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Duffy's 4th annifursary (long)

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MaryL - 31 Jan 2008 04:44 GMT
Tomorrow (Jan. 31) is the fourth anniversary of the day I adopted Duffy.  It's
hard to believe that four years have gone by, and he is a true treasure.  He
is the dearest, sweetest, most wonderful little guy I could ever imagine.
Most of you already know that Duffy has been blind since birth, but he does
almost everything that a sighted cat can do.  He even has his own "fan club"
among some of the readers of this newsgroup.  Duffy gets around so well that
I thought he might have a small amount of vision.  If I move a chair, he
will be sitting in it a few minutes later - there is no need to keep
furniture in a fixed location for him.  I arranged for an evaluation by an
ophthalmologist at Texas A&M University College of Veterinary Medicine
because I wanted to see if there was some sight (and, if so, what I should
do to preserve it).  There I learned that Duffy is completely blind and that
he has a condition known as "anterior cleavage syndrome." There should be
space between the iris and the cornea.  In Duffy's case, the two components
are pressed together, and there is no space between them.  This probably
happened before birth and possibly was caused by infection in the mother.

I want to thank Megan because she is the one who made all this possible.  I
was trying to help a friend find a cat to adopt.  I had been communicating
with Megan about another matter and told her about it.  She suggested that
we look at Petfinder.com.  We did, and there was a picture of Duffy.  He
looked like a sad little waif in the picture the shelter had posted.  In
fact, I thought he was a very old cat from his picture, but he was actually
estimated to be 3-5 years old at the time.  It was heartrending when I saw
that Duffy was blind, had been returned by someone else after two years (and
this was a *kill* shelter), and had been in the shelter for several months.
My friend simply wasn't interested in a blind cat and would not even
consider adopting, and I was really fearful of adopting another cat because
Holly had a history of aggressively attacking any other cat in my presence.
We even called her "the black tornado" because of the way she would hurl
herself at other cats.  She was my dear little shadow and followed me
everywhere, but she would not tolerate having another cat around.  Megan
kept prodding me to adopt, or even to foster for awhile.  She told me that
she would help me throughout the process and was positive that we *could*
get Holly and Duffy to adjust to each other.  Well, she kept that promise.
She walked me through every step of the slow, careful introduction.  Every
time I would think about speeding things up, she would remind me to be
patient and take it slow and easy (excellent advice for anyone adopting a
cat because I think this is the reason so many people have trouble getting
their new adoptees and their resident cats to accept each other).  She made
numerous long-distance calls at her own expense, and she always seemed to
recognize exactly what I was describing in the relationship and knew
precisely what would work.  I will also say that I was a "good student."  I
followed her advice every step of the way, and the result is that I have two
loving companions instead of the jealous reaction from Holly that I had
always seen previously.

Getting back to the ad on Petfinder.com...the notice looked so old (and the
shelter only promised to keep animals for 14 days) that I really thought it
was probably too late and that Duffy was gone.  It was Megan who kept
insisting that I give them a call.  "You need to check," she said; "You can't
just assume that he isn't there."  Ironically, I did call and was told that
he had already been adopted.  "Check further," she said; "Send them an
e-mail."  So I sent an e-mail to the director of the shelter - and learned
that Duffy was still there.  I have no idea what the first person was
talking about or how she could have been confused about a blind cat named
Duffy, but he was still in a cage at the shelter!  Kitten season was
approaching, and space would soon be at a premium.  I really believe they
could not have kept him for much longer.  He is such a sweet, loving cat
that I simply cannot comprehend how someone else could have had him for two
years and then returned him to a kill shelter (and especially not for they
ridiculous reason she gave - she said he had learned to get to her birds and
was teach her sighted cat to do the same thing).  That cruel decision turned
out to be my good fortune (and Duffy's and Holly's) because he now has a
forever home with us and I have truly been blessed.

MaryL

Photos of Duffy:      >'o'<
Duffy:  http://tinyurl.com/cslwf
Duffy and Holly together:  http://tinyurl.com/8b47e
Duffy and the Christmas tree:  http://tinyurl.com/clal7
Granby - 31 Jan 2008 04:58 GMT
Wonderful storey.  Every time I hear someone say what a trial blind cats can
be and all the stuff they have to do I want to wack someone.  Cats, like
people adapt to what is around them. All it takes is patience and love and
you have plenty of that.
> Tomorrow (Jan. 31) is the fourth anniversary of the day I adopted Duffy.
> It's hard to believe that four years have gone by, and he is a true
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> Duffy and Holly together:  http://tinyurl.com/8b47e
> Duffy and the Christmas tree:  http://tinyurl.com/clal7
Kreisleriana - 31 Jan 2008 14:30 GMT
>> Tomorrow (Jan. 31) is the fourth anniversary of the day I adopted Duffy.
>> It's hard to believe that four years have gone by, and he is a true
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>>
>> MaryL

We are in awe of Duffy, and of you, too!
Matthew - 31 Jan 2008 05:16 GMT
> Tomorrow (Jan. 31) is the fourth anniversary of the day I adopted Duffy.
> It's hard to believe that four years have gone by, and he is a true
[quoted text clipped - 70 lines]
> Duffy and Holly together:  http://tinyurl.com/8b47e
> Duffy and the Christmas tree:  http://tinyurl.com/clal7

Mary  our little master our more than they seem.  The powers no matter what
you believe have a plan  that plan include you in it.
Steve Touchstone - 31 Jan 2008 11:28 GMT
piggybacking here because for some reason I missed the OP

Congrats on the anniversary.

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Steve Touchstone,
faithful servant of Sammy, Little Bit, Spot,
Princess and Furby
with loving memories of Rocky (RB)

video clips at http://tinyurl.com/29o8ck
photos at http://tinyurl.com/22pfn8

sam - 01 Feb 2008 03:35 GMT
> piggybacking here because for some reason I missed the OP
>
> Congrats on the anniversary.

I missed it too, but late concatulations on the anniversary.

Sam, supervised by Mistletoe
Marina - 31 Jan 2008 05:29 GMT
<snip>
>  He is such a sweet, loving cat that I simply cannot comprehend
> how someone else could have had him for two years and then returned him
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> my good fortune (and Duffy's and Holly's) because he now has a forever
> home with us and I have truly been blessed.

Congratulations to you both for your anniversary! It was the same thing
wityh Frank - he'd been in a couple of homes before he came to me. He
was such a sweetheart that I can't understand why anyone would have
wanted to give him up, but it was their loss and my gain. I got to spend
over 17 wonderful years with my Franky-Lanky. I hope you and Duffy (and
Holly) have many, many happy years ahead of you.
Signature

Marina, Miranda and Caliban. In loving memory of Frank and Nikki.

Adrian - 31 Jan 2008 11:26 GMT
> Tomorrow (Jan. 31) is the fourth anniversary of the day I adopted
> Duffy.  It's hard to believe that four years have gone by, and he is
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> between them.  This probably happened before birth and possibly was
> caused by infection in the mother.

Happy anniversary, Duffy.
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Adrian (Owned by Snoopy & Bagheera)
Cats leave pawprints on your heart
http://community.webshots.com/user/clowderuk

Stormmee - 31 Jan 2008 15:17 GMT
you know I often wonder what was with Chester in his before life... he is a
perfect cat among cats, and was at the pound, and then at the shelter for
several months, I can only figure that bast intended him for our house and
am grateful so I know how you feel, Lee
> Tomorrow (Jan. 31) is the fourth anniversary of the day I adopted Duffy.  It's
> hard to believe that four years have gone by, and he is a true treasure.  He
[quoted text clipped - 68 lines]
> Duffy and Holly together:  http://tinyurl.com/8b47e
> Duffy and the Christmas tree:  http://tinyurl.com/clal7
Christina Websell - 31 Jan 2008 17:53 GMT
> Tomorrow (Jan. 31) is the fourth anniversary of the day I adopted
> Duffy.  It's hard to believe that four years have gone by, and he is
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> cat can do.  He even has his own "fan club" among some of the readers
> of this newsgroup.

I am definitely a Duffy fan, Mary, and it was a great thing you did to adopt
him.  I wish more people would give disabled cats a chance.
I can see that Kitty Farmcat's eyes are starting to cloud over just in the
last few weeks - and why wouldn't they since she is over 20 years old?
I am sure she will manage as she knows the house very well and where her
litterboxes are (one downstairs and one up.)
I pick her up to put her in another room to get her food now.  Boyfie is
greedy and scarfs his up in no time and will knock her off hers given the
chance.
She seems that she would like to eat alongside him like she has always done,
so it does take ages while she leaves her food to beg to go back into the
kitchen to him and I say no, and then she eats some more.
She gets far more "posh" food than Boyfie does, so he is always desperate to
get to it ;-)
ATM she is eating quite well, much better than she was a few weeks ago.
(I hardly dare to say it..)
She just loves the lactose-free milk I added a tablespoon of cream to.
She has never been able to meow, I don't know why.  When I open the fridge
she says a very quiet "wah"  that means gimme or look at me for instructions
;-)

Tweed
leopardusweidii@yahoo.co.uk - 31 Jan 2008 21:23 GMT
> I can see that Kitty Farmcat's eyes are starting to cloud over just in the
> last few weeks - and why wouldn't they since she is over 20 years old?
> I am sure she will manage as she knows the house very well and where her
> litterboxes are (one downstairs and one up.)/////

I was telling my TED about KFC when HEFL and I went to see him on
Monday. He laughted and said he wasn't suprised when I told him that
KFC was a tiny ex-feral who knew her own mind! ;o) He said the feisty
ones always survive the longest with care and love. :o)

Helen M
Christina Websell - 31 Jan 2008 21:56 GMT
>> I can see that Kitty Farmcat's eyes are starting to cloud over just
>> in the last few weeks - and why wouldn't they since she is over 20
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> KFC was a tiny ex-feral who knew her own mind! ;o) He said the feisty
> ones always survive the longest with care and love. :o)

She is certainly very fiesty and always has been. Every time I think it is
the end of her, she bounces back saying "Wot? Me, die?  Get real!"

She takes a lot of looking after, to be sure.  Her food has to be special
fancy stuff, crushed up and arranged up in a heap in a separate room so she
has time to eat it.  Then she has to have her non-lactose milk with cream
stirred in.
She's worth it, but Boyfie is so jealous about it.  He scarfs his up and is
beside himself not to be able to get to hers.
Christina Websell - 01 Feb 2008 02:38 GMT
>> I can see that Kitty Farmcat's eyes are starting to cloud over just
>> in the last few weeks - and why wouldn't they since she is over 20
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> KFC was a tiny ex-feral who knew her own mind! ;o) He said the feisty
> ones always survive the longest with care and love. :o)

Thank your lucky stars I survived, eh?  otherwise she'd be heading your way!
<g>
leopardusweidii@yahoo.co.uk - 01 Feb 2008 09:27 GMT
> > I was telling my TED about KFC when HEFL and I went to see him on
> > Monday. He laughted and said he wasn't suprised when I told him that
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> Thank your lucky stars I survived, eh?  otherwise she'd be heading your way!
> <g>

LOL! And yes, thank my lucky stars I had the escape... ;o)

I told TED that *he* had a lucky escape and he informed me that he
prefers fiesty ladies! ;o)

Helen M
Candace - 01 Feb 2008 01:28 GMT
On Jan 30, 9:44 pm, "MaryL" <stanco...@yahoo.comTAKE-OUT-THE-LITTER>
wrote:
>He is such a sweet, loving cat
> that I simply cannot comprehend how someone else could have had him for two
[quoted text clipped - 10 lines]
> Duffy and Holly together:  http://tinyurl.com/8b47e
> Duffy and the Christmas tree:  http://tinyurl.com/clal7

Congratulations to all 3 of you, Mary!!!!!  I remember when you got
him.

Candace
Susan M - 01 Feb 2008 04:25 GMT
> Tomorrow (Jan. 31) is the fourth anniversary of the day I adopted
> Duffy.  It's hard to believe that four years have gone by, and he is a
> true treasure.  He is the dearest, sweetest, most wonderful little guy I
> could ever imagine. Most of you already know that Duffy has been blind
> since birth, but he does almost everything that a sighted cat can do.  

Happy annifursary Duffy and Mary!  I'm glad that your gorgeous Duffy has
 his loving forever home and that you and Holly have such a wonderful
companion.

And you have an astonishing array of cat trees and scratching posts -
all very lovely!

Susan M
Otis and Chester
MaryL - 01 Feb 2008 06:00 GMT
>> Tomorrow (Jan. 31) is the fourth anniversary of the day I adopted Duffy.
>> It's hard to believe that four years have gone by, and he is a true
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> Susan M
> Otis and Chester

The cat trees are especially for Duffy.  Holly uses them, but not nearly to
the extent that he does.  Vertical space is very important for him since he
is blind.  He loves to climb and is like a little gymnast -- he will whip
around the poles of the cat trees and go up and down at amazing speed.  The
carpeted pole that is mounted beside the hutch (and the one lying
horizontally on top of the hutch) were ones that I had installed because he
would use shelves to climb to the top and then hang down from the top,
reaching toward me.  I was afraid he would slip and fall from the polished
wood since there was nothing for him to grasp, so I had the carpeted poles
put up for him to climb on and also be able to grab for protection.  He
loves it!  Holly also goes to the top of the hutch, but she seldom climbs
the pole.  Instead, she just leaps up and then surveys her domain.

MaryL
mlbriggs - 01 Feb 2008 05:49 GMT
> Tomorrow (Jan. 31) is the fourth anniversary of the day I adopted Duffy.
> It's hard to believe that four years have gone by, and he is a true
[quoted text clipped - 70 lines]
> Duffy and Holly together:  http://tinyurl.com/8b47e Duffy and the
> Christmas tree:  http://tinyurl.com/clal7

Many happy returns of the day!!!   MLB
 
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