Louie's grandmother passed yesterday afternoon.
I barely knew the lady but she was very gracious, and in her last years of
illness she busted her onions to make it to the wedding of the first son born
to any of her children. She was also one of the very few who didn't visibly
recoil upon seeing me, which booted her up a good many notches in my Respect-
o-meter. She was in her 90's and went with peace and without prolonged
suffering, for which we are all thankful.
His work is being absolutely bastardly about letting him take a day off to go
to New York City.
On the other hand, he is healthy enough now to be righteously p*ssed off at
them for being pricky with him; he even worked through most of what should
have been recovery from Peanut Butter Evil. You'd think something like a
family member's passing would entitle you to a break.
Please spare a few for my Louie...again. I'm asking way too much and now I'm
guiltridden, but he has had just buckets of manure pouring out upon him of
late!
Blessed be,
Baha
Nan - 01 Mar 2007 22:16 GMT
>Louie's grandmother passed yesterday afternoon.
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>Blessed be,
>Baha
Purrs for Louie's grieving heart, and smelly litter box offerings for
the person who won't give him the time off to be with his family
during their time of grief at the loss of their mother and
grandmother.

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Nan and the Furkids
Kreisleriana - 01 Mar 2007 23:13 GMT
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>Blessed be,
>Baha
Purrs for Louie's grandma, and all of you-- and you-know-what to his
employers. :P
Theresa
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Jo Firey - 01 Mar 2007 23:14 GMT
> Louie's grandmother passed yesterday afternoon.
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> o-meter. She was in her 90's and went with peace and without prolonged
> suffering, for which we are all thankful.
Ninety years! And I'll bet it was a very interesting and wonder filled
life.
Blessings to you and to all the rest of her family.
I do hope Louie is going any way. It just isn't optional. And I feel sorry
for anyone. employer or otherwise who hasn't been blessed with the sort of
life that makes them understand this.
Jo
Baha - 02 Mar 2007 01:29 GMT
Thank you, and everyone else...Louie said there is an option of going to the
memorial now, or waiting until the summer until her ashes are interred in
California. I think it is better he should go this weekend. A venerable life
of 90+ years you don't just wait to honor, as far as I'm concerned. I think
it'll do his karma good to go to his Babcia's memorial (if I knew the word
for beloved granny in Chinese I'd use it; she was from mainland China, but
spent most of her life in Chile as her husband was attached to the Chinese
embassy in the Chilean capital, which name escapes me now.) She had the kind
of dignity which, when you saw it, made you know why her countrymen have such
respect for their aged; something which we Americans could well learn.
(Please excuse me, there are times I am too keenly aware of my aging and
mortality--and the knowledge that, unlike the late Babcia Tang, I will never
be able to have children surrounding me in my final years--and I get maudlin;
thank God I'm not a drinker or else I'd be at some shady karaoke joint doing
wretched tear-in-my-beer songs like "End Of The World" or "Damn My Truck Just
Up 'n Busted a Strut.")
Our five cats should produce plenty of offerings to the yutzes on his job who
won't let my Louie do the right thing.
Blessed be,
Baha
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Will in New Haven - 02 Mar 2007 01:47 GMT
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Purrs for everyone. For you, for him and for his grandma.
Will in New Haven
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him prosperous, he will not bite you.
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Sam - 02 Mar 2007 03:35 GMT
> Louie's grandmother passed yesterday afternoon.
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> Blessed be,
> Baha
Purrs for Louie's grieving heart and a pox on management that won't let
him have time off to tend to "family business". Our company's policy is
3 bereavement days, but that can stretch out to a couple of weeks.

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Lesley - 02 Mar 2007 09:45 GMT
". Our company's policy is
>3 bereavement days, but that can stretch out to a couple of weeks.
Ours is up to 6 but "at the discretion of the manager". A friend of mine in
another department had to take annual leave to attend her gran's funeral
becauase her manager said she didn't consider a grandparent a "close" enough
relation to grant compassionate leave.
When my mum died, the manager I had at the time, gave me the whole week off
(What he actually said was "If I see you here before next Monday I will
personally kick your butt out of the door") then another two-three days the
following week to ease myself back into things. He also sent me a HUGE bunch
of flowers from everyone at work. He was an exceptional manager and yes, we
all worked a lot harder and a lot better because he treated us like decent
Human beings
Purrs for Louie
Lesley
Slave of the Fabulous Furballs
Adrian A - 02 Mar 2007 10:20 GMT
> ". Our company's policy is
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> Slave of the Fabulous Furballs
One place I worked, about 20 years ago, the owner told me to take a day of
compassionate leave when my cat, Bod, died. He said he understood how much
an animal can mean to someone.

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Lesley - 02 Mar 2007 11:23 GMT
>One place I worked, about 20 years ago, the owner told me to take a day of
>compassionate leave when my cat, Bod, died. He said he understood how much
>an animal can mean to someone.
When we lost Fugazi my manager apologised for my having to come in the next
day but someone else was off, he told me if the other person wasn't off, he
would have sent me home for the day and said nothing about it.
He had 7 cats- had always had cats and said he knew what it felt like to lose
one
Lesley
Slave of the Fabulous Furballs
jmcquown - 02 Mar 2007 04:14 GMT
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> Blessed be,
> Baha
Purrs definitely on the way from here. And dirty litterbox offerings for
those bosses who think a funeral is not reason to take a few days off!
Jill
Marina - 02 Mar 2007 04:40 GMT
> Please spare a few for my Louie...again. I'm asking way too much and now I'm
> guiltridden, but he has had just buckets of manure pouring out upon him of
> late!
Of course Louie can have purrs. Our sincerest condolences as well.

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Shiral - 02 Mar 2007 06:54 GMT
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Poor Louie! I'm sorry to hear this gracious lady, his grandmother, has
passed away. Dirty litter box offerings to his place of work for not
letting him attend her funeral. Purrs that the manure storm will soon
be past.
Melissa
Stormmee - 02 Mar 2007 09:40 GMT
you aren't asking to much, your love of your partner makes purrs more than
worthwhile... I am truly sorry for your loss, loving a grandparent is as
important as a parent to me, Lee
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Randy - 02 Mar 2007 13:07 GMT
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>Blessed be,
>Baha
My deepest condolences and soothing purrs on the way.
Randy
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Christine Burel - 02 Mar 2007 13:07 GMT
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> Baha
EvelynVogtGamble(Divamanque) - 02 Mar 2007 19:14 GMT
> You'd think something like a
> family member's passing would entitle you to a break.
With most employers it DOES! (Although nowadays it may not
mean paid leave, they cannot legally fire you - especially
if it's a parent or grandparent.)
Ann - 02 Mar 2007 21:36 GMT
Purrs on the way.
Ann

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GaDragonfly - 03 Mar 2007 02:15 GMT
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Purrs and gentle headbutts on the way for you and Louie, Baha.
Julie, Hobbes, Lacey, Sam and Barnabus
polonca12000 - 04 Mar 2007 16:02 GMT
> Louie's grandmother passed yesterday afternoon.
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> Baha
You aren't asking too much, Baha.
Lots and lots of purrs for Louie,
Polonca and Soncek