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Cat Forum / Cat Anecdotes / December 2007I can't get past the pain of losing Case
http://i19.photobucket.com/albums/b171/lync_jl/The%20Boys/Casey_face.jpg I can't find a cat like him. > http://i19.photobucket.com/albums/b171/lync_jl/The%20Boys/Casey_face.jpg > > I can't find a cat like him. The pain will ease. You'll never lose the feelings you have for Casey, but they will change. Sorrow and anger will change to happy memories - but they're still the same feelings. Love conquers all. The Great Cat will send you a new master or mistress when She knows you're ready - you don't have to go looking for a cat. Of course a cat will find you - but I doubt it'll be like Casey. Cats are people too, you know - no two are alike. Similar, maybe - but never the same.  SignatureMatSav On Dec 15, 8:20 pm, "MatSav" <matthew | dot | savage | at | dsl | dot | pipex | dot | com> wrote: > [quoted text clipped - 14 lines] > -- > MatSav the pain is like I lost a child at this point. thank you for your words. I know what you are feeling right now and, yes, the analogy of a child is close. I miss my Scooter so bad I can taste the hurt sometime but, as in all things, the world keeps turning and life moves on whether we like it or not. Sanding purrs and prayers for your pain to ease. That and a couple of glasses of good wine will help for a couple of hours anyway. > On Dec 15, 8:20 pm, "MatSav" <matthew | dot | savage | at | dsl | dot > | pipex | dot | com> wrote: [quoted text clipped - 18 lines] > the pain is like I lost a child at this point. thank you for your > words. > I know what you are feeling right now and, yes, the analogy of a child is > close. I miss my Scooter so bad I can taste the hurt sometime but, as in [quoted text clipped - 26 lines] > > the pain is like I lost a child at this point. thank you for your > > words. Geez. Thanks I think? I'm still trying to live without Case. It's been difficult. On Dec 15, 8:20 pm, "MatSav" <matthew | dot | savage | at | dsl | dot | pipex | dot | com> wrote: > [quoted text clipped - 6 lines] > happy memories - but they're still the same feelings. Love > conquers all. Six months seems to be a good time frame for deep mourning. Oh, you'll never be *over* your loss, but in six months you might be able to think about Casey without immediately tearing up. The pain will get better. Casey will live on, in your happy memories and love. My Fin has been gone for over 3 years now, and my eyes still leak a little when I think about him, but then Rita comes over and demands petting, and I remember that she needs me too. She's not a replacement. She's just part of the next stage of my life. Jane >> http://i19.photobucket.com/albums/b171/lync_jl/The%20Boys/Casey_face.jpg >> [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > you - but I doubt it'll be like Casey. Cats are people too, you know - no > two are alike. Similar, maybe - but never the same. What Mat said. I don't think I'll *ever* stop missing Shmogg, but I now, after my heart has healed enough, Ican go on loving and living. The Mothership recognised my need, and sent me two furry masters to look after me - they're nothing like Shmogg but need me and I need them. There will be no other cat like Shmogg, but if these cats *were* like him, I'd never recognise their own uniqueness, I'd always just be wishing they'd be him, rather than being able to appreciate them as themselves. Yowie > http://i19.photobucket.com/albums/b171/lync_jl/The%20Boys/Casey_face.jpg > > I can't find a cat like him. {{{{{yepp}}}}} Susan M Otis and Chester > >http://i19.photobucket.com/albums/b171/lync_jl/The%20Boys/Casey_face.jpg > [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > Susan M > Otis and Chester Thank you all. It seemed to me that you were into my thoughts there for a while. Thanks for giving me some space. > http://i19.photobucket.com/albums/b171/lync_jl/The%20Boys/Casey_face.jpg > > I can't find a cat like him. You never will. But you will love another cat, just a very different one. Even our three male pedigreed applehead meezers have been far more different than they have similar. Jo > >http://i19.photobucket.com/albums/b171/lync_jl/The%20Boys/Casey_face.jpg > [quoted text clipped - 6 lines] > > Jo Thanks. > http://i19.photobucket.com/albums/b171/lync_jl/The%20Boys/Casey_face.jpg > > I can't find a cat like him. It's been a very short time. The first two months after Frank passed, I was sort of numb, then it hit me like a ton of bricks and I was a wreck for a while. Couldn't even read rpca for a while, because it reminded me so much of him. I wish I could help you, but you just have to suffer through it. It does get better, though you'll never stop missing him. Go and hug Bobby (if he'll let you) and take these purrs from us. Mir: silent but magical purrs Caliban: loud, immensely soothing purrs SignatureMarina > http://i19.photobucket.com/albums/b171/lync_jl/The%20Boys/Casey_face.jpg > > I can't find a cat like him. You never will find a cat like him, as with all cats Casey was unique. One day you will find another cat to share your life who'll you will love as much but differently. SignatureAdrian (Owned by Snoopy & Bagheera) Cats leave pawprints on your heart http://community.webshots.com/user/clowderuk I can only tell you that what all the others have told you is true. You will never get over losing Casey. Your heart will hurt but in time will adjust to the pain and Casey shaped hole in it. {{{{{{Hugs}}}}} SignatureCharleen Aggie Marble, Victor Velcro The Spirit of Mr. Pumpkin St. Cloud, Florida USA > http://i19.photobucket.com/albums/b171/lync_jl/The%20Boys/Casey_face.jpg > > I can't find a cat like him. > http://i19.photobucket.com/albums/b171/lync_jl/The%20Boys/Casey_face.jpg > I can't find a cat like him. He had the same sort of lovable wackiness as my Splodge. I didn't know cats like that existed before he came along, either. ============== j-c ====== @ ====== purr . demon . co . uk ============== Jack Campin: 11 Third St, Newtongrange EH22 4PU, Scotland | tel 0131 660 4760 <http://www.purr.demon.co.uk/jack/> for CD-ROMs and free | fax 0870 0554 975 stuff: Scottish music, food intolerance, & Mac logic fonts | mob 07800 739 557 > http://i19.photobucket.com/albums/b171/lync_jl/The%20Boys/Casey_face.jpg > > I can't find a cat like him. Lots and lots of purrs, Polonca and Soncek > >http://i19.photobucket.com/albums/b171/lync_jl/The%20Boys/Casey_face.jpg > > > I can't find a cat like him. > > Lots and lots of purrs, > Polonca and Soncek I did take in a foster today and he looks much like Casey but it is not Casey. This cat is very different and I realize I am still in the grieving stage but I couldn't take another week of Bobby being alone and I also need another cat around here. >> >http://i19.photobucket.com/albums/b171/lync_jl/The%20Boys/Casey_face.jpg >> [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > grieving stage but I couldn't take another week of Bobby being alone and I > also need another cat around here. We are sending "make yourself at home purrs" to your new friend. MLB > >> >http://i19.photobucket.com/albums/b171/lync_jl/The%20Boys/Casey_face.jpg > [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > > We are sending "make yourself at home purrs" to your new friend. MLB Thanks. He is now in the closet close to the litter boxes so I just hope he knows where to pee. never fear, you will be the first to know if he doesn't know! >> >> >http://i19.photobucket.com/albums/b171/lync_jl/The%20Boys/Casey_face.jpg >> [quoted text clipped - 13 lines] > Thanks. He is now in the closet close to the litter boxes so I just > hope he knows where to pee. |
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