Cat Forum / Cat Anecdotes / September 2008
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~*LiveLoveLaugh*~ - 29 Sep 2008 16:06 GMT My number ONE reason for not posting in here anymore was b/c of Kyla. She's a sh*t stirrer, and it was making me sick. And she does the SAME thing in the Pink Floyd group. It's "woe is me" all of the time and then she cries that she doesn't understand. 95% of the peeps in the Floyd group can't stand Kyla. And who knows about the other groups.
Kyla, you know EXACTLY what you're doing and I think you're one sick puppy. Conniving should be your middle name.
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Will in New Haven - 29 Sep 2008 20:24 GMT On Sep 29, 11:06 am, "~*LiveLoveLaugh*~" <nob...@myjunkaddy.com> wrote:
> My number ONE reason for not posting in here anymore was b/c of Kyla. She's > a sh*t stirrer, and it was making me sick. And she does the SAME thing in [quoted text clipped - 11 lines] > All that I am or hope to be, I owe to my angel mother. > ~Abraham Lincoln I manage to like both of you. In your case, I guess I'm being too tolerant.
-- Will in New Haven
Kyla =^. .^= - 29 Sep 2008 21:25 GMT "Will in New Haven" On Sep 29, 11:06 am, "~*LiveLoveLaugh*~" > wrote:
> My number ONE reason for not posting in here anymore was b/c of Kyla. > She's [quoted text clipped - 13 lines] > All that I am or hope to be, I owe to my angel mother. > ~Abraham Lincoln
>I manage to like both of you. In your case, I guess I'm being too >tolerant. Thanks Will. I guess I'm just in a s**tload of people hating me right now, I can't seem to do anything right here:( Laurie is full of it about the Floyd group. Sure, there are a lot of trolls who hate me, but I just 'plonk' them. I have many friends there, but she chooses to believe the trolls. Whatever..I don't care. I really don't. Like Woo Too said, 'all they can do is type at you' LOL So Mosey will be writing on 'his' group. A troll from the Beatles group got snarky about Mosey and Tabitha coming back from their honeymoon and I just put him in the stinky litterbox <EG> Hug Kyla
-- Will in New Haven
Will in New Haven - 29 Sep 2008 21:52 GMT > "Will in New Haven" > On Sep 29, 11:06 am, "~*LiveLoveLaugh*~" > [quoted text clipped - 33 lines] > Hug > Kyla About the only time I get annoyed at you is when you (or Mosey) posts something that draws people from the music groups into one of the cat groups. No one from the music groups responds in the cat groups _except_ to be vicious, crossposting between groups is not a good idea. If one of them is actually reading the cat groups simply for a chance to be nasty, sort of like good old "livelovelaugh," that's one thing. But don't post cat stuff there and draw them over.
-- Will in New Haven
Kyla =^. .^= - 29 Sep 2008 22:22 GMT On Sep 29, 4:25 pm, "Kyla =^. .^=" <kyla.water...@comcats.net> wrote:
> "Will in New Haven" > On Sep 29, 11:06 am, "~*LiveLoveLaugh*~" > [quoted text clipped - 35 lines] > Hug > Kyla About the only time I get annoyed at you is when you (or Mosey) posts something that draws people from the music groups into one of the cat groups. No one from the music groups responds in the cat groups _except_ to be vicious, crossposting between groups is not a good idea. If one of them is actually reading the cat groups simply for a chance to be nasty, sort of like good old "livelovelaugh," that's one thing. But don't post cat stuff there and draw them over.
Oh I do NOT crosspost between the groups. I don't even 'read' the Beatles group at all. Yes, they're reading the group, but Mosey and Tabitha are having a blast and if one of the creeps from rmb crossposts, like I said, I just put them into my stinky litterbox and don't respond. RPCC is Mosey's group, they had a lovely virtual wedding and the trolls came over and I stupidly responded, but not any more. It's a fun place to be and gets my my mind off my bad stuff that's going on right now. Yes they try and be vicious, but like Woo Too said, all they can do is type at you. So, they get ignored. They'll get drawn over, no matter what. Idiots. Mosey says *wee iz happee n dont want no trubblez" Okay? Thanks:) Hug Kyla
-- Will in New Haven
EvelynVogtGamble(Divamanque) - 29 Sep 2008 20:51 GMT > My number ONE reason for not posting in here anymore was b/c of Kyla. > She's a sh*t stirrer, and it was making me sick. And she does the SAME [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > Kyla, you know EXACTLY what you're doing and I think you're one sick > puppy. Conniving should be your middle name. She's not my favorite poster, either, but isn't it easier to simply ignore her, rather than to say spiteful things about her? I gather she has physical disabilities that give her too much time to sit posting to newsgroups and feeling sorry for herself. (Yes, I know there are plenty here with similar and worse problems who don't make an issue of them, but each of us is different, and handle our problems in our own ways.)
bastXXXette@sonic.net - 29 Sep 2008 21:45 GMT >> Kyla, you know EXACTLY what you're doing and I think you're one sick >> puppy. Conniving should be your middle name.
> She's not my favorite poster, either, but isn't it easier to simply > ignore her, rather than to say spiteful things about her? I gather she > has physical disabilities that give her too much time to sit posting to > newsgroups and feeling sorry for herself. (Yes, I know there are plenty > here with similar and worse problems who don't make an issue of them, > but each of us is different, and handle our problems in our own ways.) Evelyn, this is probably the sanest thing anyone has posted about Kyla and the effect she has on this newsgroup, that I have read so far. This is my attitude toward her exactly. And thank you for acknowledging that we're all different and we all deal without our problems differently. If some people are able to be stoic, or to find humor in their problems, or to look for the positives in their lives despite their problems, then they are blessed to have some strengths in their personal toolkit that helps them get through life. And they should be grateful for that, rather than dumping on someone who has not found a way to do it.
It's hard for me to understand why so many people get so upset by a person who, for any number of reasons, is clearly not operating on all cylinders. Sure, she gets angry and says something hostile, and then denies it. True, she can't stop dredging up conflicts in the past. But why take it so personally? You might as well be getting your feelings deeply hurt because your neighborhood homeless person comes up to you on the street, ranting and screaming at you. That's about how personal it is when Kyla does her thing.
(I know some people believe it's a terrible thing for me to speak honestly about what's going on here. But I don't believe in being hypocritical, thinking one thing and saying another, or self-righteously condemning a person who clearly *cannot help herself*. Those priorities are 100% backwards. If you want to do good in the world, speak honestly but non-judgementally. Not the other way around!)
We are talking about someone who:
- Suffers from constant, debilitating pain - ** Takes narcotics on a regular basis ** - Has major emotional issues, perhaps related to the above
It has nothing to do with anyone here. Those of you who are getting sucked into the dynamic should really just consider the source and stop letting it get to you. We do not have to allow any one person to disrupt the newsgroup. And if we do allow it, then we can't blame that person, can we?
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Matthew - 29 Sep 2008 22:12 GMT > >> Kyla, you know EXACTLY what you're doing and I think you're one sick > >> puppy. Conniving should be your middle name. [quoted text clipped - 43 lines] > the newsgroup. And if we do allow it, then we can't blame that person, > can we? THANK YOU JOYCE
Kyla =^. .^= - 29 Sep 2008 22:36 GMT <bastXXXette
> "EvelynVogtGamble(Divamanque)" : > [quoted text clipped - 45 lines] > the newsgroup. And if we do allow it, then we can't blame that person, > can we? Thank you Joyce Kyla
> (To email me, remove the X's from my user name.) CatNipped - 29 Sep 2008 22:47 GMT > It's hard for me to understand why so many people get so upset by a > person who, for any number of reasons, is clearly not operating on all [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > up to you on the street, ranting and screaming at you. That's about > how personal it is when Kyla does her thing. ROTFLMAOWTIME! Thanks, Joyce, you made me laugh on an otherwise miserable day!
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Kyla =^. .^= - 29 Sep 2008 21:10 GMT "~*LiveLoveLaugh*~"
> My number ONE reason for not posting in here anymore was b/c of Kyla. > She's a sh*t stirrer, and it was making me sick. And she does the SAME [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > Kyla, you know EXACTLY what you're doing and I think you're one sick > puppy. Conniving should be your middle name. Thanks a LOT Laurie. You just made my day :( If you don't like me, put me in your killfile, for pete's sake. Think of me what you will, I don't care! Have a nice day. Kyla
Adrian - 29 Sep 2008 21:17 GMT > "~*LiveLoveLaugh*~" >> My number ONE reason for not posting in here anymore was b/c of Kyla. [quoted text clipped - 11 lines] > Have a nice day. > Kyla If you don't care, Kyla, don't reply, that's one of the things about you which causes the problems.
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Kyla =^. .^= - 29 Sep 2008 21:27 GMT "Adrian"
>> "~*LiveLoveLaugh*~" >>> My number ONE reason for not posting in here anymore was b/c of Kyla. [quoted text clipped - 14 lines] > If you don't care, Kyla, don't reply, that's one of the things about you > which causes the problems. Point taken, thanks. Hug Kyla
~*LiveLoveLaugh*~ - 29 Sep 2008 21:29 GMT >> "~*LiveLoveLaugh*~" >>> My number ONE reason for not posting in here anymore was b/c of Kyla. [quoted text clipped - 14 lines] > If you don't care, Kyla, don't reply, that's one of the things about you > which causes the problems. You said it, Adrian... only ONE of the things.
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