> Is it really that bad raising a baby? Mum's and dad's out there, what
> do you say. My own parent's didn't think it was that bad, but they
> always add "things are different now" or "but you kids were good".
It isn't terrible to raise a baby but it is very time intensive. After
spending so much time in babyhood and toddlerhood with my other two and
coming out the other side, we have a different lifestyle now. They sleep
through the night, can ski and hike, go to restaurants and behave
beautifully, walk on their own, cut their food, get dressed, wash their
hair, no longer nap, go to school full time, read, write, and all kinds of
things on their own. We have fabulous discussions about the meaning of life
and the new things they've learned in school and I thoroughly enjoy having
my older kids. When you have made it through to this time, it seems harder
to go back to feeding a child all through the night, night wakings, big
limits on outside activities, limited restaurant outings, they can't tell
you what's wrong, less freedom to pursue personal pursuits and personal
quiet time, and I need lots of quiet time. That's all. It's going back
there having made it through once that's tough ... especially at my age!
> Susan at least you will have extra hands to help you out, seeing as
> your other kids are older. Or at least that is the theory. Sending you
> purrs that your baby will be snuggled in your arms soon.
Thank you! The kids are excited and the grandparents are excited (and close
by willing to help) so I know it will be okay. we just need to get it done!
Susan M
Otis and Chester