We're having a rough time (again) and could really use some purrs to help us
out of a major hole. I don't want to get into detail, but right now is not
a good time for us.
One bright note, however, some one at the VA has admitted that Rob has brain
cancer and wants a copy of his treatment plan. In the bad news department,
the neurologist and speech (and memory) expert think that Rob is showing the
signs of early dementia.
Pam S. scared and stressed beyond belief
Tish - 18 Dec 2006 06:53 GMT
Our thoughts are with you, Rob and the all the Shirks - furry, bare
and adopted-into-the-clan.
Tish
>We're having a rough time (again) and could really use some purrs to help us
>out of a major hole. I don't want to get into detail, but right now is not
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>Pam S. scared and stressed beyond belief
Takayuki - 18 Dec 2006 07:30 GMT
>We're having a rough time (again) and could really use some purrs to help us
>out of a major hole. I don't want to get into detail, but right now is not
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>
>Pam S. scared and stressed beyond belief
Purrs for you, and for Rob. Poor Rob!
Joy - 18 Dec 2006 08:56 GMT
> We're having a rough time (again) and could really use some purrs to help
> us out of a major hole. I don't want to get into detail, but right now is
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> Pam S. scared and stressed beyond belief
Purrs, prayers and hugs for both of you!
Joy
Dewi - 18 Dec 2006 09:06 GMT
Purrs and prayers being sent!
Dewi
> We're having a rough time (again) and could really use some purrs to help us
> out of a major hole. I don't want to get into detail, but right now is not
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> Pam S. scared and stressed beyond belief
Marina - 18 Dec 2006 09:49 GMT
> One bright note, however, some one at the VA has admitted that Rob has brain
> cancer and wants a copy of his treatment plan.
I don't know what the VA is, but I hope this means you will get lots of
support for Rob.
In the bad news department,
> the neurologist and speech (and memory) expert think that Rob is showing the
> signs of early dementia.
>
> Pam S. scared and stressed beyond belief
I'm so sorry. Lots of purrs on the way and hopes that the experts are
wrong - it's been known to happen. And here is a bunch of purrs just for
you. {{{{{Pam}}}}} Hang in there!

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John F. Eldredge - 19 Dec 2006 01:06 GMT
>> One bright note, however, some one at the VA has admitted that Rob has brain
>> cancer and wants a copy of his treatment plan.
>
>I don't know what the VA is, but I hope this means you will get lots of
>support for Rob.
The VA is the Veterans Administration, a branch of the US government
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tanada - 19 Dec 2006 01:27 GMT
>> One bright note, however, some one at the VA has admitted that Rob has
>> brain cancer and wants a copy of his treatment plan.
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> wrong - it's been known to happen. And here is a bunch of purrs just for
> you. {{{{{Pam}}}}} Hang in there!
I'm afraid that they're right about Rob's mental state. He's been throwing
more tantrums, acting childish, and showing all the other signs of dementia
that they told me about. We can really use the purrs though, it's one of
those everything has to fall just right for us to just get by events.
Pam S. tired, I haven't slept since 6:30 pm yesterday
Takayuki - 19 Dec 2006 02:25 GMT
>I'm afraid that they're right about Rob's mental state. He's been throwing
>more tantrums, acting childish, and showing all the other signs of dementia
>that they told me about. We can really use the purrs though, it's one of
>those everything has to fall just right for us to just get by events.
>
>Pam S. tired, I haven't slept since 6:30 pm yesterday
That's so hard. Someone with a loved one in a similar situation once
told me that as it progresses, it gets a little easier to deal with
because they calm down as they become more accustomed and accepting of
their mental state. I hope that came out encouraging, and not
discouraging.
badwilson - 18 Dec 2006 10:18 GMT
Many, many purrs for you and your whole family.

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> We're having a rough time (again) and could really use some purrs to
> help us out of a major hole. I don't want to get into detail, but
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> Pam S. scared and stressed beyond belief
Lisakatt - 18 Dec 2006 12:26 GMT
tanada wrote:
> We're having a rough time (again) and could really use some purrs to
> help us out of a major hole. I don't want to get into detail, but
> right now is not a good time for us.
Purrs, prayers and hugs for you.
Elisabet
Adrian A - 18 Dec 2006 10:42 GMT
> We're having a rough time (again) and could really use some purrs to
> help us out of a major hole. I don't want to get into detail, but
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> Pam S. scared and stressed beyond belief
{{{{{{{{{{{{ Pam }}}}}}}}}}}} Lots of purrs on the way.

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wafflycat - 18 Dec 2006 10:54 GMT
Purrs, prayers, good vibes a-plenty heading your way.
Victor Martinez - 18 Dec 2006 12:05 GMT
> Pam S. scared and stressed beyond belief
We're sending you all the purrs in the world.

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SuzQ - 18 Dec 2006 12:07 GMT
Oh dear! Purrs that its not dementia. Could it be a reaction to a
medication? My Dad recently had reaction to a collestrol drug. They took
him off it and he's back to being active.
Suz&Spicey
tanada - 19 Dec 2006 01:31 GMT
> Oh dear! Purrs that its not dementia. Could it be a reaction to a
> medication? My Dad recently had reaction to a collestrol drug. They took
> him off it and he's back to being active.
> Suz&Spicey
The neurologist wants to change him to a different seizure drug as his
behavior is not very nice at times, and the new drug would help him with the
behavior problems as well as his medical ones.
Pam S.
polonca12000 - 22 Dec 2006 20:09 GMT
>>Oh dear! Purrs that its not dementia. Could it be a reaction to a
>>medication? My Dad recently had reaction to a collestrol drug. They took
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> Pam S.
We are sending lots of purrs and best wishes for the new drug to work
really well,
Polonca and Soncek
Stormmee - 18 Dec 2006 12:41 GMT
purrs coming immediately, Lee
> We're having a rough time (again) and could really use some purrs to help us
> out of a major hole. I don't want to get into detail, but right now is not
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> Pam S. scared and stressed beyond belief
JBHajos - 18 Dec 2006 12:56 GMT
>We're having a rough time (again) and could really use some purrs to help us
>out of a major hole. I don't want to get into detail, but right now is not
>a good time for us.
Only have Hobo left to purr but he's pretty good at it and is
sending all he can muster. And I send kindest thoughts and the very
best good wishes. Hugs.
Jeanne
kilikini - 18 Dec 2006 13:02 GMT
> We're having a rough time (again) and could really use some purrs to help us
> out of a major hole. I don't want to get into detail, but right now is not
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> Pam S. scared and stressed beyond belief
Oh, sweetie! I'm so terribly sorry. My thoughts, purrs, prayers, best
wishes, whatever you need are there. I'm sending you virtual hugs.
{{{{{{{{{{ PAM!!!!!!!! }}}}}}}}}}
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Randy - 18 Dec 2006 13:04 GMT
>We're having a rough time (again) and could really use some purrs to help us
>out of a major hole. I don't want to get into detail, but right now is not
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>Pam S. scared and stressed beyond belief
Major purrs on the way.
Randy
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CatNipped - 18 Dec 2006 13:59 GMT
> We're having a rough time (again) and could really use some purrs to help
> us out of a major hole. I don't want to get into detail, but right now is
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> Pam S. scared and stressed beyond belief
Mega purrs headed your way Pam!
Hugs,
CatNipped
Irulan - 18 Dec 2006 15:40 GMT
Purrs and prayers for you and your family and especially for Rob.
God bless you all.
Lily & her mama

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> We're having a rough time (again) and could really use some purrs to help
> us out of a major hole. I don't want to get into detail, but right now is
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> Pam S. scared and stressed beyond belief
Nan - 18 Dec 2006 16:48 GMT
>We're having a rough time (again) and could really use some purrs to help us
>out of a major hole. I don't want to get into detail, but right now is not
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>Pam S. scared and stressed beyond belief
Mega purrs, hugs, and prayers are on the way.

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Jo Firey - 18 Dec 2006 16:55 GMT
Lots of purrs on the way from (cold) sunny California.
Jo
> We're having a rough time (again) and could really use some purrs to help
> us out of a major hole. I don't want to get into detail, but right now is
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> Pam S. scared and stressed beyond belief
dberry@mitre.org - 18 Dec 2006 19:21 GMT
Purrs and positive thoughts coming from myself and
my kitties. I hope the VA comes through for you and that
Rob improves.
Debbie
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> We're having a rough time (again) and could really use some purrs to help us
> out of a major hole. I don't want to get into detail, but right now is not
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>
> Pam S. scared and stressed beyond belief
Annie Wxill - 18 Dec 2006 20:31 GMT
> We're having a rough time (again) and could really use some purrs to help
> us
...> Pam S. scared and stressed beyond belief
Pam,
My heart goes out to you. You and Rob are two of the bravest people I know.
You might do some research on supplements that might help Rob. Life
Extension Foundation would be a good place to start. It uses worldwide
studies to identify nutritional supplements that will augment traditional
medicine,
Annie, happy that Rob will have a treatment plan and hoping for the best
Matthew - 18 Dec 2006 20:45 GMT
Major purrs heading for you from the pack
You two will be in my prayers also sending some whispers in the eras of
encouragement and a strong sense of it will be alright
Matthew and the pack which purring as loud as they can
> We're having a rough time (again) and could really use some purrs to help
> us out of a major hole. I don't want to get into detail, but right now is
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> Pam S. scared and stressed beyond belief
Ann - 18 Dec 2006 21:16 GMT
Purrs on the way.
Ann

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> Pam S. scared and stressed beyond belief
Yowie - 18 Dec 2006 21:35 GMT
> We're having a rough time (again) and could really use some purrs to help
> us out of a major hole. I don't want to get into detail, but right now is
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>
> Pam S. scared and stressed beyond belief
Pam, you know you'll always get our purrs, thoughts, hugs & prayers. Hang in
there, and don't let the b*st*rds get you down.
You also know that my inbox is always open if you need to vent, and that, if
you need to talk to someone in the long dark hours of night, that I'm here
and you won't be waking me up (and I"ll call you back so you don't have to
pay for the call)
Yowie xxx
meeee - 18 Dec 2006 23:16 GMT
(((((Pam)))) We're purring and thinking of you at this time.
> We're having a rough time (again) and could really use some purrs to help
> us out of a major hole. I don't want to get into detail, but right now is
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> Pam S. scared and stressed beyond belief
Christina Websell - 18 Dec 2006 23:55 GMT
> We're having a rough time (again) and could really use some purrs to help
> us out of a major hole. I don't want to get into detail, but right now is
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> department, the neurologist and speech (and memory) expert think that Rob
> is showing the signs of early dementia.
Purrs coming over the pond.
Try not to worry too much. He can't get away with a brain tumour without
some bad symptoms showing up at some point.
[[[hugs that you can cope]]]
Tweed
CATherine - 19 Dec 2006 01:42 GMT
>We're having a rough time (again) and could really use some purrs to help us
>out of a major hole. I don't want to get into detail, but right now is not
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>Pam S. scared and stressed beyond belief
Power purrs are being sent your way. Hugs and prayers,
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Ginger-lyn - 19 Dec 2006 02:22 GMT
> We're having a rough time (again) and could really use some purrs to help us
> out of a major hole. I don't want to get into detail, but right now is not
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>
> Pam S. scared and stressed beyond belief
Oh, {{{{{{Pam}}}}}}}. I am so sorry. Purrs that the good stuff happens
and the bad is not true.
Ginger-lyn
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Karen - 19 Dec 2006 05:13 GMT
> We're having a rough time (again) and could really use some purrs to
> help us out of a major hole. I don't want to get into detail, but
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> Pam S. scared and stressed beyond belief
Purrs on the way.
mlbriggs - 19 Dec 2006 17:22 GMT
> We're having a rough time (again) and could really use some purrs to help us
> out of a major hole. I don't want to get into detail, but right now is not
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>
> Pam S. scared and stressed beyond belief
Sending heartfelt purrs that your troubles will go away. MLB
Jo Firey - 19 Dec 2006 18:58 GMT
> We're having a rough time (again) and could really use some purrs to help
> us out of a major hole. I don't want to get into detail, but right now is
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> department, the neurologist and speech (and memory) expert think that Rob
> is showing the signs of early dementia.
I'm glad the VA is starting to wake up. Sorry the mind expert see dementia
starting. The thing is, since no two cases like Rob's can ever be exactly
alike, no one can predict what course it might take.
My Dad developed a degree of dementia with his cancer as some of the cells
invaded his brain. But it never got really bad. My parents moved into an
independent living facility (both were close to 80) and everyone thought it
was so loving that they walked around holding hands. My sister and I knew
that it was as much to keep Daddy from wandering off as it was a sign of
affection.
And even with some possible dementia, Rob is still dealing with the loss of
who he was as well as I'd guess a lot of medication. I know it doesn't make
the outbursts any easier to take. But I hope it makes it easier not to take
them personally.
With both my parents the anger went away as they got worse. So maybe to a
degree anger and temper are a good sign. Not that they aren't still very
stressful.
Purrs, love, and all the hope we can muster on the way.
Jo
Christine Burel - 22 Dec 2006 15:49 GMT
Oh, {{{Pam}}}! hugs to you and the kids and Rob. I'm just now reading the
group since awhile and I'm so sorry to see this post. Much love from us.
Christine and family
> We're having a rough time (again) and could really use some purrs to help us
> out of a major hole. I don't want to get into detail, but right now is not
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>
> Pam S. scared and stressed beyond belief
polonca12000 - 22 Dec 2006 20:08 GMT
> We're having a rough time (again) and could really use some purrs to help us
> out of a major hole. I don't want to get into detail, but right now is not
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>
> Pam S. scared and stressed beyond belief
We are sending the strongest of purrs and loads of best wishes for you
and your family,
Polonca and Soncek
Sam - 05 Jan 2007 03:53 GMT
> We're having a rough time (again) and could really use some purrs to help us
> out of a major hole. I don't want to get into detail, but right now is not
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>
> Pam S. scared and stressed beyond belief
Terribly late in seeing this, but purrs on the way from here.

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