Cat Forum / Cat Anecdotes / February 2008
Marilyn and her kitties left behind (long warning!)
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Baha - 24 Jan 2008 21:00 GMT The poor dear things, don't realize their Mama's gone into her own retirement and they wander about her place looking for her.
The service was at the mortuary and they got a local minister to do it. It was a small and quiet memorial; I wish Michelle had been granted her wish to speak though. I don't know if anyone knew just how stubborn Marilyn could be: this little, skinny woman once held a pack of city police at bay because cats were found in an abandoned building that was going to be demolished, and she stood there telling the cops to collectively do somethng involving their mothers and the breaking of certain commandments as clearly outlined in the Old Testament. Such was her passion for the animals who needed her. She did not need to go passing tracts and whacking people upside the head with her Bible; she lived the Christian witness without all the yammering and thumping one might associate more negatively with a born-again person.
The house is to be sold, the proceeds to go to a joint venture benefitting Hospice, the ALS (Lou Gehrig's disease) Association, and local animal shelters including Tenth Chance. The family are rather beside themselves over this unexpected bequest. Michelle of Tenth Chance has practically threatened the brother-in-residence to keep those remaining cats indoors, for we learned today that one of the ten is FIV+.
I don't know if ALS makes you a little whacked up in the head or what--not crazy, but confused. I knew Marilyn before that evil disease came and ate her nervous system up; she was religious about vetting her cats and when she did have one FIV case a couple of years ago she was stringent about sequestering her. So why this adoptee of three years is running about among the other cats, I've no clue. Not like Marilyn, unless ALS does something to cloud the judgement; I will cast no aspersions on her, for she was my friend, she was sick and it's not kosher to speak ill of our dead.
Michelle, the shelter president, has taken the cat in question to her own place, which has a large spacious room set aside for FIV cases. If Sebastian-- a large, fat, healthy-so-far fella--doesn't get adopted out to a nice loving one-cat household, he will not lack good care and love from the shelter folks. So William of Orange has not come home with us today. He will be tested tomorrow, as will all the others. Louie and I decided to pay for their testing so the negative ones can be adopted out sooner and hopefully not have to be quarantined; and the positive ones can be either placed with conscientious and competent servants or live their lies in the cat-aids sactuary. It was the least we could do for Marilyn, make sure her babies are okay.
If and when my book gets sold, a tithe of all proceeds will be placed in a charitable trust which we will set up in Marilyn's memory, to benefit the shelters. There are things beyond my scope of ability, but tis thing at least I can do to make the world a nicer neighborhood; and God willing, it'll spread.
Blessed be, Baha
bastXXXette@sonic.net - 24 Jan 2008 21:15 GMT > I don't know if anyone knew just how stubborn Marilyn could be: > this little, skinny woman once held a pack of city police at bay because cats > were found in an abandoned building that was going to be demolished, and she > stood there telling the cops to collectively do somethng involving their > mothers and the breaking of certain commandments as clearly outlined in the > Old Testament. LOL.
> I don't know if ALS makes you a little whacked up in the head or what--not > crazy, but confused. I knew Marilyn before that evil disease came and ate her > nervous system up; she was religious about vetting her cats and when she did > have one FIV case a couple of years ago she was stringent about sequestering > her. So why this adoptee of three years is running about among the other > cats, I've no clue. If the cats don't fight with each other, then it would be pretty safe to let them stay in the same space. As long as there's no biting or drawing of blood, the disease won't spread. (I'm assuming they're all neutered, so you wouldn't have to worry about sexual transmission.)
> Louie and I decided to pay for their > testing so the negative ones can be adopted out sooner and hopefully not have > to be quarantined; and the positive ones can be either placed with > conscientious and competent servants or live their lies in the cat-aids > sactuary. It was the least we could do for Marilyn, make sure her babies are > okay. I think that's a major thing for you to be doing for her. It sounds like those cats were her life, and I'm sure it must have tormented her to know that they would most likely outlive her, worrying about what would happen to them after she was gone. I think you can be pretty confident about saying "it's what she would have wanted."
Joyce
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leopardusweidii@yahoo.co.uk - 24 Jan 2008 21:17 GMT >. The family are rather beside themselves over > this unexpected bequest. Michelle of Tenth Chance has practically threatened [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > judgement; I will cast no aspersions on her, for she was my friend, she was > sick and it's not kosher to speak ill of our dead.//// I'm so sorry to hear of your friend Marilyn. We'll light a candle for her.
Re the FIV - it is perfectly OK to keep a non agressive FIV+ cat with FIV negative cats and it's not likely the neg cats will catch FIV. I know of several mixed households, my vets included, where FIV+ cats live perfectly happily with FIV negative cats without *ANY* problems.. It may be the quality of life for the FIV+ cat was better for him by allowing him to mix in the household.
Once again, purrs on the loss of your friend.
Helen M
Baha - 24 Jan 2008 21:29 GMT >I'm so sorry to hear of your friend Marilyn. We'll light a candle for >her. Thanks...
>Re the FIV - it is perfectly OK to keep a non agressive FIV+ cat with >FIV negative cats and it's not likely the neg cats will catch FIV. I >know of several mixed households, my vets included, where FIV+ cats >live perfectly happily with FIV negative cats without *ANY* problems.. >It may be the quality of life for the FIV+ cat was better for him by >allowing him to mix in the household. I guess my worry is Stosh. He's not mean, biting aggressive, but he likes very physical play. Think of Tigger in those Pooh cartoons, how he'd appear out of nowhere and pounce on some poor unsuspecting schmuck in the Hundred Acre Wood. He's not a biter but he does give the occasional "love nip" and he can spend all afternoon wrestling if given the opportunity. The Duke of Orange is not an aggressive fella and, to my knowledge, neither is Sebastian; Sebastian seems rather a wuss from everything I hear, but the worry came up when he cussed at another cat yesterday and gave a swat.
I'm hearing conflicting stories about FIV transmission; some say it's only through biting and blood, others say keep the cat sequestered because even sharing a litter box or food dish can spread it. So now I'm confused as all hell and my vet office is in conference and I can't even get a tech on the line.
>Once again, purrs on the loss of your friend. thanks again.
Blessed be, Baha
bastXXXette@sonic.net - 24 Jan 2008 21:34 GMT > I'm hearing conflicting stories about FIV transmission; some say it's only > through biting and blood, others say keep the cat sequestered because even > sharing a litter box or food dish can spread it. Maybe in the latter case, they were thinking of FeLV? That is highly contagious. But FIV (like HIV) is hard to transmit. A cat can't get it from a dirty toilet seat - er, litter box. :)
Joyce
Adrian - 24 Jan 2008 21:37 GMT > I'm hearing conflicting stories about FIV transmission; some say it's > only through biting and blood, others say keep the cat sequestered > because even sharing a litter box or food dish can spread it. So now > I'm confused as all hell and my vet office is in conference and I > can't even get a tech on the line. FIV can only be transmitted by bodily fluids, just the same as HIV. People that say sharing a litter box or food dish can spread it are quite frakly talking nonsense.
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Baha - 24 Jan 2008 22:06 GMT >FIV can only be transmitted by bodily fluids, just the same as HIV. People >that say sharing a litter box or food dish can spread it are quite frakly >talking nonsense. So in this case, what is the likeloood of a cat going into a box used by an FIV cat, then going into a grooming session, licking the traces of someone else's busines off his paws, and contracting the virus?
Adrian - 24 Jan 2008 22:27 GMT >> FIV can only be transmitted by bodily fluids, just the same as HIV. >> People that say sharing a litter box or food dish can spread it are [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > by an FIV cat, then going into a grooming session, licking the traces > of someone else's busines off his paws, and contracting the virus? Unless the cat has open sores or cuts in its mouth no problem, if it has there is a very tiny risk.
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Baha - 24 Jan 2008 22:51 GMT >>> FIV can only be transmitted by bodily fluids, just the same as HIV. >>> People that say sharing a litter box or food dish can spread it are [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] >Unless the cat has open sores or cuts in its mouth no problem, if it has >there is a very tiny risk. Bransy has a history of gingivitis, and is always a little bit pink around a couple of molars, despite daily brushing and the Mouth Rinse of Evil. Would this be a reason for concern?
Blessed be, Baha
leopardusweidii@yahoo.co.uk - 24 Jan 2008 23:54 GMT > Bransy has a history of gingivitis, and is always a little bit pink around a > couple of molars, despite daily brushing and the Mouth Rinse of Evil. Would > this be a reason for concern? > > Blessed be, > Baha To put it bluntly, NO. I think that you are stressing over things that are not there, I really do. If it helps any, FWIW, I personally wouldn't really think twice about offering an FIV+ kitty a home. Providing he/she was non-agressive, I'd be more than happy to integrate them into my clowder. All you need to do is be aware that their immune system is compromised, so if they got a bug, you'd need to be doubly careful to monitor and get them to TED.
I suspect that my Cleo is FIV+ because of on-going eye issues and sniffles etc, however I can't be bothered to test her as it would make not one iota of difference to how I treat her daily and it wouldn't affect how I treat her in my household.
Helen M
bastXXXette@sonic.net - 25 Jan 2008 00:28 GMT > I suspect that my Cleo is FIV+ because of on-going eye issues and > sniffles etc, however I can't be bothered to test her as it would make > not one iota of difference to how I treat her daily and it wouldn't > affect how I treat her in my household. That could be herpes... I speak as one with a 10-year-old herpes kitty. Those are the symptoms. The treatments would be different than for FIV. Myabe she should have an eye scrape? (I know, sounds gross, but it's not that bad.)
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Bettina - 25 Jan 2008 13:41 GMT > >FIV can only be transmitted by bodily fluids, just the same as HIV. People > >that say sharing a litter box or food dish can spread it are quite frakly [quoted text clipped - 6 lines] > -- > Message posted viahttp://www.catkb.com My vet told me that the FIV-virus can only live seconds/minutes outside a body. And it can only enter a body through open wounds. So if a FIV cat is neutered and is no fighter, there is little risk of passing that virus on.
Karen - 27 Jan 2008 15:12 GMT >> I'm so sorry to hear of your friend Marilyn. We'll light a candle for >> her. [quoted text clipped - 22 lines] > hell and my vet office is in conference and I can't even get a tech on the > line. FIV can absolutely only be spread through biting and deep wounds. FeLV is much more contageous. I think people mix the two up. It could easily be that they missed the one cat, and also, tests can be wrong. It should be tested again as well. My vet does not like to PTS FIV cats as she feels they are very treatable and as long as they stay healthy and you aggressively treat any ailments that come up, they can live to a ripe age, if it never gets to the full blown stage. They should be in a less stressful environment however. I hope this all comes out well.
Jack Campin - bogus address - 24 Jan 2008 21:31 GMT > we learned today that one of the ten is FIV+. > [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > her. So why this adoptee of three years is running about among the other cats, > I've no clue. ALS ("motor neurone disease" in the UK) has no effect at all on your thinking. It would be less horrible disease if it *did* fuddle your wits - as it is, you know exactly what's going to happen to you.
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Baha - 24 Jan 2008 22:09 GMT >ALS ("motor neurone disease" in the UK) has no effect at all on your >thinking. It would be less horrible disease if it *did* fuddle your >wits - as it is, you know exactly what's going to happen to you. All the braver of Marilyn to have faced it then; I would have considered the ramifications of my proximity to Niagara Falls, and the current market rate for barrels.
Blessed be, Baha
Stormmee - 24 Jan 2008 23:30 GMT you are truly a nice person, Lee
> The poor dear things, don't realize their Mama's gone into her own retirement > and they wander about her place looking for her. [quoted text clipped - 50 lines] > -- > Message posted via http://www.catkb.com Marina - 25 Jan 2008 04:00 GMT > The poor dear things, don't realize their Mama's gone into her own retirement > and they wander about her place looking for her. I'm very sorry for your loss - and the cats' loss, of course. We will be purring for you all.
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Lesley - 25 Jan 2008 18:43 GMT I don't know if anyone knew just how stubborn Marilyn could be:
> this little, skinny woman once held a pack of city police at bay because cats > were found in an abandoned building that was going to be demolished, and she > stood there telling the cops to collectively do somethng involving their > mothers and the breaking of certain commandments as clearly outlined in the > Old Testament. I wish I had seen that ! What a feisty lady she must have been!
> The house is to be sold, the proceeds to go to a joint venture benefitting > Hospice, the ALS (Lou Gehrig's disease) Association, and local animal > shelters including Tenth Chance. The family are rather beside themselves over > this unexpected bequest. They should shrug and say "It's what she wanted, it's her house after all". Sadly I know of cases were people think they have sort of God given right to something! I got money out of my mum's estate but I would give it all back if that could bring her back and my only consolation is that that was what she wanted. She was always proud she and dad could leave something so we wouldn't all be poor in our old age. But unless you are tallking about someone having a financial responsibility for someone then it's none of the families business,
> I don't know if ALS makes you a little whacked up in the head or what--not > crazy, but confused. Nope as someone else had said the tragic thing is it doesn't affect your mind. But the mobility issues may have made it harder for her to get the cats to a vet
> So William of Orange has not come home with us today. He will be tested > tomorrow, as will all the others. Louie and I decided to pay for their [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > sactuary. It was the least we could do for Marilyn, make sure her babies are > okay. Testing is only useful because if a cat is FIV+ then it means you have to be vigilant about that cats health and have them off to the vets at the first sniffle. Vinny (RB) the FIV+ cat I sponsored was put down for a tumour when he was 19. Although I have not had a cat with FIV I know people who have and the cats have lived long lives and passed on from unrelated causes (A friend of Dave's had a 20 year old cat who had been known to be FIV for many years and sucuumbed in the end of CRF) I would have no problems with offering a home to a healthy cat with FIV
It'd probably best to compare FIV with HIV. A lot of HIV carriers live perfectly normal lives some not even on treatment (Believe me I know this it's my job) they get checked every few months and if certain parameters suggest they need treatment (low CD4 and high viral load) they go onto therapy, which whilst it isn't perfect (side effects- adherence issues) means they live for years and often die of something unrelated to HIV. Not everyone with HIV has AIDS
As some other people have said FIV can really only be spread by biting and then even that isn't always an automatic infection. The viruses involved are incredibly delicate and cannot survive outside the bloodstream for more than a few seconds. OT a few years ago, Hugh called me at work, someone had tried to rob the off licence he managed only to be stopped by a have a go hero who wrestled the guy off but got cut in the process. Chaz the assistant on duty at the time, helped the guy and got blood on his clothes. The guy then admitted to being HIV+. Hugh wanted to know how to deal with the blood, His company paid for steam cleaning of the pavement outside the front of the shop some 8 or so hours after the blood spill by which time the virus was long since inactive but they insisted and paid hundreds of pounds. They also compensated Chaz for his shirt, trousers and shoes, which they said would have to be burned, Chaz who is wiser than they are, washed the clothes on a normal cycle, which made them safe and used the compensation to get an MP3 player.
Its okay to let infected cats in with uninfected one's as long as you're not talking unneutered toms who may fight. Also it's best to keep HIV cats indoors (here in the UK where sometimes shelters insist cats have outdoor access, FIV cats come with the instruction "To be rehomed to indoor only") but that is as much for their protection as anyone else's
Lesley
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Steve Touchstone - 27 Jan 2008 10:55 GMT >The poor dear things, don't realize their Mama's gone into her own retirement >and they wander about her place looking for her. <snip>
purrs on the way for all those left behind.
I just a couple thoughts on the FIV issue seeing as I'm coming on this late and most have already beaten me. From what I've read, FIV is much harder to transmit than HIV, so like several have already written, not a BIG worry unless there's a aggressive are very hard playing cat.
Another thing to remember is that the cats who have received the vaccination have false positives when tested. I went through this recently with Little Bit. For some still unexplained reason, her rear legs suddenly became very weak. TED did all kinds of tests, and came back and told me she was FIV+ Only later, as I was reading up on FIV did I remember that she and Sammy received the vaccination back when it first came out.
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polonca12000 - 01 Feb 2008 22:28 GMT > The poor dear things, don't realize their Mama's gone into her own retirement > and they wander about her place looking for her. <snip>
> So William of Orange has not come home with us today. He will be tested > tomorrow, as will all the others. Louie and I decided to pay for their [quoted text clipped - 12 lines] > Blessed be, > Baha Lots and lots of purrs, Polonca and Soncek
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