I didn't comment when he said it, and he certainly hasn't lost all the
> positive feelings he got for his care of Eerz, but I did feel
> nauseated by his statement.

My feeling is that when someone is bereaved, they get to do whatever
they need to do to grieve and to comfort themselves. If going bike
riding with the bike club is that thing, then Art is allowed to do
this. Other people don't have the right to tell Art how to comfort
himself in this situation.

Eerz had the comfort of her first human companion with her, as her
life slipped away. I don't feel that Art's company was necessary. If
Eerz had been alone, I would have felt differently, but she wasn't.

Joyce

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cshenk - 01 Aug 2010 16:26 GMT
<bastXXXette wrote

> Eerz had the comfort of her first human companion with her, as her
> life slipped away. I don't feel that Art's company was necessary. If
> Eerz had been alone, I would have felt differently, but she wasn't.

I'll add another spin.  Art had her for 6-7 months right?  Original Owner
had her for all the before time and still was around and cared deeply.  This
is a time when the appropriate thing, may have been to allow the 2 to be
alone for those final moments and his addition may have been really
appreciated.  This wasn't a case of an abanded kitty, but one given up
painfully due to lack of ability to continue care.

Art said he got back as they were driving off but they didn't see him.  He
probably thought he had time for a little stress relief, then found out too
late this was not to be.
MLB - 01 Aug 2010 18:40 GMT
> <bastXXXette wrote
>
[quoted text clipped - 12 lines]
> He probably thought he had time for a little stress relief, then found
> out too late this was not to be.

If anyone doubts his love for cats, look up his blog and read about all
the wonderful pets he has cared for and lost.  I don't feel free to post
his URL but someone else might be willing to do so.  MLB
Art Shapiro - 02 Aug 2010 02:25 GMT
> I'll add another spin. Art had her for 6-7 months right? Original Owner
> had her for all the before time and still was around and cared deeply.

Not to belabor things - it's time to move on - but the "orignal owner"
is the lady who stole Eerz in December from the house where she had been
totally ignored for years and years, and thus had the huge gaping wound
where her ear had been rotted away by skin cancer.  She only had Eerz
for a few days, trying to pick the maggots out of the wound with
tweezers, before realizing that this was totally out of her financial
ability to handle.  That's when she posted the "help needed" message on
CraigsList, and I was the only one to respond.

Had the real owner showed any concern or given Eerz (whatever her name
was at the time) the appropiate care, all this grief would have never
transpired.

Art
Granby - 02 Aug 2010 09:32 GMT
Someone has a sig line about "How you treat Cats on earth determines you
treatment in Heaven" or something like that.  Sure hope there is truth to
that for those people.

>> I'll add another spin. Art had her for 6-7 months right? Original Owner
>> had her for all the before time and still was around and cared deeply.
[quoted text clipped - 13 lines]
>
> Art
MLB - 02 Aug 2010 15:20 GMT
> Someone has a sig line about "How you treat Cats on earth determines you
> treatment in Heaven" or something like that.  Sure hope there is truth to
[quoted text clipped - 16 lines]
>>
>> Art

I believe that is Grandalf's sig line.  I also like "Cats leave paw
prints on your heart".  Too true!    MLB
Dan M - 02 Aug 2010 15:41 GMT
> I believe that is Grandalf's sig line.  I also like "Cats leave paw
> prints on your heart".  Too true!    MLB

It's part of my sig as well. And it has lead to some interesting
conversations before.

Back when I was still in the truck, I wrote an e-mail to Shirley Rousseau
Murphy's (author of the Joe Gray mysteries) publicist asking a question
about one of her characters. I got a reply from Ms. Murphy herself,
asking about the origin of that sig line.
MLB - 02 Aug 2010 17:23 GMT
>> I believe that is Grandalf's sig line.  I also like "Cats leave paw
>> prints on your heart".  Too true!    MLB
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> asking about the origin of that sig line.
>++++++++

  I think what would really be fun is a repeat of some of your stories
when you were traveling with Harri.  I enjoyed those stories very much.
   Did you know the origin -- was it you?  Best wishes.   MLB
Dan M - 02 Aug 2010 18:29 GMT
>    I think what would really be fun is a repeat of some of your stories
> when you were traveling with Harri.  I enjoyed those stories very much.
>     Did you know the origin -- was it you?  Best wishes.   MLB

I saw someone else using it and appropriated it. I'll have to see if I
can remember where it came from.

I've also been meaning to dog up my RPCA Harri posts and put them on a
web site somewhere.
MLB - 02 Aug 2010 19:21 GMT
>>    I think what would really be fun is a repeat of some of your stories
>> when you were traveling with Harri.  I enjoyed those stories very much.
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> I've also been meaning to dog up my RPCA Harri posts and put them on a
> web site somewhere.

That is a great idea.  I am sure they would be well received.  Best
wishes.   MLB
Joy - 03 Aug 2010 00:29 GMT
>>>    I think what would really be fun is a repeat of some of your stories
>>> when you were traveling with Harri.  I enjoyed those stories very much.
[quoted text clipped - 8 lines]
> That is a great idea.  I am sure they would be well received.  Best
> wishes.   MLB

I agree.  I enjoyed them very much the first time around, and love rereading
things I've really enjoyed.

Joy
Joy - 03 Aug 2010 00:28 GMT
I agree.

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> Someone has a sig line about "How you treat Cats on earth determines you
> treatment in Heaven" or something like that.  Sure hope there is truth to
[quoted text clipped - 17 lines]
>>
>> Art
MLB - 02 Aug 2010 21:22 GMT
>> I'll add another spin. Art had her for 6-7 months right? Original Owner
>> had her for all the before time and still was around and cared deeply.
[quoted text clipped - 13 lines]
>
> Art

Art.do you plan to update your blog and add Lady Eerz and Milo?
Also, I imagine there are quite a few new RPCAers who are not aware of
these wonderful stories.   I don't feel its my place to post the URL but
it would be  great if you would.  Best wishes for you and your present
kitties and whoever you add to your clowder.  MLB
Arthur Shapiro - 03 Aug 2010 05:23 GMT
>Art.do you plan to update your blog and add Lady Eerz and Milo?

The site is terribly out-of-date, with several now-deceased kitties and
absolutely no mention of Eerz.  I haven't touched it in years, and really
should.  One of these days...   Keeping the bicycle club's site updated, often
more than daily, seems to keep me busy and a lot of people depend on that
site.

Art
MLB - 03 Aug 2010 05:47 GMT
>> Art.do you plan to update your blog and add Lady Eerz and Milo?
>
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>
> Art

Thanks for your reply and I do understand -- the world just keeps on
turning.  The old site is a testament though to "kitty love" and IMHO
should be preserved.  Best wishes to you and yours.   MLB
cshenk - 03 Aug 2010 00:11 GMT
> On 8/1/2010 8:26 AM, cshenk wrote:

>> I'll add another spin. Art had her for 6-7 months right? Original Owner
>> had her for all the before time and still was around and cared deeply.

> Not to belabor things - it's time to move on - but the "orignal owner" is
> the lady who stole Eerz in December from the house where she had been
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> handle.  That's when she posted the "help needed" message on CraigsList,
> and I was the only one to respond.

My apologies Art.  I didnt track it right and must have mixed unrelated
threads in my head.

Either way, I can understand.  One of the rescues we had to have assisted
over the rainbow was because he was senile and i didnt know to remove all
glass objects from the kitchen counter when the kitty food bowl was where
shattered glass could land in it.  Don held him as he passed quietly because
I couldnt bear it.
Art Shapiro - 02 Aug 2010 02:17 GMT
> Eerz had the comfort of her first human companion with her, as her
> life slipped away. I don't feel that Art's company was necessary. If
> Eerz had been alone, I would have felt differently, but she wasn't.

Tough crowd, folks; tough crowd!

She was taken away by the two other people who loved her, and in fact
the original owner held her, something I've never been able to do myself
and wouldn't have this time either.

I don't see what a third body would have added to the sorrow; I had
spent plenty of time with her once the decision was made, and said
appropriate and sincere good-byes before my ride.

That club has most of my few friends, and although none of them ever met
Eerz I was always pleased by the few folks who would consistently ask,
without being prompted, how she was doing.  I was able to share the
final chapter with them at the midpoint coffee stop of the ride, a very
peaceful and appropriate place overlooking Dana Point harbor.

I picked a time convenient for my wife and the original owner, as she
had to be picked up and driven down to my community.  Eerz did not
perish alone and unloved.

Art
Takayuki - 02 Aug 2010 02:32 GMT
>Tough crowd, folks; tough crowd!
>
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>had to be picked up and driven down to my community.  Eerz did not
>perish alone and unloved.

All I can think to say is that I'm sorry that it turned out that
Eerz's condition was incurable, and I know that when she went, she was
well loved by you and her other people.
Joy - 02 Aug 2010 02:37 GMT
>> Eerz had the comfort of her first human companion with her, as her
>> life slipped away. I don't feel that Art's company was necessary. If
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>
> Art

I'm sorry for my criticism.  You did what worked for all of you.  It really
isn't our business.

Joy
Kyla =^..^= - 02 Aug 2010 03:06 GMT
"Art Shapiro"
> On 7/31/2010 5:50 PM,
>> Eerz had the comfort of her first human companion with her, as her
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>
> Art

((((((((((((Art))))))))))))))
Stormmee - 02 Aug 2010 07:42 GMT
so I was in fact correct, your coping mechanism while differing from mine,
is still a valid one, still praying for your sorrow to ease, Lee

>> Eerz had the comfort of her first human companion with her, as her
>> life slipped away. I don't feel that Art's company was necessary. If
[quoted text clipped - 21 lines]
>
> Art
Takayuki - 01 Aug 2010 15:52 GMT
No, no, Christine, you're parsing the content of Arthur's post too
harshly - in a subsequent paragraph:

Art Shapiro <arthur-temp-3@cox.net> wrote:
>My wife was just driving away to take the original owner home as I
>pulled into my driveway on the bicycle, but she didn't hear me yelling
>and off they went.

He was saying that he accidentally missed the appointment, not that he
chose not to go.
bastXXXette@sonic.net - 01 Aug 2010 23:11 GMT
> No, no, Christine, you're parsing the content of Arthur's post too
> harshly - in a subsequent paragraph:

> Art Shapiro <arthur-temp-3@cox.net> wrote:
>>My wife was just driving away to take the original owner home as I
>>pulled into my driveway on the bicycle, but she didn't hear me yelling
>>and off they went.

> He was saying that he accidentally missed the appointment, not that he
> chose not to go.

It sounded to me like the appointment was long over by that point, and
that she was taking the original owner *home*, after the fact.

Not that it matters in my book.

Joyce

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Takayuki - 02 Aug 2010 02:25 GMT
> > No, no, Christine, you're parsing the content of Arthur's post too
> > harshly - in a subsequent paragraph:
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>
>Not that it matters in my book.

Very good reading comprehension point!
Granby - 31 Jul 2010 22:20 GMT
Dangit, wish the words would come to help when needed.  Purrs for all of
you.  Her purring to the end tells you she knew it was time.  Rest easy my
friend

> Thanks for the kind thoughts, everyone; they're most appreciated.
>
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>
> Art
Stormmee - 31 Jul 2010 22:34 GMT
those were the right words, Lee, who couldn't think of any
> Dangit, wish the words would come to help when needed.  Purrs for all of
> you.  Her purring to the end tells you she knew it was time.  Rest easy my
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>>
>> Art
Kyla =^..^= - 31 Jul 2010 23:52 GMT
I couldn't have said it better than Gramby either,and I lit a candle for
Eerz.  Bless your poor broken heart, Art.  Love to you and those she left
behind.  Kyla

> those were the right words, Lee, who couldn't think of any
> "Granby"
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>>>
>>> Art
Judith Latham - 01 Aug 2010 20:46 GMT
> Thanks for the kind thoughts, everyone; they're most appreciated.

> I wasn't at the sad event, as nothing outranks my club bicycling on
> weekends.  I had gotten up quite early to spend some last time with
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> affection all evening.  We didn't take the original owner home until
> well after 9 PM.

> The original owner held her during the process, something I've never
> been able to do.  Apparently she purred until the end and it was
> uneventful.  She didn't suffer.

> My wife was just driving away to take the original owner home as I
> pulled into my driveway on the bicycle, but she didn't hear me yelling
> and off they went.

> So I guess I'm down to three cats.  At least Eerz was good for the Gross
> National Product, although I never pictured myself as a participant in
> economic stimulation.

> Art

I'm so sorry Art.

You did so much for Eerz, she had a lovely time with you.

Purrs and prayers for you all.

Judith

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Gandalf - 31 Jul 2010 22:19 GMT
>Eerz went downhill quite fast the last couple of days.  She had been removed
>from steroids several weeks ago upon the conferral of the surgeon/oncologist
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>
>Art

I'm so very sorry :(

I'm so glad she had some real quality time with you near the end of her
life, at least.

Now, she's at the Bridge, healthy and happy again.

~~~~~~~~~~~~  >^..^<    

"Life without cats would be only marginally worth living."
-TC, and the unmercifully, relentlessly, sweet calico kitty, Kenzie.

Every day is a treasure with Kenzie; I try to treat them that way. There
will only be so many, and then there will never, ever, be any more.

How you behave towards cats here below determines your status in Heaven.
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Yowie - 01 Aug 2010 09:45 GMT
> Eerz went downhill quite fast the last couple of days.  She had been removed
> from steroids several weeks ago upon the conferral of the surgeon/oncologist
[quoted text clipped - 22 lines]
> At least she had six or seven months that were probably better than anything
> she'd had before in her life.

So sorry to hear this.

May her passing be peaceful, and purrs go out to those whose heart will
break without her.

Yowie
BfloPolska - 02 Aug 2010 16:44 GMT
> Eerz went downhill quite fast the last couple of days.  She had been removed
> from steroids several weeks ago upon the conferral of the surgeon/oncologist
> and my local vet, because they were worried about damage to her fragile
> organs.
(respectful snip)

> At least she had six or seven months that were probably better than anything
> she'd had before in her life.

I am so sorry Art! I know how much you were pulling for her. You did
everything you could. Now you have done the most loving and courageous
thing. Eerz will thank you someday, I am confident of it; as much as I
am that she is pain-free now, and having a glorious new adventure over
the Bridge. She loves you too.

Blessed be,
Baha
Gabey8 - 03 Aug 2010 00:51 GMT
> Eerz went downhill quite fast the last couple of days.  She had been removed
> from steroids several weeks ago upon the conferral of the surgeon/oncologist
[quoted text clipped - 24 lines]
>
> Art

I'm so sorry to see this. I know you've given her the best possible
life. You'll be in my prayers.

Donna, Captain, Stanley, and Mini
 
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