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Poll OT Sucky Jobs and how you cope
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tanadashoes - 29 Nov 2007 16:18 GMT I told a friend that I think that all jobs are sucky in some way or another and that I do what I can to make my life at work more entertaining.
I people watch, work on come backs, think how I'd do something differently than the teacher, and doodle strange pictures (I can't draw) that I'll have to throw away anyway.
On road trips or other commutes, we play license plat phrases. For instance, WVH could translate into "Wild Vixens Here."
So is your job sucky and what do you do to work around it?
Pam S. who also imagines what it would be like to have one of the cats teaching the class
jofirey - 29 Nov 2007 16:52 GMT >I told a friend that I think that all jobs are sucky in some way or > another and that I do what I can to make my life at work more [quoted text clipped - 11 lines] > Pam S. who also imagines what it would be like to have one of the cats > teaching the class Back in the day when you had to physically redial the phone when you got a busy signal, I had to call the IRS quite often. Spent a great deal of that time playing video games and daydreaming.
Jo
bastXXXette@sonic.net - 29 Nov 2007 19:28 GMT > So is your job sucky and what do you do to work around it? Happily, my job is not sucky. However, it certainly includes some boring tasks, so not every day is filled with excitement and challenge. One of the things I do to make the boring jobs bearable is to listen to streaming audio on the web. My favorite is www.pandora.com.
Joyce
Kreisleriana - 29 Nov 2007 20:33 GMT >I told a friend that I think that all jobs are sucky in some way or > another and that I do what I can to make my life at work more [quoted text clipped - 11 lines] > Pam S. who also imagines what it would be like to have one of the cats > teaching the class Fortunately, and THANK BAST I don't have a sucky job at the moment, but I don't cope well with them. When I have a sucky job it seriously depresses and sucks the life out of me, so I can't enjoy my non-working life either. The decisive factor is the people. I do much better with sucky duties when there are good people around me.
val189 - 29 Nov 2007 20:49 GMT > So is your job sucky and what do you do to work around it? When I had a boring jobs, I used to:
a. be glad I wasn't in an iron lung or something similar. b. tell myself it still beat the unemployment line c. hung a sign over my desk which read "Just shaddap and do it" rather than complain. d. realized that by the time I retired, I'd be pretty old and to just enjoy my younger years while I had 'em.. e. tip: save all you can WHILE you are still working. Retirement sneaks up on you fast.
Matthew - 30 Nov 2007 00:32 GMT >> So is your job sucky and what do you do to work around it? > [quoted text clipped - 8 lines] > e. tip: save all you can WHILE you are still working. Retirement > sneaks up on you fast. AIN'T THAT THE TRUTH. 40 more days to go
jmcquown - 30 Nov 2007 13:58 GMT >>> So is your job sucky and what do you do to work around it? >> [quoted text clipped - 10 lines] > > AIN'T THAT THE TRUTH. 40 more days to go Those last 40 days will be the loooongest days. My friend's husband opted for an early retirement (at full pension) at age 55. With 30 days to go he decided to just cash in all his stored up (paid) vacation time and take 2 weeks off his retirement date. They weren't giving him any new projects to work on since they knew he was retiring. He was so bored he couldn't stand it!
Jill
val189 - 30 Nov 2007 17:39 GMT > >> So is your job sucky and what do you do to work around it? > [quoted text clipped - 10 lines] > > AIN'T THAT THE TRUTH. 40 more days to go OH, congratulations. I can remember the countdown- I hung a list of numbers from 30 down to one or none - I can't really recall --, and took great pleasure with the morning ritual of crossing one off. On my very last day, two minutes before leaving ( No, I didn't want any party) I did my best MLK Jr. imitation at the top of my lungs. What could they do to a maniacal woman shouting "Free at last..."?
Hope you are getting a nice fat pension with health insurance. Now, go out and do what you really are passionate about.
jmcquown - 29 Nov 2007 21:13 GMT > I told a friend that I think that all jobs are sucky in some way or > another and that I do what I can to make my life at work more [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > Pam S. who also imagines what it would be like to have one of the cats > teaching the class I've only ever had one truly sucky job (this was back in 1992). I was the Route Accounting Supervisor for a (now defunct, thank Bast!) vending machine company. I was also responsible for maintaining the computer systems (heh, such as they were) in the place. As Theresa said, it sucked the life out of me and made me very depressed. The duties were okay, but *boring*. That's okay, every job has a bit of tedium. But...
My boss was the comptroller of the company and a former Army DS. (That's Drill Sargeant for those who don't know.) He acted like he was still in the Army. He thought *nothing* of screaming at employees (including me) in front of everyone and his brother for transgressions, real or imagined. Highly unprofessional. And I was on my lunch break one day so I made a personal phone call from my desk. He knew I was on my lunch break because we had a scheduled lunch break. Anyway, I'm on the phone taking care of some personal business when he walked up to my desk and disconnected the call. How very rude! What he had to say to me could have waited 15 minutes.
The other (long-term) employees were all gossips. This place was a regular Peyton Place - he did/she did, he said/she said. Rumours flew all over the place about who was sleeping with whom. I cannot stand this sort of behaviour, especially since these same people would be all friendly to the one(s) they were gossiping about.
Sexual harrassment apparently was a foreign concept. One of the (very married) route supervisors passed me a note that said, "When can I get in your pants?" EXCUSE ME?! Of course he grabbed it and practically swallowed it when I started to put it in my pocket. *I* certainly understood sexual harrassment but apparently he thought I was just another dumb blonde who would be flattered by his attentions.
Now, no offense to anyone (every time I say that someone gets offended, sorry!) but my boss started hiring my staff of from a church organization that sponsored recent immigrants from countries like Poland and various countries from the former Soviet block. He did this because due to some obscure law concerning providing jobs and on the job training for (legal) immigrants they didn't have to pay them minimum wage. These poor women could barely speak English, let alone understand the company's *very* outdated computer system.
A brief description of the system would be, remember back around 1980 when you inserted a floppy disk containing the program in Slot A and a blank floppy in Slot B on which to write your saved data? It was like that, except the floppy disks were on a screen rather than physical disks. And you had to switch between one and the other. It was running on an equally antiquated version of Unix.
So I'm trying to train these poor people who have been in the U.S. for 6 months, who barely spoke English. And we were running the company's accounting system for vending machine sales! Does this make any sense?? Just so he can save a dollar an hour in wages.
Long story short, there really *was* no way to cope. I was angry, I was depressed. I became physically ill and I chalk it up to this place. But I'd gotten the job through a "headhunter" and the agreement was the company would pay the recruiting agency's fee ($1300, IIRC) as long as I worked there for 1 year, otherwise I had to pay it. I couldn't afford to just quit so yes, I worked there for a year. Little did my charming (heh) boss know I was actively looking for another job during the last 3 months of that year. And I landed a position! So when that 1 year mark arrived I happily told him to shove it up his arse.
Jill
Sherry - 30 Nov 2007 00:21 GMT > I told a friend that I think that all jobs are sucky in some way or > another and that I do what I can to make my life at work more [quoted text clipped - 11 lines] > Pam S. who also imagines what it would be like to have one of the cats > teaching the class I never had a sucky job. I did, however, have jobs where I had to work with sucky people. This was back in the days of the Walkman. I used to put those headphones on sometimes when I didn't even have the music on. I found that people wouldn't talk to me that way. The most irritating thing were people who hung over my cubicle and yakked.
Sherry
bastXXXette@sonic.net - 30 Nov 2007 00:44 GMT > I never had a sucky job. I did, however, have jobs where I had to work > with sucky people. This was back in the days of the Walkman. I used to [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > The most irritating thing were people who hung over my cubicle and > yakked. LOL - this is so far off-topic from the original question that I'm starting a new thread. I once had a roommate (back in college - when we shared a single room) who never, ever shut up. In her, this was actually pathological - she was completely unable to relate to people normally. For one thing, she was obsessed with stuff that nobody else cared about, such as the plots of romance novels and soap operas. Most of the other lucky people could just walk away when she started nattering at them about that stuff. But being her roommate, I was stuck hearing every last detail!
This was the first semester of my freshman year, my first time living away from home. She was two years older and totally took advantage of my inexperience and lack of confidence/assertiveness. After a month of having to endure her endless chatter, I happened to go home for a visit - and that's when I nabbed a set of stereo headphones.
After I got back to school, the first time she started the long, highly detailed description of the romance novel she was reading, I quickly grabbed the headphones and turned on my stereo. HEAVEN!! However, after several minutes, I happened to glance toward her, and to my horror, I saw that she was *still talking*! And gesticulating! Just as though I could hear her. Actually, I don't think she really cared, or maybe she was just too clueless to notice that I was blatantly not listening.
Before the end of that semester, I begged Those Who Were In Charge Of Such Things to *please, please* change my room assignment, which they did. Second semester, I discovered that I had a whole room to myself. This was one of those sought-after accidents that most people didn't get in this dorm, where every room was designed for two people.
However, I chanced to meet the new person who had been assigned to my old room and roommate. She was an unsuspecting transfer student, and I immediately took pity on her. When I and several other dorm residents told her about how awful my former roommate was to be stuck with, she looked very alarmed. So I offered her the extra space in my room, which she took. Very altruistic of me, I have to say - not so sure I'd do that now! She turned out to be not overly pleasant, either, but mostly tolerable. Certainly not the horror the first roommate was.
(I didn't even go into the huge mess roommate #1 kept all over the floor - including dirty dishes with caked, rotting food, for weeks!)
Joyce - glad I can afford to live with nobody but the furballs!
jmcquown - 30 Nov 2007 03:47 GMT >> I told a friend that I think that all jobs are sucky in some way or >> another and that I do what I can to make my life at work more [quoted text clipped - 17 lines] > on. > I found that people wouldn't talk to me that way. Hard to do when your job is software tech support ;) We weren't allowed to wear anything but telephone head-sets. We were, however, allowed to have a radio playing music *low* in our individual cubicles. Didn't really help much. But I did love that job :)
Debra - 30 Nov 2007 01:37 GMT On Thu, 29 Nov 2007 08:18:04 -0800 (PST),Pam S. wrote:
>So is your job sucky and what do you do to work around it? Having held several sucky jobs I can honestly say my best coping method is to remind myself that a large portion of people in my area can't find any job at all so I better count my lucky stars so long as I have a job. It sucks to have a crummy job, but it sucks even more to have no heat and no food in the house.
BTW It's called work for a reason. If it were fun it would be called a game. Debra in VA See my quilts at http://community.webshots.com/user/debplayshere
bastXXXette@sonic.net - 30 Nov 2007 02:35 GMT > BTW It's called work for a reason. If it were fun it would be called > a game. LOL. Well, there are certainly jobs that need to get done, that nobody wants to do, like climbing into sewers, collecting the garbage, and so on. That certainly fits your definition.
In order to make sure people actually complete their responsibilities, you have to pay them. Otherwise, even if they love it, they're probably going to do it according to their own schedule. And maybe they won't get all the boring parts done. Every job has boring parts, and if you didn't get paid, why would you do those parts? Maybe you would, if it was necessary in order to keep the fun part going. But you'd probably procrastinate, and do as minimal a job of it as possible. When someone's paying you, they get to tell you exactly what's expected and when you have to have it done.
I know some people who are paid to do what they love, and they feel very lucky. I have a slightly different take on this, though. To me, being paid to do something, no matter how much I love it, would take a lot of the joy out of it. I like to do things my own way and in my own time. I enjoy my hobbies and avocations, at least partly because nobody's telling me what to do or how/when to do it. If I started doing any of those things for pay, it would become a chore, I think. So I don't necessarily envy people who get paid to do what they love. I prefer to do the things I love just for me, not to fulfill an obligation.
Joyce
Joy - 30 Nov 2007 02:53 GMT > > BTW It's called work for a reason. If it were fun it would be called > > a game. [quoted text clipped - 25 lines] > > Joyce I have met two people who love what they are paid for, and they seem extremely happy to me.
One is a taxi driver in Brisbane, Australia. I asked him if he liked his job and he said, almost in a tone of awe, "I get to drive around all day and talk to people - and I get paid for it!"
The other is a man who runs a skydiving school. He might not like the school part of it, but I jumped tandem with him on my 70th birthday. Our photo was taken during the jump, and you can see the expression of sheer joy on his face. This man has made over 10,000 jumps and he still feels this way.
Joy
tanadashoes - 02 Dec 2007 01:27 GMT > I have met two people who love what they are paid for, and they seem > extremely happy to me. [quoted text clipped - 10 lines] > > Joy Rob and I had an agreement about his career in the army. If it ever ceased to be fun, he'd get out. He had his days, but he often told people that his job with helicopters, especially riding in them, was "all that fun and I get paid too." He was not ready to retire when he had to.
I love teaching and working as a substitute, but there are parts of the job that suck and there are days that suck.
Pam S.
jofirey - 02 Dec 2007 05:43 GMT >> I have met two people who love what they are paid for, and they seem >> extremely happy to me. [quoted text clipped - 23 lines] > > Pam S. Trouble with teaching is there are times you really need to go away and be by yourself even for just a few minutes. And you can't.
Jo
Joy - 02 Dec 2007 06:54 GMT >>> I have met two people who love what they are paid for, and they seem >>> extremely happy to me. [quoted text clipped - 31 lines] > > Jo According to my sister, the trouble with teaching is that they won't let you just teach. Her school has installed a system where grades have to be entered into the computer *every day* so the parents can check and see how their little darlings are doing. The tekkie they hired to input the information made so many mistakes they realized this wasn't working. Instead of firing the idiot and getting somebody better, they decided to scrap that system and start out with a new (expensive) system, which everyone has to learn in the middle of the school year. And the superintendent has decided they should switch to a new curriculum, even though the one being used has already been approved. And on and on.
Joy
leopardusweidii@yahoo.co.uk - 02 Dec 2007 11:18 GMT > Trouble with teaching is there are times you really need to go away and be > by yourself even for just a few minutes. And you can't./// The trouble with teaching, especially in state schools in the UK, is that a lot of time it's not teaching but crowd control. I've been in the same school on supply for 4 weeks now, and I think I've taught 15 minutes in all that time. :o(
Helen M
tanadashoes - 02 Dec 2007 23:13 GMT On Dec 2, 6:18 am, leoparduswei...@yahoo.co.uk wrote:
> > Trouble with teaching is there are times you really need to go away and be > > by yourself even for just a few minutes. And you can't./// [quoted text clipped - 5 lines] > > Helen M I don't think I've ever worked a "normal" day. There are assemblies, testing, programs, and just about anything you can think of disrupting the school day. While I agree that fire drills, tornado drills, and emergency invasion practice should be done at least once a month (each) every one of those drills ruins a 2 hour class. Of course the rest of the day is shot as well by the excitement that even the older kids experience. The only thing worse is when they are going to be released early because of weather. We keep them in for tornadoes and rain storms, but send them home for everything else.
Between classes, I stand in the halls telling them not to run, linger, push, shove, harass others, and so forth. There are days I'd rather try to herd cats. I still get a fair amount of teaching time in, but mainly because the main school I work at has two hour periods. I sometimes get planning periods, but I'm usually sent to cover another class that is missing a teacher. The worst part is that however lonely you are, you're never alone.
Pam S.
Marina - 30 Nov 2007 04:08 GMT > I told a friend that I think that all jobs are sucky in some way or > another and that I do what I can to make my life at work more [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > differently than the teacher, and doodle strange pictures (I can't > draw) that I'll have to throw away anyway. I used to work as a telephone operator for 9 years. I worked in a big administrative centre with offices like a tax office, the board of survey, the roads administration office, etc. It is incredible how rude people are over the phone, when they're not face to face with the person they're speaking to. One caller even said that's what we're there for, to be yelled at by the public.
I hated every minute, but after finishing school, I suffered from school fatigue and couldn't face going to university immediately, and I had to make a living somehow. Then I got stuck in that way of thinking for a long time (a bad relationship and its aftermath with depression also contributed).
I didn't deal well. I partied hard to forget the job. I still don't quite know what it was that made me suddenly decide to apply to uni when I was 29. When my boss would not let me have a day off to attend the entrance exam, I slept on it for one night and the following day, I told her I was quitting. So I just stepped out into the unknown, but I was accepted and took my Master's degree, and now I'm working at the university. I don't love my job, but at least I don't get yelled at for eight hours a day, and I do get to engage my brains every now and then. ;) And I can work at home in my jammies, if I wish.
 Signature Marina, Miranda and Caliban. In loving memory of Frank and Nikki.
Yowie - 30 Nov 2007 10:09 GMT >I told a friend that I think that all jobs are sucky in some way or > another and that I do what I can to make my life at work more [quoted text clipped - 8 lines] > > So is your job sucky and what do you do to work around it? The first job I ever had was a casual sales assistant as Best and Less. I don't know if you folks have it there, but its just a great big discount clothes store (with a small line in sheets and towels).
I was 16, and the store was opening, I applied, and got it. I worked through the opening and Christmas rush, and then was promptly fired. Apparantly I had an 'attitude', meaning I smacked my boss when he groped my arse (entirely an instinctual reaction) and I that I 'talked back' to supervisors (in other words, instead of just following orders like a drone, I questioned why things were done the way they were done, and made suggestions based on my opinion rather than accepting things as they were. I haven't changed.) How did I cope with that job beign so bad? Well, I didn't, really, I think I lasted 3 months, and didn't miss it when i was fired. It wasn't worth the paltry amount of money I was getting paid (being 16, I was still living with my parents, so I didn't *need* the money)
My second job - when I was 17 - was a traineeship at what was BHP in chemistry. I worked shiftwork, doing quality control testing on the iron and steel that was being made. The work was classic production line work, you had to do the analysis as soon as the the sample turned up, and it was boring and monotous work when it was at full production, but there was literally nothing to do but sit and wait if production was slower. You coudln't go home, or go to sleep in case a sample came in, and you couldn't even leave your post unless you got someone to cover you. This was also back int he days before sexual harassment was takien seriously and I was exposed to things that were quite frankly illegal to expose 17 year olds to. I coped mainly by holding those that did such things in total contempt and not *ever* letting them see me cry, and reading copious amounts of fantasy and science fiction in the down time. I was the only girl in the building for most of the time, and had no interest in joining the blokes watching their porn or being blokes (not that they would have allowed me into their 'club' anyway).
My current job has gone through a number of different reincarnations, but its generally just been an 'evolution' from the original job I was hired for rather than *different* jobs as such. But my current position and role is the best I've had so far, mainly because I have a fair deal of autonomy and freedom to my job as I deem appropriate (with guidance from my supervisor). The most important thing, though, is that my input is valued and respected, and my boss is a really really great guy and although he drives me utterly nuts, he has never *ever* made anything personal, so even if he's really dissapointed with something I've done (or not done) he hasn't belittled or humiliated me, but rather simply stated that I had not performed as he had expected, and then its over. I *so* appreciate that. First boss I've ever had that I've truly respected.
On the whole, its a job I enjoy and find challenging and stimulating. But it does have its boring routine stuff that I am quite bad at (I am not the sort of person who can do repetative tasks easily). The best way I find to do it is to make it a challenge against the clock and/or listen to *my* music (pods are a Bast-send!). Oh, and talk. I can chatter non-stop if I'm bored
:-) The worst part tends to be dealing with irrational way in which people and organisations go about business, and the petty powerplays and ego clashes people have, particularly in middle management. My boss shares my loathing and contempt for such maneuvering (which explains why he's not a manager) and tends to protect me from the worst and unnecesary stuff. But when I do have to endure endless meetings, I am a chronic doodler, and if at my desk, I tend read RPCA and other website and keep lots of geek things to play with when everything else is driving me nuts. I seem to collecting coloured 'sets' (textas, watercolours, pencils, pens, crayons etc at the moment, and play with them when no-one is looking. I can't play with my tos at home, thats for sure - Cary would take them in a heart beat!)
Yowie
Sherry - 30 Nov 2007 19:57 GMT > >I told a friend that I think that all jobs are sucky in some way or > > another and that I do what I can to make my life at work more [quoted text clipped - 75 lines] > > Yowie Yowie--RE: your crayon collection--there must have a been some kind of efficiency study done on the value of crayons and watercolors at Halliburton -- my sis says they have a "creative center"...a desk in a corner complete with paper, watercolors, crayons -- employees can go there when they're stressed. Isn't that funny?
Sherry
Yowie - 30 Nov 2007 22:23 GMT <snip>
>> The worst part tends to be dealing with irrational way in which people >> and [quoted text clipped - 23 lines] > watercolors, crayons -- employees can go > there when they're stressed. Isn't that funny? Most of the time, I can't draw. I suck at it. But once every so often, something 'clicks' in my brain, a feeling of peace and contededness comes over me, and I can draw (or paint or sketch etc etc) something really well.
Thats why I play with my coloured doo-hickeys, not so much for the final artistic creation, as much as its nice to have, but that feeling of quiet calm contemplativeness that happens when I do it.
A simple compromise I found between having to draw on a blank peice of paper from scratch and not drawing at all was to get a colouring book - the outline is done (the hard part, for me at least) and all I have to do is give it some colour and character (all nicely shaded and blended). My old 2nd edition AD&D source books have lots of black and white line drawings in them, but most have now been coloured in - and quite well if I do say so myself.
Yowie
annoyed@net.spammers - 03 Dec 2007 02:05 GMT I had an I.T. job at $WEMAKERADIOS and my job was outhousesourced to the BOutsourcerFH. The ignorant gits I orked for had two neurons - one was lost and the other couldn't even scare up a search party for it[1]. This outhousesourcer was chosen by the CIdiotO to take us peons because they promised $ORK-2 that they would give us jobs for at least two years. It was a thankless job from the folks in damagement, but the end users appreciated the work I did for them.
While I was on a vacation day 2 years ago, FedEx delivered an envelope to my home with a paycheck inside and nothing else, not even a Post-It note. This was immediately seen as a problem as all paychecks were via direct deposit. On the itemized check statement was the infamous entry named "In Lieu" and the equivalent of eight-weeks pay. $PHB didn't even have the class to make a phone call to tell me I was being made redundant. I had to chase her a.s down and leave multiple messages on her cell phone to find out WTF was going on. Hours later she and her PHB call me back to tell me that there wasn't enough work for the two of us at that office[3]. There was not even an offer to place me with another client of theirs or to apply for another job within the company. This from the same ID10Ts that wanted the two of us to help at other client sites but refused to give us help when *we* needed it.
BOutsourcerFH then added salt to the wounds of the remaining techs by outsourcing the field tech jobs to a fourth-rate company[4]. Outsourcees for the second time were offered to apply for their jobs at the new company at roughly 40% pay cut. That company mucked things up so bad that they quit the contract to provide outsourced services to the first outsourcer so BOutsourcerFH offered the folks they booted the chance to apply for their own jobs *again* and for the same pay that it was cut to.
Oddly enough I am still at that office, working for a *different* contract company, and providing engineering services rather than I.T. Folks there seek me out for peecee support rather than dealing with the helldesk drones[5].
How do I cope? My job is much-less sucky than it was two years ago, I still have the same friends that I had for over two decades there, and the companionship of a wonderful wife and cat at home. That and knowing that my providing tech support to users undercuts the contracted I.T. support, a little bit of quiet revenge ];>
[1] Example: Our office was a sales & system design office. No manufacturing. During the Northeast blackout of 2003 my cow-orker was on holiday and I was there alone. Clueless twits thought they could mis-manage our office like they mis-manage campus sites. They wanted me to stay on-site all night and bring the swervers back on-line when power was restored. It was not a critical site, and ALL environmental was out[2].
[2] Card access too. UPS batteries also failed and the site manager declared the building CLOSED. I got a call at home that night from another twerp that wanted me to drive back to the office to power-up boxes again when power was back. Sod off was the effective reply with the reason named above. Site manager told us to come back in the morning, no one enters until then.
[3] Major-league male bovine excrement. The two of us handled four sites and 500 users. We maintained servers, desktops, laptops, backups, did all shipping & receiving for units shipped to us for repair and managed & processed end-of-lease returns back to the vendors. PHBs put more value into dhrhr pbbeqvangbef who cattle-prodded drones over ticket backlogs than they did front-line technicians that did the work.
[4] Giving benefit of the doubt that $ORK-1 was a third-rate company.
[5] For three major reasons. The support they get from me will be correct for their problems, it will be faster than the response for opening a ticket, and it will be in American English, not some heavily accented and unintelligible attempts at English that they are used to at the helldesk.
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Christina Websell - 03 Dec 2007 23:40 GMT > So is your job sucky and what do you do to work around it? My job is sorta sucky in that every day I go in, there are new phone calls about the way people are treating their kids badly. Neglect, physical/emotional/sexual abuse are the worst ones. Sometimes parents at the end of their tether with teenage behaviour, lots of custody disputes with "tit for tat" allegations from both parents, homeless 16 year olds whose parents have finally said "enough", unaccompanied asylum seeking children from Iraq, Afghanistan, Somalia. Etc.
I haven't found a way to work around it yet.
It makes me happy if we can sort it all out in the end. Despite what you may have read in the popular press, the very last thing the local authority wants to do is to snatch your small child away "into care." Neither do we want parents to dump their badly-behaved teenagers on us, insisting we take them away, just because they have never been bothered to adminster proper parental supervision up to now and are reaping the results.
So as well as slightly sucky it can be interesting..and draining...and, well, I've been in that team since 1989. I suppose it makes me a masochist ;-)
Tweed
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