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Purrs for a 6-month-old abandoned kitty
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Gabey8 - 08 May 2007 08:31 GMT Hi, all!
I have need of some purrs, but I need to give you all a bit of backstory first, since I'm not entirely sure what the best thing to purr FOR is. (Bear with me -- it's 3:25 AM here and I've got insomnia.)
For starters: there's a large park a few blocks from where I live. Ignoramuses masquerading as people sometimes abandon pets there. This infuriates me beyond measure, but that's a rant for another thread.
There's a little smoke/grey tabby/teeny bit of tortie girlcat, which I'd put at about six months old given her size and the fact that she has adult teeth at least in the front where I can see them, who has been hanging around in the vicinity of our house for the past two days. She's extremely social toward humans, which makes me think that she was dumped in the park by someone who deserves to be sent lots of litterbox-content offerings.
I think it's the combination of being able to smell Captain and Stanley, plus the fact that I emit "sucker for cats!" vibes which are audible to every feline within a ten-mile radius, that drew here here.
She is the friendliest little kitty you can imagine. She has NO qualms about sitting at our front door and meowing to come in, either. And this was BEFORE I set eyes on her, felt terrible because she's so thin :o( , and brought out some cat food.
Actually, when I first saw her on Sunday evening, I didn't know if she could handle the oral-care cat food I have for Captain and Stanley. It's made of extra-large kibbles so that the cat HAS to chew it and it cleans the cat's teeth. But I didn't know what kind of shape her teeth might be in, so I tore up two slices of baloney and brought that out instead, along with water. She proceeded to inhale the baloney, purring her stripey head off all the while. Then she let me pet her, pick her up, examine her fur for fleas (she seems to be OK on that score), turn her over to verify gender (!), and check her teeth (!!). Even though I knew to gently scruff the cat before having a peek at her teeth, I'm still a bit surprised that she let me do that. Must be the "sucker for cats" vibes working in my favor there. ;o) Once I established that her teeth are fine, I was able to bring out cat food on Monday night when she reappeared at the front door and started mewing once again.
Anyway, here's the deal. My husband doesn't want to bring a third cat in, which I can kind of understand since we really do have a SMALL row house. I, on the other hand, would like nothing better than to haul Ms.Surprise Arrival off to the vet for a checkup and, should she have a clean bill of health, adopt her on the spot.
But as much as I want to take the foundling in, it also occurs to me that maybe she's "meant" to be someone else's pet, and she's just on our doorstep because Someone Up There wanted to be sure she's being looked after for the time being. After all, I can't take in EVERY cat on earth... I couldn't care for them all, and I have to leave at least a few available for the OTHER cat lovers in the world.
BTW... I also strongly suspect that she may be in heat. Now and then, she rolls on the ground. She is, as I said, extremely friendly and craves attention. Plus, I can't help but wonder if she wants to come in our house *because* she smells that two boycats live here, even though both of them are neutered. The trouble is, I've never HAD a cat in heat (minus one episode in 1990 when Melody went into her first heat before I could get her to a vet). So I can't say I've seen firsthand how a cat in heat behaves. If someone can review with me what I should be looking for, to determine if she's in heat or not, I'd appreciate it.
OK, so this is the deal. I don't know whether to ask for purrs and prayers that I can take in this little cat, or that I can help her find a home somehow (so far none of my friends are in a position to take in a cat), or what. So what I want is for her to be healthy, STAY healthy, and get safely to her OneTrueHome whether that means I talk DH into taking her in, or a passerby falls in love with her and takes her home.
And if any of our RPCAers in or near Philadelphia find that they can take in a 6-month-old little purr-machine girlcat, let me know. She's a little sweetheart and deserves to be spoiled senseless for the rest of her nine lives.
Donna, and the cats who aren't entirely sure about this "becoming a big brother" thing, Captain and Stanley
Takayuki - 08 May 2007 09:14 GMT >And if any of our RPCAers in or near Philadelphia find that they can >take in a 6-month-old little purr-machine girlcat, let me know. She's [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] >Donna, and the cats who aren't entirely sure about this "becoming a >big brother" thing, Captain and Stanley How absolutely darling! She sounds like she at least needs to be spayed. This reminds me of Karen's Tessie's story.
Adrian A - 08 May 2007 09:59 GMT <snip>
> Donna, and the cats who aren't entirely sure about this "becoming a > big brother" thing, Captain and Stanley Lots of purrs for the little one to find her onetruehome. Would it be possible to take her to the vet or a shelter and have her scanned for a microchip, it's concievable that she has a slave somewhere that misses her?
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Shiral - 08 May 2007 18:57 GMT > <snip> > [quoted text clipped - 7 lines] > Adrian (Owned by Snoopy and Bagheera) > Cats leave pawprints on your heart.http://community.webshots.com/user/clowderuk I think Adrian is right. A kitty this sweet should either be reunited with her slave if possible, or find a new home if some unworthy hoomin has dumped her. I suspect Francesca got away from her original humans due to being an adolescent in heat, had a wild night of romance with a tomcat, and just never found her way home, again. The Humane Society catchers found her wandering around looking lost on the streets of Santa Clara. She was far to trustful and well-socialized, and her general health was too good for her to have been a feral cat all her life. If her original humans are sad about never finding her again, I'm very sorry for them, but I'm not giving her up!
Purrs that she can be reunited with her hoomin, or find another good forever home. (And maybe for your husband to fall in love with her....=o)) Bast look after her!
Melissa When a female cat is in heat, you KNOW it. They cry loudly, stretch out in front of you with their tails up while paddling their hind paws on the ground. Fortunately, it doesn't last all that long. It just seems long.
Sherry - 08 May 2007 15:11 GMT > Hi, all! > [quoted text clipped - 79 lines] > Donna, and the cats who aren't entirely sure about this "becoming a > big brother" thing, Captain and Stanley Awwww...bless you for stepping in and taking responsibility for her. I absolutely loathe people who dump out cats. We get them from time to time--there is a lake near here, and those ignoramuses masquerading as humans think cats can survive on their own, and they think "some farmer" or camper will take them home & it all has a happy ending. They honestly think that. They think that by "not" taking the animal to a shelter, they are "giving it a chance" because it would surely be killed at a shelter. Arrggh! Stupid, stupid people. Enough rant though.
I have just about as much experience with cats in heat as you do, but I remember Biskit rolling around a lot, getting up in my face, crying a lot, and just being generally way too friendly to be real.
Donna, does she look well-fed? She's obviously very well socialized--I wonder if she got lost because of wandering off due to being in heat. Anyway--good luck with the kitty. What are you naming her?
Sherry
jXwXeXrXmXoXnXt@sonic.net - 08 May 2007 19:51 GMT > Donna, does she look well-fed? She's obviously very well socialized--I > wonder if she got lost because of wandering off due to being in heat. I'm thinking she might be a lost kitty, too, rather than a dumped kitty. The lack of fleas could indicate that she hasn't been out on her own for very long. Maybe she just got out, and her humans are frantic to find her. She might be microchipped - maybe you should get her checked at least for that.
Good luck! She sounds like a great kitty, I hope she finds her way back home, or to her new home.
Joyce
Sherry - 08 May 2007 23:34 GMT On May 8, 1:51�pm, jXwXeXrXmXoX...@sonic.net wrote:
> > Donna, does she look well-fed? She's obviously very well socialized--I > > wonder if she got lost because of wandering off due to being in heat. [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > > Joyce I hardly ever get dumped cats that are in very good shape at all. Billy & Lily were a healthy weight, but eaten alive with fleas, wormy, and full of stickers. Biskie was so emaciated her sides practically touched, she also had fleas, ticks, matts, stickers. Jacky's eyes were so infected I honestly thought one of them was missing at first. One tuxedo cat (I can't even remember if I gave it a name)..not only had FeLV but the vet strongly suspected FIP too, and had mange or skin allergies or something awful. That poor thing, he was the only dumped cat I ever had euthanized. It would have been much kinder for the owners to have done it before they let him wander for God knows how many days or weeks. I just hate people who dump cats. And that's a strong word I don't use very often.
Sherry
Sherry
Enfilade - 09 May 2007 01:34 GMT I will purr that your kittie gets her forever home, whether that be the home who accidentally lost her, your home, or a new home.
I've got 4 happy cats in a 2 bedroom apartment, so I don't think a row house is an issue, so much as "Can you afford her." I know for a fact, without Dylan I could not have afforded to take in the bitties long term, because I was on contract work and once it ended, spent a year unemployed/underemployed.
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> > ?> Donna, does she look well-fed? She's obviously very well socialized--I > > ?> wonder if she got lost because of wandering off due to being in heat. Stormmee - 08 May 2007 16:33 GMT we will purr that her best outcome happens and that you can be a part of making that happen, in the meantime, get her to the vet and spayed, will make her more adoptable and prevent more foundlings, Lee
> Hi, all! > [quoted text clipped - 79 lines] > Donna, and the cats who aren't entirely sure about this "becoming a > big brother" thing, Captain and Stanley Irulan - 08 May 2007 17:18 GMT Can't help you out except with purrs and lots of prayers that the little one finds a forever home. Will a shelter take her in in the meantime? She sounds like a little darling.
Lily & her mama
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> Hi, all! > [quoted text clipped - 79 lines] > Donna, and the cats who aren't entirely sure about this "becoming a > big brother" thing, Captain and Stanley Matthew - 08 May 2007 17:44 GMT Purrs on the way
> Hi, all! > [quoted text clipped - 79 lines] > Donna, and the cats who aren't entirely sure about this "becoming a > big brother" thing, Captain and Stanley EvelynVogtGamble(Divamanque) - 08 May 2007 18:08 GMT > BTW... I also strongly suspect that she may be in heat. Now and then, > she rolls on the ground. She is, as I said, extremely friendly and [quoted text clipped - 6 lines] > what I should be looking for, to determine if she's in heat or not, > I'd appreciate it. I've never had much doubt - even my first female cat (whom, I was assured when I took her, had been "fixed")! I'd never seen a cat in heat before, but there's really no mistaking the behaviour. They yowl (some - especially Siamese - almost every waking minute). This is a very distinctive yowl, often with a strongly emphasized crescendo on the end. ("Yowwww-OWWW!") They crouch down, "pedaling" with their hind feet, base of the tail considerately arched to one side for the male cat's convenience. They are also SUPER affectionate toward any living creature (and even some furniture) in their vicinity..... Unfortunately, six months is not too young for a first heat period, so you may well be right. (Also, if she's been on the loose for any length of time, she may already be coming to you with incipient kittens.)
Ginger-lyn - 08 May 2007 23:10 GMT > Hi, all! > [quoted text clipped - 79 lines] > Donna, and the cats who aren't entirely sure about this "becoming a > big brother" thing, Captain and Stanley How about purrs for both?
I understand your problem. I've ended up with nine cats! But I have to draw the line there, so I am at present not rescuing, unless a cat comes flying through the door as if it belongs here -- lol.
My vibes say maybe this kitten chose your home because *that* is where she is supposed to be :-)
Cats in heat can vary. Mostly yes, there is the rolling around, meowing loudly in a different tone than others, being *extremely* affectionate, licking nether regions a lot, and probably some other things I've forgotten. Some cats go all-out on being in heat, so you have no doubt whatsoever. Others do a pale imitation. Don't know why this is, but I know it happens.
Best of luck to you and Little Kitty.
Ginger-lyn
Gabey8 - 09 May 2007 03:04 GMT Update. Ms. Surprise Arrival seems to spend the daylight hours off doing I-know-not-what. But yet again, this evening, she was back.
Temperatures in Philadelphia are just right for leaving the windows open, so we are. Captain and Stanley looooove being able to get the breeze coming in the front window as they sit there, watching Kitty TV and beautifying the neighborhood by displaying their stripey selves to the world. :o)
But I was surprised, just after sundown, to hear kitty swear words emanating from the region of the front window. "Maaoowrrr... grrrrrr... FFFFT!" Captain and Stanley were both there, looking out. Neither of them tends to make any such noises, not even while playfighting, so I got up to see what was going on.
When I got there, I saw Ms. Surprise Arrival sitting there on the OUTSIDE window sill in a Sphinx stance. (Just the fact that she can fit on a windowsill that can't possibly be wider than three inches gives an idea of how slender she is.) I have no doubt that she's been able to smell Captain and Stanley for the past few days, through the open window. However, as far as I can tell, this is the first time she's actually SEEN them close up, and I think she was a bit freaked out by how much bigger they are than she is. Stanley, who's about 10 lbs, is easily twice her size. Captain's somewhere between 13-15 lbs, so he's larger still. She was the one swearing in feline at them both, but they wouldn't go away. They sat there staring in amazement at this new little cat who sat there, glaring and using kitty words that we don't generally hear in this house.
It took everything in me not to burst out laughing on the spot. Stanley, delicate soul that he is, was so unnerved by this miniscule bit of feisty felinity that he jumped down to the floor and sat next to my feet. All the fur on his spine was standing straight up like a mohawk hairdo. Captain continued to sit there, staring in astonishment, seemingly unable to grasp what he was seeing. ("There's a CAT out there! And she's, like, all growling and stuff!") I talked quietly to them all about what good kitties they are, and how I'd like them to all get along and be friends. The little girlcat eventually got tired of Captain's ignoring her orders to go away, and she jumped down to the sidewalk. I put Stanley back up to the window, and Captain sniffed his face emphatically, with huge, dilated eyes, as if to say, "Did you see that? What was that? WHO was that? What just happened here?"
The boys resumed watching the neighborhood. Stanley meatloafed, and Captain sat with his tail draped over his brother's back for moral support.I don't think either of them wants to mess with the miniature tuffgirl kitty with the potty mouth. ;o)
LOL. I'm crossing my fingers that, if someone else doesn't take her in, she becomes friendly with Captain and Stanley. That'll be more ammunition for my "We really should take this cat in" debate. :o)
Donna and the bewildered boycats, Captain and Stanley
jXwXeXrXmXoXnXt@sonic.net - 09 May 2007 07:44 GMT > beautifying the neighborhood by displaying their stripey selves to > the world. :o) I *love* this. :)
> Stanley, delicate soul that he is, was so unnerved by this miniscule > bit of feisty felinity that he jumped down to the floor and sat next > to my feet. All the fur on his spine was standing straight up like a > mohawk hairdo. Poor Stanley, he sounds a little stressed, but LOL on the hairdo.
> LOL. I'm crossing my fingers that, if someone else doesn't take her > in, she becomes friendly with Captain and Stanley. That'll be more > ammunition for my "We really should take this cat in" debate. :o) Purrs that your husband soon accepts the inevitable on this one. :)
Joyce
Kreisleriana - 09 May 2007 15:11 GMT >Update. Ms. Surprise Arrival seems to spend the daylight hours off >doing I-know-not-what. But yet again, this evening, she was back. [quoted text clipped - 10 lines] >Neither of them tends to make any such noises, not even while >playfighting, so I got up to see what was going on. LMAO at the feisty grrl!
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polonca12000 - 12 May 2007 22:20 GMT > Update. Ms. Surprise Arrival seems to spend the daylight hours off > doing I-know-not-what. But yet again, this evening, she was back. [quoted text clipped - 50 lines] > > Donna and the bewildered boycats, Captain and Stanley Great story! Wishing you all lots of luck, Polonca and Soncek
Karen - 11 May 2007 02:04 GMT > Hi, all! > [quoted text clipped - 79 lines] > Donna, and the cats who aren't entirely sure about this "becoming a > big brother" thing, Captain and Stanley All I can say is - she's just going to wear you and your husband down sooner or later, so it might as well be sooner so she can get properly spayed and introductions can begin. I know. I'm no help but honesty, I can't think she will take up THAT much room. Right?
polonca12000 - 12 May 2007 22:17 GMT > Hi, all! > [quoted text clipped - 14 lines] > she was dumped in the park by someone who deserves to be sent lots of > litterbox-content offerings. <snip>
> OK, so this is the deal. I don't know whether to ask for purrs and > prayers that I can take in this little cat, or that I can help her [quoted text clipped - 11 lines] > Donna, and the cats who aren't entirely sure about this "becoming a > big brother" thing, Captain and Stanley Lots of purrs and best wishes for the kitty to find a great onetruehome, either with you or somebody else, Polonca and Soncek
Mommy of 2 - 12 May 2007 23:05 GMT Have you tried posting a "Found" flyier around the neighborhood??? I really detest people who dump cats, and I cry when I see one lying in the road. My furball gives me so much love I can't imagine ever letting anything hurt her.. .
>> Hi, all! >> [quoted text clipped - 11 lines] >either with you or somebody else, >Polonca and Soncek
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