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Yowie - 18 Dec 2007 21:18 GMT The boys have sttled in and are no longer skulking arund the back of furniture. The long haired blue eyed deaf one (previously known as Indigo) is a very sooky puss, wanting to be picked up and cradled like a baby all the time. Nobody here has time or the inclination to have a 'baby' in their arms, so the poor old puss has to get used to walking on his own four paws and having to be more like a cat than a human baby. Being deaf, its hard to figure out a name for him, but Suki or Sooky seems to fit ok, but then again, so did Indigo. Unfortunatley both sound like girl's names to me, and as far as i can tell, he's a boy (having *massive* pantaloons, its hard to tell). Suki or whatever his name is, finds Cary's enthusiasm a little hard to take (and being deaf, can't hear him approach) and so there's been a few scratches - but very very light ones. They'll figure out to leave each other alone soon enough.
The short haired, golden eyed, slightly striped hearing one formerly known as Casper and tentatively named Kunks has gone through several names. Kunks, as much as it was a cool name, just didn't work (and Joel just couldn't prounounce it without giggling). T.D.2 was kinda cute (T.D. being short for 'Tweedle Dum') but the cat comes straight away if you call for "Pickles". So I think we have a Pickles the cat. Despite having perfect hearing, this cat is not scared of Cary and hasn't raised a claw at him - which is odd because Pickles is still hissing and swiping at Fluffy at every oppurtunity, whilst Suki has already touched noses with Fluffy. Pickles likes playing chasey with Cary and Cary gets hours of enjoyment playing 'cat fishing' with a peice of string. Pickles goes to Cary to play and curls up next to Cary when Cary is still and watching TV (a rare event, but happens occasionally). Clearly, Pickles has chosen Cary as his human, which is so sweet.
Although they we born on the same day and therefore most likely littermates, they lived seperately at least for a while as their veterinary records list two different addresses. They therefore *haven't* been together and never seperated, which explains why they more tolerate each other than being affectionate with each other. They don't curl up together or mutually groom. It also explains, at least to my mind, why Pickles behaves far more like a 'normal' cat (whatever that is) willing to play, groom, sleep on furniture and otherwise do cat things whereas Suki is under the impression he's a human baby, wants to be in our arms *all* the time, and isn't overly interested in normal catly things to do.
However, Suki is coming around to being a cat, because last night we did have an hour or so of Herd of Thundering Wildebeests Stampeding Across the Plains of the Serengeti at 4am, and I heard *both* bells jingle, rather than just Pickle's (Pickle, like Cary, rarely if ever stops). Suki is also starting to copy her brother in The Great Fly Hunt and despite his (I keep wanting to write 'her') all that long hair and elegance, can do a vertical jump to catch a fly that puts Pickles to shame. I'm hoping that Suki slowly gets used to being a cat here, and develops more of a personality like his brother. I think its a shame he was treated like a baby rather than a cat. I can *understand* it, but it means that the cat can never live their own life, and hte owner never really gets to experience the fun and laughter that catly behaviour can bring in one's life. Either that, or Suki's main role life is just to sit aruond and look extra pretty, which is fine too, he's extra good at it.
I find I am also quite allergic to Suki, and am having to take all my asthma and allergy related drugs to be close to him, so perhaps someone with a more severe allergy really couldn't be with him. He does like doing the face-hugger thing, and when he does, my eyes immediately start stinging and I can feel my lungs starting to ache, even on the extra medication. Pickles, on the other hand, doesn't seem to trigger my allergic reaction any more than Shmogg did. I'm trusting that my allergies will eventually settle down as I get more used to the new allergen in my envronment.
I'll post pictures when I have time to take them - its all a bit of a wild Christmas rush at the moment.
Yowie, Suki & Pickles
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bastXXXette@sonic.net - 18 Dec 2007 21:56 GMT > The boys have sttled in and are no longer skulking arund the back of > furniture. The long haired blue eyed deaf one (previously known as Indigo) > is a very sooky puss, wanting to be picked up and cradled like a baby all > the time. Nobody here has time or the inclination to have a 'baby' in their > arms, so the poor old puss has to get used to walking on his own four paws > and having to be more like a cat than a human baby. Aww, poor Sooky/Suki/Indigo! He just wants to be a cuddle-bucket. :) I'd love to have a kitty like that. But then, I don't have a human child, so (1) he would be a nice substitute, and (2) I wouldn't be too busy taking care of a human child to hold him like a baby. It sounds really sweet. Although maybe not *all* the time...
> Being deaf, its hard to > figure out a name for him, but Suki or Sooky seems to fit ok, but then > again, so did Indigo. Unfortunatley both sound like girl's names to me, and > as far as i can tell, he's a boy (having *massive* pantaloons, its hard to > tell). Didn't the former slave know his sex?
Also, how do we know that "Indigo" isn't the most macho tom-cat name in the feline universe? :)
(On the other hand, Indigo seems like an odd name for a *white* cat. I guess it was a reference to his blue eyes?)
> The short haired, golden eyed, slightly striped hearing one formerly known > as Casper and tentatively named Kunks has gone through several names. Kunks, > as much as it was a cool name, just didn't work (and Joel just couldn't > prounounce it without giggling). Neither would I be able to! :) In fact, it sounds just a bit short of a dirty word to me. :)
> T.D.2 was kinda cute (T.D. being short for > 'Tweedle Dum') but the cat comes straight away if you call for "Pickles". So > I think we have a Pickles the cat. That's an adorable name.
> Despite having perfect hearing, this cat > is not scared of Cary and hasn't raised a claw at him - which is odd because [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > Cary is still and watching TV (a rare event, but happens occasionally). > Clearly, Pickles has chosen Cary as his human, which is so sweet. That's wonderful! Sounds like Cary's having a great time. I see that he's already been well-trained for cat slavehood. Shmogg must be proud.
> It also explains, at least to my mind, why Pickles behaves far more like a > 'normal' cat (whatever that is) willing to play, groom, sleep on furniture > and otherwise do cat things whereas Suki is under the impression he's a > human baby, wants to be in our arms *all* the time, and isn't overly > interested in normal catly things to do. He might just be slower to adjust to the change in his habitat. Maybe being curled up in your arms is where he feels most secure, and right now, he needs extra security. I hope that as he gets used to his surroundings, he'll take an interest in feline occupations. But he might always be a very cuddly baby-wannabe, which might be OK as long as it's not all the time. (And as long as someone other than you likes doing it, since it doesn't seem to be very good for your respiratory system.)
> However, Suki is coming around to being a cat, because last night we did > have an hour or so of Herd of Thundering Wildebeests Stampeding Across the > Plains of the Serengeti at 4am, and I heard *both* bells jingle Sounds like his brother will help him plenty with the transition.
As disruptive as it can be, I love "Herd of Thundering Wildebeests" - it always amazes me that a creature weighing less than 20 lbs can make as much noise as a 2-ton creature, although perhaps shaking your house a little less.
> I think its a shame he was treated like a baby rather than a cat. > I can *understand* it, but it means that the cat can never live their own > life, and hte owner never really gets to experience the fun and laughter > that catly behaviour can bring in one's life. Well, I don't know his former slave, but from your description, she didn't sound like the sort who would try to make a human baby out of a cat. I'll bet that, left to his own devices, he'll find ways of amusing himself that will also amuse you.
> I'll post pictures when I have time to take them Looking forward to it!
Joyce
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Kreisleriana - 18 Dec 2007 21:59 GMT > The boys have sttled in and are no longer skulking arund the back of > furniture. The long haired blue eyed deaf one (previously known as Indigo) [quoted text clipped - 65 lines] > > Yowie, Suki & Pickles I LOVE the name "Pickles." Did you ever hear of Pickles the Fire Cat? http://search.barnesandnoble.com/booksearch/isbnInquiry.asp?z=y&EAN=9780064440387
leopardusweidii@yahoo.co.uk - 18 Dec 2007 22:05 GMT > The boys have sttled in and are no longer skulking arund the back of > furniture. The long haired blue eyed deaf one (previously known as Indigo) [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > figure out a name for him, but Suki or Sooky seems to fit ok, but then > again, so did Indigo.//// It's highly likely that he's looking for reassurance *BECAUSE* he's deaf. Deaf cats are more vocal *and* more clingy because of their disability. Rather than picking him up all the time, give him some sort of acknowledgement and affection, be it rubbing his head, or scritching him behind the ears. His behaviour is *seeking reassurance* behaviour. Please don't just ignore him.
>Suki or whatever his name is, finds Cary's enthusiasm a little hard >to take (and being deaf, can't hear him approach) and so there's been a few >scratches - but very very light ones. They'll figure out to leave each other >alone soon enough.//// *PLEASE* do not allow Cary to handle or approach Suki without very careful supervision. It's bad enough when deaf cats have to fit into child free households - the adjustment is difficult enough. When they are dealing with boisterous kids too, he *WILL* lash out if startled.
Helen M
Yowie - 19 Dec 2007 01:15 GMT >> The boys have sttled in and are no longer skulking arund the back of >> furniture. The long haired blue eyed deaf one (previously known as [quoted text clipped - 15 lines] > scritching him behind the ears. His behaviour is *seeking reassurance* > behaviour. Please don't just ignore him. He's definately not being ignored... he gets lots of scritches & cuddles every time he asks for an 'up' and we do often pick him up and give him a cuddle. We just can't carry him around all the time as he would seem to prefer. He's always welcome on my lap if I'm sitting (unless I'm also eating dinner, of course!) and Joel gives them both alot of scritchings when I'm not there. Suki even sits on Joel whilst he's playing WoW, which is cool.
>>Suki or whatever his name is, finds Cary's enthusiasm a little hard >>to take (and being deaf, can't hear him approach) and so there's been a [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > child free households - the adjustment is difficult enough. When they > are dealing with boisterous kids too, he *WILL* lash out if startled. Suki has a safe child-free hang outs in the laundry (which is always locked except for the cat-flap, I figure the cats lneed a 'safe' room), in the bookcase out of Cary's reach, under the computer table either on the chair when its tucked in or on Joel's lap where he's there, in my wardrobe (both out of Cary's sight), and on our laps if we're sitting down (and various other hidey holes I don't know about yet). Suki doens't play with Cary so much so Cary's not so interested in him, whilst Pickle seems to enjoy the activity, so thats where most of Cary's cat-attention goes. Cary will learnt how to interact with Shmogg without getting the wrath of his ire (and his wrath was *very* sharp indeed) whilst Shmogg learnt how not to attract Cary's undue attention, so I figure Suki & Cary will also reach this understanding in time, too (neither are stupid). For both cats and Cary its all a bit new and weird - I didn't imagine the settling in period would be without a few scratches and hisses as we all learn how to be a family together. I even got a good scratch from Pickle this morning, not because he was annoyed with meor I was doing something wrong in his eyes, but just because Pickle plays 'bed mice' differently to Shmogg and I'm not used to the new rules yet . But we'll get there, I'm sure.
If, however, it becomes obvious that Suki is not happy here, then since the two cats don't seem to be as bonded as the original owner implied, then I'll start looking for a place where Suki will be happy (I think Pickle is already happy having a place to run riot and a special little person to play with.) I'd very much like it to be *our* home, but I figure that even if we are a stepping stone, surely our home has to be better than being locked in a bathroom 24/7.
But, its early days yet and there's bound to be a few bumpy moments with the settling in process. Its not going to be for a lack of effort or indeed, lack of love.
Yowie
Granby - 19 Dec 2007 01:26 GMT Yowie, my son has a deaf kitty and at first, he wanted to be held a lot. Now, Amy has taught him sign language. You always make the same motion when you want him to come, if you pick him up, make that sign. When you want feed, do the same thing. For instance. Come is to put four fingers together and make the come here thing. Food is to open your fingers and wave that hand. You can make own signs but, you have to be consonant.
>>> The boys have sttled in and are no longer skulking arund the back of >>> furniture. The long haired blue eyed deaf one (previously known as [quoted text clipped - 69 lines] > > Yowie Yowie - 19 Dec 2007 01:31 GMT > Yowie, my son has a deaf kitty and at first, he wanted to be held a lot. > Now, Amy has taught him sign language. You always make the same motion [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > together and make the come here thing. Food is to open your fingers and > wave that hand. You can make own signs but, you have to be consonant. I know thats a typo and should be 'consistant' but it is rather funny..... but I'm probably just in a vowel mood :-)
As to the sign language, thats a really smart thing to do. Suki recognises 'come here' (two pats on the lap), and knows what the food bowl is. I'll have to remember to make a sign for "i'm going to pick you up".
Thanks for the tip, it makes heaps of sense.
Yowie
Granby - 19 Dec 2007 03:16 GMT Your vowely welcome for the tip.
Startling him out of sleep or if he doesn't see you can be the most upsetting to him.
>> Yowie, my son has a deaf kitty and at first, he wanted to be held a lot. >> Now, Amy has taught him sign language. You always make the same motion [quoted text clipped - 14 lines] > > Yowie Adrian A - 19 Dec 2007 14:09 GMT >> Yowie, my son has a deaf kitty and at first, he wanted to be held a >> lot. Now, Amy has taught him sign language. You always make the [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > I know thats a typo and should be 'consistant' but it is rather > funny..... but I'm probably just in a vowel mood :-) Grooooooooooan.
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bastXXXette@sonic.net - 19 Dec 2007 01:44 GMT > He's definately not being ignored... he gets lots of scritches & cuddles > every time he asks for an 'up' and we do often pick him up and give him a > cuddle. We just can't carry him around all the time as he would seem to > prefer. He's always welcome on my lap if I'm sitting (unless I'm also eating > dinner, of course!) and Joel gives them both alot of scritchings when I'm > not there. Suki even sits on Joel whilst he's playing WoW, which is cool. Hey, why not get a baby sling? Then you can just carry him around with you, hands free, as you go about your day. :) (I'm kidding, but if you like the idea, cool.)
By the way, I think your approach is quite sensible. It'll take a while for everyone to get used to each other, and learn what to expect from each other. Sounds like things are progressing quite well, actually.
Joyce
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Granby - 18 Dec 2007 22:14 GMT Yowie, my son has a deaf kitty and at first, he wanted to be held a lot. Now, Amy has taught him sign language. You always make the same motion when you want him to come, if you pick him up, make that sign. When you want feed, do the same thing. For instance. Come is to put four fingers together and make the come here thing. Food is to open your fingers and wave that hand. You can make own but, you have to be consonant.
> The boys have sttled in and are no longer skulking arund the back of > furniture. The long haired blue eyed deaf one (previously known as Indigo) [quoted text clipped - 65 lines] > > Yowie, Suki & Pickles Stormmee - 18 Dec 2007 22:19 GMT I knew I did right by sending lewi there, you should send her the book of signs if Amy has it done, Lee
> Yowie, my son has a deaf kitty and at first, he wanted to be held a lot. > Now, Amy has taught him sign language. You always make the same motion when [quoted text clipped - 74 lines] > > If you're paddling upstream in a canoe and a wheel falls off, how many > > pancakes can you fit in a doghouse? None, icecream doesn't have bones. Susan M - 19 Dec 2007 03:20 GMT > The boys have sttled in and are no longer skulking arund the back of > furniture. The long haired blue eyed deaf one (previously known as Indigo) [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > scratches - but very very light ones. They'll figure out to leave each other > alone soon enough. Concatulations Vicky! I'm so excited for you and cannot wait for pics.
How sweet that Pickles has taken Carey has his hoomin!!!!!!
Susan M Otis and Chester
Marina - 19 Dec 2007 05:50 GMT > I'll post pictures when I have time to take them - its all a bit of a wild > Christmas rush at the moment. Glad to hear they are both settling in to their new home so well.
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