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Cindy, 9/27/89 - 2/25/08

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McZ19 - 28 Feb 2008 12:44 GMT
I'm a long time lurker around here who posts occasionally.  My little
grey Russian Blue wannabe, Cindy, was helped to the Rainbow Bridge on
Monday this week after a long battle with chronic renal failure.  Her
last day at home was spent sampling her various sunny spots around the
house.  She even gave herself a catnip fit with the old catnip-filled
sock in the spare room.  I sat with her much of the day and evening
and we enjoyed each other's company one last time.

Cindy was a very intelligent cat and, quite honestly, could be very
difficult at times.  She didn't like to be held or petted but she took
her title of "Companion Animal" very seriously; she always wanted to
be _with_ me.  She didn't believe that humans could do anything at all
without close feline supervision, which could be quite  exasperating
at times.  And that's why it's brought me to tears all week being able
to read my newspaper at breakfast without having a cat in the middle
of it.

She was a little clown who enjoyed making me laugh -- as long as she
was in on the joke.  I have so many hilarious memories of her but
right now, all I can see is the empty spot on the radiator cover in
the living room where she'd sit each morning and watch me get my coat
out of the closet as I left for work.

Her sister, Bonnie, continues to do well, in spite of being diagnosed
with diabetes a couple of years ago.  Unlike Cindy, Bonnie is a big
lovebug who placidly accepts belly rubs, hugs and kisses.  I'm so glad
I have her or I don't think I could have gotten through this week.

Thanks for listening.

McZ, loyal slave to Bonnie, 18 1/2 yr old Russian Blue wannabe.
Bridget - 28 Feb 2008 12:49 GMT
Cindy sounds like she was absolutely wonderful. I am glad you had her
all those years. It must have been a great thing. I am also sorry you
had to let her go. My sincerest condolences and purrs and prayers for
your heart. I am glad you posted about her.

Bridget

> I'm a long time lurker around here who posts occasionally.  My little
> grey Russian Blue wannabe, Cindy, was helped to the Rainbow Bridge on
[quoted text clipped - 27 lines]
>
> McZ, loyal slave to Bonnie, 18 1/2 yr old Russian Blue wannabe.
Irulan - 28 Feb 2008 13:07 GMT
Condolences to you. We will light a candle for Cindy's
safe journey to the RB.

Lily & her mama

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> I'm a long time lurker around here who posts occasionally.  My little
> grey Russian Blue wannabe, Cindy, was helped to the Rainbow Bridge on
[quoted text clipped - 27 lines]
>
> McZ, loyal slave to Bonnie, 18 1/2 yr old Russian Blue wannabe.
Granby - 28 Feb 2008 13:18 GMT
What loving memories. Am sending prayers for your heart to heal.  As painful
as it is right now, I wonder what people do who don't have the kind of
memories we do.  You know, never had a cat/dog to share a spot of life with.
Think that would be very lonely.
> I'm a long time lurker around here who posts occasionally.  My little
> grey Russian Blue wannabe, Cindy, was helped to the Rainbow Bridge on
[quoted text clipped - 27 lines]
>
> McZ, loyal slave to Bonnie, 18 1/2 yr old Russian Blue wannabe.
Adrian - 28 Feb 2008 13:19 GMT
> I'm a long time lurker around here who posts occasionally.  My little
> grey Russian Blue wannabe, Cindy, was helped to the Rainbow Bridge on
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> sock in the spare room.  I sat with her much of the day and evening
> and we enjoyed each other's company one last time.
<snip>

I'm so sorry to read this, so many cats have gone to the bridge recently.

I have lit a candle for Cindy.
http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&gi=Cindy
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polonca12000 - 07 Mar 2008 22:30 GMT
>> I'm a long time lurker around here who posts occasionally.  My little
>> grey Russian Blue wannabe, Cindy, was helped to the Rainbow Bridge on
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>> and we enjoyed each other's company one last time.
> <snip>

>Adrian wrote:
> I'm so sorry to read this, so many cats have gone to the bridge recently.
>
> I have lit a candle for Cindy.
> http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&gi=Cindy

A candle is lit.
Purrs,
Polonca and Soncek
Adrian - 28 Feb 2008 13:20 GMT
http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&gi=Cindy
jmcquown - 28 Feb 2008 13:51 GMT
> I'm a long time lurker around here who posts occasionally.  My little
> grey Russian Blue wannabe, Cindy, was helped to the Rainbow Bridge on
[quoted text clipped - 27 lines]
>
> McZ, loyal slave to Bonnie, 18 1/2 yr old Russian Blue wannabe.

I'm so very sorry for your loss.

Jill
Kreisleriana - 28 Feb 2008 14:14 GMT
> I'm a long time lurker around here who posts occasionally.  My little
> grey Russian Blue wannabe, Cindy, was helped to the Rainbow Bridge on
[quoted text clipped - 27 lines]
>
> McZ, loyal slave to Bonnie, 18 1/2 yr old Russian Blue wannabe.

We know what it's like.  Many purrs for Cindy and her family.

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Daniel Mahoney - 28 Feb 2008 14:30 GMT
I am so very sorry. I know how massively huge the empty spot feels.

Thank you for giving Cindy such a loving home.

We send our purrs for you and Bonnie.
Lesley - 28 Feb 2008 15:20 GMT
>I'm a long time lurker around here who posts occasionally.  My little
>grey Russian Blue wannabe, Cindy, was helped to the Rainbow Bridge on
>Monday this week after a long battle with chronic renal failure.  

Sorry to hear this- sending purrs

Lesley

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~*LiveLoveLaugh*~ - 28 Feb 2008 15:25 GMT
> I'm a long time lurker around here who posts occasionally.  My little
> grey Russian Blue wannabe, Cindy, was helped to the Rainbow Bridge on
[quoted text clipped - 27 lines]
>
> McZ, loyal slave to Bonnie, 18 1/2 yr old Russian Blue wannabe.

God speed to Cindy as she makes the journey to the Rainbow Bridge...  purrs
and prayers too.

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annie.wxill@gmail.com - 28 Feb 2008 15:27 GMT
> I'm a long time lurker around here who posts occasionally.  My little
> grey Russian Blue wannabe, Cindy, was helped to the Rainbow Bridge on
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> sock in the spare room.  I sat with her much of the day and evening
> and we enjoyed each other's company one last time.
...> McZ, loyal slave to Bonnie, 18 1/2 yr old Russian Blue wannabe.

Condolences and healing purrs for your broken heart.
Annie
Will in New Haven - 28 Feb 2008 15:28 GMT
> I'm a long time lurker around here who posts occasionally.  My little
> grey Russian Blue wannabe, Cindy, was helped to the Rainbow Bridge on
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> sock in the spare room.  I sat with her much of the day and evening
> and we enjoyed each other's company one last time.

<gentle snip>

> Thanks for listening.
>
> McZ, loyal slave to Bonnie, 18 1/2 yr old Russian Blue wannabe.

Purrs for you and Bonnie in your grief and best wishes for Cindy on
her further advantures, which we probably can't even imagine.

Will in New Haven

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mlbriggs - 28 Feb 2008 15:29 GMT
> I'm a long time lurker around here who posts occasionally.  My little grey
> Russian Blue wannabe, Cindy, was helped to the Rainbow Bridge on Monday
[quoted text clipped - 26 lines]
>
> McZ, loyal slave to Bonnie, 18 1/2 yr old Russian Blue wannabe.

"....Rise up slowly, Angel...."    It's hard to let you go.  
Condolences to those who mourn.   MLB
Kate - 28 Feb 2008 15:41 GMT
Condolences and purrs from us here in the UK.

So sorry for your loss.

Kate
Owned by Fudge & Caramel
GaDragonfly - 28 Feb 2008 15:52 GMT
Purrs and gentle headbutts for you and Bonnie.  I have lit a candle to
help guide Cindy on her journey.
Julie, Hobbes, Lacey, Sam and Barnabus
leopardusweidii@yahoo.co.uk - 28 Feb 2008 16:32 GMT
> I'm a long time lurker around here who posts occasionally.  My little
> grey Russian Blue wannabe, Cindy, was helped to the Rainbow Bridge on
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> sock in the spare room.  I sat with her much of the day and evening
> and we enjoyed each other's company one last time.

I am so very, very sorry to hear about Cindy. We'll light a candle for
your little girl to have a safe journey.

Helen M
tanadashoes - 28 Feb 2008 16:40 GMT
> I'm a long time lurker around here who posts occasionally.  My little
> grey Russian Blue wannabe, Cindy, was helped to the Rainbow Bridge on
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> sock in the spare room.  I sat with her much of the day and evening
> and we enjoyed each other's company one last time.

I'm so sorry for you, sister Bonnie, and all the other friends and family
that Cindy had.  She sounds like a remarkable little personality.  Maybe you
can post some stories about her when you feel up to it.

Pam S.
Matthew - 28 Feb 2008 16:49 GMT
I am very sorry Cindy
> I'm a long time lurker around here who posts occasionally.  My little
> grey Russian Blue wannabe, Cindy, was helped to the Rainbow Bridge on
[quoted text clipped - 27 lines]
>
> McZ, loyal slave to Bonnie, 18 1/2 yr old Russian Blue wannabe.
Stormmee - 28 Feb 2008 17:56 GMT
I am so sorry, Lee
> I'm a long time lurker around here who posts occasionally.  My little
> grey Russian Blue wannabe, Cindy, was helped to the Rainbow Bridge on
[quoted text clipped - 27 lines]
>
> McZ, loyal slave to Bonnie, 18 1/2 yr old Russian Blue wannabe.
Shiral - 28 Feb 2008 18:21 GMT
> I'm a long time lurker around here who posts occasionally.  My little
> grey Russian Blue wannabe, Cindy, was helped to the Rainbow Bridge on
[quoted text clipped - 27 lines]
>
> McZ, loyal slave to Bonnie, 18 1/2 yr old Russian Blue wannabe.

Dear McZ,

I sympathize heartily on the loss of your beloved companion. It's so
hard to say farewell to beloved animals, but Cindy sounds like she was
a wonderful cat. I too, am glad you've had Bonnie to keep you company
while you're mourning for Cindy.  A house with no cats in it would
feel terribly empty to me! When I had to say farewell to the late
beloved Isadora, it was a great comfort to come home to Panther, my
still living cat whom I'd adopted on the same day I adopted Izzy. He
was napping in the sun, and accepted strokes, scritches and kisses
willingly, then stuck close to  my side  for several days afterward.

I hope you won't mind if I make a suggestion when your sorrow over
Cindy recedes to a more bearable degree. Find yourself a new young cat
friend to love before Bonnie, too, must make her journey over the
Bridge.   You'll do something wonderful for a cat who needs a home,
and you'll have a new companion to learn to love.  Cindy can't be
replaced, but she can have worthy successors.

Melissa
Daniel Mahoney - 28 Feb 2008 18:40 GMT
> I hope you won't mind if I make a suggestion when your sorrow over
> Cindy recedes to a more bearable degree. Find yourself a new young cat
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
>
> Melissa

Not to mention that finding another cat would also help Bonnie to deal
with the loss of Cindy.
McZ19 - 28 Feb 2008 20:34 GMT
> I hope you won't mind if I make a suggestion when your sorrow over
> Cindy recedes to a more bearable degree. Find yourself a new young cat
> friend to love before Bonnie, too, must make her journey over the
> Bridge.   You'll do something wonderful for a cat who needs a home,
> and you'll have a new companion to learn to love.  Cindy can't be
> replaced, but she can have worthy successors.

I've thought about it, but, in spite of the fact that they were
littermates, Bonnie and Cindy did not get along well at all.  There
was quite a bit of tension there.  They were both extremely jealous of
each other and continued to have little hissyspits to the bitter end.
I remember a few tense evenings when BOTH cats climbed into my lap at
once, neither would give an inch, and no one involved in the
confrontation  (including me!) was very comfortable!

Getting another cat right now is something that I would do for me, not
Bonnie.  Believe me, it's crossed my mind more than once how horrible
it's going to be when I finally come home to a catless house.  I'm
dreading that.  But Bonnie is a jealous, selfish old girl who thinks
that she totally owns her momma and doesn't want to share.  She's
earned the right to live out her days in peace.  I will let her do
that, and will continue to spoil her rotten in the manner to which she
has long been accustomed.

Don't worry, there will be more cats in my life.  And they will be
shelter cats.  B & C's mom was a stray rescued from the streets (as
I've always reminded them when they get too uppity!).  But they'll be
cats, not kittens.  Everytime I think about kittens, I remember Bonnie
swinging from the curtains, long ago . . .

McZ19
Shiral - 01 Mar 2008 06:30 GMT
> > I hope you won't mind if I make a suggestion when your sorrow over
> > Cindy recedes to a more bearable degree. Find yourself a new young cat
[quoted text clipped - 27 lines]
>
> McZ19

You're the best  person to decide when the "right time" is for a new
cat. I don't disagree with any of your reasons for sparing Bonnie
competition from a newcomer.  I am glad to know you don't intend to go
catless for long after you and Bonnie eventually must part ways. By
all means let her have a happy time of being an only cat.
=o)

Melissa
Lesley - 02 Mar 2008 14:25 GMT
> Getting another cat right now is something that I would do for me, not
> Bonnie.  Believe me, it's crossed my mind more than once how horrible
> it's going to be when I finally come home to a catless house.  I'm
> dreading that.  

My friend Hugh always told me after we lost Fugazi and just had Isis
that I was the sort of person who needed a cat and should get another
one as soon as I could,

He was bit miffed at me after Isis died when I told him I was going to
wait 4 weeks and then get a couple of kittens, sisters. He just said
"You'll never last a month" to which the answer was "I have to- they
won't be ready to leave their mum for another month" (he was delighted
for us)

Yes we didn't last very long. Isis crossed the Bridge on the Tuesday,
by Thursday I came home to find Dave staring at cat rescue websites
and asking me if that lady who had the cat who'd had kittens hadn't
foung homes for them? How about it? Was I okay with it? And me going
"If you are..." whilst secretly thinking "YES!"

Friday morning I was in work at 8.30 and going "Hi, Belinda. Have you
found homes for those kittens yet? No! Well I could take two girls."

It may have been a bit quick but if these kittens weren't found homes
she was going to dump them on a pet shop or a shelter (When people ask
me if the cats are rescued I say "No pre-rescued") and it probably
worked in that with them being a bit too young to leave their mother
we had a month to get used to not having Isis around (except I suspect
she pops back from time to time if you get my meaning) but we knew
being catless was a temporary state- I don;t think I could have
managed wondering when it would end

Lesley

Slave of the Fabulous Furballs
Marina - 28 Feb 2008 19:02 GMT
> I'm a long time lurker around here who posts occasionally.  My little
> grey Russian Blue wannabe, Cindy, was helped to the Rainbow Bridge on
> Monday this week after a long battle with chronic renal failure.

i'm so very sorry for your loss, but she did live a long and, by the
sound of it, happy life with you. it doesn't make it any easier, i know.
hugs and purrs.

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Joy - 28 Feb 2008 19:40 GMT
(((((((McZ))))))))

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> I'm a long time lurker around here who posts occasionally.  My little
> grey Russian Blue wannabe, Cindy, was helped to the Rainbow Bridge on
[quoted text clipped - 27 lines]
>
> McZ, loyal slave to Bonnie, 18 1/2 yr old Russian Blue wannabe.
Charleen Welton - 28 Feb 2008 21:41 GMT
So very sorry about your loss.  What a beautiful cat and companion Cindy
was. Purrs for your hurting heart.
Charleen,
Aggie Marble
Victor Velcro
Four

> I'm a long time lurker around here who posts occasionally.  My little
> grey Russian Blue wannabe, Cindy, was helped to the Rainbow Bridge on
[quoted text clipped - 27 lines]
>
> McZ, loyal slave to Bonnie, 18 1/2 yr old Russian Blue wannabe.
Victor Martinez - 29 Feb 2008 00:19 GMT
> Her sister, Bonnie, continues to do well, in spite of being diagnosed
> with diabetes a couple of years ago.  Unlike Cindy, Bonnie is a big
> lovebug who placidly accepts belly rubs, hugs and kisses.  I'm so glad
> I have her or I don't think I could have gotten through this week.

Lots of purrs.

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Gandalf - 29 Feb 2008 03:42 GMT
>I'm a long time lurker around here who posts occasionally.  My little
>grey Russian Blue wannabe, Cindy, was helped to the Rainbow Bridge on
[quoted text clipped - 27 lines]
>
>McZ, loyal slave to Bonnie, 18 1/2 yr old Russian Blue wannabe.

I'm so very sorry for your loss. It's very, very hard watching your
beloved pet dwindle in health, until you have to make that terrible
decision; even if it is the kindest thing you can do for her.

I'm very glad you had one last really good day with Cindy, before her
trip to the Bridge.

I have lit a candle for Cindy in my very special candle holder in the
shape of a sleeping cat.

Purrs are on the way for your broken heart.

~~~~~~~~~~~~
"Life without cats would be only marginally worth living."
-TC, and the unmercifully, relentlessly, sweet calico kitty, Kenzie.

Every day is a treasure with Kenzie; I try to treat them that way. There
will only be so many, and then there will never, ever, be any more.

How you behave towards cats here below determines your status in Heaven.
- Robert Heinlein
Sam - 29 Feb 2008 04:06 GMT
Condolences to you on your loss.

Sam, supervised by Mistletoe
blkcatgal - 29 Feb 2008 04:37 GMT
So sorry for your loss.  You have my heartfelt sympathies.

Sue

> I'm a long time lurker around here who posts occasionally.  My little
> grey Russian Blue wannabe, Cindy, was helped to the Rainbow Bridge on
[quoted text clipped - 27 lines]
>
> McZ, loyal slave to Bonnie, 18 1/2 yr old Russian Blue wannabe.
Kyla =^..^= - 01 Mar 2008 01:53 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss.  It's so hard to let go.
You have my heartfelt sympathies as well.  She was almost 19 years old?
Wow.  My Mutt, who was 19 when he went to RB last Dec 9, met your lovey
Cindy at The Bridge and they are happily playing.  I know you miss her and
her antics, and there will ALWAYS be that place in your heart for her.
I'm glad you have Bonnie.
Take care, send me an e-mail if you'd like to talk.
Bless your broken heart sweetie.
BIG HUG
Kyla
--and Clowder

"blkcatgal"
> So sorry for your loss.  You have my heartfelt sympathies.
>
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>>
>> McZ, loyal slave to Bonnie, 18 1/2 yr old Russian Blue wannabe.
Baha - 01 Mar 2008 02:12 GMT
>I'm a long time lurker around here who posts occasionally.  My little
>grey Russian Blue wannabe, Cindy, was helped to the Rainbow Bridge on
>Monday this week after a long battle with chronic renal failure.

And she is running around in happy fields with no pain and breathing pure,
free air. You did the kindest and bravest thing for Cindy, and she will thank
you someday...how she must have loved you, to have stayed so long with you!

Blessed be,
Baha
Karen - 02 Mar 2008 04:37 GMT
> I'm a long time lurker around here who posts occasionally.  My little
> grey Russian Blue wannabe, Cindy, was helped to the Rainbow Bridge on
[quoted text clipped - 27 lines]
>
> McZ, loyal slave to Bonnie, 18 1/2 yr old Russian Blue wannabe.

I am so very sorry. ((((((((hugs))))))))))
polonca12000 - 06 Mar 2008 22:13 GMT
> I'm a long time lurker around here who posts occasionally.  My little
> grey Russian Blue wannabe, Cindy, was helped to the Rainbow Bridge on
[quoted text clipped - 27 lines]
>
> McZ, loyal slave to Bonnie, 18 1/2 yr old Russian Blue wannabe.

What a lovely tribute to a very special kitty.
Lots and lots of purrs,
Polonca and Soncek

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