I took you all's advice and went to the cops. so did the jerkwad's wife.
together there was enough to land the guy a night in the cooler. he was
released on his own recognizance, having had no priors, and a temporary
restraining order placed so he can't so much as wave hello to his estranged
wife without consequences. I have been advised that I may be wanted for more
statements if anything comes up, and they may want to talk to the guy
Jerkwad's been palling about with: the one he asked for a phone number to a
lawyer or a hitman. The wife, my good friend, officially filed for divorce
last week. I am expected to provide a court statement down the road. It's
difficult to divorce in New York; you have to provide grounds based on
infidelity and cruelty, or imprisonment or insanity. We don't have the no-
fault thing. Asking after a hitman should fall under the abuse-and-cruelty
clause. My friend is breathing easier.
The big boss laughed in my face and refused to move me to a different
location; the ultimatum was either suck it up and deal with Jerkwad, or quit.
He said it was my fault for meddling. I heard my friend gave him a snootful
of opinion after she heart about this.
The company kept Jerkwad on. This, and other ethical concerns surrounding how
the new boss is making me do my job to inflate his collection numbers, led my
old boss Vince to quit yesterday. I'm so sick over it. Vince treated me
always with respect and like I was a full equal in the ranks. He was demoted
last February to "team leader" and fill-in for @$$hole-uber-alles Mark, the
new boss but not the big boss, and an unethical SOB. He called a meeting
yesterday to tell us Vince was out the door and I went to the john and cried.
Let me explain my position. I'm called a "point caller," a human dialer. I
get people on the line and then pass them to the next collector in line.
Theoretically that's how it works. But I got orders from Mark that when
certain high-balance accounts come in from certain clients, they were to go
to him first, and only four other collectors and then only if mark was on an
other call. So the ret of the collectors are stuck trying to get these old
bounced-check accounts that are small and pay nothing to either the company
or the collector's bonus checks. So Mark is living off the fathead of the
land, the person he seems to have appointed his own personal phone operator,
at the expense of his employees. Of course, when anyone gets a payment I get
on the recorded line and review it and approve it for processing. this
increased responsibility hasn't gotten me a raise or any damn thing but
aggravation.
And on top of it all i have a writing block from hell. This is my avocation,
the author's trade, and I can't write a GD thing. Figures.
Blessed be,
Baha
Kyla =^. .^= - 18 May 2008 08:36 GMT
"Baha" <
>I took you all's advice and went to the cops. so did the jerkwad's wife.
> together there was enough to land the guy a night in the cooler. he was
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> fault thing. Asking after a hitman should fall under the abuse-and-cruelty
> clause. My friend is breathing easier.
Good for you for helping her to protecting herself. You did the right
thing.
And probably saved her life too:)
> The big boss laughed in my face and refused to move me to a different
> location; the ultimatum was either suck it up and deal with Jerkwad, or
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> increased responsibility hasn't gotten me a raise or any damn thing but
> aggravation.
That is sick, mean, and wrong IMO!! Geez
> And on top of it all i have a writing block from hell. This is my
> avocation,
> the author's trade, and I can't write a GD thing. Figures.
Well, they say the first sentence is the hardest to write...
hey, make that your 'first sentence <G>
I really feel for you and wanna give ya a BIG HUG, Baha
Bless your heart.
Kyla
> Blessed be,
> Baha
Lesley - 18 May 2008 17:27 GMT
> I took you all's advice and went to the cops. so did the jerkwad's wife.
> together there was enough to land the guy a night in the cooler. he was
> released on his own recognizance, having had no priors, and a temporary
> restraining order placed so he can't so much as wave hello to his estranged
> wife without consequences.
Good on you!
We don't have the no-
> fault thing. Asking after a hitman should fall under the abuse-and-cruelty
> clause. My friend is breathing easier.
I would think asking about a hitman would be reasonable grounds for
divorce!
> The big boss laughed in my face and refused to move me to a different
> location; the ultimatum was either suck it up and deal with Jerkwad, or quit.
> He said it was my fault for meddling.
Take advice- okay I suppose the other side of the argument is that
what an employee does outside of work is none of the company's
business unless it affects their work- for example I daresay you have
all worked out I am partial to a beer but that is none of the bosses
business unless I don't go to work because of a hangover (never
happened) or decide to open a six pack in my office (some days it's
very tempting) but this guy threatened you in the workplace and I am
horrified that there hasn't at least been words with Jerkwad. You are
being asked to work in an unsafe environment if you're being asked to
work with someone who threatened you
> The company kept Jerkwad on. This, and other ethical concerns surrounding how
> the new boss is making me do my job to inflate his collection numbers, led my
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> new boss but not the big boss, and an unethical SOB. He called a meeting
> yesterday to tell us Vince was out the door and I went to the john and cried.
Vince sounds like a nice guy hope he gets another job soon- can you go
to the big boss about this and blow the whistle?
So Mark is living off the fathead of the
> land, the person he seems to have appointed his own personal phone operator,
> at the expense of his employees.
Again can you go over Mark's head and blow some whistles? Vince won't
be the last person to leave if they keep this up!
> And on top of it all i have a writing block from hell. This is my avocation,
> the author's trade, and I can't write a GD thing. Figures.
As Kyla said start with a sentece and just keep going- it may end up
you're writing a load of rubbish but I've found when writing my game
or my novel sometimes just typing "Okay what the f**k happens next?"
sets me to thinking "Well what happened next?" okay two hours later I
may have written an entire scene that will have to be scrapped because
it's bad what I do then is cut and paste it into a side document and
when I have a block or some spare time I look at it and I usually find
that okay 80-90% is useless but there's something there, which can be
rewritten/will work somewhere else in the text/ has a couple of good
lines/ okay...if nothing else shows me where i DON'T want to go/might
be an inrteresting idea with some work
And you're about 100 times a better writer than me! Even this post
while you're claiming writers block is readable
Lesley
Slave of the Fabulous Furballs
Stormmee - 18 May 2008 18:00 GMT
you should keep in contact with him, so maybe you can go and work with him
again, it would be nice to work with someone you thought was ethical, Lee
> I took you all's advice and went to the cops. so did the jerkwad's wife.
> together there was enough to land the guy a night in the cooler. he was
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polonca12000 - 25 May 2008 22:06 GMT
> I took you all's advice and went to the cops. so did the jerkwad's wife.
> together there was enough to land the guy a night in the cooler. <snip>
I hope you can get a much better job really soon.
Lots of purrs, hugs and best wishes,
POlonca and Soncek