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Susan M - 15 Dec 2007 20:34 GMT
Hi all:

I've been lurking and sending purrs for the past few months as things
just got out of hand in RL between the baby, the Board of Directors work
 (I'm now finished) and various other family issues.

O&C say "hi" and are, at this moment, doing their best decorative
cushion impressions - they've been curled up in cat discs since winter
started with a vengeance in November.  Too old to venture Out in these
deplorable conditions they tell me.

They are in a tizzy over their litterbox situation as well.  We're doing
a basement reno and that's where all 3 of their litterboxes are.  There
are saws and compressors and any number of loud men down there and the
boys have been at their wits end.  Too cold Out but too noisy Down.  We
put a clean litterbox on the main floor but its just too Not In The
Normal Place for them.

The reno is drawing to a close and life will get back to normal for all
of us.  The contractor had to hear all about the kind of floor that we
needed - it had to be able to be wiped clean since our cats will barf on
any horizontal surface.  He wanted us to have carpet (no thank you) and
Berber at that (can you say scratching post?).  Instead, we opted for
the bright red marmoleum.  It's gorgeous all on its own and the boys
look stunning against the red backdrop :D  Colour sample here if you're
interested http://www.urbaneliving.co.uk/products.php?cat=95&pg=2

Otis saved Chester the other night through valiant yowling in the
basement.  I thought he was just complaining about his litterbox again
but something told me to go down and see what he was on about.  He was
standing outside the locked furnace room door, behind which Chester was
stranded.  What a good boy he is - and unusual for him to actually
*bring* Chester to my attention.  He spends most of his time trying to
prevent us from paying attention to him ...

Otis has been a real comfort, as usual.  Waits outside the baby's room
while I feed the baby and curls up to purr on my head as soon as I'm
back to bed.  He's lucky I'm hyper vigilant as he actually waits right
*on* the threshold and doesn't move when I open the door. He's right
where my foot would land if I didn't expect him there.

OT:  The baby is 10 months old in two days.  He's crawling now, can say
"da da" pretty consistently, and learned to wave this week.  He laughs
when you just look at him and is a total and utter delight.  The older
two are helping lots, though I think Sam would like to trade in his
brother to get all the attention back to him.  I would too if I were him.

OT:  Fred's mom, former slave to Snuffy, the evil cat who held on until
19 yo, has just been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and we're all
reeling.  She seems so healthy and the tumour is supposedly small-ish
but is wrapped around a vein so they say it is inoperable.  She's such a
wonderful woman and it still seems so unreal.  Any purrs for a life long
cat lover, Grandma Shirley, would be much appreciated.

I'll sign off now.  I have a new photo site
http://www.flickr.com/photos/15551529@N06/ for bird and kid photos.  The
cats are still at:  http://community.webshots.com/user/susanmandfredk

Take care,

Susan M
Otis and Chester
jofirey - 15 Dec 2007 21:42 GMT
> Hi all:
>
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> Susan M
> Otis and Chester

Wonderful to hear from you.  Though I'm so sorry about Shirley.  We will
keep her in our prayers.

For some reason just in the last week I've been thinking about you and
wondering how your family was doing.  I figured Andrew (?name right) had got
himself mobile and was keeping you on your toes.

Jo
Susan M - 16 Dec 2007 02:05 GMT
> Wonderful to hear from you.  Though I'm so sorry about Shirley.  We will
> keep her in our prayers.

Thank you Jo - that is so kind of you.  I will pass that along to
Grandma Shirley and she will be touched.  There is a picture of her with
Andrew here from this summer:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/15551529@N06/1971579021/in/set-72157603090576074/
 She is 80 and has been so full of zip.  I admire her so much.

> For some reason just in the last week I've been thinking about you and
> wondering how your family was doing.  I figured Andrew (?name right) had got
> himself mobile and was keeping you on your toes.

Thank you again Jo - it's so nice to be "back" :-)  Andrew (excellent
memory - I have none left after rejoining the ranks of the sleep
deprived) has been keeping us on our toes.  Everyone told us that the
third would be a real blessing and we are amazed at the magnitude of
that.  I think we have a different perspective on parenthood being 41
and 45 than we did at 31 and 35, especially with our own parents being
ill now.  I just want to hang on to every day and every minute with all
my children.  I have a lot more patience than I did the first time.  I
think that #3 is lucky to have parents at that stage in many respects.

Take care,

Susan M
Otis and Chester
Victor Martinez - 15 Dec 2007 23:40 GMT
> I've been lurking and sending purrs for the past few months as things
> just got out of hand in RL between the baby, the Board of Directors work
>  (I'm now finished) and various other family issues.

I was wondering were you were hiding. I was just thinking about you the
other day, Tom and I went to The Crossings and it reminded me of your visit.

> started with a vengeance in November.  Too old to venture Out in these
> deplorable conditions they tell me.

Yay! Stay inside you crazy Otis! :)

> stranded.  What a good boy he is - and unusual for him to actually
> *bring* Chester to my attention.  He spends most of his time trying to
> prevent us from paying attention to him ...

Otis has a heart of gold, I've always said so. Even if he's a pain in
the arse. :)

> OT:  The baby is 10 months old in two days.  He's crawling now, can say
> "da da" pretty consistently, and learned to wave this week.  He laughs
> when you just look at him and is a total and utter delight.  The older

We just had friends visit over thanksgiving with their 8 month old
daughter and she was adorable!

> two are helping lots, though I think Sam would like to trade in his
> brother to get all the attention back to him.  I would too if I were him.

Awww... poor Sam!

> wonderful woman and it still seems so unreal.  Any purrs for a life long
> cat lover, Grandma Shirley, would be much appreciated.

Lots and lots of healing purrs.

> Susan M
> Otis and Chester

Give scritches to both of them for me and hi to everybody else. :)

Victor, just coming home from a yoga workshop that included a 30 minute
seated meditation.

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Susan M - 16 Dec 2007 02:23 GMT
>> I've been lurking and sending purrs for the past few months as things
>> just got out of hand in RL between the baby, the Board of Directors
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> other day, Tom and I went to The Crossings and it reminded me of your
> visit.

Thanks Victor - I've been thinking of you and Tom with your mysterious
scary cat barf (and in other more pleasant ways) and sending my best
healing thoughts to your crew.  Has Tom been doing much photography
lately?  Sounds like you have a good yoga practice - you must be doing
so well!  Does Tom do yoga and meditation too?

>> started with a vengeance in November.  Too old to venture Out in these
>> deplorable conditions they tell me.
>
> Yay! Stay inside you crazy Otis! :)

Until the spring ...   But even this spring and summer he toned things
down a lot and stuck around home most of the time.  He sleeps on the cat
tower in the backyard and, joy of joys for him, helps us garden when
we're out.  What a steadfast companion he is.

>> stranded.  What a good boy he is - and unusual for him to actually
>> *bring* Chester to my attention.  He spends most of his time trying to
>> prevent us from paying attention to him ...
>
> Otis has a heart of gold, I've always said so. Even if he's a pain in
> the arse. :)

I'm actually kind of embarrassed, after he's built up this legendary
reputation as Otis the Black, to say that he's almost getting kind of
normal for a cat.  Kind of.  Just kind of.

>> OT:  The baby is 10 months old in two days.  He's crawling now, can
>> say "da da" pretty consistently, and learned to wave this week.  He
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
> We just had friends visit over thanksgiving with their 8 month old
> daughter and she was adorable!

He is ridiculously kissable and huggable.  His forearms are so fat that
they spill over onto his hands and they look like screw on hands.  He
wrinkles up his nose when he smiles and belly laughs.  So funny.

>> two are helping lots, though I think Sam would like to trade in his
>> brother to get all the attention back to him.  I would too if I were him.
>
> Awww... poor Sam!

When we told him about Grandma Shirley being sick he said that in his
heart, his love heart, he knew that in the summer when Grandma Shirley
went for her cat scan that she had cancer (we hadn't discussed this with
him).  He has told me before that he knows that your soul remains the
same when you die, its just not in your body anymore.  He was 6 when he
told me that.  He is just an old soul - sensitive and perceptive.  He
will find it easier with his peers as they all get older...

>> wonderful woman and it still seems so unreal.  Any purrs for a life
>> long cat lover, Grandma Shirley, would be much appreciated.
>
> Lots and lots of healing purrs.

Thank you so much for that and I will tell Grandma Shirley that you've
passed them along.

>> Susan M
>> Otis and Chester
>
> Give scritches to both of them for me and hi to everybody else. :)

Well - I gave them a good pummeling instead - and they loved it :D

> Victor, just coming home from a yoga workshop that included a 30 minute
> seated meditation.

Wow.  You must feel so good.  that's what I need to do... instead, Fred
and I are watching "Knocked Up" tonight.  Hmmm...
Joy - 16 Dec 2007 00:18 GMT
Purrs for Shirley and all who love her.

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> Hi all:
>
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> Susan M
> Otis and Chester
Susan M - 16 Dec 2007 02:24 GMT
> Purrs for Shirley and all who love her.

Thank you Joy - I will tell her that you are thinking about her.

Susan M
Otis and Chester
Marina - 16 Dec 2007 08:49 GMT
> OT:  Fred's mom, former slave to Snuffy, the evil cat who held on until
> 19 yo, has just been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and we're all
> reeling.  She seems so healthy and the tumour is supposedly small-ish
> but is wrapped around a vein so they say it is inoperable.  She's such a
> wonderful woman and it still seems so unreal.  Any purrs for a life long
> cat lover, Grandma Shirley, would be much appreciated.

Great to have an update from you, Susan. Purrs are coming over the pond
for Grandma Shirley.

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Susan M - 17 Dec 2007 21:39 GMT
>> OT:  Fred's mom, former slave to Snuffy, the evil cat who held on
>> until 19 yo, has just been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and we're
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> Great to have an update from you, Susan. Purrs are coming over the pond
> for Grandma Shirley.

Thank you so much Marina.  I'm passing these along to Grandma Shirley.

Susan M
Otis and Chester
Gandalf - 16 Dec 2007 19:44 GMT
>Hi all:
>
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>Susan M
>Otis and Chester

I has been awhile since I've read anything about Otis and Chester.

I hope Grandma Shirley has a LOT of quality time left to spend with
family and friends.

Purrs are on the way to that end.

~~~~~~~~~~~~
"Life without cats would be only marginally worth living."
-TC, and the unmercifully, relentlessly, sweet calico kitty, Kenzie.

How you behave towards cats here below determines your status in Heaven.
- Robert Heinlein

Life is very difficult. Once you understand that, life becomes easier.
-Buddha
Susan M - 17 Dec 2007 21:40 GMT
> I has been awhile since I've read anything about Otis and Chester.

Well, they're getting pretty predictable these days, finally ;-)  Lots
of sleeping and eating and cuddling and a lot less running away, getting
lost, and destroying personal property!

> I hope Grandma Shirley has a LOT of quality time left to spend with
> family and friends.
>
> Purrs are on the way to that end.

Thank you.  We hope so too.

Susan M
Otis and Chester
bastXXXette@sonic.net - 17 Dec 2007 22:49 GMT
>> I has been awhile since I've read anything about Otis and Chester.

> Well, they're getting pretty predictable these days, finally ;-)  Lots
> of sleeping and eating and cuddling and a lot less running away, getting
> lost, and destroying personal property!

And how about letting you get a decent night's sleep? Have they calmed
down enough for that, or do they (ie, Otis) still need to spend the
occasional night in the basement? I love how Otis waits for you outside
Andrew's bedroom when you're feeding him.

I'm glad you're back too.

Purrs for everyone, especially Shirley.

Joyce
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Susan M - 18 Dec 2007 03:23 GMT
> And how about letting you get a decent night's sleep? Have they calmed
> down enough for that, or do they (ie, Otis) still need to spend the
> occasional night in the basement? I love how Otis waits for you outside
> Andrew's bedroom when you're feeding him.

The decent night's sleep - not exactly.  Otis is getting better at
sleeping through merely because its cold so he likes to lay still,
snuggle, and get warm.  The downside is that he has to be pressed up
against me at all times to stay warm so, if I roll over or get up, he
insists on getting up again and repositioning himself each time.  This
involves the   standard disagreement that we have between him trying to
sleep on all my breathing holes (both nostrils and mouth) and me trying
to push him away.  He doesn't understand that if he suffocates me, he
won't get fed in the AM.

THEN, Chester has to come to bed once Otis is groggy so that Otis
doesn't chase him away.  Chester still does his crazy Kramer entrances,
which are rather shocking, and then insists on sharing his loud rumbley
joy at being on the bed for a while - kneading contentedly with sharp
claws on my neck.

So, between the baby getting up 4 times a night, the cats repositioning,
and then Fred getting up at 6 AM to go to work, I'm a little disoriented
most of the time.

No, the baby shouldn't be getting up that often anymore.  I'd let him
cry a bit except that he's currently all stopped up and is teething and
I don't like him suffering and crying.  It's one thing to be mad that
mom won't come and hang with you for a while but its another to have
stomach and teeth pains AND not have mom come when you call.  Problem
is, I rather abruptly weaned him off night feedings, he ate way more
solids and had way less fluid ... and got NASTY HORRIFIC constipation.
So, I'm having some kind of balancing problem here to get him sleeping
but pooping on a regular basis.

And I'm a pushover, it seems ;-)  Blah blah blah...

> I'm glad you're back too.

thanks :D

> Purrs for everyone, especially Shirley.

Thank you so much - she is very touched by her worldwide support.

Susan M
Otis and Chester
Granby - 18 Dec 2007 04:25 GMT
It may not seem like it now but the day will come when you are awake and
wish the baby would wake up so you could hold and rock. The night cuddles
are the ones most of us remember most.

>> And how about letting you get a decent night's sleep? Have they calmed
>> down enough for that, or do they (ie, Otis) still need to spend the
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> Susan M
> Otis and Chester
Susan M - 18 Dec 2007 03:44 GMT
> It may not seem like it now but the day will come when you are awake and
> wish the baby would wake up so you could hold and rock. The night cuddles
> are the ones most of us remember most.

You know - having the older kids around makes that all too clear.  My
eldest, now 9, is ridiculously tall, gangly, and not super cuddly.  The
next, now 7, is cuddly but 61 pounds of dead weight.  They read, they
write, they do math and ride bicycles.  I never imagined the day that
they'd be so independent.

It makes me maudlin with the little one.  Crying at each "first" knowing
it will be the last "first".

... and I was voted least likely to ever have children of all my friends...

Susan M
Otis and Chester
Marina - 18 Dec 2007 05:27 GMT
> THEN, Chester has to come to bed once Otis is groggy so that Otis
> doesn't chase him away.  Chester still does his crazy Kramer entrances,
> which are rather shocking, and then insists on sharing his loud rumbley
> joy at being on the bed for a while - kneading contentedly with sharp
> claws on my neck.

I'm sorry about your interrupted sleep, but couldn't help laughing at
Otis' and Kramer's... err Chester's antics. Love that description.

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bastXXXette@sonic.net - 18 Dec 2007 06:54 GMT
> > THEN, Chester has to come to bed once Otis is groggy so that Otis
> > doesn't chase him away.  Chester still does his crazy Kramer entrances,
> > which are rather shocking, and then insists on sharing his loud rumbley
> > joy at being on the bed for a while - kneading contentedly with sharp
> > claws on my neck.

> I'm sorry about your interrupted sleep, but couldn't help laughing at
> Otis' and Kramer's... err Chester's antics. Love that description.

I didn't watch that show, so I'm not sure who's who. Was Kramer the
guy with the bad hair?

Joyce
Susan M - 18 Dec 2007 20:30 GMT
>  > I'm sorry about your interrupted sleep, but couldn't help laughing at
>  > Otis' and Kramer's... err Chester's antics. Love that description.
>
> I didn't watch that show, so I'm not sure who's who. Was Kramer the
> guy with the bad hair?

That's right Joyce - the guy with the crazy hair who would suddenly
burst into Seinfeld's room, sliding on the floor and usually having some
physical comedy problem.  That's my Chester.  By day, delicate and
precise.  By night, a wild man.

Susan M
Otis and Chester
Susan M - 18 Dec 2007 20:29 GMT
>> THEN, Chester has to come to bed once Otis is groggy so that Otis
>> doesn't chase him away.  Chester still does his crazy Kramer
[quoted text clipped - 4 lines]
> I'm sorry about your interrupted sleep, but couldn't help laughing at
> Otis' and Kramer's... err Chester's antics. Love that description.

... you gotta love 'em with all their purrsonality ... despite the lack
of sleep ;-)

Susan M
Otis and Chester
bastXXXette@sonic.net - 18 Dec 2007 06:53 GMT
> The decent night's sleep - not exactly.  Otis is getting better at
> sleeping through merely because its cold so he likes to lay still,
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
> to push him away.  He doesn't understand that if he suffocates me, he
> won't get fed in the AM.

Nor will you keep him warm for very long. :)

Joyce
Susan M - 18 Dec 2007 20:31 GMT
>  > The decent night's sleep - not exactly.  Otis is getting better at
>  > sleeping through merely because its cold so he likes to lay still,
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
>
> Nor will you keep him warm for very long. :)

It took me a minute to figure that out ... must be tired ;-)

Susan M
Otis and Chester
bastXXXette@sonic.net - 18 Dec 2007 21:57 GMT
> >  > The decent night's sleep - not exactly.  Otis is getting better at
> >  > sleeping through merely because its cold so he likes to lay still,
[quoted text clipped - 7 lines]
> >
> > Nor will you keep him warm for very long. :)

> It took me a minute to figure that out ... must be tired ;-)

Or perhaps you're just a little less morbid than I am?

Joyce
polonca12000 - 22 Dec 2007 22:16 GMT
 Purrs for everyone, especially Shirley.

> Susan M wrote:
> Thank you so much - she is very touched by her worldwide support.
>
> Susan M
> Otis and Chester

Lots and lots of purrs and hugs from us too,
Polonca and Soncek
Charleen Welton - 17 Dec 2007 14:20 GMT
Hi Susan, it is good to see you back. You have been a very busy person. Your
photographs are fantastic! Do you do them professionally?  Many purrs and
prayers for Grandma Shirley.
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> Hi all:
>
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> Susan M
> Otis and Chester
Susan M - 17 Dec 2007 21:44 GMT
> Hi Susan, it is good to see you back.

Thank you Charleen - good to be back!

>You have been a very busy person.

I was saying to Fred last night that we're all *too* busy these days!  I
think I liked that no-Sunday-shopping and all of that....

>Your
> photographs are fantastic! Do you do them professionally?  

Thanks!  Not professionally - just scratching the surface now but
enjoying it thoroughly.  Got a shot of a Townsend's Solitaire yesterday,
which was thrilling.  Not super common around these parts and even less
so at this time of year.  The thrill of the stalk and the shot!  My kids
are growing weary of always being in front of a lens...

Many purrs and
> prayers for Grandma Shirley.

Thank you Charleen.

Susan M
Otis and Chester
Matthew - 18 Dec 2007 04:29 GMT
Glad to see you back

> Hi all:
>
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> Susan M
> Otis and Chester
Susan M - 18 Dec 2007 03:45 GMT
> Glad to see you back

Thank you Matthew.  I'm glad that Phantom is feeling better.

Susan M
Otis and Chester
Matthew - 18 Dec 2007 05:09 GMT
>> Glad to see you back
>
> Thank you Matthew.  I'm glad that Phantom is feeling better.
>
> Susan M
> Otis and Chester

Back to being the old pain in the butt he is ;-)
Susan M - 18 Dec 2007 20:31 GMT
>>> Glad to see you back
>>
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>
> Back to being the old pain in the butt he is ;-)

Got to love it!  Wonderful.

Susan M
Otis and Chester
Steve Touchstone - 18 Dec 2007 11:20 GMT
Purrs on the way for Shirley

Give Otis some extra scritches for a job well done on his rescue of
Chester

And we're sending along reno and litterbox purrs as well.

I'm thinking about where to fit in another box here with my two
additions, just not many places to put one in a small one bedroom,
especially since the bedroom and living room are carpeted.
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Susan M - 18 Dec 2007 20:35 GMT
> Purrs on the way for Shirley

Thank you so much for that.

> Give Otis some extra scritches for a job well done on his rescue of
> Chester

Now that he's finished biting Chester on the neck for asking for
scritches, I can give Otis *his* scritches!  What a juvenile cat
sometimes that Otis.

> And we're sending along reno and litterbox purrs as well.

Thanks - the reno purrs don't seem to be working though ;-)  No one
showed up AGAIN TODAY.  Not that I'm annoyed or anything with them ...

> I'm thinking about where to fit in another box here with my two
> additions, just not many places to put one in a small one bedroom,
> especially since the bedroom and living room are carpeted.

Litterboxes are just *too* hard.  It seems that, once they're placed,
the cats never want to go anywhere else.  Fred is convinced that we'll
just move the litterboxes down the hall and into the furnace room once
the reno is finished.  Except that they've been in the same place since
we've moved into the house and there is *no* *way* that the boys will
adapt just like that.

And there aren't very many great places to put litterboxes on the main
floor that aren't actual living areas!

Tough to figure out I know.

Susan M
Otis and Chester
Monique Y. Mudama - 19 Dec 2007 21:32 GMT
> OT:  Fred's mom, former slave to Snuffy, the evil cat who held on
> until 19 yo, has just been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and
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> unreal.  Any purrs for a life long cat lover, Grandma Shirley, would
> be much appreciated.

Thanks for the update.  Purrs for Grandma Shirley.

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Susan M - 20 Dec 2007 03:28 GMT
>> OT:  Fred's mom, former slave to Snuffy, the evil cat who held on
>> until 19 yo, has just been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and
[quoted text clipped - 5 lines]
>
> Thanks for the update.  Purrs for Grandma Shirley.

Thank you Monique.  She was moved to tears today when I told her about
everyone thinking about her here.

Susan M
Otis and Chester

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