Probably.  Although my mother made me feel guilty most of the time too.

I think a lot of mothers do this without realising it.  I remember I had a
mail from a friend about how her mother still treated her like a child.  She
was furious about it.
I printed it out and showed it to my mother, she said "Are you saying that
this is how I treat you?
I said "Yes."
She was very upset.
Now she is gone I would welcome her interfering in my life again. I've
started to dream about her a lot.
We talked a lot about how it would be okay for her to return to me after
death to prove an afterlife.  I said "OMG, please don't come back in a way
that will frighten me" and she promised she wouldn't.
I did not dream about her for more than three years, but now it's come back

Tweed
now you think I'm crazy, I'm not.