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Christina Websell - 15 Nov 2007 18:55 GMT Some of you will remember hearing about my cousin, Margi, who acted as an intermediary between rpca and Debbie Wilson when I was told I would die and rehoming my cats was a real issue in 05. One of her sons, Chris, collapsed playing football last week. He's in hospital (obviously) now, and the indication is that he is brain damaged. He has to be kept under sedation as each time they wake him up he gets agitated when he sees a member of the family at the side of his bed.
The doctors do not seem to know why he collapsed like this, yet. It might be cardiomyophaly (sp) the heart disease that young people never know they have until they drop dead of it. He is 35 and has 4 young children, the youngest only a year old.
I have spoken to my aunt tonight, his grandmother. She asked me if I could ask for purrs and prayers for Chris on my cat group. That's a first, since Mormon prayers are usually the best ;-)
Would you purr and pray for Chris? Please? Either for him to recover or for an easy death, we are all prepared for that. That might be how it is.
Tweed
Adrian A - 15 Nov 2007 19:41 GMT > Some of you will remember hearing about my cousin, Margi, who acted > as an intermediary between rpca and Debbie Wilson when I was told I [quoted text clipped - 17 lines] > how it is. > Tweed Purrs for Chris and his family.
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Daniel Mahoney - 15 Nov 2007 19:41 GMT > Would you purr and pray for Chris? Please? Either for him to recover or for > an easy death, we are all prepared for that. That might be how it is. > > Tweed Absolutely. Sending our best.
Dan
Joy - 15 Nov 2007 19:42 GMT Purrs and prayers for Chris, and all who care about him.
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> Some of you will remember hearing about my cousin, Margi, who acted as an > intermediary between rpca and Debbie Wilson when I was told I would die [quoted text clipped - 17 lines] > > Tweed Exocat - 15 Nov 2007 19:53 GMT "Christina Websell" <spamfree@tinawebsell.wanadoo.co.uk> wrote
> One of her sons, Chris, collapsed playing football last week. Purrs for the family coming through now, loud (if not clear)
Fish supper has just been served and the contentment is palpable.
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mlbriggs - 15 Nov 2007 20:00 GMT > Some of you will remember hearing about my cousin, Margi, who acted as an > intermediary between rpca and Debbie Wilson when I was told I would die and [quoted text clipped - 17 lines] > > Tweed Sending purrs and prayers for Chris and his family. MLB
Irulan - 15 Nov 2007 20:03 GMT Purrs and prayers for your friend's son. We hope everything works out for the best.
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> Some of you will remember hearing about my cousin, Margi, who acted as an > intermediary between rpca and Debbie Wilson when I was told I would die [quoted text clipped - 17 lines] > > Tweed Kreisleriana - 15 Nov 2007 20:35 GMT > Some of you will remember hearing about my cousin, Margi, who acted as an > intermediary between rpca and Debbie Wilson when I was told I would die [quoted text clipped - 17 lines] > > Tweed We are sending our best purrs for Chris.
Ann - 15 Nov 2007 21:41 GMT Purrs and prayers on the way.
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> Some of you will remember hearing about my cousin, Margi, who acted as an > intermediary between rpca and Debbie Wilson when I was told I would die [quoted text clipped - 17 lines] > > Tweed Chris Havlicek - 15 Nov 2007 22:57 GMT Many purrs and good thoughts for Chris to recover and get back to his family quickly!
Chris and cats (since I can't purr, but I can pray)
> Some of you will remember hearing about my cousin, Margi, who acted as an > intermediary between rpca and Debbie Wilson when I was told I would die and [quoted text clipped - 17 lines] > > Tweed leopardusweidii@yahoo.co.uk - 15 Nov 2007 23:01 GMT > Would you purr and pray for Chris? Please? Either for him to recover or for > an easy death, we are all prepared for that. That might be how it is. > > Tweed Many, many purrs and prayers.
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Matthew - 15 Nov 2007 23:14 GMT PURRS AND PRAYERS IN ROUTE
> Some of you will remember hearing about my cousin, Margi, who acted as an > intermediary between rpca and Debbie Wilson when I was told I would die [quoted text clipped - 17 lines] > > Tweed Karen - 15 Nov 2007 23:19 GMT > Some of you will remember hearing about my cousin, Margi, who acted as > an intermediary between rpca and Debbie Wilson when I was told I would [quoted text clipped - 19 lines] > > Tweed ABsolutley!!!! Purrs en route. How sad. Ihope it is not as bad as they think. People can surprise doctors often.
Victor Martinez - 15 Nov 2007 23:56 GMT > Would you purr and pray for Chris? Please? Either for him to recover or for > an easy death, we are all prepared for that. That might be how it is. Purrs on the way.
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sam - 16 Nov 2007 03:28 GMT > Would you purr and pray for Chris? Please? Either for him to recover or for > an easy death, we are all prepared for that. That might be how it is. > > Tweed Our purrs and prayers are with Chris and his family in this most difficult time.
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Marina - 16 Nov 2007 06:28 GMT > Would you purr and pray for Chris? Please? Either for him to recover or for > an easy death, we are all prepared for that. That might be how it is. Many purrs on the way, preferably for recovery.
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Steve Touchstone - 16 Nov 2007 09:37 GMT <snip>
>Would you purr and pray for Chris? Please? Either for him to recover or for >an easy death, we are all prepared for that. That might be how it is. purrs and prayers on the way
Bettina - 16 Nov 2007 15:35 GMT On 15 Nov., 19:55, "Christina Websell" <spamf...@tinawebsell.wanadoo.co.uk> wrote:
> Some of you will remember hearing about my cousin, Margi, who acted as an > intermediary between rpca and Debbie Wilson when I was told I would die and [quoted text clipped - 17 lines] > > Tweed Praying and purring for Chris and his family.
Christina Websell - 16 Nov 2007 20:26 GMT Thank you all so much for your purrs and prayers for Chris. I have pasted all your replies into a mail to Margi tonight. I hope it will give her a little comfort to know that Chris is being purred and prayed for all over the world.
I am not sure that the medics at the football match got to him in enough time. They probably thought he'd gone down from a tackle and was playing to the crowd. By the time they realised he was not going to get up it may have been too late for his brain. They administered mouth to mouth resuscitation and CPR and when the paramedics arrived they had a defibrillator which started his heart again, but very erratically.
The latest update from Margi is below. To be frank, it still does not sound good to me but I have no experience around brain injury. Is there anyone here who has? ............. Dear All Its 10.30pm and I am tempted to leave this and go to bed but I know that some of you will be glad to get a little more good news. They tried to wake Chris again this morning with improved results. He was settled for a while and followed the sound of the nurse as she moved around his bed. Unfortunately he soon began to gag on the ventilator tube and that made him cough and wretch, which panicked him and that put up his blood pressure and his heartbeat became too fast. Although I am saying that he panicked and wretched and gagged he is not in a fully conscious state so it is not a problem to him like it would be for us. It is the reactions he makes to the lack of sedation that they are looking at and today he made no 'inappropriate movements'. They are happy to admit that he has made a positive move forward but are still telling us not to get too excited and anticipate too much. Its hard not to when you can see evidence of the son you thought you may have lost all trace of slowly coming out of a dark place. It was explained to us that whatever he can do the first time he is without sedation is no indication at all of what he may be able to achieve in the very long term. The senior sister who is the head of the unit also said that in the time she has worked in ITU [about 16 years] she has very rarely seen anyone come out of sedation without being confused, agitated and generally unaware of their surroundings. His last recollections would be of a time when he could see and move spontaneously, as he slowly comes off the sedation he will not be able to focus [or perhaps even see] he will be in strange surroundings and fitted with all sorts of drips and of course the ventilator. It would be enough to upset most of us. Again we need to bear in mind that even when he is off sedation his brain will be damaged so his level of consciousness could be quite low. He recognised Bambi again today and again we think he was trying to communicate because he opened his eyes and tried to focus. He has been moving around on the bed more today. Moving his head, legs and arms [to get comfortable????????] They are saying that although he is not able to move his limbs by concsious thought, he is still making better arm and leg movements than he was on Monday. This too is encouraging. He is having less oxygen in the air provided by the ventilator and this proves that there is more lung area available to absorb the oxygen he is breathing in. This means that his chest is now recovering. This hasnt been the case so far. Its been a 90% forward and only 10% questionable day today, and as far as I can remember [which is asking a bit much] I think they are the best statistics so far. |I'm off to bed - I cant wait to see what happens tomorrow ...................................will let you know...................... Love Margi
----------- I think he will not recover to any sort of "useful life" like he would want to. I cannot possibly share this thought with Margi, his mother, who is at his bedside taking hope from any little movement. Maybe all the purrs and prayers will work, let's hope so.
Tweed
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Monique Y. Mudama - 17 Nov 2007 21:14 GMT > ----------- I think he will not recover to any sort of "useful life" > like he would want to. I cannot possibly share this thought with > Margi, his mother, who is at his bedside taking hope from any little > movement. Maybe all the purrs and prayers will work, let's hope so. Thinking of Chris, and his family.
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Lesley - 18 Nov 2007 15:29 GMT On 16 Nov, 12:26, "Christina Websell" <spamf...@tinawebsell.wanadoo.co.uk> wrote:
> Thank you all so much for your purrs and prayers for Chris. I'm coming in late to this but the purr motors are revvving for Chris
Lesley
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polonca12000 - 18 Nov 2007 22:19 GMT > Thank you all so much for your purrs and prayers for Chris. I have pasted > all your replies into a mail to Margi tonight. I hope it will give her a [quoted text clipped - 15 lines] > know that some of you will be glad to get a little more good news. They > tried to wake Chris again this morning with improved results. <snip> We are sending lots and lots of purrs for Chris, Polonca and Soncek
Christina Websell - 21 Nov 2007 01:12 GMT Purrs and prayers are working. Please keep them up.
Today: ----------------- Dear All, Today Chris was able to sit propped up in bed and managed to eat a couple of tubs of ice cream that the nurse fed to him. The oxygen mask has been replaced with a tube that sits in the bottom of his nostrils so he is now breathing for himself with the aid of a bit of extra oxygen supplied from the tube. When I left tonight he was listening to Reeba McIntyre on CD and tapping the rhythm out on the bed. He had quite a few family visit today and he was laughing at some of their stories. He enjoyed looking at family photos and remembered being in each of the places. By the end of the day he had spoken a few words even though we weren't able to understand what he said. It wasn't that they weren't real words but his throat is so sore his voice is very gruff and quiet. He gave Bambi a kiss and sipped on water. He is still in bed and obviously we are not able to tell how mobile he will be. Some of his movements are slow and he sometimes he looks a bit surprised that his hands don't move as quickly as he expects but his progress is remarkable, much faster than we thought. There is still some prayers left to say but the miracle that we all prayed for is unfolding before our very eyes. We are expecting an all singing, all dancing Chris tomorrow. Love as always Margi ___________
As always, the purrs and prayers work. Keep those P&P's coming please. Look what they've done, already. Thank you all so much.
Tweed
jXwXeXrXmXoXnXt@sonic.net - 21 Nov 2007 01:20 GMT > Purrs and prayers are working. Please keep them up.
> [snip] ...but his progress is remarkable, > much faster than we thought. There is still some prayers left to say but > the miracle that we all prayed for is unfolding before our very eyes. We > are expecting an all singing, all dancing Chris tomorrow. Love as always > Margi
> As always, the purrs and prayers work. Keep those P&P's coming please. > Look what they've done, already. > Thank you all so much. Wow!! That's amazing. I hadn't said anything before, but I've thought about you and Chris and sent purrs for his recovery. More on the way! The power of purr works again.
Joyce
sam - 21 Nov 2007 04:40 GMT > Purrs and prayers are working. Please keep them up. > [quoted text clipped - 26 lines] > > Tweed Renewed purrs on the way for a complete recovery.
Sam, closely supervised by Mistletoe
Marina - 21 Nov 2007 06:24 GMT > As always, the purrs and prayers work. Keep those P&P's coming please. > Look what they've done, already. This is wonderful news, Tweed! We will keep on purring.
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Exocat - 21 Nov 2007 09:31 GMT "Christina Websell" <spamfree@tinawebsell.wanadoo.co.uk> wrote.
> Purrs and prayers are working. Please keep them up. XLNT!
You bet your bippy - recuperation purrs continuing
Gordon & the FF
Sheelagh>"o"< - 21 Nov 2007 14:19 GMT On 21 Nov, 01:12, "Christina Websell" <spamf...@tinawebsell.wanadoo.co.uk> wrote:
> Purrs and prayers are working. Please keep them up. > [quoted text clipped - 26 lines] > > Tweed Tweed, I am so terribly sorry to hear this news. You have multiple purrs en route Mega blasting your cousin's & all of the family's way. I thought I'd better read the whole thread before responding. To start from 90% oxygen on the 15th, to 10% in a few days is almost a miraculous discovery, I assure you. I can also say with full confidence that I think your cousin is doing really well..
You asked anyone who had been through a similar situation to respond. It's not quite the same, but close enough for me to be able to tell you that he is doing well.
Jack, my youngest son was born @26/40 (14 weeks early!!). He started on 100% oxygen, & on the second day after birth, he had a brain bleed (a stroke!) It took over 7 weeks weeks to get Jack to the point where he could cope in ambient oxygen. The normal air that we breath is 7%, so to be able to go from 90%- 10% in that short space is very encouraging. It starts with intubation @ 90%, right down until they think the patient can cope independently, when they put them on C-Pap which is a type of ventilation that kicks in if they forget to breath, then it goes down to nasal cannulas, which is where he seems to be right now.
Unlike your auntie Margi, because Jack was a baby,(2LB 6OZ), we had no idea what to expect, & Jack was in no position to explain how he felt. It took us years to be sure that he had no permanent brain damage. To add even more worry, he stopped breathing on me @ home on his due date(DEC 2nd 06). I started CPR, & managed to keep going until an ambulance arrived. He still wasn't breathing, but God was smiling on us, & the ambulance man was able to aspirate the vomit which stopped him breathing on his own. Again, we had another spate of wondering whether this had blown any chance of recovery that we hoped for, because once more he was 12 minutes without breathing. Another 6 weeks in hospital later, we were allowed to take him home on portable oxygen.
All of his baby checks were a real concern for fear of brain damage, but as luck & love would have it, jack is a very hyperactive child. Yes, it did take a little longer to teach him to walk, talk & everything else you would expect, but we did get there!!
I have a very good feeling that your cousin will be OK. I understand the hospital giving you cautious good news, because they are not able to give guarantee's. However, the news that is filtering through sounds very optimistic. I think the hardest thing will be your cousin's frustration at not being able to do the things he used to do, straight way. It will be hard work, but well worth the recovery. Expect it to take months, rather than weeks, & I think you will find that he will re-learn most of his skill's.
I really do send you heart felt prayers & purrs, because I understand how anxious you all must be feeling. Warm regards, Sheelagh >"o"<
Sheelagh>"o"< - 21 Nov 2007 14:24 GMT On 21 Nov, 01:12, "Christina Websell" <spamf...@tinawebsell.wanadoo.co.uk> wrote:
> Purrs and prayers are working. Please keep them up. > [quoted text clipped - 26 lines] > > Tweed Tweed, I am so terribly sorry to hear this news. You have multiple purrs en route Mega blasting your cousin's & all of the family's way. I thought I'd better read the whole thread before responding. To start from 90% oxygen on the 15th, to 10% in a few days is almost a miraculous discovery, I assure you. I can also say with full confidence that I think your cousin is doing really well..
You asked anyone who had been through a similar situation to respond. It's not quite the same, but close enough for me to be able to tell you that he is doing well.
Jack, my youngest son was born @26/40 (14 weeks early!!). He started on 100% oxygen, & on the second day after birth, he had a brain bleed (a stroke!) It took over 7 weeks weeks to get Jack to the point where he could cope in ambient oxygen. The normal air that we breath is 7%, so to be able to go from 90%- 10% in that short space is very encouraging. It starts with intubation @ 90%, right down until they think the patient can cope independently, when they put them on C-Pap which is a type of ventilation that kicks in if they forget to breath, then it goes down to nasal cannulas, which is where he seems to be right now.
Unlike your auntie Margi, because Jack was a baby,(2LB 6OZ), we had no idea what to expect, & Jack was in no position to explain how he felt. It took us years to be sure that he had no permanent brain damage. To add even more worry, he stopped breathing on me @ home on his due date(DEC 2nd 06). I started CPR, & managed to keep going until an ambulance arrived. He still wasn't breathing, but God was smiling on us, & the ambulance man was able to aspirate the vomit which stopped him breathing on his own. Again, we had another spate of wondering whether this had blown any chance of recovery that we hoped for, because once more he was 12 minutes without breathing. Another 6 weeks in hospital later, we were allowed to take him home on portable oxygen.
All of his baby checks were a real concern for fear of brain damage, but as luck & love would have it, jack is a very hyperactive child. Yes, it did take a little longer to teach him to walk, talk & everything else you would expect, but we did get there!!
I have a very good feeling that your cousin will be OK. I understand the hospital giving you cautious good news, because they are not able to give guarantee's. However, the news that is filtering through sounds very optimistic. I think the hardest thing will be your cousin's frustration at not being able to do the things he used to do, straight way. It will be hard work, but well worth the recovery. Expect it to take months, rather than weeks, & I think you will find that he will re-learn most of his skill's.
I really do send you heart felt prayers & purrs, because I understand how anxious you all must be feeling. Warm regards, Sheelagh >"o"<
Adrian A - 21 Nov 2007 19:58 GMT > Purrs and prayers are working. Please keep them up. Purrs continuing.
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polonca12000 - 21 Nov 2007 21:54 GMT > Purrs and prayers are working. Please keep them up. > [quoted text clipped - 26 lines] > > Tweed We will continue to send lots and lots of purrs and best wishes, Polonca and Soncek
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