My sister who has been going through the nightmare with her 7 year old
daughter's rape got a kitten!!!!! I didn't even have to suggest it.
The universe intervened for me. Someone she knew found a very young
kitten, probably 5-6 weeks old in a parking lot at a shopping store and
foisted it upon her. And who can refuse something that cute. They also
did it at a perfect time - when she was falling apart and had no
resistance to make logical decisions - like "I can barely take care of
myself and my kids, the last thing I need is another thing to take care
of". I'm not generally a big fan of my sister falling apart, but if it
gets her something I think she needs, maybe there are reasons for it.
From what she describes, I'm guessing the little girl is going to be
long haired because they have named her Q-tip because all the fur on her
body just sticks out from her body a long ways. She is white with black
spots and the favorite thing she does right now is that sideways jump
that kittens do with their back arched - all the way across the room
until she hits a wall and falls over. It sounds hysterical.
The landlord is just sick over what happened to my neice - literally -
she has lost 20 pounds over it - and has told my sister that if she gets
her the $200 deposit fine, if not, whatever. More importantly, the
landlord checked the sex offenders registry sooner than she would have
and found out she had a registered sex offender - not the man who got my
neice - living in one of her units and she evicted him. You can't live
in the kind of housing she has if you are convicted of a felony unless
you tell it on your application and then they can deny you depending on
what you did. Her landlord is a good woman.
Bridget
Kreisleriana - 24 Oct 2004 16:45 GMT
>My sister who has been going through the nightmare with her 7 year old
>daughter's rape got a kitten!!!!! I didn't even have to suggest it.
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>of". I'm not generally a big fan of my sister falling apart, but if it
>gets her something I think she needs, maybe there are reasons for it.
You know, sometimes something like that happens just in time to
*prevent* someone from falling apart. Falling in love with a cute
little critter has been known to get people to pull themselves
together enough to care for the little mite-- and gain some strength
and confidence from that. I've seen it happen.
> From what she describes, I'm guessing the little girl is going to be
>long haired because they have named her Q-tip because all the fur on her
>body just sticks out from her body a long ways. She is white with black
>spots and the favorite thing she does right now is that sideways jump
>that kittens do with their back arched - all the way across the room
>until she hits a wall and falls over. It sounds hysterical.
Oh God, who doesn't love that? She's a little Maori warrior (or a
Kiwi rugby player!) (http://folksong.org.nz/ka_mate/#66)
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Marina - 24 Oct 2004 17:38 GMT
> My sister who has been going through the nightmare with her 7 year old
> daughter's rape got a kitten!!!!!
Yay! Congrats to the family and to the kitten! She might be just what
they need.
> She is white with black
> spots and the favorite thing she does right now is that sideways jump
> that kittens do with their back arched - all the way across the room
> until she hits a wall and falls over. It sounds hysterical.
ROFL! KF!

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Enfilade - 25 Oct 2004 00:13 GMT
I hope your sister and niece can come to terms with what happened and
then move on with their lives, with a cute little bitty reinforcing
that there is good in the world as well as evil.
I struggled many years with a world that I believed was impersonal at
best and actively against me at worst....but these days it's hard to
think that way when every day four little lives that depend on me take
time to shower me with kitty luv.
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Adrian - 24 Oct 2004 19:20 GMT
> My sister who has been going through the nightmare with her 7 year old
> daughter's rape got a kitten!!!!!
<SNIP>
Purrs that the kitten helps your sister and your niece to heal and is
loved for many years to come.

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polonca12000 - 24 Oct 2004 22:41 GMT
That's wonderful!
Best wishes,

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> My sister who has been going through the nightmare with her 7 year old
> daughter's rape got a kitten!!!!! I didn't even have to suggest it.
> The universe intervened for me. <snip
Yoj - 24 Oct 2004 23:05 GMT
> My sister who has been going through the nightmare with her 7 year old
> daughter's rape got a kitten!!!!! I didn't even have to suggest it.
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>
> Bridget
That's good news about the landlord and the eviction. It's even better
news about the kitten. I think that will be great therapy for both your
niece and her daughter.
Joy
CATherine - 25 Oct 2004 13:24 GMT
>That's good news about the landlord and the eviction. It's even better
>news about the kitten. I think that will be great therapy for both your
>niece and her daughter.
>
>Joy
I repeat what Joy said. And the sideways antics of the kitten will be
the best therapy of all--love and laughter. Kudos to the landlady.
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CATherine
Steve Touchstone - 25 Oct 2004 04:58 GMT
Sending welcoming purrs to Qtip.

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LOL - 25 Oct 2004 08:40 GMT
> My sister who has been going through the nightmare with her 7 year old
> daughter's rape got a kitten!!!!! I didn't even have to suggest it.
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>
> Bridget
It's wonderful news about the kitten - we are still sending healing
purrs, but now they'll be getting some live and in person!
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Krista
Bridget - 25 Oct 2004 10:50 GMT
>>My sister who has been going through the nightmare with her 7 year old
>>daughter's rape got a kitten!!!!! I didn't even have to suggest it.
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> ------
> Krista
I hadn't thought about it in those terms. I like the way you think. My
sister is getting healing purrs up close and in person. That makes me
feel warm and fuzzy. Oh, wait, that is just those three things that are
trying to lay on my lap while I type.
Thanks for that thought Krista.
Bridget
Charleen Welton - 31 Oct 2004 17:51 GMT
Kitty came just in time as cats and kittys often do. May your sister and
niece love and cherise the kitty as we all know that the sweet kitten will
love and cherise them. What is the little furry ones name?
Charleen
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Bridget - 06 Nov 2004 18:05 GMT
> Kitty came just in time as cats and kittys often do. May your sister and
> niece love and cherise the kitty as we all know that the sweet kitten will
> love and cherise them. What is the little furry ones name?
The name depends on who you ask. If you ask my 17 year old neice, the
cats name is Gracie. If you ask my sister, the cats name is Q-tip. I
don't know what my 7 year old neice thinks. She, like most 7 year olds,
does not deign to talk to me on the phone routinely.
It is anyone's guess as to who's version will win out.
Bridget
Tanada - 31 Oct 2004 22:48 GMT
> My sister who has been going through the nightmare with her 7 year old
> daughter's rape got a kitten!!!!! I didn't even have to suggest it. The
[quoted text clipped - 6 lines]
> generally a big fan of my sister falling apart, but if it gets her
> something I think she needs, maybe there are reasons for it.
I think your sister and niece both need a kitty to love them. Way to go
friend who put them on to the kitten, and way to go kitty!
Unconditional love, homegrown purrs, and lots of healing on the way.
Fantastic!
Love to all of you,
Pam, Rob, and the Fayetteville Seven, + Smokey or whatever his name is,
and Eshiky the D-thing