I have often mentioned my friend Jim the gardener- he who took little
Molly when she had nowhere else to go and his senior cat Benj adopted
her like father and daughter
Jim thought Benj was loosing a bit of weight so yesterday he took him
to the vet. And Benj who is 14 has liver cancer.
The vet doesn't think surgery will help- Jim has taken Benj home with
some medications that might give him a little more time but since
getting back from the vets Jim has noticed that Benj although eating
well and using his box is not enjoying hmself, he didn't get on the
bed to sleep and he's hiding from Molly who can't understand why her
"daddy" won't play with her
Jim says he thinks its time- so can we have purrs for Jim as he makes
the hardest decision of all and for Benj who whatever happens does not
have much time before he crosses the Bridge
Lesley
Slave of the Fabulous Furballs
Adrian - 17 May 2008 21:31 GMT
> I have often mentioned my friend Jim the gardener- he who took little
> Molly when she had nowhere else to go and his senior cat Benj adopted
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>
> Slave of the Fabulous Furballs
Poor Benj and poor Jim, purrs for both of them and Molly.

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Nanny - 17 May 2008 21:56 GMT
Let him try milkthistle on Benj, not to heal him, but to give him a chance
at feeling better for a longer time. It helps the liver function and the
growth of new liver tissue, so as long as the new tissue can keep up with
the new cancercells the liver keeps working. One of my ferrets is still
alive after 18 months on milk thistle, she gained a lot of weight and is
playing again. When I first took her to the vet she was terribly skinny and
very tired.
He should get it from a health shop, and buy milk thistle withour further
additions (except for the alcohol that's in it).
Nanny
>I have often mentioned my friend Jim the gardener- he who took little
> Molly when she had nowhere else to go and his senior cat Benj adopted
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>
> Slave of the Fabulous Furballs
Jo Firey - 18 May 2008 01:13 GMT
> Let him try milkthistle on Benj, not to heal him, but to give him a
> chance at feeling better for a longer time. It helps the liver function
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>
> Nanny
A lot of the medications for arthritis are very hard on the liver. And the
lovely doctors that treat it watch liver function numbers very closely. If
they don't like the numbers, you are liable to get your medicine cut back,
or if your doctor is very cautious, have to have a liver biopsy. Not fun.
So many of us rely of milk thistle to help our livers handle the stress
from the toxic treatments.
Its been around since at least the days of the Roman drinking orgies.
Jo
bastXXXette@sonic.net - 17 May 2008 23:25 GMT
> Jim says he thinks its time- so can we have purrs for Jim as he makes
> the hardest decision of all and for Benj who whatever happens does not
> have much time before he crosses the Bridge
Purrs on the way for Benj for a peaceful passing.

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Christina Websell - 17 May 2008 23:35 GMT
>I have often mentioned my friend Jim the gardener- he who took little
> Molly when she had nowhere else to go and his senior cat Benj adopted
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> the hardest decision of all and for Benj who whatever happens does not
> have much time before he crosses the Bridge
Many purrs for Benj, and more so for Jim. Liver cancer is one of the worst,
for humans too, only pancreatic cancer is worse in terms of survival. We
cannot live without our livers.
I lost my lurcher, Trim, to liver cancer aged 14. I had to make that awful
decision for her, too. My heart goes out to Jim.
Tweed
Granby - 17 May 2008 23:58 GMT
Prayers for Jim. He has a rough time ahead but as he loves his owner, he
will do the right thing. Prayers for strength for all that lies ahead.
>>I have often mentioned my friend Jim the gardener- he who took little
>> Molly when she had nowhere else to go and his senior cat Benj adopted
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>
> Tweed
Joy - 18 May 2008 00:09 GMT
Purrs for Benji, Jim and Molly

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Constant change is here to stay.
>I have often mentioned my friend Jim the gardener- he who took little
> Molly when she had nowhere else to go and his senior cat Benj adopted
[quoted text clipped - 17 lines]
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> Slave of the Fabulous Furballs
Will in New Haven - 18 May 2008 00:43 GMT
> I have often mentioned my friend Jim the gardener- he who took little
> Molly when she had nowhere else to go and his senior cat Benj adopted
[quoted text clipped - 13 lines]
> the hardest decision of all and for Benj who whatever happens does not
> have much time before he crosses the Bridge
Purrs for Benji and for the friends he is going to be leaving. Purrs
for him to have life for as long as it is worth living and to go to
the Bridge with the least pain and fear managable.
–
Will in New Haven
“Did an angel whisper in your ear
And hold you close and take away your fear
In those long last moments.”
Lucinda Williams - “Lake Charles
Daniel Mahoney - 18 May 2008 01:21 GMT
> Jim says he thinks its time- so can we have purrs for Jim as he makes
> the hardest decision of all and for Benj who whatever happens does not
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>
> Slave of the Fabulous Furballs
We are all sending comfort purrs.
Dan
Kyla =^. .^= - 18 May 2008 02:16 GMT
"Daniel Mahoney" <
>> Jim says he thinks its time- so can we have purrs for Jim as he makes
>> the hardest decision of all and for Benj who whatever happens does not
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
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> Dan
We too are sending comforting purrs.
This is so sad.
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Kyla & Mosey
kilikini - 18 May 2008 03:50 GMT
> I have often mentioned my friend Jim the gardener- he who took little
> Molly when she had nowhere else to go and his senior cat Benj adopted
[quoted text clipped - 17 lines]
>
> Slave of the Fabulous Furballs
There's been too much hardship lately. So many of our babies are crossing
or sick. You've got purrs coming from me & my clowder in Florida.
kili
Charleen Welton - 18 May 2008 04:08 GMT
Warm caring purrs to Jim and purrs of peace and comfort to Benj.
Charleen
>I have often mentioned my friend Jim the gardener- he who took little
> Molly when she had nowhere else to go and his senior cat Benj adopted
[quoted text clipped - 17 lines]
>
> Slave of the Fabulous Furballs
Marina - 18 May 2008 05:13 GMT
> Jim says he thinks its time- so can we have purrs for Jim as he makes
> the hardest decision of all and for Benj who whatever happens does not
> have much time before he crosses the Bridge
Lots of purrs for Jim, Benj, and Molly.

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Steve Touchstone - 18 May 2008 12:28 GMT
purrs on the way
>I have often mentioned my friend Jim the gardener- he who took little
>Molly when she had nowhere else to go and his senior cat Benj adopted
[quoted text clipped - 17 lines]
>
>Slave of the Fabulous Furballs
Bettina - 18 May 2008 15:25 GMT
> I have often mentioned my friend Jim the gardener- he who took little
> Molly when she had nowhere else to go and his senior cat Benj adopted
[quoted text clipped - 17 lines]
>
> Slave of the Fabulous Furballs
Many purrs for Jim and Benj. So sad.
Bettina
Stormmee - 18 May 2008 17:08 GMT
praying, Lee
> I have often mentioned my friend Jim the gardener- he who took little
> Molly when she had nowhere else to go and his senior cat Benj adopted
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> Slave of the Fabulous Furballs
Ann - 18 May 2008 21:06 GMT
Purrs on the way.

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>I have often mentioned my friend Jim the gardener- he who took little
> Molly when she had nowhere else to go and his senior cat Benj adopted
[quoted text clipped - 17 lines]
>
> Slave of the Fabulous Furballs
Gandalf - 18 May 2008 22:57 GMT
>I have often mentioned my friend Jim the gardener- he who took little
>Molly when she had nowhere else to go and his senior cat Benj adopted
[quoted text clipped - 17 lines]
>
>Slave of the Fabulous Furballs
Purrs are on the way for Benj to a few good days, (for Jim's sake)
before he journeys to the Bridge.
~~~~~~~~~~~~ >^..^<
"Life without cats would be only marginally worth living."
-TC, and the unmercifully, relentlessly, sweet calico kitty, Kenzie.
Every day is a treasure with Kenzie; I try to treat them that way. There
will only be so many, and then there will never, ever, be any more.
How you behave towards cats here below determines your status in Heaven.
- Robert Heinlein
Sam - 19 May 2008 02:35 GMT
> I have often mentioned my friend Jim the gardener- he who took little
> Molly when she had nowhere else to go and his senior cat Benj adopted
[quoted text clipped - 17 lines]
>
> Slave of the Fabulous Furballs
Purrs for Jim in his most difficult decision.
Sam, supervised by Mistletoe
polonca12000 - 25 May 2008 21:57 GMT
> I have often mentioned my friend Jim the gardener- he who took little
> Molly when she had nowhere else to go and his senior cat Benj adopted
[quoted text clipped - 17 lines]
>
> Slave of the Fabulous Furballs
I'm so sorry!
Lots and lots of purrs,
POlonca and Soncek