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Mishi - 26 Aug 2006 23:14 GMT
My mom, Ruby, went to the Rainbow Bridge at 5:43 AM this morning
(8/26.) I was with her all night, and held her hand for most of the
time - except for bathroom/beverage breaks.  At 4 am she started
having trouble breathing, and the nurse said it wouldn't be very long.
I called my DH, and he came down to the nursing home. I went to greet
him at the door, and he asked me if I had called my sister. I told him
no, and when I turned back around to mom - she had gone. She waited
till he was there to go. :(  She fought a good fight, and is now at
rest.  Most of the staff at the nursing home were crying - they all
loved her.  She had lived there for almost 5 1/2 years.  She had the
stroke that put her there on 8/25/00, and died exactly 6 years 1 day
later.

I miss you mom.

Patti
Victor Martinez - 26 Aug 2006 23:19 GMT
> I miss you mom.

Lots and lots of purrs for your grieving heart.

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Christina Websell - 26 Aug 2006 23:24 GMT
>> I miss you mom.
>
> Lots and lots of purrs for your grieving heart.

And from me too.  Been there in 03.  There is nothing quite like a mother to
love you unconditionally and you only ever have the one.  I'm so sorry you
have lost her.

Tweed
Mischief - 26 Aug 2006 23:20 GMT
I'm so sorry about your loss.

Bigs hugs and purrs from me and my kitties

Kristi
John F. Eldredge - 26 Aug 2006 23:47 GMT
>My mom, Ruby, went to the Rainbow Bridge at 5:43 AM this morning
>(8/26.) I was with her all night, and held her hand for most of the
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>
>Patti

You have my sympathy.  I lost both of my parents in 2001, about six
months apart.

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Jo Firey - 26 Aug 2006 23:53 GMT
> My mom, Ruby, went to the Rainbow Bridge at 5:43 AM this morning
> (8/26.) I was with her all night, and held her hand for most of the
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>
> Patti

I'm so sorry.

Jo
Cheryl Perkins - 27 Aug 2006 00:09 GMT
Deepest sympathy to you and your family.
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MensaCat - 27 Aug 2006 00:13 GMT
My deepest condolences....prayers from me and purrs from the kitty
legion.

Mich
Karen - 27 Aug 2006 00:29 GMT
> My mom, Ruby, went to the Rainbow Bridge at 5:43 AM this morning
> (8/26.) I was with her all night, and held her hand for most of the
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> Patti

(((((((Patti)))))) My deepest sympathies to you. (((((((hugs)))))))))
Lois - 27 Aug 2006 00:42 GMT
My sincere condolences to you on the loss of your mom, such a heart breaking
time.

((((((((((((((Purrs)))))))))))))))) from all down under.

Lois

> My mom, Ruby, went to the Rainbow Bridge at 5:43 AM this morning
> (8/26.) I was with her all night, and held her hand for most of the
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>
> Patti
Joy - 27 Aug 2006 01:15 GMT
((((((((((Patti)))))))))

Joy

> My mom, Ruby, went to the Rainbow Bridge at 5:43 AM this morning
> (8/26.) I was with her all night, and held her hand for most of the
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>
> Patti
mlbriggs - 27 Aug 2006 02:19 GMT
> ((((((((((Patti)))))))))
>
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>>
>> Patti

Sincere condolences.  I found this poem among my old collection:

"Last Encounter

They had met before and Death respected her.
He laid his crafty traps:Pouncing from the shadows,
Lurking around the sharp corners, and she was ready for him.
High-hearted, unafraid she fenced with Death,
Toe to toe, up the rugged heights until the peak was reached.
Then her hand, the small, tired, brave hand
Faltered....and Death's rapier gleamed.
From the darkness into the light she fell.
Seeing Death's face for the first time....
Knowing it for the face of a friend.

Author:  Dorothy Kostka "
Shirley - 27 Aug 2006 01:33 GMT
It's 8yrs and 1mth to the day I lost my mum, it's a hard road to
walk......{{{{{Patti}}}}}

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Will in New Haven - 27 Aug 2006 01:38 GMT
> My mom, Ruby, went to the Rainbow Bridge at 5:43 AM this morning
> (8/26.) I was with her all night, and held her hand for most of the
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>
> Patti

I share your grief. My own darling mom went not long ago. Your mom
wouldn't go until you had him there for support. It's the way great
people do things.

Will in New Haven, with the gang

--

We say goodby a lot this time of day.

The sun is going down; the shadows grow too long.

We knew the day would end but still,

We say goodby too much this time of day.

Bill Reich
Enfilade - 27 Aug 2006 01:45 GMT
> > I miss you mom.
> >
> > Patti

Many purrs.

My grandmother, who crossed a few months ago, was essentially my
parent.  I think I'd have flipped out if she'd died while she was still
independent.  But these past few years she had been growing blind and
weak and tired, needed 24 hour care, and she was in fear of going
senile, so when it happened earlier this year, I couldn't feel she had
been "cheated" of anything.

--Fil
badwilson - 27 Aug 2006 02:08 GMT
I'm so sorry.  Hugs and purrs,
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> My mom, Ruby, went to the Rainbow Bridge at 5:43 AM this morning
> (8/26.) I was with her all night, and held her hand for most of the
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> Patti
Sam - 27 Aug 2006 04:09 GMT
> My mom, Ruby, went to the Rainbow Bridge at 5:43 AM this morning
> (8/26.) I was with her all night, and held her hand for most of the
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>
> Patti
Purrs and prayers to help heal your heavy heart.

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Julie Cook - 27 Aug 2006 04:18 GMT
> My mom, Ruby, went to the Rainbow Bridge at 5:43 AM this morning
> (8/26.) I was with her all night, and held her hand for most of the
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>
> Patti

{{{{Patti}}}I am so very sorry for your loss, Patti. I remember well how
hard it is to lose your mother. There is no one else in the world quite as
special as your mother. The cats are sending purrs and gentle headbutts your
way.

Julie, Hobbes, Lacey, Sam and Barnabus
Takayuki - 27 Aug 2006 05:07 GMT
>My mom, Ruby, went to the Rainbow Bridge at 5:43 AM this morning
>(8/26.) I was with her all night, and held her hand for most of the
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>
>Patti

I'm sorry to hear about your mom.  She must have been a wonderful
person for everyone to have loved her so much.
Gandalf - 27 Aug 2006 05:30 GMT
>My mom, Ruby, went to the Rainbow Bridge at 5:43 AM this morning
>(8/26.) I was with her all night, and held her hand for most of the
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>
>Patti

I'm so very sorry to hear of your most sorrowful loss. I'm sure your
mother knew you were there with her, and it was a great comfort to her.
Purrs for your grieving heart.

~~~~~~~~~~~~
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-TC, and the unmercifully, relentlessly, sweet calico kitty, Kenzie.

How you behave towards cats here below determines your status in Heaven.
- Robert Heinlein

Life is very difficult. Once you understand that, life becomes easier.
-Buddha
Marina - 27 Aug 2006 05:31 GMT
> My mom, Ruby, went to the Rainbow Bridge at 5:43 AM this morning
> (8/26.) I was with her all night, and held her hand for most of the
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> I miss you mom.

I'm so sorry, Patti. Our sincerest condolences and most soothing purrs.

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Monique Y. Mudama - 27 Aug 2006 06:03 GMT
> My mom, Ruby, went to the Rainbow Bridge at 5:43 AM this morning
> (8/26.) I was with her all night, and held her hand for most of the
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>
> Patti

I'm so sorry.  Purrs and hugs for your grieving heart.

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Shiral - 27 Aug 2006 07:07 GMT
> My mom, Ruby, went to the Rainbow Bridge at 5:43 AM this morning
> (8/26.) I was with her all night, and held her hand for most of the
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>
> Patti

I'm so sorry, Patti. ((((Hugs)))) There is no good time or way to lose
your mother, mothers being irreplaceable.  But you were with her
faithfully when she needed you most, and it sounds like she had a lot
of friends on the staff where she lived.  There are many worse
circumstances for the end of one's life!  

Melissa
sandra - 27 Aug 2006 07:28 GMT
Patti,

Purrs and hugs from Memphis and Phoenix. Having lost my Dad a year ago, I
know what it feels like. Just try to think of the good times and remember
the love you had for each other.
Have a good cry when you need to and surround yourself with people who care
about you.

Sandra
jmcquown - 27 Aug 2006 09:53 GMT
> My mom, Ruby, went to the Rainbow Bridge at 5:43 AM this morning
> (8/26.)
> I miss you mom.
>
> Patti

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Patti}}}}}}}}}}}}  I'm so sorry to hear this.  My heart is
with you.

Jill
Inge Grotjahn - 27 Aug 2006 10:29 GMT
Dear Patty,

Am 27.08.2006 schrieb Mishi:

> My mom, Ruby, went to the Rainbow Bridge at 5:43 AM this morning
> (8/26.)

My sincerest condolences for the loss of your mom.

My mom died last year in September and I know, how hard this is. The
worst thing for me was the knowledge, that I'm nobodys child
anymore:-(

Our cats send over tons of comforting purrs to you and to your family
Inge and the catgang
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Adrian A - 27 Aug 2006 12:54 GMT
> My mom, Ruby, went to the Rainbow Bridge at 5:43 AM this morning
> (8/26.) I was with her all night, and held her hand for most of the
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>
> I miss you mom.

{{{{{{{{{{{{ Patti }}}}}}}}}}}}
I will light a candle for Ruby. :-(
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Helen Wheels - 27 Aug 2006 13:42 GMT
> My mom, Ruby, went to the Rainbow Bridge at 5:43 AM this morning
> (8/26.) I was with her all night, and held her hand for most of the
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>
> Patti

I'm so sorry Patti. Purrs for you, your mum and and everyone who loved her.
Ann - 27 Aug 2006 19:28 GMT
Purrs for you and your family.
Ann

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> My mom, Ruby, went to the Rainbow Bridge at 5:43 AM this morning
> (8/26.) I was with her all night, and held her hand for most of the
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> Patti
polonca12000@yahoo.com - 27 Aug 2006 22:07 GMT
> My mom, Ruby, went to the Rainbow Bridge at 5:43 AM this morning
> (8/26.) I was with her all night, and held her hand for most of the
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>
> Patti

Lots and lots of purrs and hugs,
Polonca and Soncek
Dewi - 28 Aug 2006 02:08 GMT
> My mom, Ruby, went to the Rainbow Bridge at 5:43 AM this morning
> (8/26.) I was with her all night, and held her hand for most of the
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>
> Patti

Patti,

I'm so very sorry for your loss. Hugs and purrs coming your way.

Dewi
glsummer@neptunelink.com - 28 Aug 2006 16:40 GMT
>My mom, Ruby, went to the Rainbow Bridge at 5:43 AM this morning
>(8/26.) I was with her all night, and held her hand for most of the
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>
>Patti

{{{{{{Patti}}}}}}

I am so sorry for your loss.  May your wonderful memories of your mom
help sustain you through this painful time.

Blessings,

Ginger-lyn

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Cheryl - 29 Aug 2006 02:46 GMT
> My mom, Ruby, went to the Rainbow Bridge at 5:43 AM this morning
> (8/26.) I was with her all night, and held her hand for most of
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>
> Patti

Patti, our condolences. Purrs for your heart, and purrs for your
family, too.

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Susan M - 29 Aug 2006 04:47 GMT
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.  My thoughts are with your family.

Susan M
Otis and Chester

> My mom, Ruby, went to the Rainbow Bridge at 5:43 AM this morning
> (8/26.) I was with her all night, and held her hand for most of the
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> Patti
Lesley - 29 Aug 2006 10:32 GMT
> My mom, Ruby, went to the Rainbow Bridge at 5:43 AM this morning

Mishi

Sending you hugs and purrs.

Lesley

Slave of the Fabulous Furballs
Baha - 29 Aug 2006 14:44 GMT
Sincere condolences from me and my Louie, and a prayer for Mama and your
family both.

Blessed be,
Baha

>My mom, Ruby, went to the Rainbow Bridge at 5:43 AM this morning
>(8/26.) I was with her all night, and held her hand for most of the
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>
>Patti
 
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