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Ping Kili regarding your update (webpage)
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tanada - 06 Nov 2006 04:06 GMT > Hi Pam, > Please ask Kili if it's okay with her if I post her update (webpage) > Thanks > J Please let us know, either here or on the cancer support group.
Pam S. hoping that all is going well
kilikini - 06 Nov 2006 11:51 GMT > > Hi Pam, > > Please ask Kili if it's okay with her if I post her update (webpage) [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > > Pam S. hoping that all is going well I'm still waiting to get a phone call from the Mayo Clinic to find out when my surgery date is. I'm expecting a call today since I didn't get one last week.
My nerves are already on edge in expectation. Sigh.
If anyone wants the most current update (which is a week old, but again, I haven't heard anything) they can check out the website: http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/kilikini
kili
Rhonda - 07 Nov 2006 05:57 GMT > My nerves are already on edge in expectation. Sigh. > > If anyone wants the most current update (which is a week old, but again, I > haven't heard anything) they can check out the website: > http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/kilikini Hope you get a call soon, Kili. I can understand how your nerves would be on edge waiting every day for a call.
I loved your website, by the way. You and your husband are such a cute couple. You look strong and healthy, like you can really fight this thing.
Thanks for sending the link,
Rhonda
kilikini - 07 Nov 2006 11:58 GMT > > My nerves are already on edge in expectation. Sigh. > > [quoted text clipped - 11 lines] > > Rhonda Thanks, Rhonda. I'm on pins and needles. I wish they would just schedule the surgery already so I can be on the way instead of waiting, but, then again, I don't want to go. Know what I mean?
kili -- http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/kilikini
polonca12000 - 07 Nov 2006 21:02 GMT >>>My nerves are already on edge in expectation. Sigh. >>> [quoted text clipped - 22 lines] > -- > http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/kilikini I can understand how you feel and I wish there was more I could do. We are purring and sending best wishes for the surgery to go really well. Lots and lots of hugs, Polonca and Soncek
Rhonda - 08 Nov 2006 02:12 GMT >>>My nerves are already on edge in expectation. Sigh. >>> [quoted text clipped - 22 lines] > -- > http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/kilikini Yep, I know what you mean. We had to wait for my sig. other's surgery and thinking about it for that long was horrible. He only had to wait five days and that seemed like an eternity when your mind is working all of the time...
You have a good guy by your side and I know he will help you through the tough spots.
Wish I could come and feed your cats for you! :)
Rhonda
Christina Websell - 08 Nov 2006 19:03 GMT >> > My nerves are already on edge in expectation. Sigh. >> > [quoted text clipped - 18 lines] > the surgery already so I can be on the way instead of waiting, but, then > again, I don't want to go. Know what I mean? I know *exactly* what you mean. I have just got my surgery date and I hope you get yours soon. If you feel like me, you know it HAS to be done, but yet you know how unpleasant (understatement) it will be and don't want to have to go through it. It helped me last year to keep saying to myself after my op "I might have died without this surgery and I will feel a lot better in 3 months.." Which I did. Then I said to myself "I will feel even better in 6 months." I did too, and then a year on a bit more energy and so on. I am not still quite right even now, so it's unfortunate that I came unzipped in two places and have to be repaired. This will knock me back in my recovery from the ov ca op, but hey, I'm hoping when it's done it will be my last operation ever.
Try and keep as positive as you can. You are at least, at last, getting the treatment you need now however difficult and painful it might be, it's better than the alternative - that's what I tried to think, anyway, when it was me :-) Keep brave and don't despair. You will come through it.
Tweed
tanada - 10 Nov 2006 03:14 GMT >> > Hi Pam, >> > Please ask Kili if it's okay with her if I post her update (webpage) [quoted text clipped - 16 lines] > haven't heard anything) they can check out the website: > http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/kilikini I copied this and posted it on the cancer group. I hope that you get your date soon, and have asked my owners to purr for you to get in there and to be ok.
Pam S.
kilikini - 10 Nov 2006 09:29 GMT >>>> Hi Pam, >>>> Please ask Kili if it's okay with her if I post her update [quoted text clipped - 22 lines] > > Pam S. Thanks, Pam. I was told Tuesday to expect a call by the end of the week. Today's the end of the week!
kili -- http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/kilikini
tension_on_the_wire - 10 Nov 2006 17:32 GMT > Thanks, Pam. I was told Tuesday to expect a call by the end of the week. > Today's the end of the week! Hi kili, I'm just now catching onto this thread, I was away for awhile. I'm glad to hear that you got seen and got your diagnosis sorted out. And I am relieved that you are found out *not* to have a metastatic tumour. I know it's very scary, the diagnosis as it is, but it seems that the longterm outlook could have been much much worse than it is. Prayers and purrs that your surgery goes well, no mechanical troubles with the ribs. I'm more than available (unless I'm sick myself, bleargh) to answer any questions you might have, but since you are hooked up with the Mayo Clinic now, you may already have all the resources you need.
What, may I ask, is the current situation with your *other* diagnosis? You have Familial Hemochromatosis? Is this a new diagnosis also, or have you been treated for it for awhile? Chelation therapy (desferoxamine)? Do they feel there will be any impact on your postop status? Sorry I have been slow to pick up on this, but I was out of touch for a few weeks there, likely while this was all going on for you.
--tension
kilikini - 10 Nov 2006 17:59 GMT >> Thanks, Pam. I was told Tuesday to expect a call by the end of the >> week. Today's the end of the week! [quoted text clipped - 26 lines] > > --tension They just found out about the hemochromatosis from the blood tests they took at the clinic, so this is new. They can't/won't treat this until after I'm healed from the surgery, so, for now they put me on a strict iron-free diet. (I have yet to hear from a dietician.) I still don't have a surgery date and am still awaiting a phone call. Apprently, they dropped the ball; I was supposed to have surgery yesterday, but I wasn't aware of it! They never called to tell me. They apologized and said it was their fault, they would reschedule. So, I'm waiting.
I used to think Mayo Clinic was the bomb, however, I'm changing my thoughts. They've screwed up appointments for me, added schedules, added *days* without telling me and now added a surgery without telling me. We live so far away (5 hours). To add another day of tests means we have to get a hotel room, my husband has to take another day off of work.......... why can't they work out this in advance with you? It's like once they have you, they HAVE you and you're at their mercy.
Granted, the doctors are wonderful, they're all specialists, but I think you should be notified when tests or surgery are scheduled ahead of time, for gosh sakes.
My rant for the day.
kili -- http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/kilikini
polonca12000 - 10 Nov 2006 19:49 GMT > They just found out about the hemochromatosis from the blood tests they took > at the clinic, so this is new. They can't/won't treat this until after I'm [quoted text clipped - 22 lines] > -- > http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/kilikini Lots and lots of purrs, best wishes and very gentle hugs, Polonca and Soncek
Marina - 11 Nov 2006 04:42 GMT > Granted, the doctors are wonderful, they're all specialists, but I think you > should be notified when tests or surgery are scheduled ahead of time, for > gosh sakes. Sounds like they are lacking some good administrative staff. They may be excellent doctors, but may not be so skilled administrators. I know, I work with scientists. ;o)
Anyway, purrs ongoing, Kili. Hang in there!
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tension_on_the_wire - 11 Nov 2006 05:03 GMT > They just found out about the hemochromatosis from the blood tests they took > at the clinic, so this is new. They can't/won't treat this until after I'm [quoted text clipped - 18 lines] > > My rant for the day. That is unusual for the Mayo Clinic proper, that's for sure. Maybe what you are experiencing is a fluke in the satellite facility. Have you mentioned this to your main doctor there? They have a certain pride in their reputation there, and they (the staff) will likely be seriously abashed if they get taken to task by their own doctor. On the other hand, if it's the doctor who is making decisions and not properly informing the correct staff, you might need to ask to speak to someone in their office management about having one person assigned to you as some form of primary coordinator. Then there would be one person whose responsibility is to pull all that stuff together for you, and whom you could call if anything like this keeps happening. If different departments are involved, it might be a case of too many cooks in the kitchen.
They certainly should be understanding of such a request when you remind them that a five hour drive and a husband taking leave from work is involved.
Also consider the possibility that once you are past the postop stage, if you are given the green light for a clean bill, you might be able to find a closer university hospital where you can seek a good hematology group capable of handling the hemochromatosis diagnosis. If you don't need any type of medical or hormone therapy postop, then you should be like any other patient when it comes to dealing with the iron issues. And the nutritional consults, etc. (I'm sure they have at least told you to avoid red meat and liver, by now haven't they?) Also, if they haven't told you, don't be too concerned if they mention the possibility of needing transfusions during or immediately after surgery. Normally they aren't good in hemochromatosis, but if they are necessary for recovery from actual blood loss, then it's a case of iron-out/iron-in and your actual iron balance won't be too badly disturbed.
E-mail me directly if you have any other questions, my addy is unmunged. If you let me know where you are, I'll see if I know any good groups in the area treating hemochromatosis.
--tension
kilikini - 11 Nov 2006 11:42 GMT > E-mail me directly if you have any other > questions, my addy is unmunged. If you [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > > --tension I've got your e-mail in my address book, thanks for giving me permission for that. I live in an area filled with clinics that will be able to help me with the hemochromatosis; I just didn't know I had it before!
Thanks, tension!
kili
-- http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/kilikini
Annie Wxill - 11 Nov 2006 17:48 GMT snip
Kili, We continue to send purrs and prayers your way.
We discovered when Jim needed back surgery that the doctors may be great, but the staff and support people can be awful. We had a PA in one office lose his MRI. And then, there is the health insurance people who can't seem to get their act together.
You have to keep on them all the time. Sometimes, it feels like you have to do everyone else's job for them. Be polite but firm. We finally found a competent group and an excellent surgeon and terrific hospital all in the same place.
I hope this will all come together for you, and fast. Enough is enough.
Annie, whose true calling is to be an advocate
kilikini - 11 Nov 2006 23:41 GMT > snip > [quoted text clipped - 15 lines] > > Annie, whose true calling is to be an advocate Thank you, Annie. I'll keep your advice in mind and I'll heed it.
kili -- http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/kilikini
Rhonda - 11 Nov 2006 07:14 GMT Oh boy, I would be so upset. You don't need surprises like this when you're sick and have been waiting by the phone for 2 weeks. I'm so sorry that happened.
I hope they can get you in quickly next week. Hope it's behind you soon!
Rhonda
> Apprently, they dropped the ball; I was > supposed to have surgery yesterday, but I wasn't aware of it! They never > called to tell me. They apologized and said it was their fault, they would > reschedule. So, I'm waiting. -L. - 11 Nov 2006 08:59 GMT > They just found out about the hemochromatosis from the blood tests they took > at the clinic, so this is new. They can't/won't treat this until after I'm [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > called to tell me. They apologized and said it was their fault, they would > reschedule. So, I'm waiting. Seriously, become the squeaky wheel. Believe me, sometimes you have to, and this is serious stuff!
> I used to think Mayo Clinic was the bomb, however, I'm changing my thoughts. > They've screwed up appointments for me, added schedules, added *days* [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > can't they work out this in advance with you? It's like once they have you, > they HAVE you and you're at their mercy. FWIW, John Hopkins is the same way. I was rescheduled more than once (and we had plane tix!) I had to track down my results and had to call 3 times before they'd release them to me. Ridiculous!
> Granted, the doctors are wonderful, they're all specialists, but I think you > should be notified when tests or surgery are scheduled ahead of time, for [quoted text clipped - 5 lines] > -- > http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/kilikini Hope all goes well with your surgery, Kili. Please let us know in RFC when it is scheduled. I don't read here often.
-L.
tension_on_the_wire - 11 Nov 2006 19:12 GMT > Hope all goes well with your surgery, Kili. Please let us know in RFC > when it is scheduled. I don't read here often. What's RFC, -L.?
--tension
kilikini - 11 Nov 2006 23:42 GMT >> Hope all goes well with your surgery, Kili. Please let us know in >> RFC when it is scheduled. I don't read here often. > > What's RFC, -L.? > > --tension Rec.food.cooking. We're buddies there. Same as JillM and plenty others!
kili -- http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/kilikini
tanada - 11 Nov 2006 22:04 GMT Am sending healing thoughts and asking the owners (as if I have to) to continue to send purrs for you and your family to make it through this with flying colors. Please give my sympathy and best wishes to your hubby. We also have to play the motel/missing school game whenever Rob has to go up to Chapel Hill. Its is a 2-3 hour drive depending on conditions and I can't drive after dark. So a motel room is a necessity for us too.
Pam S.
> They just found out about the hemochromatosis from the blood tests they > took [quoted text clipped - 30 lines] > -- > http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/kilikini
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