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Purrs for a 6-month-old abandoned kitty

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Gabey8 - 08 May 2007 08:31 GMT
Hi, all!

I have need of some purrs, but I need to give you all a bit of
backstory first, since I'm not entirely sure what the best thing to
purr FOR is. (Bear with me -- it's 3:25 AM here and I've got
insomnia.)

For starters: there's a large park a few blocks from where I live.
Ignoramuses masquerading as people sometimes abandon pets there. This
infuriates me beyond measure, but that's a rant for another thread.

There's a little smoke/grey tabby/teeny bit of tortie girlcat, which
I'd put at about six months old given her size and the fact that she
has adult teeth at least in the front where I can see them, who has
been hanging around in the vicinity of our house for the past two
days. She's extremely social toward humans, which makes me think that
she was dumped in the park by someone who deserves to be sent lots of
litterbox-content offerings.

I think it's the combination of being able to smell Captain and
Stanley, plus the fact that I emit "sucker for cats!" vibes which are
audible to every feline within a ten-mile radius, that drew here here.

She is the friendliest little kitty you can imagine. She has NO qualms
about sitting at our front door and meowing to come in, either. And
this was BEFORE I set eyes on her, felt terrible because she's so
thin :o( , and brought out some cat food.

Actually, when I first saw her on Sunday evening, I didn't know if she
could handle the oral-care cat food I have for Captain and Stanley.
It's made of extra-large kibbles so that the cat HAS to chew it and it
cleans the cat's teeth. But I didn't know what kind of shape her teeth
might be in, so I tore up two slices of baloney and brought that out
instead, along with water. She proceeded to inhale the baloney,
purring her stripey head off all the while. Then she let me pet her,
pick her up, examine her fur for fleas (she seems to be OK on that
score), turn her over to verify gender (!), and check her teeth (!!).
Even though I knew to gently scruff the cat before having a peek at
her teeth, I'm still a bit surprised that she let me do that. Must be
the "sucker for cats" vibes working in my favor there. ;o) Once I
established that her teeth are fine, I was able to bring out cat food
on Monday night when she reappeared at the front door and started
mewing once again.

Anyway, here's the deal. My husband doesn't want to bring a third cat
in, which I can kind of understand since we really do have a SMALL row
house. I, on the other hand, would like nothing better than to haul
Ms.Surprise Arrival off to the vet for a checkup and, should she have
a clean bill of health, adopt her on the spot.

But as much as I want to take the foundling in, it also occurs to me
that maybe she's "meant" to be someone else's pet, and she's just on
our doorstep because Someone Up There wanted to be sure she's being
looked after for the time being. After all, I can't take in EVERY cat
on earth... I couldn't care for them all, and I have to leave at least
a few available for the OTHER cat lovers in the world.

BTW... I also strongly suspect that she may be in heat. Now and then,
she rolls on the ground. She is, as I said, extremely friendly and
craves attention. Plus, I can't help but wonder if she wants to come
in our house *because* she smells that two boycats live here, even
though both of them are neutered. The trouble is, I've never HAD a cat
in heat (minus one episode in 1990 when Melody went into her first
heat before I could get her to a vet). So I can't say I've seen
firsthand how a cat in heat behaves. If someone can review with me
what I should be looking for, to determine if she's in heat or not,
I'd appreciate it.

OK, so this is the deal. I don't know whether to ask for purrs and
prayers that I can take in this little cat, or that I can help her
find a home somehow (so far none of my friends are in a position to
take in a cat), or what. So what I want is for her to be healthy, STAY
healthy, and get safely to her OneTrueHome whether that means I talk
DH into taking her in, or a passerby falls in love with her and takes
her home.

And if any of our RPCAers in or near Philadelphia find that they can
take in a 6-month-old little purr-machine girlcat, let me know. She's
a little sweetheart and deserves to be spoiled senseless for the rest
of her nine lives.

Donna, and the cats who aren't entirely sure about this "becoming a
big brother" thing, Captain and Stanley
Takayuki - 08 May 2007 09:14 GMT
>And if any of our RPCAers in or near Philadelphia find that they can
>take in a 6-month-old little purr-machine girlcat, let me know. She's
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>Donna, and the cats who aren't entirely sure about this "becoming a
>big brother" thing, Captain and Stanley

How absolutely darling!  She sounds like she at least needs to be
spayed.  This reminds me of Karen's Tessie's story.
Adrian A - 08 May 2007 09:59 GMT
<snip>
> Donna, and the cats who aren't entirely sure about this "becoming a
> big brother" thing, Captain and Stanley

Lots of purrs for the little one to find her onetruehome. Would it be
possible to take her to the vet or a shelter and have her scanned for a
microchip, it's concievable that she has a slave somewhere that misses her?
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Cats leave pawprints on your heart.
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Shiral - 08 May 2007 18:57 GMT
> <snip>
>
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> Adrian (Owned by Snoopy and Bagheera)
> Cats leave pawprints on your heart.http://community.webshots.com/user/clowderuk

I think Adrian is right. A kitty this sweet should either be reunited
with her slave if possible, or find a new home if some unworthy hoomin
has dumped her.  I suspect Francesca got away from her original humans
due to being an adolescent in heat, had a wild night of romance with a
tomcat, and just never found her way home, again. The Humane Society
catchers found her wandering around looking lost on the streets of
Santa Clara.  She was far to trustful and well-socialized, and her
general health was too good for her to have been a feral cat all her
life.  If her original humans are sad about never finding her again,
I'm very sorry for them, but I'm not giving her up!

Purrs that she can be reunited with her hoomin, or find another good
forever home. (And maybe for your husband to fall in love with
her....=o)) Bast look after her!

Melissa
When a female cat is in heat, you KNOW it.  They cry loudly, stretch
out in front of you with their tails up while paddling their hind paws
on the ground.  Fortunately, it doesn't last all that long. It just
seems long.
Sherry - 08 May 2007 15:11 GMT
> Hi, all!
>
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> Donna, and the cats who aren't entirely sure about this "becoming a
> big brother" thing, Captain and Stanley

Awwww...bless you for stepping in and taking responsibility for her. I
absolutely loathe
people who dump out cats. We get them from time to time--there is a
lake near here, and
those ignoramuses masquerading as humans think cats can survive on
their own, and they think "some
farmer" or camper will take them home & it all has a happy ending.
They honestly think that.
They think that by "not" taking the animal to a shelter, they are
"giving it a chance" because
it would surely be killed at a shelter. Arrggh! Stupid, stupid people.
Enough rant though.

I have just about as much experience with cats in heat as you do, but
I remember Biskit rolling
around a lot, getting up in my face, crying a lot, and just being
generally way too friendly to
be real.

Donna, does she look well-fed? She's obviously very well socialized--I
wonder if she got lost because of wandering off due to being in heat.
Anyway--good luck with the kitty. What are you naming her?

Sherry
jXwXeXrXmXoXnXt@sonic.net - 08 May 2007 19:51 GMT
> Donna, does she look well-fed? She's obviously very well socialized--I
> wonder if she got lost because of wandering off due to being in heat.

I'm thinking she might be a lost kitty, too, rather than a dumped kitty.
The lack of fleas could indicate that she hasn't been out on her own for
very long. Maybe she just got out, and her humans are frantic to find her.
She might be microchipped - maybe you should get her checked at least for
that.

Good luck! She sounds like a great kitty, I hope she finds her way back
home, or to her new home.

Joyce
Sherry - 08 May 2007 23:34 GMT
On May 8, 1:51�pm, jXwXeXrXmXoX...@sonic.net wrote:

> > Donna, does she look well-fed? She's obviously very well socialized--I
> > wonder if she got lost because of wandering off due to being in heat.
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>
> Joyce

I hardly ever get dumped cats that are in very good shape at all.
Billy & Lily were a healthy weight,
but eaten alive with fleas, wormy, and full of stickers. Biskie was so
emaciated her sides practically
touched, she also had fleas, ticks, matts, stickers. Jacky's eyes were
so infected I honestly thought
one of them was missing at first. One tuxedo cat (I can't even
remember if I gave it a name)..not only had FeLV but the vet strongly
suspected FIP too, and had mange or skin allergies or something awful.
That poor thing, he was the only dumped cat I ever had euthanized. It
would have been much kinder for the owners to have done it before they
let him wander
for God knows how many days or weeks. I just hate people who dump
cats. And that's a strong word I don't use very often.

Sherry

Sherry
Enfilade - 09 May 2007 01:34 GMT
I will purr that your kittie gets her forever home, whether that be
the home who accidentally lost her, your home, or a new home.

I've got 4 happy cats in a 2 bedroom apartment, so I don't think a row
house is an issue, so much as "Can you afford her."  I know for a
fact, without Dylan I could not have afforded to take in the bitties
long term, because I was on contract work and once it ended, spent a
year unemployed/underemployed.

--Fil

> > ?> Donna, does she look well-fed? She's obviously very well socialized--I
> > ?> wonder if she got lost because of wandering off due to being in heat.
Stormmee - 08 May 2007 16:33 GMT
we will purr that her best outcome happens and that you can be  a part of
making that happen, in the meantime, get her to the vet and spayed, will
make her more adoptable and prevent more foundlings, Lee
> Hi, all!
>
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> Donna, and the cats who aren't entirely sure about this "becoming a
> big brother" thing, Captain and Stanley
Irulan - 08 May 2007 17:18 GMT
Can't help you out except with purrs and lots of
prayers that the little one finds a forever home. Will
a shelter take her in in the meantime? She sounds like
a little darling.

Lily & her mama

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Irulan
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to the stars we return
from now until the end of time.

> Hi, all!
>
[quoted text clipped - 79 lines]
> Donna, and the cats who aren't entirely sure about this "becoming a
> big brother" thing, Captain and Stanley
Matthew - 08 May 2007 17:44 GMT
Purrs on the way
> Hi, all!
>
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> Donna, and the cats who aren't entirely sure about this "becoming a
> big brother" thing, Captain and Stanley
EvelynVogtGamble(Divamanque) - 08 May 2007 18:08 GMT
> BTW... I also strongly suspect that she may be in heat. Now and then,
> she rolls on the ground. She is, as I said, extremely friendly and
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> what I should be looking for, to determine if she's in heat or not,
> I'd appreciate it.

I've never had much doubt - even my first female cat (whom,
I was assured when I took her, had been "fixed")!  I'd never
seen a cat in heat before, but there's really no mistaking
the behaviour.  They yowl (some - especially Siamese -
almost every waking minute).  This is a very distinctive
yowl, often with a strongly emphasized crescendo on the end.
  ("Yowwww-OWWW!")  They crouch down, "pedaling" with their
hind feet, base of the tail considerately arched to one side
for the male cat's convenience.  They are also SUPER
affectionate toward any living creature (and even some
furniture) in their vicinity.....  Unfortunately, six months
is not too young for a first heat period, so you may well be
right.  (Also, if she's been on the loose for any length of
time, she may already be coming to you with incipient kittens.)
Ginger-lyn - 08 May 2007 23:10 GMT
> Hi, all!
>
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> Donna, and the cats who aren't entirely sure about this "becoming a
> big brother" thing, Captain and Stanley

How about purrs for both?

I understand your problem.  I've ended up with nine cats!  But I have to
draw the line there, so I am at present not rescuing, unless a cat comes
flying through the door as if it belongs here -- lol.

My vibes say maybe this kitten chose your home because *that* is where
she is supposed to be :-)

Cats in heat can vary.  Mostly yes, there is the rolling around, meowing
loudly in a different tone than others, being *extremely* affectionate,
licking nether regions a lot, and probably some other things I've
forgotten.  Some cats go all-out on being in heat, so you have no doubt
whatsoever.  Others do a pale imitation.  Don't know why this is, but I
know it happens.

Best of luck to you and Little Kitty.

Ginger-lyn
Gabey8 - 09 May 2007 03:04 GMT
Update. Ms. Surprise Arrival seems to spend the daylight hours off
doing I-know-not-what. But yet again, this evening, she was back.

Temperatures in Philadelphia are just right for leaving the windows
open, so we are. Captain and Stanley looooove being able to get the
breeze coming in the front window as they sit there, watching Kitty TV
and beautifying the neighborhood by displaying their stripey selves to
the world. :o)

But I was surprised, just after sundown, to hear kitty swear words
emanating from the region of the front window. "Maaoowrrr...
grrrrrr... FFFFT!" Captain and Stanley were both there, looking out.
Neither of them tends to make any such noises, not even while
playfighting, so I got up to see what was going on.

When I got there, I saw Ms. Surprise Arrival sitting there on the
OUTSIDE window sill in a Sphinx stance. (Just the fact that she can
fit on a windowsill that can't possibly be wider than three inches
gives an idea of how slender she is.) I have no doubt that she's been
able to smell Captain and Stanley for the past few days, through the
open window. However, as far as I can tell, this is the first time
she's actually SEEN them close up, and I think she was a bit freaked
out by how much bigger they are than she is. Stanley, who's about 10
lbs, is easily twice her size. Captain's somewhere between 13-15 lbs,
so he's larger still. She was the one swearing in feline at them both,
but they wouldn't go away. They sat there staring in amazement at this
new little cat who sat there, glaring and using kitty words that we
don't generally hear in this house.

It took everything in me not to burst out laughing on the spot.
Stanley, delicate soul that he is, was so unnerved by this miniscule
bit of feisty felinity that he jumped down to the floor and sat next
to my feet. All the fur on his spine was standing straight up like a
mohawk hairdo. Captain continued to sit there, staring in
astonishment, seemingly unable to grasp what he was seeing. ("There's
a CAT out there! And she's, like, all growling and stuff!") I talked
quietly to them all about what good kitties they are, and how I'd like
them to all get along and be friends. The little girlcat eventually
got tired of Captain's ignoring her orders to go away, and she jumped
down to the sidewalk. I put Stanley back up to the window, and Captain
sniffed his face emphatically, with huge, dilated eyes, as if to say,
"Did you see that? What was that? WHO was that? What just happened
here?"

The boys resumed watching the neighborhood. Stanley meatloafed, and
Captain sat with his tail draped over his brother's back for moral
support.I don't think either of them wants to mess with the miniature
tuffgirl kitty with the potty mouth. ;o)

LOL. I'm crossing my fingers that, if someone else doesn't take her
in, she becomes friendly with Captain and Stanley. That'll be more
ammunition for my "We really should take this cat in" debate. :o)

Donna and the bewildered boycats, Captain and Stanley
jXwXeXrXmXoXnXt@sonic.net - 09 May 2007 07:44 GMT
> beautifying the neighborhood by displaying their stripey selves to
> the world. :o)

I *love* this. :)

> Stanley, delicate soul that he is, was so unnerved by this miniscule
> bit of feisty felinity that he jumped down to the floor and sat next
> to my feet. All the fur on his spine was standing straight up like a
> mohawk hairdo.

Poor Stanley, he sounds a little stressed, but LOL on the hairdo.

> LOL. I'm crossing my fingers that, if someone else doesn't take her
> in, she becomes friendly with Captain and Stanley. That'll be more
> ammunition for my "We really should take this cat in" debate. :o)

Purrs that your husband soon accepts the inevitable on this one. :)

Joyce
Kreisleriana - 09 May 2007 15:11 GMT
>Update. Ms. Surprise Arrival seems to spend the daylight hours off
>doing I-know-not-what. But yet again, this evening, she was back.
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>Neither of them tends to make any such noises, not even while
>playfighting, so I got up to see what was going on.

LMAO at the feisty grrl!

Theresa
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Make Levees, Not War
polonca12000 - 12 May 2007 22:20 GMT
> Update. Ms. Surprise Arrival seems to spend the daylight hours off
> doing I-know-not-what. But yet again, this evening, she was back.
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>
> Donna and the bewildered boycats, Captain and Stanley

Great story!
Wishing you all lots of luck,
Polonca and Soncek
Karen - 11 May 2007 02:04 GMT
> Hi, all!
>
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> Donna, and the cats who aren't entirely sure about this "becoming a
> big brother" thing, Captain and Stanley

All I can say is - she's just going to wear you and your husband down
sooner or later, so it might as well be sooner so she can get properly
spayed and introductions can begin. I know. I'm no help but honesty, I
can't think she will take up THAT much room. Right?
polonca12000 - 12 May 2007 22:17 GMT
> Hi, all!
>
[quoted text clipped - 14 lines]
> she was dumped in the park by someone who deserves to be sent lots of
> litterbox-content offerings.
<snip>
> OK, so this is the deal. I don't know whether to ask for purrs and
> prayers that I can take in this little cat, or that I can help her
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
> Donna, and the cats who aren't entirely sure about this "becoming a
> big brother" thing, Captain and Stanley

Lots of purrs and best wishes for the kitty to find a great onetruehome,
either with you or somebody else,
Polonca and Soncek
Mommy of 2 - 12 May 2007 23:05 GMT
Have you tried posting a "Found" flyier around the neighborhood???  I really
detest people who dump cats, and I cry when I see one lying in the road.  My
furball gives me so much love I can't imagine ever letting anything hurt her..
.

>> Hi, all!
>>
[quoted text clipped - 11 lines]
>either with you or somebody else,
>Polonca and Soncek
 
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