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CatNipped - 31 Mar 2008 15:36 GMT
And this one is really touching our hearts.  :<

The little black and white girl from across the street always comes for a
hand-out of the "good stuff" (left-overs of what our cats don't eat).  She
has never been spayed, unfortunately - her "owners" seem to find the money
for everything else but her - so occasionally there are toms hanging around
our yard also.

About a week ago Socks (which we call her even though her owners call her
"Nibbles") came pawing at our back door asking for snackies.  As soon as we
put some Science Diet dry outside (we stopped feeding ours dry so we had a
lot to give away and did until it was gone), she backed off and allowed one
of her "suitors" to eat.  There was this starved-looking orinj-stripey boy
who proceeded to gobble up every last kibble from the bowl - and all of the
kibble from THREE bowlsfull when we kept refilling the bowl.  Orinj-stripey
knew he'd hit the jackpot, so he stuck around.

For the first few days he shied away every time we opened the back door, but
once he saw that we weren't going to hurt him, and continued to feed him, he
became bolder and soon allowed us to pet him (even rolling over on his back
so we could give him tummy rubs).  This pretty much proves our guess that he
was someone's pet whom they just dumped in the neighborhood (an all too
frequent occurrence here).

We don't usually touch outside cats for fear of bringing some unwanted virus
into our clowder, but this little boy was so needy that we just gave in and
put the Purell on the table next to the door so we could disinfect our hands
when we came inside from a petting.

Now, we are *SO* strapped financially that we're having a hard time feeding
our own crew.  There is no way on this earth we could add a sixth cat to our
clowder.  We are being hounded by bill collectors and on the verge of having
utilities shut off.  I do without lunches eaten out, we've cancelled our
cable, etc., etc., and we're still short every single month.  I'm sure you
all know what that's like.

So.... we can't afford to take him to the vet for neutering or testing, and
we can't afford to buy him the food ours eat.  We've done the most we can at
the moment - we bought Purina Cat Chow dry for him (and give him the
leftovers of the canned food our own clowder eats), give him clean fresh
water and a safe place to stay (we have a 6 foot wooden fence around our
yard).

He is the sweetest little boy cat you can imagine, so we're going to try to
find a home for him.  We'd be willing to transport him a reasonable distance
from our home.  So if you, or someone you know, is in the Houston area and
want a sweet little orinj-stripey boy, please let me know.  Until then I'm
just hoping he'll be OK in our backyard.

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Lesley - 31 Mar 2008 15:42 GMT
> He is the sweetest little boy cat you can imagine, so we're going to try to
> find a home for him.  We'd be willing to transport him a reasonable distance
> from our home.  So if you, or someone you know, is in the Houston area and
> want a sweet little orinj-stripey boy, please let me know.

Sadly I don';t know anyone obviously but I really am sending forever
home finding purrs for him he sounds lovely!

 Until then I'm
> just hoping he'll be OK in our backyard.

As compared to on the streets and scrounging for food? I think we can
take that as read

Lesley

Slave of the Fabulous Furballs
CatNipped - 31 Mar 2008 16:36 GMT
On Mar 31, 7:36 am, "CatNipped" <CatNip...@PossiblePlaces.com> wrote:

> He is the sweetest little boy cat you can imagine, so we're going to try
> to
> find a home for him. We'd be willing to transport him a reasonable
> distance
> from our home. So if you, or someone you know, is in the Houston area and
> want a sweet little orinj-stripey boy, please let me know.

Sadly I don';t know anyone obviously but I really am sending forever
home finding purrs for him he sounds lovely!

Until then I'm
> just hoping he'll be OK in our backyard.

As compared to on the streets and scrounging for food? I think we can
take that as read

Lesley

Slave of the Fabulous Furballs

=====================================================

Thanks Lesley - I'm hoping he'll stay in our yard and safe until we can find
a home for him.

Hugs,

CatNipped
Kyla  =^..^= - 31 Mar 2008 21:25 GMT
"> On Mar 31, 7:36 am, "CatNipped" >>
>> He is the sweetest little boy cat you can imagine, so we're going to try
>> to
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> Until then I'm
>> just hoping he'll be OK in our backyard.

CatNipped, bless your kind sweet heart for taking him in.
Bad  mean hoomins to just 'drop him off' like that.
badbadbad hoomins

I know what it's like to be so broke,
you can't afford to 'pay attention' .......bad joke,
I 'really' wish I had some xtra toonas to send you :(
I am expecting my 8th barekitten to be born next month,
and I had to get him some baby things from The Dollar Store.
Do you have a Fred Meyer where you live?  (Kroeger)
If so I can send you some coupons for kitty food, and such.
That's all about all I can do for you sweetie.
PUUURRING for the little guy to find a good home.
Put up some fliers in the grocery store saying this wonderful kitty needs a
good loving home.
You can also get fud for the other 'piggy' cat cat at a Dollar Store.
It's gudgud dry fud for them.
I just love your posts here and I love the way you always sign off with a
hug
I'm a 'hugger' too and you get one back from me.
Hug
Kyla
Mosey is PURRING for the little guy to find a gudgud home
so you dont have to worry.
YOU are such a sweetheart <G>
leopardusweidii@yahoo.co.uk - 31 Mar 2008 16:10 GMT
> He is the sweetest little boy cat you can imagine, so we're going to try to
> find a home for him.  We'd be willing to transport him a reasonable distance
> from our home.  So if you, or someone you know, is in the Houston area and
> want a sweet little orinj-stripey boy, please let me know.  Until then I'm
> just hoping he'll be OK in our backyard.///

Can you get him into the no-kill rescue where you got your boys from?

Purrs for him to be OK.

Helen M
CatNipped - 31 Mar 2008 16:16 GMT
> He is the sweetest little boy cat you can imagine, so we're going to try
> to
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> want a sweet little orinj-stripey boy, please let me know. Until then I'm
> just hoping he'll be OK in our backyard.///

Can you get him into the no-kill rescue where you got your boys from?

Purrs for him to be OK.

Helen M

=====================================================

I thought of that, but it's the start of kitten season and I doubt they
would take an adult - at this time of year for the next couple of month they
don't accept hand-ins because they're so swamped with abandoned kittens
(that's how we got Sammy - someone was trying to turn her in and they
refused so we took her rather than seeing her go to the kill shelter).

Hugs,

CatNipped
~*LiveLoveLaugh*~ - 31 Mar 2008 16:48 GMT
> And this one is really touching our hearts.  :<
>
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> area and want a sweet little orinj-stripey boy, please let me know.  Until
> then I'm just hoping he'll be OK in our backyard.

Lor, I have a gf in the Houston area.  She lives on a lot of land with her
hubby and a ton of kids (his and her's combined).  I just emailed her to see
if she can take on 'orangy-stripey'.  I know she has had cats, but I don't
know if she has them right now.  I also know that she has a very mean Husky
dog which she said she was going to put down soon.  She's in Spring, TX.

'Will let you know!

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CatNipped - 31 Mar 2008 17:04 GMT
>> And this one is really touching our hearts.  :<
>>
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>
> 'Will let you know!

I live in Spring too!  Please let me know what she says.

Hugs,

CatNipped
hopitus - 31 Mar 2008 17:16 GMT
> >> And this one is really touching our hearts.  :<
>
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>
> >> See all my masters here:http://www.PossiblePlaces.com/CatNipped/

Two of my fave ladies...far away from each other in
localities...helping this
poor cat. Bast looking on your efforts as well as me, hoping for good
results
to happen. Thank you for caring enough. Laurie, you go out of your way
to
help here contacting your friend. Lori, many people are hurting
financially
these days and they say it will get much worse overall this year, but
like
the rest of us, you are doing the best you can. As I said before:
cheap food
beats no food AFA cats go and I hope matters improve for your family.
CatNipped - 31 Mar 2008 17:23 GMT
On Mar 31, 10:04 am, "CatNipped" <CatNip...@PossiblePlaces.com> wrote:
> "~*LiveLoveLaugh*~" <nob...@myjunkaddy.com> wrote in message
>
[quoted text clipped - 95 lines]
>
> >> See all my masters here:http://www.PossiblePlaces.com/CatNipped/

Two of my fave ladies...far away from each other in
localities...helping this
poor cat. Bast looking on your efforts as well as me, hoping for good
results
to happen. Thank you for caring enough. Laurie, you go out of your way
to
help here contacting your friend. Lori, many people are hurting
financially
these days and they say it will get much worse overall this year, but
like
the rest of us, you are doing the best you can. As I said before:
cheap food
beats no food AFA cats go and I hope matters improve for your family.

=======================================================

I know.  For those of you outside the US... the US is going through a
really, really bad time (plunging into recession) and it's only getting
worse.  I've read stories that in California the rate of people turning in
their pets to shelters has gone up enormously because people are going
through foreclosures on their houses and are being put out with nowhere to
live.

At least DH and I both have jobs (although we've both had to take much lower
paying jobs when we were laid off) - and so far we're able to pay our
mortgage (the *ABSOLUTE* first thing to get paid each month, even before
groceries).  I can't imagine the heartbreak of having to turn in your pet
because you're homeless - what cruelty on top of cruel fate.  But the
foreclosure rate in the US is worse than the depression of the 1930s!

Hugs,

CatNipped
Jo Firey - 31 Mar 2008 20:36 GMT
> I know.  For those of you outside the US... the US is going through a
> really, really bad time (plunging into recession) and it's only getting
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> your pet because you're homeless - what cruelty on top of cruel fate.  But
> the foreclosure rate in the US is worse than the depression of the 1930s!

At least this rather horrible wave of foreclosures isn't being driven by
people losing their jobs and then can't afford a place to live.

For several years lending practices have been encouraging people to buy
homes they truly cannot afford.  Payments are unnaturally low in the first
few years and everyone gambles that when the payments go up there will be
the money to pay them.  It hasn't worked out that way.

My daughter managed to hang on to her house for quite a few years after her
divorce by borrowing more on it every year as the so called market value
went up.  Lost it a year ago.

The other daughter is stuck in a tiny two bedroom house.  They can afford
the payments to move into a larger home but the housing market ate their
equity so they can't get together a down payment to move, even into another
house that costs no more than the one they are in.

A very large percentage of the houses that are being foreclosed, at least
here in California, are not owner occupied.  They are owned by various
speculators who thought they could finesse the market and were renting them
out for more than the payments.  Sometimes they just weren't making the
payments with the rent they collected, sometimes the payments went up and
the rent couldn't.

Problem is, a renter may not even know the home they are living in is in
foreclosure.  They can be paying there rent on time, taking excellent care
of the place, and even expecting to buy down the road.  And in California at
least, foreclosure terminates a tenancy.  They are kicked out of their homes
with almost no notice at all, when they thought everything was just fine.

It can be very hard for them to find anywhere to live, and to pay to move.
Finding a rental that will take pets can be impossible.

Jo
bastXXXette@sonic.net - 31 Mar 2008 20:50 GMT
Top-posting just to say "What she said!" Great post. I appreciated your
analysis because I find the whole thing a big, confusing morass. Thanks
for bringing a bit of clarity.

Joyce

> At least this rather horrible wave of foreclosures isn't being driven by
> people losing their jobs and then can't afford a place to live.

> For several years lending practices have been encouraging people to buy
> homes they truly cannot afford.  Payments are unnaturally low in the first
> few years and everyone gambles that when the payments go up there will be
> the money to pay them.  It hasn't worked out that way.

> My daughter managed to hang on to her house for quite a few years after her
> divorce by borrowing more on it every year as the so called market value
> went up.  Lost it a year ago.

> The other daughter is stuck in a tiny two bedroom house.  They can afford
> the payments to move into a larger home but the housing market ate their
> equity so they can't get together a down payment to move, even into another
> house that costs no more than the one they are in.

> A very large percentage of the houses that are being foreclosed, at least
> here in California, are not owner occupied.  They are owned by various
> speculators who thought they could finesse the market and were renting them
> out for more than the payments.  Sometimes they just weren't making the
> payments with the rent they collected, sometimes the payments went up and
> the rent couldn't.

> Problem is, a renter may not even know the home they are living in is in
> foreclosure.  They can be paying there rent on time, taking excellent care
> of the place, and even expecting to buy down the road.  And in California at
> least, foreclosure terminates a tenancy.  They are kicked out of their homes
> with almost no notice at all, when they thought everything was just fine.

> It can be very hard for them to find anywhere to live, and to pay to move.
> Finding a rental that will take pets can be impossible.

> Jo

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hopitus - 31 Mar 2008 20:54 GMT
> > I know.  For those of you outside the US... the US is going through a
> > really, really bad time (plunging into recession) and it's only getting
[quoted text clipped - 44 lines]
>
> Jo

Here in MileHigh the houses look very odd to me, not at all like those
of
south FL area. Those here went up in late 1800's have NO driveways but
ofttimes a "cariage house" in back (horses were how folks got around
in
them days (Miami was only a swamp at that time, LOL) and most of them
have ONE bathroom, always upstairs, unless renovated. The newer ones
out in the far 'burbs are cookie-cutter models, all alike, not having
the
awful "clawfooted" bathtubs so hard to shower and get in and out of -
I
have long legs but my DIL's parents are both short people and have an
awful time; they often, when visiting, stay nearby at a motel for this
reason.
Anyway, many people who did *not* have those "creative" financing
mortgages
are "upside-down" now in their mortgage remainders (mortgage remaning
more
than house, due to property values here plunging daily, is currently
worth: very
bad situation). People are just abandoning their homes (:o() and yes,
their pets
too bigtime. My friends say it is even worse in FL these days. I have
read about
and heard a lot about the depression days from my parents. My father
was
considered lucky and didn't do too bad because he had a government
job:
mail carrier. These days sure don't sound much better to me.
CatNipped - 31 Mar 2008 21:00 GMT
>> I know.  For those of you outside the US... the US is going through a
>> really, really bad time (plunging into recession) and it's only getting
[quoted text clipped - 46 lines]
>
> Jo

I can't talk for California, but here in Houston it's the job market that's
collapsing and causing the foreclosures (even though we have the best
housing market in the US for the time being).  I ended up taking a job as an
administrative assistant and my DH a help desk tech for a cell phone company
because there are just NO tech jobs to be had here at any salary cut.

Hugs,

CatNipped
Sherry - 31 Mar 2008 20:50 GMT
> And this one is really touching our hearts.  :<
>
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>
> See all my masters here:http://www.PossiblePlaces.com/CatNipped/

Bless you for helping the little critter. I hope it works out you can
find him a
forever home. (Good news here I suppose is, he's not a pregnant
female)
We've had many "porch cats" in our time. What you're doing for him
(and I
know you think it's not enough, because I know you!)....but a full
belly and
a little attention are *definitely* an important kindness.

Sherry
CatNipped - 31 Mar 2008 21:36 GMT
On Mar 31, 9:36 am, "CatNipped" <CatNip...@PossiblePlaces.com> wrote:
> And this one is really touching our hearts. :<
>
[quoted text clipped - 68 lines]
>
> See all my masters here:http://www.PossiblePlaces.com/CatNipped/

Bless you for helping the little critter. I hope it works out you can
find him a
forever home. (Good news here I suppose is, he's not a pregnant
female)
We've had many "porch cats" in our time. What you're doing for him
(and I
know you think it's not enough, because I know you!)....but a full
belly and
a little attention are *definitely* an important kindness.

Sherry

===============================================

Thank goodness he's not a pregnant female.... *but* he hasn't been fixed so
1) the unspayed neighbor's cat will be having another litter soon and 2) any
other unspayed female pet/stray in the neighborhood will probably be having
litters soon.  I feel guilty as hell about that too, but we don't qualify
for the local S.N.A.P. discount (we make too much, and they don't consider
that your bills + mortgage may be more than your income).

Feeding him and giving him a safe haven is the very least we can do for
him - I just feel bad that we're feeding "our" cats premium food, but since
he's "only" a stray he has to eat Purina Cat Chow.  He is such a sweetie he
deserves the very best someone can give him - unfortunately we just can't do
that right now.  It's costing us $5 a day to feed our 5 (more than I spend
on my own food per day, but I can't take the chance of any of ours getting
ill - or the boys getting a urinary blockage from dry food - we couldn't
afford the vet bills)!  Even another $1 a day for him would put a strain on
our budget to the point of breaking - but that doesn't make me feel any
better about this whole thing.

Dang it, now I have myself in tears again - didn't mean to do that.  Aw
well, nobody ever said life and the choices we make would be easy.

Hugs,

CatNipped
Kyla  =^.**.^= - 01 Apr 2008 06:27 GMT
> Thank goodness he's not a pregnant female.... *but* he hasn't been fixed
> so 1) the unspayed neighbor's cat will be having another litter soon and
> 2) any other unspayed female pet/stray in the neighborhood will probably
> be having litters soon.  I feel guilty as hell about that too, but we
> don't qualify for the local S.N.A.P. discount (we make too much, and they
> don't consider that your bills + mortgage may be more than your income).

I know that feeling pffffft!!  No need for you to feel guilty about ANYTHING
sweetie,
look at what you're doing, out of the kindness of your heart to help this
stray.
Bless your heart, CatNipped

> Feeding him and giving him a safe haven is the very least we can do for
> him - I just feel bad that we're feeding "our" cats premium food, but
> since he's "only" a stray he has to eat Purina Cat Chow.

There's nothing wrong with feeding him Purina Cat Chow, it's good healthy
food.
that's what we feed our Cats and Firskies is even cheaper.

 He is such a sweetie he
> deserves the very best someone can give him - unfortunately we just can't
> do that right now.

Well, you're doing the best you can...with what you've got.

It's costing us $5 a day to feed our 5 (more than I spend
> on my own food per day, but I can't take the chance of any of ours getting
> ill - or the boys getting a urinary blockage from dry food - we couldn't
> afford the vet bills)!

Totally understandable.  Our cats get 1 tuna size can of canned
cat food around 9 pm and I try and keep 2 kinds of dry in their bowls.

Even another $1 a day for him would put a strain on
> our budget to the point of breaking - but that doesn't make me feel any
> better about this whole thing.

Okay sweetie, don't beat yourself up...you're doin gudgudgud:)

> Dang it, now I have myself in tears again - didn't mean to do that.  Aw
> well, nobody ever said life and the choices we make would be easy.
>
> Hugs,
>
> CatNipped

I know,
Hugs

Kyla
Adrian - 31 Mar 2008 21:52 GMT
> And this one is really touching our hearts.  :<
<snip>
> He is the sweetest little boy cat you can imagine, so we're going to
> try to find a home for him.  We'd be willing to transport him a
> reasonable distance from our home.  So if you, or someone you know,
> is in the Houston area and want a sweet little orinj-stripey boy,
> please let me know.  Until then I'm just hoping he'll be OK in our
> backyard.

Purrs that you find a home for the little chap.
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CatNipped - 31 Mar 2008 21:56 GMT
>> And this one is really touching our hearts.  :<
> <snip>
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
>
> Purrs that you find a home for the little chap.

I am not very hopeful since it is the start of kitten season, but I'm going
to take some pictures of him tonight and send them around the office and put
them up at the vet's office.  I'll post links to the pics once I get them
uploaded.

Hugs,

CatNipped
Jo Firey - 01 Apr 2008 00:30 GMT
>>> And this one is really touching our hearts.  :<
>> <snip>
[quoted text clipped - 15 lines]
>
> CatNipped

Not everyone who likes cats really wants to deal with the hassle of raising
a kitten.  Yes they are cute, but I suspect all my future cats will be full
grown when they get us.

With grown cats you have more of an idea of just what you are getting.

Jo
Ann - 01 Apr 2008 02:52 GMT
When I adopted Cinnamon and Abby I was looking for   cats about 1 to 2 years
old.

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>
>>>> And this one is really touching our hearts.  :<
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>
> Jo
CatNipped - 01 Apr 2008 15:03 GMT
>>>> And this one is really touching our hearts.  :<
>>> <snip>
[quoted text clipped - 23 lines]
>
> Jo

I agree - but, unfortunately, not everyone else does.  Kittens get adopted
much, much easier than adult cats.  Actually, I don't think Garvin is much
more than a kitten himself - I'd say anywhere from 8 to 18 months old at the
most.  He's very kittenish, doesn't spray, and doesn't have *any* battle
scars.

However, the no-kill rescue isn't taking any strays in until kitten season
is over (probably not until this fall at the earliest).  I'm going to look
for a good home for him myself.

Hugs,

CatNipped
Gandalf - 01 Apr 2008 05:44 GMT
>And this one is really touching our hearts.  :<
>
[quoted text clipped - 44 lines]
>want a sweet little orinj-stripey boy, please let me know.  Until then I'm
>just hoping he'll be OK in our backyard.

Bless you for taking care of him.

At least he has a safe place to sleep, and regular meals and clean
water.

That's far,far better than living on the streets, as you know, of
course.

Any idea of how old he is? My guess is pretty young, since he's not
neutered.

Purrs that you can find a home for this friendly, unfortunate fellow.

~~~~~~~~~~~~
"Life without cats would be only marginally worth living."
-TC, and the unmercifully, relentlessly, sweet calico kitty, Kenzie.

Every day is a treasure with Kenzie; I try to treat them that way. There
will only be so many, and then there will never, ever, be any more.

How you behave towards cats here below determines your status in Heaven.
- Robert Heinlein
CatNipped - 01 Apr 2008 14:51 GMT
>>And this one is really touching our hearts.  :<
>>
[quoted text clipped - 86 lines]
> How you behave towards cats here below determines your status in Heaven.
> - Robert Heinlein

I think he's very young - he has very kittenish behavior, he doesn't spray,
and he has not scars from being in fights over a female.  If I had to guess
I'd say he's between 8 - 18 months old.

Hugs,

CatNipped
 
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