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Cat Forum / Cat Anecdotes / November 2007This hurt so much OT
Along with our housing woes, I had to sign the competency papers for Rob yesterday. I don't have all the details yet, but it means that the VA considers him incapable of handling his own financial, medical, and other needs. We knew this was going to happen and I honestly thought that I was prepared for it. Rob had to and over his ATM card, which didn't bother him much as he hasn't used it in a long time. I'm supposed to cut it up, but I haven't been able to do so yet. I'm supposed to get a packet from the VA telling me what I can and can't do for him, how to get our bank account changed, and answer any other details that I need to know. The mortgage thing has depressed me and made me angry. This just hurts so much more than I can say. Pam S. crying again. > The mortgage thing has depressed me and made me angry. This just > hurts so much more than I can say. {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Pam}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} One thing you all can be grateful (and I sure am) is that Rob has a loving family to take care of him.  SignatureVictor M. Martinez Owned and operated by the Fantastic Seven (TM) Send your spam here: uce@ftc.gov Email me here: pistorLITTER@BOXaustin.rr.com >> The mortgage thing has depressed me and made me angry. This just >> hurts so much more than I can say. [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > One thing you all can be grateful (and I sure am) is that Rob has a > loving family to take care of him. The best (and most unique) thing about this newsgroup is the way most everyone seems like family! I'm not a demonstrative person in real life, either, but like the others here, I certainly share my sympathy and concern for you and your family. (((((((Pam and family)))))))) love, Christine > Along with our housing woes, I had to sign the competency papers for > Rob yesterday. I don't have all the details yet, but it means that [quoted text clipped - 12 lines] > > Pam S. crying again. >Along with our housing woes, I had to sign the competency papers for >Rob yesterday. I'm sending big hugs for you and Rob. And of course it goes without saying that the Fabulous Furballs are purring up a storm for you Lesley > Along with our housing woes, I had to sign the competency papers for > Rob yesterday. I don't have all the details yet, but it means that [quoted text clipped - 12 lines] > > Pam S. crying again. (((((((((Pam and Rob))))))))))))) I am so sorry about all this mess. I came in late, as usual, and am sending you late purrs. "tanadashoes" <tanada@earthlink.net> wrote i > Along with our housing woes, I had to sign the competency papers for > Rob yesterday. Bit like the backbreaking straw, that :( A very sad moment indeed. Purrs that you all come to terms with it pretty soon. Armed with the bank statements etc. I hope you'll soon be in a position to take Wells Nogo to the cleaners in retribution for the hassle they've been putting you through. Supportively Gordon & the FF > The mortgage thing has depressed me and made me angry. This just > hurts so much more than I can say. I'm so sorry, Pam. You are having so much to deal with at the same time. Purrs and {{{{Pam}}}}. SignatureMarina, Miranda and Caliban. In loving memory of Frank and Nikki. I am so sorry, Lee > Along with our housing woes, I had to sign the competency papers for > Rob yesterday. I don't have all the details yet, but it means that [quoted text clipped - 12 lines] > > Pam S. crying again. > Along with our housing woes, I had to sign the competency papers for > Rob yesterday. ...> The mortgage thing has depressed me and made me angry. This just > hurts so much more than I can say. > > Pam S. crying again. Big hugs and lots of purrs are on the way to you and your family. Oh, yea, mega litter box droppings to the bank. Annie > The mortgage thing has depressed me and made me angry. This just > hurts so much more than I can say. > > Pam S. crying again. The only thing I can offer, Pam, is big hugs. {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{PAM}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} Helen M ((((((((((Pam)))))))))) Prayers and purrs for both of you. SignatureJoy > Along with our housing woes, I had to sign the competency papers for > Rob yesterday. I don't have all the details yet, but it means that [quoted text clipped - 12 lines] > > Pam S. crying again. > Along with our housing woes, I had to sign the competency papers for > Rob yesterday. I don't have all the details yet, but it means that [quoted text clipped - 12 lines] > > Pam S. crying again. {{{{{{{{{{{ Pam }}}}}}}}}}}} SignatureAdrian (Owned by Snoopy & Bagheera) Cats leave pawprints on your heart http://community.webshots.com/user/clowderuk > Along with our housing woes, I had to sign the competency papers for > Rob yesterday. I don't have all the details yet, but it means that [quoted text clipped - 12 lines] > > Pam S. crying again. Hugs!!! from Elisabet I'm so sorry, Pam. Many hugs and purrs. SignatureBritta Purring is an automatic safety valve device for dealing with happiness overflow. Check out pictures of Vino at: http://picasaweb.google.com/badwilson > Along with our housing woes, I had to sign the competency papers for > Rob yesterday. I don't have all the details yet, but it means that [quoted text clipped - 12 lines] > > Pam S. crying again. > Along with our housing woes, I had to sign the competency papers for > Rob yesterday. <snip> > Pam S. crying again. Oh Pam, I wish I could give you a big hug. You've been through so much. You certainly deserve a better Thanksgiving than this. Sending you love and light over the internet and hoping things get much brighter for you. Hazel Az > > Along with our housing woes, I had to sign the competency papers for > > Rob yesterday. Purrs and Bright Blessings. --Fil > Along with our housing woes, I had to sign the competency papers for > Rob yesterday. I don't have all the details yet, but it means that [quoted text clipped - 12 lines] > > Pam S. crying again. {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{ Pam, Rob, and family }}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} We think about ya'll often and send our purrs and prayers. Sam, closely supervised by Mistletoe Pam, have been where you are and am sending all the prayers I can. My husband got nasty about the whole thing after awhile and would use it to hurt me, you know, don't ask me I am certified not able to make a decision and all that. I have put you and your house situation on several prayer lists and hope something works out for you. It all hurts and like you I couldn't cut up everything. >> Along with our housing woes, I had to sign the competency papers for >> Rob yesterday. I don't have all the details yet, but it means that [quoted text clipped - 16 lines] > > Sam, closely supervised by Mistletoe > Pam, have been where you are and am sending all the prayers I can. My > husband got nasty about the whole thing after awhile and would use it to > hurt me, you know, don't ask me I am certified not able to make a decision > and all that. I have put you and your house situation on several prayer > lists and hope something works out for you. It all hurts and like you I > couldn't cut up everything Thank you all. It helps to share the burden/stress. Rob is awesome. He says that he can't get upset about this as not only did we know this was coming, but it eases a lot for him. I'm just feeling sorry for myself, I guess. I remember so vividly the young and vital man I married and the wonderful helpmate and friend that I shared everything with. We don't have that now for obvious reasons. Pam S. it is sad but I hope you can take solace in the fact that your story does remind us that time is short and perhaps we will make a better effort with our own partners... when Granby's husband went to the bridge I might have been madder at him than almost anyone else ... he was a dear friend tome, but his passing has made me work harder at my relationship and my independence, Lee > > Pam, have been where you are and am sending all the prayers I can. My > > husband got nasty about the whole thing after awhile and would use it to [quoted text clipped - 11 lines] > > Pam S. > Along with our housing woes, I had to sign the competency papers for > Rob yesterday. I don't have all the details yet, but it means that [quoted text clipped - 12 lines] > > Pam S. crying again. We are thinking of you both, sending lots and lots of purrs and hugs, Polonca and Soncek |
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