Well, we knew the cancer was back, but were hoping that it was the
Anaplastic Malignant Oliodendroglioma (what I call AMG or MAG
depending on how I write it that day). Doogie told me today that the
biopsy shows borderling GBM. Glioblastoma Metaforme is the worst kind
you can get. The usual life span after this is 3-6 months. Since it
is borderline, it should be longer, but not by much.
I'm not surprised by the diagnoses. I was expecting to get bad news.
I'll have to love him all the more for the time I've got with him.
Damn it. No one should have to go through this.
Rob is feeding himself today. Even with his problems, he still eats
more neatly than I do when I'm healthy. Part of the problem is that
Rob doesn't like to get help when he needs it. Just now, he had a
problem, wet himself, stripped himself down to the bare bones and was
trying to get a new gown and dress himself. Both the nurse and I were
shocked and amused at the same time.
Dr Ewend is out west doing dr things, so will talk to us when he gets
back next week. We can't do much of anything until we get the
siezures stopped. Then it will go on from there. I'm sorry that it
isn't good news group, but at least Rob will be taken care of for the
time he has left.
Pam S.
mlbriggs - 23 Feb 2007 19:04 GMT
> Well, we knew the cancer was back, but were hoping that it was the
> Anaplastic Malignant Oliodendroglioma (what I call AMG or MAG
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>
> Pam S.
Sending heartfelt purrs for those who suffer. MLB
Christina Websell - 23 Feb 2007 19:09 GMT
> Well, we knew the cancer was back, but were hoping that it was the
> Anaplastic Malignant Oliodendroglioma (what I call AMG or MAG
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> isn't good news group, but at least Rob will be taken care of for the
> time he has left.
Pam, I am *so* sorry. I don't know what to say - well, no words are enough
anyway even if I could think of some right now.
Cancer is such an awful illness. You may think you have beaten it,
sometimes for years. It's such a secretive disease. It sneaks around your
body without you being aware of it for a long time.
I send purrs and prayers for strength to cope.
I'm so sad about this.
Tweed
wafflycat - 23 Feb 2007 19:36 GMT
{{{{{{{{{{ Pam and Rob }}}}}}}}}}
Lorraine - 23 Feb 2007 19:56 GMT
>I'm not surprised by the diagnoses. I was expecting to get bad news.
>I'll have to love him all the more for the time I've got with him.
>Damn it. No one should have to go through this.
I am so sorry, Pam. I will keep your family in my thoughts.
Lorraine
Victor Martinez - 23 Feb 2007 19:56 GMT
> I'm not surprised by the diagnoses. I was expecting to get bad news.
> I'll have to love him all the more for the time I've got with him.
> Damn it. No one should have to go through this.
{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Pam}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
I don't know what to say, other than your entire family is in our
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dberry@mitre.org - 23 Feb 2007 20:03 GMT
I am so sorry to hear that the results of the biopsy aren't better.
Purrs
and comforting thoughts continue for you, Rob, and your family. I
pray
for Rob's remaining time to be of good quality.
Debbie
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> Well, we knew the cancer was back, but were hoping that it was the
> Anaplastic Malignant Oliodendroglioma (what I call AMG or MAG
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>
> Pam S.
Kreisleriana - 23 Feb 2007 20:05 GMT
>Well, we knew the cancer was back, but were hoping that it was the
>Anaplastic Malignant Oliodendroglioma (what I call AMG or MAG
[quoted text clipped - 21 lines]
>
>Pam S.
You said it yourself. No one should have to go through this. Oh Pam,
I hardly know what to say to you.
(((((((((((((((Pam and Rob))))))))))))))))))))
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Marina - 23 Feb 2007 20:15 GMT
> Well, we knew the cancer was back, but were hoping that it was the
> Anaplastic Malignant Oliodendroglioma (what I call AMG or MAG
> depending on how I write it that day). Doogie told me today that the
> biopsy shows borderling GBM. Glioblastoma Metaforme is the worst kind
> you can get. The usual life span after this is 3-6 months. Since it
> is borderline, it should be longer, but not by much.
Pam, I can't tell you how sorry I am to read this news. Hugs to you and
Rob and the kids. Oodles of purrs on the way.

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Nan - 23 Feb 2007 20:31 GMT
>Well, we knew the cancer was back, but were hoping that it was the
>Anaplastic Malignant Oliodendroglioma (what I call AMG or MAG
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>
>Pam S.
{{{{{{{{{{Pam}}}}}}}}}}
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Randy - 23 Feb 2007 20:36 GMT
>Well, we knew the cancer was back, but were hoping that it was the
>Anaplastic Malignant Oliodendroglioma (what I call AMG or MAG
>depending on how I write it that day). Doogie told me today that the
>biopsy shows borderling GBM.
{{{{{{{{Pam & Rob}}}}}}}}
Such sad news. You will remain in our thoughts.
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ollie2 - 24 Feb 2007 08:40 GMT
>>Well, we knew the cancer was back, but were hoping that it was the
>>Anaplastic Malignant Oliodendroglioma (what I call AMG or MAG
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>
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Pam, all our love and support to you and Rob. You are in our thoughts.
Hugs,
Bev
Baha - 23 Feb 2007 20:58 GMT
You guys are some of the bravest people I've ever met, and I've never even
really met you.
Boatloads of healing, strengthening and life-enhancing purrs and prayers to
you all...and a special Brandy Candy Kiss. Brandy's kisses have a unique
ability to crack open clouds to let a bit of sunlight through, and bring
peace along with it.
No one should go through it alone, and I hope you don't forget we're all here.
Blessed be,
Baha
>Well, we knew the cancer was back, but were hoping that it was the
>Anaplastic Malignant Oliodendroglioma (what I call AMG or MAG
[quoted text clipped - 21 lines]
>
>Pam S.
Jo Firey - 23 Feb 2007 21:28 GMT
> Well, we knew the cancer was back, but were hoping that it was the
> Anaplastic Malignant Oliodendroglioma (what I call AMG or MAG
> depending on how I write it that day). Doogie told me today that the
> biopsy shows borderling GBM. Glioblastoma Metaforme is the worst kind
> you can get. The usual life span after this is 3-6 months. Since it
> is borderline, it should be longer, but not by much.
There is no way to make this better or easier for you and Rob, or for Mandy
and Mike.
You have all shown amazing courage.
It does sound very much like Rob is still Rob. And I know that is the most
important and precious thing to you. May you have many more days and hours
and moments together.
Jo
Annie Wxill - 23 Feb 2007 21:40 GMT
.... ... I'm sorry that it isn't good news group, but at least Rob will
be taken care of for the
> time he has left.
> Pam S.
Pam, we are so grateful that we were able to meet you both last summer. We
are sending you and your family lots of hugs and purrs of comfort and peace.
Annie & Jim, crew for Rosie & Cinder
Yowie - 23 Feb 2007 21:44 GMT
> Well, we knew the cancer was back, but were hoping that it was the
> Anaplastic Malignant Oliodendroglioma (what I call AMG or MAG
[quoted text clipped - 19 lines]
> isn't good news group, but at least Rob will be taken care of for the
> time he has left.
Please know that we're with you through this for the long haul. Otherwise I
could fill the page with meaningless platitudes and worn cliches, but you
are smarter than that and deserve better.
*Hugs*
Vicky (with complimentary tears included)
Mischief - 23 Feb 2007 21:44 GMT
OMG Pam, I'm so sorry to hear this. you're right no one should ever
have to go through this.
My roommate's father had Hepatitis C and I had to watch him
deteriorate and it was heartvreaking. I can't imagine what you are
going through.
Big hugs from me
Kristi
Adrian A - 23 Feb 2007 21:56 GMT
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> Dr Ewend is out west doing dr things, so will talk to us when he gets
> back next week. We can't do much of anything until we get the
[quoted text clipped - 3 lines]
>
> Pam S.
{{{{{{{{{{{{ Pam }}}}}}}}}}}} I really don't know what to say. Purrs for Rob
to have some good times in the time he has left.

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Irulan - 23 Feb 2007 23:36 GMT
Still purring and praying for everybody in the family.
Lily & her mama

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> Well, we knew the cancer was back, but were hoping that it was the
> Anaplastic Malignant Oliodendroglioma (what I call AMG or MAG
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>
> Pam S.
Joy - 23 Feb 2007 23:55 GMT
Oh, Pam! I'm so sorry!
There are no words that can really help, so a hug will have to do.
((((((((((Pam and Rob))))))))))
In the meantime, purrs and prayers that this is as painless and peaceful as
possible.
Joy
> Well, we knew the cancer was back, but were hoping that it was the
> Anaplastic Malignant Oliodendroglioma (what I call AMG or MAG
[quoted text clipped - 21 lines]
>
> Pam S.
Shirley - 23 Feb 2007 23:56 GMT
{{{{{{{{Pam & Rob}}}}}}}}
Tuffty is sending some of his best tummy rub purrs, he says they're
guaranteed to help get those seizures under control. The rest of the
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badwilson - 24 Feb 2007 00:03 GMT
I'm just so, so, sorry to hear this, what terrible news. Hugs,

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> Well, we knew the cancer was back, but were hoping that it was the
> Anaplastic Malignant Oliodendroglioma (what I call AMG or MAG
[quoted text clipped - 21 lines]
>
> Pam S.
Shiral - 24 Feb 2007 00:09 GMT
> Well, we knew the cancer was back, but were hoping that it was the
> Anaplastic Malignant Oliodendroglioma (what I call AMG or MAG
[quoted text clipped - 21 lines]
>
> Pam S.
I'm so sorry to hear this, Pam. Comforting purrs to you and Rob. What
a rotten break.
Melissa
pmendhall - 24 Feb 2007 01:08 GMT
Pam,
Sorry to hear of the early results for Rob. Please know that we are sending
purrs, doggie drool, good thoughts, etc. your way.
Diane
Rhonda - 24 Feb 2007 06:00 GMT
Pam, what does "borderline" mean in this case? Does that mean they're
not sure, or that it's changing into GBM?
I hope Rob is feeling better and keeps up his stubborn streak. I'm sure
that will help him in the long run.
I also hope he'll be able to choose a different time frame and you have
a lot of time left with him.
Take care,
Rhonda
> Well, we knew the cancer was back, but were hoping that it was the
> Anaplastic Malignant Oliodendroglioma (what I call AMG or MAG
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> I'll have to love him all the more for the time I've got with him.
> Damn it. No one should have to go through this.
Debbie Wilson - 24 Feb 2007 10:18 GMT
> Dr Ewend is out west doing dr things, so will talk to us when he gets
> back next week. We can't do much of anything until we get the
> siezures stopped. Then it will go on from there. I'm sorry that it
> isn't good news group, but at least Rob will be taken care of for the
> time he has left.
I am so sorry, Pam - we are sending you loads of purrs to keep strong
for as long as Rob is with you.
(((((((((((((Pam, Rob and all the family)))))))))))))
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JBHajos - 24 Feb 2007 14:06 GMT
>Well, we knew the cancer was back, but were hoping that it was the
>Anaplastic Malignant Oliodendroglioma (what I call AMG or MAG
>depending on how I write it that day). Doogie told me today that the
>biopsy shows borderling GBM. Glioblastoma Metaforme is the worst kind
>you can get. The usual life span after this is 3-6 months.
I can't find the words to express how sorry we are to hear this. I
wish with all my heart that fate had been kinder to you and Rob. You
are in our thoughts and will be throughout. Bless you all.
Jeanne
SuzQ - 24 Feb 2007 15:11 GMT
Dr Ewend is out west doing dr things, so will talk to us when he gets
back next week. We can't do much of anything until we get the
siezures stopped. Then it will go on from there. I'm sorry that it
isn't good news group, but at least Rob will be taken care of for the
time he has left.
Pam S.
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Pam, I'm so sorry, words are inadequate. Purrs and hugs continue.
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Christine Burel - 24 Feb 2007 16:13 GMT
((((((Pam, Rob, and family)))) -- you are all in our thoughts and purrayers.
Christine
> Well, we knew the cancer was back, but were hoping that it was the
> Anaplastic Malignant Oliodendroglioma (what I call AMG or MAG
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>
> Pam S.
Stormmee - 24 Feb 2007 22:39 GMT
I am so sorry you have to go through all of this, but I am sure rob feels
blessed to have a partner such as you, Le still praying
> Well, we knew the cancer was back, but were hoping that it was the
> Anaplastic Malignant Oliodendroglioma (what I call AMG or MAG
[quoted text clipped - 21 lines]
>
> Pam S.
Lisakatt - 25 Feb 2007 00:14 GMT
Sam - 25 Feb 2007 02:04 GMT
> Well, we knew the cancer was back, but were hoping that it was the
> Anaplastic Malignant Oliodendroglioma (what I call AMG or MAG
[quoted text clipped - 21 lines]
>
> Pam S.
Damn! Neither of you deserve this. Your family is in our thoughts and
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Helen Miles - 25 Feb 2007 13:56 GMT
> Well, we knew the cancer was back, but were hoping that it was the
> Anaplastic Malignant Oliodendroglioma (what I call AMG or MAG
> depending on how I write it that day). Doogie told me today that the
> biopsy shows borderling GBM. Glioblastoma Metaforme is the worst kind
> you can get. The usual life span after this is 3-6 months. Since it
> is borderline, it should be longer, but not by much./////
I don't know what to say Pam, apart from {{{{{HUGS}}}}} and purrs and
prayers for you, Rob and the entire family. You know where I am.
Helen M
Susan M - 25 Feb 2007 21:53 GMT
> Well, we knew the cancer was back, but were hoping that it was the
> Anaplastic Malignant Oliodendroglioma (what I call AMG or MAG
> depending on how I write it that day). Doogie told me today that the
> biopsy shows borderling GBM. Glioblastoma Metaforme is the worst kind
> you can get. The usual life span after this is 3-6 months. Since it
> is borderline, it should be longer, but not by much.
{{{{Pam and family}}}} I am so sorry to hear this. Rob is very lucky to
have such a loving wife and family and I am sending you all strength and my
very best thoughts.
Susan M
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Lesley - 26 Feb 2007 09:32 GMT
>Well, we knew the cancer was back, but were hoping that it was the
>Anaplastic Malignant Oliodendroglioma (what I call AMG or MAG
>depending on how I write it that day). Doogie told me today that the
>biopsy shows borderling GBM. Glioblastoma Metaforme is the worst kind
>you can get. The usual life span after this is 3-6 months. Since it
>is borderline, it should be longer, but not by much.
Pam
I don't have anything to say I'm really lost for words all I can tell you is
that you and Rob and the family are in my thoughts and prayers
Lesley
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Ginger-lyn - 02 Mar 2007 19:43 GMT
> Well, we knew the cancer was back, but were hoping that it was the
> Anaplastic Malignant Oliodendroglioma (what I call AMG or MAG
[quoted text clipped - 21 lines]
>
> Pam S.
Oh, {{{{{Pam}}}}}. I am so sorry to hear this. My heart goes out to
you and Rob, and I hope there will be as much joy and love as possible
for you both, whatever time you may have.
Blessings,
Ginger-lyn