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Update on the "Purrs for my mom"
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Cheryl - 17 Sep 2006 22:38 GMT She still has no answers. She scares me, seriously. Last week she came with me to my eye appt (my opthamologist is interested in the genetics of glaucoma, so was interested in taking with her if she could come) and just walking on a straight path from the parking lot to the dr's office door, I could see how hard it is for her to keep her balance.
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bobblespin - 17 Sep 2006 23:59 GMT > She still has no answers. She scares me, seriously. Last week she > came with me to my eye appt (my opthamologist is interested in the > genetics of glaucoma, so was interested in taking with her if she > could come) and just walking on a straight path from the parking lot > to the dr's office door, I could see how hard it is for her to keep > her balance. Oh, how I feel for you. Last week my 86 yr old mom lost her balance at home, fell and broke her hip. Turns out she's almost fallen a few times (which I didn't know about), and now she's in bad shape. Had I known, I would have recommended she a) talk to her doctor and b) use a cane at all times to catch herself when she loses her balance.
Maybe she should use a cane or two to help her balance. Older people often won't use a cane thinking it makes them look old, but ending up with a walker because of a broken hip is worse.
Best of luck Cheryl, Bobble
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Cheryl - 18 Sep 2006 00:16 GMT > Oh, how I feel for you. Last week my 86 yr old mom lost her > balance at home, fell and broke her hip. Turns out she's almost [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > Best of luck Cheryl, > Bobble Thank you! Funny you mention a cane. I said the same thing to her when she said she just needs something to hold on to. Her birthday (70th) is in a few weeks, and I've been trying to figure out what to get her. At first I thought a cane for a b-day present was really mean, sort of reminding her of her age, but given her condition, I don't think it's mean at all. I think I'm going to try to find one that's nice to look at, easy to fold up for packing, and something funtional.
Thanks for the idea.
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Karen - 18 Sep 2006 03:06 GMT >> Oh, how I feel for you. Last week my 86 yr old mom lost her >> balance at home, fell and broke her hip. Turns out she's almost [quoted text clipped - 17 lines] > at, easy to fold up for packing, and something funtional. > Thanks for the idea. I always admire those beautiful carved canes or the canes from Ireland. I figure, if you need something like that, make it an accessory!
Cheryl - 18 Sep 2006 00:55 GMT > Oh, how I feel for you. Last week my 86 yr old mom lost her > balance at home, fell and broke her hip. Turns out she's almost [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > Best of luck Cheryl, > Bobble Looking at all there is to offer in canes, I think one of those with a seat would be good for her, but they seem heavy. She's a walker. She walks every day at dawn, and she told me that one day last week she had to call my dad to come get her because she was too dizzy. She carries her cell phone everywhere. Most days her walks don't end like that.
Purrs for your mom. I hope she's doing better now.
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tension_on_the_wire - 18 Sep 2006 06:06 GMT > > Oh, how I feel for you. Last week my 86 yr old mom lost her > > balance at home, fell and broke her hip. Turns out she's almost [quoted text clipped - 18 lines] > > Purrs for your mom. I hope she's doing better now. A word about canes. Most people breathe a sigh of relief when their loved one gets a cane or walker, thinking that it can only help. In most cases that is true, but there is a small incidence of folks who have that dreaded accident within the first month of getting a cane, on account of the fact that, in addition to dizziness, or whatever the cause, they now have another object to contend with which can be so distracting that it prevents them from being able to save themselves when they fall, or even clumsiness with the cane itself causes the fall. Or heaviness, in the case of the walker. Also, coping with wet floors becomes a particularly new hazard.
The remedy is simple, but time-consuming for someone in the family. The first month or two, someone needs to be close-by and handy to help their loved one slowly adjust to the new reflexes of walking with a cane. It involves three limbs, rather than the previous two. Since walking is like riding a bicycle, it can be a great challenge to try to unlearn it, and relearn it with a cane.
Hoping that forewarned is forearmed, not trying to be a doomsayer.
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Marina - 18 Sep 2006 04:54 GMT > She still has no answers. She scares me, seriously. Last week she > came with me to my eye appt (my opthamologist is interested in the > genetics of glaucoma, so was interested in taking with her if she > could come) and just walking on a straight path from the parking lot > to the dr's office door, I could see how hard it is for her to keep > her balance. Many purrs that they find something to fix soon. It's so hard to just wait for answers. My mum hasn't had any answers yet, either. Her back is better, but it seems to have migrated to a gastric disorder.
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polonca12000 - 19 Sep 2006 20:19 GMT >> She still has no answers. She scares me, seriously. Last week she came >> with me to my eye appt (my opthamologist is interested in the genetics [quoted text clipped - 5 lines] > wait for answers. My mum hasn't had any answers yet, either. Her back is > better, but it seems to have migrated to a gastric disorder. Lots of purrs and best wishes for your mum, Marina, Polonca and Soncek
Adrian A - 18 Sep 2006 11:46 GMT > She still has no answers. She scares me, seriously. Last week she > came with me to my eye appt (my opthamologist is interested in the > genetics of glaucoma, so was interested in taking with her if she > could come) and just walking on a straight path from the parking lot > to the dr's office door, I could see how hard it is for her to keep > her balance. Continuing purrs.
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polonca12000 - 19 Sep 2006 20:18 GMT > She still has no answers. She scares me, seriously. Last week she > came with me to my eye appt (my opthamologist is interested in the > genetics of glaucoma, so was interested in taking with her if she > could come) and just walking on a straight path from the parking lot > to the dr's office door, I could see how hard it is for her to keep > her balance. We continue to purr and send best wishes for your mom, Polonca and Soncek
Sam - 20 Sep 2006 03:16 GMT > She still has no answers. She scares me, seriously. Last week she > came with me to my eye appt (my opthamologist is interested in the > genetics of glaucoma, so was interested in taking with her if she > could come) and just walking on a straight path from the parking lot > to the dr's office door, I could see how hard it is for her to keep > her balance. Purrs continuing, Cheryl.
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Matthew - 02 Oct 2006 19:54 GMT Belated purrs being sent by the pack
> She still has no answers. She scares me, seriously. Last week she > came with me to my eye appt (my opthamologist is interested in the > genetics of glaucoma, so was interested in taking with her if she > could come) and just walking on a straight path from the parking lot > to the dr's office door, I could see how hard it is for her to keep > her balance.
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